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52254835 No.52254835 [Reply] [Original]

>tfw you realize you've been grooming a 2~3 views indie for almost a year already

I thought it would never happen to me, and yet...

>> No.52254853

The only reason to watch indies is to groom them.

>> No.52255088
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>>52254853
I swear I never meant to, but some days ago in some indie thread someone said that is not "normal" to have direct contact with a chuuba and that got me thinking and like, the realization came just some moments ago...asking me about what to do, how to, talking to me about some random problems...fuck...

>> No.52257167

>>52255088
Pedal to the metal, no stopping now

>> No.52257974

>>52255088
Well to late now, either you cut contact an watch them go absolute mehera and hope you don't get splashed by the inevitable shitstorm, or your continue grooming them till the end (AKA. in the bedroom) pretty much no other choices. You fucked up, deal with it.

>> No.52258145

>>52255088
Are women adults?

>> No.52258161

>>52255088
>direct contact
don't make my mistake and order merch from an indie since they usually process it by hand themselves. she now knows my real name and address.

>> No.52258364

>>52254835
If you don't wanna fuck her, just be a good friend...if that's even possible with women.

>> No.52258506

Plot twist, she's actually grooming you

>> No.52258554

>>52258161
Holy shit anon, you're doomed

>> No.52258796

>>52254835
at least you aren't being groomed by a 3-4 view

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>>52257167
>>52257974
>>52258364
Honestly the thought never crossed my mind, I enjoy her content and she can be very lewd at times but it was not something "real" you know?, sure I'd cum to her model and all that but going further than that...feels surreal, anyways I'll save me the headache and just ghost her, feels like a shitty thing to do but it's undoubtedly for the best.

>>52258161
Funny thing, she has asked me several times why I haven't bought any of her merch.

>>52258506
Nah, I like her sure but I don't feel attached or dependent, or maybe she just sucks at grooming.

>> No.52258878

>>52258161
i fail to find whats wrong with this one

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>>52258844

>> No.52258969

>>52258844
Don't do that. At least try to talk about it. She clearly trusts you.

>> No.52259110

>>52254835
If you didn't groom her in a year already,that means it's not "grooming", just simping with extra steps.

>> No.52259440

>>52258878
Yeah, what's wrong with giving your full name and address to a most likely mentally unstable human bean?

>> No.52259517

>>52254835
its funny to me how showing interest in anyone in anyway is looked down upon, lol get back to your isolation chamber right now incel

>> No.52259773
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>>52258969
I know it is a shitty move but what else can I do?, tell her "hey, we are a bit too close and for your own good, this isn't how a relationship between a vtuber and a fan should be"?, or tell her to keep her distance in some other way?, and friendship with a woman?, as if, easier to find an unicorn in the wild.

>> No.52259976

fake your death, it's the only way to truly be rid of a woman

>> No.52260111

>>52259773
Better than ghosting her. If you ghost her she will think she did something wrong and will go menhera over it.
If you say it even the way you said it, she'll try to cater to your views or atleast will see where you are coming from.
If you like her as a person, don't hurt her by ghosting.

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>>52260111
Goddamit, you got trips and everything, guess I'll go ahead with your advice anon and try to be as subtle and honest as I can possibly be and try to keep things chill.

Thanks for the sensible advice though, whatever happens next will be on me.

>> No.52260364

I've been told I'm being "groomed" but little do they know that I'm aware of them trying to "groom" me and I play along with it in order to build a crazy loyal fanbase and to get money. I managed to get "groomed" to the point where I basically have a full ride through college and will be working on getting my PhD. All it took was allowing them to contact me directly through discord and giving extra attention to people who donate.

>> No.52260427

>>52260364
you had me until PhD

>> No.52260553

>>52260427
What's wrong with getting a PhD? Wanted to be a police officer at first but I decided to get a PhD in Law instead.

>> No.52260611

I don't really see an issue with being in some 2 view indies DMs, unless she's trying to milk you or its some sort of sexual thing. Its fine to have a normal relationship with them, I'm in a couple of 2 views I watch DMs myself although most of thats just minor pleasantries and strictly professional reasons so I don't think it counts as much.

>> No.52260702

>>52258145
Yes, but they’re also functionally retarded.

>> No.52260778

>>52260553
yeah and your aunt works for vshojo

>> No.52260867

>>52259517
Grooming's up there but the one I especially enjoy is 'lovebombing.' Like don't you dare be extra nice to someone just to win their favor. No shit there are people whose approval I want, the only people that hate so-called 'grooming' and 'love bombing' likely would never receive it.

>> No.52260886

>>52260778
My parents have no siblings so I wonder where that aunt is coming from. Also why would I ever want to touch VShitshow? I enjoy streaming and playing video games on stream as well as doing ASMR, no one in VShitshow streams and if they do they're watching TikTok's to appeal to zoomer humor.

>> No.52260954

>>52260886
Oh come on, no one enjoys doing ASMR.

>> No.52260984

>>52259773
Yes, ACTUALLY say exactly that you fucking coward. But replace "for your own good" with "for my own good" because you're projecting like an IMAX theater. She's not gonna start haranguing you for a reason or bawling her eyes out, which she might if you ghost her.

>> No.52260999

>>52260427
You don't need to be smart to get a PhD nowadays

>> No.52261020

>>52258844
That’s fucked up anon she trust you. This is why woman hate man now

>> No.52261203

>>52260954
Ah yes, out of the over 7 billion people on the planet no one enjoys making ASMR content. You really showed me you retard. I enjoy ASMR content and I enjoy making it by extension, hearing myself tap various objects with my nails, playing with sand and foam, it's all so addictive.

>> No.52261257

What’s wrong with grooming someone?

>> No.52261832

>>52261203
with a potty mouth like that you definitely belong in vshojo

>> No.52261882

>>52261832
What are you, 5? Scared of people cussing? Mommy and daddy gonna wash your mouth out with soap if you say the word fuck?

>> No.52262074
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>>52261020
>>52260984
It's alright, I'll do as advised and try to keep things as civil as possible, see >>52260339 (me), keep in mind that I do like her and I do want to see her be successful, but I don't want to be anything more than a simple fan.

So relax, at the very least I won't ghost her, unless she goes full menhera on me or something like that, I can't delete the OP since it's too old by now so imply let the thread die, thanks again for the advice.

>> No.52262243

>>52258161
Holy shit that's hilarious.

>> No.52262244

>>52258844
Anon if she asked you why you didn't buy her merch she is 100% trying to turn you into a paypig, you'll do well by ghosting the shit out of her.

>> No.52262737

>>52260364
Based Mio

>> No.52262906

>>52261882
cool it with the gamer words

>> No.52262931

>>52254835
Yall call it grooming

I call it networking

>> No.52263027

watch anon's oshi reply "it's ok i dm with other people too" and he suddenly feels jealous as fuck

>> No.52263051

>>52255088
Have you fucked her yet? Nudes at least? Otherwise if it’s been a year and you’ve got nothing out of your ‘grooming’ you’re just being used.

>> No.52263230

>>52254835
1. it's your responsibility to /vt/ to escalate things.
2. ask for her to do weird shit until she finds you creepy and backs off.

>> No.52263324

>>52262906
You're a snowflake, grow up and leave your parents basement faggot.

>> No.52263769

>>52254853
kys

>> No.52263847

>>52262074
is she /here/ or something?

>> No.52263891

>>52263847
she's itt

>> No.52263926

>>52258145
They never were.
>>52261020
Now? They always hated men and only use them for gibs anyways.

>>52262074
You're doing nothing wrong here and I respect your wishes. There was a time that I was getting too close and I had to dip, too before any serious feelings were caught and I wasn't even trying anything. Just wanted to be a fan and nothing else.

>> No.52264086

From what I’ve seen itt You don’t even know what “grooming” is. Giving away all your money and being her emotional sponge isn’t grooming. Are you blatantly exploiting her and manipulating her to give you money or sex? Are you controlling her content and gaslighting her ? You’re just her gay friend she talks to over dms

>> No.52264353

>>52263324
I should grow up and tap on things.

>> No.52264569

>>52264353
I've been making over $120,000 a year thanks to VTubing and making ASMR content. If you think you're insulting me then you are the biggest retard there is.

>> No.52264733

>>52264569
and in 3 years vtubing will be dead and you'll have a hole in your resume when you go try to find a real job.

>> No.52264793

>>52264733
nta but lmao if you think that matters one bit

>> No.52264917

>>52264793
unexplained continuity break would make me wary when hiring, or maybe I'm just in a more competitive profession.

>> No.52265091

>>52264569
And I'm the CEO of a big company. Trust me.

>> No.52265757

>>52262074
Good on you, OP. Communication is what makes you an actual person.

>> No.52266348

>>52264569
I don't think I have the drive or passion for ASMR but large sums of money certainly do sound appealing.

>> No.52266538

>>52266348
I'm not sure I could tongue a plastic ear while guys jerk off for money. I would feel like a real failure at life.

>> No.52266719

>>52264569
>has replied seriously over 7 times to an obvious bait troll post
I seriously hope I never get you as my lawyer.

>> No.52267053

>>52264733
I already have a real full time job though, I do it alongside VTubing and once I get my PhD I will get an even better job since I need that PhD to get my promotion. Also do you think people care about holes in resumes? They don't and if they did you can just fucking lie anyways.
>>52264917
I have never applied to a place that cared about any holes in your resume and if they did I just lied and said I was taking care of a sick relative.
>>52265091
Sure you are retard.
>>52266348
Being able to own my own house at the age of 23, being able to pay off all debts for my parents, being able to send my nephews to college and having a huge savings account is nice. All I have to do is be a VTuber and do ASMR.
>>52266538
I'm making more money than you ever will so if that makes me a failure then I'm all for it.
>>52266719
You couldn't even afford me, nigger.

>> No.52267114

>>52267053
You don't know how much I make. I just accepted your 120k claim. Goes both ways.

>> No.52267323

>>52267114
I can tell you make way less than me, you need to get out of mom and dads basement and get a job.

>> No.52267416

>>52267323
Tsk, something got to you. If you've fallen to this level I'm not wasting my time.

>> No.52267603

>>52267053
you sound like a pleasant person

>> No.52271106

>>52264086
this

>> No.52273391

>>52260611
This.
Vtubers are people.
The merchandise part expose you arent just a whale simp.
Concider them a person at the SAME level as you, meanig not degrade them or yourself over the other and you are fine.

>> No.52278201

>>52261257
Grooming as "helping someone grow" isnt bad, is parenting after all.
The meaning "grooming" people fear is the one where those in the position make the onw growing be dependant on them AND abuse them.
Like how children of slaves are rised in a society where all they know is be slave, so they never question it and will sometimes even sacrifice themselves to their exploiters, is all they where teach after all.

>> No.52278419

>>52264086
Seconded

>> No.52278675

If you want to distance from her the easy way I'll share you my ultimate no-brainer strat.
>Don't message her for a week+
>*Days pass*
>"Hello, this is anon's brother, unfortunately he passed away last week due to an unprecedented accident. Just wanted to let his online friends know."
Of course, this is just the base example. You can make it as elaborate from here, dying from cancer would also make it more believable, I guess. At least she won't really feel bad about you being gone.
Also only do this if you're very determined to leave the rabbit hole entirely, don't want you to suddenly come back later on and try to explain shit. You do this when the very depths of your sovl says you're completely done and move on to a better life.

>> No.52278705

>>52267053
The ultimate ironi will be promote your stuff here and the ones conrronting you pay for yor content. :P

>> No.52278791

>>52254835
You know, this make me remember of that manga about the guy asking 2chan (japanese 4chan) for dating advice, somewhat base in reality.
Neet story.

>> No.52278870

>>52278675
> he died in a car crash. while he was waiting on an ambulance he spelled out your channel name in blood on the ground and whispered "tell her i love her"... that was the last thing he ever said.

>> No.52279274

>>52278791
Do you mean Molester Man? I really liked that one

>> No.52279973

>>52278675
Not OP but I've been tempted to do this a few times but I know she'd be sad if I died.

>> No.52281034

>>52258161
My oshi knows things I've never told her, I have a different name on Twitch and YouTube but she knew it was me, she knew I had an ex and she knows my time zone. I've made a donation before so she probably has my name and address too. Is it over?

>> No.52281491

I made the mistake of subbing to my Oshi's PL account on youtube. I did it without thinking about it so I could keep tabs if worst came to worst but I thought about it and it was probably a huge mistake if she gets notifications about new subs to that account. I probably hurt her by doing that and I regret it.

>> No.52281864

>>52260886
real v streamers don't shit on other v streamers, it's bad business

>> No.52282113

>>52260886
Sloth?

>> No.52282636

>>52282113
She better not still be /here/
I know she is

>> No.52282908

>>52281034
payments made through youtube/twitch is safe, they don't get any info other than what is displayed. it's usually for merchandise where they have to ship stuff to you where they get your address. if you've ever sold anything on ebay where you print a label, it's kind of like that.

>> No.52283001

>>52281864
pippa is huge and she made her career shitting on whores

>> No.52289625

>>52254835
congrats

>> No.52293568

>>52264086
>Are you controlling her content and gaslighting her?
Not OP, but I did that...

>> No.52296176

>>52255088
mate, you think you're a groomer but it's you who is actually being groomed, i'm welling to bet they talk to you only enough to keep you on the bait hook while you end up doing lots of shit for them basically for free for minimal attention, she's probably got a dozen other guys in a similar position as you, or more than willing to take your spot

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