/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

>>41129158
Take a break from streams and find a real hobby

>>41129158
is your oshi mumei?
then you made a bad choice seeing as her goal is to be parasocial with her fans

>>41129243
Do you even watch her streams?

>>41129243
Why do you tell such lies?

>>41129158
You don’t, you simply try not to get too carried away by it.

>>41129270
>>41129309
am I in bizarro world?

>>41129374
No, they’re probably just stuck in November 2021.

For moom? You don't.

Learn the truth, it will hurt you for about two weeks and it will make you not want to watch the streams, you will make threads/comments about her being a whore, weeks will pass and you will get over it and start seeing her a just a streamer. It happened to me with Fauna but I did what I just told you and those feelings disappeared. I'm now a very happy sapling with no parasocial feelings and can enjoy watching her streams once again. That was me like one year ago.

>>41129158
Assume every woman you find desirable has a boyfriend.

>>41130510
That boyfriend? Me.

>>41129158
Mumei is probably the 2nd most parasocial in EN behind Kiara. 90% of what she talks about on stream these days is her mumbling about personal life with college and how she's been feeling. If you're already feeling parasocial for her it's too late

>>41129888
Except for that doesn't work too well with Mumei since unlike Fauna she'll talk on stream about how she doesn't have irl friends, how she lives, alone, how no one cooks for her etc.
I know people always like to talk about others coping but the bitch literally spent thanksgiving alone. You gotta be a special kind of lonely for that

Also
>implying most of Fauna's aren't literally in love with her and just cope since it's been so long since her debut

>>41129158
self improvement reps until you are confident you could talk well with a girl like your oshi in real life

>>41130781
I'm already there unironically. I'm fit, normal looking dude with a career in tech. I'm just a little autistic when it comes to chicks. You don't have to believe me

>>41129374
This is the catalog, they don't watch her

>>41130930
Then you're not there. If you can't hide your 'tism well enough to attract a mate, you haven't improved enough.

>>41129374
>>41131323
t. Doesn’t watch moom

>>41129158
you drop her.
you've been warned.
>>41130930
>already there
no you aren't. that's why you're blogposting here

>>41130729
Oh so kinda like Ame but slightly worse? Then there is no salvation for their souls

>>41131558

>>41129158
You dont get over them easily depending on how deep in the hole you dug yourself. Stop watching and do other things keep your mind always preoccupied and for the love of fucking god quit coming to vt. If youre real deep in youll probably feel like shit emotionally but if you end up replacing your old habits of stream watching and looking at this shithole you should eventually grow out of it.

>>41131602
At least Ame culls the weak gachis. Mumei practically drives a cult.

Simple. You just need to fall in love to at least two oshis. Then, you will realize that the feelings are fake, but then you will start to enjoy them. Source: Me. I have fallen in love with at least 4 girls atm.

>>41131824
>culls the weak gachis
Is this what the kids call cucking nowadays?

>>41131824
>Mumei practically drives a cult
Only natural for birds to do so.

>>41131924
If you hope to end up with a girl that has never so much as breathed in the direction of a man you should probably off yourself now since you're a genetic dead end.

>>41130781
No other girl is good enough for me now. Mumei is perfect

>>41129888
This didn't work on me. I know every fucking thing but I'm still in love with her.

>>41132043
Cope cuckmate

i have a really short term memory and possibly suspected early age dementia so thats never a problem for me! who is that btw?

>>41131911
Based

>>41129158
There are only 2 surefire options
>realize that her online persona is an unreachable irl ideal that you seek. After separating the person from the ideal you can strive to become the man worthy of your ideal, not the person. Being on a path of self-improvement will clear your head and improve your life.
>Doxx her and call her a whore.

>>41132611
I'm already on the path of the first option, I just want an autistic gf like moom. But then again she could just be playing that character and not actually be like that

>>41132249
I guess being built different should also be considered a factor... I need to make more calculations now, thanks

>>41129158
lift

>>41132750
Find a girl and mold her into Mumei

>>41132885
Been lifting for almost 2 years. I've literally just never been romantically involved with anyone. I've had gfs before but never serious, no sex

>>41132885
I lift for her

Le parasocial Boogeyman. People will always be "parasocial" to an extent, people have been since stories and legends were told. Girls did it with Marilyn Monroe back in the 50s and k-pop now, Ptolemaic boys probably had these feelings back when Cleopatra was around and fat nasty weebs now with vtubers. Why do you think they have models to begin with? People grow more attached to something with a face, and using models copies twitch streamers with webcams who are to some degree aware of the fact. The medium of entertainment itself relies largely on the fact that it lands closer to a reciprocal relationship than traditional forms of media. It's a part of our social world and it's only genuinely bad when you stake out your oshis home for 3 weeks to abduct and rape her, even the whole "platonically" meme still implies a level of a parasocial relation, just not one where you're simping hard for a cute voice and png. I don't understand the red scare level of freaking out over this when it's 80% of the game. End blogpost.

>>41129158
You don't. Never stop Moomin

>>41130639
I learned more about her Animals pooping habits than I ever wanted to know.

>>41129243
Mumei is parasocial with us so that makes it okay for us to be parasocial in return

>>41133842
Me but about Taiga

having a girl known, even before debuting, to be currently in a relationship as my oshi? couldn't be me

>>41133310
but muh easy to apply label

>>41139125
The one she’s in a relationship with? Me.

>>41129158
Worship her as a god.

How do I cope with the fact that I will never cum inside Mumei? I can’t take it anymore, I just want to cum inside Mumei

>>41129158
2 ways, either go all in, use the passion and love to elevate and better yourself until you get bored (yes you will) or just cut everything off, by that I mean like zero contacts, not your life.

>>41129158
why so weak?

>>41129158
Just remember she has a boyfriend

>>41129158
If you're being serious then it's time, complete seperation forever.
Really though
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHjNmyzrVvM

>>41147316
https://youtu.be/zAwh1h4iD3s?t=3

>>41129158
It's similar to having an anime waifu. People have been able to navigate that. You should be fine.

>>41129158
You don't cause all of (you) are anyway parasocial with both your oshi and every streamer you watch, every social media you are in and more and more. So either you become the exeption and kill yourself, good luck in this parasocial world.

>>41148165
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSj8PpA4QD8

>>41148496
Nice

>>41148667
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mgkv6vHXS4U

>>41148933
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bO-NaEj2dQ0

I truly cannot fathom how people become so parasocial. Same with unicorns, I just don't understand.

>>41149394
It's natural to love

>>41149588
I can agree, but there's a line that needs to be drawn.

>>41149390
wow perfect song

>>41129158
Stop watching vtubers

>>41129888
This, or if your oshi collabs with males. In my case I stopped watching my oshi entirely when she couldn't stop sucking Tempus dick.

>>41149394
Loneliness

>>41132460
It's a very silly girl. Best to stay away.

Moom soon

>>41129158
you dont if you keep posting cute

>>41129158
Cope with a tulpa

why do you want to get over it? just enjoy yourself. mumei is a good girl so you should dedicate your entire life to her and be happy.

>>41149394
>he doesnt fall in love with everyone who gives him love and attention

>>41130639
lol mumei is just an en version of jp, this is what literally 95% of JP is, but i assume you are eop so you dont understand that.

>>41129158
Studies have shown suicide to be effective.

>>41129158
I never understood the whole 'parasocial' meme.
Like, you've got Mori's
>"I AM YOUR QUEEN DEADBEAT ZASSHU NOW CLEAN OUT THE DIRT FROM UNDER MY TOENAILS WITH YOUR MOUTH AND DON'T FORGET TO GROVEL IN UNWORTHINESS."
and then you've got Kronii who basically uses her members streams as her personal therapy session (to be fair, she probably does BADLY does need therapy)
But... those are kind of opposite ends of the horseshoe. I'd think there'd be a middle ground option.

>>41129158
"parasoical relationships" are similar to worship. for example, religious people believe that god loves them and hoomans believe that mumei loves them. religion is seen as a good thing since it gives people purpose and meaning so why should watching your oshi be any different?

>>41157561
The Katawa Shoujo anons tried this 10 years ago and most of their tulpas tried to murder them.

>>41129158
If you find out how feel free to let me know because im completely in love with my oshi and cant fix myself. Its both extremely motivating and has helped me better myself for her, but also extremely depressing and makes me wanna die because ill never get to feel her actual love. Falling for a girl you can never have just sucks on all levels

>>41129158
my case is slightly different. My oshi is Fauna but I'm parasocial for Mumei

I don't even know how did I end up here.

>>41149930
>I stopped watching my oshi entirely when she couldn't stop sucking Tempus dick.
See you next stream.

>>41129158
Force yourself to skip a few streams

>>41129243
I'm not sure what definition of 'parasocial' is in play here. Mumei certainly doesn't bait herself as a girlfriend-experience. She's not stupid and knows it's basic statistics that at least a couple of her fans are psychopaths who'd rape and murder her given the chance, so she maintains the right boundaries. Still, she clearly cares and works hard for her fans, who do seem to make her genuinely happy.

I think she likes the notion of having her fans as a collectively-formed friend she can keep at a safe distance because she's an anxiety-ridden wreck who's point-blank admitted to feeling a guilty annoyance from seeing people daring to be friends in public. She's not really that different from most other shut-ins. That's admittedly just the impression I get, but there shouldn't really be any problem with that degree of relationship unless you're one of the 'friendzoned' anons on /adv/ basically saying that a girl's companionship is worthless and shouldn't dare share your company if she's not going to let you fuck her.

>>41164403
>Mumei certainly doesn't bait herself as a girlfriend-experience
Most female streamers don't but just by virtue of being a girl and most stream viewers being male, she will give that girlfriend-experience whether she intended to or not. This is one of the reasons girls can have an easier start at streaming compared to guys but have a much lower ceiling because being girls, they cannot fully become a "friend" for these male viewers.

>>41129158
>how do i get to know that my oshi is fake as fuck?
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