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23227256 No.23227256 [Reply] [Original]

>Stop being parasocial, she's just an entertainer not your girlfriend.
>Huh? What do you mean you talked about another vtuber in her chat, she literally cried, you should think more about her feelings even though i told you that being parasocial is bad.
So should i be parasocial or not?

>> No.23227285

>>23227256
Yes

>> No.23227300

>>23227256
If you want to fantasise that its just for entertainment that's fine but shouldn't expect the girls to think the same.

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>>23227256
Yes

>> No.23227336

>>23227256
You have to either live the lie of having an irl girlfriend who loves you (kek) or go parasocial with a GFE chuba. I’m better off with the chuba as the worst case scenario is the same but the best scenario is way happier and fulfilling.

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>>23227256
>So should I be parasocial or not?
Of course not, don't become a mentally ill person like most of /vt/dwellers here OP

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23227349

Lamy will never betray you

>> No.23227369

>>23227348
Imagine hurting lamy’s feelings you cowardice bitch

>> No.23227375

>>23227256
People have known its manipupative for awhile now. The smart ones either stopped donating or stopped watching. Where have you been?

>> No.23227417 [DELETED] 

>>23227256
>listening to normalfags
None of them speak Japanese, only watch clips(if that), and completely believe the last major normalfag consensus they were exposed to without question.

Take a normalfag away from the hivemind and let him see the truth and he converts within days.

>> No.23227427 [DELETED] 

>>23227375
>manipulative
genuine feelings aren't manipulative retard

>> No.23227480

>>23227427
See look at this moron. Lost cause.

>> No.23227487

>>23227256
It's one way. You should support and take care of her with your money, but expect nothing in return like a good boy.

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23227489

>>23227256
Lamy really loves me, it's not parasocial if she cares for me.

>> No.23227507

>>23227480
I understand that you're impressed with yourself for being a midwit when your family has just came out the jungle a generation ago.
But you're not particularly witty.

>> No.23227511 [DELETED] 

>>23227480
You aren't as smart as you think you are

>> No.23227520

>>23227256
Do whatever you want as long as you know she will never fuck you and fill the role of a significant other to you.

>> No.23227532

>>23227487
That’s depressing though…

>> No.23227543 [DELETED] 

>>23227480
You have literally never provided a single instance of proof that a woman can't fall in love with her fanbase. Not a single article, not a single study, not a single fact
All you have is fee fees unironically

>> No.23227554 [DELETED] 

>>23227520
She is my significant other and you're a faggot

>> No.23227555

>>23227507
>>23227511
These guys will cope forever. Don't be like them. Keyboard warrior dweebs is all they are. If youre at this crossroads OP there is still a chance for you.

>> No.23227567 [DELETED] 

>>23227532
That's why you don't fucking do it retard, why are you even acknowledging his post

>> No.23227581 [DELETED] 

>>23227555
The only one coping here is you, sheep

>> No.23227597

>>23227555
>malding on a basket weaving food network site over unicorns

>> No.23227598

>>23227581
Im not the one giving my money to a succubus.

>> No.23227611

>>23227555
It's okay, we're here for you. You can get through today.

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>>23227427
>genuine

>> No.23227623

>>23227554
You will never fuck her and probably due alone.

>> No.23227628

>>23227256
I think bringing up other streamers in chat is just rude, not necessarily "jealousy".
Especially for smaller chuubas, having a bigger one become the topic of conversation in the chat just makes you feel like shit.

>> No.23227629

>>23227597
I AM SAVING OP. OP dont go the parasocial route. Simps lose EVERY TIME.

>> No.23227642

>>23227349
Sorry anon she’s getting dicked by connor

>> No.23227676

>>23227629
No bro we're here to save you, you came here for help don't you remember?

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>>23227617
mandatory marine edit, fellow kaizokuchama

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>>23227676
Ogey

>> No.23227704

>>23227487
Now that's the true girlfriend experience

>> No.23227716

>>23227598
You already did, you just don't know it yet.

>> No.23227742

>>23227698
First step is watching good chuubas, you got tricked into supporting non-idols and you're suffering.

>> No.23227783

>>23227742
YOU WILL NEVER HAVE MY CREDIT INFORMATION

>> No.23227795

>>23227256
Why do some people ship Lamy with Botan? Isn’t Lamy supposed to be your gf living with you? Why would you deny her love?

>> No.23227846

>>23227783
After you start watching decent vtubers, during their stream you should be honest to the chuuba and tell her how the stream improved your day.
Consider it like admitting you need help from a higher power at an AA meeting, it has the same neurological effect.

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>>23227256

>> No.23227865

>>23227256
>>Huh? What do you mean you talked about another vtuber in her chat, she literally cried, you should think more about her feelings
They're roleplaying anon, thats like asking if you should hate Brock Lesnar or Jericho for bring assholes in their WWE act

>> No.23227909

>>23227865
Jargon, even outside of vtubers or anything to do with women you shouldn't be talking about other streamers during a person stream

>> No.23227932

>>23227795
Shishiron is like your own cool father stepping up to fuck your female. Beside of you, only her should be allowed to get close to your alcoholic mom gf and have a relationship with her. So it's ok

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>>23227507

>> No.23227988

There is nothing wrong with loving my elf girlfriend. I couldn't get through my long work days without her and she needs me to support her.

>> No.23227998

>>23227940
Random but when I was a kid I was the scapegoat for my family and one time(since I never accepted the role) my mother requested I get checked out, I said "sure, if you do too"
She got diagnosed with NPD.

>> No.23228059

>>23227998
Why was she diagnosed with Non-Polar Disorder? Is she afraid of water?

>> No.23228141

>>23227998
And you anon? Just curious

>> No.23228166

>>23228141
I'm apparently very good at dealing with stressful situations

>> No.23228229

>>23227487
You get good stuff from your chuba though. You get to see her accomplish her dreams, which is beautiful and selfless; you get to see her improve at how she does things, you get to enjoy the process of her doing better, you get to see how she swallows her embarrassment to do shit she knows you will like, you get to become a better person because for once you stop being this soulless hedonist drone society tries to normalize as the best way to live life, etc.
The song フャンサ is a good example of what you get from your chuba.

>> No.23228312

>>23228166
t. Manipulative sociopath

>> No.23228322

>>23227256
Imagine listening to jealous femcel tourists /here/ who do nothing but seethe on this board 24/7 because they will never be loved the way these chuubas are

>> No.23228356

>>23228312
Aw aye and now that im an adult im so good at it, I made you write that message.

>> No.23228486

>>23227256
>I'm not your friend, parasocial relationships are bad.
>Huh, no vrubers should be alowed to have boyfriends while pretending they don't to get the parasocial bux.
They are hypocrits anon.

>> No.23228559

>>23228486
t. hypocrite

>> No.23228561 [DELETED] 

>>23227598
You're the one who is going to be forever assblasted on 4chan while I can leave this site any time I want.

>> No.23228606 [DELETED] 

>>23227617
see >>23227543

>> No.23228651
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23228651

wuv me sum wamy

>> No.23228679

Anecdotal but before I even physically met her a married woman was telling me that she was in love with me and she acted like she still did and was willing to have sex after meeting me.
So I would say even you have a chance with your oshi, anon.

>> No.23228727

>>23227543
This one is the saddest cope of all. Forever doomed to be a nobody
"Thank you supacha" will ring in his dreams for years to come. As he tells himself.... "She loves me she loves me. She always laughs at my jokes. She said my name. She streamed extra this week." Holding himself rocking in a corner sucking his thumb. But then one day he hears a noise on her stream...

>> No.23228771

>>23228727
>his oshi forgot to mute mic when she went for a shit
deadbeat, we're here for you, you can get through this.

>> No.23228788 [DELETED] 

>>23228727
why are you writing cuck fanfiction

>> No.23228812 [DELETED] 

>>23228727
Hey man that's a cool story and all but I just wanted to drop this hot take on your incel ass: women are great and faithful to men and are not whores

>> No.23228824

>>23228812
Being in a chatroom of a streamer is nit a relationship

>> No.23228946

i am lamy

>> No.23229077

>>23227256
Lamy is perfect, she will never hurt you. Don't listen to these faggots saying otherwise.

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>>23228771
>letting deadbeat live rent-free on his head
NGMI

>> No.23229180

>>23229166
You're coping if you think this thread exists for any other reason

>> No.23229205

Wait, when did Lamy cry?

>> No.23229218 [DELETED] 

>>23228824
Prove it.

>> No.23229249
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>>23227256
Parasocial Interaction and Parasocial Relationship: Conceptual Clarification and a Critical Assessment of Measures
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273792904_Parasocial_Interaction_and_Parasocial_Relationship_Conceptual_Clarification_and_a_Critical_Assessment_of_Measures

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23229323

Lamy loves me and I love her

>> No.23229331

Theres on guy on twitter thats full parasocial schizo in lamys tweets everyday. Even went full simp on the name(eliteyukimin)

>> No.23229432

If you want. Though she’ll never fuck you, be with you or even know who you are.

>> No.23229442

>>23229323
She’s getting dicked by a male rn anon

>> No.23229450

>>23229442
Yeah, me

>> No.23229461

>>23228229
I don't give a shit about other people's dreams.

>> No.23229460

>>23229432
That's beta mindset. You are weak and you should be ashamed

>> No.23229482

>>23229218
Yeah she can have a lovers suicide by jumping off a cliff with her cell phone.

>> No.23229488
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>>23229450
If you look like this man, then yes you are fucking her

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>> No.23229548

>>23229488
There's a reason he had to come up with stories like how one fans mother liked him, he's never even had an adult relationship

>> No.23229571

>>23227256
WAMY

>> No.23229577 [DELETED] 

>>23229482
I'm genuinely confused, how is this proof in any way shape or form

>> No.23229588

>>23229249
Kill yourself cuck

>> No.23229598

>>23227863
a lot

>> No.23229608

>>23227256
Be parasocial as long as it makes them money, anything beyond that is 'parasocial'

>> No.23229615

>>23227543
see >>23229249

>> No.23229627 [DELETED] 

>>23228229
>The song フャンサ is a good example of what you get from your chuba.
Imagine misinterpreting that song this badly.
It's literally called fanservice and talks about never betraying her fans.

>> No.23229643

>>23229588
Read it first nigger and try to ask yourself. Are you illiterate or genuinely retard?

>> No.23229704 [DELETED] 

>>23229615
That doesn't prove anything lol maybe read the article you're linking

>> No.23230065

>>23229643
Are you?

>> No.23230708

>>23229205
I think it was around the time holox were debuting

>> No.23230920

>No one rembers shortly after debut Lamy avidly denying that there was any sort of rule saying they couldnt be in a relationship with other people.
I would feel sorry you if it wasnt so pathetic.

>> No.23231182

>>23229442
Excuse me Botan is a GIRL

>> No.23231357

>>23230920
what stream?

>> No.23231397

>>23227543
>You have literally never provided a single instance of proof that a woman can't fall in love with her fanbase.

Proving absence is impossible. What you ask for is Russel's teapot.

>> No.23231472

>>23231397
Nah mate it would be a simple case of biology, showing that they do not receive the required chemicals from reading.
The reason it can't be done is because the opposite is true.

>> No.23231511

>>23228946
>/become/ is here
I REJECTED RAMIREZ

>> No.23231610

>>23231472
Proof?

>> No.23231643

>>23231472
But since chat is non-physical entity, wouldn't it be kinda like getting wet for an anime husbando or a K-Pop femboy? This didn't ever stop women from getting dicked.

>> No.23231879

>>23227256
What's going on everyone? Why are you talking about me?
>>23228946
Why does this person pretend to be me?

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If people can fall for fictional characters and get married to bridges and stuff I don’t see why it’s impossible for something similar to happen with a streamer.

>> No.23232048

>>23231912
Theres also a chance you will live when you jump off a building. Doesnt mean you should do it though.

>> No.23232120

>>23231610
well it really wouldn't be difficult to show you a few examples out of millions of people, in particular women, falling for fictional characters but for science
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/228803316_Exploring_the_link_between_reading_fiction_and_empathy_Ruling_out_individual_differences_and_examining_outcomes
There's hundreds to choose from, it is a common sense PoV afterall, but I chose this because it had Canadian Kermit, Jordan Peterson.

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ITT:

>> No.23232180

>>23227256
Shilling other vtubers in the chat is bad for the business, don't be daft.

>> No.23232282

>>23231643
People having sex is irrelevant, it's about whether the love is real or not.

>> No.23232433

>>23227256
stop submitting to these succubus whores that prey on your energy and money

>> No.23233595

>>23229488
The sad thing is, he mogs 99% of Vtuber fans

>> No.23233669

>>23233595
I've actually had sex and had girlfriends, he hasn't.
He's possibly had sex with a guy, he's mogging us on that front.

>> No.23233698 [DELETED] 

>>23231643
There are plenty of genuine gachikoi who say they don't date or fuck while they're gachi for somebody.

>> No.23233771

>>23233669
>I've actually had sex and had girlfriends
proof?

>> No.23233804

>>23233698
That's never requested by the chuuba and that is the opposite of genuine gachikoi since that is about your favourite idol
>>23233771
I like hololive

>> No.23234413 [DELETED] 

>>23233804
>That's never requested by the chuuba
Never say never
>that is the opposite of genuine gachikoi since that is about your favourite idol
Learn Japanese

>> No.23234513

>>23234413
According to the internet faggot is someone who sucks cock but you're still one.

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>> No.23234820

>>23227795
They self-insert as Botan

>> No.23235190 [DELETED] 

>>23234513
You have zero clue what gachikoi means both literally and colloquially, off yourself. It has never meant anything but to literally be in romantic love with the person.

>> No.23235305

>>23235190
I don't care about your seethe, im right and you're wrong. In every situation from our first word to our last.

>> No.23235363 [DELETED] 

>>23235305
Go tell an actual idolbuta what you think gachikoi means and you'll get laughed out of the room

>> No.23235414

>>23235363
Doesn't matter, I am me so I am right.

>> No.23237805

>>23227256
Bringing up other streamers unsolicited is just poor manners, parasocial or not. If she’s genuinely crying about it, then she’s the parasocial one in that scenario, not you. Either way, be mindful of the streamer’s feelings because a happy streamer is an entertaining streamer.

>> No.23238291

>>23233698
>There are plenty of genuine gachikoi who say they don't date or fuck while they're gachi for somebody.

Yes, but we're talking about semi-sane women working in the entertainment business, not about delusional no-life males.

>> No.23238486

>>23227349
Rushia said the same thing

>> No.23238747

>>23229460
lol. So you're going to be the one guy out of a million that Lamy chooses? Ok, sure. All the power to you.

>> No.23239362

>>23227543
sure it's possible. but even if she does, who the fuck are you? you're just one faggot out of a million. you can't truly have a two way emotional connection like this.

>> No.23241597

>>23238291
And? You're the only person putting useless constraints on possible human behavior

>> No.23241679

>>23239362
>million
how many gachikois do you think even GFE chuuba have

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>>23227427
>>23227507
>>23227511
>>23227543
>>23227554
>>23227581
>>23227909
>>23228322
>>23229180
>>23229218
>>23229577
>>23231912
>>23232282
All you cunts project this image of vtubers as sad fucks who cant get any human relationship be it friend or lover. It's a self projection that's being advocated by their "act" so I don't blame you, but if you genuinely think someone who makes a fuckton of money and has a social circle among co workers and spends 80% of their time outside their persona is in love with you.... Then unironically get help.

>try getting picrel

>> No.23242055

>>23227256
This board has too many females now, they would never understand

>> No.23242060

>>23241978
Dunno what you're talking about, I'm not projecting any image about them in the slightest and particularly what you're saying has literally nothing to do with what ive said.
Learn to read.

>> No.23242091

>>23242060
you will never be loved

>> No.23242158

>>23242091
But it's happened a lot and that was when I was a lesser person.
What is interesting though, is that you're literally doing what you claimed a few minutes ago

>> No.23242160

>>23241978
meds, schizo

>> No.23243816

>>23237805
literal reddit

>> No.23244003

>>23243816
shut up fag

>> No.23244070

>>23227375
This

>> No.23245380

>>23227310
baits a ton of parasociality but still seen as pure and innocent.
how does she do it?

>> No.23245762

>>23245380
The “Husband Collection” thing has a childish feel to it. It’s more retarded daughter experience than GFE.

>> No.23246674

>>23227256
Lamy is literally my wife

>> No.23246816

>>23227285
>>23227300
The two genders

>> No.23247308

>>23227256
I love Lamy and Lamy loves Yukimin and I don't understand why that upsets people.

>> No.23247475

>>23245380
Because it's clearly a performance. "You are all my husbands! The whole world is Nene's husbands!" is obviously a joke, even if it's one that's cute and endearing. Nobody but the most unhinged lunatic would go 'yeah I am LITERALLY in monogamous marriage with Nene, just like the other 3213148 carrots she has locked up in stasis tanks'.

>> No.23250166

>>23247475
>monogamous
Nobody but you used that term

>> No.23250197

>>23246816
Shut up faggot they're the same answer

>> No.23250198

>>23227256
>What do you mean you talked about another vtuber in her chat, she literally cried
Rushia did this too. Make of that what you will.

>> No.23250917

>>23227336
the best case scenario with an irl girlfriend is sex with a woman. jesse what the fuck are you talking about

>> No.23250972

>>23238486
Rushia basically nuked herself to prove that she wasn't.

>> No.23251088

>>23227256
When choosing between normal or mentally ill, always choose mentally ill.
You are already here after all.

>> No.23251136

>>23250917
It's just sex, that's worth like 10 quid

>> No.23251139

>>23250917
So the goal of a relationship for you is sex?

>> No.23251296

>>23251139
i have multiple goals for a relationship and you're coping if for your, sex isn't one of them

>> No.23251455

>>23251139
Yes, why?

>> No.23251547

>>23251296
Calling it best case scenario is ridiculous.
Compare having a girlfriend to being in the world cup, sex would be like a kick of the ball and best case scenario is winning the cup. Best case scenario for a girlfriend is that she's secretly the queen of a Interplanetary Empire and chose you as an Earthling to travel the galaxy with.

>> No.23251900

>>23250917
>the best case scenario with an irl girlfriend is sex with a woman
>sex is valuable
You are retarded and subhuman. People like you who only think about money and sex are nowadays drones and shouldn’t be labeled as human beings. A conscious being who believes the most primal things in life are what matters the most; a human being rejecting humanity to become an animal. Not even a dog is so low. Maybe an ameba.

>> No.23253087

>>23250972
so was she going out with him then?

>> No.23253514

>>23253087
No, they weren’t couple and weren’t living together. They knew each other from utaite circles for years, played games and at some point took a meal together. That’s pretty much what’s known.

>> No.23253610

>>23250972
fancuck

>> No.23253662

>>23253610
I was never in her membership nor have I given her anything. So try harder.

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