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I’m a 2view and I’ve been groomed. AMA.

>> No.13499838
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13499838

Bea go to work

>> No.13500608

>>13498868
How does it feel giving a bunch a virgins fatherly love from a daughter, which they'll never experience otherwise since they're basement dwellers?

>> No.13500780

>>13498868
How's it feel to has 2 feet and never send a feet pic to your groomers?

>> No.13501261

Why does this literal who get so many threads? Average of -50 views and the catalog is flooded with retarded threads and like 4 generals at a time.
You make it seriously hard to not dislike her.

>> No.13501398

>>13501261
>4 generals at a time
why are the usual /vt/ posters such exaggerated niggers? does this actually make you mad?

>> No.13501495

>>13501261
because she was groomed by this place, is it not obvious?

>> No.13501693

>>13501398
I can count multiple times when there have been at least 3-4 /yah/s made at a time.
>does this actually make you mad?
Not really, just makes me dislike you.

>> No.13501787

>>13501261
>oh no not the touhous

>> No.13501806

>>13501261
She's literally our girl, all of her viewers are here

>> No.13501851

>>13498868
>>13499838
This artstyle reminds me of a Japanese diaper-fetish artist who's art gets posted on /aco/ sometimes

>> No.13501869

>>13501261
how new huehue

>> No.13501897

>>13498868
Why did you let yourself being groomed? are you satisfied with it?

>> No.13502028

>>13498868
I am so sorry...
Does it work like homosexuality and you became a groomer as well? Any cute catches?

>> No.13502039
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>>13501806
What about the redditors she panders to? Wait she's still declining even after shilling on reddit, multiple live2d updates, collabs with corpos and two new outfits? Top kek

>> No.13502101

>>13502039
I love my reddit bear!

>> No.13502464

>>13502039
Her attempts to escape are futile

>> No.13502591

>>13502039
the chat in that screenshot looks godawful, great work /vt/

>> No.13502647

>>13500608
I wish Bea was my father

>> No.13502679

I gave her a shot and found her streams to be pretty cringe. Her shilling fanbase is beyond obnoxious too.

>> No.13502763

>>13502679
I belieb

>> No.13503228

Kys

>> No.13503505

>>13502039
Pretty Ironic her fans would persistently containment break in chat for a screenshot shilled on reddit, kek.

>> No.13503602

>>13501261
>t. eabani

>> No.13503687

>>13501261
>faggot thinks we care what he dislikes
Oh no what you gonna dooooooo?

>> No.13503867

>>13500608
I am not Bea. It feels cozy until you realize they just want to breed you while thinking of you as their daughter.

>>13500780
I did.

>>13501897
Because I didn't realized it until it was too late. No, I am not satisfied and I still feel weird about it. On one side, I like having men desperate for my attention, on the other hand it feels like I'm dirty.

>>13502028
In a sense, I now can't stop trying to groom my viewers back.

>> No.13504326

>>13498868
Did you give out the nudes?

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>I am not Bea. It feels cozy until you realize they just want to breed you while thinking of you as their daughter.
>>>13500780 #
>I did.
>>>13501897 #
>Because I didn't realized it until it was too late. No, I am not satisfied and I still feel weird about it. On one side, I like having men desperate for my attention, on the other hand it feels like I'm dirty.
>>>13502028 #
>In a sense, I now can't stop trying to groom my viewers back.

>> No.13504374

>>13498868
What is your home address? My plants are running out of sustenance and need fresh organic compost.

>> No.13504527

>>13503867
The Sluts Conundrum

>> No.13504753

>>13503687
>constant shilling by her fans and beatani
>w-we actually don't care what you think!
cope

>> No.13505193

>>13504753
>cope
>can’t cope with the fact that he doesn’t enjoy content anymore,so actively twists everything every offtopic beatani thread

>> No.13505465

>>13504326
Yes, some. I don't regret it until the groomer(s) bring it back.

>>13504374
I can send my shit over to your address, anon.

>>13504362
Anon, where did you find my picture? You damn doxxers.

>>13504527
It is, pretty much. Do you think I'd have a chance on VShojo?

>> No.13505597

>>13503867
What do you do to groom them back?

Do you think the feeling of dirt is from society-imposed shame or from a personal feeling?

Have you ever been a victim of abuse in the past? Do you feel you had a well adjusted childhood?

>> No.13505689

>>13505193
how do you twist a thread if it's offtopic? retard

>> No.13505937

>>13505597

>What do you do to groom them back?
Basically what every other female chuuba does; remembering details about regulars, being sweet and making them feel special. They are special to me, but I realize that is not a healthy distance and I know I am exploiting their loneliness. It should be a 0 sum game where I get attention and money and they get the GFE. I may just not be fit to do this, kek.

>Do you think the feeling of dirt is from society-imposed shame or from a personal feeling?
I think it's more personal. I don't have idea how other chuubas feel about that, I never talked to other girls about this feeling or grooming in general. I feel taken advantage of, groomers do know what they are doing when it comes to a small streamer. At first I thought it was sincere interest in me as a person and I felt grateful for having people enjoying my content, but the facade fell off once they started requesting more and more personal and sexual stuff from me.

Have you ever been a victim of abuse in the past? Do you feel you had a well adjusted childhood?
I think most girls, especially on the internet, have been in a way or another. I had an awful childhood and the lack of love made me desperate for affection, both giving and receiving. I sometimes wish I could enjoy the parasocial aspect of streaming as a vtuber.

>> No.13506011

>>13505937
Have you ever called out groomers when they start asking for nudes and sexual things? Like "oh. so this is why you watch me. To get close enough to ask for this."

>> No.13506060

>>13505937
let me guess, Discord?

>> No.13506117

>>13506011
No, but you gave me an idea. Thank you anon.

>>13506060
Yes…

>> No.13506171

>>13506117
So, tips for those looking to groom a 2view?

>> No.13506373

>>13506171
Haven’t you had enough spoons on last threads?
Be constant on their streams, engage, tip and give her money “to support her activities”. DM her caring for her and she will eventually open up.
Don’t be a creep right away. It is fine if you’re later on, since she will probably feel guilty for “leading you on” or “exploiting you”. Or maybe she will just forget about you once she’s bigger. Either way.

>> No.13506393

>>13506171
yeah. contact your local police station, explain that you are a danger to society and tell them to come and collect your hard drive

>> No.13506446

>>13506117
>No, but you gave me an idea.
Not him but good luck with your plan!

>>13506171
Seek out God

>> No.13506513

>>13501261
>/here/ chuuba has alot of fans on /vt/
Utterly anbiribaboo

>> No.13506555

Grooming seems like a whole lot of work just to get some nudes

>> No.13506717

>>13506171
Just quit while you're ahead. I get the vibe that you probably couldn't even manage to groom them

>> No.13506790

>>13506117
You're welcome but be on guard because the groomer will probably try to deflect and gaslight you.

"It's not like that"
"I really care for you as a person, didn't I do this or that?"
"I don't NEED the lewds. But it doesn't hurt anyone does it?"
"You were sending some signals so I answered"
"I'm just responding to your invitation, you opened the door"
"I'm hurt, I feel like you were leading me on now"
"If you're uncomfortable you should have spoken up earlier"
"So I'm just a donor to you? a number? a walking wallet?"
"You feel uncomfortable, fine I'll stop watching and leave the discord (and wait for you to get desparate and come crawling back)"

>> No.13506881

>>13506790
Thanks I'm taking notes. I'll let you know if this works.

>> No.13506924

>>13506555
It's about having a pretend girlfriend.

>> No.13506928

>>13506881
Godspeed, keep us updated if you're comfortable with it.

>> No.13506972

https://streamable.com/y3oipc

>> No.13507044

>read the thread
>she got groomed because she made a discord
MANY
SUCH
CASES
never trust a discordfag

>> No.13507147

>>13506881
One other thing, if they threaten suicide or self harm or getting wasted cut them out cold immediately and permanently. Block and ban on all platforms. Nothing is worth enduring that kind of emotional blackmail. Consider the friendship over and move on.

>> No.13507149

>I'll never get reverse-groomed by some horny female vtuber

>> No.13507458

>>13507149
anon...
let me dream...

>> No.13507535

>>13507044
Checked. Establishing a discord to interact with fans on a regular basis sounds entirely too parasocial

>> No.13507591

>>13505937
>They are special to me
What the fuck, my soul twitched

>> No.13507788

>>13506513
50 really isn't a lot in comparison to the amount of people who post on /vt/

>> No.13507827

>>13507788
It is when the most popular JP Holos get at most 100 IPs in their generals

>> No.13507885

>>13507827
JP streamer generals always get lower ip counts because there are so little people who understand japanese on /vt/
beatani averages sub 60 people in both streams and in her threads

>> No.13509742

>>13506790
>"You were sending some signals so I answered"
>"I'm just responding to your invitation, you opened the door"
>"If you're uncomfortable you should have spoken up earlier"
These are all legit though.

>> No.13509925

>>13509742
you're being groomed anon...

>> No.13510162

So how do you tell a groomer trying to use you for sex vs a groomer trying to use you for a relationship

>> No.13510443

>>13510162
The relationship groomer seeks more of your time and attention, targets your preferences to mimic them and your emotional weak points to reinforce them in hopes of gaining extra favour. They try to become a regular part of your existence, appearing whenever it is appropriate to do so.

>> No.13511556

>>13510443
How is that different from being a gachikoi?
I'm constantly thinking what I could write to make my oshi happy, how far I can go without becoming a nuisance (both in regards to emotional messages, and frequency in general). She wouldn't have become my oshi if our preferences were far apart, and seing her enjoy something makes me like it more as well.

>> No.13511588

Man threads like this make me feel like I shouldn't chat in 2view streams. It legit feels like the only winning move is not to play. I just want to chat about whatever the stream is and leave it there but it seems like even that isn't safe.

>> No.13511677

>>13502039
Absolutely based

>> No.13511683

Get this basket case back to its containment thread.

>> No.13511940

>>13511556
i think it's about intention mainly, if everything you say is an act just to get closer to them, then it's a groomer.

>> No.13512210

>>13509742
You're either a future groomer/sex pest/date raper/sexual assaulter or a groomed chuuba

>> No.13512242

>>13511588

These retards are mentally ill. Don't worry and just chat on stream. Most of this shit happens on their discord.

>> No.13512328

>>13512210
I'm only interested in 2D so please project somewhere else.

>> No.13512550

>>13501261
>Average of -50 views
so it's easy for my 50+ viewbots to just dislike her stream?

>> No.13512934

>>13498868
Do you love our lord and saviour Majo Carol?

>> No.13515228

>>13511677
Nobody other than a coping dad would think this is based,

>> No.13516964

>>13515228
Seethe

>> No.13517066

>>13516964
Mald

>> No.13518358

Is this the beatani thread? Based if so

>> No.13518494
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Is this thread of the best /here/ chuuba?....oh shit, it is! Beatani love!!

>> No.13518866

>>13498868
Would you fuck a black guy?

>> No.13518942

I've just read this whole thread, I don't understand, isn't she the same girl who tells her fans constantly that nobody loves them and that they should kill themselves? what is op talking about? I don't understand

>> No.13519047

>>13518942
its just ziassan being schizo after taking mephedrone or whatever the fuck he does nowadays as usual

>> No.13519101

>>13518866
https://files.catbox.moe/i9fbnr.png

>> No.13519176

>>13519047
>Bringing up the frog for no reason
Obsessed

>> No.13519207

It's crazy to think a lot of my friends that go on 4chan find her too crazy, I guess even amongst 4chan users, I'm a fucking freak

>> No.13519247

>>13519207
I started watching from her English debut and by the time her eccentricities started to leak out I was already groomed.

>> No.13519281

>>13518942
This is just another Beatani bait thread. These threads always get a good amount of responses from tourists and seething corpocucks along with some of her own fanbase looking for some fun.

>> No.13519516

>>13519047
go back to your /trash/ seething rent free tranny
>>13518942
That feels at least honest, and under that tsundere as fuck coat she's actually very fun and smart based girl, bea love!

>> No.13519743

>>13519207
all she even really does is play games and draw. your friends just hate furries

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>> No.13519916

Bea if you're reading this please sit on my face. Thanks in advance

>> No.13520584

>>13519916
Only for balon sorry dadchama

>> No.13520628

My 2view oshi groomed me. Donated almost $1000 dollars to her already

>> No.13520639

>>13520584
:(

>> No.13522350

>>13519207
The craziness is the main appeal

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>>13502039

>> No.13524803

Watch Kiki

>> No.13524901

>>13519207
I don’t think she is crazy at all. Can you tell me what's so crazy about her?

>> No.13524953

>>13501851
KEK

>> No.13525080

>>13524901
She's crazy in love with me.

>> No.13525425

>Becoming a chuuba
>NOT wanting to get in two-sided parasocial relationship
I don't get it, that's like the whole appeal for both sides

>> No.13525968

>>13525425
That's true but with the chat as a whole, not with specific fans.

>> No.13526171

>>13525968
The trick is to remember the individuals but not considering them as such unless they actually have some important skills, kinda like you would interact with zerg hive, you consider all the critters as one person while remembering which specific ones have purpose that is of interest to you

>> No.13526502

>>13519780
it needs the soundtrack

>> No.13528129

grooming is a dumb modern word
its called being kind (albeit with some ulterior motives)

>> No.13528653

I hereby claim this thread in the name of /yah/

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>>13528653
Yes very based of OP to save us a spot.

>> No.13529917

>>13528129
>kind
manipulative

>> No.13530087

>>13529917
kind of manipulative

>> No.13532646

>>13524901
I don't know desu, I'm not my friends. They watch other 2views that aren't /here/ or hololive or niji.

>> No.13536709

>>13518942
It's a coded message please understand.
https://twitter.com/beatanichisato2/status/1463697751011594245

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>>13502039
>DYRBI
they deserve her

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>>13536709
fuck you I didn't want to see that

>> No.13537893

>>13536908
I love AR!

>> No.13538391

AR is based

>> No.13542010

>>13536908
I hope AR is enjoying his Japan vacation.

>> No.13542632

/yah/ threads die faster and with less posts nowadays, she really is reclining

>> No.13542886

>>13542632
I'm sure reduced streaming activity and lack of upcoming events has nothing to do with it.

>> No.13543136

>>13542886
She has moved to discord, so all the usual posters have done that too

>> No.13544449

>>13542886
Don't be disingenuous, it's the same when she's streaming too.

>> No.13544533

>>13542886
Bea has taken a lot of breaks before and the threads were still pretty active, cope more

>> No.13544687

>>13543136
>>13544449
>>13544533
It actually is because of discord I'll stop pretending it isn't.
Forced discussion when most just wanted to have off topic chat to one another wasn't much better.

>> No.13544814

>>13544533
they haven't. threads have died from inactivity during burger hours with less than 30 posts. some threads during a stream have been completely silent
>b-but people are busy posting in chat
cope
>b-but they cant play minecraft and post in 4chan at the same time
cope
>b-but her subs are growing... live views don't count
cope

>> No.13544998

>>13544687
I won't argue about if it was better or worse, but it's a fact that most of the bored that used to spend time shitposting in /yah/ are now just talking offtopic stuff in the discord

>> No.13545046

>>13544814
Does this mean I now have a chance to groom Bea?

>> No.13545084

>>13544687
>>13544998
I wouldn't be surprised if good chunk just dropped the threads if not Bea herself after they got discord, I know I do it when thread I follow does it

>> No.13545123

>>13545046
Yes, just use your wallet

>> No.13545204

>>13503867
Either cast of your shame or snuff out your desires. Imbalance will make you unhappier than the alternative.
I suppose there is a middle ground option too, but it's way harder to find.

>> No.13545430

>>13545046
Only if you can outbid her top paypig.

>> No.13547748

So her break just means no streams while chatting on the discord all day

>> No.13547890

>>13547748
>all day
Dad, you can be better than this

>> No.13548035

>>13547890
>you can be better than this
No, I can't. And what was that server she joined? And has she seriously been accepting discord friend requests all this time?

>> No.13548147

>>13548035
>And what was that server she joined?
PC?

>> No.13548198

>>13548147
PC was a long time ago, I think it may have been cyberlive server

>> No.13548230

do you still trust in bea or the dads? she never keeps her promises and you have proven yourselves to be two faced fuckers, each time I learn more about the way things are, I find it harder and harder to feel comfortable watching the streams

>> No.13548238

Go back to your home discord nigger

>> No.13548312

>>13548230
>she never keeps her promises
which
>and you have proven yourselves to be two faced fuckers
how

>> No.13548459

>>13509742
>"If you're uncomfortable you should have spoken up earlier"
>legit
You probably shouldn't try this in court

>> No.13548968

>>13548230
>do you still trust in bea or the dads?
I somewhat trust Bea, but most of the dads are two faced menhera, even the ones that seem like good guys

>> No.13549023

>>13548968
you can trust me

>> No.13549177

>Bea
She's basically just a jokester and a pretty honest person
>Dads
There are some decent people but many dads are too schizo

>> No.13549398

>>13548968
>two faced menhera
I can't deny this, but I never tried to imply I wasn't.

>> No.13549816

>>13548230
I trust Bea and a few dads, I haven't spoken with the rest enough to get a read on them.

>> No.13553666

>>13498868
Can I groom?

>> No.13553930

She really did go full Discord didn't she,? Holy shit.

>> No.13554094

>>13502039
>ordered my viewers to ejaculate at the same time
what

>> No.13554247

>>13554094
Nutkumolity. She told dads to not jerk off or have sex (kek) for two weeks and then had everyone cum at the same time after a countdown in a Ring Fit Adventure stream.

>> No.13554613

>>13553930
Paws

>> No.13556541

>>13498868
Cool anon

>> No.13557614
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13557614

I decided to take a break from Bea to focus on school like 3 months ago. Somtimes I watch a few clips if they pp up on rec. I stopped going to the threads and turned off notis so I could not break my streak. Did things seriously get worse or are people just being schizo about the state of Bea?

>> No.13557680

>>13557614
Things have been better overall, schizoposting is mostly done for fun

>> No.13558442

>>13557614
things have generally gotten better

>> No.13559351

>>13554247
Jesus.

>> No.13559931

>>13498868
What if I have limited money?
What about love?

>> No.13560237

>>13557614
things are the same. beas choice in games has gotten pretty generic and she seriously needs to drop yakuza

>> No.13561142

>>13498868
are you sure you aren't overreacting? real groomers are out there getting prime schoolgirl pussy not wasting 100hrs of their lives watching something they don't care about, my advice would be think about your situation again when you're happy and when you're neutral, because emotions have a big role on our judgement

>> No.13561407

>>13506790
Damn. This is good shit. Keep going, anon. I’m taking notes.

>> No.13561452

>>13518942
She’s tsundere.

>> No.13561758

>>Bea thread
Bea is retarded shit bear

>> No.13561914

>check thread
>"i've been groomed"
>"but i don't like them"
>"those are unhealthy relationships"
>"i'm still keeping them around though"
EN vtubers truly are insufferable huh?

>> No.13562009

>>13524803
this

>> No.13562268

>>13553666
Probably, yes.

>>13556541
Am I? WOAH.

>>13559931
Temperance and shilling does, but money is a necessary part of grooming. Otherwise she won’t feel like she owes you.

>>13561142
Well, pedo groomers I am sure so, but there are reasons why I think this, Anon. I am usually the kind of person who never gets when someone is manipulating me. I’m a legit sperg.

>>13561914
I never said I don’t like them, Anon. I don’t like opening up to someone who’s now using the money they donated to me as excuse to gaslight and the stuff I told them to emotionally manipulate me. Unhealthy, yes, and I am not sure about what to do because, again, I am autistic and menhera. And I repeat, I love my audience. Everytime I see old and new viewers in chat I am genuinely happy.
Just because JP girls don’t tell you their dark feelings, that doesn’t mean they don’t feel the same or worse. But go on on living your yellow fever dream, Anon.
There is also the anonymous mask I am behind that allows me to express such feelings. I would never say that behind my Vtuber persona.

>> No.13562421

>>13562268
The Japanese Vtuber that I "groomed" and am dating genuinely loves me, keep seething. Japanese women are better than you in every way.

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>>13562421
Lmao, I wish you all the great sex and green grass Anon.

>> No.13562737

>>13562268
>I never said I don’t like them
Right, not directly obviously because you know what you're doing. After all, you're been manipulating them for a while so I guess you ought to be or get good at it. But for the records :

>>13503867
>until you realize they just want to breed you while thinking of you as their daughter.
Signals you seeing them as pedophiles.
>it feels like I'm dirty.
Signals you seeing them as filth, but you get a kick of seeing them desperate for you.
>>13505937
>I am exploiting their loneliness
Talks for itself.
I could go on, but everyone here got the idea from your early replies already.

>go on on living your yellow fever dream
I want to be sarcastic but that wouldn't give me any points so I'll be frank. Not only I don't have an oshi, but I'm also not even into Japanese girls. I just got here when vtubers was still about cute anime girls doing cute things, not the absolute drama mess that it had become today.
But one thing I found interesting is how you quickly put that tag on me, while giving a condescending jab in the process. Typical I'd say but can't say I'm surprised.

>> No.13562990

>>13562737
Why you say I’m manipulating them?

> Signals you seeing them as pedophiles.
I was replying to Anon asking how it feels to have viewers that view you as their daughter or something.

> Signals you seeing them as filth, but you get a kick of seeing them desperate for you.
I feel dirty for the kick I get for seeing them after me.

>blabla loneliness
And so every other streamer, male and female. Vtuber or face streamer.

If you are not here for the drama, why did you not only opened the threat, but even bumped it? Go watch your cute anime girls, I just want to answer questions and get stuff off my chest while also typing down stuff so I can get a clearer view on my “situation”.

>> No.13563178

>>13562990
>Why you say I’m manipulating them?
You... literally said that yourself. I literally quoted it, you good or what?

>blabla loneliness
Again, your choice of words shows what kind of person you are.

And to answer your overall "why are you here". I just opened the thread out of curiosity to see if it was another rrat or something that might be interesting. Saw your replies, got the gist of what kind of person you are, and just made my reply because I'm free to make one. You're the one who started replying after, with huge nonsense no less.

>> No.13563198

>>13562510
I get a lot of 草

>> No.13563242

>>13562268
>Temperance and shilling does, but money is a necessary part of grooming. Otherwise she won’t feel like she owes you.
Haha, I was just fucking with you.
I'm a college dropout, I get by, but money will never be a big part of my life. I know it's just a pipe dream.
;_;

>> No.13563247

>>13563178
you are attempting to argue with a biohole
you won't win, you can't.
They don't respond to reason.
Just make a few emotional attacks and move on.

>> No.13563333

>>13563178
Yes, I replied because I am doing so with everyone who talks to me directly, I have nothing to hide behind a screen. I maybe be saying nonsense, because again, I am trying to figure out what my feelings are. I don’t feel like I owe coherence between one reply and another. I am a human being with constant flow of thoughts, not a statuary anime character.

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13563453

>>13563198
Is it fresh? Does it taste good?

>>13563242
Chuuba grooming is a privilege, this days…

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>>13562421
Shut the fuck up.

>> No.13564241

>>13563333
Fwiw OP I may just be too far gone but menhera love is still love. And nowadays often even the healthiest relationships can break down within years so it's not like the distant future is particularly relevant to how healthy a relationship is anymore. What matters is that right now you probably care about and are cared about by some number of people that'd almost certainly be lonely otherwise. There are tons of people who would be more than happy to wring the people who attached to you dry and not give an ounce of love back. That end is far worse for them than what they have now.

>> No.13564434

>>13562421
Nadeshiko isn't a real japanese

>> No.13565234

>>13562421
stop larping as me, plus I didn't "groom" her really, she was the one on the offensive for quite a whilme

>> No.13566233

>>13562421
I don't remember posting this

>> No.13566739

Also I get worried because I do love my oshi and I'm a clingy person so now I'm worried that I may end up doing something groomery just by virtue of who I am. She means everything to me and I don't know where the part caused by being love with her ends and the manipulative clingy grooming starts...I do want to become closer after all...

>> No.13567941

>2views oshi DMs me in Twitter first
>fail composure check
>try to groom her into friendship
>get ghosted
>have to see her collabing with 0views males
>also knowing that as a viewer i will always be seen as viewer, nothing more than that
Every time i think about that it hurts so fucking much. Fuck vtuber industry for "rules". Also fuck me. Also no one asked, thanks for reading blogpost.

>> No.13568221

>>13567941
Become a vtuber. Simple as.

>> No.13568448

>>13568221
Probably will not work out as i'm in viewerzone already, or will have to grind from zero under another personality. I considered that option and honestly it's even more soulless than my current state.

>> No.13569063

>>13564241
Thank you Anon for your kind words. If I didn’t care for them, I wouldn’t be so conflicted probably, but your words gave some light into it. I’ll try my best to be a ray of sunshine for them, but also learn more boundaries so that I won’t fall into this kind of thing again.

>>13566739
I think that as long as you don’t say manipulative things such as >>13506790 you’ll be fine. As other anons say, there is a difference between caring and grooming. For perspective, I don’t consider groomers those who say they care for me, I consider groomers the ones that say stuff like “after all the support I gave you”, “there was not any other person out there for you when (x) happened” etc.

>>13567941
I send a hug over, Anon. Maybe she just doesn’t know how to respond, it is scary when viewers try to befriend you, you never know what’s the line.

>> No.13569236

>>13566739
If you're clingy it's already not grooming anymore, it's the opposite, looking pitiful and dependent isn't grooming.

>> No.13569491

>>13567941
If you became a 0view vtuber you would get ignored after the first request not on her terms.

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>>13568448
Listen, with 2 views that's not how it works.
Being a no view male chuuba is just as bad if not worse, you're on her scale but far down, it's bad
Being an artist is where it's at, you have your own recognition, and ona different branch, and you can make fan content related to her
It's easy to impress

>> No.13570119

>>13569236
I think clingy was the wrong word to use, what I mean is that I try to spend as much time with her as she makes available. Being with her makes me happy and on the bad days hearing her tell me she loves me makes me feel like it was worth making it through those days if it means I can see her again.

>> No.13570537

>>13569961
If you're loaded, have a decent following, and have done live content you basically already have a key to her house.

>> No.13570791

>>13570119
I have been on this feeling for over a year now. The best advice I can give is to put some sort of limit down to protect your own happiness. You should support her as much as you don't cross that limit. The limit is whatever amount of time and emotions you can't afford to spare.

>> No.13570831

Another 2view here. Grooming from vtubing ruined my life and it makes me wish I never started vtubing. Sounds like you handled it better than me at least.
Either way, good luck anonymous chuuba. You're not the only one.

>> No.13570919

>>13570537
Not always true. Many 2views are just regular people. If you can't get a normal date, what makes you think she would be any different? Actually a lot of them would prefer not to date someone else in the same industry, because they would never be sure if they are getting used. But the one thing for sure is women don't date down, so if you are a jobless, smelly NEET she will be happy to take your cash and not much more.

>> No.13570933

>>13570831
>Grooming from vtubing ruined my life and it makes me wish I never started vtubing.
You could tell us what happened in detail. It might not make you feel better, but maybe we can learn something from it.

>> No.13571303

>>13570791
I don't know where that line is a lot sometimes. It's like it muddles my brain and flips my innate sense of things on its head. The only time anything feels like it makes sense anymore is when I'm spending with her... hearing her laugh or even better making her laugh or being singled out for hugs and kisses makes me feel so happy that its like all of my cynicism and hopelessness falls away. I don't know what to do and I know I've given somebody the power to effectively destroy me but I don't know anymore if I'd ever be capable of wanting anything or anyone else. I just can only hope that her feelings are genuine and that she doesn't decide she doesn't care about me enough to not hurt me

>> No.13571580

>>13571303
I understand your feeling well, just be aware of the possibility that your feelings might change one day, or she might quit.
If that day comes, you want to fondly remember the happiness she gave you, and not regret giving her all your money, or neglecting your life.

>> No.13571697

>>13571303
I empathize too much with this because honestly my oshi is literally my definition of perfect in strength, weaknesses and even negativity. I think the healthiest outlet is to share the parts you appreciate with others and that way you don't feel so protective over how you feel. It's not good to dwell on the 1 on 1 personal aspect too much as that breeds selfishness.

>> No.13571828

>>13498868
Do you like your fanbase or would you rather have another audience

>> No.13573007

>>13570831
OP here. I am sorry Anon, may we know how it happened?

>>13571828
I like many of them, and don’t have strong opinions on others. In a sense, your audience reflects you and your content. If you’re attracting distasteful people, you have distasteful content. The people I didn’t like left after a while, and I like that they listen when I scold them.

>> No.13576290

>>13573007
What's the worst part of fanbase interaction?

>> No.13578394

>>13570119
... the fuck, I thought I wrote this message as I was reading it, I tried to keep distance but she very friendly weirdly so, I ended up giving but now I'm used to it and when it stops it's gonna be rough.

>> No.13579772

>>13498868
OP do you like math? also eat your goddamn veggies, go healty life!!!

>> No.13579894

>>13570933
Or masturbate to it.

>> No.13580053

>>13562737
>I just got here when vtubers was still about cute anime girls doing cute things, not the absolute drama mess that it had become today
This has literally never been true.

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