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In a few hours I'm going to have sex for the first time in my life. Are there any short books that will prepare me for what lies ahead?

>> No.19190887

>>19190875
Geralds Game

>> No.19190890

The Kreutzer Sonata

>> No.19190931

>>19190875
While you're doing it, at some point in the middle, the following thought will occur to you: why does Michel Houellebecq always refer to his own genitals as "my sex"? Then, disgusted as you will be by the phrase, you will become flacid and then will panic and technically you will remain a virgin and no one will touch your sex again.

>> No.19190939

>>19190890
Ignore this OP, do NOT read it or you will lose any hope of happiness.

>> No.19191031
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19191031

>>19190887
think of this pepe when you put your dick inside

PEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>> No.19191339

Are you going to have sex with a stranger or are you getting married tonight? If the former, prepare for a similar empty feeling you get post-onanism. If the latter, I'm happy for you bro

>> No.19191348

>>19191339
OP here. She's not a complete stranger, we are friends but we decided to take our acquaintance to a higher level

>> No.19191350

>>19190875
You should masturbate beforehand so when the time comes you won’t be so nervous and get ED. You’ll also last longer.

>> No.19191351

>>19191350
>ED
What's that?

>> No.19191353

>>19191351
erectile dysfunction
surely masturbating before hand will make you more likely to have ED?

>> No.19191356

>>19190875
Story of the Eye bro

>> No.19191358

>>19190875
If you can read all of The Tropic of Cancer in time that will definitely help

>> No.19191359

>>19191351
>>19191353
Actually a lot of guys get ED their first time because they are too nervous to perform.
Masturbating releases endorphins and relaxes you, the closer to the sexy time the better. It also prevents premature ejaculation and makes you last longer.

>> No.19191380

>>19190875
Despite being bait thread, I got curious, anyone know good books around a young man first time experience?

>> No.19191387

>>19190875
Don't do it anon, unless the woman is your wife. Pre-marital sex is a sin and it destroys your mind.

>> No.19191389

>>19191380
Catcher in the Rye

>> No.19191395

>>19191387
Christcuck cope, your own saint (Augustine) was an adulterer in his youth and somehow it didn't destroy his mind (or so Christians would like to believe)

>> No.19191396

>>19190939
>>19190890
Big fucking deal. I was already hopeless. Yet sometimes I'm content that i don't suffer from the company of a typical femoid.

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Wait, people actually have sex?

>> No.19191413

OP here she wrote me to come to her house in an hour I can already feel my irritable bowel syndrome kicking in with gut pains and I'm white as a ghost what do I drink to ease my nerves?

>> No.19191420

>>19191413
Lol OP is gonna poop himself during sex

>> No.19191423

>>19191413
Commit homicide of your person

>> No.19191432

>>19191403
I was never invited, so I don't think its real

>> No.19191440

>>19191413
Warm milk.
There’s a reason it helps small children sleep, it calms the nerves.

>> No.19191443

>>19191413
shit as much as you possibly can with the time you have remaining

>> No.19191447

>>19191440
>recommending milk to a person with irritable bowel syndrome
Lmao nice troll you really want to make OP shit himself into bedsheets

>> No.19191448

>>19191440
Unless he's lactose intolerant, in which case OP is really gonna shit himself mid-coitus.

>> No.19191459

>>19191348
>we decided to take our acquaintance to a higher level
*lower level
FTFY
You don't want to penetrate, defile, and carnalize the things you love.

>> No.19191460

>>19191413
Imodium is an anti-shityerself and an opioid. Take a whole bunch and both of your problems are solved.

>> No.19191462

>>19191413
Masturbate, shit and take a shower. In that order.

>> No.19191465

>>19191462
>not take a shower, shit and masturbate
NGMI

>> No.19191468

>>19191413
Repent and find solace in GOD, fornicator
>>19191423
He's already killing his immortal soul

>> No.19191508

>>19191468
Go molest a kid, cafflick

>> No.19191519

>>19191468
Once again I'm asking you - why didn't fornication kill the soul of Augustine, Dorothy Day, Thomas Merton and all the people venerated by Christians as paragons of faith? OP should have sex and repent afterwards, he's probably not going to like it anyways because sex with a person you don't love is just like fucking a slightly better fleshlight

>> No.19191526

Make sure you remember that the sex hole, is below the pee hole. Might wanna look up a vid or pic, i couldn't find it my first time. Also make sure you foreplay enough that you're not just forcing it in.

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>>19191526
>Make sure you remember that the sex hole, is below the pee hole.
I thought it was the other way around ngl
T. 25 yo virgin

>> No.19191542

>>19191508
>>19191519
>Almost instantaneous atheist cope
kys nihilist scum

>> No.19191546

>>19191519
The trick is not to think of Xtianity as the escape method. Just forget about it. Then send a scheduled message to be delivered to you after a few years of hedonism.

>> No.19191566

>>19191537
I guess it depends on which way you flip her lol. Just look up some pics

>> No.19191570

>>19191526
Depends on what position she’s in

>> No.19191576

>>19191566
>>19191526
I've seen enough instruction videos to know that this man peddles lies.

>> No.19191590

>>19191537
That's pretty sad desu

>> No.19191595

>>19191526
Stick it in the pee hole

>> No.19191597

Actual sex-haver here. Once you've done it enough times you realise how cringe it really is. Unless there's a higher purpose in mind--and there rarely truly is, even in the most intimate of relationships--it's just masturbation with extra steps.

>> No.19191603

It's gonna be bad unless you man up. Go in there, slap her around and fuck her shit up and leave. Don't be romantic be a womanizer for once in your life. Let her know who you are

>> No.19191607

>>19191459
Is a woman a 'thing' to you, incel?

>> No.19191618

You'll have to throw out your Evolas now.

>> No.19191619

>>19191597
Part-time sex haver here, I agree that sex is very cringe when examined but it is extremely fun and fulfilling when done right. Honestly it's only 'masturbation' when it's with the same girl again and again, there's no conquest.

>> No.19191635

>>19191607
Yes.

>> No.19191642

>>19191576
What the hell? I'm not lying.

>> No.19191646

>>19191387
christcuck incel

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Tbqh sex is sething you have to do to keep the girl around.
You can play with dem giddies even without the work.
Blowing your load in a girls mouth (or wherever) is just for self-gratification, a primitive urge.

Sex always becomes a chore for me after 5 months

>> No.19191676

>>19191619
Nah. The conquest experienced when fucking a new girl is analogous to that experienced when jacking it to some new and exotic porn--the same cringey pornographic logic is at play. True sexual conquest can only be experienced when the act is aimed at something higher, which I've realised can only really be family making--everything else is cringe. When I imagine the average guy "conquering" a whore all I see is a soiboy creaming himself over the new Rick and Morty action figure or whataver. I used to be that soiboy.

>> No.19191686

>>19190875
The Confession Handbook, seeing as you are about to commit a sin and join yourself spiritually and bodily to someone who is not your wife.

>> No.19191707

>>19191676
Sounds like you're coping really hard with something

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>>19191576
>sex instruction videos

>> No.19191728

>>19190875
How old are you? If you are above 25 I would suggest not having sex unless you are sure that the girl is someone who will love you and you love her for a long long time.

Apart from that, don't worry too much about it being awkward and stuff. Talk to your partner and take your time. If you bust early, don't worry. Worrying about cumming too soon makes it happen. Good luck, anon, unless you are above 25. THEN DON'T HAVE SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME YOU ARE MAKING A FUCKING HUGE MISTAKE.

>> No.19191739

>>19191653
I get the idea of your post, but I think you are wrong. Do you jerk off alot?

>> No.19191746

>>19191728
What mistake is he making?

>> No.19191766

>>19191707
Yeah I'm coping with the fact that sex for the most part is meaningless.

>> No.19191776

>>19191728
What is this “above 25” meme?

>> No.19191780

>>19191595
stick it in the pee hole and tell her it's the only method of contraception your religion allows

>> No.19191814

>>19191728
>Good luck, anon, unless you are above 25. THEN DON'T HAVE SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME YOU ARE MAKING A FUCKING HUGE MISTAKE
Why?

>> No.19191850

>>19191619
He’s right. It’s not truly fulfilling in the sense building a family and a legacy is. It’s “fulfilling” and “fun” because it provides a temporary dose of validation, i.e it communicates to your ego “you are accepted and worthy” which feels really good —like a high even— because we are social creatures and have an innate desire for belonging.
This is why narcissists are always sex addicts. Narcissism is caused by a traumatic wound in a person’s sense of self-worth so they need that constant source of validation to feel worthy.

>> No.19191903

>>19190875
well OP, how did it go?

>> No.19191917
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OP we need an update

Did you think of this particular pepe when you put your penis inside of her
>>19191031

>> No.19191920

>>19191766
Everything is meaningless, retard. It's time to become a well-adjusted adult.

>> No.19191930

>>19191850
>don't be happy with yourself and enjoy life because someone came up with a demeaning word for people who do that :(

>> No.19191998

>>19191930
Casual sex is not only meaningless, it is also psychologically harmful for women. Women who do casual sex can no longer make good wives or mothers because they lose their ability to pair bond.
>“From the amorous point of view, Véronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she would have wished to still be capable of it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals that characterizes the modern era. Véronique had known too many discothèques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for illusion, as an aptitude for epitomizing the whole of the other sex in a single loved being rarely resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality, the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort.”
— Michel Houellebecq

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>>19191903
>>19191917
OP here
I'm still waiting, she's not answering my calls.