/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.18569697]

Books about how to straighten up? I am a white male with all the 4chan characteristics (socially inadept, virginal, no job, borderline anorexic)?

[Anonymous No.18569704]

>>18569697
just turn into a cut girl lmao

[Anonymous No.18569720]

>>18569697
>socially inadept
You’ve got to meet people.
>virginal
You’ve got to meet women.
>no job
You’ve got to get a job.
>borderline anorexic
You’ve got to eat and work out.

You know the solutions for all of these. You just need to focus on one and actually do the work.

[Anonymous No.18569740]

>>18569697
The Bible.

[Anonymous No.18569767]

>>18569697
How long has it been, OP?

[Anonymous No.18569790]

>>18569767
>How long has it been, OP?
Since what? HS Grad? About 3 years, give or take.

[Anonymous No.18569800]

>>18569697
You already know what you need to do, you just don't do it. But you should read Bronze Age Mindset.

[Anonymous No.18569820]

GIVE ME THE MILK!

[Anonymous No.18569825]

>>18569697
start by reading easypeasymethod.org (and yourbrainonporn if you haven't already)
porn and mastirbation is adsictive and has the same effect on your lifestyle as hard drugs do. You won't make it as long as you remain a coomer.
That's a huge first step you can undertake this istant, for free.

[Anonymous No.18569831]

>>18569697
me to fren and im 25 yo khhv haha

[Anonymous No.18569844]

>>18569825
>>18569790
>>18569697
I say this both from experience (I was addicted before, and it worsened my life first, then my relationships).
It's an addiction which will bring your motivation to zero, will lower your focus, your courage, your creativity, will heighten your anxiety, will make you lose time, will make you feel more depressed.
I know you need this because your posts in this thread are all coomerbait.
Please give it a read. I'm not saying to become a prude, just that not watching porn anymore is a good first step, it's easy to do, it's free, and you don't have to exit your mom's basement to do it

[Anonymous No.18569854]

>>18569790
Listen to the other anon who said those things about porn. And consider eating properly if you aren't already, specially drinking water (no excuses on this one).

[Anonymous No.18569896]

>>18569825
>>18569844
>>18569854
no fapping is all that I have
it's a symptom not a cause

[Anonymous No.18569917]

>>18569697
work out every day
meditate
engage in some creative pursuit
stop cooming and consooming
cut drugs, porn, alcohol, caffeine, cigs, vidya

no reason to complain before you've done all of this

[Anonymous No.18569998]

>>18569697
there is a book called anonymous gentleman or something

[Anonymous No.18570017]

Who cares if you watch porn or not? Are you so weak-willed that an indulgence in some flesh can break your temper? Imagine: A man, fully aware of his own sexual needs and desires, convinces himself that the reason that an ego opposite his own, own fully formed and unique unto itself, evades his grasp is not because of his shyness or lack of opportunity, no instead it is the result of a behavior common not only to men, but to both genders. That man then sublimates his same will, unique entirely to itself, to another's; When another man, presumably one who has dressed himself in worldly or oftentimes religious success, thus orders him to deprive himself of an entirely normal and common place ritual, masturbation, he cannot think to himself "What business has he to tell me what I can and can't do in private with virtually no witness?" No, instead he eagerly and gladly abandons his personal pleasure in exchange for the esteem of that higher authority. In this we find a certain abdication of personal responsibility: My sexual appetites are inherently dangerous and must be reigned in lest I succumb to degeneracy. From such a perspective the restraint of the self by another's will is not wrong but necessary. But tell me, who is truly served?

[Anonymous No.18570020]

>>18569896
Never gonna make it fag. Thread over boys, this one's a lost cause

[Anonymous No.18570055]

>>18569697
Start by watching more porn. No excuses there. I try to watch at least an hour every day. Also start studying computer science. Don't worry about getting a job anytime soon, because the fewer hours you work the more time you have for your own pursuits.

[Anonymous No.18570230]

>>18569697
Transformation Mastery

[Anonymous No.18570258]

>>18569800
Any link to the PDF?

[Anonymous No.18570463]

Find the answer yourself. There is always an.

[Anonymous No.18570790]

>>18570258
try libgen, they usualy have the shit i want

[Anonymous No.18570796]

>>18569697
Pretty sure this is the girl who is all over Hinge in NYC

[Anonymous No.18571604]

>>18570055
Kek

[Anonymous No.18571637]

>>18569825
What counts as a coomer? The only time I'll watch porn is if I want to masturbate, and I'll just bring up a random image off reddit, beat it for less than 2 mins and coom. This will happen probably 4 times a week. Is this at a level people consider a problem?

[Anonymous No.18571643]

>>18569896
Masturbation is one of those things where it's only a problem if you see it as a problem. With those guys who are addicted to it, it's the addiction itself which is being addressed rather than the activity. It's a very subtle distinction but a really important one. In this sense, masturbation addicts are addicts before they are masturbators. The fact that it's masturbation which is the focus is almost incidental. It could have just as easily been pretty much anything else.

[Anonymous No.18571648]

>>18569697
>socially inadept
mysterious and aloof
>virginal
pure, chaste
>no job
aristocratic
>borderline anorexic
heroin chic

[Anonymous No.18571669]

>>18569697
How to Win Friends and Influence People. A good first step would be to stop saving and posting coomer bait to a mongolian basket weaving forum and go outside.

[Anonymous No.18571696]

>>18569697
You need to allow your mind to think for itself. And I don't mean that in a "be yourself, be unique way". No. I mean that you need to turn off the noise and distractions. Get off 4chan, actually disconnect from the internet.(literally pull the cord out when you're not in need of it)
Don't load any games either if you have them.
Just be by yourself for a little while. Your brain will quickly want to do something. Or maybe it wants to do nothing. It's ok to just sit and think for a while. But eventually when you get the urge to do something, put that energy where it's needed. Cleaning, exercise, plotting your meals so you know what you need to eat rather than starving yourself needlessly. It's ok to turn the internet back on after some time. But make sure you're not cheating yourself by turning it back on too quickly.

If you spend a few hours with your own thoughts every days, then you will start to get those productive impulses again. Eventually that thought of "I should text [person] and see how they're doing" will come again. "Where would I like to work? Where can I work? How do I go about applying?" It'll come.

[Anonymous No.18571697]

>>18571637
Try to cut it to once a week and avoid visual stimulation for it (that's the hardest part). It won't change your life overnight but you will build discipline. It's ok to fail, just try again. When you feel the urge to coom, pick up a book or do push ups or anything that can take your mind off it. Your future self is watching you.

[Anonymous No.18571719]

>>18571637
That's not a problem if you're telling the truth. Sounds about healthy to me.
I'm an on again, off again coomer. And when I'm doing bad, I'm spending anywhere from 1-4 hours scouring the internet for fap material. I'll find something good, stroke until I'm at the edge, and then look for something else while maintaining a steady low grade stroke. Repeating this process again and again. Exhausting all of my regular porn sources, and broadening my scope to unknown sites. Until finally my dick is sore and I bust a nut just to be able to stop the sore feeling.

It takes such a huge chunk out of my day and leaves me in a state of placidity. And then I'll repeat it again the next day. Compare that to the times when I'm actually doing good. Just finding something easy to fap to and getting it out of the way in like 5 minutes before going about my day. That's what I would consider normal.

[Anonymous No.18571725]

>>18571696
>Your brain will quickly want to do something. Or maybe it wants to do nothing.
No it will start reminiscing, which is far too uncomfortable to bare.

[Anonymous No.18571739]

>>18571719
Ok that's good to know. Only a handful of times since finishing puberty have I had sessions like that, and it normally involves a newly discovered H-game (Corruption of Champions, Violated Heroine, Trials in Tainted Space, and a weekend spent modifying CDDA source to simulate grool/pee for my catgirl character are the ones that come to mind).

[Anonymous No.18571745]

>>18571725
Oh I know this well. But you have to deal with those bad memories. Trying to drown them out through distractions will put you in a paralyzed state. Which is what you're probably suffering at this point in your life.
You have to start forgiving yourself for past mistakes and embarrassments. You can't shut the thoughts out. But if you forgive yourself for your past mistakes, then suddenly those old thoughts aren't as anxiety inducing as they used to be. You have to say "yeah, I fucked up, but it's ok". Or "I'll do better next time". Or "I can't fix it, but I can move on."

[Anonymous No.18571753]

>>18571745
>Trying to drown them out through distractions will put you in a paralyzed state. Which is what you're probably suffering at this point in your life.
I think this gets to the heart of the issue.

[Anonymous No.18571780]

>>18571753
I wish I had a book recommendation for you, but I don't read that kind of stuff. I'm just speaking mostly from personal experience. An ego is something everyone needs in order to thrive. It's that thing that tells you you're "worth it". And you can't have a healthy ego if your past regrets keep it chained down. That's why you have to forgive yourself. Take the power away from those regrets. They'll never go away completely. But their power can be reduced down to a mere reminder for you to do better in the future. Let your ego grow, and focus on what's ahead of you.

[Anonymous No.18571803]

>>18569800
Is this actually good, or just rambling?

[Anonymous No.18571820]

>>18569697
>borderline anorexic
if you aren't looking to get buff, just eat more

[Anonymous No.18571830]

>>18571780
>I wish I had a book recommendation for you
I don't think that's necessary.
>Let your ego grow, etc
You're unironically very wise, thanks for the advice.

[Anonymous No.18571839]

also, why not post this on /adv/ instead of /lit/?

[Anonymous No.18571860]

>>18569720
How do you meet people

[Anonymous No.18571898]

>>18571860
saddle your goose and hit your local saloon!

[Anonymous No.18571924]

>>18571860
For me the easiest places to socialize have always been places where we're both stuck together for an extended period, like work or a class. I've made friends with people that I never would have talked to otherwise because of my social retardation, most of them being real life actual girls (female). McJobs are great places to meet people because you automatically have something to talk about and you're both probably miserable to be there which gives you something to bond over. I even went on my first date with a girl from my McJob, she ended up ghosting me but still that's the most success I've ever had with a girl.

[Anonymous No.18572080]

>>18569896
things can be both a symptom or a cause.
want to reverse the process? start with something you can do at home, for no investment
a drug addict has reason to usedrugs as.a coping mechanism, but they inevitably make their life worse and quitting drugs is the first thing a therapist would make them do to fix themselves

[Anonymous No.18572186]

>>18569704
fpbp, OP should just become the gf already

[Anonymous No.18572216]

>>18569917
I thought working out every day was bad

[Anonymous No.18572331]

>>18569697
>skinny
>quite
>virgin
>domestic
you should read anti-oedipus and then figure out you should transition lmao

[Anonymous No.18572395]

>>18570258
they didn't have pdfs in the bronze age anon
tsk. fell at the first hurdle

[Anonymous No.18572643]

work your way through this one

[Anonymous No.18572651]

>>18569697
wrong attitude, you should by all means learn to love your symptoms, read lacan and zizek fuckface, read them in one sitting in pic related

[Anonymous No.18572786]

>>18571696
You deserve everything good in life

[Anonymous No.18573860]

>>18572651
where is this

[Anonymous No.18573880]

>>18572643
english translation or gtfo

[Anonymous No.18574004]

>>18571860
>>18571860
Pick a bar/cafe/venue, go there once a week, same time of day, for 3 months, guarantee you'll make friends

[Anonymous No.18574037]

>>18573860
Frankfurt. It's Adorno's desk enshrined by glass. As a monument to his thinking and work.

[Anonymous No.18574056]

>>18569697
>I am a white male
Doubt, post eyes

[Anonymous No.18574070]

>>18574037
Ah I thought it was like a public desk you could sit and chill in. I suppose that's kinda dumb as it would be graffitied or covered in cum or set on fire within the first x days.

[Anonymous No.18574107]

>>18574004
What does one do alone at any of those places? Order.
Be lonely til the order arrives.
Chug it down since you don't have anything else to do as there's nobody with you there.
Go home.
These places are for people with friends already.

[Anonymous No.18574116]

>>18569697
But the real question is, what's the goal? What are you trying to do?

[Anonymous No.18574164]

>>18574116
attain booba obv

[Anonymous No.18574213]

>>18569697
>Undercover Sex Signals
>Practical Female Psychology for the Practival Man
>Way of tthe Superior Man
>The Second Mountain
>The Social Animal
>How to Talk to Anyone

[Anonymous No.18574221]

>>18574107
>anon can't even imagine talking to another person at a bar

[Anonymous No.18574224]

>>18574164
What a lowly goal. May as well get a prostitute.

[Anonymous No.18574231]

>>18574221
Maybe this just works different in different countries, but where I'm from people just stick to their friend groups.

[Anonymous No.18574265]

>>18574213

Patrician Taste
Pure Chad Kino

[Anonymous No.18574307]

>>18569697
Hot tits

[Anonymous No.18574489]

>>18574037
There's something a bit too bourgeois for my tastes about this sort of self-deification. Like giving you and your fellow bougie boys a gold medal for being the best bougie mandarins there ever was.

I don't know, there's something really tasteless about it.

[Anonymous No.18574500]

>>18574489
>self-deification
Adorno didn't encase his own desk in glass lol

[Anonymous No.18574533]

>>18574500
Of course he didn't, but his buddies certainly did not oppose it, it would seem.

I meant self-deification in the sense that the bourgeoisie is prone to this sort of unironic self-congratulating shit that they mocked the aristocrats of yore for. It comes off as the bourgeois equivalent of Arno Breker statues.

[Anonymous No.18574561]

>>18574533
>20th century sculptor
>not bourgeois
ok

[Anonymous No.18574605]

>>18574164
Pathetic kike

[Anonymous No.18574611]

>>18569697
Self-Reliance, by Ralph Waldo Emerson. From there read Camus, Hemingway, Jack London, Hunter S. Thompson, and other archtypal men.

[Anonymous No.18574659]

Where there posts deleted from the thread?

[Anonymous No.18574692]

>>18574659
Nevermind, it was in a different thread

[Anonymous No.18575168]

>>18569697
Join the military or at least the reserves. I was in the exact same boat as you are and two years in the military have really helped me with all the things you've mentioned

[Anonymous No.18575185]

>>18575168
It helps with masturbation and wasting time as well.

[Anonymous No.18575222]

>>18570017
based coomer

[Anonymous No.18575245]

Study taoism, it will definitely help with leading a virtuous and "straightened up" life. Just focus on building healthy habits, letting go of your addictions, basically learning self-discipline, in which The Book of Chuang Tzu will guide you.

>>18575168
>Kill goat herders for Mr. Shekleberg while risking your own life as well
That's a great idea anon, I'm sure OP will consider enlisting now.

[Anonymous No.18575249]

>>18569697
red book

[Anonymous No.18575254]

>>18575245
Yeah the army isn't in a good way, all across the west.
I would avoid that, personally

[Anonymous No.18575261]

Regarding the woman in the picture, she looks perfect in every way but one. I've seen this post a couple times in the past 24 hours and just realized her one flaw. Her hair looks rather thin. But damn, does she still look good.

[Anonymous No.18575334]

>>18569697
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[Anonymous No.18575765]

>>18569697
I can recommend 12 rules for life. It's exactly what you asked for: A book on how to take responsibility for yourself and become someone you are not ashamed for being. Brilliantly written, not too preachy and with great examples.

Best of luck on your journey.

[Anonymous No.18576066]

>>18569697
Try the practical stuff that others recommend, it's okay to be in your moment. But also, you have to understand that you live in a society...that's dying. This is first and foremost the reason you are how you are. You would have thrived and lived a satisfying life as a medieval peasant (this is not an insult). Then you could have ridden the arc of your civilization, now the arc of your civilization rides you.

Have a look at Nietzsche, the prophet of European nihilism. It's easy to get swept away by his style or to historicalize him but its best to think about him as heralding a crisis that our civilization has yet to resolve. Then you can read thinkers who follow as fellow travelers who share your struggle looking for something to be a part of, and for a place to stand.

[Anonymous No.18576075]

>>18576066
>Have a look at Nietzsche, the prophet of European nihilism. It's easy to get swept away by his style or to historicalize him but its best to think about him as heralding a crisis that our civilization has yet to resolve.
where do I start with nietzsch?
>Then you can read thinkers who follow as fellow travelers who share your struggle looking for something to be a part of, and for a place to stand
Sound comfy, and recommendations with this theme?

[Anonymous No.18576238]

>>18576075
Zarathustra and Twilight of the Idols are on point. Or anything really. He's a great writer but the key is to remember that he's a man in the past reacting to a set of historical circumstances, yes, but that that set of circumstances has grown and metastasized, not reduced itself to a historical novelty. If you're native anglo, buy The Portable Nietzsche. You'll know in mere pages whether your own spiritual crisis derives from this historical crisis or just from overfilled balls.

Your second question is much harder. It's not at all comfy. If we'd found a way out, we wouldn't be floundering in this void. All of 20th century European culture tries to answer the questions you'll find in Nietzsche (and others -- he didn't invent the crisis, merely crystallized it). But first just read him and think about how things would be different for you in a world with meaning. Kierkegaard (an antecedent), Camus (French) and Spengler (German) are three worth reading for different reasons. But the big up is to locate your own despair in the systematic despair. Then you will find lots of like minds to talk to.

[Anonymous No.18576274]

>>18576238
quality post, ty anon

[Anonymous No.18576295]

Get a random part-time job. Try to put yourself over your coworkers. Its the only way lad.

[Anonymous No.18576322]

>>18569825
>huge first step
give me a break

[Anonymous No.18576404]

>>18571860
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcRU8VrYUfM

>>18574004
do this with something else than drinking - something you like.

[Anonymous No.18576425]

Jezebel posters are non-readers.

[Anonymous No.18576588]

>>18572216
Get at least 30 minutes of exercise in every day. I'd recommend lifting weights 3-5 days and go for a walk in nature or swim or something.

[Anonymous No.18577309]

>>18575261
To be fair, she's a Playboy model. Would be bad if she weren't hot.

[Anonymous No.18577528]

>>18576404
While his base point to "Just socialize" is correct, he's a little bit retarded.
>"haha girls who dress up really nicely and take good care of themselves to look as hot as possible are sick of people hitting on them. Really tired of it."

[Anonymous No.18577855]

>>18569697
Bitch has nice tits I'd like to fuck her ass.

[Anonymous No.18577864]

>>18569697
go search job listings for 'laborer' and start there

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18577911]

>>18576425
Nonsense

[Anonymous No.18578231]

>>18572216
I've done it before for a few months and it wasn't bad
It was just annoying
Having a break day was always fun to look forward

[Anonymous No.18578361]

>>18577911
you're only confirming what anon said

[Anonymous No.18578422]

>>18577911
Fuck off blowfly

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18578458]

>>18578361
I am one of the only readers on the board, anon. I am not proving his point, I am Calling it out as nonsense.

[Anonymous No.18578761]

>>18569697
What the fuck? Is that Mikhaila Peterson?

[Anonymous No.18579323]

>>18578761
It's Sabrina Nichole.

[Anonymous No.18579352]

>>18569697
Get a job

[Anonymous No.18579393]

>>18569697
This may be an unpopular opinion, but I think the most important thing out of all of these is getting a job. I was in a similar situation not too long ago (granted it was only for around a year), and eventually managed to force myself to get a shitty job at a supermarket. Working there (while boring) gave me a sense of purpose and helped a lot with my anxiety. Even met a cute girl working there, something which had not happened in forever. Everything started looking up and I finally got a new job where I could actually use my degree. Nowadays, I wouldn't call myself happy, but when I look back on how I was in that pit of despair, I am very thankful to be out of it.

As a side note, lots of anons are recommending books above (this is a book recommendation thread after all), but at the end of the day you need to remember that books are just another distraction. A way for you to avoid your real problems, under a guise of 'becoming more cultured/intellectual'. Read books sure, but with moderation. Also, eat & drink water lol, as pointed out above, no excuse not to do these things.

[Anonymous No.18579492]

>>18569697
stop saving pictures of women you don’t know for a start

[Anonymous No.18579640]

>>18569790
5 years here, it doesn't get better, you may try to improve yourself but you will relapse.
The last 7 months were the worst ever, all through out february, everyday, every hour I couldn't stop thinking of killing myself, but how much easier it would be if I could just cease to exist and everyone forgot I ever existed.

[Anonymous No.18579647]

>>18578231
He's talking about how lifiting everyday is bad, you need 2-3 break days throughout the week for the muscles to heal themselves, otherwise you won't build any muscle.

[Anonymous No.18579658]

Learn to like yourself, or at least not hate yourself. People sense when you hate yourself, and they don't want to be in the company of sad people.

Learn that the only way to get better in social settings is to be in social settings, it's amazing how good you get at conversing after just a few days of chatting with people.

[Anonymous No.18579685]

>>18576404
>Taking advice from Vaush
>The Autistic retard who literally copied all his takes and philosophy from his daddy.
>An obese retard that doesn't follow any of his advice with women, who literally sexually harassed an autistic girl, and refused to apologize or admit it for months(still hasn't apologized)
>His Girlfriend is an obese, ugly, ogre.
>He's obsessed with horse cock.
Good luck with that chief, I'd rather take advice from my favorite liberal manlet who has been fucking like a rabbit since he was in high school.

[Anonymous No.18579691]

>>18579685
You forgot
>tries to rationalize pedophilia

[Anonymous No.18579977]

>>18572643
ik ook

[Anonymous No.18579984]

>>18569697
jt;dr

[Anonymous No.18580134]

>>18569800
Na, Bronze Age Mindset is retarded, start with the Greeks

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18580160]

Eat healthier, get off online, get into something (offline) like, I donno, agriculture or mycelium packaging, whatever.

>>18579492
Stop talking to people online you don’t know.

[Anonymous No.18580167]

>>18571637
Watching porn=coomer
Yes, images count

[Anonymous No.18580178]

>>18576075
>Where do I start with Nietzsche
With the Greeks

[Anonymous No.18580186]

>>18575185
This so much

[Anonymous No.18580860]

>>18569704
>cut girl
makes u think

[Anonymous No.18580920]

>>18571719
did this last night thanks to that pic. 3 hours.

[Anonymous No.18580947]

The amount of "help I need books because I'm a mess" threads increased exponentially after 2016.

[Anonymous No.18581725]

>>18572331
>>18569704
This haha...

[Anonymous No.18581786]

>>18581725
>those hands
YWNBAW

[Anonymous No.18581808]

>>18581725

Trannies just can't comprehend that just because you look like a woman doesn't mean you are one.

[Anonymous No.18581854]

>>18578458
every day your supermassive ego finds new ways to surprise me

[Anonymous No.18582165]

>>18581808
It's hilarious when trannies try and past off as woman.
It always comes off as unnatural, because the way they act is the way that they THINK a woman would act.
When you actually take more then two seconds to look at the finite differences between men and woman, they become clear and easily identifiable.
Diction, decision make, in group and out group preferences etc. Trannies never understand this, and can never fully capture how a woman acts as a result.

[Anonymous No.18582210]

>>18582165

True.

[Anonymous No.18582356]

>>18571696
Based.

[Anonymous No.18582399]

>>18569697
Just be confident like when you were a kid. Think about meeting/talking to people as an opportunity to have fun/make a new friend rather than some challenge to overcome. All your anxiety comes from your thinking patterns. Be aware of this and change them. I was in your situation and this worked for me.

[Anonymous No.18582599]

>>18582399
This only works if you were sociable as a kid lol. I have always hated being with people as far as I can remember.

[Anonymous No.18583487]

>>18581786
>>18581808
>>18582165
Trannies aren't women but you just have to act like they are. Just like with black people and respect towards them.

[Anonymous No.18583702]

>>18583487
kek

[Anonymous No.18584079]

>>18581725
I would fuck him

[Anonymous No.18584085]

>>18584079
Anon no

[Anonymous No.18584112]

>>18583487
Thanks deano

[Anonymous No.18584232]

>>18569697
I shouldn't tell you this, but Hugo's Les Miserables will probably cure you.

[Anonymous No.18585207]

>>18569697
Chances are you're smart so just apply yourself, get really good at something, and become successful. Focus on your strengths not weaknesses. People can respect a skinny guy who is socially awkward if he's really good at what he does.

[Anonymous No.18585215]

>>18580947
The digital age is fucking destroying us. People are forgetting how to be human, and what's even worse is that they're also bombarded by success stories and perfect images. It's kind of fucked up. That's just my armchair take though.

[Anonymous No.18585885]

>>18584085
Don't, let him do his thing.

[Anonymous No.18586550]

>>18569697
Why has this semen demon stayed on the board or over two days?

[Anonymous No.18586677]

>>18574004
This is actually good advice. OP try this

[Anonymous No.18586723]

>>18585215
You're absolutely correct. the internet is a cancer that ultimately worsens quality of life rather than improves it. It's 50% outrage porn, 40% meaningless arguments, 10% actually good stuff.
(Yet here we are... on the internet...)

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18586819]

>>18586550
Why not? Beauty is very lit related.
Stay on topic

[Anonymous No.18586865]

>>18581725
Does she have nudes yet? I want to see her penis.

[Anonymous No.18586890]

>>18586819
That better be a selfie, otherwise you need to GTFO

[Anonymous No.18586913]

>>18569825
This is the answer you need.

That fact that you have those coomer pictures is as much if a warning sign as bad teeth is to a heroin addict.

Just try it, it’ll be the best thing you ever did.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18586917]

>>18586890
I don’t wear makeup. You gtfo

[Anonymous No.18586921]

>>18570020
Agreed.
>drugs are the only thing that keep
me going
>my addiction is the only thing that makes me happy.

Best anon can do for the human race is to kill himself to save the earth precious resources.

[Anonymous No.18586948]

>>18571637
It depends on how much it affects you. Only you can answer that but even though 4 times a week doesn't sound excessive I would take at least the small step of moving that to 3. The fact that you're doing it quickly rather than edging for hours is also good, as edging REALLY fucks with your hormones, thins your hair, gives you tits. For now go to three times a week and keep it quick, see what that does for you. The mistake people make with nofap is trying to go immediately from cooming nonstop to not touching their dick. The best way to overcome this particular addiction is to slowly step down and condition yourself off of it.

[Anonymous No.18587012]

>>18569697
I shouldn't help you because you did post a coomer bait, but whatever.

Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding and Healing of Men

It explains how did we (men) got fucked up in modern society. There is an interesting definition of "modern society": a society without rite of passage.

[Anonymous No.18587045]

>>18574004
>cafe
i don't drink alcohol. is it really customary to hit on girls in cafe's? i mean it seems about as acceptable as hitting on street women.

i don't partake in coffee either.

[Anonymous No.18587046]

>>18586917
You won't take a selfie because you are a balding tranny

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18587105]

>>18587046
We really wish you would stop making this thread about me, anon.
The reason I don’t post pictures should seem obvious by now. It’s because of the unwanted sexual advances and general harassment. The place wasn’t this bad ten years ago, but even then I knew I made a mistake. Now, shut up and leave me alone.

[Anonymous No.18587155]

>>18574489
It’s incredibly tacky, that’s all there is to it. Ironically, nobody could sniff out tackiness better than Adorno.

[Anonymous No.18587978]

>>18569697
You don't need no book, you just need to start injecting steroids.

[Anonymous No.18589251]

>>18569825
>>18569844
>>18569854
Stop samefagging.

[Anonymous No.18589994]

>>18569697
your use of ugly words illustrates your dire straits

[Anonymous No.18590027]

>>18586948
>edging REALLY fucks with your hormones, thins your hair, gives you tits
Source for this?

[Anonymous No.18590043]

>>18589251
Bruh. I don't think that those anons are samefagging.
Doesn't change the fact that porn is bad for you

[Anonymous No.18590119]

>>18589251
>t. coomer

[Anonymous No.18590150]

>>18581725
Do you guys honestly think he looks like a girl when he wakes up in the morning with no makeup?

[Anonymous No.18590158]

>>18590150
No and he barely looks like one here

[Anonymous No.18590196]

>>18572216
Work out different musclegroups on different days of the week and you'll always be giving some groups some rest.
I do
>back and biceps
>chest and triceps
>leg
so that each group gets two days of rest before revisiting.

[Anonymous No.18590248]

>>18572216
If you're busy with work or college, I recommend a full-body routine, three days/week.

[Anonymous No.18590402]

>>18575765
Absolute, utter garbage.

[Anonymous No.18590472]

>>18590027
First-hand experience.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18590637]

>>18590472
Male pattern baldness affects a large percentage. It’s tied to too much testosterone actually. Did your pamphlet tell you excessive masturbation drives up testosterone levels?
Excessive sugars and/or drinking is why you’re flabby.

[Anonymous No.18591047]

>>18586819
Butterfly likes bimbos? Weird...

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591074]

>>18591047
Bimbos are usually described as the silicone injected sorts. Sabrina is natural and rather cute

[Anonymous No.18591102]

>>18591047
Who is this?

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591136]

>>18591102
Sabrina Nichole

[Anonymous No.18591175]

>>18591136
Wow never heard of this girl before but I've seen catfishes of her on dating apps in my area before.

[Anonymous No.18591295]

>>18590637
>tranny bends over backwards to justify his self-destructive habit
Like clockwork

[Anonymous No.18591316]

>>18590637

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591378]

>>18591295
Schizo

>>18591316
Seriously?

[Anonymous No.18591386]

>>18570020
Not an argument

[Anonymous No.18591409]

>>18591378
Yeah it actually works.
I've tried it for the last 6 weeks and I've noticed my hairline growing back where it had previously been receding.

[Anonymous No.18591452]

>>18569697
Bet this bitch is hideous without the two pounds of makeup on her gob.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591459]

>>18591409
So guys with hairy backs are just getting regular massages?

[Anonymous No.18591474]

>>18591459
Genetics are the main factor with that.
But I guess it works across the rest of the body?
I didn't know you liked hairy men butterfly

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591534]

>>18591474
I never said any such thing

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18591725]

>>18591474
You reminded me of this Wim Hof guy. Maybe it’s a similar principle

[Anonymous No.18592344]

[Anonymous No.18593301]

>>18592344
That's me lol.

[Anonymous No.18594504]

>>18580947
Trump really fucked us up, huh...

[Anonymous No.18594565]

>>18594504
This goes far deeper then Trump.
It is the rot and decay of a liberal consumerist culture spewing out after decades of it festering under the surface for so long.

[Anonymous No.18594682]

>>18571860
Join a gym and later a sport club. It would kill two birds with one stone (getting fit and making friends). Make sure to pick an independent gym with regulars.

[Anonymous No.18594688]

>>18572216
Yes, it is. You need at least 1 day to rest. Workout for 3 days, rest 1, work out for 3 days, etc.

[Anonymous No.18594928]

>>18569697
read all the books from tes4.

[Anonymous No.18594995]

>>18569697
Alright buddy, heres what you do.

1. Start lifting (Or start doing some kind of exercise, weight lifting is best)
2. Apply for a job (Probably a grocery store or fast food restaurant)
3. Stop Fapping (Strive is free)
4. Get yourself a schedule
5. Go to church, get involved in your community

As simple as that.

If you want reading materials read classical philosophy (Plato, Aristotle, Stoics), The bible and pick me up books. (Literature which is wholesome, good and inserts in you a want to live and act. Ernst Junger, Existentialists, etc. I would recommend Junger and Chesterton for sure)

[Anonymous No.18595003]

>>18569697
CAN THIS THREAD FUCKING DIE?!?! IVE JERKED OFF TO THIS IMAGE 100 TIMES AT THIS POINT FOR CHRISSAKE

[Anonymous No.18595008]

>>18594995
strive?

[Anonymous No.18595013]

>>18595003
NO
BREAK YOU DICK COOMER

[Anonymous No.18595018]

>>18595008
An online program that is supposed to help you get off of porn. Been doing it recently and it helps a lot. A lot of my friends also did it and they're doing alright too.

[Anonymous No.18595111]

>>18587105
but ur ugly

[Anonymous No.18595123]

>>18595018
holy shot, im so happy that i actually reached a point in nofap where i dont need to (and sometimes even have repulsion for) porn. looking at you guys make me kek.
anyway, my suggestion is just doubling the amount of days where you dont watch porn.
(example: you used to watch 1 porn each day. watch it once every 2 days. when you got used to that, watch it once every 4 days, and so on and so forth). after 15 days without porn, watch the most hardcore shit you used to watch. you'll see if you will actually jerk off or not to that shit.
i stopped watching it after that. now i just dont want to break the streak.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18595136]

>>18595003
Show some self restraint

>>18595111
And yet the sexual harassment continues. Notice how that works?

[Anonymous No.18595143]

>>18577911
>>18578458
>>18580160
>>18586819
>>18586917
>>18587105
>>18590637
>>18591074
>>18591136
>>18591378
>>18591459
>>18591534
>>18591725

[Anonymous No.18595215]

>>18595123
tl;dr, all addictions. Just try to delay a little bit longer next time you do it, whatever it is you're doing. You'll enjoy it more when you do, and you'll feel better when you do AND don't. It's the win win at the heart of every addiction; fear of accepting this fundamental beauty at the heart of reciprocation.

[Anonymous No.18595423]

>>18569896
Ngmi

[Anonymous No.18595725]

>>18569917
Black coffee is ok

[Anonymous No.18595763]

>>18569704
Based

[Anonymous No.18595807]

>>18571924
Nice:) I‘m happy for you anon

[Anonymous No.18596031]

>>18589251
Why does the very idea of someone ceasing to touch their penis upset you so?

[Anonymous No.18596244]

>>18594995
>>18569896

Why is everyone against cumming? Maybe I'm not an addict but I cum almost everyday (not in a woman) and I function fine. No fap just feels like another way for people to try and develop a level sort of self control at something in the hopes they can apply that self control to maybe dieting or socializing, at the cost of having omega combrain from never cumming

[Anonymous No.18597117]

>>18569790
THESE CAPTCHAS SUCK WTF

[Anonymous No.18597138]

>>18571803
It is good and it is rambling.

[Anonymous No.18597153]

>>18596244
Haven't jerked off in over a year and I feel way less impulsive about sex than when I used to jerk off multiple times daily, back then i would start browsing 4chan and the moment i stumbled on porn i'd most likely start whacking it, now I'm almost unfazed, at most I save the picture if I think it's good reference (I draw).

I think it's nice being free of vice and being able to choose wether i do something or not, so far abstaining made me command my body very well rather than develop "le omega coombrain".

Other benefits I developed is that now I'm able to run 10+ km daily without almost wanting to die and I keep it increasing, I gained some slight muscular mass, enough to replace my man tits with pecs and I eat less so i also got fitter, if you must know, when I was still struggling and I faltered, my erections were significantly stronger, lasted longer, came a lot more and I think my dick even grew a bit.

I don't expect you to believe this because honestly I still don't either, but there is nothing but good things expecting anyone that isn't a Godless animal.

[Anonymous No.18597168]

>>18597153
Good job anon!
You stand as an inspiration for us all.

[Anonymous No.18597175]

>>18596244

>I'm not an addict
>i just snort coke daily
>and I function fine
>by snorting coke daily

People wasting 1/3 of their time on earth in fondling their genitals to inject their brains with happy feel good sensations is the definition of dysfunctional-

[Anonymous No.18597188]

>>18597153
>>18597168
>I stopped masturbating because it's bad for you
>I still post on 4chan though :)

[Anonymous No.18597203]

>>18597188
Last time I checked, I don't remember porn ever giving me any book recommendations, or any advice on workouts, or how to save money.
4chan has a place as a tool. Porn is wholly destructive.
But you already knew that, didn't you anon?

[Anonymous No.18597204]

>>18597188
Bumping an epic threadv84pk

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18597227]

>>18597203
>. Porn is wholly destructive.
A lot of it can be sleazy, too much is obviously obsess, but it’s not “wholly destructive”.
The obsession with violence many people have is wholly destructive

[Anonymous No.18597235]

>>18574037
there can be no more poetry

[Anonymous No.18597265]

>>18597227
You're opinion doesn't count.
And your objectively wrong, porn causes a host of problems, and serves no purpose outside of about 15 seconds of gratification.
Terrible strawman butterfly. You need to do better.

[Anonymous No.18597289]

>>18597265
You can't stop me from browsing e621.

[Anonymous No.18597312]

>>18597265
>Porn is bad
>Not advertising
>Not consumerism
>Not social media
>Not 4chan
lmao

[Anonymous No.18597652]

>>18597265
Porn has good and bad sides, that's enough.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!bGBGaUpA8kS No.18597696]

>>18597265
>posts emike jones
You're opinion doesn't count

>your objectively wrong _____
??

[Anonymous No.18597811]

>>18597203
>>18597265
>all this mental gymnastics for basic bitch self-discipline

[Anonymous No.18599279]

>>18579640
just read sartre and quit whining you fucking pussy

[Anonymous No.18599361]

>>18590472
That's completely idiotic. Could be any number of things eg your shit diet or your couch potato lifestyle and irregular sleep schedule. Can't magically blame it all on edging

[Anonymous No.18599461]

>>18569697

[Anonymous No.18599564]

>>18570258

[Anonymous No.18599880]

>>18579393
This is spot on

[Anonymous No.18600385]

>>18597188
Honestly 4chan is inordinately poisonous for the psyche, far more than masturbation ever could be. It doesn't help that 4chan and masturbation are probably linked for a lot of anons.

[Anonymous No.18601426]

>>18569720
>>18569917
>>18572216
If he is borderline anorexic, he needs a doctor/shrink first before he should work out.

[Anonymous No.18602274]

Just have sex.

[Anonymous No.18602308]

>>18600385
>4chan is inordinately poisonous for the psyche,
Porn addictions have been found to be similar in terms of effects to the brain as an addiction to drugs like heroin or cocaine.
I'll go out on a limb and say that it's leagues worse then 4chan. Though, internet consumption as a whole should be moderated

[Anonymous No.18602519]

>>18571643
the activity doesn't vitalize as much as people believe it to do which is why there is always a lackluster response from it

[Anonymous No.18602579]

>>18597312
Fair, but you can only escape 3 of the things you mentioned without going full ted mode. social media, and by extension 4chan(nel) and porn, advertising is literally everywhere, but you can indeed refrain from it and consumerism to a point.

[Anonymous No.18603623]

Jacking off is good because it feels good. Prove me wrong.

[Anonymous No.18603634]

>>18603623
>if only it was as easy to banish ones hunger by rubbing ones belly

[Anonymous No.18603649]

>>18603623
With that logic, Heroin would be excellent for you anon

[Anonymous No.18603655]

>>18602308
Never got why people felt the need for all those fetishes. For me cute girls with big tits have always been enough.

[Anonymous No.18603665]

>>18603655
Porn is like a drug.
After a while, the hits that once satisfied your cravings no longer do. So you go father, and father to get that next hit.

[Anonymous No.18603684]

>>18603665
Well not in my case.

[Anonymous No.18603690]

>>18603684
Count yourself lucky then

[Anonymous No.18603691]

>>18603665
Yeah, well. Don't become an addict. Don't turn to feet, feces, and lolikon. Get a real woman and become like Ed Bundy

[Anonymous No.18603710]

Bros can you help me too. I don't even know how or where to make friends. Never had in past Middle School(I only even knew like 2 people during High School). And by now I've grown so accustomed to being alone I have no drive to make friends or even know how if I wanted to.

[Anonymous No.18605148]

>>18603665
So the solution to porn addiction is becoming a father?

[Anonymous No.18606045]

>>18569800
This

[Anonymous No.18606420]

>>18605148
Yes and not getting addicted to porn.
And if you're already addicted, work towards conquering your addiction

[Anonymous No.18606774]

>>18595143
too bad there are still faggtos defending it, claiming it posts some insight

[Anonymous No.18608278]

bump

[Anonymous No.18608319]

Could someone please recommend >>18569697
>Books about how to straighten up?

[Anonymous No.18609038]

>>18603649
Yes, it is.

[Anonymous No.18609514]

Thanks guys, I love you all.

[Anonymous No.18609796]

>>18569697
lol every guy these days
>whats wrong with me
Meanwhile >50% women
>I should try doing porn for money