/lit/ - Literature

>>16228720
it's cringy you fucktard unless your parents allowed a really sweet pedo to date you when you were 13 and you were a female or you got railed at a younger age as a male

>>16228720
>teen lust*

>>16228735

>>16228738
Two anons who never had a passionate summer relationship in their teens.

the bible

>>16228720
Literally the most overrated and weakest form of love. Read about two people who find each other in middle age instead.

>>16228840
listen bro you either have not grown since then or it was super cringy

>>16228870
>Read about two people who find each other in middle age instead.
recs?

>>16228887
>love
>middle age

>>16228873
kek

>a passionate summer relationship

>>16228870
>Falling in love with a middle-aged woman is true love
False. Read the Symposium. The purest form of love is finding a teenage boy and teaching him about philosophy so he'll suck your dick

>>16228893
Are you implying there's no such thing? Not even the subject of fiction?

>>16228720
Meet someone who has experienced teen love. How grateful are they that they have? Do they behave how you think you'd behave had you experienced it? Maybe if you brought it up to them they'd say 'yeah I guess that was good', but overall they probably rarely think about it and are unaffected.

How grateful are you that you are not so poor you are on the verge of starving? You probably never even notice because you don't know what it's like without them. But a starving person would give up a lot to trade with you. It is the exact same thing, what you are coping with is not, not having experienced teen love, but rather your thoughts about how you mentally think you would be if you had experienced teen love, which you have no basis for because they are just projections.

What about books on missing out on teen love because of autistic self-sabotage?

Hunger by Hamsun?

>>16228922
if you're middle aged and still waiting for the one you're a moron. You shack up w some stupid whore who didn't think ahead and pop out a few babies and love your children. Who tf wants to read about 40 year old men "relearning what love means" or reenacting hs

embrace rapeism and become a rapist

Love. Loyalty. Lineage. Legacy.

>>16228720
Teen love was bullshit, it's the same lie that anime is selling weebs about waifus, it's not real, you didn't miss anything because there's nothing to miss

>>16228720
>Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.

>>16228965
Nah bro, that is some cope shit. I'm down for not being superficial and all but telling a Jew to suck it up that you're too much of a pussy to free them means your bitchass hasn't been through fire yet.

>>16228991
>To draw an analogy: a man's suffering is similar to the behavior of a gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering is great or little. Therefore the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative.

>>16228923
Based
You can apply this to many other achievements, or spooks as I like to call them, society markets in the media these days

Stop trying to model life like it's a movie and 99% of the self-imposed "issues" you /r9k/ niggers bleat about will evaporate. You never cared to begin with and only do now because you're told to, feeling bad in retrospect for not reaching some arbitrary goalpost. There's alot of power in rejecting the world views imposed on you by others. Program or be programmed.

But this might be one big cope.

Childhood love is very innocent and is now a fond memory in later years. My first kiss was the summer before 3rd grade. A girl my age lived next door to the guy my mother was dating at the time. Can't recall how we came to be affiliated but as kids do we ended up talking and playing together. Time goes on and we get closer, as a very young boy and girl do. One day we are playing down in a creek with a sewer tunnel entrance. We would always play down there. Often we would go down the tunnel only to chicken out when it got too dark further down the tunnel. She had a little brother too, even younger than we were. He was a nuisance if I'm being honest, we both kinda felt that way. We just wanted to play and be together without the distraction. Well, time goes on and one day we are playing down by the creek. I challenge her to a race and we take off from the tunnel back to our houses. As we're running next to each other, we share a glance. The glance is the glance that you know something is going to happen. As we're both running, we both lean over and share a little kiss. More of a peck but a kiss nonetheless. Then as any somewhat embarrassed would do, I took off running even faster to beat her to the houses. That was my first kiss. She was very cute then and I'm sure she is probably a babe now. Hope she is well. Would suck to be the anon who doesn't have a moment of childhood love.

>>16229098
holy shit yes, being raped or tortured is as bad as having an eating disorder or cheating on ur boyfriend and him finding out like an absolute jerk. Get that liberal shit out of here

>>16229428
Yeah I didn't get shit so I think y'all should torture someone else

>>16228720
Teen love was just me missing hints from my girlfriends that they wanted to have premarital sex, I was 18 when I realised what my tomboy gf I had at 13 meant when she said "I shaved everywhere last night, EVERYWHERE, for your benefit", you didn't miss out on much. The only good teen love to be sad about missing out on is innocent homoerotic play. Also read My Twisted World desu

>>16228920
based

>>16229474
fear not, love is the same at any age. the only difference is the eyes through which you see it, i suppose. if you're looking for love anon, go out and find some rather than posting on 4chan

>>16228720
In terms of coping.
Ever heard of the cliche Kübler-Ross model?
Its relevant.
Creating psychological tools to deal with yourself is of a battle that you have to take a part in, takes a while.
Psychology helps a lot, just don't go too deep.

What helps?
Allow yourself to open up.
All emotions that you would deem crazy or silly, let that out in privacy, accept all your thoughts and be completely open with yourself.
You can't change your point of view without understanding yourself.

And remember ONLY when you value your own self you can be happy.
Focus on finding ways to return to the state where all that is important is you.
We are all shallow and egoistic, don't be afraid of that, it's probably your only driving force right now and so is for many others, if not all.

Never visit /r9k/ that is the peak of degeneracy, its like keep using heroin to chase a dream you are not ready to go after.

And when you stress too much, jack-off 20 times and tell me how much chase of dopamines or oxytocins matter?

>>16229569
I'm trying to die, I can't jerk off I can't have sex w ppl I'm brainwashed and pestered to be despised. Any viewpoint or anything I do is attacked. I've survived multiple lynching and I've lost my family and friends. I can't socialize w ppl and I don't feel great ever. I've spent getting close to 3 years attempting to be raped, castrated, in relationships, having sex, in turbo ideological turmoil or running away to different countries. I don't have it in me. If y'all are really separate from these psychopaths physically you are not spiritually and I certainly hope every one of you burn in hell for leeching blood for your dead dried dick and your inability to provoke Jerry springer shit but your adoration of it. I barely have a consciousness and have been lied to and fucked w and humiliated for simply doing what I thought was the right thing. I pray to God the chinese torture I beg God to do it i beg God you are in extreme for the whole of your life span.

>>16229470
were you raped and tortured? No, you are probably privileged compared to 99 percent of people who ever lived. The guy who made that quote was literally in the holocaust, stop being butthurt about shit that doesn't matter

>>16229760
there is nothing you can pay me or do for me that will ever deserve you not getting an axe stuck in your head and living for the rest of your life w it in. If there's any justice me warning the Chinese will pay dividends

>>16229770
that was a point your moron and you just proved it. And I pray to God every day why he didn't shove me in the holocaust. That is a cake walk you bitch faggot

>>16229760
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbQr70rfwQg

>>16229760
>this post

>>16229786
Idgaf about some faggot who got the easy way out in being gassed w their loved ones. Ive been paraded around and brainwashed so u faggots can have sex and I don't have control over my body

>>16228720
teenage lust is cool, teenage love is cringe imo it's love at its worst most precocious state.

>>16229801
yw it's a real human you're torturing for sex you disgusting cockroach. Birds have more soul than yall and i proved it

There's a girl I really like, bros, and I think I might have a chance
Should I just ask her out?

>>16229839
what do you want creep to be a victim? To paint me as evil so you feel justified? Animals have more soul than you and I've proven it

>>16228922
no, by middle age the best you can do is fining a woman who will marry you for your money

>>16229829
I'm not torturing you for sex

>>16228720
You don't need a book. Just brush it off for what it is. Shallow, awkward, and more often than not doomed infatuations peppered with inept administered handjobs.

Teenage love is a lie in almost all cases, though.

>>16228920
βαζηδ

>>16229879
>inept
-ly

>>16228887
harold and maude

>>16229876
but you are you're just not the one getting it but it fundamentally breaks down into that

>>16229903
She was old and he was a kid.

>>16229902
What?

I recommend reading books about fucked up things like blood meridian full of blood and suffering or maybe the war nerd books. Also, vote for the most racist warmongering parties that exist in your countries. you'll feel better when they invade someone or start killing immigrants, trust me

>>16229914
You're an evil creepy psychopath

>>16230009
where do you think you are

>>16229942
sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
>I was being quite serious
That's why I took your advice to heart

>>16228720
catcher in the rye
claus and lucas trilogy

>>16230043
on earth

>>16230070
and god created it only because suffering amuses him greatly

>>16230093
You will be punished

>>16230093
Idc if you're an irrealist or an atheist. You things r unfixable. Stfu and go jerk off to pedo porn u disgusting sodomite. Ur allies will eat u when they're ready

>>16228720
>59 posts
>2 books and a pdf

>>16229891
bazeed?
really?
fucking put in some effort

>>16230458
wait you actuall read η as "ee"?

>>16230470
Idk but I want to know, it's σ or ς for s and ε,right?

>>16230486
you read s in based as z so a zeta fits in there I think

>>16230500
I think of it as homophonic with baste

>>16230342
>coming to lit for books

>>16228923
damn based
it's all in your head

>It's been hopeless for a long time, from the very beginning. You will never represent, Raphaël, a young girl's erotic dream. You have to resign yourself to the inevitable; such things are not for you. It's already too late, in any case. The sexual failure you've known since your adolescence, Raphaël, the frustration that has followed you since the age of thirteen, will leave their indelible mark. Even supposing that you might have women in the future -- which in all frankness I doubt -- this will not be enough; nothing will ever be enough. You will always be an orphan to those adolescent loves you never knew.

>>16228735
Patents shouldn't allow it with anyone, period. I always thought it was inappropriate for parents to allow their teenagers to bring home boyfriends or girlfriends and allow them to copulate with their respective counterpart at their home. It seems a mental illness of modern civilization to allow this especially because it also implies that birth control is used as if this was -10,000 BC to 1960 A.D., the end result of this little sordid arrangement would have resulted in pregnancy therin marriage, so while parents permit this fooling around with any Tom, Dick and Harry, they certainly would not have permitted marriage to them. There isn't any point. Its just bad parents permitting hedonistic sex. Either they love someone and the parents allow courtship and marriage. It is ideal for 16 to 18 year olds to fall in love with and marry someone of equal or similar age.

>>16232320
Idk the only thing I've seen come out of the sex revolution is a new covert language. I haven't seen anyone become more democratic (except in mob fashion) or empathetic and certainly not intelligent. I just don't get the point.

>>16228720
>experienced teen love
>still think about suicide everyday

>>16228923
>it's another children in africa are starving argument

>>16228923
based, s/o stirner

>>16232299
>Adolescence is not only an important period in life, but that it is the only period where one may speak of life in the full sense of the word. The attractile drives are unleashed around the age of thirteen, after which they gradually diminish, or rather they are resolved in models of behaviour which are, after all, only constrained forces. The violence of the initial explosion means that the outcome of the conflict may remain uncertain for years; this is what is called a transitory regime in electrodynamics. But little by little the oscillations become slower, to the point of resolving themselves in mild and melancholic long waves; from this moment on all is decided, and life is nothing more than a preparation for death. This can be expressed in a more brutal and less exact way by saying that man is a diminished adolescent.

>>16228929
Bukowski, Ham on Rye.

Hipsters name drop him but... You will know when you get to the prom part

>>16229542
missing hints

Stop it anon it's all coming back arrrghhh

>>16228720
I never had teen love and don’t give a fuck. Only a failed normie would lament that

>>16232845
um yes cope department?

>>16232813
Should I visit a prostitute to lose virginity?

>>16232851
cope

>>16230062
>claus and lucas trilogy
based I didn't think anyone else read those books

>>16228951
Man there really is an -ism for everything these days

>>16228720
Just watch this instead
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coJjo3NmAEI

Me and my ex used to fuck almost everyday after school because all we know is pleasure. Now it haunts me that someday my own daughter might do the same

lolita is a great story about teen summer love

>>16233043

>>16228920
Can you change the boy to a girl?

>>16232299
is the movie based on this book good?
I'm too lazy to read right now

>>16233056
Lolita is a great story about a sperg being unable to let go of childhood romance

>>16228960
Lolis in summer are great, but lolis in winter are where it's really at. The cold air and a loli's body heat creates a contrast.

>>16233304
No

>>16233056
Lolis in summer are great, but lolis in winter are where it's really at. The cold air and a loli's body heat creates a contrast.

>>16233347
So what's Plato's (or Socrates's) reasoning for why it has to be a boy?

>>16233350
nigga are you actually a pedophile

>>16232856
I beg you, as someone who made this mistake and in doing so defiled and harmed my own spirit - please, if you have even a shred of love for beauty, don't lower yourself in this way

>>16232856
the fact that you're still a virgin (presumably in your 20s or older) is symptomatic of a deeper problem, like social anxiety or self hatred/no self esteem etc. having sex won't actually solve anything, especially with a prostitute.

>>16232856
no you should sit in front of your computer and post on chinese gardening board all day

>got married in 3rd grade
>we had a ceremony at recess where we exchanged ringpops and pecked each other on the lips
>moved 3 states away like a month later
>now i need to track down my wife and annul my marriage from 14 years ago in order to pursue other women
fugg

my first and last gf was when I was 5 years old. we met at pre school. i'd go to her house every day and we'd dress up and play mommies and daddies and get into bed and cuddle together. she moved to another state and i've been a hopeless incel ever since. she ruined me for other women.

>>16233593
>>16233601
normalfags get out
if you weren't a friendless loner in kindergarden already you don't belong on 4channel.org

>>16233613
it's true. i had other girls try to be my gf in grade/high school but i rejected all of them. none of them could compare to her. now i'm a 24 year old virgin.

>>16233601
i remember in kindergarten i made some girl i thought cute my girlfriend by putting her backpack away for her. i don't even remember what our relationship enticed except her sitting next to me in the reading circle or something. one day i decided i didn't want to lift that heavy ass backpack into her cubby everyday anymore. she took off her backpack and waited for me to take care of it. i just said "you're not my girlfriend anymore". she immediately bursted into tears and cried her eyes out; i just walked away. also the whole time i never knew her name.

>>16232856
Like this anon >>16233453 I also did the same thing and I echo his sentiment, don't do it.

>>16233644
t.

>>16229470
You obviously don't understand what Frankl is saying here. You should consider reading more often so that you can interact with literature in a more sophisticated manner

>>16232856
No. Go backpacking somewhere and lose it to some Australian chick in an hostel, you'll remember more fondly than some one night stand with a drunk landwhale. Seeing a prostitute will only crush your self-esteem and confidence in your sexual ability. Unless you are hideously deformed, I assure you that you can have sex with a woman without paying for it.

>>16233692
australian girls are the most obnoxious cunts on earth. don't do it
t. australian

>>16233705
this except without hte australian part

>>16233705
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y83l9TNgQS8

>>16232320
Have sex.

>>16232813
What a massive faggot. Man is only a diminished adolescent insofar as they allow their Ego to overcome their Will. Just because some literal who resigned himself to a life of wailing in his depressive musings doesn't mean everyone else resigns the same.

>>16233763
COPE

>>16233692
>>16233705
yeah cunts fuck off the aussie chicks are mine

>>16233763
i disagree with huelle on that, but this post outs you as a braindead normie

>>16233771
And your posts outs you as someone who has never had an original thought in their life and instead relies on other people to do the legwork. Unfortunately you'll never experience the joy of living your own life, as you are, after all, an NPC. You are designed for me to crash my car into, or for me to mug you on the way to work. Even though you won't feel anything, I'll feel it for the both of us. That is my mercy.

>>16228720
>coping with never experiencing teen love
you'll learn to cope when i punch your head in for actually spending your time thinking about such facile crap
that's a construction of your imagination. if you're reading this right now and you're thinking about 'teen love', 'the one', or 'the love of your life', go fuck yourself. fucking poo poo nugget head fucktard. i would bash your skull in if you were anywhere near me.

>>16233461
>is symptomatic of a deeper problem
not necessarily you kool aid slurping chimp. isaac newton died a virgin and accomplished more than you ever could if i gave you a pill which would extend your lifespan by a factor of ten thousand.
self loathing over virginal status is the obstacle, not virginity itself. the sooner the virgins undestand this the sooner my website will stop being shitted up.

>>16234254
>self loathing over virginal status is the obstacle, not virginity itself
That's basically what he said, isn't it?

>>16232320
Parents should permit hedonistic sex unless they want their kid to feel suicidal.

>>16232320
There were many methods of birth control in the ancient world

>>16234289
no. can you not read? he said being a virgin 'in your 20s or later' is 'symptomatic' of a 'deeper problem', by which he actually betrays that he's OverSocialized so hard that he internalized the surface level aspects of modern capital as some tangible reality.

not only is the idea of 'virginity in your 20s' a haunt made up of multiple spooks, but the idea of 'your 20s', as some portion of a railroaded fixed experience in which 'parts of life' are delineated in terms of decades wherein certain things should/should not happen, is itself a construct of the matrix and just social schema being puked up on here with no rhyme or reason to it.

you may think i'm bullshitting, but think about it for one second. you couldn't even begin to describe why 'virginity within the third decade of life' is a negative thing without conjuring up a pile of, to put it bluntly, retarded descriptions of 'interpersonal' experience, if not something even more facile and gay.

>>16234339
blah blah blah have sex virgin. it will fix all your problems

>>16234367
>it will fix all your problems
can confirm

>>16233692
> Go backpacking somewhere and lose it to some Australian chick in an hostel, you'll remember more fondly than some one night stand with a drunk landwhale
cannot believe the shit i read on here. i'm just imagining someone taking this retard's advice. this anon is probably eating corn straight out of the can right now. fucking 2 brain cells motherfucker. i wish i could toss you across a room into something hard and sharp

>>16232856
>>16232856
yes but pick a good looking one

>>16233352
He was a fag

>>16228720
>never experiencing teen love
Ok and? Teenagers don't know shit

>>16233593
Lulz

>>16233644
Perhaps the quickest turnaround from simp to chad ever recorded.

>>16228735
every girl ive spoken to who had a relationship with some nonce when they were young regrets it and is a fucked up mess. Fuck off lying pedo faggot

>>16234339
>a deeper problem, like social anxiety or self hatred/no self esteem etc
>self loathing over virginal status is the obstacle, not virginity itself
These are in fact very similar statements

>>16229470
I don't think that's what the post was saying at all.

>>16232856
DO NOT. You will regret it and feel so fucking broken. DO NOT FUCKING DO IT!

>>16234822
ok fren got it

>>16234339
Based response.

>>16234313
Yes, such as a solid kick to the abdomin, digging around fallopian tubes with a muddy stick, drowning the newborn in the river or bashing the infant against the neighborhood bolder. The wonders of ancient birth control! Certainly parents would have allowed these boys to come over to have a little fooling around, because like "ancient birth control" dude.

>>16234339
>virginity within the third decade of life
so a sex between two mentally ill people?

>>16234339
based big words anon

>>16228720
bro you're an adult now, move the fuck on

>>16232320
Actually, females prefer older males and males prefer younger females.

>>16235006
women prefer men their age. I actually had the graph somewhere but can't find it.
men, on the other hand only want women with about 20 years or so

>>16234614
yes that was clearly making fun of young love read >>16232378

>>16233668
I don't think Frankel gets what he meant. It's on a continuum and twice you've tried to refer to his biology as some authority without a real refutation

>>16234887
>he doesn't know how to induce menstruation with a mixture of herbs
Lol pleb. "Embrace tradition," my ass.

>>16228720
Umm, have sex? Literally. Just be sexually active as an adult. You’ve missed nothing but what you’ve been sold.

>>16228873
You sound bitter

>>16235110
No you do, idk wtf you're talking about

>>16235242
Lol you bitter