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I’ve been deeply infatuated with a certain someone, and for the sake of anonymity, let’s call her 11. Now it took me almost two years to get over my infatuation for 11 and the loss-for-words part and whatnot. Now I’m finally regular talking to her. She has no clue how I feel and how I have felt. I have logs that go back to almost 1 and a half years ago to now (voice recordings, pictures, love notes, and whatnot). This is the breaking point, so to speak. I don’t know what to do with 11 because she’s in contact with guys that are taller and better looking and more charismatic and less anxious and less awkward than me. But by god’s grace, she’s single. Yes, she’s single. Touched by no bad men, or at least touched deeply, and is pursuing her education which I have the utmost respect for.

I really didn’t want to go too much into detail but I hope this would help with giving me something that I can relate to. Thanks for reading this and just know that it means a lot to me.

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>>14494742

>> No.14494758

>>14494742
Get a therapist. I don't say this to be mean.

>> No.14494760

just ask her out

>> No.14494789

If it was that easy then I would’ve done it already. Listen, I can sit around all day and rehearse pickup lines and get tips from romcoms but I think being patient is a good thing. I want to read someone going through the same thing. After all, books are just human experience - and it’s universal.

>> No.14494793

lusting over people like that is so bad. im glad i dont get crushes anymore, if i do though its better to just say it straight away as to avoid the idleness that immense lust causes

>> No.14494795

>>14494742
>11
You literally just used her alias once, you autist.

>> No.14494806

>>14494742
If it's an internet relationship, go outside
If it's a real person, talk to her and stop being a pussy

>> No.14494808

>>14494742
No book is gonna help you gain social skills. Including the ones specifically designed to do so. Literally the only chance you have is to ask her out or start moving things toward an obviously romantic direction.

Don't show her or tell her about the notes and shit you have. Don't say you love her. Don't assume she is an untouched perfect white rose either.

>> No.14494812

>>14494806
what if she rejects him? all this build-up for nothing.