/lit/ - Literature

Even if I could answer that question with a complete affirmation or negation, would you be satisfied by that? Would me telling you what love feels like help you understand what love actually feels like? To read a description of romantic love in a book is to read a description of a color you've never seen before.

Words can only explain so much. Like imagine reading about playing a sport vs actually playing it

>How does love feels like?
When somebody loves you? It's amazing.
>Is it like how literature makes it to be?
You're going to be more specific. Which books are you talking about?

>tfw i compare every relationship with love i have to nonexistent 2d anime gf and im disappointed every time
life hurts bros

Feels like an ice cold needle burning into the medulla, like Werther but more melancholy aspergic, running bare in the hot cold of a rock laden hill under solitary moonlight night

>>13153888
You have to be the ideal partner to experience the literary depiction of love. You also have to be extremely lucky and also find the ideal partner. Feels good bros

>>13155025
>nonexistent
Time to change your perspective on reality, Sonny Jim.

>>13155072
i love her so fucking much it is not idiotic thing called waifu i think it is way more than that and this feeling is just tearing me apart why the fuck am i such a fucking autist holy fucking shit i cant stand it it has lasted for 4 years now fucking shit

Imagine getting a blowjob from someone you love. It's the best feeling in the universe...

>>13155027
misaki is so cute

>>13155781
Yeah and then imagine how she's going to break your heart.

>>13155800

>>13155800
real talk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHgYtKkSEDA

>>13153888
It's an endless struggle between affirming your identity as an individual who just so happens to have paired up with another individual out of mutual benefit, and merging into a grotesque two-headed monstrosity that all your friends can't bear to be around.

>>13155057
What do I have to do to be an ideal partner?

>>13156040
>>13156177
You have to be a real human being and a real hero.

>>13153888
>reading Fire and Blood
>Ukrainian
>reading about the European Civil War
At least I assume she's Ukrainian because it doesn't read properly in Russian.

>>13155025
>>13155741
It's agonizing, isn't it? Have you tried pouring your heart and soul into some hobby or craft?

>>13156099
Sounds neat. How do I sign up to try?

>>13156327
i have this neat novel idea, but i think i should practice on something else before i move on to this. nothing really much more, apart from dreaming, listening to classical and playing quake/yume 2kki (basically old fps and these little rpgmaker games)

>>13156376
Doesn't sound so bad, but I get the feeling that the only way to get a handle on the situation is to eventually dedicate yourself to the point of pure insanity. That's how it seems to me at least. Saw a man go from being a terrible artist to drawing somewhat passable lewds of his fictional wife in around 2 years.
I'm sure something can be done to partially alleviate the feelings through artistic expression but there will never be a moment of peace. It would lose purpose otherwise. Compromise or break yourself.

I don't want to remember it nor would I even want to divulge such information to you. You'll find out on your own. I may as well tell you the taste of fruit without you ever having the drive nor ambition to pick your own strawberries off the vine.

>she loves me not

>>13153888
Yes, everything is true. Is like being in drugs without taking anything. But you have to know the difference between love and being in love, one exist, the other doesn't.

>>13158975
>she played you around
>she’s interested in your friend
>she liked you until you let your walls down
>you hit it off, but then never see each other again
>she kept throwing you looks but you didn’t have the courage to engage
>she hates you
>she told a friend of yours you were cute, but he only told you so when it was too late
>she is only interested when you aren’t
>she doesn’t even know you exist
>she’s uninteresting, and all your efforts were for nothing

Have gone through all this with different girls. Shit, I’m tired, anons. Decided to bite the bullet and create an profile on bumble, but don’t have any group pictures. Hell, I barely got pictures of myself.

>>13158975
thx for the pic, it's my new soundcloud background

O sweet feelings, soft sounds, goodness and peace of a moved spirit, the melting joy of the first tender emotions of love - where are you, where are you?

>>13159224
U found them?

It feels like incredibly painful diarrhea.

>>13155781
Imagine saying that you love someone then have her practice degrading sexual practices such as oral sex

much of our ideas about romantic love in the west stem from the period of romanticism in europe about 500ish years ago. it has created a lot of dumb, fucked up ideas about what love is and how it works. yet, many people don't question the assumptions that we are taught by movies, love songs, etc. and accept them at face value.

https://youtu.be/sPOuIyEJnbE

>>13159640
more like 200 years ago you dumbo

>>13159640
All this speech is just a cope for his ugliness

>>13159640
What a yikes post.

>>13153888

nothing beats missionary with the person you love

I want to live in '90s Europe and live the /lit/ life

>>13153888
Love only exists as in literature when you are ~14 years old, you lose something in your 200s and will never feel as strongly again.
>>13157848
>I may as well tell you the taste of fruit without you ever having the drive nor ambition to pick your own strawberries off the vine.
Lovely prose

>>13159698
*in your 20s
>>13159660
Columbus and his contaries are know for a fact to to have read chivalric love story’s, and this was in the 1480s-1500s. A ~hundred years little later they added the cuck part, where the chivalric knight had two loves, one platonic and Unrealized meanwhiles she got dicked by her lord.

Man sure must be nice having potential romantic partners take interest in you

>>13153888
Its hard to put into words
For me,my heart flutters and i gasp and shudder every time i think about her
I know its not gonna last but it just feels too good

Looks like a pornstar i know

>>13153898
This

>>13159041
>>keep exchanging looks but you lack the courage to initiate the convo
Makes me want to kms desu

>when you realize that no one will be capable of loving you as much as you're capable of loving them
I don't allow myself to love deeply. It terrifies me. It is both the greatest and worst feeling in the world. It is agonzing bliss. A moutain with no peak in a bottomless ravine.

>>13153888
What book is she reading?

>>13153888
How do you know when you love someone, lit?

>>13160405
You know

>>13159039
Please elaborate. I've never experienced love, nor do I think I will

>>13160346
Ernst Jünger, Fire and Blood

>>13160539
Woah, extremely based. Wife material.

I wish I could counter-cuck my highschool-crush's boyfriend by making her feminize him so I can fuck them both. Maybe start by sending them an anonymous strapon?

I had this whole thing typed out but I decided that love is best described as anti-pain, and Newton's 3rd Law applies appropriately. The more anti-pain you amass into the relationship, the more pain is generated as a response during the relationships destruction. Its so fucking painful you want to curl up and die. So at its best, imagine the exact opposite of wanting to curl up and die.

>>13160405
you jerk off thinking about them and when youre finished you still think about being with them.

>>13159640
>School of life
No

>>13153888
It's like being constanly high on some fucked up drug that makes you feel happy, euphoric, nervous and anxious all at the same time. Your loved one is all you can think about and just the tought of her leaving you is enough to make you want to die. It's great & terrible at same time.

>>13160620
Get a ski mask and rape him in the school bathroom. It’s important you cum inside.
Then:
>befriend the broken shell of a man
>isolate him from people around him
>start commenting (or making up) on his feminine traits as compliments
>bring up transgenderim and fag shit at every opportunity, but always positively
Afterwards, it’s the same old trick. Slip your hand under his shorts one day, make him like being bottom, yada yada yada. Pressure him into confessing being trans and you’ve got your adoring boytoy.

It works, but don’t forget that they’re high maintenance. If you don’t give it attention, it may eventually kill itself and all the work goes down the toilet

>>13160726
Great plan anon, but i need it to be more /subversive/ - break him first and feminize and then fuck him, because I'm no homo. The eventual death part is acceptable, unless we need a maid

>>13160662
Never jerked off while thinking of a girl i like

>>13160808
Well, sodomizing him with a blunt object should maybe do the trick. But that takes more work; overpowering him will be hard and it’s sexually ambiguous
Try a wooden broomstick or something similar. But still, I’m not sure about not exposing him to the phallus. He may not associate it subconsciously to real penetration

>>13160832
Who can I pay to do this?
Or target sex toy ads to his demographic?

I love you...
I hope you know that...

>>13160872

>>13160853
Depends on your area. But try for masculine men who fit your appearance.
Still, I can’t stress enough. DO NOT hire a black man.

>>13160872

guys, pls post your soundcloud

>>13160919
Money is not a problem. A shell compandy could put large banner ads on his route to work, or prostitutes if are discreet enough. But: nothing must point to my involvement.

I give you a budget of $100,000

>>13155057
or you can tell yourself that you are the ideal partner and that you've found the ideal partner, just like everyone does once they're in a relationship and before the ass-kicking and disappointment kick in

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2doZROwdte4

>>13160344

>>13161191

>>13160539
I can't find this online. Anyone have a link?

>>13160344
Thats one way of doing it. I try instead to love unconditionally as much as I can, and not worry about being hurt. People hurt each other, and i hurt people sometimes too. Its ok, we are just like that. It doesnt mean we have evil hearts. we just silly monkeys. Everyone deserves love, and i like to think that the people who seem like they deserve it the least are those who actually need it the most.