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No, it just means that you don’t love the person you’re having sex with.

What about the feeling of guilty, shame and regret just after fapping to BBC themed sissy hypno porn?

>>12884523
sitting alone in your room rubbing your pee pee to pixels on a computer screen is pretty embarrassing when viewed from the third person

>>12884523
Yes.

Not lit, though.

Yes, I don't feel any regret after orgasms. I'm a deist.

>>12884523
Depends, if it was done in a way that isnt supported by your values and you looked down on then it isnt. If feel shame because you believe there is some cosmic father that judges you then yes.
Would like to also mention that looking down on sex outside of reproduction as a sort of lustful sin isnt always from Christian religion and many pagans in europe also looked down and mocked people who were extremely promiscuous or masturbated. Not saying you should apply to these rules. People like to mock about that everything comes form the products of christianity when they forget why it spread so well in europe due to the fact that it had a lot in common with the pagan values and their traditions.

>>12884652
Stop talking about shit you dont know about. Everyone already knows where you are coming from and every thread about religion or anarchism will get you horny. You sometimes are really a terrible person.

Why does morality taint our fetishes? Would they even be fun without the shame afterwards?

>>12884745
Thats not morality working its your own values the ego you have of yourself. If you call that morality then so be it.

>>12884745
The arousal experienced in sexual taboo breaking is analogous to the excitement experienced by nihilists who deny the existence of God but still hate him. Fetishism is in most cases a negative religion. Guilt is the fetish.

Did Nee-cha ever talk about that?

>>12884717
>Oh noes, I spilled my baby seeds! I'm not gonna have any for my bride!
>Surely someone just saw that!
Yes, it's spooks bothering you. I remember the feelings. You're the terrible person.

>>12884817
Children don't normally publish their journals

>>12884829
Hey :3

It's the refractory period, and it's nature's way of telling you your best shot at your genes surviving has just passed.

>>12884523
I only feel like that after fapping to shit that i can very easily explain my distaste for.

>>12884829
Can I masturbate to you? If you don't allow this you are spooked.

>>12884523
Probably just a feeling of emptiness, solution: get a 2d waifu and fill your fap sessions with delusional love.

>>12884870
I won’t allow it, sorry. She won’t, I’d imagine. But I won’t. :3

>>12884829
>Person faps or fucks to something he looks down on.
>lmao you only feel bad because you think you think you are wasting sperm and a cosmic god saw you.
>Its spooks
How about reading the previous whole post eh? This behaviour only really tells me that you indeed know jack shit. Even more if you think many males care if their sperm is going to "waste".
It also inst spooks since he didnt think he was breaking a "greater good" outside of his, like god's will. The feeling of guilt or disappointment is in his very desires since he had "higher" values of himself. Seems very ignorant of you to call spooks to everything behind the feelings of sadness, disappointment and guilt over something.

>>12884829
>Woman gets raped and during the raping also has an orgasm.
>lmao you are feeling bad for yourself because of spooks and you are just concerned if someone saw you getting nutted inside since that was the only thing that happened to you .
You sometimes dont think that much, do you?
Also, oxytocin, vasopressin and their affects are enough to tell you that any person who had a lot of sexual partners is indeed less likely to form good future relationships, bonding, being intimate and being a good parent.

>>12884953
>any person who had a lot of sexual partners is indeed less likely to form good future relationships
This is simply a fact :3

It's a lack of self-respect

Only feel regret after wanking to gayporn

>>12885013
This, but only because my gay thoughts are always also submissive and humiliating.

>>12885013
The horny mind is much different than the sober one

>>12885028
Be my bitch

>>12885030
Fuck off.

>>12885032
Can't say we didn't try

>>12884634
FUCK FUCK FUCK AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

>>12885013
Why?

Its a product of breaking your moral values, if they happen to be Christian values then yes. But in Judaism masturbation is wrong, in Islam it is wrong; it's not exclusively Christian. It might not even be an abrahamic thing either, I imagine buddhism and other eastern philosophies look down upon upon it.

>>12884634
Correct.
>>12884639
See above. It means you might have stopped loving yourself.

I mean, for me it probably has something, at least partially to do with getting a much sought after reward so easily, in such a hollow manner where youre alone afterwards and still at the same spot as before.

For me I start overthinking is sexual gratfication truly a need or a want? It only activates your most hedonistic parts of your brain which are ultimately valueless in the long wrong. So perhaps partly yes

It's a lack of self-respect you coons a real man wipes the semen off his hands with dignity and knowledge of a job well done.

>>12885067
>For me I start overthinking

What did you mean by this?

>>12885073
I basically like talk myself in circles about how important sexual gratification truly is to myself or not. Perhaps it has to do with being unfulfilled in many parts of my life

Its weird. If I fap to porn, I feel bad afterwards. If I fap using only my imagination, it feels like a job well done. If I fap without anything, just focus on the sensations, then it feels just weird and afterwards I feel absurd.

>>12884523
it´s called post coitum tristitia, it´s not so bad if you have a partner

>>12885116
Maybe try more self-respecting and less degenerate porn? I legitimately think there's a difference between jerking off to amateur solo's than there is pornstar 12 ways.

>>12884903
>This behaviour only really tells me that you ineed just woke up
OP said nothing about that. You actually jack off to things you look down on? Foreign idea to me.
>>12884953
Always going to rape. How did I ever claim that was a spook? OP is just wanking off.
And anyone who has had zero sexual experiences is indeed less likely to form any future relationships.

>>12885145
I dont know. I mostly dont fap it anymore since I hate the fact that I am less sexually interested in my gf afterwards. However, I do last longer in bed with her then and I can fuck her brains out.

Im mostly into femboy/crossdress porn, the whole BBC + petite jist, but on the other hand, I love also being on the other side: dominating girls and cute fuccbois. Its weird. I feel pansexual.

I mean, me and my gf even have an open relationship when it comes to same sex. I just love being a man with her, but I also get off on being dominated by guys. I guess Im bi, or pansexual, and Im a guy, but have a feminine side, but I love my dick and I love my skinny body. I have no fucking idea. I am just really really hypersexual.

>>12885148
No Butterfly, if you whore yourself out you are less like to build appreciable ties with others.

Speaking of which, I didn’t think you were a whore. You didn’t do what you said you did, did you? You were just fucking around? :3

>>12885184
You should masturbate more. It's not manly to be unprepared to have sex at any time, maximizing your semen output is the will of the Lord. Have you seen the wolf of wall street? Barring the fact that the rookie numbers guy in that film was selling his weakness of being an excessive masturbator as a strength, he had a point, right? I wish to get to that level of self-respect one day, one where I can jerk off 50 times a day and call it a job well done.

>>12885232
I understand You completely. My problem is my OCD which ruins everything. I would love to masturbate daily. I am hypersexual, god damn it, it is impossible for me not to scan each woman that I see and evaluate if I would do her or not. But the OCD is the problem.

For example: at the moment I am trans. But how? Well, I love crossdressing/femboyism. But I also love women. I love being the dominant guy in sex. But I also love being a little bitch for tougher men. But then I am trans. But I love my dick and my skinny body. I dont even find actual shemales attractive. That dick does not fit them. What the fuck does trans even mean? See how it ruins everything?

>>12885260
>it is impossible for me not to scan each woman that I see and evaluate if I would do her or not

Why would it be a bad thing for you to do this? Go ahead and fantasize about them, only a coward would enter a room full of women and not immediately decide who and what he would do and how he would do it exactly. Do you not do this?

>>12884523
Never experienced that, always wondered about why anyone said Omnia animales etc.
Inb4 "virgin", have been married 23 years.

>>12885277
I do. Always. I even ask my gf what does she think. We do it with men/boys as well.

>>12885148
>You actually jack off to things you look down on? Foreign idea to me.
>n-no people cant fap or fuck something and then regret it later or feel disgusted.
You are just acting dumb.

>>12884817
NEETchuh never had sex.

>>12885148
>Always going to rape. How did I ever claim that was a spook?
By following your stupid ass logic of calling things "spooks" when they clearly arent.
There are many women that get raped and still feel pleasure and release orgasms during the act but feel extremelly bad after it (for obvious reasons). But by your stupid way of seeing things then she is getting spooked by the cosmic father since she got pleasure out of it during the act and the disappointment is just the "morals" speaking to her.
>Always going to rape.
>And anyone who has had zero sexual experiences is indeed less likely to form any future relationships.
You are wrong since everyone starts life at zero partners. Always going to incel call

>>12885332
She doesn’t like the term incel actually :3

>>12885316
He really liked horses ;)

>>12884523
Omni animal post coitum triste.
Every animal is sad after coitus except the woman and the rooster.

You only feel guilty if you've been living under a moral system like Christianity, or you're intuitively aware as to why it's bad. It's like vomitting for fun.

>>12884523
No, Christianity is a product of that feeling of guilt, shame and regret just after an orgasm.

>>12884523
no, its natural.
stop watching porn