/lit/ - Literature

yikes

I try not to ask women what kinds of books they read because it's invariably prole filth and then I'm in the awkward position of having to lie to them (and myself) by pretending I don't think they're a disgusting retard, or losing out on potential sex.

I'm already lying to myself and them in the first place by acting as if I want to talk to them at all for any reason other than that they might fuck me. I don't need to compound that even more and make it worse.

Women are very stupid and boring. I don't even really enjoy sex with them that much but I can't swear off sex entirely. I wish I could, because women have very small, uninteresting minds. They are reflexive victims and short-sighted hedonists who have no real ambitions or deep interests. I think humanity would be better off if women did not exist and worthy men reproduced by committing a Hajj-like pilgrimage to a great crystal structure and fusing with it.

>>11911718
>Dosto

Congrats on liking the most basic bitch author on this board

>>11911718
I don't really chat with anyone. I use instant messaging the way I would use the post office. Just write a message to arrange a meeting or solve some quick stuff and be done with it.

Stumbled upon someone's depression too many time to make that mistake again. I think that people are at least 2 or 3 times kinder in real life than online.

>>11911718
>tinder

Reddit is that way

>>11911718
That is some fugly presumably south asian mystery meat that definitely doesn't belong in the white country she's trying to race mix in.

>>11911737
>humanity would be better off if women did not exist and worthy men reproduced
Just get over and accept your homosexuality anon. There's nothing wrong with being gay.
Holy fuck the delusions of people...

>>11911737
>Hates women
>Doesn't enjoy having sex with them.
>Still desires sex.
Have you tried Grindr?

>>11911737
You unironically need to integrate your anima, brah

>>11911737
You had me until the third paragraph

>>11911718
I would prefer paying for sex instead of humiliating myself on degenerate dating apps.

Back in 2014 I used Tinder and had a single line from Notes form Underground in my description:

>Suffering is the sole origin of consciousness

That actually turned out to be a good opener. Got laid with three different chicks over the course of a summer and early fall, even. The app kind of ruined my sense of self-worth despite that though, as all digitization of relationships and commodification of sex all bundled up in an accelerating loop of instant gratification erodes the ability to appreciate the intimacy and lasting enjoyment that we achieve. Nowadays I don't even own a smartphone.

>>11911742
>accidentally quoting the OP
ooh...oh no

I met a cute girl on Coffee meets Bagel and one of our mutual interests was reading.
Been on a few dates and we text a lot, but I don’t know if it’s really going anywhere.

>>11911763
Do you enjoy being a racist fuckwad?

>>11911811
Do you think they can feel that you are not that invested? I'm think I'm never at over 50%, can't even talk about ever being all in. General question.

>>11911737
>>11911771
Unironically this. Impressive male physique relies a lot more on hard work and strength of character and less on genetics compared to the female body and is therefore more worthy of admiration. You will have a much greater intellectual exchange with another man if need be, and penis in the butt feels extremely good, possibly even better than doing the penetration yourself, and if you're topping it's the same anyway. You don't have to be gay to see that.

>>11911821
not him but I do desu

>>11911821
LMAO shut up nerd

>>11911821
are you proud of being so pathetic?

>>11911826
I have no idea, honestly. I’m super introverted and haven’t really dated anyone before, so I’m flying blind here.
Part of me is scared that I won’t want it to last, but that she might be invested and wind up hurt if I break things off. I have no idea how to do any of this.

>>11911718
I have. Total 8/10 bulimic chick that teaches tards at an all black high school and reads a book a week. Was a good fuck, would recommend.

>>11911829
lmao niggau gay

>>11911737
>Women are very stupid and boring
>I can't swear off sex entirely
>They are reflexive victims and short-sighted hedonists

Not to jump in defense of the whores you fuck. But the only proven hedonist here is you.

>Bloody romance novel ...

Turbocringe.

>>11911737
>t.closet homosexual
I suggest you read The Symposium, seems like you would be happier if you went out with a cultured guy.

Literally have the option to read a complete gentleman and instead of doing that I read you motherfuckers. I question my life choices.

>>11911796
How do you get by without a smartphone?

>>11911921
I didn't have one until this Summer (not him though). Let me tell you it is an absolutely massive pain in the ass.

>>11911737
Holy fucking shit dude

>>11911921
not him, but I walk around with an s3 that gets drained to hell if I open up the wifi, so it's mostly an offline phone,

the answer is, surprisingly fine

Lads help. She's 3 years older than me. Help me get that mummy /lit/ gf

>>11911949
>all these fucking hoops you gotta jump through when you both know what it is you're trying to do

Tinder is wack

>>11911737
>and worthy men reproduced by committing a Hajj-like pilgrimage to a great crystal structure and fusing with it.

>>11911949
Not if you keep being a lunatic

>>11911949
Why would any self-respecting man put himself through this?

>>11911921
I have a good old cell phone. At home and at the university I'm never far from a regular computer anyway.

I really can't think of anything I _need_ a smartphone for.

>>11911718
It causes arousal and sexual thoughts. It is a negative influence even if you are just trolling. The benefits of abstinence far exceed messing around on that frivolous app.

See you later vrigins

>>11911821
There is nothing wrong with being racist against South Asians

>>11912035
but I'm not a virgin, does it mean that I won't see you later

that would be a disaster

>>11911737
>and worthy men reproduced by committing a Hajj-like pilgrimage to a great crystal structure and fusing with it.

You people always have to take it to another level. I can't tell if you added this part because you felt ashamed at how genuine the prior statements were and needed to clothe part of yourself in a warm coat of sarcasm or if you're just actually gay.

>>11912035
post your other insults

>>11911737
A word without women wouldn't be worth living. Are you sure you're not a closeted homosexual?

>>11912035
Looks like she weighs at least 160 pounds. The lack of facial fat tells me she snacks and exercises little.

>>11911737
I bet you're gay! My response is original and interesting!

>>11912062
>hates women
>not gay
Anon...

>>11912058
>lack
abundance

How do we fix modern women?

>>11911968
benis in pusy feel good

>>11912062
Except we’re not trying to be clever, I actually think anon should give men a try.

>>11911958
starting with "we're both busy people Ima be straight I'm mega horny rn I will pay for pizza if you come over and pretend to love me tomorrow night, wyd friday" has a 1/9 chance of working in my experience if you're impatient. In my age group atleast.

>>11911737
based and redpilled

>>11912022
Chasteposter at it again

>>11912035
Everything about this app and its culture seems so vile, christ

>>11911940
I'm in the exact same situation hello.

Women are vile. They have poison juices inside of them. Stay pure my fellow anons. Don’t let them corrupt you with their vile juices.

>>11911737
Women who conceptualize of themselves as women fall under this category unconditionally but society punishes women extremely harshly for falling outside of their particular social molds so it's hard to blame them. I wish that we could acknowledge the condition of women without demonizing the individuals who are largely forced to adhere to it.

>>11911949
cringe

>>11911949
Three years is not much of an age difference. Are you under 21?

>>11912081
That's really sad.

>>11912081
It honestly amazes me that some men would stoop so low as to try and seduce these incredibly bland, no self-esteem, no manners, terrible makeup artist "women" as if they had any value whatsoever.
Is sex really that important to them that they would willingly sacrifice their dignity for it.
I'm wincing at imagining the real life introductions you'd make with these people before trying to get intimate as fast as possible before you realize they're actually mentally challenged through constant weening off trash TV and lowbrow girlie advice columns and lose your boner for 24hrs once you realize there's a chance you might accidentally have a child with this woman.
Women who let guys talk to them like this are genetically faulty.
The whole point of societal women is that they "choose or select" their mates carefully, this is nothing short of a genetic free for all, akin to hoping you win the lottery off your first pick.

>>11912082
So does injecting heroin. Doesn't make either a good idea.

>>11911737
Delightfully based

>>11912087
That sounds like acceptable odds honestly.

>>11911796
Luke?

>>11912035
I love you don't leave

>>11911718
This man seem a little fragile, considering the books he claim to read. Anyway, hilarious image.

Trashy people having sex makes me feel depressed desu.
I guess the good part is they're having "fun", but in the long run it just means more trashy people.

Tried it because I'm lonely and not really that autistic in the grand scheme of things (have had women actually show interest in me before, etc) and I thought I may be able to sort through the filth and meet someone interesting. That was a mistake, the entire app is filled with bugwomen and should be burned to the ground.
>normie girl standing at <famous quirky local place> with a quote from the office
>"If you don't like dogs then swipe left!" (wtf the dog-hating portion of the population is miniscule)
>unironic astrology
>"umm idk what to put here"
>girl is a complete mess, bio is "420 friendly'
>snapchat dog filter
>"here for a fun time not a long time"
>ad nauseam

I did match with one semi-cute /out/ girl who seemed pretty cool, she spoke Italian and had decent taste in film. We texted and snapchatted for a little but then she ghosted me and I gave up on the app.

>tinder
Do you guys think the world would be a better place if everyone who had downloaded it was gassed?

>>11912154
In moderation poosy is fine

Im sure the same is true of heroin

>>11911777
How does one do it? Women are almost non human to me, I can't trust them, I look at the beautiful ones and never expect anything from them

I used to be almost paralyzed by them when I was a kid/teen, now it's just apathy/contempt without especially be mean or hateful.

>>11912205
>omg have you guys seen this movie idiocracy it’s sooooo true

>>11912250
IQ is dropping overall. Dumb people are having more kids than smart ones. These are facts and your reddit tier posts doesn't change that.

Everything might turn out alright, I'll post an update on Tuesday :)

>>11912270
Good fucking lord
Stop while you're ahead

>>11912270
imagine wasting your time trying to seduce some 40 year old fatty from tinder

>>11912270
So is your autism diagnosed or?

>>11912280
I actually do think I'm on the spectrum. I mean, I do post here after all ;)

>>11912141
>Judging people to raise his self esteem
You are so smart anon, make sure to get married or at least leave a heir behind before you go, the world will be missing out if you don't.

>>11912249
It doesn't happen overnight, and there's unfortunately too much bad shit in the world that reinforces the idea of women just being crappier versions of men (look at how much of the current discussion is around getting women into high positions in the workplace for no real reason, for instance), but basically the general idea is to expose yourself to the feminine / motherhood and allow yourself to just be in its presence, even if its uncomfortable.

Don't get me wrong, I know exactly how you feel, and it's a tough process (I still struggle with thoughts of just seeing women as fuckholes and wanting to dominate / choke / command them), but over time you begin to humanise them more and you yourself start to feel calmer / less insecure, since you're not always running away from the parts of yourself that you feel are "weak" or "unmanly."

>>11912285
You sound like a very obnoxious person in real life to be honest

>>11912299
I'm getting counselling in a few weeks, Anon. I'm well aware of my flaws

Is this whole thread a bait run by kremlinbots or is it full of pseudo intellectual incels?

>>11912308
Naivity is one of them, just in case you missed that one from your flaw list.

>>11912035
>>11912081
>>11912099
>>11912141
I thought it was just me

I can't fucking exposé myself enough to pretend to be THAT engaged in these conversations.

I'm always trying to have conversations like this with girls online but I feel so cringe everytime I "joke" around or whatever

Maybe I'm depressed or some shit as all my friends have no problem being that fun cheeky type guy.

I just can't seem to do it.

>>11912286
>>Judging people to raise his self esteem
He might in fact be doing that, but anon is still mostly correct.

>>11912279
Is sodomy /lit/ if acquired through tinder?

>>11912331
I know how you feel. Sometimes I can't even stand my own friends, and women in large seem to embody the aspects I dislike the most about them.

>>11912324
It's in there with my Oedipus complex

>>11912331
I sometimes install Tinder, swipe for about 10 minutes, think about what I just did for 5, and then promptly delete the app. It just doesn't work for me; it feels like I'm dehumanising both them and myself.

>>11912290
I knew a guy who could do it. Girls liked him, he had this calm/mature aura and they just opened up to him, but he was committed to his long term gf.
Still, I'm not sure I'd want to be him. He lacked that sincerity/autism that is typical for men. He had too much feminine knowledge, which made him untrustworthy and unreliable, among other things, and prone to manipulating people.
I'm afraid you can't have it all, but who knows.

>>11912372
Funnily enough, it sounds like he had failed to integrate his natural masculine side.

The point of psychic integration (or individuation to use Jung's terms) isn't to become some sneaky effay man or some butch obnoxious woman. It's to recognise and overcome the unconscious fears you hold about sexuality / identity / purpose etc through facing the parts of yourself you would otherwise usually shy away from, and coming out as a more "whole" human being on the other side.

One figure who I see as being in touch with both aspects of their psyche is MLK. He clearly had a commanding, masculine presence, but at the same time he was able to reach people on an emotional and aesthetic level that could only be done through access to the feminine.

>>11912270
HE CANT KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH IT

I love being with women. I hate interacting with them.

Can someone explain me why is that so? I don't have enough self-introspection to figure out why.

>>11912422
They have it easy

>>11912065
I don't hate women, I think the female form is the most aesthetically pleasing thing imaginable and very much so worth fucking. I just wish there were two braincells to slam together inside most of their brains. A majority of men (85-90%) are NPCs, nearly every woman is. It's a 1:10000 woman that's worth talking to about anything seriously meaningful.

>>11912422
Women (assuming nothing has gone wrong) naturally give off a comforting, reassuring aura, something that's like catnip to men caught up in the cold, competitive world. At the same time, a lot of women really don't understand the thought processes of men and only see the world through their (usually more) emotional lens.

This means a lot of men seek out the warmth and presence of a woman (I mean, who doesn't love pussy?) but then feel drained when the relationship goes beyond mere intimacy and requires communication between two people who probably don't naturally see eye-to-eye. Our modern society, with its emphasis on cheap sex and "just do what makes you feeeeeel good" mentality, reinforces this, as you can now have access to the immediate physical benefits of intimacy without having to cultivate the longer-term psychological and emotional skills to get along with each other.

>>11912372
>that sincerity/autism that is typical for men
Idealism might be a better term. This idealism is required for idealizing women (which can be a strong driving force in life), but it also makes you naive. Once you lose it, you tend to lose other things as well. You gain wisdom, but become more cynical...

Guys who spent a lot of time around women also tend to be gossipy and petty, which is something that used to piss me off a lot. But if you think about it, there's insight in that too, it makes sense, evolutionary speaking and all.

>>11912403
>Funnily enough, it sounds like he had failed to integrate his natural masculine side.
Yeah, you're right. I mean you wouldn't call him faggy or a pussy. He had a deep voice and he could hustle his way with people and had zero social anxiety. But at the same time I couldn't imagine him being a "leader of men who sacrifices for higher ideals", for example. He didn't have that passion for higher things/movements. He was in some ways kinda selfish, like a pimp or something. He was also into fashion/aesthetic stuff.
His parents were divorced and his father a bit of a rough type, I think. I find that kids from divorced families are often very mature in some ways, but flawed.

>>11912369
This hit close to home.

>>11912439
I don't understand how you live with such negating beliefs. I do agree that 99% of people have nothing interesting to say at all, but limiting your scope like that will only harm your growth in the long term. We're (mostly) rational individuals, normalfags and non-normalfags alike, and so it only takes a certain amount of discussion with the right attitude to get them to see your way. Perhaps that mentality is idealistic, but that's why I always got along well with everyone in school, and you only serve to benefit by maintaining it. But think: How much are you really saying of substance when you disregard almost all of the world around you? Does that not make your products something of an exercise in narcissism instead? Why write if it cannot reach but a few?

>>11911737
Very cool post, unironically i might add

She looks like a fucking roastie Jew why would you even talk to her? DISGUSTAN

>>11911737
Exquisitely redpilled