[ 3 / biz / cgl / ck / diy / fa / ic / jp / lit / sci / vr / vt ] [ index / top / reports ] [ become a patron ] [ status ]
2023-11: Warosu is now out of extended maintenance.

/lit/ - Literature


View post   

File: 103 KB, 1280x849, 1535897039132.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11895391 No.11895391 [Reply] [Original]

What should an incel read to feel better about his existence?

>> No.11895394

the qu'ran

>> No.11895423

http://download.library1.org/main/305000/2b0615993dd1bc4ebb1e36cd6534aaf9/Michael%20Allen%20Gillespie-The%20Theological%20Origins%20of%20Modernity-University%20Of%20Chicago%20Press%20%282008%29.pdf

this will explain to you the root of the problem with the modern world

>> No.11895434

>>11895391
What kind of incel are you? Are you like an misogynist incel with rage or do you not hate women but just have social anxiety, etc.

>> No.11895445

>>11895434
Just social anxiety.

I dont think women are different than men in that they want as much sex with as attractive partners as possible.

>> No.11895452

>>11895445
https://www.houellebecq.info/popdivers.php?id=13

>> No.11895472

>>11895394
>THIS
now go blow up some filthy kafirs and get your 72 virgins OP!

>> No.11895474

my twisted world lol

>> No.11895477

>>11895391

Judge Marshal Kavanaugh was chosen by God to save women from themselves and he's become an epic inspiration to all forcibly celibate victims around the world, whether Otakus from Kyoto, Incels in Isfahan, or creeps from Crete. We've bided our time, turned the scorn and humiliation heaped upon us by society into patience, endurance and willpower. We've watched warily as normieshit locusts swarmed the entire internet, consuming it's precious bandwidth with their NPC problems, their thirst for pleb pornography and their fawning over hypergamous medical marvels politely called "women." Overtime, the thirsty normieshits became meatspace automatons implementing a new age of favoritism for all roastie harlots, and any transgression, however microscopic, drew a call to arms amongst the loyal white knights who defended these slack-snizzed feminists by day and edged to cuckporn at night, always thankful and convinced of their own righteousness. These trendy, brave and progressive rules were to underpin the dawn of the Fempire, the next stage in humanity's evolution, but Judge Marshal Kavanaugh's confirmation has ruined the birth of that promised era with the swiftness of a pneumatic suction hose at Planned Parenthood. There will be none of Sarah Jeong's castration events, nor Katy Perry's Interracial Breeding Grounds. Men will not endure compulsory detainment and arousal analysis in the hopes of helping harpies' "predict rape." Instead, it is the Roasties who shall rue this day, the day when Judge Marshal Kavanaugh redpilled even the NPCs on the secrets to fighting bitchy feminist whores: ignore them and if you need to, simply use your masculinity to overpower them. In the shadows of past roastie conquests, Incel hackerspaces have coordinated across continents to develop new sets of tools to better police women and extinguish all hopes for a tyrannical Fempire, chief among them our overclocked shock collars, turning hunting-dog training devices into CNS disruptors destined for the necks of whores and thots alike. With help from chaste Chinese Incels, we soon expect surgery robots that can be built for under $10K and will help us not only trim beef curtains, but also infibulate any roastie, locking down her overused cauliflowered cunt with encrypted RFID locks, ensuring that vagina can only be freed if the penitent prostitutes convince the New Men to build for them enough parallel botnets or quantum computers to crack the device's locks threaded through each roastie's pierced vulvas. With hypergamy stamped out in the civilized world, love, chastity and modesty can return to our empty hearts and society can be a hopeful place once more.

>> No.11895485

based paster

>> No.11895486

>>11895477
The fact someone took his time to write all of this disturbs me.

>> No.11895569

>>11895434
Not him, but anxiety and I find the potential shame and abasement from pursing it unappealing.

>> No.11896069

>>11895434
Neither, women just don't want to sleep with me.

>> No.11896144

>>11895391
Get a job and reintegrate into society.

>> No.11896165

>>11895391
There's no saving you
t. technically incel but has never even spared a thought for it.

>> No.11896276

>>11895391
Just do shrooms dude, it's better than any sex you'll ever have and gives you a taste of something greater and more divine than anything this meagre earthly existence can provide

>> No.11896284

>>11895391
I just want a girlfriend so bad, why don't they fancy me anons?

>> No.11896285

>>11896284
why would they?

>> No.11896288

>>11895391

Don't read a book, just become volcel instead.

>> No.11896291

>>11896285
Because that's what happens

>> No.11896307

>>11896144
I already have a job, and a relatively appealing one as well (finance). My colleagues probably think im a normie like the rest of them. One even tried to ask for relationsship advice casually.

>> No.11896315

>>11896307
Have you tried to befriend any of them? If not do so, go out with them to parties etc. and try to meet women.

There's no such thing as an 'incel', regardless of what butthurt robots say.

>>11896291
Meaningless response.

>> No.11896321

>>11896315
>Meaningless response.
What does that mean?

>> No.11896323

>>11896321
Meaningless response.

>> No.11896330

>>11896323
Meaningless response.

>> No.11896331

>>11896315
>There's no such thing as an 'incel'

>THIS ist what normies believe

>> No.11896334

>>11895477
Based post-Landian incel

>> No.11896338

>>11895391
Stay on 4chan. You'll either find comradery or incels worse off than you

>> No.11896346

>>11896331
>>>/r9k/

>> No.11896359

>>11895486
Seethe more.

>> No.11896361

>>11896346
>>>/facebook/
>>>/twitter/
>>>/9gag/

>> No.11896364

>>11896361
I use none of these.

>> No.11896369

>>11896364
Neither do I browse /r9k/. The eixstence of incels ist a statistical fact, not a local meme.

>> No.11896373

>>11896369
There's no such thing as an 'incel', you just aren't trying hard enough.

>> No.11896377

>>11896373
What if you're a paraplegic burn victim?

>> No.11896378

>>11896373
>Theres a no such thing as 'unemployment', only lazy people.

Spare me with your boomer naivety.

>> No.11896381

>>11896373
There's no such thing as poverty, the poor are just lazy.

>> No.11896386

if you get a blowjob are you still incel

>> No.11896388

>>11896377
My point stands. More difficult =/= impossible.

>>11896378
>Theres a no such thing as 'unemployment', only lazy people.
This is true though. Stop being a pussy.

>> No.11896393

>>11896388
>>Theres a no such thing as 'unemployment'
>This is true though.

Mkay, double digit IQ boomer.

>> No.11896394

>>11896381
Dumb straw man.

>>11896386
If you can get a blowjob you're more than capable of getting ordinary sex.

>> No.11896398

I am not incel, I just have an intense fear of relationships.

>> No.11896402
File: 38 KB, 640x640, 1538377785449.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896402

>>11896393
No rebuttal, as expected.
Truth hurts, loser.

>> No.11896413

>>11896402
You want proof that unemployment exists, retarded boomer.

>> No.11896422

>>11896413
Another dumb straw man.

>> No.11896464
File: 83 KB, 750x563, habitat67.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896464

>>11896394
You're dumb. Have a nice day.

>> No.11896471

>>11895569
>Not him, but anxiety and I find the potential shame and abasement from pursing it unappealing.
i am so sexually repressed the shame alone makes it almost impossible to pursue women. i am horny all day and night and somehow i cannot admit to my own sexuality, i hate to be seen as a sexual being, it feels vulnerable, though i'm not sure what exactly i'm afraid of, it's not only the possibility of failure, it's being sexual at all, and even thought i know it is natural it feels like i was not meant to be sexual but more than anything i want to be.

>> No.11896493
File: 2 KB, 224x224, 1537959314686.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896493

>>11896464
>You're dumb. Have a nice day.

>> No.11896545
File: 445 KB, 1600x1168, 1536804536489.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896545

Blogpost incoming: I recently started working a skilled trade/construction job after being out of work for several years and being incel/volcel during that time. I'm apparently making a decent hourly wage (relative to COL in my area), I have some friendly co-workers who I banter and socialize with casually on the job, and some of the work will help me get my flabby body back into acceptable shape. All that being said, my problem is as follows-- I've effectively been avoiding any kind of romantic/sexual/non-platonic interaction with women for so long that I'm genuinely fearful of getting back out in "the dating game". It's almost as if I've stunted/atrophied my psychological well-being to the point where I'm now incapable of mustering up the courage or confidence to pursue things I was (somewhat) comfortable with pursuing 5-6 years ago, whether it was a long-term relationship with a loyal qt cooking-and-baking gf or a casual fling with some buttslut off a dating app. Just working the trade for the past two days and knowing I'm making money is doing wonders for my self-esteem and yet I still have enough self-awareness to know that I don't think I'm 100% "ready" or confident to attempt to pursue anything with a woman again, whether it's a long-term relationship or just casual sex. I'm not extremely well-read, but not 100% dumb-blue-collar mode and bearing that in mind, my penultimate goal (as of now) is finding some kind of loyal gf/fiancee who I can have a mutually intellectually stimulating relationship with, who wouldn't mind dating a college dropout that works construction but still enjoys reading literature (both schlocky and stimulating).


Where do I go from here?
>pic unrelated, I just really fucking like Dune

>> No.11896574

>>11896545
Above all, avoid the kind of cunts who view everything as a 'game' or power play. This is good advice in general if you want meaningful, fulfilling social relationships.

>> No.11896587

>>11896574
>Above all, avoid the kind of cunts who view everything as a 'game' or power play.
I recognize that it can be interpreted as a(n) immature/"misogynistic" question, but: where do I find women who don't think like this?

I'm not clueless enough to think that I should look for a long-term relationship on a dating app, but a lot of the "culture" in my area revolves around "let's get fucked up because work sucked this week and then we'll go to work and then get fucked up because work sucks". Most people (men and women) in my area are into playing that whole little social "power play game" if only to attempt to remove themselves out of the deceptively easy-going yet mercurial area of the southwest that I live in.

>> No.11896593

>>11896574
I know I'm being snarky but this includes all non-virgin women between 20-35 with a phone and all baby boomers

>> No.11896600

>>11896323
Can you expand on this? My statement seems quite clear.

>> No.11896659

The fact is, I don't have much to offer. I'm not good looking, I'm not tough or brave or quick or skilled. I'm not tall. I'm not strong. I'm not at all quick witted and not especially funny. I'm inarticulate. I'm awkward. I'm selfish.

I'm probably slightly smarter than the average person but that's only because I'm reasonably well read. I'm one of those sad bastards who was considered Gifted and Talented at age 14 yet plateaued at that stage while everyone else was developing.

I'm uncoordinated and dyspraxic, I'm lazy and unambitious, I'm bitter and cynical, childish and contrarian. I stand for nothing, I feel nothing, nothing besides the overwhelming desire to love and be loved in return. That's all I have to give but it's not enough. Who could love someone like me?

>> No.11896684
File: 203 KB, 1507x1155, boomers.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896684

>>11896388
I Hope you were able to get out and mow yesterday.

>> No.11896712

>>11896587
Idk dude but the quality of your relationships is directly proportional to the respect you have for each other. If you think nothing of manipulating people you're a cunt, and a lot of women feel outright entitled to manipulate their 'man' to some extent. My advice is find a woman who doesn't judge you based solely on social status, because those women are invariably shallow and worthless.

>> No.11896757

>>11896659
I'd love you if I were a girl, anon!

To be honest, though, it sounds like you're expecting that being loved will somehow validate your existence. Being in love and loved in return will definitely make you feel very good and confident in yourself, but it won't change anything concrete about your person. What I mean is, if you look at yourself objectively and find that you have nothing, then you must make something out of yourself, love or no love. Love is incidental - while it may be valuable it is in fact completely unrelated to your worth as a human being; the two are parallel things, not the same measure, and only our present culture of the glorification of romantic love makes them seem the same thing.

>> No.11896772

>>11895452
this was great, of course the incels itt with no fire in 'em completely ignored it. got any other writings like this?

>> No.11896777

>>11896712
Thank you for the solid advice

>> No.11896792
File: 56 KB, 620x387, 5363456346.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896792

>tfw chad volcel that despises both normies and incles

>> No.11896832

>>11896757
Love yourself more, you nutjob. No one can love someone who doesn't love themselves.

You need to find what gives you pleasure in life and then go after it. Drive is sexy. Activity is sexy.

It's good to realize you plateau'd, it's good to see yourself. But don;t beat yourself up.

Biological imperative is to breed with a survivor. You want a partner? Be a worthy partner.

tl;dr I'm you, I'm almost 40 & tho nothing in my life would be seen as a WIN I am living a pretty cool time & have friends & lovers

>> No.11896842
File: 47 KB, 655x560, 1f07_lenny_carl.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896842

>>11896832
>I'm almost 40
Can you people just fuck off? If you still frequent this site by your mid-20s you're hopeless.

>> No.11896914

>>11896315
>>11896373
>There's no such thing as an 'incel', regardless of what butthurt robots say.
"If we assume that about 30% of the adult population is single (see Pew Research Center, 2005, 2013) then, about 15% of the adult population is expected to be involuntary so."
Apostolou, M., Papadopoulou, I., & Georgiadou, P. (2018). Are People Single by Choice? Involuntary Singlehood in an Evolutionary Perspective. Evolutionary Psychological Science.
https://pastebin.com/raw/JhptPWaY

>> No.11896920

>>11896914
>le appeal to authority
Once again, there's no such thing as an incel. Those people just aren't willing to go low enough to get pussy.

>> No.11896929

>>11896920
it's an appeal to empirical data, not to authority. you're retarded.
>Those people just aren't willing to go low enough to get pussy.
the fact that unemployed people aren't willing to prostitute themselves doesn't mean that unemployment doesn't exist

>> No.11896932
File: 159 KB, 700x609, fuherfedora.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896932

>>11896929
>Prostitute themselves
Hyperbole much?

>> No.11896947

>>11896932
not really. a lot of people wouldn't be able to even find clients, so for them it's still not low enough

>> No.11896948

>>11896545
You seem like a good dude though, I'd be friends with you anon.

>> No.11896954

>>11896832
I don't hate myself. I just recognize that I'm not enough for the vast majority (perhaps the totality) of women.

>You need to find what gives you pleasure in life and then go after it.
Not much, if I'm honest. Jerking off, shitposting, browsing online, reading, daydreaming about a better life, talking to girls I'm attracted to and deluding myself into thinking the attraction is mutual.

>Be a worthy partner
Even if I really knew what that looked like, I'm not sure I could manage it.

>> No.11896965
File: 30 KB, 700x606, 1535337448959.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896965

>>11896929
>it's an appeal to empirical data, not to authority. you're retarded
the 'authority' in this case is the 'empirical data' which you almost certainly don't understand
>the fact that unemployed people
Shut the fuck up right there. The very term 'incel' stands for 'involuntary celibate' i.e. someone who CAN'T get pussy EVEN IF THEY TRIED. 'Unemployment' just means someone who is unemployed. Stop using this fucking retarded example you stupid cunt, it makes no sense.

>> No.11896984

>>11896965
that's not how appeal to authority works. you really are retarded
and I obviously meant those unemployed people who can't find a job despite trying. but I guess you're just too retarded to deduce that on your own

>> No.11896989
File: 80 KB, 851x714, 1532394072291.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11896989

>>11896984
>that's not how appeal to authority works.
Yes it is, the principle is identical and you know it.
>and I obviously meant something I didn't mean but will now pretend I did to save face
>a-also I'll call him a retard again!
drink bleach

>> No.11896994

>>11896989
You might be the dumbest poster on /lit/

>> No.11896997

>>11896989
>a-also I'll call him a retard again!
I presented empirical evidence to support my claim and you dismissed it as an "appeal to authority", so I don't know what you want me to say. This truly is the most retarded thing I've read since summer at least.

>> No.11897005

>>11896471
Go to therapy.

I was in your exact position and it actually helped a lot. You definitely seem to have a legitimate phobia of your own sexuality.

>> No.11897038

>>11895391
1.Read the "close page" button on whatever browser you're using. Press it. Realize 4chan has become more cancerous than the worst parts of Reddit AND tumblr and find a new place to lurk

2. Stop identifying with incels. It's a fabricated identity as fictional as 'otherkin'.

3. Read "The Dangerous Book for Boys" by Hal Iggulden. Has examples of what real men are and how obsessing over women does nothing. Also has lessons on shit your shit parents should have taught you.

4. After reading previously mentioned book, build a tree house in your dad's back yard while shouting Navajo code speak. That'll learn'em

>> No.11897053

>>11896989
you're a retard

>> No.11897063
File: 6 KB, 250x250, 1537963121166.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897063

>>11896994
>t. seething 'incel' with no rebuttal to what I've written

>>11896997
>I presented empirical evidence to support my claim
You posted a pastebin link of a study you almost certainly haven't read, and provided no context for it beyond a single quote that proves nothing and was essentially a sweeping generalisation of millions of supposedly 'involuntary' celibate men.

>This truly is the most retarded thing
Stop right there. You're rock-stupid. Like to the point that the average rock probably has greater critical thinking skills than you.

Please, PLEASE fuck off to r9k and stop wasting my time with your autistic drivel. Robots and self-proclaimed 'incels' should be banned on sight.

I hate you fuckers so much.

>> No.11897070

>>11897053
>t. seething 'incel' with no rebuttal to what I've written

>> No.11897089

>>11896965
You monumental moron. Unemployed means seeking work and not finding it. Those who are not seeking work and are out of the workforce don't count towards unemployment rates or counts.

>> No.11897097
File: 54 KB, 500x500, 1538075342407.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897097

>>11897089
>Unemployed means seeking work and not finding it.
No, it means unemployed.

>Those who are not seeking work and are out of the workforce don't count towards unemployment rates or counts.
see pic

>> No.11897101

>>11896954
What kind of daydreams do you have, Anon? You need to focus on those goals first so that you can start trying to put together a plan to achieve them.

>> No.11897112

>>11897097
I would post a link to the definition of unemployment rate, but you would just dismiss it as an appeal to authority.

Congratulations, I guess; with that method of argument you will always believe yourself correct and everyone else idiots.

>> No.11897127
File: 107 KB, 1080x998, the state of you.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897127

>>11897112
>unemployment rate
now THIS is what I call shifting the goal posts!

>> No.11897129

>>11896346
>>11895434
>>11896373
>>11897063
I totally agree with you, these people are a plague on this site and should be banned. Here are some suggestions to make it a better place:
Ban r9k and pol to get rid of misogynists and nazis.
Ban anyone who identifies as or uses the word 'incel'.
Implement upvotes(so that the most popular thread is on top instead of the most controversial).

>> No.11897183

>>11897129
but other than your last point this a solid list of suggestions, given that /pol9k/ incels are easily the wrist posters on this site. It's comical how little self-awareness you people have.

>> No.11897189

>>11897183
*worst

>> No.11897195

>>11897183
Cringe

>> No.11897199

>>11897195
What possible benefit do /pol9k/ incels provide? They're the lowest the low, and easily.

>> No.11897214

>>11897063
>You posted a pastebin link of a study you almost certainly haven't read, and provided no context for it beyond a single quote that proves nothing
it proves that the prevalence of involuntary singlehood is at around 15%
>Please, PLEASE fuck off to r9k and stop wasting my time with your autistic drivel. Robots and self-proclaimed 'incels' should be banned on sight.
nice projection. I'm neither from r9k nor an incel

>> No.11897232

>>11895391

The forcibly celibate of our societies are chosen by God to save women from themselves, whether they're Otakus NEETing in Kyoto, Incels residing in Isfahan, or creeps from Crete. We've bided our time, absorbed all the scorn and humiliation heaped upon us by status-seeking normies into patience, endurance and willpower. We've watched warily as those same normieshit locusts swarmed our entire internet, consuming it's precious bandwidth with their NPC problems, their thirst for pleb pornography and their fawning for hypergamous medical marvels politely called "women." Overtime, those thirsty normieshits became meatspace automatons implementing a new age of favoritism for all roastie harlots, and any transgression, however microscopic, drew a call to arms amongst those loyal white knights who defended any slack-snizzed feminist by day and edged to poisonous cuckporn at night. These trendy and progressive rules were to underpin the dawn of the Fempire, we're it not for the rise of us incel memelords. It was us who mustered the chutzpah to nudge our way into the gangbang pile of society, shocking everyone by not rolling over and dying after being denied any licks on the fuzzy, dirty, demonically bespectacled Tootsie-Pop feminists that rule by writ of their sea of thirsty orbiters. There will be none of Sarah Jeong's castration events, nor Katy Perry's Interracial Breeding Grounds. Men will not endure compulsory detainment and arousal analysis in the hopes of helping harpies' "predict rape." Instead, it is the Roasties who shall rue this day, the day when the forcibly celibate redpilled even the pussy-eating NPCs on the secrets to fighting every bitchy feminist whore: ignore her and if you need to, simply use your masculinity to overpower them.

>> No.11897239

>>11897063
Alright I give up. Have a (You)

>> No.11897414

>>11896471
This. The idea of me being sexual with anyone seems laughable. The idea of me even suggesting it to another person feels like I would be insulting them.

>>11897101
About having a girlfriend and being a famous writer.

>> No.11897685

>>11895391
Arthur Bremer - An Assassin's Diary
Stephen King - Rage
Thomas Ligotti - The Conspiracy Against The Human Race

>> No.11897709

>>11895477
I'm intentionally celibate because I wanna sell my virginity one day SUCKERS

>> No.11897900

>>11896291
lol, this is actually a pretty good response when you think about the language most parents use (about dating)

>> No.11897904

>>11896315
Delusional

>> No.11897919
File: 22 KB, 737x415, IKIFEEL.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897919

>>11896659
Brother

>> No.11897945

>>11896989
This ain't it chief

>> No.11897971
File: 66 KB, 555x710, h88S1a_18-s.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897971

>>11895391
Russian classics…

>> No.11897978
File: 70 KB, 555x710, QAVnE3vKpNI.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897978

>>11897971
…more Russian classics…

>> No.11897988
File: 77 KB, 555x710, afqHyX5IE_M.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897988

>>11897978
…even more Russian classics…

>> No.11897992
File: 75 KB, 555x710, 5KkTVd3N7TU.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11897992

>>11897988
…and Russian classics.

>> No.11898164

>>11896659
you and me both mate

>> No.11898528

>>11895391
her name is pucci

>> No.11898675
File: 50 KB, 455x750, 13015429_1606917132965152_2387422117067136249_n.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11898675

>incel thread
>full of same fagging and autism

>> No.11898700
File: 15 KB, 220x298, 220px-SorenKierkegaard.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
11898700

>>11895391
This guy

>> No.11898707

If my self-esteem is so low that I can't even ask a woman out, does that make me a volcel or an incel?

>> No.11898825

>>11898707
are you /fit/ or at least not fat? have you tried therapy?
the answer will also largely depend on one's view on free will

>> No.11898834

>>11898825
I'm fit, have a handsome face (i've been hit on multiple times), and a 7.5" dick. I'm just too insecure about my height to ask even women who are shorter than me out. All those "swipe left if you're under 6'" tinder profiles gave me really bad body dysmorphia.

>> No.11898856

>>11895423
Nigga I ain't clicking that shit

>> No.11898866

>>11895486
upvoted

>> No.11898935

Why /lit/ can't be honest with themselves?
What is it about being an adult virgin that drows so much outrage?

>> No.11899428

>>11898935
its gay

>> No.11899701

>>11898935
Social conformity is of utmost importance. Thus spake NPCthustra

>> No.11899753

>>11897129
Bravo, you just killed 4chan. Or was that part of your plan?

>> No.11899799

>>11899701
Social conformity is nessesary for acquisition of wealth/power. In order to operate in a society, one must play by its rules.

>> No.11900676

>>11897129
based and redpilled
http://dustinkmacdonald.com/involuntary-celibacy-causes-treatments/

>> No.11900691

>>11899799
this is absolutely not true, you can gain wealth by being a criminal, by conning people, by creating something valuable people want, etc.

Social conformity is only necesssary in a very basic way as in 'dont run through the streets naked and screaming'