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I'm tired of you incels shitting up my board.

your failures with women start with your assumption that woman look for the same thing in a man as you do in women. Why the hell would you think that sexual dimorphism would end what woman are attracted too. Now I think this needs some clarification, I don't mean to suggest that you think women are attracted to large breast and soft skin, I'm saying that looks are not anywhere near as important to women as the blackpillers would have you believe.

have you ever thought about why attractive traits women are attractive to you? well, its because they are markers of physical health and the ability to bear and sustain children. last time I checked men did not need to give birth, so why would women select for health in the same way as men do?

in the wild and even to this day, the most dangerous time in a woman's life is when she is pregnant and giving birth. even having to flee from a potentially dangerous situation can have devastating consequences for her and the unborn child, and one must also consider that raising a child in the wild is very difficult. A woman needs a man in order to successfully raise a child in the wild.

fundamentally woman select for lack of a better term, confidant males. This is what woman find attractive in males, their demeanour and personality. I don't want to give you the idea that woman don't appreciate handsome men, but it is not anywhere close to as important markers of attractiveness are in woman.

why you don't get any women is because you don't venture outside of the world of online dating. in the world of online dating, woman hold ALL the card, and you are judged solely by your appearance. and women generally speaking do NOT pursue like men do, unless the men are very physically attractive, this is how you get your 80/20 online dating meme. in fact, one of the things they select for is your ability to take responsibly for situations, getting pursued is the opposite of that.

For millions of years, women have selected men based upon different criteria, because women and men have different sexual roles. this has not changed in the last 10 years, people have been having sex long before and for longer than complex social structures, language, consciousness and pretty much all that distinguishes us from animals. these processes are old and imbedded and will not change. women cannot control sexuality, it cannon be rationalised nor quantified. women don't even understand their sexuality. whenever they are asked how they were seduced they will say something along the lines of "it just happened", its a base emotion.

I'm sorry your younger years have browbeaten you into submission and impudent rage, but blaming women for something they can't control and that YOU were misled about isn't productive. it's kinda like you people have a sexual death wish, it's just not helpful.read this:

https://www.pdfdrive.com/the-manual-what-women-want-and-how-to-give-it-to-them-e162908565.html