/lit/ - Literature

>>19534854

Having masculine male friends is very important. A group of friends who have interesting hobbies, such as sports or music or some craft who spend pretty much all of their time with friends, partying, at work or pursuing a personal hobby, never on the internet; they can talk to girls without any shyness, because being themselves is attractive, it is what they do all the time because they aren't thinking about what to do, they are always enjoying the moment and when a girl comes along it's just another moment, nothing to worry about.

They don't take advice from PUA videos, or from 4chan or from anyone in real life, not seriously at least, because they want to have the personality which suits them, some are more sensetive, some are very funny some are athletic or serious, they are discovering their own nature and enjoying it. Then, once you have been as you are around ten or twenty or five-hundred women you'll find one who is pretty and attractive, who also likes you. This will develop naturally.

If you think finding good friends is hard or that you're too ugly, or that it's impossible for a beautiful girl to enjoy your true authentic personality, then you're probably exaggerating, don't you think?

Be around different types of girls and come to your own conclusions about them. My own opinion is that just like men: many girls have a lot of negative traits and few redeeming ones, others have a few aspects I don't like but other wonderful aspects which make my life happier. So, I love those girls.