/lit/ - Literature

>>17842077
To follow up, the fact is some people are broken. OP >>17837245, so if Heidegger philosophy amounts to just be yourself >>17840316 then its fucking stupid.

>Just meditate bro, just take therapy bro

The fact is this, life isn't fair, self improvement is a cope. The act of realizing that you're broken isn't what fucking broke you. That's what I take issue with in the OP. Is it better to acknowledge that you're broken or deny it, I don't know. But the reality again is that YOU ARE BROKEN.

there's no reason to be this demoralized unless you are actually like straight up deformed and irredeemably ugly, get your head out of the clouds bro.
For starters, in real life the vast majority of couples consist of two average or mediocre people, chances are if you browse 4chan and eat up what every incel here says, your perceptions of human relationships are deeply flawed in this regard
secondly, plenty of people who judge themselves to be too ugly straight up do not comprehend what kind of changes they can accomplish with a little bit of effort so that their status can be uplifted to at the very least "average or mediocre" and thus they can get them in the game