/lit/ - Literature

To be sexually inattractive is a bad fate but one that is often overlooked. For example, if you're a man and by fate you are forced to marry an ugly woman, there are fate further than procreating with an unattractive member of the opposite sex. First of all, in order for a "family" to be functional, one needs a set of behavior. And one of them in particular is constantly validating the appearance of your partner. Since you're having sex with your partner, it means you cannot describe her as "ugly" when having sex, otherwise you shouldn't be having sex with her. But deep down inside you aren't really attracted to your wife, and you would like to tell the truth, but societal conventions force you to play the role of a husband by force because of your limited choices. So you are forced to tell a lie, lie, lie, lie, more lies until you find your will squashed by reality. Marrying an ugly woman is a form of tyranny because you are not allowed to tell the truth, otherwise the family would fall apart. It is akin to living in a dictatorship where you are forced to concoct lies to please the mighty despot. Maybe only the romantics can truly say an ugly woman pretty for to him horseshit might as well be gold, diametrically opposed to the realist. Thus, it in good fate to everyone, men and women, to have respective partners whom they can say with certainty that their physical attributes are of merit for attraction. Because the basis of romantic attraction is the body and not the soul, for maleness and femaleness are bodily qualities. If romance should seek the virtue of the soul for unity, then the most obvious choice would be non-sexual unity of man with man because very rarely are women with quality of soul matching that of a man.

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>I've took the time to go through studies with people I actually know only for them to say the same shit the week after.
That sadly goes for a good part of humanity and not only jews.
People simply cannot learn.