/lit/ - Literature

>>13373582
>>13373768
gay male here; this is the dumbest shit I've ever heard, and you're probably LARPing. but here's my response anyway:

the fact is, if you don't fantasize about a man wrapping his arms around you, looking you in the eyes, and telling you that he loves you, then you aren't gay. a very important aspect of being gay is HOMOROMANTIC feelings, which means an overwhelming desire to LOVE and BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH a person of the same gender. if you simply want to "fuck a dude", then it's very likely that you might be sexually attracted to men but still be entirely heteroromantic.

if you understood bisexuality, it would make it very easy for you to understand this concept, but this is 4chan so you probably don't understand bisexuality either. there are plenty of bisexual men who are SEXUALLY attracted to men and will fuck them, but will *NEVER* seek men out for *RELATIONSHIPS* (the reverse is also true). we call these bisexual men "heteroromantic". now, bisexuals are obviously not homosexuals by definition. so we have to ask ourselves then, what makes a homosexual? is it just a man who has sex with men? if that were the case, then the bisexual who was heteroromantic and married to a woman would be... a homosexual to you? because he liked to fuck men too once upon a time? this is fucking horseshit, the bisexual clearly has never had any interest in romantic relationships with men.

so the defining feature of THE HOMOSEXUAL MAN is that they want to enter into romantic relationships with men. they aren't just sexually attracted to men here and there, and want to "fuck a dude's ass from time to time" or "let a dude suck my dick from time to time". they want to stare into the eyes of their lover and tell them that they love them. they want to imagine and build a future with them. for a gay man, all of these aspects of love are something they experience only with other men. the idea of this probably DISGUSTS you, which should make it all the more obvious to you that you aren't gay. there's your fucking clue, buddy. if some dude looking into your eyes and professing his love for you sounds disgusting and not something you'd be into, YOU AIN'T GAY NIGGA. and I know 100% that this describes you. I keep talking to clowns like you on 4chan who are just horny and want their dicks sucked but would RECOIL at the mere thought of a real, loving, romantic relationship with another man.

TL;DR: any retard can fuck a man, but it takes a gay man to love a man.

so, you aren't gay, you might have some sexual attraction to men, and basically you could be a bisexual who is heteroromantic. also, how the fuck haven't you figured out your sexuality already? you people are just ridiculous I knew I was gay when I was fucking 12 years old. get serious already, you clowns.