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>>20975446

Depends on the culture and background of the woman. Some women are sapiosexual and dig it when a man utilizes his brain to fawn over them. Some women think it's bitch-made.

You should know who you're talking to well enough to "get" what approach will work for them. If you don't, it's a good sign your just infatuated and you need to take a step back.

One girl I used to date loved receiving letters, writing, and artwork; I used to call her my muse and she would melt. Another didn't even give me a chance after my first note, told me it was cowardly. One girl liked roses and thought it was pretty charming when I bought her some. Another girl gave me the "creep" look and threw them away when I was out of sight.

This stops happening once you get better at screening and assessing women, over time you will find your "type" and be able to make all the "right" moves.

It's not childish or stupid, it just depends on the girl. It also depends on you and your style as well. Some guys have a "dickhead" vibe even though they're really chill or shy, playing up to your vibe also helps screen. Sometimes you have to give people what they expect before you can give them what they want.