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Are you lonely?
I really hope you're not.
You have your friends at /jp/, what else could you need?

>> No.9045968

Yes I'm glad I have /jp/
When I have to go to college I force myself when talking to normals. It's horrible... conversations go nowhere. Normals are the worst.

>> No.9045986

I wish I had friends

>> No.9045993

I don't talk too much to /jp/ because anything you do might be too normal for them.

>> No.9045996

>>9045968
I hope you are being ironic.

>> No.9045998

>>9045996
Now studying is too normal. That's what I'm talking about

>> No.9046007

>>9045996
I think he's not. Actually I have an easier time talking here on /jp/ than everywhere else, other forums as well as reality.

Even with the ongoing troll/rage/meme-spam, I still enjoy this board. I don't know why but each time I started to have a 'normal' conversation everywhere else with a 'normal' people to 'socialize', their attitude/behavior/everything-about-them just pisses me off for some reason..

>> No.9046010

I can't get along with normal people, and people from /jp/ don't like me either. I try really hard to be nice too ;_;

>> No.9046014

>>9046010
I can't get along with normal people either.. Fucking social anxiety

>> No.9046018

>>9046010

Anyone who is a nice person is okay to me.

So, I definitely want you here.

>> No.9046035

I just had one of those incredible ejaculations that made my legs weak and now I feel like all of my veins and arteries are sex tubes each ejaculating on their own. I could die right now and have no regrets about anything.

>> No.9046037
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9046037

>You have your friends at /jp/, what else could you need?

>> No.9046044

Nah. I've never made an effort to make friends because I'm all that I need to have a decent time.

>> No.9046041

>>9046037
mfw that feel when no gf

>> No.9046042
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9046042

/jp/sies make bad friends.

>> No.9046046

>>9046037

Okuu, oneburp has been down for like 3 days and I've been trying to contact you. Is there any other way I can send you a message?

>> No.9046053

>>9046037
Is it wrong that I still want a romance?
All the people that say "fuck women" or something, have already experienced that.
I haven't experienced anything.

>> No.9046056

>>9045968
Are you me?

>> No.9046067
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>>9046046
I guess Im gonna have to open an email to chat on msn with my /jp/ friends. I will put it in the email field later.

>> No.9046072

a-anyone want to talk on omegle?

>> No.9046080

>>9046072

Sure, I guess.

>> No.9046096

I'm not lonely anymore. Making friends on the internet is great. If only they lived near me...

>> No.9046109

>>9046096
Now why would you want to ruin a perfectly good online friendship by meeting them?

>> No.9046112
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Sometimes I think having a friend would be nice. Sometimes I think about the things that normal friends do, like running gags and laughing about stupid things they did in the past. Stupid things like that which I never get to do. I know we're all 'friends' on /jp/ but no one is special to each other.
It's like this offline too. I speak to many people occasionally but I'm incapable of getting close to someone. And I get too nervous online to make internet friends.

I wouldn't call it loneliness because it's not a painful thought. I just think about it sometimes.

>> No.9046128

whoever I talked to in omegle I'm sorry, my mom just walked in and started talking to me so I didn't want to bother making you wait until she was done

>> No.9046161

>>9046128

The closest thing to a friend you've had in years, and you blew it.

I bet the Anon you were talking to is completely heartbroken.

>> No.9046167

>>9046037
will you hold hands with me, anon?

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>>9046161
I dont think any of the little girls on /jp/ is that sensitive.

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>>9046167
>anon

>> No.9046185

I genuinely feel more comfortable and satisfied by myself, so I never get lonely.

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>>9046167
Too lewd!

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>>9046197
g-gomen nasai!!
>>9046172
it's not lewd if no one finds out

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>>9046172
g-gomen nasaii!!

>>9046197
it's not lewd if no one finds out

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>>9046231
Ok...

>> No.9046236

>>9046216
>>9046231

>> No.9046247

Sometimes I'm afraid that I'm not a very good friend, even to other online people. I don't talk much, not because I don't want to, but because my social skills are so bad that I can't hold a conversation very well.

>> No.9046285

/jp/ is all I need. It's not like I "hate" normals, it's just that every time I tried to talk or spend some time with them it just made me unbearably uncomfortable. Each to his own I guess.

>> No.9046371
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9046371

How does one get internet friends? Should I start doing something like drawing and look for other people who draw? I currently play high level video games but everyone doesn't take it easy.

>> No.9046378

>>9046371

IRC

>> No.9046382

>>9046378
What channels? I've only used IRC a few times to download anime through xdcc.

>> No.9046383

>>9046378
is for fags

>> No.9046390

>>9046382
Don't use IRC. Only terrible people use IRC and you will regret trying it.

>> No.9046417

Online friendships are enjoyable but they come with risks. It's too easy to pick up and drop friends online and even if you get really close to someone and feel like they're family they can just disappear and leave you wondering what happened. I'm too fragile for that so I prefer to be the first to leave online friends. It's a terrible cycle and I'm currently being eaten away by guilt at leaving my last friends.

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>>9046053

I don't think that it is wrong. I actually don't care for having friends (or at least I don't go out of my way to make or keep them), but I do want to know what it is like to be with a girl. I feel pathetic for not knowing what that is like.

I try to convince myself that it isn't what it is cracked up to be, of course.

>> No.9046426

>>9046053
You will never find it.
Better give up now.

>> No.9046433

>/jp/
>friends

>> No.9046437

>>9046418
It isn't. No, seriously listen to some leykis 101 and read feminists blogs, find out how shitty women really are.

>> No.9046441

Having online friends is close to normalfag level. My anxiety is too bad to have friends online or offline. No MMOs, no MSN, no IRC, etc. I can't use normal forums either so 4chan is the only place I can talk.

>> No.9046450

>>9046433
Who are you quoting?

>> No.9046442

>>9046433
More likely than you think!

>> No.9046444

>>9046418
You could always pay for sex and find out, you know.

Pride is meaningless for a NEET.

>> No.9046452

>>9046371
Can we try to be friends?

>> No.9046461

>>9046053
>>9046418
I am hesitant to post this but I will give you advice. When I was in high school, before my anxiety started to get much worse, I was able to have a girlfriend for about 10 months (I am still a virgin, though). It will not be like what you want it to be. Women will never live up to your ideals and they will always disappoint you and it will be hard for you to deal with them, especially if you have anxiety issues. The things that you will want them there for (sex, comfort, emotional support, etc.) are things they will generally not want to do for you, and for the latter things (like emotional support), they will think you are weak and pathetic for wanting it. There are some good things, like being able to hold her, but when you look back on it all you feel that it just wasn't worth it because of all the pain it caused you. The type of female that people like us would want is something that doesn't exist and its best to just accept it.

>> No.9046464

>>9046441
lol check out this nerdlord, can't even talk one on one with another person when both have their identities hidden

>> No.9046466

>>9046452

Sure, I'l be willing to try.

>> No.9046467
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>>9046172
>he doesn't anoymize all posts

>> No.9046472

>>9046466
Okay then!
Feel free to add me or email me!
Email's in the field.

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>>9046464
Please don't cyber bully

>> No.9046474

>>9046382
Pick one based on your interets?

>> No.9046486

>>9046461
Also sexual things will be very awkward. She likely will not be into your fetishes, but if she is, you will certainly have trouble enjoying them with her because of your other problems. You will not know how to please her and it will make her dislike you because you are inexperienced and ineffective. You'll be hearing a lot of "no, not like that," "that isn't comfortable," "this just isn't working for me", etc. until she gets tired of you and moves on to someone that can fulfill her whore lust.

>> No.9046499

>>9046461
I don't even hate women, but this guy is spot on.

I've been in two relationships and was once engaged. Shit is overrated, mainly because the parts of it you want you are not allowed to want because you are a male.

>> No.9046507

>>9046486
You just named another reason why women should NOT EVER slut themselves.

Sluts are only beneficial to rich men and good looking players, and if you're good looking or rich yourself why the hell would you settle down with a slut if you can do better.

>> No.9046515

I just want you to hold me /jp/.

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>>9046515

>> No.9046519

I wish I could be friends with some people from /jp/ but all you guys are from slavland so we can't share the same conversation topics...

>> No.9046529

>>9046499
>>9046486
>>9046461
The reason people date is that you don't meet the girl of your dreams easily, and it's not the first or second or third girl you fall for sometimes. Some people get lucky, but most have to date a bunch of people before finding someone that fits them well, someone who it's just comfortable and natural to be around who complements who you are like creme complements pie.

I've seen a lot of bad relationships and I've seen a lot of good ones, ones that lead to a wonderful marriage. I say this as someone who's been cheated on and dumped many times years ago. I'm not a terribly competitive person, I don't like the game, and I'm sure a lot of you feel the same way. However there are some that are willing to not let one or two bad relationships stop them altogether. There are some that are willing to endure until they find the girl they never thought they could get. To those people, I wish you good luck.

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>>9046461
>>9046486

Yeah, I figured. Even ugly girls don't seem to be any exception. I mean, I'm sure that there is at least one sincerely nice girl out there (actually, I've met one or two), it is just this: what are the chances that I'm going to meet them and what are the chances that they would be interested in me?

It isn't about sex; I've actually had opportunities to lose my virginity. But I need something else, you know.

>> No.9046532

>>9046461
>>9046486
I hate the crushing lonliness though. Is it REALLY not worth it? Is it better than days and days of alone. I'd try to make friends if I wasn't such a fucking NEET shutin with no motivation for anything whatsoever.

This feel sucks man

>> No.9046536

>>9046532
Just get a cat or dog.

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>>9046529
>There are some that are willing to endure until they find the girl they never thought they could get.
my le mon visage face when I haven't ``endured'' even a single date lmao

>> No.9046554

>>9046533

Don't let the opportunity pass when you find a sincerely nice girl. You have nothing to lose.

>> No.9046558

>>9046554
>You have nothing to lose.
His virginity.

>> No.9046566

>>9046532
It isn't worth it. If you want to learn the hard way go try it out, but you're not going to find someone you will be compatible with. You might be able to if you were normal, but none of us are. I think you will regret it in the end.

You see, there is not a female equivalent to us, and if there were they are very rare and you aren't going to find them because they will be hidden away like you (a catch 22, I guess). Any woman you will find will be normal and thus will want things you don't want, hate the things you like, and look down on you once she learns more about you. The crazier ones aren't going to be better either.

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