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Do you have any friends?

>> No.8754711

This story is sensationalist bullshite but I agree with it. It's not fair that I was picked on for being a complete spergial nerdlord, but Andrew Jones was protected from harm because he came out of the closet and could act as irritatingly flamboyant as he liked.

Fortunately I went to a Catholic school, so when he complained guys were being homophobic towards him in the boy's toilets, our teachers made him use the girl's like the nancy boy he was, and for an encore made him use their changing rooms too.

>> No.8754710

You're all my friends.
:3

>> No.8754718

Yeah. Many superficial. Being normalfag rocks. Before that i used to have always 1 friend who would take a bullet for me and vice versa.

>> No.8754723

>>8754711
brb going to go to catholic school and act flamboyant

>> No.8754725

I used to have some up until puberty hit and made all social contact awkward.

>> No.8754720

No, as of now I have absolutely no friends.

Less than one month ago, I had one friend. Recently, he told me that I'm a loser "who never wants to do fucking anything" and he's tired of trying to include me in stuff with his more extroverted friends and that I'm slowing him down in life, and that I should kill myself so he doesn't have to give a shit about me anymore.

>> No.8754731

>>8754720
Fuck people.

>> No.8754736

>>8754720
I'm curious. What did you say to him after he told you that?

>> No.8754738

Friendship is a kind of love.

And I love /jp/.

>> No.8754740
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8754740

I don't hang about with anyone like friends do, but I speak to people online (that I know/knew IRL) everyday

>> No.8754739

>>8754723
Many people considered that, but that would mean you'd actually have to be gay. Being gay is for gays.

>> No.8754749

>>8754711
>and for an encore made him use their changing rooms too.
Fuck, I would've gone gay there too.

>> No.8754744

>>8754736
y-you too

>> No.8754745

No, I tend to make friends easily but I lose them because I am completely unwilling to keep relationships.
This imageboard is the only thing I can stomach because there is no obligations here and you guys actually are similar to me. My entire life I never met anyone like me.

>> No.8754762

No one else lives in my room, so no I have no friends. Unless you count the girl at the grocery store who comments on the things I buy and brushes my hand whenever she gives me change back.

>> No.8754761

>>8754745
Same here except I usually prefer the textboards.

>> No.8754759

>>8754739
>you'd have to actually be gay
No, just act flamboyant. Then when they find out I have a harem in the girl's changing room I'll be like, "You cured me of my homosexuality!"

>> No.8754765

>>8754749
For what? Looking at 3DPD pantsu?

>> No.8754766

>>8754736
>alright. sorry. bye.
I was trying to act all nonchalant but I stammering like a bitch too because I was trying my best to hold back tears.

>> No.8754772

>>8754762
>she wants to fuck

>> No.8754777
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8754777

No.
Lost them all after I started talking to them.
Hurt at first to realize they cared to little about me but oh well.

>> No.8754782

>>8754777
I'll be your friend.

>> No.8754780

>>8754766
You should have kicked his ass.

>> No.8754781

I've never had anything more than acquaintances.

>> No.8754783

>>8754720
And this is why you don't trust extroverts.

>> No.8754791

>>8754765
To be fair if you had outgrown 3DPD in your teenage years, you're either a very lucky little girl or you came to a forced decision prematurely. Go experience the world some more before you decide to hate it, then get over it completely.

>> No.8754796
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>>8754762
There is a girl at the local Super Target who always does this shit to me, makes jokes with me and always laughs at mine while she is working. She is a 9/10 by normalfag standards so I am convinced she just likes messing with me.

Also panties are justice, fuck that guy in this thread who was dissing them.

>> No.8754799
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8754799

>>8754782

>> No.8754803

>>8754762
>>8754796
Cash register monkeys have fucking awful dysfunctional lives without exception. They are desperate for an escape, any escape, even you.

>> No.8754805

>>8754799
Post your msn or something if you like....

>> No.8754808

>>8754805
Why would I have any of those messangers?

>> No.8754809

>>8754791
Void teenage libido.

>> No.8754815

>>8754808
I'm sorry...Do you want to be my friend?

>> No.8754817

>>8754815
To be honest friends have been nothing but hassle.

>> No.8754825

>>8754796
Maybe she's serious.

Before I dropped out of university I was dragged along to a party where a fairly geeky (I'm so sorry) but attractive girl took an interest to me. After a few hours of flirting I basically flipped my shit and assumed she had some ulterior motive and just ranted at how annoying she was and how she should just fuck off and be a slut elsewhere, maybe go and fuck one of her "gamer" friends. Not that I particularly had anything against her, I just assumed she couldn't be sincere and that by being a dick, I would "win". Of course she got upset and told me she had been serious and really liked me. We never spoke again after that.
I felt like a complete asshole for a while, then I got diagnosed with Asperger's disorder which made me feel better. Maybe one day I'll track her down and explain to her I'm just a socially inept retard, then we can go for coffee. Though she'll probably try to fuck me. The whore.

>> No.8754828

>>8754817
Yeah...I know how that feels.
Sorry for bothering you.

>> No.8754838

>>8754791
Have you forgotten what board you're on?

>> No.8754846

I have internet friends that I've met on 4chan over the years.

Good enough for me

>> No.8754851

Threads like this make me think that the whole 3DPD thing is just a meme and the average /jp/ is desperate for company and a normal life.

That or these are just people from /a/ and /v/.

>> No.8754860

>>8754838
I'm probably wrong, but I imagine most /jp/ers are too old for the "2D love" boom that has taken off recently, or that they are graduates from the forever_alone.jpg blogging-about-being-friendzoned /r9k/ camp (even if /r9k/ itself didn't exist when they were like that).
I'm not saying people didn't like 2D ten years ago, just that most /jp/ teenagers were probably your ordinary nerds leading mundane lives where nothing exciting (good or bad) really happened. Kind of like if John Hughes wrote a film about an anime club.

>> No.8754865

>>8754851

I want to say most of /jp/ probably came from old /a/, and no doubt a fair number of /v/ as well.

/a/ and /v/ and where you go when you're still desperate for company and a normal life. /jp/ is where you come when you finally give up.

>> No.8754868

>>8754851
I sometimes think this, but I am quite serious and I know other people are. Keep fighting the good fight and telling the, "Well I still *like* 3D and *sort of* want a normal life..." faggots to fuck off. If there's one shred of elitism left in your blood, this is when you should exercise it.

That said we're mostly still quite unhappy with life and a little misanthropic, even if the outside world is a scary place of no real consequence to a NEET. It's just fun to talk about.

>> No.8754872

>>8754865
> /jp/ is where you come when you finally give up.
You make it sound like a bad thing.
/jp/ is where you come when you have ACHIEVED SATORI.

>> No.8754876

I like 3D and don't find it pigdisgusting. I can't fucking stand socializing and normalfag stuff though. Don't like 3D enough to make any effort in faking it to get it either.

>> No.8754883

>>8754876
>I like 3D and don't find it pigdisgusting.
Why though? I'm assuming you like 2D too (even if you're new). Why would you settle for something if you can have an idealized perfection of that same thing? To you sitting in your bedroom you can have either, and I don't see why you'd choose the lesser one. Not attacking you or trying to start a flamewar, this just makes zero sense to me.

>> No.8754904

i have around 8 true friends. been haning with them since middle school and high school.

i do miss our younger years when we played video games had sleep overs and watched movies and fool around the big city.
now, we just hang in my friends apartment smoking weed all day and at times, go out and get boozed

>> No.8754908

>>8754904
3/10

>> No.8754922

I haven't had any offline friends in probably 8 years or so. I have a bunch of online friends, though.

>> No.8754923

>>8754883
I like both. Nothing to do with being new or anything, was here first day /jp/ was. I don't see one as a perfection of the other. I just like both.

>> No.8754928

When I was a kid, I'd lose friends all the time to either me moving or them moving, so I just learnt to live without them.

>> No.8754929

>>8754923
Yeah I didn't mean "lol he likes 3D he's a newfag lmao" just that most long-term users have been completely turned off 3D.
I can accept it if I see it as a fetish. Like kigs. Fuck those things, they're creepy.

>> No.8754933

>>8754908
jelly

>> No.8754965

>>8754883
Not the anon you quoted, but I agree with everything he said, so I kind of wanted to share my views.
I got mad over a 3D girl not long ago, so I couldn't say I don't like 3D. In fact, I love everything about 3D girls and whenever I get a smile for anything that is not just politeness I feel somewhat good. But I'm not referring to the trash you see when you look outside. I'm not saying I like loud-mouthed vapid whores. What I like is my ideal of 3D, the appealing bits and pieces I pieced together from sight or reading.
I suppose it's like liking history, or war. You can love the topics, texts and stories, but that doesn't mean you want to go back there to get your teeth pulled out with forceps or watch your partner's legs being blown away by a landmine.

>> No.8754964

What qualifies as a friend? Does the other person have to acknowledge you as a fried also for it to be a friendship?

>> No.8754971

>>8754865
>/jp/ is where you come when you give up.

This sounds about right, most people here have given up on the world.

I would add /r9k/ to the list of people who are still desperate for any kind of social contact, although those people are truly losers since at least /a/ and /v/ have hobbies besides 4chan and feeling miserable.

>> No.8754981

I still have to go to school, so I do have "friends" that I talk to in class and whatnot, but I make sure not to get too close to them so they don't bother me outside of school.

>> No.8754988
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8754988

I have two friends. One of them I hardly ever see, despite he living on the house right next to mine. He does have a girlfriend, but for some reason he mostly stays at home, so I can't say if he's normal or not. He's very cool, but we only talk via internet.

There's another guy, but I'm not sure about him. He ONLY calls me when he needs his computer fixed, or when he wants to copy some movies/games/animes. Still, whenever he's here we have a hell of a good time, I can talk about almost anything with him. I keep offering to copy large files, hoping he'll stay here longer. Like "Hey, there's this cool anime, Steins;Gate, I think you'll like it" and then he stays more 40 minutes while I transfer over 7 GB of data through a shitty USB 2.0 connection. It's sad, because I feel used, but it can't be helped: like I said, we have a good time when he's here.

>> No.8754986

>>8754981
get out

>> No.8755000

>>8754971
Most robots visit /v/ as well.

>> No.8755001

>>8754988
Maybe he's just using those as an excuse to visit.

>> No.8755003

i don't have real friends in the 3d world
but i want to think that you're all my precious friends at /jp/! you're all wonderful people and i'd be very happy if you accepted my friendship
please count on me to be your friend...

>> No.8755017

>>8755000
Some of them have the audacity to suggest that videogames are for losers, and they complain about "weeaboos", as if /r9k/ weren't the shittiest board around.

It's basically /soc/ mixed with /soronery/.

>> No.8755015

>>8754965
This I can agree with, but only in a non-sexual way. I hate pretty much all of humanity because I'm a bitter miser, but there are real human beings I like. If I met a human being I liked and she happened to be a woman, I wouldn't hate her simply because she exists in three dimensions. In fact if she started rubbing me in lewd ways I would undoubtedly enjoy it because I'm a simple-minded ape who gets a hard-on just looking at Japanese bullet marks (◉ totally looks like a breast with a huge areola if you use your imagination).
Though as a shut-in for whom none of this really matters, I'll take 2D over 3D because
a) It's better
and b) I can.

>> No.8755038 [DELETED] 

>>8755001
Nah... probably not. If that was the case, he'd come more often. Also, his visits become even more rarer when he has internet access, because then he can download his own stuff. (his mother doesn't pay for the Internet, and he's currently unemployed.)

>> No.8755044

>>8755001
Nah... probably not. If that was the case, he'd come more often. Also, his visits become even more rare when he has internet access, because then he can download his own stuff. (his mother doesn't pay for the Internet, and he's currently unemployed.)

>> No.8755322

Somebody wanted to be my friend about 4 years ago. At least I think so. I kinda ignored it because I thought he was messing with me and I didn't really like him.

Last real friend was 11 years ago and I don't really miss it.

>> No.8755357

>>8754928
I know that feel. Let's see... I've moved about 7 times.
Having military parents is suffering.

>> No.8755446

>>8754739
Yep. Gay things are gay.

>> No.8755463

A person doesn't need friends. How many people have "real" friends anyway? I like to think that I did at one point, but he left me to try to assimilate with normalfags. The problem is he won't be able to, it's not in his blood. He'll forever be trapped in between.

Me? I know better, and you should too, /jp/.

Closet normal /a/ and /v/ pls go

>> No.8755536

>>8755463
Telling them to go will make them stay.

>> No.8755594

I sort of have one friend I knew back in high school who I talk with over Skype. Though as of the past few months, he basically ignores me. I talk to him, and if I'm lucky I'll get a one sentence response from him once every few days.

I'm a regular at a very small forum, but the majority of the few 5-7 posters there pretty much ignore the forums in favor of IRC which I despise. I'm fairly sure they even make fun of me over there as well.

On the whole 2D and 3D thing, like how someone said they don't get how you can still find 3D attractive, I don't get how you can't. I find both 2D and 3D attractive. Though, in preferences for fapping, I usually just use my imagination. It's far superior to anything 2D or 3D.

>> No.8755614

>>8754825
What a slut.

>> No.8755631

I used to have a few friends at school, but I don't speak to any of them now because they got sick of asking me to go out and do stuff with them.

I haven't had a real friend for years. I was alright with it at first, but I'm pretty lonely these days. I've even managed to alienate most of the people I talked to online, so except for one or two people I don't speak to anyone regularly, even in text.

I guess I should feel like a normalfag for confessing loneliness on /jp/, but it's really starting to get to me ;_;

>> No.8755647

>>8754762
Why don't things like that ever happen to me?

Also, what the fuck is "9/10 by normalfag standards"? I imagine 9/10 on normal scale would be "Miss Silicone Tits 2012". How would you describe her? What is she doing in a grocery store if she's so hot, anyway?

>> No.8755680

It is times like this that I realize how spoiled we are to have completely anonymous interactions. I don't think I couldn't communicate if it wasn't for the fact that I could just stream my thoughts out of my head and not have to worry about whether or not it will reflect poorly on me. I would probably kill myself if all anonymous communities disappeared.

>> No.8755687

>>8755680
I wonder how all the outcasts of old managed to live day by day.

I know I would probably end up killing myself if I didn't have internet access. Real life is just so restrictive and boring.

>> No.8755703

>>8754883
Yet another guy here, with yet another opinion.

The only reason I like 3D more is because it makes me more aroused than 2D. That's all. I'm only in it for the pleasure anyway, I don't care about "love" and all that shit.

I don't make goddesses of porn actresses or anything; I masturbate, and then tuck it all away next time.

>> No.8755718

>>8755703
>Don't care about love.

You are part of the problem.

>>>/b/
>>>/v/
>>>/soc/

Please leave.

>> No.8755719

There was this guy who I used to visit every day, but then he moved away and only got in contact with me once after that, inviting me to spend a weekend at his house with some of his friends for his birthday. I went and had a good time, but it's been a year since and I doubt he'll do the same again. Even if he did, I probably wouldn't be able to go there because I moved as well.
Other than that, there's this guy on the internet who plays games and forces me to play games with me every now and then. He's a bit annoying, but I can live with it.

>> No.8755724

>>8755703
>3D makes me more aroused than 2D.
This is impossible.

>> No.8755728

>>8755687
I think that this internet age is a good thing in that you can understand and relate to people thousands of miles away better than you can with someone down the street. When I was a normalfag I always felt burdened by relationships and friends; until I found pre-split /a/ I was always felt out of place. I love the fact that someone can understand you and not know you nor do they care about you, it is comforting to know that for me. None of the burdens of making and keeping relationships but your voice will be heard by someone similar. I don't think I will ever have to deal with normalfags in a friendly sense again, my interests are too niche and I work for my father so I can't get fired for being an asocial asshole. I still think family ties are worth keeping though, as hypocritical as that is.

>> No.8755734

>>8755703
> The only reason I like 3D more is because it makes me more aroused than 2D.
But 2D can be so much more aesthetically nicer than 3D. So even if you only cared about "looks", 2D would still be superior.

Of course, this is completely subjective and depends on the inviduals taste, so I'm not going to argue about this...

>> No.8755735

I've had an internet friend I met on 4chan in 2008. We used to talk almost every day; he was the only person I've ever felt close to. We then started slowly drifting apart and speaking less and less because I was too clingy and annoying. Then he eventually blocked me one day.

A year (maybe less) later I messaged him on another account asking why, and he said "Let's just not talk". He joined a dojo and tried to do away with his hiki ways. I hope he has succeeded, at least.

I was upset when it happened

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>>8755703
3D makes me ill, it has for at least a decade. I remember before I ever watched regular anime I found h-manga and h-anime. It was always more arousing for me. Also in my head 2D smells like noting where as 3d smells so horrid to me.

>> No.8755753

I have a few from highschool, but I only really regularly talk to one of them.

I used to hang out with him quite a bit, but then he got a job and a girlfriend. He still makes an effort to try and hang out but it usually includes his girlfriend. I have no problem with it but I don't think she likes me.

>> No.8755758

>>8755724
I've tried 2D, but it just doesn't do it for me.

I also have a few fetishes which just look shitty/unbelievable to me in 2D.
Stockings, high heels, feet occasionally

Also, I didn't see much quality 2D MILF porn either.

>> No.8755768

>>8755742
But 3D can smell good too.

>> No.8755769

>>8755718
Why?

>> No.8755767

>>8755753
>I have no problem with it but I don't think she likes me

I am in a similar situation as you. My friend's gf hates me because my friend is completely pussy whipped and whenever I am around he listens to me and grows a spine. He is easily manipulated so my egging him on and calling him a bitch makes him act out against her.

>> No.8755787

>>8755742
Here are the problems I see with the picture you linked:

Nose is fused with the mouth.
Stupidly ugly clown shoes, with hideous platforms, probably the worst part.
Some kind of leather / latex stockings? I don't know, but they look horrendous, and you can't see her legs.

How can you find it attractive?

>> No.8755795

I had one but he moved away due to family circumstances a few months ago and I haven't seen him since. I wanted to text him or something but I just keep telling myself I'll do it tomorrow or next week.

>> No.8755800

>>8755787
use your imagination to make it better

>> No.8755824

>>8755800
I don't have to, that's why I prefer 3D. I'm willing to overlook some visual defects if the overall look is okay. What's the point of looking at porn if I can just use my imagination in the first place?

>> No.8755840

>>8755824
Why should I care what you fap to?

>> No.8755841

>>8755767
In my situation, he never talks/complains about his girlfriend, so I do the same.

I can only assume she has some negative image of me since we all went to the same highschool and I was pretty quiet then.

>> No.8755847

>>8755840
Because we're having a discussion about 3D and 2D, dude.

>> No.8755855

>>8755787
Her assets, dohohoho
Sexuality is not something you have to explain. 3D is awkward and filthy to me and has none of the moe aspects 2D has. I guess people who enjoy 2D are romanticists and want something more than a quick fap. That is why I like NTR, it fuels not only sexual desires but more emotions than anything else.

>> No.8755883

Ive had many friends back in the day, until I saw life from a different perspective (started to watch anime also) Those numbers dropped to one... His my best friend and understands me, been best friends for 5 years.

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>>8755855

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