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8678939 No.8678939 [Reply] [Original]

>in college
>meet a girl on the bus, or wherever and check her Facebook
>in a relationship with _____

what's the fucking point of flirting with me and giving me your number if you're involved with someone? this happens to me at least once a month.

>inb4 misogyny

I just want to know what the reasoning is behind this shit.

>> No.8678940

>>8678939
they're throwing their hooks out into the sea.

young people in relationships tend to prefer a large number of back-up plans. there's nothing especially wrong with it, but it sure is frustrating for all the fish that get strung along.

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>> No.8678944

>>8678939
>Flirting with me
delusionalneckbeard.png

>> No.8678946

She wants to fuck.

>> No.8678945

A girl actually explained this to me first hand when I was 17 when I told her about a girl that had a boyfriend but was really flirty with me and even asked me out for a coffee. Her exact words, "You're her back-up."

Yes, it's frustrating, but the thing is that you are perfectly capable of doing it, too. This thread is probably going to turn into another 200 posts of misogyny but when you're young and doing the whole casual dating thing it's a system that works.

Don't consider every girl a prospect for some long-term, soul-mates relationship.

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>>8678944
staring at me, having a 22 minute conversation, and giving me your phone number is flirting.

I don't know why you think it's impossible that someone on 4chan isn't socially inept.

>>8678945
>you're her back-up.

this makes sense, but it still makes me angry that they see me as some sort of pocket dick. I want to be number one or tied for number one, never the backup.

>> No.8678948

>>8678939
>talk to girl on bus
>she wants to fuck

>> No.8678955

>>8678939
lots of people are in relationships on facebook that arent actual things

i was married to a friend of mine on facebook for the last like two years
we werent even talking for the last year or so

>> No.8678960

lol why the HELL is this on /jp/

>> No.8678963

>>8678960
/jp/ - /a/ 2.0

>> No.8678970

>>8678963
/jp/ is gonna merge back into the mother board

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>>8678947

What did you guys talk about? Maybe she just wanted to hang out and be friends because you had similar interests?

>> No.8678976

GB2 /Adv/ >>9398960

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And here it is.

>>>/r9k/1691518

>> No.8678994

>>8678945
You can punch the bitch. Too bad 90% of people getting punk'd won't do a thing.

>> No.8679012

>>8678947
What kind of joke is that, OP?
It is not flirting at all. Well, I don't deny that she may have interest in you, but what you wrote itself doesn't prove her to be flirting with you.
For instance, I happen to be in invironment with a lot of girls and I often see them off to their home (when it is on the way to may home or a place where I am going to) while talking about stuff and obviously I know their phone number, but I never held any ulterior intentions, and I doubt that they did.

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