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How does /jp/ deal with bullies?

>> No.7039496

Stood up for myself and knocked one of them on their ass when they went too far. EZPZ.

>> No.7039500

I deal with them using this
*grabs cock*

>> No.7039501

>>7039493

What are you, 12? Such things don't exist in the realm of higher education.

>> No.7039503

I bully them back.

>> No.7039511
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I was generally larger than those who bothered me, so they never tried to get physical about it

>> No.7039514

Cry like a little girl.

>> No.7039527

It's fun, because i actually hit someone with a chair once

>> No.7039534

I ignored them completely, making them look like utter fools in the process.

>> No.7039535
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/jp/ - Highschool Bullying Prevention

>> No.7039556

I sexually harass them.

>> No.7039563
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Ask for more, obviously.

>> No.7039567

I think if I was back in high school I still couldn't deal with them

>> No.7039574

was too busy playing videogames to give a shit.
then one of those fuckers grabbed my GBA and twrew it into the floor. i completely flipped my shit and almost asfixiate the fucker. never messed with me anymore.

>> No.7039576
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I grabbed a chair and smacked one of them during a class session.

I got into alot of shit after that but it was totally worth it as they decided to stay the fuck away after that.

Now 10 years later the guy i hit with the chair is working at the same shop as i do and he is still scared of me.

>> No.7039578

Don't be bothered by the bullying, use my superior intellect to befriend them, make them realize their mistakes and turn over a new leaf, and infect them with my geeky hobbies.
It's how I got through middle school.

>> No.7039594

But I was the bully.

>> No.7039595

Bullied people even less popular and shot my mouth off in-class to become friends with bullies.

>> No.7039600

For a second I thought OP was a gif. How disappointing. For some reason I really liked that scene. One thing I liked about the violence in Higurashi was that it always felt justified, somehow.

>> No.7039602

I miss my high school times when I bullied nerds like /jp/ users

>> No.7039617

Basically, you gotta act like you're completely nuts. If somebody messes with you, bite their fucking nose off. Treat school like prison.

>> No.7039620

>>7039501
Such things exist even in work places, nigger

>> No.7039647
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>ITT fake stories

>> No.7039659

By being such miserable, that even bullies pity me.

>> No.7039733

Throw a huge fucking fit so that the anti-bully fuzz drag them out and really let them have it.
>trollface.jpg

>> No.7039737

Being bullied gives me an erection. I absolutely love it.

>> No.7039746

By graduating.

>> No.7039748

>>7039737
Same here. I love when they call me a sissy, gets me so hard. How come they never try to rape me like in the erotic fictions?

>> No.7039777

>>7039748
Why would you love that?

>> No.7039793

Beat them up. Some of my best friends growing up came from fistfights.

>> No.7039805
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7039805

pretending to be dead worked quite fine for me during highschool...

>> No.7039824

I ended up being friends with most of them.

>> No.7039825

Make a big fight scene, they, I guess, always leave you alone after that.

>> No.7039840

I was chill with erryone so I didn't.

>> No.7039843

>>7039825
>>7039793
And that, why does that happen? Heh

>> No.7039850

>>7039825
Why is every advocating getting mad and causing a big scene? You deal with "bullying" IRL the same as you would on /jp/ or the greater internet. If it's physical bullying just be like "mmm yeah babe hit me again".

>> No.7039860

I wonder if it's because of that that i became a schizophrenic apathetic sociopath with a fetish for violence

>> No.7039861

But what do you do when you CAN'T see the bully?

People keep pissing in my locker, bending the lockhole, writing shit on the desk I usually sit at, etc. and I have no idea who it is. Could possibly be multiple people.

>> No.7039875

>>7039861
This happened to me so I pissed in every single locker in the school. They never bothered me again.

>> No.7039885

>>7039861
On the desk, right below the other writing, you should send a message that says, "if I find out who's doing this, I will do my best to kill you and your family even if it gets me sent to prison for life."

>> No.7039887

>>7039850
I'm not talkin' about when someone gets to eighth grade or even High School. At that point scholarships and such are one the line and no one knows what kind of training the other person has. They could be an aikidoka for all you know!

They need to grow up and realize that no one is worth that and if they get in their face tell them that. I didn't get into any conflicts in High School.

>> No.7039900

>>7039885
On second thought, that's probably a shitty idea.

>> No.7039921

>>7039861
Stop using your locker and carry all your shit around.

>> No.7039932

>>7039843
Probably because you misinterpreted some moderate ribbing and joking as bullying.

>> No.7039934

>>7039921
I knew some kids who did this. Made them even more obvious targets then ever.

>> No.7039943

>>7039934
Kill them.

>> No.7039946

>be fat
>be nerdy
>be socially retarded
>never got bullied

Sucks to be you, I guess...

>> No.7039967

>>7039932
There's a significantly fine line between bullying and joking.

>> No.7039975
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>>7039843
It's just how kids work, I guess. I think dogs do the same thing.

>> No.7039976

Be the creepy guy with a cold, uninterested stare and never talks.

>> No.7039977

Being fairly toned and 6' 3" in high school had its advantages. Bitches don't know about 1ccing EoSD lunatic back in high school.

>> No.7039978

>get bullied
>tell the teacher
>never get bullied again

lifeiseasy.png

>> No.7039996

>>7039976
Mumbling stuf like
"I hate you all and wanna kill you" can support this.
But one should always be careful about this.
Oh yeah also mention sometimes that your only hobby is playing videogames,preferably fps

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>>7039600

>> No.7040007

>>7039978
Pretty much this.

>> No.7040008

>>7039996

There's a difference between creepy and murderous. You just need to seem bored all the time, when you're really just sleepy. And say whatever a lot.

>> No.7040009

>>7039978
>get bullied
>tell the teacher
>teacher didn't see shit so teacher doesn't do shit, 'cause the teacher don't give a jack shit.
>just another day in MPS

If only it were that easy.

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>>7039493
Bullies? No problem.

>> No.7040017

>>7039978

lol, delusionalfag

>> No.7040018

I ignore them. Bullied kids should learn to handle their own problems.

>> No.7040024

ITT we block out what little bitches we were in school and indulge in escapist fantasy.

Such is life in the zone.

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>> No.7040034

I never got bullied because I wasn't a faggot who attracted attention.

>> No.7040035

I mostly ignored them until one day a bunch of them cornered me in the bathroom, after being pushed to the floor and kicked a few times, I flipped out and stabbed one with a pencil a few times, dunno how bad the wounds were but a few inches of the pencil were bloody later. I cried like a bitch the entire time, after that I ran down another and started jumping on his head after knocking in down in the hallway. Still bawwing, a few teachers finally pulled me off and I was suspended for a few weeks, was never bullied again. I found after this that being crazy made people leave you alone, so I played it off like I was some kind of lunatic and that got me through high school without a single problem.

>> No.7040042

>>7040035
Intense man.

>> No.7040044

>>7040015
"Are you my master?"

>> No.7040051

Bullies didn't know what to do with me, so they left me alone.

>> No.7040072

The worst thing about going the crazy route, is that while the guys leave you alone, you get these obnoxious preppy 3Ds who think it's great fun to try and set you off, while you know there will be court shit to pay if you actually hit them.

>> No.7040083

>>7040072
Pretty crazy how that works. You can scare off the alpha bullies but become a beta bully magnet.

>> No.7040091

>>7040072
Just hit on them if you're not afraid to fight their boyfriends.

Those types of people were my first experience with trolls too, either you out troll them or you beat them senseless. But as you said, those girls always have rich parents who will have no problems taking this to court and spinning it in the worst way possible. Sexual harassment is usually the easiest way out.

>> No.7040092

>>7040072

The worst one are the girls

While you can face the males, the girls are much, much subdle.
They would never try to hit the alpha male, because he would bitchslap them, but they try to bully you because they think you are stronger than you, or you woudn't try any shit. A soon you try, they cry bitchtears, "bawww, i'm a girl he hit me!"

>> No.7040264

I remember trying to stab people and throwing chairs at them back them, but they apparently were not intimidated by that. They only really stopped after I started ignoring them.

>> No.7040270

My default expressions is a slightly creepy deathglare (someone told me it's the way my brows and eyes are angled). It kept me clear of the males in highschool, easing off my social anxiety. But then it caused me other kinds of trouble, since my delinquent reputation (I had shit attendance and smoked) and relative not-give-a-fuck coolness made many girls feel attracted to me. I did my best and casually brushed them off with an indifferent attitude, but that was never enough.

>> No.7040284

I don't get bullied anymore because I'm an adult.

>> No.7040319

>>7040270
>My default expressions is a slightly creepy deathglare (someone told me it's the way my brows and eyes are angled).
I know that feel.

>> No.7040368

Did people really get bullied back in shool? I thought that was something you only see on bad tv shows and after school specials. No one ever bothered anyone else back when I was in school. The only problems/fights/whatever happened over girlfriends or those sort of things.

Speaking of which, the only person I ever had problems with was some guy who liked a girl who liked me, but of course I was too shy and socially retarded to do anything about it, so he was butthurt about it. Not that he ever did anything about it anyway. Maybe schools are just really different in big citys compared to my home town.

>> No.7040404 [DELETED] 

I mostly met bullies whenever I went out of my way to try and make friends. There was always one big, obnoxious guy in every group I came across. The only jokes they ever had were put-downs, and of course, I'd be the center of those jokes, since most of them wanted to see me crack.
I decided to just stop and just relax in my high school's library whenever I had free time. I made friends with the librarian and life was much less stressful.
I haven't met with much bullying in university, but I have seen people who go out of their way to make as many friends as they can meet with some very obnoxious people. In university there's much more team work in classes, but as long you're focused on work, get everyone else to focus on work, and don't get to know your partners too well, you shouldn't come across too many problems.

>> No.7040407

I mostly met bullies whenever I went out of my way to try and make friends. There was always one big, obnoxious guy in every group I came across. The only jokes they ever had were put-downs, and of course, I'd be the center of those jokes, since most of them wanted to see me crack.
I decided to just stop and just relax in my high school's library whenever I had free time. I made friends with the librarian and life was much less stressful.
I haven't met with much bullying in university, but I have seen people who go out of their way to make as many friends as they can meet with some very obnoxious people. In university there's much more team work in classes, but as long you're focused on work, get everyone else to focus on work, and don't get to know your partners too well, you shouldn't come across too many problems.

>> No.7040434

There's no one who bully me nowadays.

Back in primary school there was one guy who was a dick, but I don't think I'll ever meet him again.

Lots of people made fun of me, I guess, but he was the only one who was downright mean about it.
And I guess I was a bit of an ass towards a lot of people as well since I used to interrupt when they were just spewing shit for answers in class.

>>7040035
I tried that whole being crazy/violent thing, but nothing as serious as that, though. It did give me some "luft" due to the reputation I gained. And seeing as I didn't have any real friends in my class, I didn't really care.

>>7040072
Sure regulars tried setting me off in the hopes of getting it on tape, trying to walk up and poke me while I was sleeping during breaks, look the guy in the eyes, see the "camera crew", look back like "nigga, please", and then go back to sleep.

Funny how none of the girls never tried starting shit - apart from trying to be cool by standing with the camera crew.

>> No.7040470

I was never bullied probably because I gave off the impression that if anyone laid a finger on my I'd sue them into poverty.. I'm not entirely sure how they got such an impression, but it worked fine through high school. In college no one gives a fuck so that was even better.

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7040471

I'm pretty sure that the guys who looked like this could be as nerdy as they please and always be ignored rather than harrassed.

>> No.7040484

>>7040471
He's that guy from that pic with a whole bunch of weeaboo faggots, right?

But you're probably right.

>> No.7040516

Sounds like most of you had problems because you never suppressed your power levels. That or you went out of your way to be social for some reason. Or you were fat/unkempt. Should have learned to blend in to the background better, people only fuck you with if you give them a reason to. If you're the shy/quiet type but dress normal and aren't smelly/fat/disgusting, the only thing you have to deal with is the occasional girl seeing that you are unsocial and talking to you out of pity, which is admittedly annoying but its hardly bullying.

But I guess its too late now anyway. I just hate to think of all these kids on /jp/ butt hurt at society for picking on them back in school. I want to pretend we are all here because we choose this life.

>> No.7040546

If you got bullied it was because you weren't intelligent enough to interpret and manipulatel, at least to a moderate degree, social situations. If you come off as intelligent and friendly and have at least a shred of social value, bullying will never be a problem for you. When you get angry or "stand up for yourself", otherwise known as reacting, you instantly diminish your own social value within a group and subsequently target yourself for future torment.

This is coming from an on and off bully. I was never jealous of any of my victims and only bullied out of self amusement. It's incredibly fun picking on the angry naive kid, and you actually tie closer social bonds with those who are also in on it. Bullying just doesn't occur because "ther jelows lol"

>> No.7040564

Holy shit are you kids a bunch of normalfags.

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>>7040516
> the only thing you have to deal with is the occasional girl seeing that you are unsocial and talking to you out of pity, which is admittedly annoying but its hardly bullying.
That's the best-case-scenario only if you live in a small town without dickhead teachers or loudmouthed dark people.

>> No.7040585

>>7040516
I pretty much didn't know Japan existed before I got into anime in high school. And that's 6 years ago or so.
A pretty cool guy showed me /b/, because he thought my humorous sense was pretty cool, and it all went downwards from there. I went to /a/ about 6 months after because of the DESUDESUDESU spam and me wanting to know about that shit, and now I only frequent /jp/ and /g/.

Rather than choosing this life, I guess it's more a matter of not choosing something else that interests me.
I can take it easy like this.

>>7040434 here, by the way

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>>7040516
>>7040546
you sound like a sad specimen of human being if your interactions revolve around hierarchies of social value and ostracizing people in order to build stronger relationships

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>>7040564

>> No.7040619

I didn't know people got bullied in college.

>> No.7040632

I was the kind of kid who gave off the impression that he'd stab you in the eye with a pencil if you pissed him off. Which wasn't far off as I did beat the shit out of some idiot who tried to get into a fight with me, or maybe he was just trying to scare me, either way that was the end of any thoughts of bulling me I think.

He was bleeding pretty badly from his head, I forgot if I cracked his skull or not but I know I slammed his head into that metal thing on the side of the doorway. ..Funny story, I ended up becoming friends with him a bit later and we got into all kinds of trouble back when I used to be a normalfag.

>> No.7040641

Back in elementary and early high school I was the alpha bully, I ruled with violence and fear.

But somewhere down the line my personality took a 180 and I ended up an introverted wallflower that ignored and got ignored by most people.

>> No.7040646

>>7040593
I bullied from middle to early highschool. Stopped completely after grade 11 and treated everyone equally from then on. Social value is a subjective value which doesn't objectively exist, but one that most people seem to take as an absolute. It's fucking astonishing how people change how they act in the presence of another who may be more socially valuable. But you can't blame them, they are human and such a reaction is completely instinctual.

What I learned was that there is no "correct" or "incorrect" way to act in a social situation. Regardless of how you convey an idea or emotion, the intent to express your thought is still there.

I'm kind of going all over the place here... Anyways, it's instinctually rooted human behaviour to take advantage of situations whether or not you're buttranging someone else in the process. This is not morally wrong or right, but a part of who we are as a species.

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I rub my balls on them.

>> No.7040667

>>7040646
I wouldn't say that just because it's instinctual that it's automatically not morally wrong. As far as I'm concerned, any situation where you act upon another person without their consent, in any way (regardless of whether you intend to help or hurt them), or take anything from a person without their consent, is immoral.

>> No.7040682

I have had some bullying because I was the smartest kid in the class and I liked videogames, well you know the drill. It was nothing too severe though. So basically I would just ignore the bullies or laugh at them and belittle them, sooner or later they would just get tired and stop. If they still didn't I told the teachers and demanded a written apology from all of them for each time they did something. I assure you no one wants to bully you if they have to do that each time they do something to you.

>> No.7040693

>>7040667
Morals are also subjective values which do not exist as universal absolutes. You feel that way because of how you've been brought up. Your personal interpretation or opinion on anything left up to faith or of a subjective nature doesn't mean shit. I could tell you it is morally wrong for me not to put myself above each and every other person out there, and fully take advantage of every situation presented to me. And you know what? I wouldn't be wrong in saying this, but I also wouldn't be right.

lol nihilism

>> No.7040699

>>7040682
>I have had some bullying because I was the smartest kid in the class

lol no.

>> No.7040700

By never being afraid to hurt someone or get into trouble.

>> No.7041947

>>7040646
Yeah, that's right, it's in the nature of humans to be selfish dickheads, being controlled by their animal nature. By I don't see anything to be proud of in that. You should try to be above this, not because some abstract moral tells you to, but because you're an intelligent being, and not a talking animal like most other humans.

>> No.7043558

>>7040024
The only truth in this thread.

>> No.7043603

I regularly fantasize about burning bullies' houses down along with their families with them inside and casually returning home.

How would they ever know it was me?

>> No.7043630

You want honest stories? Here's how I dealt with bullies growing up; being the fat kid in grade 1.
Bully: Hey Anon, you're fat.
Me: Heh, good one! Hehe...
Naturally I was at the bottom of the social ladder for being fat and insecure, and being bullied led into me becoming afraid of people, making me more awkward.

Fast forward 6 years when I started 7th grade at a new school. Hoping for a new start I tried my best to be more assertive, but quickly fell into the same patterns. Kids can sense who's weak in a group quite quickly, and the cycle was happening again.

One day, a classmate, one of the non-bullies, approaced me.
Hey Anon, how does it feel?
How does what feel?
To be bullied all the fucking time. How do you put up with it? Why do you put up with it?
Uh... I dunno.
A short conversation, but it got my wheels turning. Why had I been putting up with it all these years? How stupid. The next time someone said something insulting, I didn't punch them or anything; I just told them to go fuck themselves. It felt good! It was the first hint of growing a spine. The more I stood up for myself, the easier it became.

Within a month I was no longer the target of any verbal abuse. They'd moved on to some other kid, and I didn't care to "save" him.

What I took away from all this was that noone can help victims of bullies better than themselves. I won't bore you with more details than that my life to an exponential turn for the better after that. But hey, thanks that one guy who set my head straight, wherever you are.

>> No.7043668

alpha here
i'm never getting bullied

>> No.7043702

>>7039501
I thought that people would stop being bullies after high school, but twenty somethings are just as immature as teenagers.

>> No.7043707

>>7043702

The army is especially bad where this is concerned, since bullying is all but encouraged and condoned by your superiors

>> No.7044211

>>7043707
Plus the fact only retards enlist in the army.

>> No.7044236

>>7044211
Obligatory conscription doesn't help it at all. One year was more than enough.

>> No.7044237

>>7043603

Me too, i guess killing a bully would be easy, the police is retarded and we have no ties, they'll probably think it was their girlfriend or something.

Still, i'm to lazy to hide the body, etc

>> No.7044261 [DELETED] 

I never went to school after third grade because I thought it would be cool to try and imitate EVA-01 vs Zeruel. I delved into the hikikomori experience over a decade before most of /jp/.

Heard he died a month later from internal bleeding..

>> No.7044265

I never went to school after third grade because I thought it would be cool to try and imitate EVA-01 vs Zeruel when a bully had pinned me down temporarily. Heard he died a month later from internal hemorrhaging.

So yes, I got into the hikikomori experience over a decade before most of /jp/.

>> No.7046868

>>7043707
Why would you even bully somebody with access to a carbine and grenades? Hell, kids who don't have access to a locker full of guns flip out and kill people, and in the army, the guns are right there.

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