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My uncle came over and gave me the why are you a hikikomori talk. He's like your dad tells me you don't go outside, have no job, don't go to school etc. It was probably the most awkward terrible shit ever. Probably one of the most traumatizing experiences ever.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? What should i do?

>> No.14231369

That sounds horrible. Are you even close to him?

>> No.14231372

>>14231369
Somewhat but not really.

>> No.14231381

Murder his family

>> No.14231385

>>14231367
Stop being a hikikomori

>> No.14231386

>>14231381
real helpful non shit advice would be appreaciated

>> No.14231388

I used to get that talk all the time until I got a job. Then it turned into the "why aren't you married" talk. If your NEET life is sustainable then just blow it off and keep things the way they are. Other people will never be satisfied with you so just do what you want.

>> No.14231408
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14231408

Ignore this event. The more you ruminate the more you'll hurt yourself.

Do what >>14231388 said.
Cut off your social ties. If you feel lonely I'll always be here for you my friend.

>> No.14231424

>>14231408
How do i get him to leave me alone?

>> No.14231425

>>14231367
Back when I was a NEET the recession was in full swing so I pretended to be searching for jobs but said no one was hiring. I got talks from family members trying to offer me encouragement, so that that was kind of funny. Hopefully you won't get stuck like I did, eventually my family found work for me and now I have a steady job.

>> No.14231439

nothing
you launch up some game or anime or vn and forget and escape

that's what you do every day, so just do it now too

>> No.14231441

Kinda weird that your uncle would go out of his way to talk to you about shit like that. Either your parents put him up to it or maybe he feels the need to have some genuine concern for you?

>> No.14231442

He's just worried about you, anon. Tell him that you're fine and about how much fun you have hanging out with /jp/sies. He'll understand.

>> No.14231445
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14231445

When this happened to me I ran out of the house and bumped into the norm bubble, which has left me with permanent brain damage.

>> No.14231447

>>14231442
>Tell him that you're fine and about how much fun you have hanging out with /jp/sies.
Anyone who has fun hanging out with /jp/ has mental problems.

>> No.14231454

>>14231441
My dad has told him i am a hikikomori over the phone. I don't know if he put him up to it though he might've come on his own.

>> No.14231462

>>14231445
Did your uncle really do this to you or are you joking.

>> No.14231469

Tell him to mind his own business, I don't go around yelling at you about your bad decisions do I?

>> No.14231474

>>14231469
lol this wouldn't work he would just say "this is my business I am your uncle"

>> No.14231485

is not your business pal.

>> No.14231489

>>14231474
it depends how you say it, OP sounds a huge queerfaggot so yeah it probably won't work.

>> No.14231540

It helps to be Austistic, OP.

>> No.14231581

>>14231367
>Has this ever happened to anyone else? What should i do?

get a job or sudoku yourself
you're a burden on your family

>> No.14231600

>>14231581
>get a job
Yeah, because getting a job is easy.
If you have nothing interesting to say then shut your mouth you fucking dipshit.

>> No.14231619
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14231619

>>14231600

it's not easy
that's kind of the point
it's "work"
since you're being supported at home, try volunteering at a charity/soup kitchen/habitat for experience and resume building if you're having employment issues

>> No.14231626

>>14231424
Just do something he dislikes, but something that isn't directly confrontational, when my mum bothers me I listen to some rap music because I know she hates it, so she just leaves me alone

>> No.14231647

>>14231626

Listen to THAT she'll never bother you again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8bAVdbBCao

>> No.14231676

Tell him you like little girls.

>> No.14231784

Hey OP here's what you do alright? You call him to your room set up some anime or touhou posters show him your ona-hole you know? Then say Hey Unc watch some of this bull shee-a-la and play IOSYS to him! Tell him it's what the cool kids (Otakool amiright?) nowadays listen to. Really underground stuff. Then tell him to f*** off!!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XrGO6vsFPQ

>> No.14231815

>>14231447
Of course, that's why we're here.

>> No.14232493

>>14231367
just tell him you're a fag
he won't bother you anymore and it's not really lying

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