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Don't talk to anyone with an identity.

Hedgehog's dilemma, man. Distance yourself from others. Though that too will ultimately cause pain.

>>9402157
*slap* ... *pat pat*

>>9402167
>>9402160
>>9402157
>>9402147
>>9402141
Shut up nerds.

>>9402160
I see, I guess I should only have /jp/ and no one else, I don't want to deal with pain any more.

>>9402141
Back before I had the kind of deep-seeded trust issues I've worked myself into over the years, I used to find imagining the worst possible outcomes with people before they occur. It would usually give me pause, but didn't necessarily stop me from acting on my feelings.

I don't have that problem anymore.

How do you get attached to someone?

>>9402325
Find superglue. Slather it on your body and run into someone.

Just don't give them access to your emotions so easily.
When you start a relationship, you usually think ahead and picture what you guys will be in the near future, creating expectations of them.
And then as they start to fuck that up along the way you get hurt liek " Oh no. :c"
So rather than give yourself away just like that, because you assume it'll be an amazing relationship, allow the both of you to paint the picture bit by bit.

>>9402331
Koharu no Hibi?

>>9402338
I just can't help it, no matter what every person I talk to, I just end up getting attached to them.

>>9402141
Suffer through more pain.

I was going out with a girl and it got pretty serious. Then suddenly, after 4 months of "I love you" she broke up with my by telling me "Every time I told you 'I love you' I was lying."

Wait till you find the one, bear all the pai n on between

>>9402141
Does anyone have this pic or gif with just one cigarette in his mouth not two?
This is all I can find.

>>9402359
Just don't be a yandere.
Like I said, with anyone, let the picture come bit by bit.

>>9402365

This guy is a prime example of someone who assumed at the beginning, and was let down in the end,
You shouldn't trust yourself completely in their hands right at the start when you hardly know them.
Which is also why he was surprised in the end.

And if what I said isn't the case, the best thing you can do in this situation is go
"Okay, that person didn't deserve me, and I love myself too much to let that bitch drag me down."

Shit like that.

>>9402408
I want a yandere, they are hot in my Chinese cartoons/comics

>>9402451
Yandere are pretty ideal for people on 4chan.

>>9402408
yeah don't get down on that dumb bitch, plenty more fish in the sea to mate with

prime example of normal

>>9402401

http://fuuka.warosu.org/jp/thread/8033967#p8033982

>>9402401

http://fuuka.warosu.org/jp/thread/8033967#p8033982

how do you >>>/adv/ >>>/b/ >>>/r9k/ >>>/soc/ >>>/livejournal/

>>9402530
Actually getting depressed over a breakup is the most normal thing anyone can do.
Stop trying so hard to stand out because you want to be cul.

>>9402607
Actually I'm trying to point out that this has turned into a thread for normals comforting each other about their sex lives. When OP started the thread it wasn't explicitly about women. I can't speak for his intentions though.

How do I get attached to someone? I can't do it. Even perfect 2d characters.

>>9402628
What is your relationship to yourself? Do you like yourself?
Do you know what you like/dislike/how you feel?* Do you care?

* Or would you respond to that only with functional answers like: "I'm hungry/tired."

Try to forcefully kill those feelings until you can no longer feel anything at all. It's a bad idea, and it probably won't work, but that's the closest thing to a solution.

Take lithium or a SSRI, then you won't grow attached to anyone ever again cause you'll be completely zombied out.

>>9402182
You shouldn't attach yourself to /jp/

I delete them from my friends list.

>>9402751
This. I'm on meds and I find people around me crying and getting emotional all the time and I just don't feel anything.

I think you just have to learn that you're the only one you can really depend on. People come and go, but as long as you love yourself you will never be alone.

That sounds negative, but it really isn't! Because too often, people try to love others before learning to love themselves. Keep smiling OP, being sad does not help anyone, and always remember to love that person you see in the mirror.

>2012
>Not learning from rita anon

>>9404722
>I just don't feel anything

>>9404762

what theme is that for nightly? i might try and fix the non-responsive script bullshit to have it looking this pretty.