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why does japan hate hikikomoris when japan itself is hikikomori?

>> No.5740632

Because they don't do anything.
Japan wants soulless drones, not socially retarded welfare bums.

>> No.5740663

>>5740632
like any other country?

>> No.5740680

>>5740663
not many countries have such a big consensus on the desire for salarymen.

>> No.5740679

>japan itself is hikikomori
What?

>> No.5740686

Hikikomoris constitute a challenge to social order and a negative mark on modern Japanese culture.

They exist because people are just plain falling out of society; the reason they don't have jobs is because they don't possess the basic ability of talking to people and making arrangements.

In order to remedy their condition, you have to put a lot of effort into (re)building their simplest functions from the ground up; if you don't step up to the challenge then they just stay as-is indefinitely.

Basically the whole issue is that kids are growing up broken, they can't fix themselves, nobody else wants to fix them, and nobody wants to admit to the problems causing them to break in their developmental years. So everybody just lets the problem grow and perpetuate while trying their very hardest to sweep it under the rug (letting them stay in their rooms accomplishes this efficiently.)

>> No.5740698

Hikikomori != Xenophobe
Learn the difference.
It could save your life!

>> No.5740703

No, it's really not.

>> No.5740712

Hikikomori should be given graphics-related training and jobs.

>> No.5740721

>>5740712
Okay, by whom?

Actually I'm laughing my ass off because that's my field and I'm shutting myself in (to save time and money) while I slowly prepare to move someplace where there's work.

>> No.5740748

Japan is also experiencing a problem similar to the US now; a major cultural shift in which the job market is changing in deep and fundamental ways.

The old way of doing things was, you'd walk into a company's office building with a pair of hands and a high school education. They'd hire you, and you'd work your way up within the company until retirement.

The new way of doing things is not only far more demanding, but also less stable. You need to work far harder in childhood to qualify yourself for a job later on, which is doing a remarkably good job of turning people into disturbed sociopaths who don't fit into society very well.

>> No.5740760

>>5740686
Bullshit.
A good father-son asswhoopin' will get them out their rooms.

>> No.5740769

>>5740760
The problem is that the fathers don't really want the kids out of their rooms.

There's no sense in airing your dirty laundry if you aren't prepared to see it through until it is clean again, so keeping the kids in their rooms is easier for the parents then getting their crippling mental issues sorted out.

>> No.5740775

Teenagers who goofed off in school and smoked weed back in the 60s and 70s turned out to be productive, well-rounded adults with happy and stable lives.

Then schools started getting far more demanding on kids, then the war on drugs, then parents started trying to control every little thing their kids did while firmly restricting enjoyable social activities.

Surprise surprise, all this fucking around with kids' lives did shit all to make them the master race of superheroes everyone expected them to be.

>> No.5740786

>>5740775
But I am a superhero.

>> No.5740802

>>5740786
Then get off of 4chan and make yourself useful, super powers aren't for sitting on your ass and fapping to DFC.

>> No.5740804

>>5740786

Being able to masturbate ten times a day is not a superpower.

>> No.5740823
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5740823

Part of the problem with hikikomori is that when you break a kid's brain, they can't fix it themselves. That means someone else has do to it for them, and parents usually aren't up to the challenge. These kids had might as well be Fritzl'd the way they look and act, but people's strategy is to expect them to "snap out of it."

We're pretty much left with two choices: assault them with legions of psychiatrists at small public cost, or watch them grow up and be bums at large public cost.

>> No.5740850

>>5740786
We are all superheroes

>> No.5740854

Bullshit, 2/3 of us are villains.

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5740880

Did I hear someone say hikikomori?

>> No.5740877

Japan hates itself, like the jews they are.

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>> No.5740902

>>5740854
Fine, then the rest of us are the obligatory lolis

>> No.5740920

>>5740823
>>5740775
My shrink told me at 16 that I should smoke pot and get laid.

It's been six years since then and I'm probably beyond hope, but maybe there is hope for you!

>> No.5740926

Hikikomoris don't want to be in their rooms, they're just afraid to leave. I know this is a massive oversimplification, but being a shut-in is largely about fear. Think like guys who can't drum up the courage to go talk to girls, but on a larger scale.

>> No.5740933

all hikkis are black mages

>> No.5740944
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>>5740933
The true reason why parents keep there hikis locked up.

>> No.5740949

>>5740933
>>5740944

I'm a fucking vampire

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5740960

swoosh

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5740974

This thing has caused so much trouble you don't even.

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>>5740974
swoosh

>> No.5741001

>>5740748
>>5740686

Wow, a good /jp/ thread.

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>>5740974
TOO LATE!

>> No.5741026

>>5740920
Well, did you smoke weed and get laid?

>> No.5741051

>>5741026
Needless to say his posting on here most likely means he has not done the latter.

>> No.5741056

Smoking weed and getting laid sound like the perfect prevention methods against being a shut-in assburger.

Unsurprisingly, those who hold power are doing everything they can to keep kids from having either these days.

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>> No.5741087

>>5741056
>Smoking weed and getting laid sound like the perfect prevention methods against being a shut-in assburger.
It isn't, a lazy unmotivated guy that gets laid is still lazy unmotivated.

>> No.5741104

>>5741087
Sex is a powerful motivating factor, and weed severs hesitation.

>> No.5741122

>>5741104
Actually, alcohol severs hesitation. Weed just makes you feel good and lazy. I suppose hesitations are far from your mind in that state, but so are your motivations.

>> No.5741138

you need anti-depressant drug pills, not weed
oh and that takes away the urge to have sex
so yeah

>> No.5741144

>>5740679
island

>> No.5741152

>>5741122
Weed makes you stop being afraid of things, which would be a good approach to making people stop being afraid to go outside and talk to people.

Being lazy and being afraid to live are different problems; a person can have their conscious initiative reduced but still be more productive if greater obstacles (irrational fear and inhibition) are removed.

>> No.5741166 [DELETED] 

>>5741138
I'm not sure about Japan, but where I live doctors are prescribing anti-depressants for everything from ADHD to the common cold.

Anti-depressants won't make you socially functional. They're just dope with a brand name; teenagers have become suicidal or otherwise extremely unstable due to having their minds irresponsibly fucked with by drugs that are treated as the modern day snake panacea.

>> No.5741177

>>5741138
I don't know about Japan, but where I live doctors are prescribing anti-depressants for everything from ADHD to the common cold.

Anti-depressants won't make you socially functional. They're just dope with a brand name; teenagers have become suicidal or otherwise extremely unstable due to having their minds irresponsibly fucked with by drugs that are treated as the modern day panacea.

I don't think they shouldn't be used, but let's at least use them responsibly instead of assuming they're the miracle cure for whatever problems we just started noticing.

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>>5741056
Sex is bad if you're not married and smoking weed will lead to children becoming drug addicts and slowly moving into more serious crimes to afford their drugs, baka. criminal scum is worse than hikki scum.

>> No.5741186

>>5741180
Being a paranoid xenophobe is a leading cause of kids shutting themselves in their rooms and being afraid to come out.

>> No.5741196

If you want to smoke weed, Japan will deport you.

If you want to do whatever drugs you feel like, the Netherlands will import you.


I've never heard of a Dutch hikikomori or school shooting.

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>> No.5741197

>>5741177
I must say that anti-depressants actually helped me, but then I could perceive when I had to leave it before it was too late. Not everyone is that lucky I guess.

>> No.5741198

>>5741186
I don't think you know what is xenophobia.

>> No.5741211

>>5741197
Anti-depressants are a hit and miss game. Some cases end up as miracles, others end up as tragedies.

This is because people think loading kids up with pills is an easy answer to any problem. If people are more careful about it, which means not treating it as if it'll work every time, then we can see better results.

>> No.5741217

Anti-depressants won't help hikis, anxiety pills might but only when combined with a comprehensive plan of making sure the kid starts learning to feel secure outside and around strangers.

>> No.5741221

>>5741138
You're right, they don''t need drugs, they need drugs!

>> No.5741233

>>5741221
"drugs" can mean anything.

If you're going to apply chemicals, it needs to be of a nature that will reduce tension and inhibition. In other words, it needs to be what would turn into a jittery paranoid fuck into a bro who can go outside and talk to girls.

But regardless of whether or not you put a shut-in on meds, they're still going to need a lot of lifestyle coaching from parents and/or therapists. In order for them to get a job they need to be able to talk to people and not look like a creep, which is part of the challenge.

>> No.5741244

They need some hard shit.
Like DMT or PCP.

>> No.5741247

>>5741244
Stimulants and hallucinogenics will probably just make them more paranoid about the outside world.

>> No.5741254

>>5741104
>Sex is a powerful motivating factor
If that were true /jp/ anons should be super motivated to have sex and lose their virginity. But they aren't, so sex can't be that motivating.

>>5741122
>Weed just makes you feel good
No, weed enhances your emotions. If you are happy than weed will make you feel better but if you are depressed (like most /jp/ anons) it will only make you more depressed.

>>5741196
>Dutch hikikomori
Hi, you now know one Dutch hikikomori.

>> No.5741265

>>5741247
That's when funny things happen.

>> No.5741266

>>5740786

Stay out of this shiro.

>> No.5741273

>>5741247

If they have a profoundly terrifying trip, it will make the outside world seem like babies.

>> No.5741291

>>5741254
Anons on pretty much any board aren't motivated by sex because they've given up on it. The solution is to prevent people from giving up on it or figure out ways to un-autism the people who already have. Parents don't want to discuss the issue, so usually they won't even know that their son hates women at age 18.

>weed in general
The use of medicinal marijuana in this case wouldn't be to make people "feel good" but just to loosen them up. To me this is just a thought; if I were a doctor I wouldn't tell someone to take weed but instead look for a prescription best suited to tension and anxiety issues.

>> No.5741301

>>5741254
Sex is a powerful motivator, the problem is that all /jp/'s jack off like five times a day so there's no sex-drive left.

>> No.5741310

Go to /a/ or /r9k/ and you'll see another reason how some people fail to be motivated by the prospect of sex.

>> No.5741317

>>5741310

The average user age there is what, ten, twelve? Have their balls even dropped yet?

>> No.5741321

>>5741317
I am really looking forward to summer being over.

>> No.5741322

Why does Japan crackdown so hard on weed?
In America its just illegal. But the Japanese fucking demonize it.

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5741324

If you want to give them a drug, feed them alcohol. It's a good social drink.

Although it probably helps if you have things like pubs, or at least social places you can go and buy alcohol.

>> No.5741326

>>5741291
>The solution is to prevent people from giving up on it or figure out ways to un-autism the people who already have
I dont think not wanting to have sex is a problem, being unwilling to work might be though

>> No.5741334

>>5741324
I get more depressed when I drink. I tried going out for a drink to socialize and ended up crying at a table alone.

>> No.5741337

>>5741291
>The solution is to prevent people from giving up on it or figure out ways to un-autism the people who already have.
Then shouldn't we look at the heart of the matter.
Why do anons give up on it?

>> No.5741356

>>5741322
That's just it; all of this paranoia and authoritarianism are part of why kids end up being dysfunctional empty shells with nothing inside them to live on. It isn't just drugs; in east Asia every part of your life is brutally scrutinized and judged to see if you are worthy of being a human being or not.

Dysfunctional children in Japan are like rejected parts on an assembly line; just toss them into a box and try not to think about them.

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>> No.5741382

>>5741324
There's another thing; socializing. The problem with a hikikomori is largely a social one, they're afraid to go out at all. This amounts to lacking a solid foundation in life, it doesn't matter what fancy decorations you want to put on if there's no stable ground to build upon.

>> No.5741397

>>5741337
Giving up on sex (or anything for that matter) is a coping method; when people start losing hope they just dismiss something as being unwanted, so that they will not feel bothered as much.

This creates a problem in that people are no longer motivated by the prospect, because they don't give it consideration. In other words, guys stop trying to impress chicks and society rolls downhill from there.

>> No.5741406

>>5741337
>Why do anons give up on it?

I doubt anyone really gave up on it, the way I see it most of /jp/ grew up so torn from the whole concept of sex and intimacy that it seems impossible to even picture yourself getting that close to a girl. With society's constant pressure to fit in with the group, people end up seeing themselves not a part of society and even not a whole person. The rift of me versus they is created - they are the ones who can have sex, not me. It's just not something - I - can do. Just how a serf in the middle ages couldn't possibly imagine or aspire to be a king or a noble, /jp/ can't possibly imagine having sex.

At least that's what I think. There's probably even /jp/ posters that did have sex at some point, so this generalisation might not apply.

>> No.5741443

That's just it; there doesn't have to be any one reason.

Either your parents were fundies who taught you sex creates the herpes virus, or you were a social outcast growing up, or you spent too much time alone to begin with, or you just had too many bad experiences while you were trying.

Point is, people give up. Dumping shit on them isn't a very affective approach to getting them picked back up off the ground.

>> No.5741485

They need MDMA.

>> No.5741511

>>5741485
No, what they need is opiates.

>> No.5741882

>anti-depressants

What the fuck? Doesn't really exist, have huge side-effects and you shouldn't eat everything drug companies throw on the market.

>> No.5742124

>>5741211
The problem isn't one of "always treating it like it'll work" (although that is a problem), it's that in order to make sure it "works" (or works, even), you need constant monitoring and evaluation on a scientific level. This either means a great deal of trips to the doctor (possibly up to every other day, depending on the case), or, more practically, hospitilization where the controlled environment and constant presence of doctors and observers is more conducive. The problem is that the goal isn't to eventually lock up all the troublemakers in mental institutions, and external situations can change on a minute-by-minute basis. Contemporary society is much more fluid than it was in the days of Freud and Jung.

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