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Femanons, how often do you care whether sex is good for your male partner versus good for you?

I ask because I've been thinking about how nice it would be to sleep with a girl who just cared about making me cum like a garden hose without my having to worry all the time about whether or not I'm giving her the most mind-blowing experience I can. I'm either really good at sex or I've had really sensitive partners, so it's unusual when I can't make a girl cum, and I feel terrible about it during the few occasions where I can't. There's been more than one occasion where I just lost interest after she came and never finished for myself.

Then I started to wonder if maybe I hadn't already had the experience I want, but was just too preoccupied to realize and enjoy it. I don't mean to sound misogynistic, but can women be generous lovers, too? Is the man ever a priority over yourself? Is it OK if you don't have an orgasm or do you feel used and empty if you don't? And is it OK to ask for a night just for me, or is that too selfish?