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I think I'm gonna make it lads.

I've been a quick shooter my whole life. For years I've been working at it but I haven't been consistent enough. I got a Venus Real in regular 5+ years ago.
I never really used it that much but when I did I could barely last a minute. My biggest problem is that my pelvic floor tenses up strongly during stimulation.
I must have developed this from bad masturbation habits as a teenager. I also have a lack of self control. Even when I really want to keep going I'll give in to the urge to cum.
It's like the animal part of my brain overcomes the rational part. I'm super sensitive too which doesn't really help things.

A couple years ago I began to try harder to achieve my goal of complete control over my ejaculation.
I've really been working at it the past year and I'm very happy with the results so far. I built up my endurance by masturbating a different way from normal.
Stroking causes me to tense up involuntarily no matter how hard I try to resist. It's even worse when using an onahole. The solution I came to was to gently rub my glans and foreskin with the tips of my fingers.
Oil based lube works really well for this. As I'm gently stimulating myself I try my best to relax my muscles. Over time I've been able to weaken my body's involuntary clenches. They're still there but somewhat diminished.
A side benefit of this "training" is that I've learned how to have multiple dry orgasms using this method. I'm not that consistent with getting them but holy shit it is amazing when it happens.

Something else I learned about though this process, that I haven't ever really seen brought up is that after a certain threshold, a combination of time and stimulation (around 20-30 minutes for me), penile sensitivity goes down, endurance goes up and it becomes much easier for me to relax my pelvic floor.

Last month I felt like I made enough progress that I wanted to move on to an onahole. I wanted something as soft as possible so I went with the Muses Fillo Rich Soft.
I started out with thin lube. I made progress but it was still a little too stimulating so I got a thicker lube instead. And it was perfect.
I'm sticking to a routine where I will only use my onahole to masturbate and I'll only do it once per day.
There are lapses where I fall back on old habits but that's happening less and less now. Self control is so important!

Here's where I'm at now:
At the beginning of my sessions it's still very easy for me to cum. I have a difficult time quieting my pelvic floor while using my onahole. It tenses up a lot when I try to stroke. So I have to go very slowly and pause a lot. Less than a dozen strokes a minute if I had to guess. As an alternative to stroking I'll squish my head up against the end of the tunnel. It feels good but isn't too intense.
What's made a huge difference, though, is that my previous training has weakened the involuntary contractions considerably. I'm able to fight through them now even if I can't stop them.

After about 30 minutes when I get that boost of stamina I talked about earlier I'm able to greatly increase my pace. The involuntary squeezes are greatly diminished and I can even eliminate them completely sometimes. I still have to go slow but I don't have to pause nearly as much. I can go for a couple minutes without having to pause at all. When I feel an orgasm begin to build I stop for 10 to 20 seconds and then I continue stroking for a minute or two. It's just fantastic. I love my onahole. It's like a lovely enveloping cloud. It feels so natural and wonderful to use. It makes me happy. I think I'm gonna make it.

>>30079627
That's a fucking Rozen Maiden, anon.

Mokou smile very nice

>>15953253
I like Memrise for vocabulary!

Can we go back to cute mokou faces? Discussion about the fate of 4chan always depresses me because it reminds me that I don't live in a vacuum, time is always moving and 4chan can disappear overnight.

>>15898077
Literally perfect.

Mokou is the best too-who and I wish people would stop saying weird things about her!

>>15846094
>no shill allowed
Nice.

She's making a lot lately!