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Also, with that being said, I thought I’d break it down a little further to any Nice Guys who are that confused about the entire female gender after repeatedly attempting the same unsuccessful tactics in the hopes of attracting a girl, and expecting it to work despite the previous failures.

Being “nice” to a woman (read: suppressing the urge to be an asshole) does not mean you deserve a physical/emotional reward of your choosing.
If you’ve continuously done “nice” things for a girl for an unhealthy amount of time (despite little to no evidence that she feels the same about you), she is still not required to change her mind and reciprocate any romantic feelings you may have.
If you whine about a girl who doesn’t view you romantically despite how great of a guy you are, how sweet a boyfriend you could be, how selfless, thoughtful, kindhearted, just all around great human being you are, perhaps you forgot to mention how, maybe, you’re a bit conceited and you expect another person to completely alter their entire life to fulfill your secret fantasy.
If you grumble and moan about how awful it is to be told that you’re “just a really great friend”, well, stop and think for a second. You do nice things right? You listen to her, help her with her problems, hang out, watch movies, joke around a lot. It sounds a lot like…hm, I don’t know…the characteristics that most people would attribute to a good friend.

Why is she so perfect?