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>>46222281
Actually not much, no such procedures required but once I mildly torn the skin even my current age and had to explain to my girlfriend KEK. When I was 25 or younger, I didn't tear often despite usually fapping 5+ times. Maybe it's because I have a foreskin? Sexually frustrated posters often reveal that they're circumcised. To be honest, I also am worried about decreasing average cooms. In a relationship when practical causes already stop the full freedom to fkn enjoy each other's time, then it's difficult to balance. Naturally prioristing mutual fkn enjoying is the first step, however with a more powrful libido for "excess" complicates it. In some moods fapping to JAV is much better, yet if fapping first, then sexo even may feel boring. But, fapping after sexo is not good if being together for the night because it would seem like "addiction". Now a balance exists, but maybe it will be disrupted if my ability to coom continues to decrease. Of course it's natural after a certain age from a combination of declicing average health and ageing, and I've seen many posts about younger men already experiencing this and blaming JAV as if that's why, so I really should be happy with my current ability...

One day this year, I've already decided tha I'll try to coom 10 times in one day! If it works, then I shouldn't be worried. It is possible that the major reason is simply less time. After all, a single man is able to fap more and sor of paradoxically having "less time" because of the necessity to physically travel to a workplace reuslts in more opportunities to see attractive women, and then a desire to fap thinking about all of them or inserting them on JAV actresses boosts "morale" for fapping. In a relationship and when working from home, less oprttunities for such happen, so that may be the stogest reason. In November, I was able to coom 5 times in a sexo context during our spontanous 7 hours sexo frenzy (though one from a blowjob and antoher from a handjob with surprise bunghole consumption) but, for the entire next day I was completely exhausted. Maybe it is an accurate equation that the potential for cooming from fapping is doubled from the potential from sexo? Then, I still should have the ability to coom 10 times by fapping. Finding the time ad motivation for trying this is hard... I must succeed!! Tha's why I haven not tried yet.

Do you often tear skin? Are you circumseid? Is it because you always fap too powerfuly, with "death grip" as a default intsead of only some special occasions with a contetxually fitting mood, or is it some other reason? To be clear, even a "death grip" is a mechanism that may be used to increase fkn enjoying in a healthy way, so long as it isn't required. This is the problem, when somebody "teaches" himsef to lose the ability to coom by other means than something specific. Many poster think "always fap using te safest technique" but, this is misguided in the similar way that "always have vanilla only sexo". Naturally it i psosible to enhance sexual experiecnes, even safely do such extreme BDSM things as cutting and choking whivh I used to fkn enjoy wen I was younger. Of course it's the same about faping too. One use of "death grip" or such per week, isn't going ot cause negative effects, however every day and not lletting the chinpo relax, maybe then it can quickly be very destructive by conditiong that "maxium friction is necesary for cooming". This probably is why many posters lose their ability to coom so early. They "teach" his chinpo that every coom must be very powerful, so he keeps pushing but it doesn't work. In that case, myabe it's true addiction. An irony, that frm wanting to coom harder, he loses more ablities...

I believe such fappers even don't conceptaulise sexuality as a spectrum with different moods to fkn enjoy. But, as a varietychad that realyl is impossible. Maybe being varritychads can help to save chinpos and sexual pwoerss? Sadism, masochim, if you fkn enjoy both and hags and lolis and between, then maybe rhats' a path to sexula longevity. Personally I'm hpapy about neing a varitychad. Even to this day, JAV saved my life so maybe some sors don't have this type of appreciation. For thme, maye it's possible to imagine a lifew ithout JAV. Probably most sirs wouln't, certinly I wouldn't.