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4051965 No.4051965 [Reply] [Original]

How do you deal with a fan falling in love with you?
My situation is this; I am a very small and not popular artist, just starting out, only have a few finishes drawings online. I have been getting messages from one person who has all but poured his soul out to me along with confessing his love. I don't see him as malicious. I mostly feel sad for him.
What the hell do I do?

>> No.4051968

Tell him this: "have sex"

>> No.4051970

god I'm horny and lonely

>> No.4051974

>>4051965
pyw

>> No.4051980

>>4051965
block him

>> No.4051983

>>4051965
What's the point of this question? Either give the guy a chance or don't. This is a literal nothing question that requires all of 4 seconds of thought. You're not some multi-millionaire or one of the who's whos in a subculture that would maybe have to consider the moral implications of dating a fan, you're a fucking nobody and therefore are free to fuck or not fuck anyone you choose.

>> No.4051994

>it's a another whore bragging thread.
Blacklisting this entire board, just like all the others that came before it.

>> No.4051996
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>>4051965
Annon cut off contact, ignore, soft block. If somebody falls in love with you that fast somethings wrong mentally. They probably don't even love you. You were just some object of affection that happened to fall in their sad path. Even if they're not malicious the weird behavior will continue because you encourage it by responding. Tell me if you stay friends with him how will his behavior not get worse?
If you met some girl at a bar and she started telling you her life story and how she wants to marry you out of the blue you would run.

>> No.4051998

>>4051965
Tell him your a tranny lol

>> No.4052000

>>4051965
tits or gtfo

>> No.4052001

>>4051996
exactly this. if you tolerate their behavior, they're not gonna get mentally better. say no while you can.

>> No.4052002
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4052002

>>4052000
>wanting to see tranny tits

>> No.4052050

If you're a girl that's gonna happen like every week. Did nobody tell you?

>> No.4052057

>>4051965
fans are not real ppl. just ignore them.

>> No.4052063

>>4051965
Don't befriend autists, especially if they're "in love" with you.

>> No.4052083

>>4051965
you sound underage OP

>> No.4052090

>>4051965
Unless you want to lead him on, reject him outright and/or block him. Don't be a pussy and give reasons why you shouldn't do that, there are none if he's autistically confessing his love to you when you don't feel the same way. Also post your work

>> No.4052275

>>4051996
This, absolutely this. Listen to this anon, OP

>> No.4052277

tell them to fuck off desu

>> No.4052283

>>4051965
Just break him.

He confessed his soul to you, right? That's a lot to put on a person. Strike a conversation. Y'know. Start talking to him about both of your favorite hobbies. Talk about your favorite subjects. Have some emotional heart to heart. Then out of the blue, start insulting him. Then gaslight him by telling him how much you care about him and that you'll never do it again. But then do it again. And again. And again. Until he's an emotionally damaged cuck. Then tell him that our relationship has issues and that you need to take a break from it all. Tell him that you still care about him and that you'll message him when you get everything sorted out. So then wait. Wait until he messages. Don't answer it. Wait until the next message. Don't answer it. Keep waiting until his messages start getting more and more desperate and then drop him with this line "I never really cared about you at all, actually". And then enjoy the aftermath.

>> No.4052318

>>4052283
Why the hell would I do that
I'm not cruel, and even if I were that would definitely put an even bigger target on me for incel rage.

>> No.4052319

>>4052318
Thread's already over, there's no answer other than block and move on. I blocked and ghosted someone after she sent me nudes, she was a regular in my stream.

>> No.4052320

>>4052318
I forgot to mention that a massive prerequisite to this plan, in order for it to work, is that you had to be a gigantic sociopath.

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4052325

Are you a virgin?

>> No.4052328

I had an incident kind of like this, once, but it wasn't love so much as 'cyberstalking'. Yeah I know that's a media phrase, but when I'm getting messages about details in my life posted only through private FB posts... It's eerie. I was in the middle of a commission for him. I refunded him the payment and just said I couldn't do it. Don't do FB anymore and trying to get back into comm.s under a different name.

Also SAVE EVERYTHING. Written proof is digital gold if this turns into a bigger issue.

>> No.4052329
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4052329

tell him:

you can love any person you wish,
anyone that tells you otherwise is wrong,
but what we can call fetish,
is when you're in a longing love for something
you don't have.

>> No.4052330

>>4052325
No.

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4052341

>>4052330

>> No.4052343

>>4052328
Why did you let some rando have access to your private facebook posts?

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4052347

>>4051965

just consider it an std of the drawfag world aka something you can't get rid of

i assume boobs + talent ?

yeah means you're gonna get a lot of unsolicited penis

good looking or not, as you veer and try to assert your violincraftywork as serious. which it is. its just the boobs are distracting. guys are guys are guys and are dogs and annoyingly loyal.

watch Fuse: Memoirs of a hunter girl
if you get a chance;

A good guy is half furry, half talented.

your gay friend, aka me, is your best fuck and pal. so marry me already ;)

youtube.com/watch?v=znTe_XwytE8

>> No.4052369

>>4052347
>your gay friend, aka me, is your best fuck and pal. so marry me already ;)
Lie. I've had crushes on a handful of gay dudes before and I get shut down every time.

>> No.4052370

>>4052369
Is that a lvl 40 incel ?

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4052384

>>4052283
Seek help

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>>4051996
this

>> No.4052390

>>4052283
:(

im sorry for you really

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4052391

>>4051965
Create a sock account then find out if he goes on /r9k/,
if he does then fake your own death and start over.

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>>4052283

>> No.4052402

>>4051965
Should've never let anyone know you were a girl, bro.

>> No.4052420

>>4051965
Push back. Situations like that always end up badly. If you want to talk with a person then keep yourself friendly but state that you're not theirs friend.

>> No.4052424

>>4052283
spotted the female poster
this some experienced shiet

>> No.4052435

"People repeat ceaselessly that a woman is born to love but that's what's hardest for her." - Berthe Morisot

In fact we don't claim this in America but it has been said.

>> No.4052441

>>4052283
Why did I get a boner from reading this?

>> No.4052442
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4052442

>>4052441
I am so happy I am not the only one.

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>>4052442
>tfw you discover you have a hidden sadism fetish
You learn something new every day.

>> No.4052658

>>4051965
just tell him you're taken, or not interested. I have lesbians with daddy issues throw at me like every month now, you get used to it after a while.

>> No.4053100

>>4052283
>and enjoy the aftermath
Of getting beheaded after he gets completely obsessive? Oh hi Bianca

>> No.4053141

>>4052283
lmfao

>> No.4053156

>>4051965
If you don't like him tell him that and get it over with quickly.
3 words: I'm not interested

>> No.4053158

>>4051965
Tell him he's a poofter.

>> No.4053167

>>4051965
lol are you that girl that started streaming on twitch? just watch how other e-thots curve thirsty incels on instagram and twitch. "haha don't chase me silly bois~"

>> No.4053371

>>4051965
Just tell him you aren't gay, most people understand.

>> No.4054479
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4054479

>>4053100
Shit like that story makes me love the fact I was born male, I get to pretty much stay under the radar and my own thing without being harrassed.

>> No.4054480

>>4054479
Do*

>> No.4054482

>>4051965
>it's a another whore bragging thread.

>> No.4054502

>>4051965
Just offer him a bowl of eggs

>> No.4054680

>>4054479
I assume you haven't heard of Mr Enter then

>> No.4054683

Man this thread makes me jealous of the fact i'm not a girl ;_;

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4054726

Imagine having someone notice you and actually look at your art... haha

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4054776

>>4051965
Nothing
Don’t reply don’t acknowledge hell don’t even read the message do absolutely nothing

>> No.4054953

>>4051965
There's still a feeling of rejection when someone says
She preferres the company of others to your exclusive company
But if you're honest, and direct
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you break the news
The boy will respect you for your frankness
And honestly he'll apeciate the kind of straightfoward manner in which you told him your decision
Unless he's a real jerk or a crybaby you will remain friends

>> No.4054999

>>4054953
Yeah, that's how I got a malignant narcissist stalker for the last 6 years. Injured his ego, gained an obsessive. Says he'll kill me next year. Guess we'll see. Girls aren't afforded the same assumption of safety when they're direct that guys are. Learned that the hard way.

>> No.4055042

>>4054999
Being a woman on the internet sounds like a fucking nightmare. No matter what you do you can always end up with that one deranged obsessive fucko. Too many headcases on the internet these days. it was so nice when it was just nerdy awkward people.

>> No.4055158

>>4053100
>Oh hi Bianca
Who?

>> No.4055167

>How do you deal with a fan falling in love with you?
I can't be the only one with an entrepreneurial mindset here?

>> No.4055178

>>4055158
https://www.neogaf.com/threads/girl-brutally-murdered-by-jealous-user-from-4chan-update-suspect-is-rl-friend-not-4chan-user.1492873/

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>>4051965
mfw guys do this to me all the time but they dont know im a dude...

>> No.4055413

Milk him, you idiot. Then block him.

>> No.4055453

>>4054999
>Girls aren't afforded the same assumption of safety when they're direct that guys are. Learned that the hard way.

Whatever excuse you need to tell yourself to keep being a lying bitch. Just get a gun or something and stop being dishonest.

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4055576

>>4055158
She's this broad.

>> No.4055666

>>4055178
>neofag
>girl brutally murdered by 4chan man by the way it wasn't 4chan man we just made that up

>> No.4056019

>>4052283
Based, although better be careful, I would never want an enemy with more free time than me

>> No.4056743

>>4055666
To be fair, when it happened a whole bunch of incels on /r9k/ we’re dropping new pictures and claiming it was them.

>> No.4057694

>>4053100
Actually, Bianca wasn't killed by an incel, but by her RL jock boyfriend who had met her parents (and she met his). He just happened to browse 4chan occasionally. As usual, the liberals were making shit up.

>> No.4057704

>>4051996
had to learn this one the hard way.
OP, the faster you cut this person off the faster they will forget about you and move onto other targets of fascination. You don't want to end up with a stalker.

>> No.4057706

>>4054680
no I have not

>> No.4057714

>>4055222
>im a dude...
that makes it better though

>> No.4057730

>>4055167
I love you.

>> No.4057773

>>4051996
i'd just tell the girl that its fine but will not be serious really, But OP if a guy suddenly wants you then get out. Follow this guy with asuka picture, Anyone who fall for beta orbiter is a no no

>> No.4057814

>>4051965
Unironically take advantage of them and then ghost them

>> No.4057828

>>4053100
I was just about to bring that up, lol.

>> No.4057877

>>4052283
this desu if you want the other person become a shooter lol