/fa/ - Fashion

>>8469523
If it feels like she has power over you, it's because you have given it to her.
You don't NEED to do anything, you don't even need to go to the party which will be shitty anyway.

But if you do go, talk to your friends, and act NORMAL (or better than you usually act) when you speak to her, speak to her like a friend you havent spoken to for a while, and haven't thought about much. Don't give her a lot of information about what you've been up to. You are happy to be talking with her again, but have a completely different life that you don't need her in.

If you are picking up signs she's getting attracted to you again, you need to ask yourself if you want to act on them. Is it worth it? It is an absolute mistake to consider dating her again, but if you can handle fucking her again (which I know you've dreamed about) you could go for it.

And if she rejects you, who gives a fuck? This is where the xylophone comes in: she is just somebody that you used to know.

>>8457735
Did you go to medical school?

>>8440887
This. I hope this girl starts tripping and offering relationship advice because you should ALWAYS take relationship advice from women.
You are single and she knows why, and she'll solve all your girl problems with her feminine perspective, so I would listen to her.

>>8440310
It doesn't have to be so serious. Take her out, have a good time and get to know her better. Whatever happens, happens, but the "relationship" aspect should be on the back burner heating up. You shouldn't decide you want to GF a girl before you've even started dating her yet - so chill and let things build up.

>>8431298
I've always liked quotes like that, but someone "at the top" is in a position where he wouldn't be caught up in OPs mind frame.
Someone at the top acknowledges the attraction to the gems and diamonds, understanding and playing that to his advantage. The person "at the top" most likely won't be seen that way by his peers, but he also won't care because he is above that need for acceptance, and won't be bitter because he just wants the best for those he cares about. There are the people in life who "just have it" and have a great social life, a ton of friends, financial success, etc, but at the same time, many of those people don't realize their position. The one "at the top" is the one who is in control of his life, and free. The one at the top lives in his own world, and embraces the absurd reality.

Basically, the person at the top respects the game, and calls the plays before they occur. He isn't bitter, because he has everything he wants - including the most valuable asset: control.

>>8428787
Still I'm the only one with a good tumblr and CERTIFIED cool tumblr.

http://myrealcoolblog.tumblr.com/

I haven't gotten any new followers in like 3 days, so the next five followers get FREE official cool advice for a year. Offer ends 48 hours after I submit this post, so don't wait. Opportunities like this don't come around often.

"If you had one shot, one opportunity to have all the relationship you ever wanted, would you go for it, or let it slip? Yo." - Eminem

>>8426819
#YESALLTRIPFAGS

>>8424743
Welcome to the cool club, friend.
Don't ever, EVER, say anything that could even slightly be portrayed as a sexist generalization. It's not hard to understand a lot of the problems related to gender dynamics, once you see how many people blindly defend stuff like that.

However, you never being laid due to your anime obsession is most likely a reality.

>>8410036
Thanks for emailing me back you goddamn prostitute. Have fun on your gay date.

>>8404209
I just copped these cool shorts.

>>8392468
Posting my tumblr in the OFFICIAL thread so it is NOT advertising and DOESN'T BREAK RULE 11

http://myrealcoolblog.tumblr.com/

I don't follow back because I'm not a follower like all you sheep.

>>8403950
Where the fuck do you even have to walk to?
Get a fucking office chair with wheels on the bottom.

>>8403958
Whatever I'm not the one out doing physical activity.

"You move, you lose" - Exodus 23:6-13

>>8401013
I swear to god people on this board are fucking retarded. It's easy to not sweat all the time: get a fan, or an air conditioning unit set to your preferred temperature, sit inside all day and go online. Wow. That sure took a rocket science guy to figure out.

>>8403894
I'm not judging your hair I'm judging all the shitposts from you in the past hour. Only make good posts from this point forward.
If you need an example of good posts I highly recommend checking out some of my examples.

>>8403841
It's not the real prodigy.

>>8403650
The mods and I are cool, but sometimes they act out.

>>8403112
>>8403062
>>8402858
Beards are so not /fa/ that you are going to get banned for posting about them on a fashion board.

>>8400376
Also, your texts to her are terrible and not working in your favor.

>>8400366
Yea totally man.
If you seriously think she's interested after that text you're delusional. I can show you several points in that conversation where it's clear.

One poster was right, in the overall scheme of things it's one conversation and won't mean much, but you can at least learn to decipher that not only is she not interested, she dissed you pretty hard.

Oh she's still talking to you?
I guess she MUST want to hookup.

>>8400212
Yea no girl has ever worried about being used for sex. I have sex with 100 girls a month and never heard of that.
Watch my advice video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mMAnbjHofA

>>8400258
Yea dodge the question if you can. Give her SOME hope for the future, and you'll be good.

>>8400107
>>Her: because you're cute
"Makes sense"

>>8400141
Sometimes getting straight to the point is the best move.
In OPs position it's clear she isn't interested, but something so crazy and blatant may actually make her see him in a different light.

I doubt it, because she dissed him pretty hard.

>>8400135
Her saying she has a BF, especially like that, is her letting you know she's not interested. What would I have said?
I wouldn't have said "Making dinner, how about you cuuuutie" so it wouldn't have even come up.

But if a girl did mention her BF over text I would go cry and post about it on /adv/ and not /fa/ because is a board for discussing fashion.

This girl is not into you.

>>8399820
Terrible, and she isn't even slightly interested in you sexually. It was way too blatant, and the "i'm not interested" is cringe worthy because if you weren't interested you wouldn't have said "hey cutie"