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>tfw you will never see that effay cute girl in the uni library who kept on glancing at you all year ever again

damn who else knows this feel

>> No.9882772

You will feel this feeling again

>> No.9882792

>tfw the girl you fell in love with came back from uni
>tfw you thought you weren't in love with her anymore
>tfw you spent two hours with her
>tfw you're in love again

>> No.9882876

>tfw start liking a fuckbuddy
>tfw 1 day before she leaves the country tells you someone else fucked her better in that same bed days ago
>tfw told her to fuck off but still take her to the airport
>tfw we kiss goodbye
>tfw she doesn't even look back
>tfw apologizes and tells me she loves me everyday
>tfw love her too

dont know what to think anymore. Might see her soon, bitch fucked me up big time

>> No.9882888

>>9882876
get out m8 she's just playing with you to keep her options open when she gets back

>> No.9882892

>>9882772
why didn't you just post your draft in my suicide thread bruh?

i will remember this.

>> No.9882895

>>9882888
Listen to him. Don't get fucked dude.

>> No.9882898

>>9882876
Don't be a sidehoe, b. If she isn't gonna focus on you 100 then bail.

>> No.9882900

Here we go:

>Best friend knows girl at work
>I'll call her anonette for ease of reference
>Hey anon I know this cool girl I'll totally set you up with her!
>Keeps bugging me about it for days
>Act all cool and non-chalant
>Get text from friend: "Anonette wants to meet you :)"
>Creep her with friend, turns out she's super artsy and cool maybe likes cool music
>Best friend is a pleb anyways when it comes to cool stuff
>Build up all this excitement about meeting stranger
>Go to friends house to chill
>He's texting a fuck ton, barely paying attention to me
>99% sure it's anonette
>Trying to meet up with him next night "Sorry anon I was just at the movies"
>Definitely went on a date with the girl he promised to set me up with

On one hand, I aint mad about not getting set up with a stranger I've never met, but on the other hand my friend is such a dick when it comes to girls.

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9882910

>have big crush on loli looking girl
>'bro'tier girl friend helps me out with it
>advises me to pour all my time into video games so im not sad
>do that and it actually works
>have new crush that i care more about
>she helps me again, gives me good advice and encouragement
>she tells me what she finds attractive and who she's interested in
>two months later get message from friend who has been infatuated with her for 6 years saying 'oh i thought you should know x is with y'
>laugh to myself while tipping my fedora

>> No.9882917

>>9882888
She's never coming back, so idk. I might just bail it was fucking painful the first time, not again.

>>9882898
Shes focusing on me a lot actually, she wants something serious but idk, she might just be playing. I know shes a crazy bitch but i fucking adore her, best sex i ever had, and smart af.

Anyway, its just toxic, im bailing out. might have sex with her 1 more time tho

Dont put dick in crazy bros, it will consume your life

>> No.9882933

>>9882917
thats horrible advice dog.

your gf sucks dog. to everyone but you. but w/e 'do your thing' 'real recognize real'

you will miss that shit, and if you didn't fuck it up too bad you should be alright. but if you fucked up. its fucked up.

-point of no return fucked up.

>> No.9882939

>>9882892
What?

>> No.9882957

>>9882917
>She's never coming back
That's your answer

>> No.9882964

>>9882939
i will fucking stab you.
i don't care if i die trying to kill you faggot.
u really are everything i hate.

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>>9882964
Ok

>> No.9882985

>>9882984
i don't know dog. ask me a question dog.
anything dog.
please make my day.

>> No.9882994

>>9882957
I was seriously thinking about going on a study abroad program just to be with her like a couple of weeks ago.

She told me she would move back too, but i dont think we trust each other anymore, sent her some pics of me with other women when i was butthurt and a bit drunk, now shes all psycho about who i go out with and tells me she wont date anyone for me

I wish i was a fucking kid again, playing videogames and pranking with my best friends t.t

>> No.9883012

>>9882994
you're just not psycho enough pussy.

she would have left you already bruh.

don't do fucking anything. just sit there bro. don't do anything.

>> No.9883018

>come across the perfect red hair girl with freckles
>start hanging out
>both laughing all the time
>start holding hands
>butterflies in stomach
>walk around doing this for a while
>kiss a little
>complete sensation of love, never felt this before
>wake up

I swear, it was such a vivid dream. I actually felt those butterflies and that happiness. I tried to go back to sleep and find her again, but I never did.

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>>9882994
>sent her some pics of me with other women when i was butthurt and a bit drunk, now shes all psycho about who i go out with and tells me she wont date anyone for me

This is basic female shit right here. She doesn't want you when she has you but she needs you when she sees you can do just fine without her and are chased after by other women. It's as simple as jealousy.

If you fall into her "serious relationship" thing you're going to get fucked over and it's going to be bad because then you're going to have even bigger feelings over her.
If you keep it chill and if YOU start seeing her on the side, keeping yourself a bit distant from ehr, you'll have no problem. See other women too, all this you're feeling is relative and it isn't special at all. Have your fun with her, play along with the girlfriend thing if you want, but if she fucks up again then bail, and be chill about it, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't have to, you couldn't care less you have other stuff going on. If she wants to get back with you AGAIN, then I'd just keep her to fuck her on the side if you can learn to deal with your feelings.

>> No.9883037

>>9883018

Dude I had one of these so long ago and still remember it, I'm also a very vivid dreamer and everything connects. I hate the post dream depression too.

>>9882900

Someone please respond to this and cool my nerves, it just makes me mad reading this. He's acting like nothing happened and is asking to chill now.

>> No.9883041

>>9882900
>>9883037

Honestly, you sound like a beta pussy who was too scared to express real interest, so your alpha friend took the pussy for himself because you weren't man enough.

You friend is just a better man than you, fix yourself or get used to your bro cucking you at every turn.

>> No.9883045

How do I maintain interest on dates? I find myself getting bored and the date getting bored. I just dont know what to do, something fun?

>> No.9883050

>>9883041
ok i didn't actually read any OP posts but i know this.

you're not psycho enough. she really would have left you.

you're shit is drawn out and corny.

i think the situation is you think you can fuck these bitches but when it comes down to actually fucking them they tell you they're hanging out with friends.

>> No.9883051

>>9883045

You're boring. You bore yourself because it's easier for you to think that's reason your date isn't interested, when in reality you're just not very interesting.

You can deny this all you want, but you're the problem.

>> No.9883055

>>9882994
>I wish I was a kid again
>both of you acting like children

Nahhh nigga you're still a kid, don't sweat it.

>> No.9883058

>>9883045
if you can't maintain interest then there's no point in continuing the date, there's no connection between you.

sometimes if i'm having a dinner date and get bored i just say that i'm going to the restroom and leave the girl stuck with the bill. hell if i'm going to pay for a meal for some girl i never plan on seeing again

>> No.9883063

>>9883051
I didnt say I wasnt the problem. I am the problem but I asked for fun things to do to help

>> No.9883068

>>9883051
what i wanna know is, how these bitches gon even go out with me.
my gene pool is almost extinct bruh.
where the hoes at bruh?
i'm not talking about that good girl i cheated on.
i'm talkin bout bad bitches that wanna fuck

cuz they drunk.

where the hoes at?

>> No.9883069

>>9883041

Thanks for putting me in my place anon :)

>> No.9883072

>>9882792
I know this one m8

>> No.9883075

>>9883068
n its extinct nigga cuz niggas be killin it dog.

ya feel me at all?
like KILLING IT!
like on the real
like the gene pool is dried up killing it.

nigga where the hoessss attt?!?!

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9883092

>tfw ugly

i'm not even rich, got nothing to save me

>> No.9883098

>>9882876
geez you're being cucked, get out of there FAST

>> No.9883107

>>9883092
tfw when you realize that slimy ho don't find that pic funny cuz she got a pussy.

tfw when that pic does it for you and you don't need a hoe cuz YOU IS a pussy.

>> No.9883122

>>9882876
*you wake up in a chair in front of a stage*

*louis ck is summoned*

>> No.9883126

>>9882876

CUCK
U
C
K

>> No.9883155

>>9883029
I probably have an answer for that but im just rationalizing the shit out of this. I know she loves me and I love her, but i dont want to play games anymore and she is fucking nuts, used to be fun its just painful now. I would probably try to fuck her up once i got bored of her too, we just dont have respect for each other

Ill just have to forget about her

>>9883055
Im an ass and shes a bitch, kind of like kids i guess, but not as fun

>>9883098
Lel felt like a disgusting cuck at first

>> No.9883161

>>9883155
>Im an ass and shes a bitch, kind of like kids i guess, but not as fun

correction my nig.
you're an ass and she's a dick.

>> No.9883179

>tfw qt girl keeps smiling and talking to you at work but you're just that tiny bit too awkward to make anything actually happen
>tfw you thought you weren't that socially awkward but it hits you
>tfw never had real emotional support ever and find yourself longing/seaching for it whilst hiding it from yourself and everyone else

>> No.9883204

>>9883179
Been there m8, just invite her out, talk about work stuff and personal stuff. Make her laugh, with you own humor, say jokes that make YOU laugh and she will laugh.

Then kiss her, get close to her, make contact, look at her eye to eye, look at her lips and lean in.

The tough part is getting her to like you, im not saying love you, liking is enough to take that step

You probably wont do it, i know i wouldnt have but one day youll hit rock bottom and start trying and realize its not so bad after all but you already wasted a big part of your life being a pussy

Dont forget your sick fit :^) bitches love sick fits

>> No.9883235

>>9883204
Don't worry m8 been there before, shit just gets hard sometimes you know?
I'm sure I'll get the opportunity soon, thanks for the support /fa/ bro, keep on copping sick fits

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9883243

>finally find girl perfect for me, 22y/o, first ever girlfriend
>start dating
>she leaves me after 2 months, says the feelings have faded
>still crazy about her
>3 months later
>still wake up everyday,get drunk, and contemplate suicide
>haven't been sober in a month
>would have ended it already if i knew my parents wouldn't blame themselves

better to have loved and lost? i don't know about that

>> No.9883247

>>9882759
I know this feel, I'm graduating so I'll never know if any of the girls I think may have been into me actually liked me or not. Oh well.

>> No.9883264

>tfw when all the cuties you're interested in are married.

Those mid/late 20s feels. Any unmarried girls at this age seem to be tattooed sluts or hambeast cumdumps.

>> No.9883281

>>9883243
relax dude

>> No.9883287
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9883287

>went out with this one girl a few weeks ago
>text her a few times but never talk to her in real life
>despite often being in the same room as her for extended periods of time
>most of the time when I see her on the streets I book it in the opposite direction because beta
>she tells me she's quiet af around other people so she doesn't really mind
>any time we text it's always me that starts the conversation
>not really sure if she cares about me
>not sure if I like her but might go out with her again, maybe just to make being around her less awkward
>not sure what to do at all

>> No.9883292

>>9883247
>tfw you will never be surrounded by that many cute girls ever again

>> No.9883299
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9883299

>Gtx 980 finally comes thru
>4gb
>980ti leaked
>titan x released
jesus,might spend another 2 weeks without a card again
last time i got cucked this bad was by Damir Doma

>> No.9883307

>>9883243
>contemplating suicide over a two-month relationship
dude chill lmao

>> No.9883319

>>9883287
She's not interested.

When you find a significant other who's truly interested in you, they will go out of their way to spend time with you and see you.

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9883320

>only fucked hookers

l o l

>> No.9883324

>meet this grill
>she's cute but kinda dumb
>not really interested in her
>friends keep telling me I should fuck her
>she really wants to fuck me
>keep going home thinking I'm fucking lonely

Life doesn't seem to work out.

>> No.9883336

>>9883319
Should I just do nothing, then? It feels a bit rude to just sort of let them float away like that.

>> No.9883343

>>9883243
damn bro, it was 2 months fuck
get over yourself

>> No.9883345

>>9883336
not the guy that replied but
You have to do something, either actually do something with her, or just forget her, you can't win her just by waiting

>> No.9883346

>>9883324
dude I know this is a crazy idea but

maybe

you should fuck her

?????????

>> No.9883352

>>9883324
rek that booty son

>> No.9883365

>>9883287
are u me?
i was like this with a girl for like 2-3 weeks but then we just man'ed myself the fuck up and starting talking to her more irl and yeah she's my gf now lol

>> No.9883366

>>9883345
Not trying to win her m8, just wanted to know if ceasing communication with a person you don't want a second date with is socially acceptable or not. If she makes the effort to talk to me then I'll go out with her again, but if not, I'm doing nothing.

>> No.9883369

>>9883320
Fucking hookers isn't fa

>> No.9883371

is 15-16 cm /fa/

>> No.9883374
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9883374

>tfw you and that one qt kept making eye contact during the end of the year
>friends say to just message him on fb
>tfw he never responds
RIP

>> No.9883380

>sister's tutor qt asian
>talk for two days
>dumps her bf of three years
>he gets hospitalized/suicidal
>hangs out with me
>fuck her
>"i don't want to fuck"
>fuck two days later
>"I'm way too physically attracted to you and i didn't have that with ex"
>"why r u so cold"

>> No.9883383

>>9883374
Pls b in London

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>>9883374
>>tfw she never responds

>> No.9883407

>>9883366
Dude imagine her perspective for a second: if she wouldn't talk back how fucking awkward would that be? She will talk back but it doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I'm sad if this means you won't do anything again but I'm afraid that's what it will be.
And it's socially acceptable if she doesn't talk to you. Girls don't like to talk first but in your case it seems it's beyond that.

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>>9883369
dont b a hater just cuz you afraid of paid pussy

>> No.9883476
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9883476

I've started to stop hating myself by going out and joining Tinder. What is the general window of response time after swiping a girl right, to not hearing back from her ever again? I'm no model but I'm not disfigured either, and I joined only yesterday, but I'm pretty bummed out by the lack of activity thus far for me

>> No.9884427

>tfw find out an 8/10 girl likes you
>tfw she knows i now and tries to ignore me
>tfw go on date
>tfw go on second date, but doesn't go as well as firts date
>tfw stopped texting for 2 weeks
>tfw i find out she's at my friends house
>tfw i'm to scared to confront her about our relationship
>tfw crying in bed because i actually started liking this girl a lot
>tfw she rather go to my friends house than my house which are two blocks away

/fa/ how the fuck do I start a relationship? I feel like a helpless loser next to het.

>> No.9884474

>>9884427
>tfw i'm to scared to confront her about our relationship

what relationship? you went on two dates and then stopped talking. you have no relationship.

there's nothing to confront her about, you'll just come off desperate, creepy, controlling, psycho, etc.

she moved on and probably fucked your friend. i suggest you move on as well.

>> No.9884486

>>9883247
Jesus Christ I'm there.

One blonde girl in a glass blowing class was a classic 10 in the looks department, and after a few short conversations, she seemed cool as shit, but I couldn't read her well for myself to justify asking her out.

Worst part is, logically I saw all the signs that implied she liked me, but I just can't accept it; I'd rather just not even try.

>> No.9884487

>>9884474
okay anon. thanks. it's hard to move on, because i see her everyday.

i just wanted formal rejection.i want someone to reassure to me that she moved on.

>> No.9884518

>Meet girl at uni.
>Talk for a few weeks.
>Go on date and have a great time.
>Fuck on the first date.
>Start to have feelings for her.
>She is VERY wealthy and I'm not
>Start to get depressed over how easy her life is because of parent's millions.
>She says we need to talk.
>Tells me I'm too depressing to be around and that we shouldn't talk anymore.
>Blocks me on all social media and even my number.
>Still depressed.

She was korean/white. 5'2 - 100lbs. 4.0 student at our Uni.

Where did I go wrong?

>> No.9884524

>>9884487

Ah but that's the worst part. 95% of the time you don't get a confirmation. Pro tip fuccboi - if you think the "relationship" is done it most likely is.

>> No.9884528

>>9884518
>Tells me I'm too depressing to be around

She told you outright, and you don't get it?

From what you're describing, you seemed depressed because she had a better financial situation. This depression was reflected in your actions and body language, and made you a person she did not enjoy being around.

Solution? Figure out how to stop being depressed.

>> No.9884545

>>9884528
My question at the end was meant to be rhetorical.

My problem lies within the fact that I compare myself to others too frequently. She told me she does the same and that I was making it worse.

She was a 10/10 that everyone obsessed over. I tried so hard not to lose her that I ended up ruining what we had.

Since then I've been on a dozen dates and am not interested in anyone. How do I lower my standards? I'm only an 8/10 (if that).

>> No.9884552

>>9884545
just get drunk and fuck some bitches
if that dont work u a beta bitch lmao

>> No.9884555

>>9884552
Never had sex drunk. I don't make stupid decisions.

Sleeping with women isn't difficult... It's forming a relationship after the matter that's difficult.

You have terrible advice. Getting drunk and sleeping around doesn't make you "alpha". It just reflects on how stupid you are.

>> No.9884556

>>9884545
>How do I lower my standards?

You don't. You increase the standards that you apply to yourself. Learn to be the best you, alone. If you're not perfectly happy with the idea of living alone with yourself for the rest of your life, why would anyone worthwhile want to live with you?

Find out who you are and come to peace with it. You don't have to stay that person forever, but you will likely carry the peace forever.

>> No.9884583

>>9884556
Thank you. I needed to hear this.

It's one of those things that you know you need to do but often forget.

Working on my bachelor's in Aerospace Engineering and also run a business. Maybe I should focus on this more than trying to find a partner.

All my close friends are in relationships and it's made me feel like the outcast.

>> No.9884599

>>9884545
Literally the plot of She's Out of my League
Watch the movie and take notes, young grasshopper

>> No.9884617

>>9883476
>"I'd rate that a light 3 to a connect 4"

>> No.9884619

>>9884556
>>9884555

How do I get girls, anon? I've had a 6 month dry spell after getting regular poon at my old uni and now it feels like things are much harder since I transferred out of state. I feel very out of my element and it seems like all the qt3.14s have boyfriends.

Should I not put so much pressure on myself to find a gf/get laid regularly by somebody I like? Should I try to make friends with girls who aren't ugly (ask them to hang out and stuff)? At my old school (UCSB) this kind of stuff seemed nuch more natural and now I'm out of state for the first time in my life and I feel lost.

I'm only asking because you seem like you have a clue, otherwise I know /fa/ is not the place for this.

>> No.9884625

>>9884619

*girls who are ugly

My bad. I'm asking about making platonic girl friends basically.

>> No.9884634

>>9884619
Getting girls is a pretty simple task. Just takes the know-how.

Meet them. Let them know you're interested super early on. (Don't friendzone yourself). Ask her out and control the time/location. If you click, then you've done your job.

It sounds cheesy, but just be you.

Then again, I've slept with my share of women, but have had no relationships over a year.

>> No.9884659

>>9883029
started hating this as i read it but its good advice
another addition: if you stay chill you dont lose face when things go pear shaped and you arent branded as some cuckboi

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>>9882759
i know this feel

>> No.9884713

>>9884619
>Should I not put so much pressure on myself to find a gf/get laid regularly by somebody I like?

exactly this. just be you in all situations, including around girls. if you find someone attractive, casually ask them out to go do something. if they say no, then they say no. you don't require their company or companionship. your satisfaction comes from within.

in my opinion, a partner should be someone who has their own life. and you should have your own life. and of course there can be overlap, but you need to have a lot of distinct parts as well. you support each other in your respective endeavors, and you cherish the moments that you spend together. but you're two people with two trajectories, and those trajectories are not going to be exactly the same.

but i'm introverted and very independent and i require a lot of alone time to "recharge" socially after any prolonged interaction. so maybe that influences my view on a partnership.

>> No.9885304

b4mp

>> No.9885372

>got job that's physical labor
>fat content of body going down
>all my pants fit like shit
>struggle to keep my weight where it is, would actually want couple of pounds of muscle
Shit sucks
At least I look decent without a shirt on since I'm so lean now I guess, if only I weren't such a skellington

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9885380

>friends bring female friends at a party
>one is top tier qt material
>get drunk
>go to the club
>she keeps coming dancing with me
>finally kiss her
>I become insta-infatuated
>tfw she probably doesn't give a shit about that kiss
>tfw I just wanna see her again

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>sitting on a bus, about to leave from a skiing trip, 17 hour ride to go
>I told everybody to fuck so I had 2 seats for myself so I could sleep
>another bus breaks down and people are spread over all the other buses
>9/10 qt sits down next to me
>we talk for 10 hours straight, we're pretty much a perfect match
>mfw too beta to ask her number
>mumble "h-have a s-safe trip home" when she gets off the bus, while she's looking at me expectantly

god damn that's three months ago and I still feel like a fucking retard for letting that one slip

KILL ME

>> No.9885399

>>9882759
She probably wanted you to make a move.

>> No.9885465

>>9885380
uh, sorry man

>> No.9885502

>>9882759
been happening to me since pubescence

>> No.9885526

>>9883243
>she leaves me after 2 months
>better to have loved and lost? i don't know about that
enough tumblr for you m8

>> No.9885543

>>9882759
>tfw don't tell people I have a bf on purpose so I get people at uni to do stuff for me and give me compliments (but I'd never actually go out with any of them)
I used to be so awkward and ugly in high school, it feels good. When you're pretty you have everything.

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>>9885383
rest in pieces

>> No.9885842

>>9885399
Prolly yea. There were quite a few girls that seemed to like me at uni, I wish I wasn't so beta and actually saw myself as attractive.

>> No.9886106

>>9882917
Matt?

>> No.9886234

>am grill, TA at my university
>have qt student constantly coming to office hours, asking for additional office hours
>he was doing fine in the class anyway
>at first find it annoying, but then start liking him
>even took off a Saturday to meet with him
>he was soo qt and actually older than me even though i'm a grad and he's undergrad
>thought he was clearly into me
>semester ends, no emails from him, no fb friend request, no thx for spending 10000 hours tutoring him, etc.
>feel sad
>I already have a bf so this is all very ????????

>> No.9886250

>>9884518
>Where did I go wrong?
by dating a korean girl

they're all fucked up in the head, plus are ugly as fuck

>> No.9886279

>>9886234
>I already have a bf so this is all very ????????

having a significant other doesn't stop you from being attracted to other people, even intensely. and with attraction comes all sorts of feelings. it's pretty simple, really.

>> No.9886286

>>9883243
Lmfao. 22 years old, first relationship only lasted 2 months and you're still hung up because you thought she was the one? How many people end up having only one relationship in their lives, dude? Jesus christ get a grip

>> No.9886362

>be happy with gf for almost a year; i finally find one person who cares about and loves me
>thought she was happy, we've had our ups and downs and this was by far the best time we had together
>actually am happy for the first time in years
>out of nowhere she tells me she has to break up with me because of some "emotional responsibility" bullshit, which she says she cant keep thinking of how her actions affect me
>this basically translates to "my desires are more important than your feelings"
>she instantly starts spending all her time with two people that i hate and she knows it, one of which she actually pursued while we were dating, which I forgave her for because of how sorry she said she was, and nothing actually happened between them at all
>she kept telling me that she cares about me and doesnt want to hurt me
>she doesnt do things on purpose to hurt me, but she doesnt do anything to prevent hurting me
>she at first said she would eventually want to get back together, but needed space for now
>later she said she is scared of dating me bc of how hard i was taking everything
>she acts like im ridiculous for not being over it
>she keeps making me be the bad guy
>i used to have friends but they fucked me over too
>i havent talked to her for a week
>this happened not even 3 weeks ago

this is so stupid and fucking confusing
i dont even care if anyone reads this i just need to say it

>> No.9886383

>>9886362

>>she kept telling me that she cares about me and doesnt want to hurt me
>>she doesnt do things on purpose to hurt me, but she doesnt do anything to prevent hurting me
Here's where you fucked up, you're being far too posessive

>> No.9886408

>>9886362
>this basically translates to "my desires are more important than your feelings"

but you'd be perfectly happy to have her put her feelings aside and keep dating you even though that's obviously not what she wants.

protip: she doesn't owe you anything. she doesn't owe it to you to date you, she doesn't owe it to you to not hang out with somebody. especially when you're not together anymore.

>she doesnt do things on purpose to hurt me, but she doesnt do anything to prevent hurting me

you're acting like a child. her actions have nothing to do with you. she broke it off with you. do you really expect her to wake up every morning and go "hmm what should i do today to honor my ex's feelings?"

she don't owe you shit

>> No.9886419

>>9886362
feelings on your part do not translate into an obligation on her part

>> No.9886421
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9886421

>girl invites me to her dorm
>watch movie, talk yada yada, she is really close
>next day her friend "bro, did you fuck her ?".
>for some retarded reason I didn't catch what she was going for
>she ignores me
>text her to come over
>"okay, budy"
>OOHHFUUUCKK
>never talked to her again

Never dating a black girl again, piece of crap tell me what you need, is not like i can read minds

>> No.9886426

>>9886421

what the fuck are you even saying

>> No.9886427

>>9886362
this is similar to my situation, fuck girls man, we just gotta move on

>> No.9886440

>>9886421
wat

>> No.9886443
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9886443

hook up culture is degenerate and creates cucks like you lmao

dumb fucking cucks

>> No.9886450

>>9886426
forget about the meaning, the moral of this my son, is to be smart and look beyond the situations.

>> No.9886456
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9886456

>was once a happy social person
>started dressing pretty nice
>no one will talk to me now and I seem to intemidate people
>have to always initiate convo
>people think I'm a rich snob
>tfw

>> No.9886462
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9886462

>new girl at office
>have a crush on her
>she only go out during breaks with me
>only ride out with my car
>always sit next to me when we hang out with other colleague
>and all other signals
>all this time I realize she have a boyfriend
>goes on for like 5-6 months
>decided to fuck it and just tell her how I feel
>she said she was very flattered but her feelings for her bf is still strong
I don't know mang. Did I took too long or was I a fool? And now I got friendzoned and she still do this shit to me.

And all of our friends thought we were dating, fuck.

>> No.9886472
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9886472

> finally met a nice girl
>moving away in 2 months

Literally has happened twice now.

>> No.9886477

>>9886462
Either you were reading into her side of it too much or she was being weird and enjoying the attention without the distraction.

Either way buy more suits

>> No.9886490

>>9886462
>>decided to fuck it
very good anon, go !
>>just tell her how I feel
and there you fucked up

You must be very young or this is the first time you get on this level with a girl, i am not an expert but telling a girl how you feel before dating is extremely autistic.

>> No.9886496

>>9886490
This. Don't be an emotional faggot before you get serious.

>> No.9886501
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9886501

>be me
>8/10 beta fuck
>start talking to a qt at the club one night
>we have instant connection
>we hang out all the time
>not sure if she's into me
>too beta to ask
>the night i finally decide to tell her I'm into her
>she turns up to the club with a certified 3/10 neckberd manchild
>act like everything is fine
>go home and throw on some drake
>check facebook
>"anonette is now in a relationship with sweaty neckbeard
>dream of her that night

what the fuck is wrong with me, why cant I ever man the fuck up.

>> No.9886511

>>9886490
this.
avoid the words as "love" "like" and other faggotry like those. If you like a girl, just go for it, dont need to be telling how you feel

>> No.9886515

>>9886383
the things she does are obviously going to hurt me, im not getting upset over stupid things. Her actions say that either she doesnt care about me at all and is lying to me, or her desires to do these things matter more than my feelings
The idea of her not actually caring about me at all is what hurts the most, and is really hard to deal with considering that she acted as if i was the only thing she cared about literally up until the day she broke up with me. Does that make any sense? sorry im bad at explaining things

>>9886408
I do care about her feelings, and I totally understand her wanting space and i can totally respect that. Her actions make it seem more like she doesnt want to care about my feelings anymore, which hurts. Its just confusing with her actions and her words being complete opposites, and she has been trying to pass off this whole situation as her wanting space, but thats not what it seems like at all.
The things she has been doing seem like they would be very easily avoidable, and if she actually cared about my feelings like she still says she does, I would think that she would do things at least a little bit differently. Im not expecting her to do drastic things to consider my feelings all the time, but i expect her to at least be a little bit sensitive about it.
i know my situation may not make sense without a huge full explanation, but i promise im not as ridiculous and childish as it seems like i may be.

>> No.9886523

>>9886443
All tripfags are, by their very nature, degenerate cucks without even having sex in the first place. The girl in that picture is most likely being railed by a 6'2 muscular alpha, while you stay home dreaming about imaginary girls because you're a beta faggot. Self-cucked, indeed.

>> No.9886572
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9886572

>doing a cpr course for my job
>kinda /fa/ qt comes in
>wearing doc martens, dressed a bit like lisbeth salander
>sits next to me
>she hasn't done the required test
>i give her my answers
>we do all the activities together, i.e. always pairing up and staying in each others groups
>getting along well enough that i think i should ask for her number or something at the end
>when the teacher says we can go she leaves immediately
>i had to ask the teacher something so didn't get chance to talk to qt
>had a dream about her that night in which i was looking for her but could never find her
>mfw

>> No.9886581

>>9883243
I feel you, 20yo virgin here. If I'd get a gf and she'd leave me I'd probably be sad as fuck because I'll be lonely for a long time again

>> No.9886596

>>9886490
>>9886496
>>9886511
Noted. But then how do I go to the next level? I'm a shy person.

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>>9882759
>tfw i discovered that the girl i love just plays that serious girl role in front of her parents and people at uni
>tfw i know she will spend the night in the streets hooking up and shit with a few friends of her and the random people she'll encounter in the streets
>tfw i still can't hate her for this

Maybe i should move to /pol/ and /r9k/ to spread my bitterness over women.

>> No.9886686

>>9883324
Had that shit happen to me, except she wasn't cute, so I just dubbed the shit out of her

>> No.9886789

Any of you /fa/ggots have experience with a friends with benefits relationship?

>> No.9886798

I saw that /fa/ cutie in public transport today
she was reading something and had a weird cardboard box with something painted on it

>> No.9886833

>>tfw the girl you liked for a couple months started dating a guy before you had the courage to approach her
>>tfw you are starting to be friendly with her but you got no chance at all
>>tfw when you fall hard for her

>> No.9886839

>tfw you always find a flaw in her

"I'm so good at finding what I don't like the most"
-Kanye

>> No.9886853

>tfw another weekend alone

>> No.9886875

>>9886839
Iktfb, there's always something

>> No.9887022

>>9886596
She has a boyfriend. So forget about her, don't sit next to her anymore.

You need to let a girl know that you're interested as early as possible e.g. compliment her as soon as you meet, ask for her number the same day etc.

Also, don't shit where you eat. Hooking up with someone you work with never ends well.

>> No.9887029

>>9886839
>>9886875
No one is perfect. Not even you, you conceited fuckboys. Love is learning to except these flaws in your partner.

>> No.9887056

>>9887029
I try. I can't even make new friends anymore because they are not perfect. I can't accept anyone. Fucking a mate. I don't even know why.

>> No.9887071

>>9887056
Well, you either:

Change and accept people for who they are

Or be alone forever

Life's easier with friends, bud.

>> No.9887077

>>9887071
I know mate. I know. I just try too hard to make everything perfect instead of going with the flow. I've only recently realized my mindset is dumb. But it's just so hard I think I have a mental illness.

>> No.9887234

>tfw no gf
>ever
>hate relationships even though I've never been in one
>had a few girls interested, turned down every single one

/fa/, I think something's wrong with me

>> No.9887288

>>9882759
i hate when this happens because im usually legit studying and dont want to be bothered

>> No.9887330

>fiesty latina girl with 6/10 face but 11/10 ass in class of 12 people
>sit right next to her
>can't find a way to initiate anything because she always seems so aloof

fucking latinas are hard to bag

>> No.9887366

>>9887330
just say ai caramba and shrug your shoulders

>> No.9887529

>>9885380
too bad cuz

>> No.9887626

>>9885383
bro

>> No.9887694

>>9887330
>can't talk to *insert ethnicity here*
>ugh why do these people not want to fuuuck meeee

>> No.9887706

>>9887694
this is not what he was saying lol

>> No.9887747

>tfw girl from 3000 miles away who i spent a weekend with was more real than anything i've ever experienced
>tfw you realize you haven't experienced much
heh

>> No.9887831

>>9887234
at least it's you rejecting others, not others rejecting you

>> No.9887871

who /nosociallifeandabouttogotocollege/ here?

>> No.9887945
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9887945

>Girls looking at you

Who else has never known this feel?

>> No.9887949

>>9883018
>mfw knew girl like that in freshman year of high school
>started to get really attached to her
>started to get scared of the attachment
>one day abruptly stopped talking to her altogether
>wanted to talk to her but it got to the point where it was too awkward to start again
>didn't talk to her for the rest of high school
>im such a goddamn autist why

>> No.9887957

>>9883058
in the first line you had a point but in the second your proved yourself to be an ass

>> No.9887961

>Listening to dating advice from shut-in retards, the thread.

>> No.9887979

>>9883243
dude dun kill yourself. You're 22, you still got half your life left to live.

kidding aside, the easiest way to get over a girl is to meet another. you'll never get over her if you don't actively pursue other potential m8s

>> No.9887983

>>9887979
>half

>> No.9887987

>>9887983
well it's all downhill from 40

you can kill yourself then

>> No.9887988

>>9883299
quality post

>> No.9887994

Is this a feel thread?

>having a crush on a girl that fucks every guy she meets

not a good feeling

>> No.9888014
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9888014

>meet girl this semester
>invited to her birthday /valentines day party
>get to stay with her and her besties after the party was cleared out
>told she has a bf
>he's nowhere to be found
>been cheated on before, hate the feeling, decide to respect her relationship
>feelings for her grow over semester
>bf gets mad at her for hanging out wit me
>she won't break up with him even though she's unhappy, he's abusive
>I know she's interested: always dolled up around me, preening hair, etc
>we go to river, make plans to trip together some day
>smoke and explore for hours
>literally the most fun I'd had all year
>end of semester, growing distant, always busy or flaking now
>she flakes on me one too many times, another excuse
>sad cuz I know she's full of shit and cancelling b/c her bf said to
>get really drunk by myself
>text her I love you
>pls respond

Oh well, if she really wanted me she'd be with me right now. At least I worked on my flirting with her

>> No.9888153

ive had girlfriends crushes, been cheated on and many other hardcore feels but the worst feel of all is
>be on holiday in Thailand (us Aussies are loved there so walking around like king)
>11/10 Russian girl id say around 17-19 with an amazing ass gorgeous eyes and face and just a beautiful specimen staying at same hotel
> cant remember exactly what but i did something funny near the same pool that made her laugh
>i shit you not for the next week from that moment forward we eye fucked the hsit out of each other so much it was impossible not to feel the sexual tension
>be walking down main strip pass each others families ey fuck each other i turn around 10 metres down the road so does she an we just stare eye fucking each other
>i was to much of a bitch so speak to her because whenever i saw her she was with big ass grizzly russians
>leave thailand never speaking a word but our last eye fuck was literally 2 minutes long i got a boner from it
>tfw feels just hit me again

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9888162

>finally overcome my autism
>asked a girl for her number and got it
>called her up to grab a coffee

>she says she is busy

at least she said we could go out when uni stuff settles down right?

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>>9888162
Ignore her for a bit and come back with a game plan. Ask around, Find out what she likes, do a bit of research, then strike with confidence. Make her giggl, don't look like your trying to hard. You'll get her you fufucking mythological legend

>> No.9888183

>>9888014
you're brave anon, best of luck

>> No.9888355

>>9886472
I know that feel mayne, when I visited my cousins in atlanta I met one of his friends that was my age and we really hit it off. I almost fucked and I caught feelings cause I had to come back the next day. Now idk if i'll be able to visit over the summer cause I got a job :( Honestly thinking of quitting just to go visit for like 3 weeks

>> No.9888375

>tfw the last week of uni this tall, beautiful girl in my math class started smiling and saying hi to me all of a sudden
>will never see her again

>> No.9888400

>>9888170
yo what the fuck I know this girl in real life, no lie, thats her brother with the curly hair

kinda recognize the other two idiots.

>> No.9888430

>>9888400
Dude where are you? Is your name Gabe?

>> No.9888474

>>9888430
I knew this girl from highschool, she lived in the same city as me

She moved out to Calgary last year. My gf was good friends with her

I'm not Gabe tho

>> No.9888514

>>9888170
Thanks, we're all gonna make it

>> No.9888549

>>9882759

I know this feel.

>Freshmen year
>Philosophy 1301
>cute girl sits across the lecture room
>always making eye contact/smile
>never got the courage to take her on a date


I was such a puss, still am, but know better now

>> No.9888736

>tfw falling for cougar fwb who is 18 years older than me

She's pretty, smart, funny, considerate and we have similar interests. I wish she my age every day.

>> No.9888768

>>9883243
wat

>> No.9888776

Jesus christ this thread
the day I stopped feeling sorry for myself for not getting laid with qts is one of the best days of my life. You're in control of your own destiny, and the sooner you realize this the sooner you stop being a self-pitying entitled fuckboi. You want a qt gf? Get effay, get fit, and ask people out.

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>>9882759
>find a qt smart girl
>hang out with her almost every weekend,lives in another city
>chat every day
>have told her that she is cute/I'm happy to have met her/I like her
>haven't heard anything remotely similar from her
>we are dating for like 5 months
what should I do? kill myself?
jesus christ I'm so beta, it scares me

>> No.9888796

>>9888785
so you are dating? but she hasnt ever complimented you?

>> No.9888797

>be beta "tfw no gf" fuckboi who falls in love with every girl who talks to me
>start on OCD medication
>removes all sexdrive
>can focus soley on getting shredded and getting into med school without distractions
it's a weird feel, lads

>> No.9888808

>>9888796
I don't really care about compliments, well it would be nice, but saying something like "I like you" is what I'm waiting for to hear.We even have our "hello/goodbye" kisses. I just don't know anymore. I think I'll distant myself from her a little bit, I don't want thoughts like that to ruin my life

>> No.9888843

>>9888808
Is she shy or introverted?

If you're dating and she's from another city then that means she has to kind of like you.

Ask her to come visit you in your city for you to show her around, if she's willing to take the time to see you then you have your answer. Also say shit like "sometimes I can't express myself properly and that creates distance with the people around me." Maybe she'll get the hint, or say "me too" and you'll know her problem.

>> No.9888847

>>9888797
Two c's no k

>> No.9888849

>>9888736
Stop fucking her then you retard

>> No.9888857

>>9882759
iktf, but secondary school not uni (im 18 mods no ban pls). Its this one qt who i've wanted to be with for ages
>tfw only got /fit/ /fa/ and /cool/ at the start of my last year
>tfw she will never think of me as anything other than a nerdy beta
I-I'll meet someone better at uni, right lads?

>> No.9888867

>>9888843
Yes, she is pretty shy.

She visits my city too, not so often, but she does

She said something like she can't express herself around others, so it could be kind of explained, but she knows I put myself in embarrassing situations where I show my attraction towards her,and I still get no response.

I'll think of a way of sending her a clear signal.Thanks for taking your time to chat with me bruh

>> No.9888869

>>9888857
You will, don't worry

Just don't think about her after you stop seeing her or you'll create a fake vision of perfection out of her.

>> No.9888877

>>9888857
yeah, you'll meet someone better.

just make sure you don't get in a relationship with the first one you meet. there will be so many opportunities to meet and have sex with girls that you won't know what to do with yourself.

>> No.9888882

>>9888867
No problem, if you like her don't distance yourself. Since she's the quiet type she'll just blame herself for saying too much, and not get that she wasn't saying enough. Be upfront with her and see how she responds.

>>9888857
There are SO MANY girls at university man, and most of them won't know about your nerdy past.
Rather than thinking of that one girl, think of ways to make yourself attractive to other girl (workout, socialise, etc).

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>tfw can't feel shit

>> No.9888901

>>9883092
none of that matters if u got mad dick game

>> No.9888916

>le betas who go to parties, concerts and fuck girls
>omg I'm soo beta ;;pppXPDp don't hit on me silly alternative girls ;ppp

>> No.9888974

>>9882759
>tfw when her and her friends purposely came and sat around you in an otherwise empty room
>pretty sure her friends all came w her cos she was to shy to go alone
>tfw just turned my headphones up and just looked concentrated on work
>tfw it happened about 5 times

>> No.9888991

>>9888974
She hot?
If she is just say somthing ffs.
If you ignore her any longer she's going to know you're a loser, if you say something stupid she's going to know you're a loser.
You have nothing to lose... NOTHING.

>> No.9888993

>>9882759
>tfw she held your hand and walked with you but you couldn't seal the deal
Considering sudoku.

>> No.9889001

>>9888993
iktf

>> No.9889004

>>9888993
what's the matter with you mate

>> No.9889005

>>9888474
Who were you dating, Alex? Holly?

>> No.9889006

>>9882759
>several girls eyefuck me like no tomorrow on a few occasions
>when actually try to ask them out they never answer or start avoiding me after that
I don't understand women

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9889012

>know super cute girl
>get the courage to ask her out
>says yes
>really happy
>suddenly wake up
>the feeling of happiness presides in me for a few seconds
>suddenly realize it was just a dream

>> No.9889019

>>9889006
A friend of me talked with a girl for five straight hours at a party, she didn't even acknowledge him when he made signs to her the next day.
I really hate the "two species" mentality that underline statements such as "I don't understand women", but... Yeah, I don't get it either.

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>>9889006
they probably just want attention, not worth the emotional effort

don't fuck with shitty women, though it can feel like they're everywhere at times (trust there are as many shitty guys)

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>>9889012
>literally fell in love with the girl in my dream last night

>> No.9889035

>>9884427
>Our relationship

>Confirmed for middleschooler.

>> No.9889042

Here's a beta story for you all

>make some friends this year
>one of them is a qt grill
>didn't want to make any moves because it would jeopardized mutual friendships
>friendships that I value highly because they're the first in awhile
>hang around with them a lot at college
>this is great but also quite shit because I was so conflicted about what to do
>invite them out for drinks over holidays, kidding myself that it'd just be a friend thing
>we end up going clubbing instead (a first for me) with a long time guy friend of hers
>get some alcohol into me (another first) and things are going alight, her friend is chill
>knowing it's my first time both drinking and clubbing she's trying to make it a good time
>mostly through dancing, at various points she would grind up against me
>felt kinda awkward with her friend there but I just rolled with it
>he got the same treatment too, so she clearly didn't think much of it
>am having a pretty good time
>she then starts seeking other guys out to dance with
>the feels hit me but the alcohol is takes care of it
>we leave to go find another club,
>get right in there straight away dancing and drinking
>at this point she's chatting up random guys and making out with them
>feeling pathetic at this point
>too beta to seek any other girls out myself
>the guy I'm with probably felt pathetic too, male/female friendships, you know
>make small talk and awkwardly dance with this stranger whilst our mutual friend makes out with randoms
>things start to settle down when we're sitting out in the smoking area
>it's crowded and I'm leaning up against a chair
>she's talking to another random guy but then he has to go
>guy friend is talking with someone that works there out on break
>she leans up against me and wraps my arms around her
>our hands are locked, we're both pretty tired/tipsy
>we get a seat and she sits in my lap, laying against me, and we talk for awhile
>hands still locked
>it's a bitter sweet feel

>> No.9889050

>>9889042
Why would you care about a girl like that ?

>> No.9889054

>>9889042
1) if having feelings for someone jeopardizes your friendships they're shitty friends
2) that girl is flighty man, why waste your time getting infatuated it's such a racket

>> No.9889055

>>9882759
FUUUUUUUUCKKKCKKCKCKCKKCKCKCKCK

>>9882772
/thread
There are future despairs to look forwards to. I'm still regretting all those fucking times I failed to hook up with bitches when they were clearly horny for me. I'm such a slow fucking reactor that I only realise a few months later....

I'm such a pussy.

>> No.9889057

>>9889055
>tfw this thread actually inspires me not to mess this one girl
>tfw gonna call her

>> No.9889059

>>9888857
yeah mate, youll be fine. Uni is full of tons of women, if you're at least reasonably /fit/ and /fa/ youll definitely get some women

>> No.9889064

>>9889050
When you were socially isolated for years, and a cute girl starts paying you friendly attention, it's easy to mistake it as something else.

>>9889054
She personally wouldn't have jeopardized anything, it's just if I made it clear I had romantic feelings towards them it'd make things awkward between us in and our circle of friends. I'm a pretty awkward guy so managing to secure these friends (new at the time) was an accomplishment enough, I didn't want to risk losing that. I was friendless at the beginning of the year.

I think I'm over her now. Last week she told me she's seeing someone so that's finalised it in my mind that she probably didn't see me that way.

>> No.9889067

>>9889057
Do it anon! Do it for love!

>> No.9889069

>>9882759
>>9882772
>>9882792
>>9882876
>>9882900
>>9882910
>>9883018
>>9883092
>>9883179
>>9883243
>>9883287
>>9883324
>>9883374
>>9883380
>>9884427
>>9884518
>>9889042

Yfw /fa/ turns into /r9k/

>> No.9889074

>Working at a cinema as an usher
>qt sits down on a chair near the door to one of the cinemas
>golden blonde hair, blue eyes, tight dress, doc martens
>Look down hallway to a lady complaining her 12 year old son can't go into an R rated film
>qt notices me looking and turns to me
>She speaks first, "you must get annoyed at some of the people who come through here"
>I laugh, "it's not too bad, I quite like interacting with some people."
>She smiles, "I do like that trait in people. My name's Anon."
>I smile back but as I turn my head, a work mate beckons me down to another cinema
>"Nice to meet you, I'm Anon. I'll... I'll be right back."
>Go help clean a session and head back to where she was
>She's gone into the movie
>"Oh no worries I'll catch her on the way out"
>Come time to let out the session, work mate takes door 1 and I take door 2.
>that feel when she doesnt come out my door and I never see her again.
;_;

Damn it would have been nice to grab her number.

>> No.9889102

pretty funny to read threads like this and realise how beta some of you are

>> No.9889106

>>9889102
This
Either /fa/ is filled with 16 year olds or they are taking crushes and girls way too fucking seriously

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>>9889102

>> No.9889112

>>9889108
there's no need to get upset
these people probably dress better than me

>> No.9889150

>>9889102
Two of my good friends are dating girls that banged a couple of times and discarded as used material afterwards. Am I alpha enough?

>> No.9889162

>>9889150
>that I banged
fug

>> No.9889196

>>9889150
it's not about being alpha it's about having the self awareness to realise your 2 month relationship probably wasn't as meaningful to someone who isn't as obsessive as you

lol

>> No.9889213

>>9889196
I'm not that retard with 2 months worth of dating that he presents as a "relationship". Just passing by (or more like reading this thread and weeping over people's immaturity/stupidity)

>> No.9889229

>cute girl in class
>dresses well
>popular
>outgoing
>don't really attempt at getting to her
>already have gf and beta
>few times we spoke she just complemented my clothing
>gf is cool, i like her
>like this other girl as well
>rarely spoke though
>don't really care cause of that

>weeks later
>invites me to her party with 'popular' and 'cool' people despite rarely having talked
>feels good man

I love being validated.

>> No.9889237

>>9889229
This post reeks of 14 year olds high school drama.

>> No.9889256

>>9889237
Ok.

>> No.9889365

>>9889069
/fa/ is worse because /fa/ tries

>> No.9889367
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9889367

>Mfw the qt 3.14 I'm falling for isn't /fa/

>> No.9889472

>>9889005
yeah, alex. did you go to central? i guarantee by now you can guess who I am.

who tf are you though?

>> No.9889692

>looking at the hair threads
>looking at this thread

/fa/ is full of balding cucks.

>> No.9889693

>>9889692
Funny I have those two threads opened.

>> No.9889732

>>9889069
no surprise when so many posters here seems to have come from there, when r9k wants to fix their lives they turn to other boards, fit, fa etc.

and in the end they do nothing but shitpost

>> No.9889776

>Meet 5'7 105lbs Viet girl
>Shes super fun to be around
>We can talk for hours
>Shes extremely submissive in bed
>Everythung I want in a girl except..
>Major drug addictioN to Xanax and coke
>Has extreme anxiety snd is also prescribed klonopin.
>Has no motivation in life to do anything

Im an engineering student in Uni and run a business. We are 2 entirely different people but I'm falling for her :/

Why do I like such fucked up girls?

>> No.9890395

>>9889776
>viet
Why would you want to downgrade your genes?

>> No.9890402

>>9889776
>Why do I like such fucked up girls?
Sounds like you like feeling in control and dominant.

>> No.9890406

>>9889692
Nah, it's all white people.

>> No.9890407

>>9889776

Sounds like you're a blind pig that eats whatever scraps he finds on the ground.

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>>9883018
i woke up from one of these half an hour ago holy shit /cries all day/

>> No.9890679

>>9882876
lol you're a sidenigga m8

forget her for your own good

>> No.9890734

>>9890406
>implying mongoloids can't bald

>> No.9890780

>>9882759
>tfw u look at girls facebook profiles on the low and u always think they know that youve done it when they see u irl

its all in my head, right guys

>> No.9890872

>>9889472
yea i know who you are cowell

can't believe you fucking browse /fa/

>> No.9890873

>>9883243
suck it up you puss

>> No.9890895

>>9882876
maybe she acted like a bitch towards you to protect herself from you because she was leaving and didnt want to be hurt or hurt you.

or youre just a cuckyboy

>> No.9890938

>>9889776
Iktf

>> No.9890994

>be 6 months ago
>girlfriend broke up with me
>a friend tries to cheer me up and takes me clubbing
>not interested in girls because sad af
>friend talks a girl
>I go outside to smoke
>girl comes outside
>7/10
>"friend says you wanted to fuck me"
>what the fuck
>we fuck and been fucking since
>10/10 body
>notice that she develops feelings for me
>start feeling something myself
>afraid of relationship because ex and that we will probably move to different places later this year

>> No.9891014

>tfw gf just broke up with me
I'm fucking devastated, she was my best friend aswell.
I don't know what the fuck to do now, just a few days ago I was daydreaming about marrying this girl. Holy fuck this is bad.

>> No.9891020

>>9891014
why did she break up with you

>> No.9891032

>>9891014
iktf my gf broke up with me around a month ago if you want to talk i can give you my skype

>> No.9891033

>>9891020
She said that she did not have feelings for me anymore - she loves me, but as a friend...
I'm not gonna stay friends with her though, that would just ruin me

>> No.9891038

>>9891032
Sure, would be kind of nice

>> No.9891080

christ, is this really what people do on these boards? try to talk to other random anonymous loser men about their girl problems? and then you wonder why girls dont like you?

>> No.9891202

>>9891080
>jus b urself

>> No.9891217

>>9890938
yea u fall for fucked up girls but they dont fall for u fat fuck

>> No.9891219

>know you can get girls
>want to meet someone new
>free time is totally occupied by work
>no where to meet effay qt's.

>> No.9891224

>>9891038
philip_g.

>> No.9891260

>>9890402
This is beyond true.

>>9890407
This isn't true at all. Most of the girl I've dated are uni students within my major who are all super cute and well off. I just have this weird attraction towards these fucked up girls.

I like the feeling of being way better off than they are. Its fucked.

>> No.9891266

>tfw going to uni soon
what will it feel like /fa/?

>> No.9891465

>>9891266
Uni is what you make of it, I feel. You'll have great times, you'll have shit times.

Don't feel like you have to do something because you've created some fantasy in your head of what this time is supposed to be like, but get off your arse once in awhile.

Also, read your fucking books.

>> No.9891477

>>9882759
>all year ever again
Wtf are you trying to say? Was a hot chick checking you out? You should have called her over to sit with you

>> No.9891555

>>9891266
Do not out off shit you have to do, or else you'll end up like me.

>coursework due in 8 hours
>only written one paragraph
>either i sleep and miss the deadline or i'll probably won't be able to hand it in in time
>6 more essays for the following week

what have I become

>> No.9891558

>>9891555
put off

>> No.9891574

>>9891555
what happens if you hand it in late?

>> No.9891582

nice blog you fucking cunts now post something fashion related

>> No.9891591

>>9891574
They might not accept your work, which will affect your grades depending on how sighnificant it was.
Or they could accept it, but lower your grade.
Or there would be no consequences, if you're lucky.

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>>9886421
i dont have a clue what the fuck you are trying to say

>> No.9891628

>>9886679
/pol/ack here. we dont really hate women, but you can blame the jews with us on /pol/

>> No.9891649

>>9884486
>Worst part is, logically I saw all the signs that implied she liked me, but I just can't accept it; I'd rather just not even try.
This has plagued me since 9th grade. I had no problem reading girls in middle school, but I didn't want a gf because I didn't want to make my parents pay for dates. Then I got a shit job when I was 14, and magically became a fucking autist

>> No.9891655

>>9883264
>hambeast
>cumdumps
man what

>> No.9891664

>tfw opt not to get laid because you are a Kierkegaardian Knight of Faith and all these hoes is either atheists or only cursorily into my boi Christ
Fucking disgusting slags, man

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>"liking" girls

Virgins detected. Either you fuck a girl after talking with her for five minutes or you never think about her ever again.

>> No.9891682

>>9882876
She probably never fucked anyone else and only said that because she wanted to break things up completely somehow before she left, since she was most likely developing feelings for you too.

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>>9883092
>no matter what clothes I wear
>no matter how much I work out
>no matter how good at approaching girls I am
>I will always be ugly as fuck with a shitty hairline
Someone just fucking kill me already

>> No.9891699

what's all this about females? there isn't much going on in a woman's mind
its pretty simple
either you're good looking or you're not
If you are, you just have to be confident
if you're ugly... you better have money

treat them like mushrooms...keep them in the dark, and feed them shit

>> No.9891701

>>9891699
>what's all this about females? there isn't much going on in a woman's mind

>treat them like mushrooms...keep them in the dark, and feed them shit

jesus

>> No.9891703

>>9883369
no but it's /lit/ as fuck

>> No.9891721

>tfw your cousins, friends, and family present you with countless sluts to choose from
>tfw i don't have to mewl about like some fawning little western faggot trying to impress some vacant-skulled carnal husk
>tfw when empowering reversion to tradition
>tfw all i have to do is show up and be awesome and successful and merely nod my head in the direction of the lucky little 17 year old albanian ignorant-slut-goddess (housewife extraordinare), gushing out her panties at the idea of being rescued by yours truly and going off to live in america
>tfw the world makes perfect sense

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>some hot as fuck brazilian qt is doing a year abroad at my uni
>she's one of those marvel nerdy types who always wear comic related shirts but it's ok since holy shit she fine
>turns out her bf is doing a year abroad here as well
>mfw he's a fatass literal neckbeard who actually wears a god fucking damned fedora
Where did my life go so wrong?

>> No.9891725

>tfw you will die one day, everyone will
>you could be hit by a bus tomorrow and that would be it, your life over
>you only get 1 life and it could end tomorrow
>every second you get closer to your death

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>>9891721
>mfw shit like this explains why white people have such a high prevalence of mental disease and physical/mental disabilities

Darkies may be responsible for driving up crime rates in the US, but the real killers of this country are the clinically depressed and disabled who drain their preferred state's coffers.

Fucking white people.

>> No.9891731

>>9891725
how's highschool?

>> No.9891735

>>9891730
im albanian kek e

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>>9887945
>get back home from uni
>waiting for my ride home in the train station with my baggage
>sitting on top of a low wall, there's a coffee shop across the street
>just waiting for my ride to arrive when I notice 3 women looking at me from their table
>they keep talking to each other and taking glances at me
>one of them pulls out her fucking phone and takes a picture of me
>I start to get really anxious, think they're making fun of me, they probably think I'm ugly and wanted a picture to show their friends some ugly guy they saw today
>ride arrives, leave, I glance back at them and they still fucking looking at me

>> No.9891741

>>9891725
oh to be 16

have you heard of the smiths? you might like them

>> No.9891743

>>9891737
they probably shared that photo on facebook with a shitty caption and emojis.
you'll see it on your feed after it was shared 1M times

>> No.9891744

>>9891737
you probably look like someone they know and they're sending a cheeky snapchat m8

either that or you're v. attractive

people don't really ogle ugly people like that, it's too obviously rude

>> No.9891746

>>9891735
I could gather that from your post and general lack of intelligence. If you're going to release your incestuous spawn to the world, keep it in Albania where shit like that is the norm. At least then your kids will be par for the course.

>> No.9891751

>>9891744
I'm not attractive at all though.

>>9891743
At least that would answer why the fuck a bitch would fucking take a picture of a stranger across the street. Like seriously that's just downright rude.

>> No.9891756

>tfw meeting a at /fa/ girl at uni party when you're 20 while having gf with you
>tfw you talk to her the whole time and dump your gf of 8 months after knowing this other girl for 3 hours
>tfw gf tells you she's never seen you smile that much before
>tfw party girl is studying abroad for a year
>tfw she tried to friendzone you because of it
>tfw you reject the friendzone and start a relationship right after the party
>tfw 6 months of the greatest relationship you ever had
>tfw you kiss her goodbye at the airport and she starts crying
>tfw 4 years later and she tells me she's done with school and is applying for jobs close to me
>tfw she wants to be with me after all these years of not seeing me physically
>tfw you're looking at apartments doing face time so she can see
>tfw she got a job
>tfw she'll be here in two weeks

Too surreal for me. My grandmother gave me her engagement ring because of this.

>> No.9891760

>>9891746
my country has suffered from the majority alpha male syndrome. every one is a king, no one is a servant. empires are built on slave labor. america is built on the sweat of lesser specimens. albanians are too proud to serve anyone. plus our inherently small land and population has rendered us weak against larger invaders. we are however, the god specimen, the true alpha male. the albanian mafia is the single greatest underground force in the world, the sicilians were dethroned a few years ago.
we will never see the advancement of "first world countries" precisely because we dont have the neanderthal beta male slave nigger classes required to build empires. every one is a fucking nigger before the illyrian master race, the irony of lesser advancement proves this. i would completely fucking massacre you irl bro

>> No.9891761

>>9891756
good luck m8

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>>9891737
>be 15 (20 now)
>wear an ugly white shirt with braces
>felt really stylish at the time
>man at the train station comes up to me and asks if he can take a picture of me
>"i rarely see anyone dressed like that, i like it, can i take a pic of it"
>uh sure i guess
>try to pose like a sad model
>snap
>say goodbye
>instant regret, paranoid feels

i really think im up some fashion fail blog somewhere

>> No.9891766

>>9891756
<4

>> No.9891770

>>9891756
don't get your hopes up anon
she's going to stab you in the back and break your heart

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>>9891666
so thats why uve never fucked a grill

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>>9891773
My satanic trips don't lie

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>>9882792
I'd literally gone weeks without thinking about her before I read this go fuck yourself.

>> No.9891795
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>in shitty one-sided relationship for year and a half bc nothing good on tv
>this girl is in love with me like holy shit
>be hanging out with friends
>qt /fa/ azn friend of friend, like girl in pic related
>start talking, sitting next to eachother on couch
>we make fuck eyes at eachother a lot
>time goes by
>break up with gf
>goes well
>back to qt azn
>holding hands and walking and shit
>watch movie
>cuddle
>isthiswhatlovefeelslike.png
>wake up
>still in shitty one-sided relationship
>no qt azn gf
>no watch movie
>no cuddle

fuck me /fa/ this has happened like three times this month, help

>> No.9891800

>>9891760
>>9891746
why do you think israel is one of the most powerful nations in the world? the nature of the jew was long observed, the protopical beta male, slave morality was indeed a jewish product. and then you wonder why they are successuful. people must obey, its a pre-requisite of greatness, too many chefs spoil the pot, too many leaders fuck up a country. such is the albanian fate.

loling at your fucking naivete

>> No.9891826

>tfw you cry so much at night you exhaust yourself and pass out
>wake up feeling refreshed

wew

>> No.9891835

>>9891795
Break up with your girlfriend and get out more, meet new people.
You're wasting both your and her time.

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>>9891826
This is actually a pretty good feel.

>> No.9891875

>>9891746
complete silence... but what else can one expect from americans? i unleash my albanian feces onto your face phaggot

>> No.9891924

ill contribute

>in class with this really nice middle eastern girl(8/10 face and bod)
>ignore each other the first year only say hi occasionally
>start texting, hangout etc
>get to really know her, and her family
>traditional middle eastern family
>can never be together with someone else except from her ethnicity according to her dad and rest of family
>initiate secret relationship
>after a few months of good times she goes on a date with a elite tier athlete who is also middle eastern
>we fight, then make up
>she is really depressed due to her family, her sister fled from home cause of love to another man outside of their ethnicity
>class goes on a overseas trip, literally the happiest week of my life
>i was her first in everything
>few months later, we start to argue
>we stop talking, stop everything
>have the last talk with her, decide to part our ways
>still see her in school, but only 2 weeks left now until we graduate

the worst part is lying in bed at night thinking about her

>> No.9891970

>>9891835
been thinking about it more and more. at least we both know it's not gonna last (she's not totally oblivious i mean). hell maybe i'll do it tonight.

>> No.9892012

>>9883243
My friend did this exact same shit senior year of college and it ruined his relationship with all if and just served to prove that he was an insecure narcissistic prick. Stopit

>> No.9892167

>>9889776
Hey I'd rather be attracted to fucked up girls than passively attract fucked up girls who think I'm a nice guy who could save them from their tumblr-tier pseudo-depressions. Like, all I do in real life is say sarcastic shit about how things suck. How does that make me look like a good guy? Bitches be crazy

Also, you can't even begin to understand how much I'd kill to fuck a drug-addicted Asian chick. The only Viet girl I've ever known was cute as fuck but she was engaged at 18 because she was literally fresh off the boat, having transferred from Vietnam to an American high school in her senior year before going to my uni

>> No.9892193

>>9890734
Only when we're in our late 30s. Whiteys age the worst.

>> No.9892200

>>9890780
It's worst when you talk to grills in fb comments but are remain aloof when you see them irl. Did that in the 8th grade lmao, was Betamax.

>> No.9892209

>tfw always see pics on 4chan of happy, smiling, bubbly qts
>tfw always think it would be fun to date a girl like that
>tfw quickly realize I'm too #sadboys for that shit
>tfw if I somehow get arsed to cop a siqq gf in the near future it would probably go sour in no time at all because I spend all day on /lit/ so I've not been happy in years
>tfw I can seem happy in social settings, but autism and edginess kick in after the fact, and I retroactively decide that I tricked myself into thinking I was having fun
>tfw this would inevitably happen if I meet a qt
I'm pretty sure I'm exaggerating, but I honestly can't tell anymore. I gotta quit thinking about the meme trilogy on /lit/, man. Those shits can make you unhappy as fuck if you are an impressionable 20-year-old le post-ironic burnout

>> No.9892223

>>9891266
You are more independent. Follow up on all work and stuff. If you want to be social, be nice to people and talk to them, joining societies and clubs you enjoy are a great way, group projects are also ways to find people with common interests.

Look at your emails.

>> No.9892233

>>9889367
Make her an /fa/ qt you stupid frog
>>9889692
>le cuck meme
Actually, this is the first time I've seen it used correctly given the posts ITT
>>9891699
My soggy knee is not effay
>>9891724
The world doesn't revolve around you faggot. Either cuck her boyfriend or forget about her
>>9891756
Congrats anon, hopefully everything goes well

>> No.9892244

>>9891756
Good luck anon, REMEBER TO GET PRE-NUPS. Also people don't just fall in love, couples learn to love and cope with one another in marriages.

>> No.9892254

>>9892244
it's somethin that you need to have

>> No.9892263

>>9892254
Cos when she leave yo ass she gonna leave with half. (Applies to fucking beta males in my country too, fuck)

>> No.9892299

>>9891756
Much love, Anon, good luck to you in everything.

>> No.9892305

>>9889229
embarrasing

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>skinny fat

>> No.9892651 [DELETED] 

>>9891924
you dun goofed.
dating a sandnigger is like the most retarded thing ever.
now imagene her dad finds out about you banging his daughter.... you better get your asshole ready.
if you are lucky they will let you convert to islam, cut a part of your dick off and take part in their savage ways.
kek

>> No.9893122

>>9884713

>but i'm introverted and very independent and i require a lot of alone time to "recharge" socially

another self absorbed pleb who has just taken his first mbti test

>> No.9893144

>>9889074
As someone who also works at a cinema, iktf bro

>> No.9893489

>>9891724
Eh, dem Brazil grills are cute aye? In a normal sort of way. They are all like 5-6/10 on average but all of them are short and have cute asses/feet.

Cuck her bf. Go talk to her, Brazilian girls are shy but more down to earth, if you get her attention and she listens and talks with you, she's interested, make a few alpha moves and you're good. Brazilian men are more straightforward so be straightforward in terms of being sexual with her.