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9482141 No.9482141 [Reply] [Original]

What kind of demeanor, posture, and personality is "effay?"

Wearing good fits is one thing, but how does /fa/ carry themselves in public and what would they like to improve on

>> No.9482171

u either have style or u dont
u either pull something off or u dont
there is no default effay quality
be confident in your own skin.
that is all

>> No.9482177

chill

>> No.9482178

I'm only /fa/ from like 8pm to 3am
Rest of the time I wear sweatpants and walk really fast w my head down and sit in the back of my lecture classes

>> No.9482182

>>9482141
just act like an uptight asshole it's what most people on effay seem to enjoy doing anyway

>> No.9482183

>>9482178
that blows, what's the point then

>> No.9482184

Guys, I think I look really uneffay when I take a shit. Tried shitting while standing up but it makes it worse with all the shit on my butt cheeks.

How do effay people shit?

>> No.9482187

>>9482182
I thought the point was to "not care" about what you look like, but secretly do

>> No.9482188

I carry myself as if I care about my appearance, but only because I like to look good not to impress anyone. Or you know with confidence.

>> No.9482189

>>9482184
one leg on the wall for maximum space to deploy turd

>> No.9482190

>>9482188
Just for yourself? I don't buy that

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>>9482184
>>9482189
>Literal shitposting
Huh.

>> No.9482200

>>9482183
from 8-3...........I live.

>> No.9482202

>>9482184
i do it really apathetically
like don't let people think you're doing it because you HAVE to, you just might as well, you know?
i also use black toilet paper

>> No.9482203

>>9482190
Yeah because at the end of the day they aren't wearing the fit I am .So their opinion doesnt really matter all that much. If the like it cool if not thats cool too.I'm not worried either way.

>> No.9482215

>say/do what aligns with your morality and goals
>disregard opinions of those who aren't important in your life
>never shy away from doing something because of another

>> No.9482221

>>9482215
>never shy away from doing something because of another
most important

>> No.9482224

>>9482215
this

>> No.9482229

>>9482215
Words to live by. As long as your happy and arent trying to fuck anyone over do what you like. Because at the end of the day Joe blow doesnt give a shit.

>> No.9482242

A man should never dress too good nor talk too wise.
I like the look of not giving a fuck but you feel confident in what you're wearing, if that makes sense.

>> No.9482262

Good posture without looking like you're trying to have it. But be flexible, not rigid. Squatting and slouching makes you look injured, sick, or childish. Good posture is confident. Rigid good posture is stick-up-the-ass, no one wants that.

Demeanor should have finality, sureness, and quietness. Someone who is eager to be loud has something wrong with them, and is compensating for inner demons. Mumbling lacks confidence, don't mumble, but talk at a volume that demands people focus to listen to you. Yelling or loud talking is very uncouth. It's coarse. Don't be coarse.

Personality should be introspective and analytical. Sarcasm isn't an every day tool. It's a precision instrument. Use it sparingly and only to the greatest effect. You shouldn't have to change yourself for any audience, being who you are at all times is supremely effay. Hiding your power level in any matter is for entry levels and the underconfident. Chameleons are blasphemous.

Grace, disaffection, confidence, and the subtle demand that others need to be bettering themselves to be around you. These are always fashionable, and timeless fashion is true effay.

>> No.9482272

>>9482184
You should completely remove all garments on bottom, except shoes and socks if you are wearing any, and squat over the bowl. Don't squat like it hurts or like you're making an effort: squat like a slav. It's like a model shoot. Extra bonus: it's the way our bodies are naturally designed to shit. You will have to wipe less and you will have an easier time defecating because the bowel is aligned vertically.

>> No.9482318

>>9482272
>shitting like a third world homeless guy
no thanks

>> No.9482342

>>9482262
*tips fedora*

>> No.9482400

>>9482141
standing up straight above 6' in expensive shoes.

Simply that.

>> No.9482405

>>9482141
What people think about you and who you think you are are often very different things. Just b nice and b chill and try not to piss too many people off.

>> No.9482406

>Demeanor

Laid-back, but someone who knows what they want and gets things done.

>Posture

Shoulders back, back is straight, no slouching

>Personality

Don't be a cunt

>> No.9482578

>>9482200
>I live
That actually seems fa
Ur living a double life, one fa life and a regular regular average joe life

>> No.9482593

>>9482406
I support euthanizing every single one of you wastes of fucking space that keeps using cunt is an insult

>> No.9482600

>>9482593
go blog about it on your tumblr then

>> No.9482606

>>9482600
but I can't troll you through my fucking blog you moron

>> No.9482609

>>9482593
whats wrong with cunt. ppls second word in scotland

>> No.9482612

>>9482593
Were you sexually abused as a child?

>> No.9482617

>>9482593
I'll run you over with your Nan's bmx

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>>9482612
What.

>> No.9482624

>>9482619
Take that as a yes then

>> No.9482632

>>9482617
I've always wanted to see how imbeciles drive, would probably drive urself right off of a cliff

>> No.9482640

>>9482624
Why would u even assume that.

What does that have to do with the conversation? that is very clearly a derogatory vterm which I take offense to.

>> No.9482656

>>9482184
Do the "david thinking statue" pose for max effay points

>> No.9482664

>>9482141
I try walking like a superhero; imagine a cape blowing behind you in slow motion

>> No.9482690

>>9482640
Why don't you get the sand out of your cunt?

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>>9482200
> I live.

>> No.9482839

>>9482318
Look it up, nigger. You're a barbarian to do something just because it's the retarded fucking way a company convinced your grandfather to do it.

>> No.9482843

>>9482342
You are just retarded. I hope you realize how much of a dumb cunt you are.

>> No.9482851

>>9482200
what the fuck does this even mean?

>> No.9482860

>>9482839
how am i supposed to do it? if i was anywhere near low enough to be squatting i would be sitting on the toilet seat. do you stand on the seat or something?

>> No.9483066

>>9482690
Fuck off u asslicker

>> No.9483276

>>9482141
Is being arrogant effay? People always tell me I have a cocky, arrogant person's posture

>> No.9483321

>>9483276
no

try to be level headed and down to earth

nobody likes a stuck up arrogant little shit

>> No.9483352

Being friendly, charismatic, open minded, hygienic, well-spoken, intelligent, fit, etc. These things are actually /fa/. Just because you wear guidi, rick and ccp doesnt mean you have to be edgy, arrogant, smelly skeleton man. Be someone people admire that wears sick clothes. and dont fucking listen to yung lean got dam.

>> No.9483399

>>9482192
underrated post

>> No.9483409
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9483409

try to carry yourself like these slash effay slash people at all times

this is the height of being effay and cool
every single one of them got laid that night

>> No.9483413

>>9483352
This, but do listen to yung lean

>> No.9483414

>>9483276
As long as it is only superficial

>> No.9483443
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9483443

What do I do with my hands when I can't put them in my pockets?

>> No.9483446

>>9483443
>hands in pockets

Sperg detected.
Just fucking put your hands to your sides, don't do anything with them, or go on your phone if that's too difficult for you.

>> No.9483452

It's simple. Get a life or social status where people won't talk shit about every single thing.

>> No.9483481

I'm usually pretty reserved and look confident and like I care about my appearance without coming off try-hard. However, I seem quite intimidating to a lot of people because of my generally stern slavic face. I do smile and act like a normal pleasant human being when people talk to me though.

My problem is that I always feel uncomfortable being in social situations. I get really tense in my torso/core and start feeling cold/sweaty. I am shit at recalling things and it makes it hard to make conversation, unless I have an instant connection with that person. Because of this I avoid a lot of social gatherings and kind of a shut in, so I don't get to meet many new people. Regardless of how well I can hide it

If you were to meet me you would never even think this about me.

Be nice to know how to fix this shit.

>> No.9483691

>changing your personality to pose as something else

literally fuccboi

>> No.9484829

imo it really depends on your style, streetwear faggots will act lie rappers and shit, goofnigger will stand akwardly ina corner, heroicnchi is justs sitting or standing like you dont give a fuck while having a smoke

i just sit or lean on a clean wall because i dont really give a fuck and i need to smoke to handle my stress

>> No.9484833

>>9484829
dude i thought you were cool, but now i'm 99% sure you've been diagnosed with autism

i didn't know they have wifi at the mental health hospital

>> No.9484890

>>9482578
You LIVE Bitch!!!!!!

>> No.9484898

>>9482262

How could you write something this pretentious tryhard bullshit and not want to kill yourself afterwards

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>>9482200
There has to be a feels image for this.