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7453883 No.7453883 [Reply] [Original]

>tfw don't know if girls are mirin or checking out how ugly I am

>> No.7453927

in doubt, always assume that they're mocking your fit
since being a girl multiplies your chances of being a tasteless pleb by 23, you may take their misled mockeries as compliments, and thereby get the ego boost needed to be confident enough to pull off anything.

>> No.7453953

does my feel fit in this thread

>replaced glasses with contacts
>people are much nicer to me
>stares everywhere

>> No.7453967

Here's a guide.

Stare that starts at face and moves down body = Girl is miring fit and looks

Glance then averting eyes to extreme left or right and then glacing at you again = Girl is miring fit and/or looks but doesn't want you to see her doing so

Extended glare at face and then averting eyes to straight ahead and not staring again = you have been summed up and deemed unworthy

Very quick glance = ugly

No glace = shit fit or everage looks

>> No.7453975

>>7453967
tfw I get second one all the time from 1 gril

>> No.7453971

>>7453967

what about repeated very quick glances

>> No.7453982

>>7453967
You're not accounting for much here

>> No.7453980

>>7453971

Girl is taking longer to sum you up. The result is based upon whether she end with a look at you, or a look away.

>> No.7453985
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>>7453967
>that feel when every girl gives me very quick glances

>> No.7453987

>everyone stares at you in public
>tfw don't know if it's good or bad

>> No.7453988

>>7453967
>Extended glare at face and then averting eyes to straight ahead and not staring again = you have been summed up and deemed unworthy

I did that to a girl once and she huffed.

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>>7453883

I'm 6'8" with a huge beard, blue eyes, etc.

I don't really notice most people as I walk by, but people shoot me looks all the time. I've started to just assume everyone around me is a mindless drone. I don't think I'm wrong.

>> No.7453999

>talking about girls as if they're all the same person
retards

>> No.7454006

what does it mean if a girl rarely can hold eye contact with me for more than like 2 seconds. does it mean she's scared of me or something

>> No.7454017

guys it's because they don't see many kids dressed in girl jeans button shirts and dadshoes everyday

or alternatively they're not used to seeing someone over 18 wearing a black t shirt black skinny jeans and black vans

>> No.7454018

>>7453999

>Not understanding that you live in a Matrix-like dream and women are all the same before you talk to them and activate their personalities.

>> No.7454027

Do you ever look at people for extended periods of time if you think they are unattractive? There's your answer.

>> No.7454036

If anything the problem is a lot of you place some sort I debt to these people.

Who cares what they think? Even if you do, you shouldn't show it. Carry on as if you just won the lottery or something.

They are nothing to you. That Is the key.

My two cents.

>> No.7454041

>>7454006
>rarely can hold eye contact with me for more than like 2 seconds

autism

>> No.7454051

>>7454027
I only really come into contact with one ugly guy regularly. Shit tone of acne. Hooked nose. No jaw. No chin. Beta chin. Dull eyes. Thin hair. Balding. Widows peak. Still grows hair long. Lisp. Yellow teeth. Named Matt. Complete dork. Pretty good at Basketball.

Some times I stare at him.
I avert my eyes when he looks back. Some times a quick glance.

>> No.7454052

>>7454004
That picture is retarded

>> No.7454055

>>7454006
it means you're autistic for looking into things too much

that and they don't know/care about you lel

>> No.7454068

>>7454036
pretty much the philosophy that i go by

>> No.7454079

>>7454036
you have to understand there are a lot of fuccbois posting on here who live their entire lives trying trying to gain acceptance from strangers

in their minds dressing well is only worth it if random bitches stare at you for more than 5sec

they fail to realize that the clothes are wearing them and everyone can see them fronting

>> No.7454203

>>7453987
>>7454006
people stare at you because you are staring at them. don't make eye contact with anyone while out and about. your peripheral vision will develop to a point where you can tell if someone is looking at you or not.

>> No.7454212

>>7453883
No one checks out how ugly you are, it actually causes them not to look.

If anything, they're trying to comprehend your abhorrent fuccboi fits.

>> No.7454229

Unless you look like a monster and have absolutely no redeeming qualities, then people aren't checking out how ugly you are. If people are checking you out, you either look good or look ridiculous. If you look average, people won't stare at you, in fact they won't do so much as to glance.

tl;dr if you're hideous you probably already know why people are staring at you, and if you're getting stared at and are not sure if you're hideous then you're being checked out because you look good.

>> No.7454260

>>7454027
Yes, it's like a trainwreck.

>> No.7454263

>>7454203
I'm talking about in conversation tho

>> No.7454284

>>7454263
if they aren't looking at you while you're talking to them they're not interested in you or the conversation

i'm sure you don't notice but you don't look at people talking to you when you don't feel like talking to them

>> No.7454353

>>7453883

If you have to ask this question OP then I have some bad news for you. You're ugly.

>> No.7454363

>>7453967
Extended glare at face and then averting eyes to straight ahead, The problem is not you, it's her. Only ugly girls do this.

>> No.7454373
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>>7453883
>tfw qt girl is staring at you
sick
>starts follwing you around wherever you go
uh ok
>finally talks to you, is extremely loud and annoying and crazy
ok leave me alone please.
>starts following you for days
please leave me alone.
>run away from her
>she chases you
mfw

i shouldntve lead her on so long but whatever

i feel so disgusted why cant fucking normal girls like me /fa/

>> No.7454385

>>7454373
At least you don't have negras hitting on you.

I have no idea why I attract the attention of black women so much.

>> No.7454394

>>7454004
More fucking likely they're observing a strange natural phenomena.

>6'8"
>6'1"-6'3" masterrace

>> No.7454396

>>7454385
one kissed me on the cheek once
>mfw first non lips kiss

welp

at least you dont have that lingering on you

my cheek itches.

>> No.7454492

Spent all of high school as a dirk and started dressing better when I got into college. 3 years later everyone suddenly took notice at once and now get invited to parties.

Problem: I am stuck in this high school mindset of people making fun of me and can't talk to anyone without sounding like a puss. I picked up chain smoking because i got nervous and full of self doubt when people weren't talking to me and now I get anxious and full of self doubt when qts do talk to me.

Tl;dr how do you build up confidence after being a joke for a good portion of your life?

>> No.7454512

>>7454492
I know that feel dude. I feel really surprised when qts talk to me, but I never give them what they want because I don't know/don't feel like I deserve them

I guess just accept it, and realize that it's your next stepping stone in your live so you can improve it. We all start somewhere.

>> No.7454533

>>7454492

Stop thinking and just act on your instincts. They're still there you've just covered them up. That said there's no real way to do that consciously you just have to be comfortable enough with the situation.

>> No.7454543

>>7453953
this so much. It amazing what a bad pair of glasses can do to a person.

>> No.7454549

>>7454512
>>7454492
damn, iktf bros. but its okay, just get really high/drunk and look in the mirror. You look fucking awesome, tell yourself that. Any girl would be a dumb shit to not want your dick inside her mouth. People should be FLOCKING to be your right hand homies. Start staring at people that are without a doubt uglier than you. Make ridiculous eye contact, never avert your eyes. Walk with a strut, proper posture, and your head held high. I know this all sounds extremely delusional and sociopathic but self confidence is a sharks game. You're not going to win unless you bite.

For real though, if you know you look good and people tell you that you look good, then there is no reason you shouldn't be confident. Personality can always be faked - but looks cant.

>> No.7454556

>>7454533
Problem is fixing my instincts. I used to practically live on /mu/ so im trying to break this reaction to talk about music like people actually give a fuck what I think about music.

>> No.7454558

>>7453883
>bought a pair my fourth pair of jeans online
>first three didn't fit
>fourth pair takes three weeks to ship cuz of weather
>tfw they fit perfectly and feel great.

>> No.7454576

>>7454549
All this motivation that I can't use now since I have to work morning shift tomorrow. I guess I can try doing this repeatedly until I beat it into my skull. Thanks

>> No.7454587

>>7454576
where do you work? look your co workers dead in the eyes. smile at them. give females the eye fucking treatment, dress really fucking nicely, put on your best cologne. flip the world around you upside down, bro.

>> No.7454591

>>7454549
this is probably the best advice ever. I'm kinda ugly and a bit awkward and don't dress the greatest. But I feel so much better about my self from the little bit of effort I put into my hair and clothes. It amazing what a v neck will do to your confidence.

>> No.7454597

>Tfw girls only compliment my looks with words like adorable or pretty
Sigh

>tfw p sure even this is just because of my persona and my looks are below avg

Sigh

>> No.7454603

the reason you're not getting any attention isn't because you look bad

it's because you are boring and uninteresting and the only thing your'e half-way knowledgeable at is clothing that you don't even own!!

the problem with you fuccbois is you are too busy living in the past and/or the future. You don't realize that all you have is this very moment.

ps-girls can see the thirst in your eyes so that shit that one guy is saying "j-j-just look deep into their eyes" only really works when you aren't creepy and autistic

>> No.7454608

>>7454576
practice your social skills on your co workers. I work with a bunch of middle aged ladies (and one really flirty cute mild but thats for another thread)and I've gotten really good at holding conversations, but I'm working on getting the other person to do most of the talking. Its too easy to keep rambling on. They are just my co workers, so I don't care if I saw something awkward.

>> No.7454615

>>7454608

Pick up How to win friends and influence people. Just don't become a friendly autist.

>> No.7454633
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>>7453883
>tfw the confident, pretty girls just compliment your clothing
>tfw the quite, cute girls either stare at you or take quick looks at you when they don't think you're watching

>> No.7454688

>tfw get looks everyday b'oz carrot hair :(

>> No.7455317

>>7454051
You just described one of my mates perfectly, where are you from?

>> No.7455342

if someone stares at you it's usually a sign of aggression or perceived dominance

so if a girl is making eye contact with you for an extended period she is trying to assert dominance over you or her social status over you (she's a pretty pony girlll and u r sew not, she is such a rarity prettiest pony of them all) so basically, just stare back and they usually break eye contact. or do 2005 nod thing like you're asking them what they want (learned from mexican dudes that taught me how to stand so nobody fucks with me)

i usually follow them around for a bit with my hands in my pockets, making it clear that i have my hand on a rock island armory 1911 or more commonly just a small knife

if they're with their boyfriend or w/e i don't follow unless im in the car and happen to have one of my rifles on me, just in case if it comes down to it, i have a chance

>> No.7455353

>>7455342
thank you for this post

>> No.7455363

>tfw hanging out with my cousin's uo-core gf
>completely joke about getting blow and she keeps seriously bringing it up
>mention wanting a cig and that turns into the new thing she talks abt
lol thirsty af

I should actually fuck her

>> No.7455368
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7455368

>get on train
>sit down
>not that much people. Whatever.
>more people
>get conscious if people are staring.
>look to see if their staring
>some stare after I stare. Normal
>stare more
>new people
>Lets try to read their facial expressions of someone staring at me
>all blank so far.
>more new people
>start staring
>"was that a smile?"
>their laughing at me their laughing at me their laughing at me their laughing at me
>Why are they all staring at me. Is it because I'm starting at them too much?
>are they staring because I look horrible?
>Now I cant tell
>okay, look forward, dont make eye contact and try not to make a funny face to attract attention
>is it working?
>is it working?

>> No.7455371

>>7455342
teach me the mexican secrets

>> No.7455388

>>7455342
How do I stand so nobody fucks with me?

>> No.7455394

>>7455388
legs shoulder width apart, straight back
if someone looks at you don't break eye contact until they do

hide hands so they can't predict your movement

>> No.7455398

>>7454608
this

>> No.7455397

>>7455368
>>their laughing at me their laughing at me their laughing at me their laughing at me
>>Why are they all staring at me. Is it because I'm starting at them too much?
They all know that you don't know the difference between their and they're.

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>>7455368
>be on train
>wear a dg-tms shirt
>chubfat 16yo girl with acne-raided, glass-wearing bf get on train
>girl checks me out
>says to bf 'look at his shirt, it's wise'

>> No.7455406

>>7455394
When does this apply?

>> No.7455431

>>7454603
i know about more than just clothes. i know about anime, and the internet. and books...

>> No.7455432

>tfw people think you're gay

>> No.7455440

>>7455342
lol sieg, what the fuck is wrong w you

>> No.7455448

>>7455399
It's wise?

>> No.7455464

>>7454385
My whole high school time was spent with negress shitty advances towards my fat white ass. No thanks, i was fat and not /fa/ at all, how the fuck

>> No.7455614

>>7453967
>Very quick glance

could be anything

>> No.7455628

>>7454549

this, faking your confidence soon just becomes habit and then just becomes real

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7455671

>>7455399
>"it's wise"

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7455696

>walking out of building
>girl looks at me and smiles
>she did it again today while she drove by me
WHAT DO I DO ANONS?

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>>7455628
This, I have done this. I am legit an arrogant asshole now, have gf, good at parties and socializing in general. Just telling myself I'm the shit all the time changed my life. It started as a joke between my friends to act overly confident and complement ourselves. Then we all actually got confident because of it.

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>girl whom I used to have a crush at office keep giving me a glance when she walks by my cubicle
>new girl can't stop looking/glancing at me whenever I'm around
>some other girl always give me a glance when I walk through the office door
>tfw a very shy person
Holy shit I need to kill myself.

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tfw you dont even bother being /fa/ because of your ugly face and awkward body

tfw no girl will ever find me attractive and I will die a kissless virgin

what did I do to deserve this? was I a huge asshole in my previous life?

>> No.7456176

>>7455745
no you were a lazy coward in this one

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7456206

>tfw I'll be mirin everybody until they start mirin back, then I look away
I hate myself