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hi /fa/, not sure if this is the right board to post this on but could you assess this situation for me please?

>met girl at a club, indie/alternative looking (you know the type), VERY good looking (8.5/10) and seems respectable, spoke for about 20 minutes, ended up getting her number
>text her for a bit, i have to initiate conversations though, one time she doesn't reply to a text mid-conversation (this is at about 1 in the morning) so i assume she's not interested and don't text again
> about 2 weeks later my friend persuades me to message her, i do and it turns out we're going to the same club that night by coincidence
>when i turn up at the club my friend tells me he found out earlier that night that apparently she's seeing someone so i decide not to try anything because i don't wanna make a fool of myself
>see her at the club and we dance and talk for about 40 minutes, she's the one initiating conversation, telling me i look good etc. we seem to have quite a lot in common
>before she leaves she comes to find me and tells me she's going
>gives me a hug before she leaves, she only did this to me, none of her friends
>text me out of the blue the day after seeing her "hey how was your night last night? x x"
>have another fairly long conversation
>according to my friend and his girlfriend i'm better looking than the guy she's 'seeing', i know they're biased but i don't think they'd say it if it wasn't (subjectively) true

Does it sound like i have a chance with this girl considering she's so good-looking? i'm probably an 8/10 on a very good day and dress in a similar sort of style to her

>> No.7294947

>>7294928
I'd say this is meant for /adv/ but it isn't even worth posting on there. Just get on with life bro, if it happens it happens.

>> No.7294954

Sounds like it. Now kindly fuck off.

>> No.7294965

let me ask you a question. what if she is interested in you? what are you going to do with it?
are you going to date her?
and then what are you going to do when you're sitting at home one night and she's out at the club and dancing with another dude and texting him "how was your night last night?" the next day?
if your plan is to just pump and dump, go for it. but does this really sound like the girl you want to start a relationship with?

>> No.7294958

>>7294954
epic 4chan aggressive culture meme, keep it comin, i dig it

>> No.7294970

sounds like you've got a chance
go for it but don't count on it. keep your options open. don't try too hard, she's just a chick

>> No.7294979

>has female-male interaction in an attempt to hook up with female
>comes back to 4chan to post about the situation
>asks for advice whether or not he's going to make it
Dude, you didn't even have a chance when you started.

>> No.7294981

definitely not the right board to post this on.


now if you could describe your fit and hers, we'd have a decent conversation

>> No.7295061

go for it man, if she seems this interested in you there's obviously problems in her relationship and your gonna be there when they break up, don't listen to these betas just keep putting more effort into it.

>> No.7295078

>>7294965
this is actually amazing food for thought, for everyone.

>> No.7295552

Okay, anon. Brace yourself.

The good news: Yes, she's probably interested.

The bad news: Even if you get her, you'll fail because you give a shit if she cares. In fact the very fact that you have to go to the internet for advice means that you're not man enough to handle her for very long. Sorry.

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>>7294965
tfw can't tell if girl is interested

>> No.7295578

>>7295573
hint: they aren't

>> No.7295600

>>7294928
She's giving me a blowjob as we speak

I'mma cumon her tits and then let her lick it then kiss you wit dat mouf just like she's doing with her current bf now

>> No.7295603

>>7295552
right in the feels

>> No.7295612

>>7295552
*tips fedora*

>> No.7295629

>>7295578
So why did she text first and why did she add me and why did she invite me to a party.

I'm pretty sure she's just even spergier than I am and doesn't know how to show she's interested in person.

>> No.7295632

>>7295629
She was in japanese in hs.

I'm betting her power level surpasses my own.

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>>7295629
Iktf...dont know if that girl I talk to is autistic or just uninterested. I-I dont trust my opinion

>> No.7295756

>>7295724
I hate that, I shouldnt even care...I hate having a crush.

>tfw having a crush
>tfw I hate that feel

>> No.7295789

>Constantly texting a girl
>Thinking this is improving your chances of getting the V

Where's starfucks when you need him

>> No.7296154

>>7295789
I told the girl I'd text her and didn't. Two days later she texted me.

Am I alfalfa?

>> No.7296168

>>7294928
I want to stab that guy

>> No.7296186

>tfw talking to gril
>"oh yeah anon we should hang out more, we should go to this bar, you should move into my dorm there's an opening across the hall from me, yeah we should hang out soon"
>text her to see if shes free this next week
>it's been 2 days and no answer

haha girls. I prolly screwed something up but who cares honestly

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>>7296186
Ain't thirsty enuf to beg

Good on u m8

Dats it mayne

Have some god damn pride

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7296292

>go to a club last night with a group of 3 guys and 2 grills
>not many places left to sit in bar area
>we sit on a long bench seat, two grills at the other end who we don't know
>we take a group photo
>grills photobomb us
>start having a few laughs, introduce ourselves
>one is really hot in a clubslut way, but still pretty
>buddy and I go to scope out the dancefloor
>come back, us and those grills have snagged a booth
>decide we should complete a series of challenges throughout the night
>losing team buys drinks for winning team
>challenges are things like getting numbers, kisses, stealing a piece of clothing etc.
>obviously rigged towards girls winning
>return to booth after completing two of the challenges to find the two new girls have won already, and our two girls are done too
>shows us photos for proof
>hot one tells me to sit beside her, closest to the wall
>o-ok
>puts hand on my thigh, in my lap
>general physical flirting under table
>buddy returns, we tell him the news and we buy them drinks
>buddy and I don't like this club much, no one dancing, music is average and drinks are stupid overpriced cocktails in teapots
>tell the girls we're going over to the dance club near where we parked
>our two girls don't want to go, driver stays with them
>two new girls say they'd like to come, go to tell their friends
>we wait in the bar
>be all too familiar with this routine
>don't expect them to come back
>buddy and I are about to leave without them
>they suddenly return and say their friends want them to stay
>tfw so close
>tfw cockblocked by an 18th birthday party

>> No.7296299

lmao if she cheats on her dude for u then thats a huge red flag cmon now bruh

she'll do it to u when the next better dude comes along

also getting a hug from a chick isnt really a good thing as a dude


act nonchalant and let her lead if u think u have a something going on there

>> No.7296336

>>7294928
>one time she doesn't reply to a text mid-conversation (this is at about 1 in the morning) so i assume she's not interested and don't text again

like, at all?

dude, don't treat it like a big thing

>> No.7296359

>>7296292
that does not sound like fun

sounds like kindergarden games in a nightclub that makes losers feel more like adults despite not finishing college

>> No.7296371

>>7296359
eh, it was fun for the girls. Also
>yfw I just finished my first year of university

>justifying myself to sieg

>> No.7296378

>>7296292
That sounds pretty fun actually and like a good way of getting to know someone. Where was this out of curiosity?

>> No.7296381

>>7296299
Yeah, I love the way people trick themselves in situations like this.

>"I'm such a Casanova that I convinced her to cheat on / leave her partner! Now she's mine forever and she will be faithful and true and pure of heart."

It's just willful ignorance so you can tell yourself what you want to hear.

>> No.7296392

>>7296378
I think it would have been more fun if the teams had been 1 girl and 1 guy. World Bar Sydney. Personally I don't like it because I find the teapot cocktails gimmicky and the atmosphere very cold and contrived

>> No.7296393

>>7296292
What's the appeal of clubs?

A meat market where most people are too shy to make a move. I mean I've had some fun at them when on molly or something but I'd rather be in a chilled out pub/bar maybe a live band with a group of good mates and some drinks talking shit all night.

>tfw you enjoy yourself much more at the first pub then you do at the nightclub

Maybe it's because I already have a qt I don't need to hook up idk

>> No.7296397

Typical female logic: "I think anon is more good lookingand more fun conversation partner than the bloke I'm seeing, but I don't tell it to him and I continue to see this other dude."

Ugh. "I want somebody just like you! No, not you, just somebody who's exactly like you!" Females are just irrational sometimes. Sorry bad english I'm from Filippines.

>> No.7296405

>x x
>not xxx

nigga you fucked if she's not sending you the triple x then she has no fucks to give.

Nah i'm kidding man, she's clearly dtf. Get in there asap before the guy she's 'seeing' graduates to a BF that she's not entirely satisfied with

>> No.7296417

>>7296392
Ah figured it was somewhere in Aus. Hope you didn't steal anything too expensive from someone else. That'd be a pretty dick move otherwise. Also name some of the other challenges, I'm intrigued.

>> No.7296419

>>7296359

Sieg you're a verifiable cunt. You know nothing of normal human interaction. Stop posting you massive fucking dicksplash.

>> No.7296425

>>7296393
>Maybe it's because I already have a qt I don't need to hook up idk

this is exactly y m8

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>>7296425
NIghtclubs, thirsty fucks only.

>> No.7296449

>>7296419
omg im such a normal human umm sew if i can get um lol like a guy to give me his jacket so i can make a duck face ud buy me a watered down drink?? lulnok

brb instagramcaption im sewwwww drunk lol

do me favor, open my safe, pick up the gun that says colt, pull the slide back, lower thumb saftey squeeze gently while inserting barrel into your mouth its fun...i promise

prentending to laugh and have fun at a bar doing stupis shit to get chicks buying under aged bitches drinks and still turned down by drunk sluts

im doing you a favor

>> No.7296459

>>7296393
personally I'd rather go see a band, go to a bar/pub and just sink piss, talk shit all night too. I hate the most the fact that clubs have covercharges just to walk in
>paying too much money to walk into a hot, crowded room that smells like BO, full of sweaty drunk men who try and dance with your women, buy overpriced drinks and more often not grind with the qt you saw by the bar, and then near you on the dance floor, and then in the booth across from yours.

That said I love dancing. Also, if we'd just gone to a bar, I would've most likely had sex with one of the girls we came with, given every time we party together we hook up but have never managed to go all the way because either she's passed out or I'm acting like a little bitch and not pushing the envelope with her

>>7296417
The girls borrowed the photographer's belt. I stole the lid off one of the teapots as one of the challenges

>get three numbers
>one opposite sex kiss
>one same sex kiss
>steal a teapot lid (the whole teapot for bonus points)
>take a piece of clothing
>put ice down someone's shirt (surefire way to get punched in the head)

>>7296405
>>7296425
>>7296419
truth

>> No.7296541

>>7296154
y

>> No.7296553

>>7296459
tell us more about "hooking up" IE kissing

and almost getting PUNCHED IN THE HEAD?!?!?! wow

you must be some sort of alpha male you know becuase you almost got punched in the head and like u were brave enough to do challenges in a club right

you're way cooler on molly right yeah yeah i got ya

#surburban life

>> No.7296680

>>7296553
lol

>> No.7296774

>>7296397
>Females are just irrational sometimes.
You're right about everything in your post, but at the same time their behavior also makes a lot of sense.
Women want to keep all their options open and available. They know exactly how much to say, when to say it. More importantly, they know what NOT to say.

It's easy to see it as irrational, but all she's doing is allowing a guy to give her what she wants while she does absolutely nothing.

>>7296381
exfuckingactly.

i'm not saying not to fuck a girl who has a BF, but you are a stupid fucking idiot if you believe she's GF material after that.

>> No.7296813

clothes
fashion
tailoring
style
shoes
accessories
and more
all here on the hotbed of the fashion world,4chans very own /fa/

>> No.7296825

>>7296813
>accessories
are women not accessories?

>> No.7297235

>>7296292
>>buddy and I don't like this club much, no one dancing, music is average and drinks are stupid overpriced cocktails in teapots

is this world bar at kings cross sydney?

>> No.7297244

>>7296825
*tips fedora*

>> No.7297246

>>7297235
see
>>7296392

>> No.7297251

>>7297246
lel

all my friends love that place, go there almost weekly

it fucking sucks

>> No.7297285

>>7297244
why you wearing a fedora?

PS women are good accessories

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>he goes to a club to hookup only

>> No.7299493

>>7297285
epic misogyny meme, keep em comin