/fa/ - Fashion - #7031187

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Anonymous Mon Oct 7 14:52:24 2013 No.7031187 [Reply] [Original]

Lonely /fa/ feels

>Yesterday buy some new kicks feeling good
>Nice day so I decide to go for a drive
>casual drive along the lake with Alice Glass and Disclosure
>Decide to get out and walk along the lake since I'm /fa/ as fuck
>Stop by Starbucks and grab an espresso then start my walk
> As I'm walking I begin to realize that I'm living the life of an aspie /fa/ggot
>Have less than a handful of friends, crippling anxiety in school, so I talk to literally no one.
>Dress better than 90% of the plebs at CC and I get stared at a lot.
>With my shit confidence caused by my anxiety I think they are staring at me because I look weird as fuck.
>Strange thing is that I'm content despite the problems
>Sit down on a bench watching the water
>Some girl sits at a bench adjacent to mine
>catch her mirin'
>Pick up my drink and walk away because fuck knows
>Continue with my walk and catch 2 other girls mirin'
> probably thought I looked weird as fuck
>Go home smoke a few bowls and listen to field recordings.

Is it true that the /fa/ lifestyle is a lonely one?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 14:55:23 2013 No.7031205 >sitting in hallway right now at college >waiting for test thing >get told to wait more > people talking and shit >no one to talk to

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Mon Oct 7 14:57:23 2013 No.7031217

>>7031187
you sound like a pretty cool dude.

i would of left too
random ass strange bitch who wasn't raised right doesn't know the polite personal bubble

also starring
it's not polite to stare

why are people in america raised on so little respect and manners?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 14:58:23 2013 No.7031226 >>7031217 Sieg, it's not nice to troll aspies. If you have to get it out of your system just go to >>>/r9k/ and get a handful at one time.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:03:55 2013 No.7031250

>>7031217
Why do you hate America so much and rant about Americans in every post. Did you ever think about who is to blame? Do you blame the society? If yes why? Because a society doesn't form itself from within, instead takes other societys as guidelines. Sorry I know this belongs to /pol/ but I'm genuinely interested in your oppinion

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:03:55 2013 No.7031252 you're like me. would be friends with and walk around town wearing full ghetto ninja

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:07:23 2013 No.7031267

I also am pretty much like this. Just kinda wander around stopping places if I feel like it.

It can be lonely, I also only have a few friends and even so generally don't want to be around them too much, but its not too bad. I like being alone more than having to listen to someone prattle on while I feign interest, or complain about being tired or bored.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:10:23 2013 No.7031280

>>7031187
>go to coffee shop to do homework
>wearing my raws, chukkas, and a plain white tee
>all of the guy to my lefts friends leave
>he's in a floral print oxford, chinos, and vans
>he asks what im working on
>start talking
>realize we have a mutual friend
>boom, since I know he's like all of my friends we start talking openly
>play dota 2 with him when we get home
>hang out at the coffee shop again the next day

My friends are all stem majors that lift and smoke trees and listen to hipster music. He's going to be part of the clique now.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:15:25 2013 No.7031314 >>7031280 everything about this post screams "i'm a huge faggot".

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Mon Oct 7 15:15:27 2013 No.7031308

>>7031250
i believe it is American public culture, single motherhood, and deep down the way americans have been raised to view women.

>that doesn't make any sense

it starts to make sense when you travel. i know americans don't like to travel. but in japan there is just an instantanious amount of respect for everyone

if you show someone a set of silverware, they can point out the dinner fork.

in america, nobody has any manners, no respect at all for anything

constant binge drinking

classeless, trashy

americans in general are garbage people

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:16:55 2013 No.7031320 File: 8 KB, 352x271, wells1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031314 Yeah, you wish.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:20:26 2013 No.7031335 >>7031308 yeah but ur stuck with us fucker lol

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Mon Oct 7 15:20:57 2013 No.7031337 >>7031320 what did you say to me you faggot? do you want me to kick your ass huh? you think you're all smart and shit with take fake ass handsome fass want me to beat your ass faggot? i'll seriously beat and pound your ass fag

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:21:26 2013 No.7031343 File: 584 KB, 672x890, ad_toyota_supra_black_1984_torrid.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031337 K, nerd

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:22:56 2013 No.7031349

>>7031308
I don't know whether it's conspiracy theory or not but some may say Americans are intentionally raised and minimally educated this way to either not surpass the government as well as this one group of intelligent and highly educated people where only people with high positions and their childrens are granted in. Also a lower degree of education leads to not questioning authoroties perse. Is that true?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:23:26 2013 No.7031359 >>7031337 You can beat and pound my ass, Sieg. :)

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:26:56 2013 No.7031368 >>7031308 I'm a mighty, mighty man and I'm young and I'm in my prime. Nerd. I would rather be arrogant than have to kiss everyone else's asshole like the Japanese.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:27:56 2013 No.7031372 >>7031280 You're a faggot and I hate you but that sounds p good, congrats man :^( >hipster music What like Vampire Weekend or Merzbow?

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:30:42 2013 No.7031388

>>7031372
No, half of us like electronic and the other half like emo. It's just an easier way to say it than actually explain. Especially since we all listen to a lot more than just those. I tell everyone I listen to hipster music as a cop out because I don't want to spend an hour explaining 12 different genres/subgenres to normal radio listening people.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Mon Oct 7 15:31:42 2013 No.7031395

>>7031349
>a lower degree of education leads to not questioning authoroties perse. Is that true?

i believe this is true. in college, particularly years 3 and 4 and maybe a little bit more in post-grad.

professors, and literature is based less on "what is" and more on "why is"

so i assume everyone here has been to college, and as we progress, through schooling.

you remember concepts such as fire trucks are red. in kinder garden. but in college you're expected to think "why is the fire truck red?"

and as you reach doctorate "is it better if these fire trucks weren't red?" -research

---
so i think thats the element of truth in your post that you're seeing.

but i don't think the government weights the people "down" especially since FAFSA is a thing

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:33:13 2013 No.7031406 >$$$$ worth of grails >nowhere to wear it too Its not like I don't have any friends either, what is wrong with me...

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:33:42 2013 No.7031407 >>7031388 seriously, you talk like a fag and your shit's all retarded.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:33:42 2013 No.7031408 >>7031388 Just say either "experimental" "sad indie rock" or "electronic", p sure plebs can't care anymore than just that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:35:12 2013 No.7031419 >>7031395 Thanks sieg you are truely a scholar

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:35:12 2013 No.7031420 >>7031337 can someone post the screencap with sieg and his russian dominatrix landwhale?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:35:43 2013 No.7031424 >>7031407 Lol, yeah. One time I tried explaining the difference between a squire strat and an american one and the guy just outright told me it didn't matter because they look the same.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:36:13 2013 No.7031438 >>7031187 Huh, that's practically my Saturday afternoon in a nutshell, substituting the espresso for a vanilla latte... >dem feels...

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:42:42 2013 No.7031466 >>7031388 emo as in dads rite rite dw id totally hang out with you

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:43:12 2013 No.7031471

> tfw /fa/ n shit, good looking etc.
> living with gf
> dream job is shaping up to happen
> miss being lonely and living at home with no responsibility
> miss wandering around during fall listening to carissa's wierd and sinking into slow lonely feels

Tryna make the best of it

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:48:43 2013 No.7031499 >>7031471 >wandering around during fall listening to sad music and sinking into slow lonely feels that's what I have been doing for this past month and It'll probably go on like this for F/W 13. U jelly? I sure wouldn't be

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:49:42 2013 No.7031506 >>7031424 it hardly does matter tho amplification > pickups > dimensions of the instrument > the materials and construction of the guitar > wood > cables

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:50:12 2013 No.7031512 File: 2.00 MB, 286x237, 1356504353081.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] How the hell did my thread turn into this pos... Lets et back on track. Anyone here have any similar stories?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:50:12 2013 No.7031521 >>7031506 Feel action intonation quality of parts It sounds similar but plays like trash and cant stay in tune.

>>	Yawn Mon Oct 7 15:51:43 2013 No.7031525 >>7031187 I feel u OP but like sit back and think about ur life and u'll realise u actually have it p.good feel better!

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:52:12 2013 No.7031536 >>7031521 If you get your guitar properly set up and slightly mod some parts (file down saddle, tighten some screws) you won't be able to feel any difference.

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Mon Oct 7 15:52:43 2013 No.7031532 File: 104 KB, 500x693, tumblr_m746epqGNT1r07w00o1_500.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031471 u miss the safety of sadness or youre really not satisfied with what you have

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:54:43 2013 No.7031548 >>7031536 Yes you can. The guitar itself feels like trash.

TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Mon Oct 7 15:56:12 2013 No.7031567
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Simply put I haven't been feeling happy for the past few days feeling even lonelier and stressed out too.Nothing is really working out and my shins ache when i run not even focusing on my stride or anything.i have to stop fapping a lot too as of late urgh

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 15:57:43 2013 No.7031574

This evening was quite nice
>Go biking
>Pause at some outdoor-pullup bar in the forest
>do my secondary calisthenics-workout
>Finish, watch the sunset combined with the beautiful fall-weather
>Put on ipod and listen to songs that remind me of my oneitis and the time when I first met her a few years ago, feel nostalgic (and euphoric)
>Bike to another place with a nice view over a few villages, sit on a bench
>Reflect about my life, feeling depressed etc. while it's dark
>Return
this all done in a layered fall-fit, felt nice

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:05:43 2013 No.7031636

>>7031548
cheap necks feel manky too, like I've handled some cheap guitars that feel like I'm fingering a straight up log, moss and all. It's like they don/t even bother to buff and seal them properly. That said, if you buy a mexican fender they're cheaper than an american one, if you buy an american one it's going to be made by mexicans anyway.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:06:42 2013 No.7031644 Be alone all the time and not very social. Try to be alpha on occasion and fails miserably despite dope fit. Guess I'll stick to smoking trees and studying alot. Maybe one of those routes will lead to friends, money and girls.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:09:42 2013 No.7031668 >>7031525 My life is pretty good. It's just being in school surrounded by people I never talk to or know is the sad part. I haven't talked to anyone in any of my classes except for when we had to get into groups.

Yawn Mon Oct 7 16:11:43 2013 No.7031679

>>7031668
just do ur own thing but make sure u chat some inane shit with ur classmates
like this 1 guy in my class keeps talking 2 me about breaking bad
i dont even think its that good but i always spare a couple mins 2 talk about it with him
doesnt hurt any1

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:12:43 2013 No.7031688

Used to be lonely, but over the summer I met lots of people I'd never spoken to before and now that I'm back at school I've become closer with people that I hadn't really been very close to.

Just speak to more people, put yourself in social situations. Drink helps too.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:13:43 2013 No.7031699 >>7031636 >>7031548 You can fix that during said setup. It usually just involves sanding the neck down a little, sometimes also applying a coat of lacquer.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:15:12 2013 No.7031715 >>7031679 It's almost a month into the quarter and I don't know the names of anyone in any of my classes except for this fob girl i sit next to.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:16:43 2013 No.7031722 >>7031699 Dude, it will never be as good.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:23:12 2013 No.7031767

>>7031722
I disagree. I've been using sub-$500 instruments exclusively since 2008 and I honestly can't feel the difference between those and more expensive instruments I've tried.

I've owned expensive instruments too, I played a $2500 bass before selling it off and making the switch.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:25:14 2013 No.7031780

>>7031187
I am similar in that I've dealt with pretty bad anxiety in the past. This is of course coupled with lots of depressing nights spent alone. Social anxiety is like being an extrovert trapped inside of an introvert. Any minor connection i make with a person opens the floodgates of mania and for the next few hours i'm on a high. I have recently made a few friends from classes but I lack the courage to ask anyone if they want to hang out.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:30:13 2013 No.7031815 >>7031767 >Bass

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:31:13 2013 No.7031827

>>7031767
I had my first guitar (a cheap pakistani jackson dinky) modded and it's a great guitar now the wiring is fixed and the p'ups have been swapped out and the bridge coil split, adjusted for my preferred alt tuning it plays like a fucking dream. The neck on that thing was amazing to begin with.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:35:12 2013 No.7031852 >>7031408 Inb4 trunks' gay friend comes in and starts talking about "anachronistic proto-jazz" or whatever shit he was talking about last time.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:40:12 2013 No.7031887

>girls like me
>never have any trouble getting girls i like
>they always inundate me with messages and start up convos with me
>let me do whatever i want
>for some reason this makes me completely indifferent to them
>always break up with them after a few weeks

I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I do a similar thing with friends too, I'll just randomly never speak to someone ever again, no matter how close they are.

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 16:42:13 2013 No.7031900 File: 274 KB, 528x720, Picasso_Portrait_of_Daniel-Henry_Kahnweiler_1910.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] my only feel is ennui its crushing

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:42:13 2013 No.7031902
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>be a chef
>work from 12-12 7 days a week
>all my old mates live back in my home country
>have great mates from work, but it's rare for two guys to have a day-off at the same date so can't really spend time with them either
>spend my mornings before work drinking coffee alone at a cafe
>evenings grab a few pints at work
>walk home dressed sharp as fuck
>people mirin
>can't enjoy it because mind has wandered to happier days

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:43:12 2013 No.7031908 >>7031815 I'm sorry that I started out as a double bassist and felt like electric bass was a natural extension of that. We've all gotta start somewhere, right? >>7031827 Pics? Vocaroo? I wanna hear this.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:47:12 2013 No.7031935

>>7031187
>be me
>go to cafeteria for breakfast
>get a bowl of cantaloupe
>finish it
>get up and get a bowl of cereal
>be walking back and notice a qt wiping up milk two seats over from my seat
>get back and set down bowl of cereal, spill some because your retarded
>'haha same thing happened to me' smiles at you
> '...m-me too'
>she leaves to get more paper towels
>hunch over cereal, staring intently at it, dont break eye contact with fruit loops
>leave without so much as looking at qt again

typical day in the life of me. its not even that im afraid to talk, i just feel super embarrassed, like she is just laughing at me with her friends as soon as i leave. which is retarded, since she was by herself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:48:13 2013 No.7031942 >>7031887 Post a pic bruh

>>	Yawn Mon Oct 7 16:49:13 2013 No.7031947 >>7031902 >tfw this will b my life next year i do half that shit already lol

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:54:43 2013 No.7031969

>>7031335
FUCKING LMFAO OMG MY SIDES
>>7031308
its not our fault. blame the government. nixon is on record saying that its the middle class, with too much time and money, that is the problem. its the college kids. and since he cant get the kids directly, attack the parents. that policy of killing off the middle class was continued by reagan, and every republican president since. and probably the democrats too. bill clinton played sax like a baller. im not one for conspiracy theories (much) but some stuff is just impossible to deny.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:54:43 2013 No.7031971 >>7031947 don't worry i'm happier than ever from 12-12 it's just the time outside work that's depressing.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:55:49 2013 No.7031980 File: 70 KB, 566x760, 1334862656471.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >androgynous 5'7 manlet >no one wants to be friends cause they can't tell whether i'm male or female >everyone evades due to sexual tension ;_;

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:56:20 2013 No.7031982 >>7031980 twerk :(

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:57:49 2013 No.7031991 File: 500 KB, 470x296, tumblr_lnwy9d0X5u1qh2mpqo1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031969 Tfw capitalism worked for my family and my uncle founded rent a center and my whole dads side is rich I hate leftists

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:57:49 2013 No.7031992

If you're an independent adult you shouldn't care too much about being alone. No-one gives a shit and no-one knows.

I'm sure most of you guys are at school/university and are therefore paranoid about your social status but honestly it doesn't matter.

Just make sure you have a few friends and you'll be ok.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:58:19 2013 No.7032003 >>7031780 Why be manic? You have an unwarranted sense of self-importance.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 16:59:20 2013 No.7032010 >>7031887 Same for me brah. I can't stand girls who are actually keen for me. Maybe it's because they're all fat?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:01:19 2013 No.7032028 File: 42 KB, 150x150, 1380436740567.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >wearing a shirt with a fruit pattern on it >"why does your shirt have a kiwi on it"

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:01:20 2013 No.7032023
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>tfw no friends
>tfw studying something I'm not actually interested in
>spend all my money on clothes but have nowhere to go to outside of school
>tfw nobody even gives a shit how well I dress in my shitty country
>tfw only way to pass time is going to the gym six times a week

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:01:49 2013 No.7032024 File: 59 KB, 523x700, 1318805929001.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >All of these dickheads who think their existence matters and that anyone in their daily lives even cares. Just be confident you fucking fags.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:02:50 2013 No.7032032 >>7032010 A fellow drifter, huh? We should chill sometime.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:04:19 2013 No.7032037 >>7032028 Bitch cuz u betta b suckin on my kiwis u knome sang?

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:04:49 2013 No.7032039 File: 690 KB, 1280x1635, tumblr_msmdb5iSnJ1r0sai8o1_1280.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031982 everyone irl wants to be my friend tho

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:05:50 2013 No.7032050 >>7032039 they just wanna do kinky things you're being lied to

TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Mon Oct 7 17:06:20 2013 No.7032060
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>>7031644
smoking trees will most likely lead you to a worse course of ur situation
i know i know its ur comfort zone and but its not really a agame changer if theres no1 else to do it with or new people to do it with

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:06:49 2013 No.7032057 >>7032039 i want 2 b ur friend twerk you seem pre cool and i'd ask for advice on fashion

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:07:20 2013 No.7032061 >>7032023 go on walkabout. Not even shitting you, drop school once you've finished out the sem, drop the job once you've saved up a few grand, and fuckin travel. Do it faget

twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:08:50 2013 No.7032069
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>>7032050
nah im p sexually unappealing

>>7032057
feel free 2 follow my tumblr and send me asks and reblog my posts xoxoxo
http://amoretlabor.tumblr.com/
>tfw all my grlfrnds want 2 go shopping but at pleb tier stores
>no nxtlvl frnds 2 try on rick owens w/

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:10:19 2013 No.7032082 File: 313 KB, 800x600, 1354402346938.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032069 where u @ twerk? u in ny like everyone else? i'm followin u now (name is apcaipse)

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:12:19 2013 No.7032094 File: 30 KB, 530x298, thps3hdtrujillola02_530x298.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032082 la

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:12:20 2013 No.7032088 >tfw you live in the middle of nowhere nothing to do, will moving out in to a city centre apartment improve my life? I'm a social person.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:12:50 2013 No.7032090 >>7032061 if you're a loser with no friends and no personality travelling won't solve that, he's just going to feel really alone in a different place

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:13:20 2013 No.7032098 >>7032090 Some people are meant to be alone, some only find out they need people after too long without them. Gives you perspective anyways, shows how comfy you are in your boring life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:14:20 2013 No.7032100 >>7032088 yep, you'll be near places that can supply hobbies, nightclubs, restaurants and pretty much everything I lived in a suburb far away from downtown and when I moved it was a million times easier to do things

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:15:50 2013 No.7032103 >>7032094 oh :( i'll be in la area for a few weeks next summer i used to live in anaheim so i go back and visit family every few years hopefully u are havin good day :)

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:15:50 2013 No.7032104

>>7032090
>loser
No need for insults.
>no personality
I don't think that exists. Some people are just introverted and have trouble expressing their feelings or showing their true emotions to others. Some people may also be dealing with depression or other illnesses that make them try to avoid interacting with others.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:17:20 2013 No.7032122 >>7032098 Stop watching into the wild you nerd

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:17:49 2013 No.7032119

>be 16
>have quite a few friends
>be quite close with a few and think they are "true" friends
>live with a violent and abusive family
>they abuse me a lot so it makes me a very angry person to be around
>i ruin all my friendships
>turn 18
>i've become a nicer person to be around and i'm much calmer after stopping my shit tier family from abusing me anymore
>most people at this point think i'm a cunt and they haven't spoken to me since i stopped talking to them (i didn't even do anything to properly ruin the friendships they just stopped talking to me and started acting passive aggressive)
>apologize to quite a few of them over facebook
>they all basically tell me to fuckoff and they brag about how good their lives have been without me
>tfw all i'll ever have the chance to be is a person who's full of hate and scorn for everything

>inb4 edgy teenager

anybody else on this board go through shit teenage years? i used to love school because it was an escape from my home life

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:17:49 2013 No.7032120 >>7032088 Yes x1000 Keep in mind that environments don't change you unless it's a war or some shit. I know from experience that it's just as easy to be alone in the city as the woods. But a social butterfly tends to starve in fuck-all nowhere.

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:18:20 2013 No.7032124 File: 712 KB, 960x1280, tumblr_ms3zkrA8zU1qbfbn0o1_r1_1280.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032103 discussing the pitfalls of drug policy with a friend

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:18:50 2013 No.7032127 >bitch compliments me on my boots >go to her place and fuck >bitch tells me she likes my sweater >i stick it in her ass >bitch says my hair looks nice >she blows me in my car i guess im not /fa/ huh

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:20:19 2013 No.7032137 File: 154 KB, 950x1266, damir doma.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032124 sounds like a good time do you skate? >tfw this shirt doesn't fit you like the model so you look like a fuccboi

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:20:50 2013 No.7032139 >>7032104 I don't think it matters, if you can't talk to or express yourself to others you might as well have no personality. Which kind of makes you a loser, you know, like someone without any friends.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:22:19 2013 No.7032147

>>7031991
on my dads side, im related to a guy that invented a lot of farming techniques. but he didnt patent it. instead he showed it to what became birds eye and green giant. who now make bunches of money. capitalism, as good as it is, only works if your greedy. or do something like rent a center. big pharma though, bad.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:23:20 2013 No.7032155

>>7032119

Fuckin tell me about it. My mom was ridiculous (inb4 she took away my DS), she would literally say she was worried that I wasn't doing enough with friends and then, hours later, tell me she didn't like my friends and that I couldn't do anything with them. I later moved in with my dad, who was just as overprotective (just not an asshole), and nothing changed.

I came really, really close to being a complete beta neckbeard, I hated everyone in middle school (so edgy), and most of the way through highschool. I opened up around junior year, started browsing /fa/, started drinking coffee, etc.

Just *find new friends*. I did and it turned me mostly around, again junior year. I can actually talk to women now without thinking that I hate them for being so shallow and friendzoning me (yes, I was that guy), and it's almost entirely due to the group of friends that I made that year.

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:23:20 2013 No.7032156 File: 483 KB, 1360x1020, 3xtreme resized 4 4chan.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032137 i was gonna cop a new board but the deck i wanted sold out and i ended up spending all my dosh on some rick uggghhhh

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:24:50 2013 No.7032162 >>7032137 I really need one of those sweaters, my goof ninja fit is just missing something slim and with sleeves

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:25:20 2013 No.7032165

>live in the Scottish highlands
>House in the middle of a wood but also near the coast
>No other houses for miles around
>spend my days chopping wood, walking up hills and running along beaches

Not had a gf or met any friends since I moved up here 6 years ago.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:26:50 2013 No.7032172 >>7032165 r u james bond skyfall??

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:27:19 2013 No.7032176 i haven't left my room for 4 days and i haven't slept for 3. help me. i've been trying to knock myself out with benzos but it doesn't work and now i've run out. i'm so tired

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:27:50 2013 No.7032178

>>7032156
those are both good cops, idk how i'd choose

i used to skate but i broke my board and my arm so i started longboarding just to get around and i feel lame doin it but idk it's fun / easy and i go fast

what rick pieces did u cop?

>>7032162
it's a good piece and it layers really really well so i've been able to up my layer game pretty well

make it a base piece.

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:29:19 2013 No.7032185 File: 64 KB, 500x751, leather fetishism.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032178 tbh i was just gonna get an ollie-able longboard 4 commuting copped these skants

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:29:19 2013 No.7032186
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>finish HS and friends leave.
>stay with parents on small town and work full-time.
>need new friends.
>hang out with group of coworkers.
>make one my qt azn gf (8/10)
>get better job offer.
>still hang out with gf and friends all summer.
>gf leaves for college and breaks up with me
>friends are closer to her so they gradually stop talking to me as we don't work anymore.
>pretty much alone.
Fashion-wise, I'm the best I have ever looked. and the couple people I still know say I have really grew and look great. But I'm still so lonely. even strangers will comment on how much they love my style and all I can do is smile, thank them, and move on because I'm too depressed to keep a normal conversation.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:29:19 2013 No.7032187

>>7032155
yep, i know how you feel man, my mom would beat me (she would grab my hair, was about grade 2 at the time which is pretty short, and she'd start punching/slapping my head), she did it most days and then one day she did it and i elbowed her like twice to get her to stop and i immediately walked away and she phoned the police and told my brothers to lie and tell them i punched her for no reason, they lied and then the police called me pathetic and basically viewed me as someone i wasn't, i started lifting weights shortly afterwards and i can pinpoint the moment my "social awkwardness" shattered and i gained a lot of confidence, i've happily been in a relationship with a qt for the past 9 months and i'm pursuing my aspirations and i'm just glad i ditched my shit family

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:30:49 2013 No.7032193 >>7032187 also she would lie to her boyfriend and get him to attack me too

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:30:49 2013 No.7032197 File: 334 KB, 1067x1600, drkdust.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032185 & these pods

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:31:50 2013 No.7032199 >>7032185 i've used an original apex 37 which was kinda able to do that and it was great nice skants i couldn't wear those for shit tbh, but i'm happy you got what u wanted >>7032197 these are perf

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:33:20 2013 No.7032205 >>7032193 Did you get revenge yet and burn her house down or anything?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:34:20 2013 No.7032210 >>7031280 you remind me of 15 year old me

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:35:19 2013 No.7032216

>>7032187

Good on you mate.

Not lookin for sympathy, but funny story here.
My mom is mad at me one day, slams a door into my head, I still can't go live with my dad or even complain about it. Week later, I hit her back once (one fucking time,first+last), and she calls the cops.

Those fucksticks tell me I can be charged for fucking assault and battery and that I'm going to jail if I do it again.

>>7032193

My mom got her mom's boyfriend to come outside and scream at me one time, scared the absolute shit out of me( I was 12), and she and her mom denied it (her mom was there watching), the guy was the only one who admitted it happened.

Fucking parents, I'm not trying to be edgy, but some of them have no idea how the shit children work.

twerk it Mon Oct 7 17:36:19 2013 No.7032218
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>>7032199
the skants are dope af but the auction described them as no signs of wear yet they had tons of fucking holes, i was pissed. repaired them tho.

still kinda wish they were 2 seperate garments tho. would be even cooler/more wearable to have a leather skirt and some knit swingers.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:37:50 2013 No.7032224 >>7032218 that's bullshit bout the holes. fuckin sketchy auction sites and shit. that'd be cool. i'd wear the shit out of a leather skirt

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:38:49 2013 No.7032228

>>7032205
nope, but for some reason knowing that she probably beat me because she knew i was going to be more successful than and that my real dad liked me and hated her rests my mind, she's an old cunt and she has nobody but her boyfriend and my two spastic brothers and i never want to speak to her ever again

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:39:20 2013 No.7032234 >>7032210 Doubt it, bet you were a nerd, nerd.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:39:50 2013 No.7032235 >>7032228 more successful than her*

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:39:50 2013 No.7032236 >>7032156 just get a local shop deck. cheaper and just as good. and supporting small business is good even though it now makes you a hipster

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:41:20 2013 No.7032244 >>7032228 You should send her a check for a penny every month with a note that says "to repay you for all you have done".

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:44:50 2013 No.7032256
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I guess this kinda relates
>lose a ton of weight
>buy new clothes, grills mirin
>know I dress good but still see myself as a behemoth because ex fatty
>think I look p good in the mirror but in pictures holy shit pls kill me
>never take anyone seriously when they compliment me
>don't think anything fit on me
>why do I bother

Is anyone else feeling this? Pls

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:46:49 2013 No.7032269 >>7032256 I feel nothing when people compliment me but that's because I'm a narcissist and don't value their opinions.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:48:19 2013 No.7032281 >>7032269 We're all narcissists here, no help to be found Proof >>7032269 Post a fit, I'll tell you if you look decent

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:48:20 2013 No.7032284

>>7032216
that's exactly what the police said to me, they told my mom that if i even show signs of aggression ever again that she can call them and they'll take me to jail and charge me for assault

my dad lived with his mom and whilst he liked me and we got along he was a shitbag, he never let me stay with him and when push came to shove i was sleeping on the floor at my cousins house (my cousin hit me one or two times too and i will genuinely beat him to a pulp next time i see him, he's a fucking cunt and he deserves nothing but shit from everybody)

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:49:20 2013 No.7032286 >tfw want to move out but can't afford it kill me now

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 17:54:50 2013 No.7032328

>>7032284

Strange how family is the one thing I've never had much trust in

It's the opposite for fuckin everyone else, it seems.

And yeah, cops are assholes when they're working, sort of a defense mechanism i guess (it's possible that only assholes become cops though)

My old man (cop himself) ain't no exception, normal off the job, kind of a prick on it. I've thought about joining the force just for the rush, pointing guns at innocents and shit, stealing coke from street dealers and hookers

Not very effay though, counterculture ftw

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:42:25 2013 No.7032594 >>7032328 Traffic cops should be tortured then shot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:44:55 2013 No.7032607 >>7032594 fucks like you should be tortured and shot. if you dont like having law enforcement, why dont you go fucking move to somalia or someshit. then come back and tell me how much you dont like cops.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:48:26 2013 No.7032629 >>7032607 No, I'm specifically talking about motorcycle riding traffic cops whose only job is to rob people and fill a ticket quota so the district makes more bloat money.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:49:26 2013 No.7032634 >>7032629 oh... carry on then.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:50:25 2013 No.7032638 File: 78 KB, 501x463, becomethefeel.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >mfw OP is me

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 18:55:56 2013 No.7032668 >>7032165 Ohello. I'll be your gf if you let me live in your house.

Jolien !UWqyWTEBWc Mon Oct 7 18:57:55 2013 No.7032684
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>No school today
>wake up at 8 am
>brush teeth
>do some homework
>browse some 4chan
>shower (monday is poo day rest of the week only water)
>do some more homework
>get dressed
>do small groceries, grab a veggy sandwich and come back
>get undressed
>listening to some vaporwave
>playing a game
>its probably 7 pm by now so made some pasta carbonara
>open a bottle of red whine (gatto negro, sweet red with fruity influences like strawberries and blueberries)
>start reading in "The magician rises" by karen miller until 11ish
>go to bed

I am the king of lonely? At least I might be sort of effay?

>>	Aboriginal_Thug Mon Oct 7 18:58:56 2013 No.7032692 how come all these anons are supposably well dressed and then i check waywt and never see one good fit, cause yall are delusional

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 19:05:56 2013 No.7032731
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>>7032684
pooing once a week defeats the point of no poo. Hair takes a couple of weeks of no poo for it to stop being greasy, and just look great. pooing once a month would make sense, but mo poo every is the way to go.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 19:06:25 2013 No.7032744 >>7032692 When I post a fit the only replies are boring since I'm basicbiatch.

Jolien !UWqyWTEBWc Mon Oct 7 19:07:56 2013 No.7032746

>>7032731
idk, I tried different stuff and this was the winner for me.

Every day made it dry as fuck and annoying to handle
Once a month made it too curly & volumnous and it kinda looked like I was wearing a helmet
Once a week works fine for me

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 19:09:55 2013 No.7032754 >>7032746 If once a month makes it too volumnous, then you are doing the right thing. Carry on.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 19:14:55 2013 No.7032769 >>7031280 >I'm a STEM major >I'm pretty /fa/ >smoke weed >lift >listen to hipster music >pls be in Paris

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 19:18:25 2013 No.7032783 >>7031935 iktf

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 20:00:25 2013 No.7033004 >>7032165 This sounds nice, do you have mains power, running water and all that?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 20:04:35 2013 No.7033032 >>7031314 >>7031407 so mad

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 20:18:35 2013 No.7033100 Sometimes when I'm alone I sit in the dark, listen to classic music, and just cry. Sometimes for no particular reason other than appreciation of what I'm listening to, other times about things that are bothering me. It feels so fucking good.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 20:19:04 2013 No.7033106 >>7033100 classical music*

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:02:02 2013 No.7033980
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>Dressed in black jeans, waldo shirt, brown combat boots
>Grab sammich and coke before class
>Sit in art gallery waiting for class
>Eating said sandwich and drinking said coke
>QT sitting in corner of room staring at laptop
>Recognize her from night before, wandering hallways in drunker stupor
>Peer up from my lunch and notice her holding her head
>Not sure what we could talk about, a softball player vs. an art student.
Fuck it, we'll do it live
>"Rough night, huh?"
>Suddenly I have her attention
>I watch her mind go from 0-60 in seconds
>Suddenly she remembers the guy with the laundry basket in the hallway the night before
>Ask her what she's drawing
>[casual conversation engaged]
>Friend walks into room
>Get him into conversation
>awkwardness level 0
>Invite her over to my room for drinks sometime
>Leave gallery
>Friend sends me text: "atta boy"
>Get to class
>Professor is leaving early
>Get out Early
>On the way home I see Xgf, make eye contact and she shies away
>Obviously seeing me bothers her, less impact on me. Looks like i'm winning.
>Go back to dorm and watch Akira
>Decide that anime is way too weird for me
>Watch This Is the End
>Realize that I need to watch a show with characters that I can feel emotionally attached to
>Because that is the only thing that could pull my heart strings anymore
>Kind of wishing they made a good Dune Movie
I wont pretend that i'm an extrovert, and I don't want to tell myself that being an introvert is wrong. The kind of life where I can spend so much time making such little interaction with the world is tragic. There is a unique beauty that can only be observed by detaching ones self though. Part of me wants to live life in life, but another part of me just wants to observe.

>>	KAAAAAAAAANEEEEEEEEEDAAAAAAAAA(...) Mon Oct 7 23:17:02 2013 No.7034048 >>7033980 U gotta watch all of Akira

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:23:01 2013 No.7034070
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>Dropped out of uni because I lost interest in my degree
>Don't know what I'd even study if I went back
>No customer interaction at my job
>Lucky to hang out with friends maybe once a week
>Spending all this money on clothes and improving my appearance when I hardly ever get to leave the house
>Just want to meet new people and qts
>Spending 90% of my time in front of the computer

What do /fa/?

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:25:01 2013 No.7034080

>>7034048
I did....
That part with the flesh absorption was too Japanese. I have to admit that watching that girl get crushed and the reaction of totoro hit me in the feels a tad.
The only anime that I've watched other than this is Spirited Away, Ghost in a Shell, Cowboy Beebop, and Code (Geauss?) upon request of a friend. I actually enjoyed CG because i can relate to the main character a bit, and i kind of have a hard on for strategy and mech combat, although the schoolgirl stuff was almost too much.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:27:32 2013 No.7034089 >>7034070 Go for a walk.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:27:32 2013 No.7034090 File: 7 KB, 251x237, 1380628916976.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw take a phenomenal dump >just one girthy ancient redwood log sitting in the bowl >no bleeding its gonna be a good one today boys I can feel it

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:29:02 2013 No.7034099 >>7033980 you sound like a boring person >wishing they made a good Dune Movie stupid ass. Lynch's was awesome.

>>	twerk it Mon Oct 7 23:30:02 2013 No.7034102 File: 53 KB, 480x640, DUNE2000.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7034099 maybe if you put it on mute

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:31:32 2013 No.7034104 >>7034070 suicide?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:33:01 2013 No.7034109 >>7034099 You sound like an idiot.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:35:02 2013 No.7034114

>>7032060
depends. not that guy but iv made a lot of friends offering random people ive met weed.

does anyone else think their better at being higher than being sober? like i am an alright person, probably average but if you smoke with me or really any drug you will love me. i think im just good at being high

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:36:38 2013 No.7034120
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>>7034089
Is walking alone /fa/?

Is sitting inside of starbucks while drinking whatever and using your mac /fa/?

Is going to art galleries alone /fa/?

Is ordering dinner for one /fa/?

Is doing whatever you want to do /fa/ even at the risk of looking like a total outcast/loner?

All this free time I have and I need to fill it with /fa/ activities. What are some /fa/ movies I could watch for inspiration?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:38:46 2013 No.7034131 fucking feels op feels everywhere

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:39:31 2013 No.7034133

Anyone else have a completely normal childhood and life and friends then eventually just lose them all with time. Now I'm stuck here wondering how I got so weird living the perfect upper-middle class American male life. Like a bunch of you guys got abused and you turned out better than me, damn

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:40:32 2013 No.7034137 >dress in all black >feelin effay >realise you look like a stuck up art student and unapproachable af and you're too much of a social retard to engage in conversations with people >end up not talking to anyone ever for the rest of life

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:40:32 2013 No.7034138 File: 74 KB, 800x519, nan-3.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7034120 You sound insufferable.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:41:32 2013 No.7034145 >>7034109 Why getting so defensive, you stupid piece of shit?

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:42:31 2013 No.7034149

>>7034090
>tfw barely treatable rare stomach disorders will mean you're forever thin
>tfw can't handle the constant ass geyser, even if hungry skellington
>get severe panic attacks about symptoms and both prevent you from doing anything you want
>tfw too sick to work but apparently just too healthy to go on the dole

I don't want these feels

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:42:31 2013 No.7034151

>>7034120
>Who said walking alone. Find someone on your way.

>You don't need more eyes than your own to enjoy a work of art.

>Eating alone depends on the circumstances

You worry too much about the way you appear. It affects your self esteem. Loosen up, and stop being a pussy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:43:01 2013 No.7034159 >>7034099 In what world is that a good movie? I hate Lynch, though /tv/ sucks his dick, it seems like he just threw in random shit just to do it. Lets make them bald, lets give them retarded vocal weapon shits. Absolutely ruined the books

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:43:32 2013 No.7034155 >>7034133 things started going south for me before i left elementary school.

>>	OP Mon Oct 7 23:43:32 2013 No.7034157 >>7034120 Damn son.... Dinner for one tho...

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:45:31 2013 No.7034165 >>7034155 Which oddly makes me feel like even more of a fuccboi when I've had every advantage but still manage to be a piece of shit. You started at the bottom now your here

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:46:33 2013 No.7034170 File: 253 KB, 280x213, aHVZR4R.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7034145 lets fuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:49:31 2013 No.7034183 File: 71 KB, 256x247, 11.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7031187 >mfw this isn't a troll so this is what it's come to

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:53:20 2013 No.7034201 >>7034159 In a world where film matters and not just tidy little stories. >costuming >acting >atmosphere >effects Just because the story got mangled by the time frame doesn't mean it's not a good film

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:55:21 2013 No.7034210 >>7034201 forgot to call you a shithead. just pretend it's on at the end there

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:55:50 2013 No.7034213

>>7031187
yes

dedicating oneself to anything entails loneliness. music, art, craft, cars, bikes, whatever. especially fashion though, in terms of your relationship with society. youre turning yourself into an aesthetic object. this creates more distance between yourself and others, although you are ultimately more nice-looking. strange trade-off but i know which one i'd rather go with myself

also, this isn't necessarily true. of course there are counter-examples and 'fashion people' who have a wide and active social life, fulfilling relationship with a committed partner, etc.

Anonymous Mon Oct 7 23:58:21 2013 No.7034225
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>>7031902
>Work 12-9 five days a week
>Job is fairly physical so just want to eat something and go to sleep when I get home
>My days off are completely useless, tuesdays/sundays
>Have few friends
>Too tired to attend any social gatherings
>I feel like all I do is wait to go to work

Maybe one day I'll acquire a better job.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:01:20 2013 No.7034247
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>>7034149

damn son can't say I share that feelio. is there any chance. of recovery?

I guess apart from my jet engine 24/7 tinnitus I've got it relatively easy

we're all gonna make it nigs

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:10:22 2013 No.7034287

>>7034247
hahah I have hearing damage and asthma as well, I was told that it'd improve within 6 months but nope, it's been close to two years and it's got worse (but better managed) if anything. Diet is the only treatment but fucking reacting to random vegetables and stuff I thought were safe happens every other day, shits mad unpredicable.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:12:22 2013 No.7034292 File: 282 KB, 800x800, s.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7034170

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:22:52 2013 No.7034317 File: 479 KB, 500x281, niiiice.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7034292

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:28:39 2013 No.7034343 >>7032028 i have this grey and black tie die shirt with a pineapple printed on it and people ask me ALL the time why its just a pineapple on my shirt :-(

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:35:39 2013 No.7034367 this whole thread makes me depressed. :-(

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:40:39 2013 No.7034383
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>>7031187
this is fucking hilarious

i cant believe you aspie faggots isolate yourself from the world and then believe it's "le lonely fashion lifestyle"

get over it OP, youre just a fucking socially awkward freak, thats why you dont have friends

they probably think youre gay/going to shoot up the place too because youre quiet and you wear weird clothing ahahahahhaha

being a lonely aspie is not, nor will it ever be /fa/

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:46:38 2013 No.7034414 >>7031980 are you in my personality psych class?! Theirs this one guy/girl that no one can distinguish. Even my proff called him/her a "dude" once and everyone started laughing.... I think it's a girl :\|

>>	OP Tue Oct 8 00:47:08 2013 No.7034417 >>7034383 Fight me IRL. I'll wreck your ass

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:47:09 2013 No.7034416 >>7031187 hahaha what a bunch of loser fags . help me im lonely pls reply

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 00:50:39 2013 No.7034423 >>7031980 mannequin-chan?

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Anonymous Tue Oct 8 01:55:30 2013 No.7034732

>>7034133
That kind of happened to me, but luckily I was able to get some new friends in high school so at least I have them now. College has been weird though, I know practically no one. No gf either, even when all the girls want me. I'm just too autistic to be in a relationship.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 01:59:59 2013 No.7034755 >>7034383 Have you seen what the guys that actually shoot up schools wear though? It's criminal by /fa/ standards for the most part

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:14:19 2013 No.7036031

>party on the weekend
>low effort effay. dessert boots, jeans, long t.
>qt 9/10 im obsessed with is there
>getting complimented by a couple of friends saying how well I dress
>qt doesn't seem to care
>tfw shes pleb as fuck
>awkwardly try and flirt
>fail
>tfw she leaves early

>tfw you'll never meet an attractive gril that values fashion and music the way you do.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:24:20 2013 No.7036071 >tfw taking a class with people I don't know and quite nervous about it >3 weeks later able to talk about shit with almost the whole class and have fun Just be friendly or something I don't know.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:29:19 2013 No.7036086

I was really drunk last weekend and some girl at some point was talking to me for a while, and I kept on nodding and then she started kissing my face but I stayed still as a statue the whole time, staring off into space, and she walked away after trying for a few moments and I have no idea who she was and why I did that

maybe that's repressed homosexuality rather than loneliness I don't know.

>>	FranzKafka !UUKVbBBwvY Tue Oct 8 10:37:50 2013 No.7036108 >>7036086 I remember being invited to a halloween party last year and this drunk girl just came up and sat on my lap and just forced herself on me was I raped like you this is why i need feminism

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:41:49 2013 No.7036124

>>7036086

probably just really drunk m8

ive done shit like this before where qt girls have been trying to talk to me and shit and they obviously want the d but im too busy using full concentration just to stay standing up

so fucking mad afterwards that i was an idiot but cant do anything at the time

being really really drunk is definitely not /fa/

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:45:49 2013 No.7036133

>walking around uni this morning
>feeling shit
>notice that no girls are mirin
>no qt's
>start to think i look like shit
>maybe my fit is bad
>go home
>on way home see myself in window reflection
>i look pretty fucking sick
>notice like three or four girls mirin on way home
>feel better
>tfw no gf still haunts me though :(

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:46:19 2013 No.7036136

>that feel when too many lonely /fa/ feels to even start in on it
>awesome gf, except we're in a new town alone together and social shit is tough
>no mates
>can't make them at job, can't meet them just doing stuff
>pretty sure I'm not depressed or autistic
>may be Just Plain Weird
>just want some friends to smoke with and listen to electronic music cassettes
>also not sure where to go to get more /fa/ than H&Mshit but also not super fucking expensive

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:46:19 2013 No.7036137 >>7036031 at least you tried

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 10:48:39 2013 No.7036140 >>7036133 Be your own man, man. You look good and you know it better than them bitches.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:02:33 2013 No.7037328

>be last academic year
>wake up at 6pm errday
>roll a spliff
>wait until dark
>dress up as though going to a party so not to seem like a lonerfag
>walk around city smoking spliff by self, listening to bleeps and bloops until 4am
>come home
>sleep
>wake up at 6pm
>rinse, repeat

failed the year, redoing it now

stopped smoking weed on meds but clueless in life

am i gonna make it

>>	twerk it Tue Oct 8 15:04:00 2013 No.7037338 File: 351 KB, 640x352, vlcsnap-2013-09-17-14h09m16s50.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7037328 how do you make a single spliff last from nightfall until 4am

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:08:44 2013 No.7037362 >>7037338 He rolled it at nightfall and smoked it at 4 am :^) lol im such a nerd!

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:09:40 2013 No.7037369 >>7037328 i did this for a while at the end of last semester then my friends came home from uni and i had a pretty good summer now they are all away back to uni and i have no friends at my uni, so i am back to old depressing ways, shit sucks bro

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:14:12 2013 No.7037391 >>7037338 i'd smoke like 5 minutes of it, then get paranoid as fuck and hide it. walk around for a few hours, then smoke again. i get terrible anxiety when i smoke

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:15:43 2013 No.7037396 >>7037362 "smoking spliff [...] until 4am"

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:17:40 2013 No.7037402 >>7037391 just roll a couple of normal sized cigs with weed in them instead of a big one thats what i do, i hate walking around smoking though, id rather sit down somewhere and enjoy the high

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:27:39 2013 No.7037460
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>be 12th grade
>tram back home from school
>see qt from my old hischool going in
>panic
>quikly look for a spot to sit on,so we won't see eachother
>sit next to two old smelly poor guys
>she sees me,and sits in front of me
>we don't know eachtoher,but seen eachother alot in highschool,and exchanged looks ,her being in the class next to mine
>she looks at me
>feel intimidated
>look at her,then down
>take out my nokia 1100,play some snake for 1min or so
>she keeps looking at me,she recognized me
>feel ashemed
>get off tram 3 stations early,couldn't take it anymore
>almost running away from the tram...

pic related,its her

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:29:40 2013 No.7037481 >>7037460 So wheres the qt?

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Tue Oct 8 15:30:39 2013 No.7037487 >>7037460 http://vocaroo.com/i/s0olvC1nrqQc

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:34:39 2013 No.7037505 File: 146 KB, 721x960, 2.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7037481 In my heart >>7037487 t-t-thanks

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:36:13 2013 No.7037512 >>7037460 just say hello jeez

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:36:13 2013 No.7037514 >>7037328 You're not alone, I failed the year too.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:37:09 2013 No.7037520 >>7037505 you goofed bad i would destroy her

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 15:38:09 2013 No.7037521 >>7037487 You sound less pathetic than I thought you would

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 16:04:06 2013 No.7037700 >>7036031 I have but i fucked up

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 16:56:35 2013 No.7037977 >>7031280 >go to coffee shop to do homework I cant be the only one who thinks this is cringey as fuck

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:08:06 2013 No.7038043 >>7037977 no its lame as fuck

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:11:05 2013 No.7038059 >wait to meet a cool girl >finally meet one >realize its not that big of a deal >have sex >joy now what

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:14:06 2013 No.7038075 File: 28 KB, 660x357, nike-zoom-stefan-janoski-mid-nori-black-white(1).jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Are Nike Stefan Janoksis /fa/?

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:17:35 2013 No.7038092
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I like threads like this because they make me feel like less of a loser. I'm 18 right now and in my last year of sixth form in a terrible shithole of Southeast England. Literally no friends, even though I've never been the quiet or hated one nor in SH or secondary, in fact I'm quite outspoken and nice/polite/open towards others, I just find other perople so fucking boring. Everyone listens to some shitty music, dresses like shit, has no other interests that parties and who makes out with who, and I guess I'm fairly good at small talk but fuck - spending time with those people makes me even more miserable than I already am.
>tfw not a loner
>tfw people so shitty i prefer being on my own
>tfw being lonely makes me miserable
>tfw being around shitty/boring people from my town makes me even more miserable
>tfw parents judging all the fucking time for not going out
>tfw heard my brother the other day telling his gf that i'm autistic and never leave the house
>tfw parents tell their friends the same
>tfw feeling like a loser but also above them all at the same time
Thanks God I'm moving for uni to London next year

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:23:36 2013 No.7038123 >>7038092 Lel itll get worse

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:29:36 2013 No.7038157 >>7038075 I like them and I think people here recommended them a couple times. but like the low version

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:32:35 2013 No.7038182

>at home
>friend group is the shit, want to know these guys for the rest of my life
>go to college
>some cool people
>started to realize I don't really enjoy these people
>start only caring about being /fa/
>go home and don't care at all about dressing well
>tfw I browse /fa/ so I'm not lonely

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:33:35 2013 No.7038185 >>7031187 >people stare at me I know that feel bro, there's this chick who stares at me almost every single day, its uncomfortable as fuck, my female friends say that she likes me but idk, she haves a bf, a shits wierd

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:39:35 2013 No.7038225 >>7038123 Nah I've got few friends in London that I visit from time to time, so it won't be that bad.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:43:43 2013 No.7038252 >>7031780 ih shit, if this is true I have social anxiety too, I thought it was just me being shy or some shit like that

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:43:59 2013 No.7038255 >>7038185 iktf

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 17:47:28 2013 No.7038274 >>7032023 >tfw nobody even gives a shit how well I dress in my shitty country I know that feel bro

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:01:29 2013 No.7038360 >>7036031 yes I did and she told me to fuck off because she likes the same shit as I do, fuck the name Juliet always makes me feel, brb going to sob in a corner

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:07:58 2013 No.7038394

>>7038255
yeah, should I talk to her and expose my social anxiety, I mean, she looks nice and qt but people say she's a total bitch and that she haves two bf, I really want to fuck that petite ass but idk what to do, I'm more like an old school gentleman

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:08:00 2013 No.7038399 >>7038185 >people stare at me Holy shit I'll be at the bus stop and everyone that walks by literally eyes me down for a good 5 seconds I HATE IT

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:15:29 2013 No.7038425 >>7032692 because they always say I'm too skinny or give meaningless criticism without reason or recommendations It benefits me absolutely none bunch of fucking faggots, WAYWT threads are why I hate this fucking board

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:15:29 2013 No.7038429

>>7038399
>tfw in film class in university for a joke course
>tfw 9/10 qt gril, whos sorta /fa/ but doesn't really try, in class
>she's into me a little, smiles across the room and giggles at me when our eyes match
>tfw she is way too good for me and I will never have another chance like this again
>tfw I hook up with some 6/10 slut to try and forget about my predicament but I just end up getting a cold from her
>tfw I don't know what to say to 9/10 qt ever because I feel like she is leagues above me
>how 2 into talk 2 9/10 qt and marry her

I am pretty /fa/, not that good looking, but girls like me for some reason.
I'm really confident usually and never have trouble talking to grils other than this one what the heck is wrong with me /fa/

poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Tue Oct 8 18:16:00 2013 No.7038441

>>7038399
People WILL stare at you when you look good. You spend years getting your ooks and taste up to snuff, then worry when people can't stop looking?
Sheesh, It's like the calling card of your arrival, man. Enjoy it. It's like the sound of a thousand doors opening all at once.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:16:29 2013 No.7038437 >>7038399 yeah, it makes me feel ugly

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:17:00 2013 No.7038445 >>7038437 >I am pretty /fa/, not that good looking, but girls like me for some reason.I'm really confident usually and never have trouble talking to grils other than this one what the heck is wrong with me /fa/ ate you me?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:18:31 2013 No.7038450 >>7031205 >tfw this is what happens to me for ever midterm

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:19:00 2013 No.7038456 >>7038441 well, then, wat do? How to deal with my social anxiety? People say I'm a cool guy but idk

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:19:00 2013 No.7038458 >>7038445 maybe does your name start with J >>7038441 good point. It's mad annoying though. I usually just stare them down too. anyone got advice for my gril sitch? where's starfucks that niggas an expert

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:22:30 2013 No.7038481 >>7038458 nope, starts with E

poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Tue Oct 8 18:28:16 2013 No.7038511
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>>7038456
You gotta take that leap of faith, man. Start small if you want to ease out of your comfort zone. Sit next to the girl who stares at you, but just go about your life completely unassumingly and get the hang of being there. Bring a book, you know? You want to slowly grind the edges off of these tiny, essentially inconsequential social experiences that you're used to being terrified of... So you do it bit by bit.
Just put yourself out there, physically go places and sit places that make your heart race a little bit.
After a little while, those places and activities won't make your heart race any more. And so naturally, you'll step it up. Try new places and more interaction.

As you go about your life, you'll get a feeling for this electricity that sometimes sits in the air - it's the ghostly thread of an unspoken conversation. it's a conversational inroad, and I swear that over time you can just feel them, the empty words hanging there in the air. When the spirit moves you, when the energy is right, grab one of those threads, and begin talking to a stranger. If you look pretty good and they know it, you don't have to worry about justifying your incursion as much. You start the exchange with the upper hand, but you be yourself, and it all comes off as charmingly human and you find your world expanding.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:28:47 2013 No.7038516 >>7038481 not sure if you are also like me in the sense that there's a 9/10 qt driving you crazy, but if there is have you talked to her yet?

Young Sport !ZpMuvV2GSI Tue Oct 8 18:33:15 2013 No.7038544
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Is it effay to have literally no motivation to do anything unrelated to school? Plenty of friends I could hang with on any given day, but I'm just so lazy.

I don't really know why I have friends, I'm a funny guy, but weird and a cunt sometimes.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:35:15 2013 No.7038557 >>7031187 What's new groups are similar to Disclosure? I really like em but they're so popular that it makes me feel like a pleb listening to them and the disgust it gives me totally offsets the joy of listening to their music.

>>	Young Sport !ZpMuvV2GSI Tue Oct 8 18:40:45 2013 No.7038578 File: 67 KB, 465x428, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7038557 Oh wow. Sincerely hoping I just fell for some bait.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:44:46 2013 No.7038603 >>7038557 Just embrace your plebdom

>>	OP Tue Oct 8 18:45:17 2013 No.7038614 File: 30 KB, 600x800, BRN_bq7CcAAXARD.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Deathgrips and KyaryPamyuPamyu

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:48:45 2013 No.7038638 >>7038458 Just talk to her fuccboi

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:50:46 2013 No.7038649 >>7038516 well she's not driving me crazy but the fact that I could be making out with her without any effort makes me feel urged to make a move and get there >>7038511 thanks mate, that's a good advice

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:53:45 2013 No.7038675

>Go to party two weeks ago
>end up losing my V-card with the qt3.14 I liked sophomore year of HS and was too attractive to pull. Just sorta happened
>Easily one of the prettiest girls in all HS
>We're now dating. Sex twice this past weekend
>falling really hard

Thank you /fa/ I'm 100% sure that my confidence boost from you all played a huge factor.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:55:45 2013 No.7038690

>>7038649
Go for it dude then, I feel lucky for you, I wish I could do that. Always good to have an average looking or even below average /fa/ guy like me.

To the idiot that said "just talk to her" that's the problem. I have no problem talking to her but I don't know how to make a move because she's not like my usual grils who are really outgoing and in all honesty sorta airheadish.

She's quiet and keeps to herself, and just like makes subtle hints like giggles and always asking me questions about quizzes and stuff. She gave me the add on fb the other day the second it was made available (inb4 fuccboi) too. She's literally the type of girl I would marry which is why I don't want to just fuck and forget.

I have no experience with this type of gril
Pls respond

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:57:16 2013 No.7038704 >tfw shit overnight job >tfw estalk random girls ill never meet >wanna ask this chick out that works in a cd store(ill use this advice thanks poet>>7038511 >might get a new job that pays lots but ill be isolated in a camp

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 18:58:15 2013 No.7038708 File: 207 KB, 500x750, tumblr_mteuilKUdY1qemyj1o1_500.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032731 so you go through like a really bad stage and then it is really nice or something?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:02:45 2013 No.7038727 >>7038675 where are you from fuccboi >tfw paranoid that somebody could have fucked your oneitis

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:04:15 2013 No.7038744 >>7038727 Texas, if your name is Dylan. I never intended for this to happen.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Tue Oct 8 19:05:46 2013 No.7038749

>>7038185
girls are hypergamous by nature. i say that a lot, and it probably sounds like i'm trying to force some crazy theory, but i just think it's important to understand.

being hypergamous means she will be constantly looking for a better situation, better man, etc.
it is very common for girls to know their next BF before leaving their current one. they'll stay with a guy they are tired of because they'd rather have somebody over nobody. they don't want to risk being alone.

you say "she has a BF" as if that will stop her from being interested in you, but it doesn't. it doesn't really mean much.
all it would mean to me is if we had sex i would never date her seriously, seeing as how she's proven she is a cheater.
funny how that works.

if your girl friends say she likes you, they may actually know what they're talking about. at the same time, if they are talking to her about you (do not ask them about this) you aren't in that great of a position because she is already catching beta vibes by not being able to step up and make a move.

you can't lose by making a move, so do it.
talk to her, get her number, ask her "what night are you free to grab drinks" and then grab some drinks. if she says no, so what? that's experience, and it's what poet was talking about with going out of your comfort zone.

just consider what i said about her flirting with you while she has a BF. very high odds she'd do the same to you, so if you are interested in her seriously (which you probably are for already caring this much), it's best to forget about her.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:05:46 2013 No.7038753
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>>7038511
dude poet whenever i talk to a girl it goes pretty good or ok about the topic, but then it dries up within a few minutes and im just like fuck

i cant tell if it is that i am boring or something or what.

also i am find with walking with someone and not talking

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:06:15 2013 No.7038760 >>7038744 EU here, phew But I might feel like it's going to happen soon to her if I stay too passive >tfw

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:07:15 2013 No.7038765 >>7038749 >>7038753

>>	JUICY J Tue Oct 8 19:07:16 2013 No.7038766 >>7038753 youre boring

poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Tue Oct 8 19:07:16 2013 No.7038769

>>7038753
Remember that every word they say is something you can ask them about to extend the convo, and every other word they say after that is another potential extension and so on. You also keep weaving fragments of your own experience into the convo in such a way as to relate your experiences to theirs. This builds a bond, over time.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:08:16 2013 No.7038773

>>7038690
yeah, I'm usually shy in the beginning but when I feel comfortable with someone I get pretty outgoing but she's just like me, so there's like no chance to know each other unless we're forced to or we have to work together or something like that, I hang ou with her friends tho but she's like a big rocket launcher and I'm just a shotgun

>100 internets to the anon who guess where I got that phrase from

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:08:16 2013 No.7038778 >>7038749 Wow thanks for responding to min, I even calle you out cause I know you're good dude

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:12:51 2013 No.7038797

>>7038749
>she is a cheater
are you a wizard? There are rumors that she haves two bfs, and yes, I'm not really into her but as I said before I just want to guck her, she's qt and hot but as a gf she's really not that good, thanks mate, you're a scholar and a gentleman

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:18:50 2013 No.7038820

>>7038749
>tfw not sure if she likes you
>tfw you catch her looking often at you
>tfw you thought she was into you but then you hear that some skinny manlet who wears hollister etc. (you know the type) started dating her
>tfw dying on the inside as you hear that
>tfw self worth destroyed without having approached her at all

is it too late?

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Tue Oct 8 19:21:37 2013 No.7038834

>>7038675
>falling really hard
careful, sounds like you are getting into unsafe territory.

i'm being completely serious about this, and my warning is from personal experiences and reading/witnessing so many similar stories.

catching feelings quickly is a recipe for disaster.
obviously you don't have experience with this since you lost your virginity to her, and the infatuation you're gonna feel towards her is natural, but you need to avoid it at all costs.

you need to make sure she is not a big part of your life. there is no reason for her to be, and this pretty much goes for any sexual/love interest forever.

the problem with being young and in "love" is you're gonna start spending way too much time with this girl, whether it's talking, or just hanging out.
she's gonna become your best friend, maybe even only friend, and soon your whole life will revolve around her.
you'll end up making (too many) sacrifices for her all the time, and slowly giving up your power.

once you start to get feelings they don't build slowly, they increase quickly.
it may feel like it's right, right now,but the issue is how much your life will be affected once it's over. don't be the idiot who pretends like his relationship will never end, because it will. may be in two months, maybe in two years, but it will end.
if you give a girl everything, you lose everything.
it may seem depressing and negative, but it's true.
if you make her your life, you have nothing to fall back on when she is out of yours.

relationships can be great, but the key to a good relationship is distance. not in miles, but in time spent apart.
if you're the type of guy who is sitting around counting the seconds until you see her again, you are going to have problems.

i could type a whole lot more about relationship dynamics and why women lose respect for men when they start handing them everything they ask for and being fully available, but i have other stuff to do soon. plus this post is long as fuck already.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:22:37 2013 No.7038838 >>7038511 poet is a fuckin trill nigga I started doing this and taking care of my appearance. Drastic life improvement.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:22:37 2013 No.7038839 >>7038820 why I can't hold all these feels? I've been there mate, you can only wait and see what happens but, sorry to tell you this but, it might not happen again, but hang in there buddy

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Tue Oct 8 19:23:06 2013 No.7038851

>>7038834
to emphasize the main point: a girl should not be a big part of your life. it's your personal success, money, school, hobbies, and then her.

if you are a bored and/or lonely person when she isn't around, you need to find something else to relieve your boredom.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Tue Oct 8 19:27:07 2013 No.7038871

>>7038820
if she was interested in you it doesn't mean she's gonna wait for you.
that's why you can't wait around.

>tfw self worth destroyed without having approached her at all
ok, so learn from that. stop being a pathetic piece of shit and waiting around. that lame as fuck hollister guy just beat you.

is it too late?
hard to know, but what i do know is you shouldn't hold out for her. that's pathetic. go find some other girl. maybe down the road you can get with this one but waiting is never the way to go.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:27:36 2013 No.7038868

>>7038839
It was last saturday bro
>Go to a party, feelin' confident (/fa/, /fit/, /lit/, basically full self-improvement mode to finally escape no-gf status)
>some friends of mine points out that an acquaintance of theirs was dating a girl they were seeing at the party
>start worrying, ask which girl and hope that it's not her
>it's her
>feel like shit for the rest of the night and fall into depression for the following days

and here I am

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:27:36 2013 No.7038870

kinda late to the thread but

>be just like OP
>gradually stop caring about what random people think about me
>care less and less but still well dressed and groomed somewhat (basic bitchish)
>start having more friends
>get gf
>smiling a lot more now

This happened within the course of like 2-3 years. Moral of the story, don't give a shit. The world is a big place, OP. Life is going to feel wayyy longer if you think like you do. Just cool down. Instead of sitting in class silently by yourself sweating because anxiety, say hi to someone and ask how they did on that midterm.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:29:36 2013 No.7038882 >>7038871 thanks I currently feel like I've wasted 3 years of my life with oneitis but I guess I'll learn from this mistake and move on

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Tue Oct 8 19:32:37 2013 No.7038892 >>7038882 >but I guess stop. don't guess, accept it. there is nothing positive about oneitis. it's like being blind. anyway, i gotta go but i'll most likely be back in like five or six hours.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:33:37 2013 No.7038899

>>7038399

>dress nice
>get upset when people look

god damnit these are the autists that have taken over this board?

This is why you work on confidence first. Buying a bunch of nice clothes at once and just wearing them doesn't work, you just look like you're overcompensating then.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:44:06 2013 No.7038962 File: 32 KB, 558x480, why+do+you+make+me+feel+this+_c6cf159840bff672994a2e9c6bfea0f7.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7032256 I feel you so hard. Just lost like 30 lbs. Got new clothes, still think i look like a monster

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:48:37 2013 No.7038985 girls all of a sudden are talkign to me now which is pretty cool wud any of u fuk a kinda chubby chick witha pretty face? i kno she wants the d she compliments my outfit everyday and is real flirty

>>	JUICY J Tue Oct 8 19:49:54 2013 No.7038996 >>7038985 fuck her until she get skinny

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:51:24 2013 No.7039005 >>7038996 ayye but what if she want relation ship tho like what if i have to date her for likea fewq weeks b4 that is it worth i can make her pay 4 my shit rite >>7038985

>>	ok Tue Oct 8 19:52:23 2013 No.7039015 File: 340 KB, 762x1982, 1367984333606.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] is 5'10 155 lbs fat? ;_;

>>	JUICY J Tue Oct 8 19:53:54 2013 No.7039024 >>7039005 if she paying then go for it just cuz u tell her u dating her, doesnt mean u need 2 tell anyone else u dating her. u feel me

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:55:55 2013 No.7039040 >>7039015 im that motherfucking squid

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:56:53 2013 No.7039045 >>7039024 who,the ruck tells everybody he's dating someone, that's so elementary school

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:58:54 2013 No.7039055

>>7039024
but what if she tells ppl

idk if i wnat a relationship
but i wanna fuk

but idk if its like okay to fakk a girl

like im nto to attached to her or really wanna date her but if i can fuk its okay i just donmt know if the relationship is worhtt he fuck for a girl i dont relaly care all 2 mcuhf or

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 19:59:24 2013 No.7039059 >>7039015 it'd be better if the squid was decked out in rick

>>	ok Tue Oct 8 19:59:24 2013 No.7039060 >>7039040 i like to compare that picture to opiates opiates being dry land

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:00:53 2013 No.7039066 >>7039055 and also what if she dotn pay for all my stuff but id otn ahev to pay for all ehr stuff

>>	JUICY J Tue Oct 8 20:03:24 2013 No.7039075 >>7039055 yo who gives a fuck, stay a virgin then >stressing over a fat chick top haha

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:04:54 2013 No.7039080 >>7039075 help me niigga tell me if its worth

>>	JUICY J Tue Oct 8 20:05:54 2013 No.7039085 >>7039080 if u a virgin, yes if u not, then no or just buy a hooker

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:06:54 2013 No.7039091 >>7039066 nigger jew detected

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:09:53 2013 No.7039101 >>7039085 aight then i might have 2 pipe cuz ima lozer virgan

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:12:55 2013 No.7039113 >>7031900 that word is fucking stupid, go fuck yourself

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:14:40 2013 No.7039124 >>7031887 I'm not the same with girls, but I don't know why I do this to people

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:16:11 2013 No.7039134 >>7031935 #noided I think everyone on /fa/ is like that though

2phat2stap Tue Oct 8 20:37:12 2013 No.7039213
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>>7038092
I feel you so much, man.
People in this school (HS in america) are so fucking immature and just so lame. I can't wait to go off to university and meet a wt2.14 art major with black hair who wears red lipstick and dresses in sheer black dress and listens to shoegaze.

hang in there bro

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:48:42 2013 No.7039251 >>7038429 just fucking say hello

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:49:13 2013 No.7039252 >>7034159 >I hate Lynch How do you hate Lynch? Dune was pretty shitty but Twin Peaks was awesome till the second half of season 2

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:51:13 2013 No.7039260 >>7039251 I talk to her all the time dude. I don't know how to actually make a move though on a quiet gril who keeps to herself.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:53:13 2013 No.7039265 >>7039260 ''want to get coffee sometimes?'' or something similar, just ask her out.l

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:53:43 2013 No.7039268 >>7039265 I gotta wife this shit man, weak coffee lines don't fly for me

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 20:54:13 2013 No.7039276 >>7039268 You just gotta start somewhere, then the other day bring her on an actual date. Jumping steps wont bring you nowhere especially if she's shy.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:02:12 2013 No.7039302

Anyone wanna try to explain this one to me?

When I meet new people I feel like I act really weird and awkward, and I know I stumble over my words. But people always love me for some reason and end up keep talking to me

eventually I get comfortable and I can talk and play around with them easily.

This really does happen constantly to me. Every year I get at least one new class with almost all strangers, and they end up loving me. Because of it Im quite popular.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:05:42 2013 No.7039309 >>7039302 You the nice guy They don't feel threatened by you because u got nothing special going on >FYI your not handsome or interesting

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:06:42 2013 No.7039315 >>7039309 or it could be taht he is handsome and interesting and people like him because of that idk

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:09:13 2013 No.7039324 >>7039315 Cause handsome people get loved by everyone and its easy opening up to them

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:12:13 2013 No.7039335 >>7039324 i like talking to handsome people more than unattractive people i guess average people are easier. >tfw a lot of people like me shit i guess i am not attractive

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:12:42 2013 No.7039331

>>7039309
honestly I am pretty handsome. I used to catch girls looking at me all the time when my hair was longer, now not quite as much, but still every once and a while.

I don't really know if Im interesting, maybe sometimes but not really when I meet someone new.

But you got me on being a nice guy, I smile a lot and try to come off as a nice dude.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:18:36 2013 No.7039355
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>>7039331
>"I'm good looking"
>no pic
>lel
Joking joking don't take out your broken Nokia phone that got dropped in the ocean or some shit
But being "attractive"(having/being something/someone ppl jelly of) have to mean some people disliking you
4example berry
So many Anons shit on her when she posts

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:19:36 2013 No.7039359 >tfw you slowly realize you have no close friends >tfw you know you're going to spend your whole life alone

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:23:36 2013 No.7039373 >>7039355 Is she attractive? I think she looks pretty wierd

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:23:36 2013 No.7039377

>>7039276
That's the thing I don't know if she's shy either... she's really /fa/ in her demeanor but really cute at the same time, like innocent. I feel bad calling her "hot" because I feel like it's putting her down.
I've also never actually been on a real date really, I hate to sound like a beta pussy because I'm not one but I'd be scared to fuck it up. What does one do on a real date?

>mfw i'm intimidated by a gril
>mfw I know that everyone in the class is in to her but I know she is at least somewhat into me

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:25:36 2013 No.7039381 >>7039355 would fuck and forget

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:26:36 2013 No.7039388 >>7039355 You never say your handsome then put up a pic. It makes everyone automatically want to shit all over you.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:26:37 2013 No.7039389 >>7039377 that's why you ask her for coffee first, put her in her comfort zone so you can get what she is like. and idk, go eat, go watch a movie, whatever, make it memorable by doing a little walk afterwards, make her laugh, its pretty simple really.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:29:37 2013 No.7039395 >>7039377 I don't like girls who are too /fa/ and in uni It means their mind is somewhere else Ugg bitches all the way

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:32:37 2013 No.7039402

>>7039389
fuck man I'm so bad at this
I usually just chill with a girl and hook up lol
Or get drunk and hook up

Whatever thanks for the help mate. Any tips to not come off as just a jocklike dick? I hate to float my own boat but I sort of have a really interesting life and when people ask me what I do I end up talking about it non-stop because it's interesting and I love it so much. I want to make sure it's more about her, and don't want to come off as selfish, because I'm not

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:35:20 2013 No.7039406 >>7039402 Don't speak too much, ask her questions to keep the conversation flowing and listen/act like you're interested. Reply jokingly. NEVER say anything condecending.

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:35:20 2013 No.7039408

>>7039395
she's not that /fa/ in the way she dresses, she's sorta basic. When I say she's /fa/, it's in the way she acts. When you first look at her she looks sort of confident strong silent type, but then you'll see this really cute innocent gril at some points, I can't fucking read it.

ps - i love ugg bitches too but it's time to move on I literally wanna hang myself when I talk to them

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 21:55:53 2013 No.7039492 >>7039015 nope, i weigh that much and I'm pretty skinny. Height and Weight really doesn't mean that much. It's mostly BF%

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 22:13:10 2013 No.7039570 >>7039355 hmm like no one really dislikes me that much, but like i guess not many people know me that much so yeah

Anonymous Tue Oct 8 22:29:13 2013 No.7039643
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>at party
>feel pretty fly in my fit
>start flirting with a qt 3.14
>going well
>she compliments me on my fit
>really likes my rick jacket
>how much did it cost you?
>"um...like around $450 i think"
>she looks surprised
>asks how much my MMMs were
>$350
>she gives me a shocked look
>"anon, how can you afford this stuff?"
>"i dont know"
>"no, really anon?"
>i said it must be cos a nigga got dough
>extraordinary swag and a mouthful of gold
>hoes at my shows they be taking off their clothes
>and them college girls write a nigga name on they toes

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 8 22:31:13 2013 No.7039652 >>7039643 6/10

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 00:26:27 2013 No.7040171 >>7031187 >field recordings Good taste. You have a RYM by any chance?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 00:34:29 2013 No.7040215 >>7034120 watch Un Homme Qui Dorte

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 04:55:10 2013 No.7041047 >>7038511 >tfw the first time you see someone else with the same book after about a year of doing pretty much this and you just start talking I mean, nothing came out of it after that, but the experience itself was pretty great.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 05:23:55 2013 No.7041102 >>7039015 I'm crying now thanks

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 05:58:04 2013 No.7041185 Need more stories about anons having qt3.14s coming up and talking to them

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