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>go to uni as a freshman last September
>dad gives me a credit card and fills it with cash
>"This is for food, groceries and gas anon, remember that."
>also gives like 1K a month there afterwards
>proceed to spend literally hundreds upon hundreds on new threads, even buying 2 pairs of Balmain jeans
>do this until now because
>dad calls me today
>I answer
>dad: "so, how's your bank and cash doing..? everything okay? you're just using it for gas and groceries right?"
>me: "um yeah, it's fine."
>dad: "that's weird, because I just looked up your bank statement online."
>me: *heart drops*
>dad: "and it looks to me that you've been going to Morton's, buying things from Neiman Marcus almost every weekend, and go out to lunch practically everyday.."
>me: *scramble for excuse* "Um, yeah I try to re-sell things I find on sale to make money."
>dad: "no money has been put into the account besides mine. and some of these things are ridiculous, why was a Bloomingdales purchase over 1000 dollars? how would you make money on that?"
>me: "im still trying to sell it, it will make money."
>dad: "this was last November, you probably can't return it. you must sell these things, no more blowing money. i know you're lying to me but at least try to make some money back, when you get home we will talk more."
>me "a-alright, i'll talk to you later.."
HOLD ME /fa/.

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>>6111194
lol fag

>> No.6111204

>spends fathers money on clothes
>wants sympathy

Fuck you

>> No.6111205

u dun goofed. I bet you dont even wear half that shit

>> No.6111210

>>6111194

Wear your most expensive outfit when you go see your dad.

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Op confirmed for faggot who doesn't have any respect for their dad.

>> No.6111214

ur fucked
how much money r you out?

>> No.6111233

>Having to rely on your parents

>> No.6111235

Lol noob. I did the exact same thing but I got my money in cashback at the market. All the statement says is 'Ralph's.' Why would you do any of that if you're not the sole person on the account? Dumbass....

>> No.6111239

>>6111194
You deserve this.

>> No.6111240

at least u got some balmain bikers homie

what else u copped?

>> No.6111241

This is how goofninjas treat their family. It's pathetic, really. Their morals are as keen as their fashion sense.

>> No.6111254

>>6111194
You are a dip shit for stealing your dad's money. You are going to be the last successful person on this board because you cannot differentiate between needs and wants. If you were my son/daughter, I would stop putting money into the account or stop paying your college tuition because you are clearly not responsible enough to be living on your own. You would be back at home working some shitty minimum wage job repaying what you have taken out of my pocket on your gay-ass, overly priced clothes.

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You're dad probably knew you would spend it on bullshit.

This is a father teaching his son about money management. Seeing if you can be responsible.

Now he knows you're an irresponsible fuck up.

Congratulations faggot, you failed, and disappointed your father.

Hope you learned your fucking lesson.

I hope you feel like shit every time you wear those stupid cloths you don't look good in, or look at whatever useless item you bought.

>> No.6111271

>>6111241
how do you know he's a ninja?

>> No.6111276

he gave you everything you needed man
no offense but you're fucked up

>> No.6111278

>>6111194

i was in a similar situation to you OP, (relying on parents money , whilst away at uni)

but i went by a personal rule, any money i EARNT i spent it on whatever the fuck i wanted, anything given was used the way it was intended to.

you're a dick OP.

>> No.6111281

At least he didn't just make u start funding urself.

>> No.6111282

Your dad is obviously an inferior plebe who doesn't even know what Balmains are.

You should figure out his sizes and cop him a sick fit and surprise him with it when you get home.

>> No.6111295

dude ur still alive after spending 1k of ur dadds cash

come on now u must be some privileaged shit

"we will talk more later" is THAT ALL?

1000 dollar fucking jeans and thats all he says

I BET ur dad is actually gay and u have two dads and this dad is the soft one, prob bald and fat and likes receiving

ur dads boyfriend is big and manly and despises u and is gonna kick ur butt when u get home

>> No.6111312

>>6111194
you're such a piece of shit

>> No.6111324
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>>6111194
How many siblings do you have, OP?
I ask because this is a standard 'test' for money management skills with upper middle class parental units - they give a child access to money, see how they spend it and write the will accordingly.
If you don't have any siblings, congratulations, it's all your money unless you REALLY fuck up, but it might get titrated to you on a monthly basis by some sort of a trust fund.

Here's the thing, OP - You shouldn't be freaking out. What you SHOULD be doing is preparing yourself to tell your father the absolute truth about everything, including a detailed analysis of your own motives in spending the way you did. You need to take this head on, eat the responsibility AND the concordant punishments. Your best bet at this point is 100% honesty and heartfelt remorse. If you are incapable of that, then get to work and find some way to make that money back.

You need to show up at your father's house with one of two things in your hand: Your hat, or an envelope full of Benjamins. This is your future we're talking about, after all. Come through on this one and you'll retain his respect. If you've got a silver tongue, you might even come out of it all better off than you expected.
But above all, do not lie to the man - he's not stupid and he can probably read your tells better than you suspect.

>> No.6111323

>>6111278
Yeah, I try to do a similar thing.

Not just not being as dick either. Helps you balance budgets etc. too. They're clichéd skills but spastic rich babies like OP are what makes them stand out

>> No.6111328

>>6111295
>1k
>a lot of money

>> No.6111344

>1k a month plus a credit card
jesus fucking christ kill yourself nigger faggot trustfund bitch nigger cunt whore fat fuck we dont care about how hard you must live now

>> No.6111359 [DELETED] 

>>6111194
Wow, my dad would castrate me if I spent any of his money and say it's for my own good because kids will only ruin my life. He only makes £4400 ($6800) a year though so he'd have more feels about me spunkin his money away. You sound really ungrateful btw, I had to take a gap year this year so I could help my parents financially and have some money for university, with the grant I get on top of my living cost lone I will have enough to live but I still want to get a part time job when I'm studying so that I can afford to go out and have luxuries like cinema, gym membership, clothes and nights out...

>Brb, crying because I'm poor

>> No.6111367

>1k a month + a full credit card
>not living of off €450,- a month including rent, food and school
Stay privileged

>> No.6111369

The Lelders story. Revamped with a Father figure/

>> No.6111378 [DELETED] 

>>6111359
loan* btw I will be spending a lot of money on a holiday, two music festival tickets and getting pissed every weekend before uni incase you're wondering where a lot of this years money goes.. but hey, everyone is entitled to a life

>> No.6111387

wow that's almost as sad as this chick I knew who ended up spending over $5k of her parents money on blow in less than a school year.

almost.

>> No.6111388

>>6111378
>>6111359
are we supposed to feel sorry for you? no one gives a shit stop looking for attention on here.

>> No.6111428

>>6111367

uh being priveliged is a good thing dumbass, you can buy more clothes that way

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>mfw OP's dad is also goobie ninja

>> No.6111490

>>6111367
i know that exact feel

>> No.6111795

>>6111202
>>6111204
>>6111205
>>6111210
>>6111213
>>6111233
>>6111239
>>6111241
>>6111254
>>6111264
>>6111276
>>6111278
>>6111295
>>6111312
>>6111344
>>6111367
>>6111387
I know I fucked up real bad and I honestly do feel like a dick now. I'll be back home in about a month, school ends soon, so when I go back home I'm going to get a job and pay him back. The thing is though during these past couple of months I was just careless since nothing was happening, but now that I've been confronted I feel like a faggot..
>>6111324
No siblings, but a shit tons of cousins... But should I just be real with him?

>> No.6111903

>>6111194
well op youre a freshmen since 8 months ago and imo i think its alright to fuck up - thats what college is for

yeah you prob. disappointed your dad but the fact you feel some regret instead of still taking him for granted means you still have ground to be responsible, and you can show that through academics in the upcoming years. so dont sweat too much. a lot of people, including myself, went crazy with cash during college after being deprived in high school

now if you were a senior... different story

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>>6111795
YES!
He will appreciate it and you owe it to him.
Don't attempt to justify your actions, but explain to him why thought what you were doing was a good idea at the time, and why you realize it was a bad one in retrospect. Offer reparations. Think about the big picture.
If you do this with the least bit of grace, you'll leave him with the impression that you learned a valuable lesson, and he might consider that worth the price of admission.
Remember, big picture. I'm assuming, of course, that he has money you would like to possess when he is gone from this plane.

>> No.6111945

>>6111194
He gave you the money. Tell him to fuck off.

>> No.6111974

Confess and apologize

>> No.6111968

>>6111194
Hi OP my name is Hassan Malek I just read your story and I want to help you, I am right now at the university in Paris I am there as a student in engineering. I love really much fashion and it is a passion, but I don't have enough money to buy things new. I don't waste my money on expensive stuff it is just because life oversea is more expensive and also I work full time, so I have an offer for you.

I don't look for money my friend, I just want to explain my situation and making contact. I have friends in america that send me sometime clothing pieces they don't need or when they have it in double, I am willing to buy your stuff!

My wardrobe is in majority in designer pieces and I like brands like Versace, Givenchy or Armani. If you recognize this love for designer clothes and relate to my story we can discuss

Thank you

>> No.6111970

OP confirmed for fuccboi

My dad doesn't give any fucks about me spending thousands on clothes. He even gave me my own saks fifth avenue card with my name on it. Get on my level fuccboi

>> No.6111980

>>6111295
What the fuck am I reading.

>> No.6111981

>>6111970
>saks fifth avenue

1/10

>> No.6111997

>>6111968
lol

>> No.6112013

OP if u want advice you should call ur pops back and sincerely apologize and tell him what u told us

you will feel better and he will feel better.

still need to get that job/ sell those clothes back and pay back ur pops

>> No.6112014

>>6111194
spoiler: rich-spoiled fag lies to dad.
Dad doesn't do anything.
the end

>> No.6112024

goodbye trust fund.

>> No.6112039

Go outside and cut me a switch boy.

>> No.6112048

but daaaaaddd i need those clothes for peer approval. if i don't keep up in the latest trends, susie beckman won't let me sit with everyone at the cool kid's table!

>> No.6112068

>>6111194

Do the world a favor and kill yourself.

Fucking cretin.

>> No.6112075

>1k a month

You fucking shit. When I was at uni my weekly budget was £30.

Thank fuck I was at art school, you can get away with the sort of wardrobe £30/week gets you

>> No.6112110

>>6111795
You've blown thousands of his hard earned dollars and you're thinking you'll pay him back by working for a few weeks at a lemonade stand or some shit?

You are truly what's wrong with the world. I genuinely hope you don't make it into adulthood.

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This just in, trust funder gets trust busted! Justice is restored!

>> No.6112145

>>6112110
No man, I'll be back home for a solid three months, but a buddy who didn't end up going to college works at Nordstrom so I can try and get a job there. If not I'll contact another friend of mine who's dad owns a construction business and I'll do that, I remember during the summers most of my friends would work for him.

>> No.6112155

>>6112145
You'll likely earn more money in construction and there's always a chance you could get paid in cash.

>> No.6112256

Not as bad as me op;

>buying #sick cops on ebay
>find out about buy now pay later paypal (billmelater)
>apply for it
>qualify
>spend over $17,600 on bottoms alone in 3 months
>39% APR


I'm pretty fucked into 2099

>> No.6112270

You are such a piece of shit, I would never do this to my parents.

>> No.6112291

>>6112256
>Fucking with debt on luxury items.
Deep hole man...

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How in hell can anyone fall for this.

>> No.6112378

>>6112324
How is this..? Like what?

>> No.6112453

man op... that's why im gonna get a job over the summer before I start uni so I have a bit of my own money to spend on whatever i want

didn't you feel bad spending that much money that wasn't yours on luxury?

>> No.6112493

>>6112256
are you actually retarded?

>> No.6112540

>>6112256
honestly just curious, but what was your thought process here

>> No.6112561

>>6112256
Great job m8

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>>6111970

hi lavish. how's the blog going?

>> No.6112686

>>6112324
it's an interesting scenario to shoot the shit about, even if it is just shitthatneverhappened.txt

>> No.6112740

>>6112665
>#richkidsofinstagram

>> No.6112748

>>6112665
I seriously wish I had that Virgil gif from the newer DMC game. FUCK!

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>>6111945
>being this much of an asshole

>> No.6112762

>>6111968
U fucking wot?

>> No.6112767

>>6111968
praying this is real

>> No.6112773

>>6111241
>buying at neiman marcus
>being goofninja

pick one

>> No.6112796

>>6112773
>>6112767
>>6112762
>>6112760
/fa/'s greatest pussies.

>> No.6112819

>>6111194
OP has never worked a day in his life. Seriously no one in the right mind buys fucking balmain denim with there own money.

>> No.6112820

>>6112817
oh

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>>6111970
bahahaha
>thinking saks is fashionable at all
stay pleb son

on the other hand, my father gave me a Barneys card. Feels good to get that Saint Laurent and Balenciaga in Boston.

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>>6112796
lmao

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>>6112256
my sides just ran away

holy shit hurts

somebody help me

>> No.6112862

I spent $100 of my father's money on a Laserdisc collection.

>> No.6112867

Fucker, you're supposed to buy nothing for the first few months to gauge how much money you actually need per month, then use the rest on stuff you want.

Do you even fucking basic stats?

>> No.6112919

idk op, its pretty gay you spent your dads money on clothes and shit, if you weren't spending 1000 a month and were a decent person you would let him know he doesn't need to spend this much. On the other hand, if you could still eat and drive your car while spending money on clothes, you're just kind of irresponsible, and atleast you didn't ask your dad to give your extra money.

tl,dr you're a trust fund faggot kid, but this kind of shit is average trust fund faggot kid behaviour, not surprised

>> No.6112926

>go to college
>parents are supportive
>give me $300 a month +tuition
>getting all As
>parents stop giving me money
>they stop paying tuition
>I graduate a year and a half later, with a 3.5 gpa
>they give me a bill for all the money they gave me
>have to give my parents half of my pay check every time i get paid
>i am waiting for them to die, and i hope it's soon.

>> No.6112974

>>6112926
Sucks to hear man hopefully they housed and fed you if anything

>> No.6113018

lol the most i've ever cheated from my parents was a 15 dollar asos shirt and an american apparel tank

my parents would fucking kill me if I bought biker jawnz holy shet

>> No.6113027

>>6112974
i moved to another fucking state.
now that i moved back after i graduate they can't see me without acting like some crazed landlord, screaming:
"GOT ANY MONEY FOR ME?"

such absolute bullshit, and depressing as fuck for lots of reasons.

>> No.6113030

>>6113018

My parents would scold me for buying a pair of $50 jeans with my own money.

>> No.6113044

>>6112926
I will never understand a parental mentality like that. Were you an accident? Did they not want kids?

The family unit is fucked up and alienated. There's no pooling of resources. You're making your progeny go out into the world starting from scratch and not making any headway. Maybe it's just how I see Americans from a foreign family perspective, but it's so cloistered and selfish.

My dad was getting major financial assistance from his parents when he was getting his PhD. Now he's well-off and supports them, while they support him back when they can. My parents helped me finish my bachelor's degree with $0 debt (but I had a scholarship), and will get some degree of support through my PhD. They've never led me to believe that I owed them anything, but I wouldn't hesitate supporting them when they need it. I'd never expect my kid to pay me back after I made him come into existence (as long as he isn't fucking up severely). Seems like a good way to alienate him and ensure we have a terrible relationship.

>> No.6113056

>>6113044

Well, those are the parents that will probably end up in some senior housing and never see their children ever again.

>> No.6113060

>>6113027
Please don't act like that when/if you have kids. It's a fucked up attitude that has nothing to do with "building dat boi's character and self-rehlayanance."

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>mfw this thread

thread of the month on /fa/

>> No.6113101

>>6113027
jesus what the fuck. tell them you're not paying anymore because they're cunts. if they threaten suit tell them to fuck off; you never signed a contract.

>>6112256
i'm with this guy
>>6112540
what was going through your head?

>> No.6113107

>>6111795
>I'm going to get a job and pay back
lol, have fun working a 2 years at some dead end mininum wage job just to make back the money you spent.

You are the definition of privelleged

>> No.6113121

>>6113044
my parents are just classless people. yes, i was an accident, and the reason they got married.
yet they never divorced, and my whole life i got to listen to them fight about the stupidest shit, day in and day out.

when i was younger i hated my mom for always yelling at my dad for no reason, but now that i'm older i hate my dad for allowing her to get away with it.

he is a bitch of a man, who has wasted and spent more money than he can ever earn, and he lets his obese wife walk all over him, and spend even more money.

>>6113056
don't worry. i'd cut my testicles out, BME Pain Olympics style, before having a kid.
i fuck with a condom, and pull out. even when the girl is on the pill.

>> No.6113146

>>6111194

Lol that's how it is for almost every freshman with rich parents.

I'm a Junior now and I can't believe how much money I spent on drugs, clothes, and food my first year of college.

Now my parents are like YOU'VE HAD YOUR FUN NOW ITS TIME TO BE POOR.

So they only give me a $100 a week. The rest I have to improvise. Kinda glad now though cause I learned to ration and be frugal.

>> No.6113152

>>6113044
Dude, same here. Coming from Puerto Rico (yes, I pretty much live like a spanish speaking uuhmerican, i.e., resources, sophistication, etc.), the culture is still very much Spanish, yeah, Spain-like. When I hear these US kids talking about having to pay for college or their uni debts by themselves it just seems so bizarre. I'm not rich, but my parent will pay for everything I need until I actually get a good paying job, even if it means that they may go through rough times. What's the point in having kids if you're just gonna start cutting the monetary funds when they need it the most? (University, getting a starter home before starting a full-time well-paying job, etc.) Yeah, it's really fucking selfish.

>> No.6113158

>>6113152
parents*

>> No.6113160

>>6113146
$100 is really not bad.
i could live off $4 a day, and that included getting drunk every night.

>> No.6113171

What the fuck was your dad expecting you to spend that kind of money on? Why did he wait a year to look at your bank statement?

Yeah you're dumb for blowing it all like that, but most freshmen college students would have done the same thing just on beer and drugs. Your dad had no business giving you that kind of money, without you specifically requesting it, and without checking up on you more often. Dumbness runs in your family.

>> No.6113176

>>6113160
stealing shit doesn't count

>> No.6113184

>>6113121
damn, if I were suddenly put in your position after having the life experiences that I've been through and the knowledge of what a loving, smart, sophisticated family is, i'd literally kill myself.

>> No.6113199

>>6113160
>drinking shit alcohol

plen

>> No.6113215

>>6113121
Your dad is a beta bitch and he's probably less mad at you and more worried about what he did wrong.

Tell him you're sorry, that you need some discipline, and ask him to take the lead and teach you how to manage your money.

>> No.6113217

>>6113152

Unfortunately people have kids to fulfill their own desires. they turn it into "my kid is better, my kid does this," like it's an extension of themselves.

it hurts so bad knowing i am my parents.

this may sound really dumb, but someone posted a thread here a few days ago with a "normal skinny" guy. You know, not fat at all, but not super skinny.
Basically OP was ranting about how those are the worst type of people, because they settle for mediocrity (i don't get how they're worse than fat guys, but whatever).
Even though the OP was a raging faggot, it inspired me to stop settling for "mediocrity."

Just below me, my mom is watching some brainless TV show, sitting in her shit smelling chair, stuffing food into her mouth, while my dad is feet away cooking the most bland meal imaginable.

that is the environment i grew up in, that's what i'm used to, but i'm not gonna allow myself to settle for that.

>> No.6113232

i did something similar to you, OP, except I spent my money on drugs and not clothes.

then I dropped out and worked at a minimum wage job.

>> No.6113235

>>6113199
>>6113176
I didn't even commit crimes (i feel too tall to shoplift).

I had my GF at the time selling adderall and giving me the money, but that was like $50 here and there.

my days were like this:
one or two McDoubles, or McChickens ($1 each)
4loko, OE or other malt liquor, whatever was by 2 for $3.
My GF would also get alcohol, but her dad paid for everything for her.
She had no idea what it was like for me to not have any money, because she never knew the feeling, or even the possibility.

>> No.6113238

>>6113217
>it inspired me to stop settling for "mediocrity."
And you're on 4chan browsing /fa/

>> No.6113244

>>6112926
they didn't tell you you had to pay it back?

>> No.6113247

>>6111194


>a free thousand a month

Sympathy ends there motherfucker.

>reading the rest

and somehow it drops lower.

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OP you're a stupid privileged spoiled cunt but at least it looks like your dads trying to sort you out so you stop being a cunt.

>>6111295
Made me chuckle.

>> No.6113259

>>6113238

browsing /fa/ whilst wearing head2toe Slick Owens in my million dollar mega yatch, gettin' dome from Carla Bruni as I manage my multi-billion dollar corporate empire.

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>>6113160

Never said $100 wasn't bad! At least after the shit I pulled they're still supporting me.


The worst thing I did was basically steal ~$4000 to buy bitcoins. I bought just over 500 BTC.

After they found out they made me liquidate all my assets.

I bought bitcoin when it was inbetween $2 to $15.....now that it reached $200 I'm REALLY kicking myself for getting caught cause I could EASILY of made $40,000+ in the course of 6 months doing NOTHING.

I haven't told my parents this because it was my fault for stealing $4k of their money.....it's just that they didn't understand bitcoins.

Whatever. I'll have plenty of opportunities to make bank in the future, just gotta be on the look out for the next bubble and be there before it bursts,

>> No.6113273

>>6113217
All people that are turning into adults feel that way. Its a compleatly normal feeling. Most end up becoming exactly that, very few become exceptional.

>> No.6113289

>>6111328

Do you have a job?

>> No.6113301

>>6113244
ha no.
I've honestly never heard of someone having to pay their parents back for going to college.

But if I never got this job, they would never have asked me to pay them back.
it's some mindfuck thing they do to make sure they continue having "the upper hand" on me.

but they have no idea how little fucks i give about them. I see the way people judge them, the way they live their life with no fucking sense of reality. Parking their new RV in the street, having Jesus stickers on everything.

In high school i'd save my money for months to buy a video game, or whatever, and they would end up taking away my Gamecube that same day.
Entire Christmas breaks with "no electronics" because I missed a letter on a spelling bee.
That's not even a joke. One fucking letter, 98% 2 days before Xmas break.

I own my car, so they can't "take" that from me. You know what they can do? Have it towed because they still own the driveway i parked it on.
that type of shit.

>> No.6113325

>>6113273
yea i know it's normal.
that's why i really have a hard time with it.

i know everyone looks at their parents and say "I will never be like them"
and always end up exactly like them.

it scares me, but hopefully i can at least be more of a man than my dad.

>> No.6113329

>>6113184
Why not just kill them? Why would you waste your life on some fat shits that have already ruined theirs?
Start fresh and don't them influence you. That's what I did and I'm doing good. I think.

>> No.6113335

>>6113184
Not that I endorse killing, or ever do it.
>fbi control

>> No.6113350

>>6113273

I think turning into adult is realizing you're NOT going to become this superstar you always dream about and that you're life is NOT going to be exceptional and all you're dreams are NOT going to come true.

After that, if you have the will to live that is, it's just maintaining your body and friends/family.

>> No.6113341

>>6111194
Wow, you're one stupid fuck

>> No.6113355

>>6113301

you should make a movie about your parents. They sound like interesting people, to say the least.

>> No.6113356

>>6113146

>only a hundred a week

...

I fucking hate rich people. I really, really do.

>> No.6113362

>>6113273

...but they said I could be anything I wanted when I grew up!

>mfw when doomed to mediocrity.

>> No.6113366

>>6113044
this, i cannot agree more......

though i seem to find that it is most common within the sub middle class/blue collar western families

>> No.6113361

>>6113355
they aren't interesting.
they are as boring as you can get.

>> No.6113369

>>6113301
Holy shit dude. Why not just get away? Move country or whatever and get your own space. If you can save for something you want and not get stuff handed to you, you'd be fine. Unlike fucking OP.
Are you still in education though?

>> No.6113393

>>6113361

towing your car b/c it's parked in their driveway?

asking you to pay them back for uni?

>> No.6113404

>>6113369
no i graduated.
i have a job, and i've lived on my own most of my adult life (i actually got kicked out at 17 for having "a bad attitude").
I just don't want to move out until i have enough money put away to live on for a few months, in case my job, or car, falls apart.

Nothing feels worse than having a - in your bank statement every month.
When i move out i want to make damn sure i'm never coming back.

the sad thing is i can't see that happening...

>> No.6113421

>>6113393

normal shit for american parents

>> No.6113436

>>6113404
>being this realistic
>being in such a shit situation
Makes me hate people like OP more and more.

>> No.6113461

>>6113404
Have you tried travelling? A friend of mine who lost his job went travelling. He worked in dead-end jobs for a few months at a time in different countries around the world. He had some savings to start and coped pretty well.

>> No.6113483

>>6113361
I'd watch a movie about you, just to see all the delicious shit hitting the fan. I hope you ditch them as soon as possible and never tell them, where you went and cut off all contacts.

>> No.6113495

>>6112926
Good luck bro. Why don't you take them out to a restaurant and put poison in it or some shit so it looks like it was the restaurant's fault?

>> No.6113499

>>6113461
hey i did that. takes some balls and a whole bunch of fallback plans for when your original plans don't work out but it's definitely a do-able short-term option

>> No.6113515

>>6113483
theyd just put out a missing persons report and try to get me sent to jail.

it's a losing situation until they die.
at least until my moms dies. i dont know what my dad will do when he has no one to tell him what to do at every second.

>> No.6113535

>>6113499
>>6113461

i'm not really able to do that type of shit.
i thought about it, but it's not really my personality.

it's not because i can't "rough it," i can.
i'm just an introvert, and plus i have a decent job right now.
traveling with no end goal right now seems like it would be a waste of time and time = money.

>> No.6113556

>>6113515
>theyd just put out a missing persons report and try to get me sent to jail
No. Clearly tell them that you're going somewhere. "I may be back soon."
That's it.
It's your life and you need to seriously stop caring what they might/would do. If they're that bad then perhaps you going away might make them realise some of there mistakes. If not, well then they won't bother putting effort to get you and so it's win-win.

>> No.6113584

>>6113556
i'm telling you, for sure, they would put out a missing report.

i know i need to get away from them, obviously.
i don't care what they think, and only care about what they do if it directly affects me.

>> No.6113605

>>6113584

then contact the police beforehand and tell them to ignore any report filed or something

>> No.6113643

>>6113556
one more story, just because i just remembered. and thinking about the missing person thing is pissing me off, because im postive theyd do it.

>my mom used to go through my trash as a kid
>she claimed it was because she once saw me accidentally throw away a Gameboy game
>she continued doing it
>now, of course, i have huge privacy issues
>when i was 14 my dad took the door off my room
>i didn't get it back until i was 16 and we moved.
>somehow they know every detail of my life, so i got smarter
>would rip papers into tons of pieces, after scribbling over everything
>would throw stuff away at school ETC
>be 18 and temporarily staying with them, they go on vacation for a week
>TWO WEEKS later my dad hands me a paper bag and asks me what's inside it
>it's a used condom
>"can you explain why that was in the trash?"
>i had it wrapped up in a tissue, in a small brown bag, inside another trash bag, buried between four other trash bags.

that's just fucking disgusting.

>> No.6113675

>>6113605
This. Just make some policebros. Tell them your story, and if they put up a missing person's report, just give the police a number they can contact you with to make sure their missing person's report is bullshit and is just family dramu. My friend did that a while back when his family tried to forcefully send him to a no-homo rehabilitation.

>> No.6113689

>>6113643
That is some redneck family drama. I'd watch a trashy TLC program on your family.

>> No.6113706

>>6113643

what the fuck man, this takes SO MUCH EFFORT on their part

>> No.6113734

>>6113643
That's where you went wrong. You should've wrapped it in toilet paper, then use it to wipe your ass later and throw it in the bathroom trash.

>inb4 they dig through that too and find it

>> No.6113768

>>6113643
This is depressing as fuck.

>> No.6113774

>>6112256
I want to believe. No way you qualify for that much credit without having had a credit card before

>> No.6113810

>>6113734
do u not flush ur toilet paper

>> No.6113825

>>6113810
u flush ur toilet paper? wtf

>> No.6113841

OP is a flaming
Fucking
Faggot

Fashion items are a luxury. Luxuries are for people with disposable incomes. People who have no money (so little they live off dad) only buy luxuries if they're total morons. Like OP.

Well, I'm amused. Tell us more, OP.

>> No.6113862

>>6113768
i think what makes it worse is i never even did anything "bad." I didn't do drugs till i was living on my own at 18. i didnt drink till i was 19.
i was having sex at 16 but only at the girls house, never my parents.

i got kicked out a 17 for having a bad attitude, because i was laughing as my dad hit me with an umbrella.
it was funny to me because he gets this crazy look in his eyes, and i can tell he has years of pent up aggression and all he can do is hit his son with whatever random object he can find.

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>>6113235

>> No.6113938

>>6111795
>>6111194
This is what happens when you never had to work a day in your life (walking the dog/mowing the lawn for your dad for a few dollars doesn't count) and rode your daddy's coat tail to never understand the value of hard earned money.

FYI, working at a minimum wage job (that's all you're gonna get) will take a lot longer than you think to pay back your father. Reason being, we all know you're gonna be a pussy and won't be able to work more than 15 hours a week (especially once school starts back up), plus you probably didn't even realize Uncle Sam takes a large chunk out of each paycheck.

Somehow, I don't see you learning from this at all.

>> No.6113942

>>6113862
Is your dad a mudslime?

>> No.6113957

>>6113942
muslim? no
100% white

>> No.6113969

>>6113938

>Somehow, I don't see you learning from this at all.

which is awesome, id love to be that privileged.

>> No.6114265

>>6113957
Dude you can be muslim and be white haha

>> No.6114271

>>6113301
your parents are fucks
start looking for a place