/fa/ - Fashion

[Anonymous No.14430412]

Do you have a gf /fa/?

[Anonymous No.14430422]

>>14430412
I don't even have friends to begin with.

[Anonymous No.14430432]

>>14430412
me on the right near the window

[Anonymous No.14430435]

>>14430432
me on the left behind that table probably eating chips

[Anonymous No.14430441]

>>14430435
me taking the photo trying not to burst out laughing

[Anonymous No.14430443]

>>14430432
>>14430435
>>14430441
haha omg that's so me xD

[Anonymous No.14430522]

>>14430412
Yes. Getting married in september.

[Anonymous No.14430533]

>>14430422
me too bro. me too

[Anonymous No.14430542]

>>14430412
Yes, met on tinder

[Anonymous No.14430544]

>>14430412
Yes, she is also a pretty good /fa/shion accesory to complete my fits

[Anonymous No.14430589]

Yep we've been together almost 6 years now and I'll be proposing soon.

[Anonymous No.14430621]

>>14430412
this makes me want to kill myself

[Anonymous No.14430703]

i had a 3 gfs but i hated them, i keep attracting shy girls who want me to lead everything.

taken a break from dating and focusing on myself to attract better girls.

[Anonymous No.14430714]

>>14430412
Not yet, in no position to hold one worth having for long anyway.

[Anonymous No.14430735]

>>14430703
Anon you are supposed to lead. This is how evolution has worked it out.
Had you been raised to be a bit stronger this relationship would feel very rewarding to you

[Anonymous No.14430750]

>>14430735
I get that but i was doing everything
>they all never learned how to drive at age 21
>had to pick the restaurant every time and then they would whine later i didnt make a good choice
>would constantly ask me during sex if they turn me on
>if i did something they didnt like. would be passive aggressive for weeks until they finally opened up to me
the worst is when i got a job they had me working till 11pm and my last ex got mad i wasn't giving her enough attention. so she made a tinder account and "flirted" with guys due to my absence.
I don't blame them. its my fault for attracting them and i got a lot to work on

[Anonymous No.14430751]

>>14430412
>if only you knew how bad things truly are

[Anonymous No.14430774]

I know 11 girls would definitely accept if I asked them out, and quite a few more I’m less certain of but suspect. The only one I’m actually interested in belongs to the latter group and lives almost 6000km away over an ocean.

[Anonymous No.14430785]

>>14430735
I’m in the same situation with my current gf. Honestly it would be nice just to have her drag me along to something every once in a while but it’s worse for me because 90% of the things I suggest she just refuses to do because it’s me suggesting them, same thing with music and movies I try to show her. Because she has be personality of her own the alternative is basically just doing nothing and watching house hunters. It sucks but I already committed to living with her for 4 months so I’m kind of stuck now. Idk what to do.

[Anonymous No.14430794]

doesnt count if theyre ugly

[Anonymous No.14430798]

>>14430750
Oh need to learn to lead. It's not easy. You have to treat them like children. You need to learn to express displeasure without anger when they annoy you

[Anonymous No.14430804]

>>14430785
talk to her about it retarded beta

[Anonymous No.14430833]

>>14430412
I’m the Mexican in the right.

[Anonymous No.14430840]

I've never had a real gf in my life. I'm 30 and I've only ever fucked prostitutes. Probably spent at least $3K over the last decade

AMA

[Anonymous No.14430842]

>>14430840
I've only had one official gf irl and she dumped in a week. Turns out she was only using me to get over her ex

[Anonymous No.14430848]

>>14430840
Where they godtier prostitutes, though? I’ve had gfs but I’ve always thought about hiring a top tier prostitute and unleash all my dark fantasies tb h

[Anonymous No.14430867]

>>14430785
Pretty much all relationship problems could be solved by people nutting up and talking to each other instead of living in quiet resentment for months until it boils over.

[Anonymous No.14430868]

>>14430848
I'm euro so its legal to see the cream of the crop escorts online. The best have good reviews, never see an escort that isn't verified with an online service and have no reviews. I've only been with a few though that were truly memorable, because they were spontaneous and enthusiastic in their skills, it made the repeat sessions always better

[Anonymous No.14430869]

>>14430412
i'm a 34 year old khv with no friends.

never had a gf

[Anonymous No.14430870]

>>14430848
not him but i;ved fucked 6 escorts.
only two of them were really good. one of them was this milf who only did once in a while and i only paid for an hour but we fucked for 3 hours

the other one was a girl who just started out and i was 2nd customer. fucked my brains out
rest were meh

[Anonymous No.14430886]

>>14430804
>>14430867
I have many times, nothing changes.

[Anonymous No.14430889]

>>14430886
move on

[Anonymous No.14430891]

>>14430840
Based, I exclusively fuck Japanese prostitutes. I did out of curiosity at first since I felt it was the only chance I'd get at fucking a 4'6" girl and then my mind was blown. You don't realize what a eye opener it is to realize that instead of going through the monumental effort of hooking up like normal with someone subpar you can just pay 120$ and slam the shit out of some 10/10 JP goddess and then be on your way. I feel if they ever really do create sex robots society will collapse because it really makes you realize how pointless the never ending chase for sex is.

[Anonymous No.14430895]

>>14430891
i've read they don't like and won't accept gaijins, is that true?

how did you find them if you don't know the language?

[Anonymous No.14430898]

>>14430870
Most are meh, but when you find that diamond its enough to keep you coming back. THey can supprise you though, I fucked a busted middle-aged Japanese masseuse and she was actually a pretty fun lay

[Anonymous No.14430899]

>>14430868
>>14430870
Interesting maybe one day I will have the balls to do it

[Anonymous No.14430902]

>>14430412
>Do you have a gf /fa/?
Yes, but I don’t have an /fa/ gf...

[Anonymous No.14430915]

>>14430870
man prostitutes are so hit and miss but the good ones you will never forget
fucking a literal professional is incredible

[Anonymous No.14430926]

>>14430895
They have foreign only soaplands my dude.

This is the place I visit every time I'm in Tokyo:
https://paradise-inn.net/girls
Enjoy. And I can vouch that the girls look exactly like in the photos, some actually look even better in person.

[Anonymous No.14430938]

>>14430926
Fuck. Honestly might bookmark this for the day I finally visit japan.

[Anonymous No.14430945]

>>14430926
how does this work?

[Anonymous No.14430946]

>>14430522
fucking loser

[Anonymous No.14430953]

>>14430946
Ok. :^)

[Anonymous No.14430960]

>>14430945
Literally just go to the place, say "I want x girl for y amount of time" and if she's available you pay upfront. A staff member will then lead you to a little private waiting room where you wait for the girl. The girl comes out in lingerie, leads you to a private bedroom, gets naked, strips you, then she'll give you a bath (neckdown only), then afterwards you go on the bed and at that point you can do whatever you want until your time is up. Afterwards you just say bye, staff hands you a coupon usually. Done.

And yes it's fully legal, and yes it's full penetration (with a condom obviously). Because its regulated all the girls are STD free.

[Anonymous No.14430961]

NO, I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL WIFE.

CHEERS
R

[Anonymous No.14430984]

>>14430960

[Anonymous No.14431055]

Yes, my ex was actually pretty effay but my current gf is a normie who wears stan smith and all that jazz, we are the total opposite but we have a very strong connection and love eachother so it works out really great, she considers me very handsome and i find her very pretty too so its all a win win

[Anonymous No.14431102]

>>14430926
Dafuq? If these pics are true. Why does Japan have a lot of beautiful women in the escord industry? Its so surreal wtf

[Anonymous No.14431113]

>>14431102
turns out young women want easy cash all over the world
there are billions of qt prostitutes wherever you go
a legit 10/10 hungarian who could have been a model gave me an angry 35 euro handjob once

[Anonymous No.14431132]

i once had the perfect girlfriend but then i starten in the army and pushed her away when i was 19 and my life just went to complete shit after a few months so i quit becouse i got heavy deppresed and suicidal, so when i came home she hd moved on and all my friends studied abroad or went to colleges otherplaces and i tried hitting up girls on tinder or at parties, but ive just given up, i fucked up so much so now whenever i feel sad i just buy and buy clothes and watched becouse i got a highpaying job that feels like empty shit, so now am just a lonley ass 20 year old thinking bout just taking my shit of a life, please anyone, if you find a girl that would do everything for u who is perfect just do t fuck it up, cuz u wil just be a deppresed fuck livin an empty life

[Anonymous No.14431163]

>>14431132
women come and go brother, you just need some time

[Anonymous No.14431180]

>>14431132
when you least expect it, and im not talking about waiting for someone and not searching, whatever you do, you will find someone, just make sure to put yourself out there and hang thight buddy, you will make it

[Anonymous No.14431186]

>>14430412
no and having one would really benefit me but at the same time im not in the right place to have one

[Anonymous No.14431198]

does anyone else feel disgusted at the thought of having actual intimacy with someone but also want their dick sucked
like I cannot imagine making out with a girlfriend and enjoying it nor do I want to spend my time with anyone but I sure would enjoy raw dogging a female of the chinese persuasion

[Anonymous No.14431218]

>>14430412
No but there was a girl at work who agreed to go on a date with me once but then my friend told me it was out of pity so i just ignored her after closest ive ever gotten

[Anonymous No.14431219]

Unfortunately just a fuckbuddy... I really like her (possibly I'm in love with her), but it's not reciprocal: she only likes my money and my dick (I usually pay the bill when we go out - nothing too crazy, but I don't feel good doing it). Any advice? She isn't that beautiful or interesting (but she makes my style) and is kind of a whore. I really enjoy dating and banging her, but I don't like sex that much (most of the time I don't cum and it's not her fault). I wish we had a serious relationship tho.

[Anonymous No.14431226]

>>14431198
thats just being horny. if you are pretty there are many ways to get a horny female friend who freely will share her body as long as you share your with her with out romantic attachments.

sex + true friendship is fairly possible. still tho i recommend you to treat her well & vice versa she with you. go out from time to time

[Anonymous No.14431236]

No. I will be a 30 years old virgin next month.

[Anonymous No.14431239]

>>14431219
if she is not interested she is not interested /fa/m respect her interests.

[Anonymous No.14431246]

>>14430869
>>14431236
just be yourself

[Anonymous No.14431260]

>>14430522
rip in peace

[Anonymous No.14431262]

>>14431219
shes taking advantage of you. leave

[Anonymous No.14431286]

>>14431239
B-but I like her, Anon!
>>14431262
And I'm taking advantage of her either... Like: isn't that what relationships are about?

[Anonymous No.14431360]

>>14430412
No but there is a girl at work im in love with she finds me kind of creepy though she actually reported me to management for my behaviors (just staring and threatening other male coworkers who hit on her) but whatever i didnt get fired so ya i actually stole her schedule for college this semester and enrolled in some of the same classes as her she avoids me in those classes though i tried to sit with her but she just changed seats

[Anonymous No.14431414]

>>14431360
Actually threatening isnt a good term i never threatened them but i would tell them her and i are dating and shit

[Anonymous No.14431526]

>>14431414
>>14431360
based af

[Anonymous No.14431529]

>>14431218
>it was out of pity

How can I know if a girl is dating me for this reason? Also how can I avoid it? I'm not a virgin (although it's been years since I last got laid) but I've never had a real gf or have been in dates. Should I pretend I'm not such a fucking loser?

[Anonymous No.14431540]

>>14431246
I know this is a meme but fuck is it dumb. Most people would be in jail if they were themselves

[Anonymous No.14431558]

>>14430412
That is so rude. People have no class these days.

[Anonymous No.14431578]

>>14431558
Why is it rude? At least they invited him out

[Anonymous No.14431612]

One year ago I was really lonely and would have done everything for a gf, now I have one girl who I kind of dated for a little while who asked if I wanted to be her bf but I turned her down (it would have been long distance anyway) but we are still in contact and will fuck when we see each other but idk I kind of feel like she really likes me because I don’t even treat her that great (not bad either but not like a gf) but she doesn’t seem to care. Her personality is really cute and she isn’t ugly either but she isn’t really effay neither, anyway for some reason even though she is probably good gf material I don’t really want to be in a relationship with her. Does anyone understand it? Because I don’t honestly and it makes me feel a bit shitty

And now there is this other girl who I had a date with who is Model Tier hot and effay and she seems dtf but she is kind of weird and crazy and I never thought I would say this but it’s a turn off for me. What the fuck should I do?

[Anonymous No.14431619]

>>14430891
>this person gives you fashion advice
fuck me....

[Anonymous No.14431627]

>>14430891
>the never ending chase for sex
that's not a thing for normal people, you're just a pervert

[Anonymous No.14431631]

>>14431627
Yes it is you retard, everything we do is because if sex

[Anonymous No.14431632]

>>14431132
does nook actually have a personality? surprising.

[Anonymous No.14431639]

i find it interesting that a lot of people that are into fashion have no relationships or friends in general. Are we all focused to much on ourselves and how we look so we become selfish judgemental pricks without realizing?
or is it just the way of life in 2019?

[Anonymous No.14431644]

>>14431239
>respect her interests.
lmao @ this cuck logic.
>>14431286
read some psychology book and manipulate her into loving you. it sounds bad but that's what life is all about anyway. people do it subconciously, maybe you're too autistic, thus the book suggestion.

[Anonymous No.14431646]

>>14430926
w-which ones have you been with, anon?

[Anonymous No.14431652]

>>14431360
>and this guy gives you fashion advice as well...
that's not how you get girls to like you anon. think about if somebody who you're not attracted to followed you around.

[Anonymous No.14431658]

>>14431639
well i've got a gf and i dress like this so it's clearly not true.

[Anonymous No.14431660]

>>14431639
Do you realize we are on 4chan? This website has always been for outcasts even if we're in one of the more normie boards. I literally have 0 friends and rarely leave my house, but I still appreciate fashion very much and follow my skincare routine daily

[Anonymous No.14431689]

>>14431658
i am the guy you talket to on the waywt thread from yesterday. stop trolling and go back to /b/. you are not fooling anyone.
>>14431660 but that problem isn‘t just related to 4chan. i see it all over the internet and even on the streets talking to people in line. everyone comes across eager, selfish and shy as hell. i am starting to think that „expressing ourselves trough fashion“ just messes way to hard with our self consciousness to be even worth it.

[Anonymous No.14431713]

>>14431689
Well what I'm saying is I have good taste and a girlfriend so these things don't exclude one another.

[Anonymous No.14431724]

>>14431713
proof you have a gf
>protip: you can‘t

[Anonymous No.14431747]

>>14431724
I can literally screencap our texts you colossal dummy.

[Anonymous No.14431759]

>>14431747
I'm sure you're telling the truth

[Anonymous No.14431768]

>>14431759
Why would I lie?

[Anonymous No.14431772]

>>14431768
Prove it then you larping incel

[Anonymous No.14431790]

>>14431360
you sound like a pos tbf

[Anonymous No.14431794]

>>14431772
kek. kys.

[Anonymous No.14431811]

>>14430544
hope she saw you posting this

[Anonymous No.14431817]

>>14431132
ive been there. you find new friends and rely on them. dont let yourself be alone, no one deserves that

[Anonymous No.14431819]

>>14431794
Just prove you have a girlfriend dude

[Anonymous No.14431823]

>>14431790
Im not a bad dude im just completely obsessed its not my fault

[Anonymous No.14431825]

>>14431132
>so now am just a lonley ass 20 year old
Lol relax, you're only 20

[Anonymous No.14431839]

>>14431819
idc enough

[Anonymous No.14431871]

>>14431839
let‘s get back to my original comment though. what do u think of fashion harming self consciousness? since you are so self aware and don’t have these social problems, you must at least have noticed others struggle with it, right?

[Anonymous No.14431908]

>>14431871
>what do u think of fashion harming self consciousness?
I don't think that works. You often see people here asking if they can leave the house dress the way they're dressed and that they're shy and don't have anywhere to show off their new clothes.
>don’t have these social problems
I'm incredibly judgemental towards those which I don't personally know, if that's what you meant.

[Anonymous No.14431985]

>>14431689
We’re expressing ourselves through fashion, but that can be a double edged sword, because if you’re a self conscious person that will come through in your clothing choices. It’s why the most effay thing you can have is your attitude. That being said if you’re confident, or comfortable, or smart or whatever it will also come through in your clothing

[Anonymous No.14431993]

never had a gf
probably never will, i dont deserve one
i cant expect someone else to like me, because i dont even like me

[Anonymous No.14432008]

>>14430774
I know the feeling well anon.

[nook No.14432011]

I do, and I'm falling for her

[Anonymous No.14432013]

>>14432011
her (male)

[nook No.14432015]

>>14432013
git gud

[Anonymous No.14432016]

>>14432011
I don't know what exactly I'm looking at here

[Anonymous No.14432018]

>>14431993
sounds like u have given up or not even tried to change yourself. Do u rather want to hold on to yourself your whole life or hold on to someone else till death?

[Anonymous No.14432035]

>>14431102
Should see eastern europe, you don't even need to wave hundreds at a hot as fuck prostitute. Just get a nice hotel room and chat to some rando hot one at a club/bar/coffee place and get a root after you drop the "I'm just seeing the world, I have a room at blahblahblah for a few more days" line.

[Anonymous No.14432039]

>>14430785
rest is pieces

[Anonymous No.14432050]

>>14432018
id rather not just not be alive bro

[Anonymous No.14432056]

>>14430412
Do people actually do this? When I'm with my girlfriend and my friends are present, I don't kiss her like I just came back from Europe in 1945

[Anonymous No.14432057]

>>14430412
I've had a few. Now I'm married and things are looking pretty good for me
Friendly reminder that we're all gonna make it

[Anonymous No.14432080]

>>14431612
That’s just how it goes man, you don’t fall for everyone you meet. I’m in the same boat so maybe I shouldn’t be giving advice but I’m going to keep looking until I find someone I actually want to spend time with.

[Anonymous No.14432086]

>>14431644
Could you recommend me one? I've already read some PUA bullshit like "The Game" and it really works, but I don't know any serious psychology book to help you manipulate people into loving me...

[Anonymous No.14432107]

No because being an incel is effay

[Anonymous No.14432196]

Yeah we've been dating since 10th grade.
6th anniversary coming up.

[Anonymous No.14432216]

>>14430412

Married, two kids.

For social events, we coordinate our looks a bit. We're both tall and blond, so we can really get a "beautiful aryan family" thing going on. Of course everyone loves it.

Marriage is /fa/ as fuck if you have your shit together.

[Anonymous No.14432219]

>>14431360
>>14431414

dude what the fuck are you doing? That's the cringiest behavior. You need to work on acting like a normal person.

[Anonymous No.14432232]

>>14431360
she needs to contact the police
you need to stop stalking

[Anonymous No.14432296]

>>14430412
I used to but I dumped her in pursuit of greater achievements, I do want a girlfriend again at some point though.

[Anonymous No.14432344]

I was fucking two girls at one time and they both wanted more so I chose the better looking/ironically more sane one. She thinks we're official while I fuck girls on the side.
Am I a bad person?

[Anonymous No.14432372]

>>14432344
Yes

[Anonymous No.14432373]

>>14430412
No how do i get one ? Or should I just not even try

[Anonymous No.14432377]

>>14432373
You have to be tall, decently looking and social. Otherwise don't even try.

[Anonymous No.14432396]

>>14430412
This was me when I hung out with my two college buddies every Friday. It was just us bros playing smash until these two girls showed up and they started dating the other guys leaving me as the third wheel. I eventually quit hanging out on what turned into date nights every time we were together because they were massively pussy whipped and could never be apart from their girlfriends

[Anonymous No.14432406]

>>14432344
Yes and you’re just causing yourself undue stress and wasting time you could use to make your future life better

[Anonymous No.14432418]

>>14432377
ok thanks I'm going to go kill myself

[Anonymous No.14432424]

>>14432344
I assure you she's fucking other dudes on the side lol, stop trying to flex.

[Anonymous No.14432517]

>>14432219
I am a normal person i am just obsessed at least im self aware of it
>>14432232
I dont stalk her the closest thing is the college thing and i frequent the stores i know she goes to but have never seen her at them anyways its really not a big deal as you make it out to be im just in love its normal

[Anonymous No.14432605]

>>14432011
Sheeeiit negro. I remember a few months ago you were complaining about not having a gf so howd this happen?

[Anonymous No.14432640]

>>14431132
ull be ok bro just continue on you path, you might not believe it but your 20 you still dont know yourself, in this sense its an overstatement to say the girl was perfect, imagine you never went to the army stayed with her and she or you for that matter changed would she still be perfect

[Anonymous No.14432689]

>>14430774
jesus christ u need 7 figure credit card

[Anonymous No.14432702]

>>14430542
>met on tinder
>''girlfriend''

[Anonymous No.14432755]

>>14430960
So how do they actually get around the no penetration law? Is it just always included but not mentioned, or do you need to ask for it with a secret handshake and wink?

[Anonymous No.14432761]

>>14431540
>Most people would be in jail if they were themselves
fucking yikes, sure you're not projecting a bit there?

[Anonymous No.14432810]

>>14431055
>asian food
>food
(if you can call it that)

[Anonymous No.14432816]

>>14430412
Left my fashion designer girlfriend because "don't love you anymore". Half a year later the pain is such that I am reduced to a silent stalker, staking out her new apartment. I am a clown incarnate.

[Anonymous No.14432823]

>>14432810
>talks shit about japanese food
>posts with an anime reaction image

noodles arent real food i agree but rice & fish sure as hell is.

[Anonymous No.14432832]

>>14431132
Done the same shit but at 30, it's brutal. Hang in there breh.

[Anonymous No.14432836]

>>14431631
its because of pleasure in some way or another but not really sex. pleasing the genitals is just 1 type pleasure. there are a fuck ton of other ones.

[Anonymous No.14432839]

>>14431644
>lmao @ this cuck logic.
ok keep pushing yourself into someone that doesnt like you and look like a retard then, its on you

if you dont know when to take the L and move on in life its because you are literally retarded not my problem

[Anonymous No.14432841]

as if, I'd have to take care of all my ghastly bodily features first, like a complete overhaul of everything except for my major organs and muscles

[Anonymous No.14432844]

>>14431286
she doesnt likes you back its obvious dont be fucking stupid or you know what follow that other anon incel advice on pick up artsy, you will fail miserably it will be funny

[Anonymous No.14432854]

>>14431132
nice blog fag

[Anonymous No.14432945]

Lol was this pic taken in that ice cream place on West Street in Sheffield?

[Anonymous No.14432948]

>>14430522
what day?

[Anonymous No.14432953]

>>14430412
no, never did. never approached a woman or ever showed sexual interest in any girl I know
I'm actually dying inside

[Anonymous No.14432970]

I have a gf, a wife and a waifu.

[Anonymous No.14432971]

>>14430891
This post is based also
All the time you spend (ignoring money) on a bitch just to let her fuck you like bro I just work a few more hours a week and then go fuck some hot asian cunt for $200 an hour cum in their mouth and never think about them again. Counting money too shit you save so much taking the prostitute pill.

[Anonymous No.14433018]

>>14430412
Yes, we go to raves a lot and read the same books.

[Anonymous No.14433037]

Sort of. I have a wife, and we have a live in second woman.

[Anonymous No.14433043]

>>14430960
I would nut in the bath probably

[Anonymous No.14433044]

>>14432970
How can you afford three different pillows?

[Anonymous No.14433048]

>>14431578
The person taking the pic and they clearly invited him out to humiliate him. That or tbqh it's probably staged

[Anonymous No.14433049]

>>14431825
Implying it will get any better
>t. 27yo who has been in anon's position for 6 years now

[nook No.14433102]

>>14432605
I decided to grow a pair of balls, she is a bartender which is not my type at all. I sparked a conversation with her and hit it off, asked for her number, and we've been dating and going at it like rabbits for almost a month now. She is extremely cute with a bubbly personality, tall, no tattoos and can speak three languages.

We're all going to make it, my man!

[Anonymous No.14433155]

i had no dad. im literally just a girl in a male body. I whine a lot, shy, and im very emotional. only thing im good at when having sex is kissing and eating pussy. i don't like doggy or missionary.
a psychic swore that i was a lesbian in a previous life.
I read some pua books and youtube videos. that thought me how to act like a "man" long enough for them to have sex with me. But i can't keep up the act for long. The longest relationship i had was 1 year and thats because I did my best to keep her at a distance at all cost. majority of our dates was making taking her to pet zoos, kayaking, trying different cuisines and art shows. I've taken acid and shrooms hoping it would change me, but all it did was reveal that im just a bratty sub male wanting to be dominated by a female.
i've had 3 therapist and none of them can't help me. I'm just going to make films about my life but have a girl be me. so it can sell.

[Anonymous No.14433158]

>>14433155
Honestly your only hope is to start making good artand get a little fame and then the girls will like you for who you are

[Anonymous No.14433161]

>>14433155
is this copy pasta or legit?
because I saw this exact post in my dreams last night
be a girly man bro you'll find a chick you can be with easier than otherwise

[Anonymous No.14433167]

>>14433155
im a feminine male sub and i pick up bitches all the time. Just be yourself and go for it dude. Helps if you're hot.

[Anonymous No.14433186]

>>14433158
yeah thats the plan. i was thinking of music first, but I don't play any instruments, film is still the goal. but thats going to take some time.
>>14433161
nah legit. it doesn't help im this 6'1 mixed black guy who used to play football during highschool. tinder wasn't helpful.
>>14433167
gives me hope. but im a 6/10 at best.

[Anonymous No.14433192]

>>14430412
>tfw was walking yesterday down hidden trail, and saw this thicc curvy chick come down some stairs looking at me and smiling
>had my headphones in listening to 100gecs and just passed her without even glancing at her

god help me

[Anonymous No.14433463]

[Anonymous No.14433470]

>>14433463
I used to think I'm schizoid, except that I'm a pig when it comes to sex and am very thin skinned.

[Anonymous No.14433519]

>>14431219
get another one or sack it off

[Anonymous No.14433524]

>>14432854
Yeah and she's more of a drain on my pocket than fashion. And at least tricky Rick helps me look good, all my girlfriend does is make me look like a henpecked cuck.

[Anonymous No.14433621]

>>14430412
fuck man, i have a girlfriend but i don't know if i love her. Idk why i can't break up but it has been like this every time, i am a very passive person so when i get in a relationship it is often not me who initiated it. It is just the usual watching my life crumble and my girlfriend getting more and more depressed because of the lack of attention. Man, i hate myself so bad.

[Anonymous No.14433639]

To the friendless and girlfriend-less , how old are you? 22 here, suicidal thought are a daily thing now

[Anonymous No.14433700]

>>14433621
Literally me, and I hate you as much as I hate myself.

Things you fight for are intrinsically more valuable and enjoyable than ones you got handed to. Even if you wasn't the one initiating these relationships, putting work into them will get you a clearer picture of whether you really want it or not. Even if it won't work out in the end, you will walk away knowing you tried and you will have less doubt about your final decision, whatever it will be.

Don't end up like me >>14432816 waiting until the last moment, chickening out, when asked directly, hurting the person that genuinely loves you, tearing yourself apart with self-doubt afterwards and childishly pleading existence for another chance, when there will be none.

[Anonymous No.14433724]

>>14433700
Yeah i know, i really should try more, in relationships and in life.
I fucking hate myself for leaving my old girlfriend who was someone i actually enjoyed being with and loved, but you are right i really need to put more work in in my relationships and maybe just maybe i will find someone i can marry in uni.
I am stuck in such a situation in my life now that i don't have almost any friends who i enjoy being with neither any hobby which gives me satisfaction. I spend all my current money on drugs with my "friends", who latched on while i was really suicidal. Even though i got very good grades, i need to improve my social life to be with people i love, get sober and unfuck my mind. My doctor put me on new meds recently and i thought that that maybe will get me in a new direction in life. I hope you will try to better yourself and adopt a self forgiving attitude to life.
As to my girlfriend i will try and make it work, but in the end break up with her. I will try and make new friends who are more healthy and make me happy. When i end uni i will probably move to another country and start over.

Take care.

[Anonymous No.14433745]

>>14430412
Nope

Dick move desu. That’s so impolite.

[Anonymous No.14433763]

>>14430422
this

[Anonymous No.14433767]

>>14430412
No she passed away few years ago from brain cancer.

[Anonymous No.14433781]

>>14431132
Sad drunkposting

F bro.

[nook is cancer No.14433809]

>>14432011
nuff said

[Anonymous No.14433823]

>>14432086
>I don't know any serious psychology book to help you manipulate people into loving me...
Well obviously because framing it like that makes it sound like something an incel would buy.
Not an expert so I'll just write what I think makes sense here. --- wait wait wait. Pause. Is she attracted to you?

[Anonymous No.14433832]

>>14432196
Why the picture of the lonely guy then?

[Anonymous No.14433838]

>>14432418
he's not correct unless you want a 8/10 and above. but the social thing is correct and you shouldn't be deformed as well. obviously there's no such thing as tall in the 4chan sense, ie. 6'' and above is tall 5'11 and bellow is short - you simply have to be taller than her.
yeah so if you want a 5-6/10 cutie just find some akward chick and talk to her and if you can't fucking talk to people learn how to do it because it's literally the only skill requiered.

[Anonymous No.14433850]

>>14432839
>look like a retard
like I give a fuck
>you are literally retarded
is it that hard to accept that somebody might have a different approach to something? fucking pathetic mate

[Anonymous No.14433858]

>>14433186
>film is still the goal
I must say that is quite based, trannyanon, quite based indeed. Now tell me what your favorite film is and what you'd like to make a film about.

[Anonymous No.14434014]

>>14433186
just pick up an instrument brainlet
you can tech yourself guitar and be mildly ok in like 6 months and then you'll get better and better

[Anonymous No.14434061]

>>14434014
>guitar for girls
lol

[Anonymous No.14434214]

>>14431219
She sounds fucking awful dump that slag

[Anonymous No.14434415]

Is it effay to be alone?

[None !IGORsW/P/E No.14434423]

>>14434415
Nobility is highly socialized.

[Anonymous No.14434605]

>>14434415
yyyyes

[Anonymous No.14434785]

>>14434014
>Playing guitar to impress women
Never gonna make it

[Anonymous No.14434790]

>>14433639
Also 22
I cope by putting my spare energy into exercise and learning new languages, all the while keeping it in the back of my mind that eventually it'll all pay off and a cute gf will materialize in front of me

[Anonymous No.14434849]

>>14433639
27

[Anonymous No.14434853]

feeling connections with others is not effay

[Anonymous No.14434858]

>>14434853
test

[Anonymous No.14434884]

>>14434858
(low)

[Anonymous No.14435151]

>>14430898
What is the protocol for this? I want to live out a fetish.

[Anonymous No.14435276]

>>14433155
It's okay anon, you just need to find an assertive gf. My bf is kind of like you since he also lacked a father figure but his mother got sick really early in his life too so he had to take care of her which kind of made him grow up early but not in all the right places you get me?
I did all the chasing and he's a wonderful guy, I hope you find someone that will approach you like that.

[Anonymous No.14435311]

>>14433639
also 22
saw a qt asian girl with a mad nice fit today, contemplating suicide

[Anonymous No.14435317]

>>14430412

Fucking school shooter Zoomers

[Anonymous No.14435715]

>>14433155
stop being a bitch bro

[Anonymous No.14435985]

if I ever have girl friends, I'd automatically be relegated to the gay best friend category

[Anonymous No.14436041]

>>14432948
7th

[Anonymous No.14436264]

>>14433823
She is attracted sexually... But I don't know if it's particularly with me or if she is a ninfomaniac. She is very closed (doesn't open up easily), but enjoy spending sometime with me irl (we don't text that often tho).

[Anonymous No.14436360]

>>14433639
18
my girlfriendlessness mostly stems from my friendlessness. its tough, i can get along with people and socialize just fine, but after that it goes nowhere. i dont hang out with them or nothing.

[Anonymous No.14436379]

>>14430412
https://youtu.be/r-ExJLjhxxs

[Anonymous No.14436405]

yes

[Anonymous No.14436509]

>>14431132

you're just going full /fa, meaningless life, no relation, high$ clothes

keep it on and you will become a semi god among us

[Anonymous No.14436519]

>>14430926
Lads do you think you can go there if you are on student exchange? I am planning to go to Japan next year but don't want to get expelled because of prostitute

[Anonymous No.14436523]

yes, she is effay
i love her

[Anonymous No.14436549]

>>14436519
obviously
>>14436379
>>14436379
she cute though

[Anonymous No.14436554]

>>14436360
I was a sperg until 21 but then switching majors in uni made me break out of my shell a bit

[Anonymous No.14436560]

>>14436554
What majors?

[Anonymous No.14436563]

>>14432810
Based amerifat

[Anonymous No.14436632]

I'm gay and *very* single... To the point that its really starting to weigh on me. I'm not in a homophobic area either, but i cant really find anyone who's into me, that i'm also interested in. Lotta old fat men who seem attracted to me though, so its nice to know thats an option if i ever decide to try something before i blow my brains out.

[Anonymous No.14436800]

Thinking about proposing soon but don't want to call her dad or travel over five states to see him

Also don't have money for a ring

[Anonymous No.14436893]

>>14436800
Dont do it anon. Google MGTOW and what the downsides of marriage is for males.
Its kinda shocking

[Anonymous No.14436926]

>>14436893
let the blue pills find out the hard way

[Anonymous No.14436946]

>>14430522
You have my condolences

[Anonymous No.14436974]

I just started dating my friend and I'm so in love, can't believe how lucky I am. We live in different countries but I'm probably getting a job offer to work in the same country soon, feels crazy that things are coming together like this

[Anonymous No.14437013]

>>14436519
Literally no one cares dude, it's legal. Ofc if anyone you go to school with sees you they will probably (because desu if you make friends with Japanese guys usually they will try to take you to a soapland anyway) make fun of you. Just wear a mask and glasses.

[Anonymous No.14437028]

>>14436926
>>14436893
I wrote the book on MGTOW lol you don't need to tell me to read it.

[Anonymous No.14437033]

>>14430522
Congratulations!

[Anonymous No.14437798]

>>14430522
lol

[Anonymous No.14437835]

I'm a 20 KHV, so no

[Anonymous No.14437837]

>>14431246
„wenn du du selber bist, bist du so fad, dass niemand mit dir spricht“

[Anonymous No.14437855]

>>14437835
go fuck a prostitute while you are still young dude

[Anonymous No.14437951]

Yes and she's beautiful, just like me

[Anonymous No.14437965]

>>14433832
Here we see an anon that hasnt been in a lasting relationship with a woman.

[Anonymous No.14438026]

>>14436893
Being never married is literally a risk factor for premature death, you dense faggot. And I'm not even traditionalist retard with a thing for family values and all that crap. Pure statistics show that marital status has huge impact on longevity and being never married is the literal worst in that aspect.

[Anonymous No.14438033]

>>14438026
>he doesn't want to die young

[Anonymous No.14438041]

>>14430960
Are there any more of these? Never fugged a prostitute and I live near tokyo.

[Anonymous No.14438131]

>>14438026
>is literally a risk factor for premature death
lol no

[Anonymous No.14438138]

>>14438026
>And I'm not even traditionalist retard with a thing for family values and all that crap.
I am, and that's why I'm getting married. Makes much more sense than a bunch of short term relationships. Guys definitely should learn from MGTOW and the likes but that's a stepping stone to understanding how to adapt to the modern dating climate. It's not the final red pill.

If you wanna talk stats, there's plenty to supporting that a return to traditional family structures is fundamental.

[Anonymous No.14438152]

>>14438138
Would you kindly provide me with reference to where in 1995 National Survey of Family growth can I find these charts, or raw data used for these charts? I can't find any.

[Anonymous No.14438173]

>>14438026
>And I'm not even traditionalist retard with a thing for family values and all that crap.
holy fucking kys

[Anonymous No.14438176]

>>14438152
Idk maybe they're just an anti Semitic conspiracy theory.

[Anonymous No.14438178]

>>14438173
Or what?

[Anonymous No.14438180]

>>14438176
Expected as much

[Anonymous No.14438186]

>>14438178
or keep being a retard

[Anonymous No.14438188]

>>14438176
kek

[Anonymous No.14438190]

>>14438026
>And I'm not even traditionalist retard with a thing for family values and all that crap.

Then you're a bloody fool. Our civilization is going down the crapper in large part due to what has been done to the family.
Every tradition people think they're smart enough to piss on is one block pulled out of the jenga tower.

[Anonymous No.14438216]

>>14438190
It has nothing to do with families, we've just outgrown our ability to regulate ourselves as a society, everything happens way too fast and has way too big consequences, just by the sheer scale of everything and the speed of information exchange. Literally any worldwide totalitarian regime regardless of ideology would be better at this point from the pure survival point of view than what we have now.

It has nothing to do with families, it has everything to do with the fact that individual can no longer process all the important information that he needs to make informed decisions and instead has to rely on collective thinking and narratives that ease filtering and interpreting information (exactly what happened to you BTW), which in turn allows people seeking power to create narratives that manipulate huge masses. It's not even conspiracy, the system is just overly complicated. The only way a family can be a solution to this problem is in context of extreme primitivism where family's existence impact is highly local, and all the decisions family makes rapid and visible feedback. But even then, there is no way Earth can sustain 8 billion people living off the local land. There's just way too much of us at this point already.

[Anonymous No.14438218]

>>14438152
Start here https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

The stats are real but I belive the info is being taken down or "re-written" but it's definitely been verified at some point and probably in a cache or archive if you truly care to look. I'm guessing you don't.

You're also more than a little stupid to doubt basic statistics like this. Do you think having a ton of sexual partners is good for a woman's psyche? What the fuck is pair bonding?

[Anonymous No.14438221]

>>14438218
> taken down
> rewritten
kek

[Anonymous No.14438227]

>>14438216
You don't need to concern yourself with the eight billion other people too stupid to realize that were all headed for an inevitable collapse. Build a community with your family and people who share similar beliefs as your own, or just live humble and quiet and teach your white children the way of your ancestors. It's the only way forward, regardless of how you feel about it.
The only reason you think there's too much information is because our brains are fucked from all of the exposure to tech. We're getting dumber and our senses are dimming. That's not all from miscengenation either. A good example is how the next generation won't know how to read maps because Google will do it for them and they'll never develop the skills. Same with memory retention when you can just "OK Google" everything.

[Anonymous No.14438234]

>>14438227
Oh fuck you, you are way more retarded than I anticipated, I don't have the time for this lunacy.

[Anonymous No.14438244]

>>14438221
Hold on let me ask a bunch of fags, negros and prostitutes about their sexual history and use those results for the next 75 years

[Anonymous No.14438246]

>>14438244
What's that has to do with anything?

[Anonymous No.14438251]

>>14438227
>A good example is how the next generation won't know how to read maps because Google will do it for them and they'll never develop the skills
why is this a bad thing
the map has been replaced by google
>w-what if google goes down
google is a placeholder for the term tool in this context
maps, as a tool have been replaced by the digital map with assistance in the form of google maps, whatever app you want to choose, tomtom etc
>but dude what if you're in the wilderness and can't charge your phone!
first of all, if you're lost in the wilderness how the fuck is a map going to help you
you gonna point at a map and say wowee i think i'm here even though everything looks the same to me because i'm LOST
secondly, tech is evolving
most dedicated GPS things have a battery that lasts for weeks without charging
>memory retention
you think a doctor is constantly going on google and typing is "hello google what is a heart attack please and thank you :)" or do you think people that study actually retain information and those that do not i.e those that are googling "what was tom cruise doing in that tom cruise movie" don't need to retain all the info they're constantly guzzling?

dumb anti tech retard

[Anonymous No.14438276]

>>14431612
I'd rather stay with the 1st one but if you don't love her don't love her or you'll break both your hearths. Happrned to me too.

Maybe ur insecure and hate yourself. That's my case and therefore I suck at socializing and /fa/ wont help you if you're in that case since being body dysmorphic makes you think that people with minor "flaws" like slightly discolored teeth or tfw not 6'4 but 6'2 are "ugly". In the end that's just projecting your knsecurities on others in a narcissistic way.

[Anonymous No.14438306]

>>14438251
>but dude what if you're in the wilderness and can't charge your phone!
That wasn't my point. My point was the steady decline in IQ. If you don't understand how that's a problem relating to personal free and positive societal growth I don't know what to say. I don't have a link to the research anyway lol.

>>14438246
Kek

[Anonymous No.14438394]

>>14433102
>tfw 22
>tfw haven't made it
Good for you ya lucky bastard.

[Anonymous No.14438401]

>>14436893
>MGTOW
Fucking faggots. All of them.

[Anonymous No.14438403]

>>14438306
>tech has improved throughout the ages
>IQ is declining!
really makes you think

[Anonymous No.14438435]

>>14432823
Rice and noodles are both useless carbs

[Anonymous No.14438452]

>>14430785
Lmao son, that's not a relationship, that's just someone pretending to like you because you're the only one willing to put up with her shit. I don't know what to tell you with the living situation thing, I'd try to dip if I could but yeah you're fucked on this one

[Anonymous No.14438466]

>>14431132
The best ones come as soon as you stop worrying about it

[Anonymous No.14438490]

>>14438403
Whats your point. Numerous factors have contributed to the decline of IQ. Tech use is arguably one of them, and immigration is another big one. I laugh thinking about your high tech future filled with a bunch of fat brown blobs hooked up to an IV and numerous other devices.

[Anonymous No.14438497]

>>14438221
I don't get it? The statistics are right there in the linked article...

[Anonymous No.14438511]

>>14438401
Years from now, you will realize it is you who am a loser

[Anonymous No.14438670]

>>14430412
32yrs old wizard here.

Today i was larping while doing some groceries so I put some period pads in my basket and 2 different kinds of healthy smoothie x 2...
Female cashier while scanning my products looked at pads and asked me if they were mine or the customer behind me.

>mfw I noticed that 85 yrs old granny behind me.

I guess im just too ugly for even trying to look like I have someone.

[Anonymous No.14438785]

>>14431132
>>14431163
Listen to this anon's advice. I've been there before, had a girl for four years, planned on getting married, moved to a different country all for her and when we broke up it felt like the end of the world and all was lost. Make friends, stick with em and as long as you don't stay inside all day everyday you'll meet someone new. Feeling like shit about it won't solve anything.

[Anonymous No.14438800]

>>14436893
Dude don't fall for that shit. You're setting yourself up for failure.The men that get themselves into that situation usually go for shallow dumb women in general. Find a quality girl, don't be a stupid horny guy and have some standards. Don't date a woman because she's hot date her because you two mesh and have similar values. Also be willing to admit when you're wrong or that you need to make some changes in your life.

t. oldfag who has been with gf for ten years

[Anonymous No.14438896]

>>14430412
im pulling a qt asian rn