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Do you guys have a girlfriend?

>> No.10260535

no

>> No.10260546

>>10260517
Working on it

>> No.10260549

Yeah she's qt

>> No.10260564

yeah she taught me what comme des garçon is

idk shit about fashion hoping she'll rub off on me

>> No.10260633

Not right now, only because I've been a shut in for the past year. I used to hang around toxic people who'd constantly tear down my self esteem, hopes and dreams. I'm pretty sensitive but I'm trying not to be, and lately I've been regaining my passions, getting back into the fashion game, ready to start school and meet new people.

>> No.10260946

No because I tell them how bad their fits are and then they assume I'm gay. :^)

>> No.10260950

she died.


dead girlfriends are the most /fa/ girlfriends.

>> No.10260974

>>10260950
edgy

>> No.10260979

>>10260564
wow bro! trendy xD!!!!!! wyfe her up bro shes fire af

>> No.10260984

>>10260517
Not for the last few months, no.

>> No.10260986

>>10260974
it's true too(possibly)

she dropped off the face of the earth a week ago.

>> No.10260995
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10260995

I've had four for the past 7 years since I was 16, one after the other too. Shit was ruining my life. Been single for a couple months now. It's doing me good. Don't think I'll establish an actual relationship for at least 2-4 years, or until I meet a perfect girl.

>> No.10261003

>>10260995

glad you're taking time to work on yourself.

serial monogamy is sometimes indicative of codependency and lack of a complete personality on one's own.

>> No.10261008

>>10261003
and polyamory is for straight up fags and weirdos.

>> No.10261042

>>10261008
polygamy is actually more natural, and fulfilling. Let's face it, human beings like sleeping with different people, why constrain yourself?

>> No.10261047

>>10261042
because god.

i wont go full /pol/ here, but are you by any chance a girl who fucks a lot of guys?

>> No.10261055

>>10261042
List of non-obese people who have fulfilling poly-amorous relationships that do not involve one party being secretly dissatisfied while the other(s) fuck like the relationship doesn't exist:

>> No.10261056

nope, never had one

>> No.10261058

>>10261047
No, but I am a bisexual guy who's confident in myself and non possessive of other people.

>> No.10261063

>>10261056
this

>> No.10261077
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10261077

not since 2012

>> No.10261079

>>10261077
same here.

i didn't give a shit up until some point in July and now there is a bit of a feel coming on.

i'm so rusty what do i do guys.

>> No.10261081

I don't have a boyfriend. I've never had a boyfriend. I don't think that I ever will have a boyfriend.

>> No.10261088
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10261088

>>10261079
it comes and goes, sometimes i desperately want someone to be around but whenever i see people in relationships in public it all seems so fake and forced

>> No.10261124

>>10261058
word man, keep doing you and i'll keep doing me.

I am possessive of a girl if she's committed to me but that's all mental bullshit that I need to work on.

>> No.10261520

>tfw girlfriendless virgin at 20
>not even ugly or autistic just anti-social
how do you meet girls /fa/

>> No.10261533

>>10261520
tinder lol

>> No.10261538
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10261538

JUST BEA YUORSELF

>> No.10261558

>>10260633
Hey m8 it gets better. you live and you learn don't deal with any shit you deserve better.

>> No.10261570

>>10261538
JUST

>> No.10261582

i dont deserve love, i'm a bitter apathetic college dropout wageslave

>> No.10261601

>>10260517
I do and we're at that puppy love stage. It's fucking awesome. I love it.

Although I have confidence issues and shit. I kissed her a while back when we first started dating and she got all distant and shit because it was her first kiss and she didn't know if she liked me at the time. (if you can't tell I'm in high school) I haven't kissed her once since then. I want to more than anything but I don't want to make her sad again. I want her to make the first move, but she never will.

I still love her, but if this relationship takes off and goes somewhere it's going to be really, really shitty in the bedroom.

>> No.10261617

>>10261601
Damn, I sound like a cuck. I've started taking charge and that's why I won't budge and make the first move, too, since I know it's probably a shit test.

Anyways, since a lot of people on 4chan sometimes are sad about not having a girlfriend I wanted them to know how great it can be and why it's worth meeting new people.

>> No.10261632

not since last year. I was so fed up with her shit I couldn't even consider another relationship for months. I'm not really dependent on other people at all, I just don't really like myself, which is why I like when people like me. Ironic because I get so sick and tired of other people pretty quickly, except for super close friends. guess I'll just keep quietly crushing on girls I work with.

>> No.10261670

Not for a couple of years. Got out of a really long (first) relationship that really destroyed me when it ended. I still miss her, even though she resented me getting /fit/ and /fa/ and was a total unsupportive selfish bitch when my father was dying.

I grinded with my 8.5/10 female friend while drunk last night though, so not so bad I guess.

>> No.10261684

>tfw no bf
It's hard getting past the awkward first date phase for me.

>> No.10261686

Yeah made her pause the movie so I could take a picture of my shoes

>> No.10261700

>>10261684
snapchat?

kik?

skype?

>> No.10261709

>>10261700
I only date 6'+ blonde and blue eyed men :^)

But nah, Internet/long distance relationships have always ended badly for me. I get too attached when I'm bored.

>> No.10261712

no, /fa/ is like /r9k/. only misogynists and jaded autists here.

>> No.10261718

>>10261077
try over 10 years being single, normalfag.

>> No.10261729

>>10261718
>dating
>ever
It's like you don't wanna become a wizard.

>> No.10261733

>>10261582

>> No.10261738

>>10260517
somehow yeah, shes even qt and into fashion

>> No.10261739

only tinder hookups

>> No.10261922

>>10260633
Are you me

>> No.10261957

Not any for over 2 years now.

I am an undercover antisocial
I have an accent
I am uninteresting and boring
I will never find someone with similar taste and vision
I could probably get a gf easily, but only non-soqts are interested in me
I'm not ugly, but I guess I'm too skinny

Some of us are just destined to be alone.

>> No.10261966

>>10260517
yes
and she is more /fa/ than I

>> No.10261978

>>10261957

>I will never find someone with similar taste and vision

Why do you want this?

>> No.10261990

>>10261978
Why wouldn't anyone want that? Don't you want a relationship with someone that understands you and can relate more to you?

And by vision I meant more the way of thinking

>> No.10261995

Never had one. I've always been fat and too insecure to talk to girls in a flirting manner. Now i'm losing weight and have to learn how to talk to girls.

>> No.10262007

im gey but nobody knows except i havent ever had a gf so people are catching on to me

>> No.10262097

literally never.
I have no idea how to ask a girl out on a date. Sometimes it just "happens," and then I don't know what to do next. Do I kiss her? Ask her if she wants to kiss? Run away and jump under a bus?

Like I don't even know what flirting looks like- how do I do it? How do I recognize it?

h-help me /fa/

>> No.10262118

>>10262097
its so easy man. be confident, really know and believe you're someone who they want to spend time with. its amazing how people pick up on your mindstate and self-confidence, it hugely affects how you move and talk and your overall aura. confidence is super attractive to both genders

>> No.10262138

>>10262097
nigga, have you ever seen a romance film?

JUST DO IT

>> No.10262140

>>10262118
i'm confident in every aspect of life except for people that i want to date

how the fuck am I supposed to transfer my general confidence into dating confidence?

>> No.10262147

>>10260517
No but I have 2 fuckbuddies and one told me she loved me so do with that as you may.

>> No.10262149

>>10262097
Everyone is going to be giving you tips but here's one really big one most people will not go over

It isn't always what you do its HOW MUCH you do it

The phrase "plenty of fish in the sea" can be taken quite literally but the important things about fishing are actually going to the sea, trying for a fish as much as you can, and being patient. You won't get every fish to grab the hook, you won't reel in every fish that bites, but that one you get will be delicious
Normally reeling in that "one" will be natural too

Proceed to tell the guy your pick up tips

>> No.10262151

>>10262140

Experience makes confidence

>> No.10262194

>>10261990

No I want a relationship with someone who sees things from a different point of view so I can learn to understand them and vice versa.

>> No.10262230

Yes, she dresses like shit. Think dresses and skirts with low top white Chucks.

>> No.10262247

>>10262230
but dresses and skirts are qt

>> No.10262363

>>10261520
Are you me?

>>10261533
Yeah like that ever helped. I personally rarely get matches, but the few girls I have talked to and gotten to know well have, when asked for a candid opinion, said they do find me more attractive than not.

>> No.10262396

>>10261712
>Misogynists

Woah little buddy!
I think you need to fuck off back to thmblr.

>> No.10262477

>>10261055
When I think about it, the only polyamorous people I know of are obese and fucking creeps.

>> No.10262486

>>10260986
greentext that shit man

>> No.10262497

>>10261055

lol

i've been in poly relationships for the past 4 years, you're jaded as fuck

>> No.10262651

>>10260517
Yeah since we were 15/14. We are now 21/nearly20.

She's a gorgeous little thing but can be a total bitch. Though yesterday she gave me a hug and said "I'm sorry I'm such a cunt"

Okay
Whatever

>> No.10262656

man i haven't thought about scott pilgrim ages

>> No.10262657

>>10260517
Yes, she is an 8/10

>> No.10262850

>>10261520
Same

>> No.10262852

>>10262651
yeah sorry to break it to you but she's cheating on you

with me

>> No.10262881

no but I have a qt blonde twinky bf :))

>> No.10262910

>>10262149
Oh man I like your metaphor. Let me add to it

If you don't put yourself out there, never sailing out for being afraid of the sea, it's like you're sitting on the shore, waiting for the sea to beach a fish to your feet. It will never happen, and if it somehow does, it's probably going to be a whale

>> No.10262958
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10262958

sup

>> No.10262969

>>10260517
Yeah she's a qt.
I also have a legit model completely in love with me, she's annoying af though. Not sure what to do wit her.

>> No.10262971

>>10261077
same, ex had issues, kinda ruined me for a year or so

>>10261088
so much this, fucking hate that, how can people not see past those masks they are making on each other (I guess maybe they dont wan to also, or they'll be single like me)

well atleast I dont have forced or manipulative relationship I guess

>> No.10262990

>>10260986

and here you are, using her death to promote your own self. As you will in the future. I've met people like you. You're a pathetic poser and a piece of shit. Fuck you.

>> No.10263160

>>10261617
>>10261601
It gets horrible and boring after that. Mate please post pics im still in hs and i know i will be no gf for life. Just post pics so i could pretend i am you. I know pathetic..

>> No.10263183

>>10262958
Lmao haha is that kate? Yolk

>> No.10263193

>>10261632
you are literally me

>> No.10263200

>>10260517
yeah, and she's a model no less. she's pretty (7-7.5/10) effay without actually taking much interest in proper 'fashion'.

>> No.10263302

>>10260633
stay positive buddy. You sound like you're on the right track.


haven't had a gf in a year. I don't want most of the girls that approach me on their own accord and somehow things get fucked up in situations where I'm the one that approaches people I'm interested in. I've been described as an 8 or 9 out of 10 but I see an uggo in the mirror and I'm a socially anxious virgin which is problematic. So I don't really approach anyone anymore and don't really respond to advances.

Although I've been questioning my sexuality and I feel as though this is a prime time to experiment. I'm kind of confused and on the fence.

The loneliness only really bothers me when I'm drunk or high. And mostly only because the other people I had in my life (friends, family) have become major shitheads. But I'm giving up the weed and the booze when uni rolls back around, going to focus on losing weight and earning my degree.

>> No.10263564

ye + she's got about 30k ig followers lmao

>> No.10263611

>>10261709
hello

>> No.10263783

>>10262969
S I D E B I T C H
I
D
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I
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C
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>> No.10263805

>>10260517
yea she's hella cute and we are hella gay

>> No.10264067

>>10260950
SYYLLLVVIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAA

>> No.10264130

>>10261008

i wasn't advocating polyamory?

i feel neutral about polyamory. and i'm not against monogamy.

serial monogamy, however, strikes me as an odd phenomenon. i'm sure it works for some people, but i've so often seen it used as an excuse for not learning about and improving oneself

>> No.10264256

>>10262194
Life isn't a never ending "postmodern capitalism" google-like CEO-only cool-jazz lounge commercial meetup.
You're very wrong but I don't know how to tell you m8.

>> No.10264275

>>10264256
>"postmodern capitalism" google-like CEO-only cool-jazz lounge commercial meetup
Don't know the fuck that means tbh. Just subliminal flashes of hell.

>> No.10264277

>>10261042
because my girlfriend is way hotter than I am and I would never get laid

>> No.10264280

I've never had one and I'm 21, I know this isn't normal, but is it very not normal?

>> No.10264294

>>10264067

Suddenly every machine stopped at once
And the monitors beeped the last time
Hundreds of thousands of hospital beds
And all of them empty but mine

>> No.10264379
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no, never had and my life's great
last time i had sex was 2 years ago
dont crave sexual relations either
i do my thing and life life to the fullest, have all the time for cycling and hiking, gaming and drinking. win win.

>> No.10264383

>>10264379
I read that "as i do my thing and life life to the fullest, have all the time for gaming and gaming, gaming and gaming. win win"

>> No.10264394

>>10260517
trouble finding one, lately realised that i dont give a shit about personality and only look at how hot or cute she looks. Really cant pull any girl because i dont find them interesting and cant put myself to start a boring conversation. I may be narcistic but i dont need any mental input in my life, all i need is physical interaction with a girl. lifes pretty fucked up

>> No.10264397

>>10260633
Were they toxic or are you really an asshole?

>> No.10264398
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>>10261077
2011 here

>> No.10264437
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10264437

I do, but I'm also a possessive, unstable, terrible person and most of the time feel like she deserves better. I also hang out (platonically) with female friends and feel like I'm cheating on her afterwards, so I hate myself even more.

>> No.10264570

No, but I have a huge crush on this girl at work. She's not even my type. She's got tattoos, even a small one on her neck, and she sports a street/skate style, or whatever it's called. But when she laughs, I really couldn't care less about minor details like that.

Anyway, she's got a boyfriend and we're both quitting our jobs at the end of the month, so que sera sera...

>> No.10264650

>>10264383
maybe you think im that neckbeard achetype but not really tho

>> No.10264780

>>10264650
everything about your post said otherwise but ok

>> No.10265076

yes, but it's not all peachy-keen on my side.
i have an ex who was also my fuckbuddy, but she's been having feeling still and gets butthurt whenever i post something about me and my gf on social media. i've been trying to stop it from getting the best of me, but i can't help but think maybe me dating my gf is a mistake because we aren't clicking as much as me and my ex did before... but its early on in the relationship, so i don't know

>> No.10265292

>>10262149
Thank you! Very encouraging.

>>10262910
>it's probably going to be a whale
top kek

I'd better go sailing then, I guess.

>> No.10265308

>tfw the minute a girl shows interest in me I stop fancying her

anyone else know this feel

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10265316

nah
haven't wanted one for a while now+haven't met a really cool girl to convince me otherwise either

>mfw people/couples ask me for the 100th time why i don't have a steady gf or bring girls to work get togethers

>> No.10265326 [DELETED] 

yeah she's 21 im 17, she models and everything is pretty cool for me as she drives me places and shit but she is really dumb like i have to talk to other people in order to feel fulfilled sometimes but idk. she came onto me when i was 16 and yeah just been like that since

>> No.10265784

I have a "date" with a qt coming up but I have a feeling she doesn't think it's a date

>> No.10266056
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>Dated a girl from 2012 to 2013
>Pretty chill, older, even kind of looks like Mary Elizabeth Winstead, but a bit chubbier
>We start becoming pissy and rarely talk
>She tells me she got a new job closer to her home town 3 hours away
>We have one last date and end things amicably, both ready to date others, start anew
>Keep in touch a little bit
>Only person in the world to actually listen in on me DJing and hosting my college radio show, not even my parents
>She calls me up, says she's going to be in Town for a day
>She's lost weight, looks fucking incredible now
>Hang out all day, coffee, the park, dinner, hung out the rest of her night in her hotel room
>Wake up next morning, I go to work, she on a 3 hour drive home
>2 months later, haven't been on any other dates with anyone

No anon, I don't

>> No.10266243

>>10260633
same here brother, recently tried to reconnect with my toxic old "best-friend" and it immediately backfired. reconnect with old friends and meet new people through them, that's what I did

>> No.10266278

>>10261957
work on yourself then man if you have such self esteem issues

>> No.10266300

I haven't had a girlfriend since 2005.

I don't see myself ever having another -- I mean that positively.

>> No.10266337

Nah, not anymore. Probably won't find anybody up to snuff for a while.

>> No.10266355

>>10266300
Damn, that's heavy. Did you get fat or is it that girls are such shit?

>> No.10266449

nope and its not looking good for me

>> No.10266502

>>10263200
that means she looks good naked

>> No.10266882

>>10260517
nah i wish i had a bf :(

i had a fwb last semester he was p qt and /fa/ imo
more like a sneaker head fuccboi streetwear kind but thats still better than what is usually around where i live.

i miss talking to him about clothes and shoes.
he's the only one that commented on my shoes and fits :(

i could get a bf if i wanted to but i would have to settle and everyone that interest me is always taken or not looking for a relationship.

probably could have dated my fwb if he didn't have a gf and i didn't fuck him the second time we hung out lol

i think im going to slut it up on tinder this year cause i feel like everyone is having alot of sex and im not doing it enough.

>> No.10266899

>>10266882

don't do a thing because other people are doing a thing. you will still feel dissatisfied afterwards.

do a thing because you want to do the thing.

that being said, do whatever you want.

>> No.10266917

>>10266899
but i feel like im missing out and ill regret not having fun in the future when im old and gross

is that enough to be considered "doing it for my self"

>> No.10266928

>>10260517

i do, thanks for asking OP

>> No.10266933

>>10266882
>i feel like everyone is having alot of sex and im not doing it enough.
fine example of AWALT, hope you were around my campus, would give you dicking after my english class

>> No.10266939

>>10266917
You sound like an idiot so you might as well make some dumb decisions

>> No.10266942

>>10260633

/diary

nah but really man, we've all been like that, i think. good that you're doing better :D

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10266944

No, and I'm a kissless virgin, but I don't really mind for now. I've had girls (and guys) show interest in me, and although they were attractive, I wasn't attracted to them. It'll happen when it happens.

>> No.10266963

>>10262149
>>10262910
Which sea should I set sail on?

>> No.10266999

>>10266933
>AWALT
>>>>/redpill/
>>>>/r9k/

>>10266939
how is it dumb to want to have fun while you're young and feeling like you're missing out cause every one else is have fun right in your face

i want to fuck. so what

>> No.10267104

I've been hanging out with a girl all summer. Her boyfriend hasn't been around. Any advice on how to ask her if she has feelings for me or what her intentions were?

>> No.10267137

yea but she isnt into fashion and always wears long sleave sweatshirts and skinny jeans she doesnt want to show her arms cuz of cut scars tell me what to tell her /fa/

>> No.10267138

>>10266944
you're so deep man

>> No.10267164

>>10267138
yeah dude find me on reddit.com for some more deep feelings

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>>10260517
had one yea, met in tokyo when we were both travelling around, we went out that night and got lost in the city, it was like i found what i always wanted, but she was so different from what i expected my gf to be, she wasn't even that /fa/, but god damn her eyes were amazing.
anyways, she went back to kyoto after that cus she was an au pair, and i went to kyoto as well, hung out with her a bit there and went to some cool temples n shit together.
after that she went back to straya, and i went back home, decided to go after her and then we were together for half a year in australia which was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me.
but now im back home. starting to school in amsterdam, the relationship is over because of the distance, we still talk, we still love eachother. but it's over. and i keep telling myself ill get back to her but who knows, she might just meet someone else.

i know that shes the one though

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>>10267724
Japan, australia, amsterdam, i wish i could travel as much


I don't have a gf for 6 months, i hang out with many girls though but the only /fa/ one only dates blacks dudes (she is black) :''(

>> No.10267782

>>10261079
go to r9k tbh, they convinced me that women terrible, subhuman, good for nothings. I will never ever in my life give a woman a second glance, fuck em.

>> No.10267783

>>10267782
Ofcourse. But i still want to feel it

>> No.10267789

Half Singaporean half Australian at. Lives with me and we've been together one and a half years

Getting a bit tired of this. I don't really understand how people don't get bored fucking the same person over and over. I've cheated on her by fucking one girl my friend introduced me to and one prostitute.

Our relationship is a bit sad and depressing. Don't really know how to end it because of the living situation. She went hysterical when I tried to before

>> No.10267791

>>10266882
>>10267782
like this one

>> No.10267799

>>10267783
that feeling is just some fuckin chemical reaction in your body, you can feel good some other type of way doing shit that you wanna do not worrying about relationships or anything like that. do what you want without being weighed down by a woman nawimean. you can fuck them but what else are you gonna do with them?

>> No.10267873

of course no one here can find love that's why they waste their time looking at pony open and d*ck picks on four chan

>> No.10267937

>>10264437
is this in ljubljana by any chance?

>> No.10268288

I broke up with my girlfriend literally the day after Christmas '11. And she didn't really even do anything to justify it.

Haven't had another since, and haven't looked back since. Feels good 8)

>> No.10268349

I can never get it into my head that a girl likes me. I've had several times where I've come close to getting a gf, but always overthink it and end up ignoring them or thinking that they don't like me, it's usually just before I would have to commit to a relationship, all of which I wanted. In hindsight pretty much everyone of these girls liked me and would have gotten in a relationship with me, but I just can't see why they would and I leave it up to them to initiate dates and hanging out. It's the same thing I do with friends, always leave it up to them to make plans and invite e to the things because I don't think they'll ever want to do anything.

What the fuck is wrong with me?

>> No.10268450

>>10268349
nothing, i had that too, just with the girls though, it seemed like such a fucking weird concept and i just couldn't understand it. and then it just happened.

>> No.10268463

>>10267937
Holy shit, how did you know?! Yes, it's at the corner of NUK library.

>> No.10268512

I had like 5 in middle school but for the past 6 years I've not had one

It's not that I'm ugly or overtly shy, I just don't talk to many girls

That's gonna change tho