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is living completely sober effay?

barring maybe coffee, but other than that, no smokes, no weed, no booze, no hard drugs, how do people usually take this?

not that it really matters all that much to me since I'd be doing it for my health, but I am curious.

>> No.9925564

no, you pussy

>> No.9925575

>>9925556
Yes, harem lifestyle is best lifestyle

>> No.9925594

>>9925556
Add no fap to the list and allow yourself a minimal amount of alcohol as social lubricant and not just to get smashed and pass out.

Idk if you be effay but at least you won't be an unproductive degenerate.

>> No.9925603

>>9925556
no it's not
complete opposite of effay
you only have one life
why live boring

if you aren't getting as much as possible out of every second you have you're doing it wrong

>> No.9925606

>>9925556
drugs are good

>> No.9925607
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9925607

>>9925564
>no, you pussy

>> No.9925613

>>9925603
why not live your life then

instead of deluding yourself that you're "satisfied" with your miserable lifestyle by ingesting funny chemicals

>> No.9925623

>>9925603
Well, that's actually why I want to quit. The last 3 years of my life are more or less a blur, I've been spending so much of my life just blacking out my days, disconnecting myself, and lately I feel like my mental health is deteriorating.

>> No.9925626

>>9925613
i agree

>> No.9925632

>>9925603
>you only have one life
Why live it organs intact and cancer free?

>if you aren't getting as much as possible out of every second you have you're doing it wrong
Do you understand how retarded you sound? Probably not because of your junked up brain. YOU'LL GET MORE TIME TO LIVE WITHOUT THE DRUGS AND MAYBE YOULL ACTUALLY HAVE MEMORIES AT THE END OF IT ALL

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>>9925623
You're making the right decision then. It is much better to have an OK social life and be on your way to becoming an intellectual, than to waste your life away participating in degeneracy.

>> No.9925662

>>9925603
>being sober is inherently boring

how does it feel to be a shell of a human?

>> No.9925669

>>9925613
? i am living my life every day, enjoying chemicals doesn't change that

i drink coffee every morning to perk me up and give me a fresh start
i take vyvanse and adderall every day so i don't want to eat more than my body needs and to be as productive as possible at work and in the gym
i smoke 2-3 cigarettes per week because it's hella relaxing sometimes
i like drinking with friends after work and on weekends (where would you even socialize on a fri night for example if you never go to bars)
i like smoking weed with friends every once in a while to relax

why ignore chemicals instead of using them to enhance your life when you can

ignoring them in the pursuit of a sober lifestyle and using this ignorance as a sense of "purism" or superiority is the delusion
projecting your unhappiness onto anyone that doesn't confine themself to your sober "lifestyle" is miserable

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>>9925669
>hella

>> No.9925717

>>9925669
reeeeeeeee btfo
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>> No.9925745

>>9925669
>ALL THIS DOPE I'M DOING ISNT HURTING MY BODY! I WORKOUT!
>YOURE JUST TRYHARD PURISTS AND SQUARES

Have fun when you're middle aged, riddled with health problems, and realize you spent your youth numbing your brain and slouching around with your bum as friends.

You're not "enhancing" your life with chemicals. You're effectively fucking up your future for some short term, hedonistic buzzes.

>> No.9925762

>>9925745
Pretty much where I'm at with it, not that I haven't enjoyed my hedonistic phase, I just don't think that I can personally live like this much longer and stay happy. I'm 21 years old and feel like I'm burning out, and for the first time, I feel like it's a waste.

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9925781

>not having a manageable heroin habit
>not smoking a pack a day

>> No.9925791

>>9925669
You're making several logical fallacies here, but I'm not sure if your mind is functioning well enough to even notice them.

For one, are you implying that you cannot live a fulfilling life without abusing drugs?

>> No.9925794

>>9925781
>not having a manageable heroin habit

nobody does

>> No.9925798

I ingest drugs occasionally.

>> No.9925802

>>9925781
help i'm colorblind
Also enjoy having heart attack from injecting literal poison into your body

>> No.9925816

>>9925556

Having the courage of your convictions is respectable, but has nothing to do with fashion.

>> No.9925830

>>9925762

I'm also 21 and I used to drink every weekend, smoke weed erryday, and drop acid twice a month. I was unproductive, had shitty friends, and a shitty attitude.

Caffeine and a minimal amount of alcohol in the appropriate social situations won't kill ya but spend your time and money on self-improvement.

Work on getting a worthwhile job, learn an instrument, learn a language, read more, try to get in the social circles of successful people, whatever.

>> No.9925845

>>9925745
maybe i'm stuck in my early 20s hedonism but middle age is the last thing on my mind
don't want to get married and kids are hella repulsive no thanks i'd rather enjoy life now
>>9925791
why would i want to live like a conservative religious idiot when i can legally and easily get drugs
why would i want to live a boring life when i don't have to
i'm physically in the best shape of my life and the only thing that matters is every day why wouldn't you make the most of it

>> No.9925857

i just turned 21 this month and i have only taken a huff at a cigarette, and done 1 shot in my entire life. never smoked weed or done any hard drugs, never been drunk, etc. I dont see the point? is life really better doing those things? seems quite unhealthy. you dont miss what you've never done :3.

>> No.9925863

>>9925791
i'll never understand the sober lifestyle
why are you holding back
why are you intentionally choosing boredom
what are you waiting for
you only get one life

>> No.9925870

>>9925857
>you dont miss what you've never done :3
lmao interesting approach

>> No.9925882

doing drugs is /fa, but it seems like a lot of people here can't enjoy life without them and that is a problem to me
drugs are good once in a while but when you feel like being sober is boring, then you have a problem
fuck the straightedge lifestyle not for me, I'd say most /fa is using drugs in moderation and being able to have fun both sober and high on different drugs

>> No.9925884

>>9925863
>>9925845

You are implying that life is "boring" if one does not abuse drugs. This is untrue.

You are also implying that people who do not abuse drugs (ie most of the population) are "conservative religious idiots." This is untrue also.

>> No.9925889

>>9925640

implying asap rocky is a reader

>> No.9925903

>>9925884
im pretty sure most of the population does use drugs

>> No.9925909

Smoke weed but dont be a stoner
Smoke cigarettes as much as you want, even if that amount is none
Do hard drugs but don't be a druggy, that's boring

I've done coke and mandy and all I can say is coke is dull and mandy makes you depressed afterwards. Infact I think it would take a lot of neglegence for me to become an addict because all drugs have concequences. As long as you are in control do what you want and don't be a dick about it

>> No.9925914

>>9925889
I'm sure he is - or at least his songwriters are.

Being on top of the rap game requires excellent command of the English language.

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>>9925603
>jus live ur life man, yolo amirite lol

fucking lel

>> No.9925936

>>9925909
>>9925909
>do what you want and don't be a dick about it

That stupid tumblrista tolerance is why society is full of all these high time preference degenerates in the first place.

>> No.9925945

>>9925936
>tunblrista

Opinion discarded

>> No.9925946

I'm 19. I've never drank alcohol, never smoked, never done any drugs. I'm fucking miserable and I wish I was dead.

I'm fa tho right :)

>> No.9925965

>>9925909
>coke is dull
did my dissertation on coke and addys

>> No.9925974

>>9925946
You might have depression tbh

Drugs would only have made it worse

See a psychiatrist tbh it will help

>> No.9925981

>>9925556
Who cares? Do what you wanna do. Going straight edge or whatever the fuck it's called is neither admirable nor bad, though some get a bit preachy about it.

>> No.9925985

>>9925946
Your constructed straw man need to talk to a therapist and self-improve not shoot up

>>9925945
Sure showed me

>> No.9926007

>>9925981
>Who cares? Do what you wanna do.

Do understand how terrible this advice would be to give someone who tends to make bad decisions considering the topic is drugs?

>> No.9926034

>>9925556
>is living completely sober effay?
It can help with a lot of things, especially health-wise. It might be hard on your social life, depending on who your friends are. It isn't particularly fashionable or unfashionable.

Like >>9925981
mentioned, avoid being preachy. People hate that. You've made your own decision to live this way, don't expect or require others to do the same.

>> No.9926035

>>9925974
probably do have depression tbh

I've been to a psychiatrist and I'm meant to do CBT but I haven't went yet. I also didn't want to take medication before my exams

I don't know, it's kind of comfy being depressed. You get used to it and actually getting better seems ridiculous after a while.

Anyway to keep in the context of the thread, my dad was extremely strict and he scared the living shit out of me so I never drank or did drugs or any of that shit. His dad was an alcoholic, two of his uncles were alcoholics and his sister is currently an alcoholic. Then on my mother's side, her brother and sister are neets with mental health issues (schizophrenia, borderline) and my mother is manic depressive.

So I'm thinking alcohol or drugs wouldn't suit me somehow

>inb4 nice blog

>> No.9926076

>>9925556
I do it. I feel like I have a higher moral ground than the average boozesucking member of society. I don't need to drink or get fucked up on hallucinogens to deal with my problems, I just deal with them. Being a stoner or a druggie is as un-effay as it comes. You're just a pussy if you poison your body willingly

>> No.9926182

>>9925857
exaclty the same as you. Tried cigarettes once, hated it, tried beer oncd, hated it, tried hookah once, hated it. life is much better w/o this shit tbh

>> No.9926191

>>9926182
lol u must be fun

>> No.9926215

>>9926191
>having such shit personalities that you need to be intoxicated or insert needles into your ass to become remotely interesting and get people to actually talk to you

>> No.9926220

>>9926035
>So I'm thinking alcohol or drugs wouldn't suit me somehow

You're right, I wouldn't do drugs or alcohol either if I was in your situation. It must have been a little troubling to see all that happening in your family.

>I don't know, it's kind of comfy being depressed. You get used to it and actually getting better seems ridiculous after a while.

It's normal for people to rationalize a bad situation so that it doesn't trouble you as much.

>I've been to a psychiatrist and I'm meant to do CBT but I haven't went yet. I also didn't want to take medication before my exams

That's good, you should try that when you can. I'm sure you'll be alright anon.

>> No.9926268

>>9926220
thank you reeeeeeeeee, you're not that bad after all

>> No.9926303

>>9925556
a little bit of hard liquor is okay, but the rest is fine to not do. i don't either. weed is for degenerates

>> No.9926321

>>9925845
there's an endless amount of shit to do in the world and the only thing you can think of is having fun with drugs

Y O L O
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>> No.9926326

How do you know you won't like it if you don't try it

>> No.9926352

>>9926326
try suicide

>> No.9926374

/fa/ has such hilariously sheltered views on drugs

you guys are plain and unoriginal faggots

>> No.9926396

>>9926303
>weed is for degenerates
This, and I'm all for legalizing it too. Taz the fuck out of these idiots, and let them turn into further degenerates, making folk like us literally even more superior to them.

>> No.9926417

>>9926396
Tax*

>> No.9926440

>>9925556
i live sober i guess
dont like the taste of any alcohol, it's expensive as fuck in ontario, and i don't like clubbing
weed is ok but i feel like too much of a retard for too long even after the high has worn off to do it on any sort of consistent basis
done lsd, shrooms and it was alright; would probably do em again. thought about killing myself a lot on shrooms but then i realized im chillin on a couch watching a 90s batman marathon with my best buds maybe life isnt that bad

>> No.9926498

Most of the posters in this thread must be fucking torturous to be around

You guys sound like home schooled teenagers

It's entirely possible to use relatively safe drugs responsibly. Imo, most of you in this thread could really use some ego-softening and empathetic experiences, because this thread is full of superiority complexes and autistic behavior

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>>9926326

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this kids a pussbag

>> No.9927013

>>9925556
>is not drinking, smoking, and doing drugs good?
Yes, you fucking idiot. What the fuck is wrong with you? How do people usually take this? They take it fine.

>> No.9927103

>>9926498
OP here, reporting back. I agree with you.

Some people are perfectly capable of using drugs responsibly for long periods of time with little to no negative effects. I'm learning that I'm not one of those people.

>> No.9927178

I think as long as you have friends who aren't doing drugs telling you what you're missing out on or calling you str8 edge. But then again then again they may not be real friends..

>> No.9927190

>>9925556
Being completely sober you'll only be seen as either inexperienced (no fun), scared (no fun), once addicted and now cold turkey (no fun), you don't want that, anon

There's no physical health need to be completely sober, unless you're dealing with fucked up conditions

Booze is a chore, unless it's social and you have to, tobacoo in 2015 doesn't make sense, weed outside of hash bars is juvenile

Atm I'm on clonidine, zofran, DXM, MDMA, shrooms, vicodin (I'm low on these halp ;_;)

inb4 ree calls me a whore

>> No.9927204

>>9927190
>Atm I'm on clonidine, zofran, DXM, MDMA, shrooms, vicodin
suuuuuuuuuuuuure

>> No.9927251

>>9927204
Not all at once my bad

>> No.9927304

>>9927190
>Being completely sober you'll only be seen as either inexperienced (no fun), scared (no fun), once addicted and now cold turkey (no fun), you don't want that, anon

Maybe that is true within your circle of trashy high school friends, but it is def. not real worl reality.

Maybe being sober during the week means I want to be productive at my job and not feel like shit every morning. Or that I would like to not potentially be arrested and have my professional life ruined.

Is everyone on this board 15?

>> No.9927916

>>9927103
At least you recognize that.

>> No.9927936

currently on a train back home while rolling hard on mdma
Ask me anything

>> No.9927938

>>9925556
youd be a giant nerd if you did it, but just plain pathetic if you did it halfway. cut out coffee to you faggot, if your gonna go mormon, you have to go full mormon or your just an asshole.

>> No.9927986

you'll experience everything that you can experience from drugs if you lead your life the right way. no side effects. That's including psychedelics.

the reason you can feel good is so that you're better at passing down your genetics. good feels begetmore good feels

>> No.9928290

judging by many posts in this thread many of you who frequent /fa/ are youngsters so from a guy who just left the experimentation phase let me give you guys a few words of advice:

the most important thing is to not let the drugs consume you. this is easier said than done. i have seen too many of my friends start out as well to do, ambitious, bright kids warp into strange and twisted people over the span of their own experiences with using and progressively becoming more comfortable with different types of drugs.

im talking weed, then mdma, then dabs, hash, mushrooms, LSD, cocaine, ketamine etc. all sorts of shit.

if you're an insecure KID, like the lot of you are, then be cautious when experimenting. dont be fooled into thinking that doing drugs will make people like you (a lot of people do think this and i once thought this myself). experimenting lightly and with purpose will probably be fun, but lets be honest, youre really not unlocking mind-blowingly novel perspectives on your life by using most drugs. psychedelics are a different story and i've had mostly positive and constructive experiences with them. but again, purposefulness and moderation is key.

now go out there and taste the dragon.

>> No.9928298

>>9927936
hows it hanging

>> No.9928340

>>9928298
Forced down a toast, smoked a cig and now I Wonder why I still dont feel sleepy at all. Currently considering the pill I took wasnt just mdma afterall. One of the best rolls in a long time though

>> No.9928388

>>9927304
>Is everyone on this board 15?

well yeah

>> No.9928408

i wouldn't know, i'm an alcoholic

>> No.9928423

>needing artificial stimulant in order to have fun
>being a slave to desire

plebs get out

>> No.9928428

Ive never really experienced with drugs or alcohol, it just doesnt interest me. For me it is a waste of my time and money to spend so much on things that will in the end hurt your body and mind (sounds a bit preachy, I know)

I never saw the point. I don't need alcohol to be social and I don't need drugs to have fun. I like to wake up in the morning and the only thing I have to worry about is that I didn't wake up earlier or that I really need some coffee and a nice breakfast. It is just really relaxing to live a normal and healthy life. I know by how the way I live now that I wont have health problems when im older, which is really nice.

I do understand that people who been using since their early teens dont get this mentality as doing drugs and alcohol is more of something they are rather than a hobby. They just need it too function in society and that's fine I guess, I don't judge them for that. I do have a problem however when they try to justify a lifestyle that is scientifically proven to worsen your health permanently and to only get worse the more you age.

>> No.9928433

Depends.

Are you gonna be a sXelord and never shut the fuck up about a deluded sense of superiority (No) ?

Or are you gonna just keep that shit to yourself (Yes) ?