/fa/ - Fashion

girls don't give a fuck about looks
by dressing well you're becoming self conscious and you're afraid to step out of your 'cool' look and do something silly. girls can sense that your thoughts, words and actions aren't alined.

>>7416127
Well then fuck them, I'm not going to dress down for plebs.

>>7416141
that's not what i said. you can dress however you want but you need to stop depending your value on the clothes that you're wearing. feel good without depending on something.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism

>>7416141
Let's see the look. Pretty sure it can't be as good as in your little story.

And obviously you being good looking isn't to your detriment. You're most likely just acting really awkward and lack confidence. The solution: Do a 1000 approaches and learn every time.

>>7416141
its not about you dressing down, its about you being comfortable and 100% in the moment instead of being up in your head thinking about your hair and looks. If you approached them relaxed without thought, like you would when you're drunk then it would of gone better

>>7416141
Then don't be surprised basic bitches for want talk to you simple that nothing personal you broadening lifestyle gap choosing be fashionable so you got wait around for girl that actually understand what you about

>>7416146
>would of

>>7416148
this is gonna sound silly but what are some good books on stoicism?

That's called reality. Don't act like a big deal because no one likes that. Take interest in the girl, be confident, be yourself. Be funny, don't be afraid to look like a fool. Brush it off or go with the flow.

>>7416155
ah shiet english in my 3rd language
would have*

>>7416160
ask /lit/

>>7416158
>shiet

cause u look like a fuccboi, not even being mean, u look like a pussy and u live in russia to top it off

Can we please stop having these threads?
>but muh fashions

Grow up. This isn't /hookups/

who cares

stop making shit threads

>tfw i want a grail more than a girl
honestly a steady bish doesn't seem like an attractive prospect right now

>Come home from the ski hill
>buddy asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, his girlfriend, and three other girls
>tell me sure
>arrive at 1am
>not enough time to get drunk/driving
>one of the friends compliments my Alexander Mcqueen shirt
>turns out shes boring and too drunk
>go home and browse /fa/

>>7416146
The thing is I wasn't that much about the look, I was thinking about music playing and spending the night with some grill and how good the coke was. I approached relaxed and with a warm smile. I don't know, if I was a girl I wouldn't like drunk monkeys approaching me. Alcohol isn't even remotely cool when you are drunk to the point some guys were this night. It's like "dude don't puke on the floor", not "relaxed without thought".
>>7416148
> stop depending your value on the clothes that you're wearing
I don't, I feel comfortable in a black hoodie and some worn out shit as well as dress shirts and that stuff.
>>7416150
Don't have the photo. I've described pretty accurately how I was dressed.
>just acting really awkward and lack confidence
Dunno man, dunno. Maybe you are right and I'm just not aware of it. Normally I'm pretty confident.
>>7416154
Well yeah. The thing is I'm not into girls who dress in expensive clothing, wear heels and rock gold (in a upper-class-white-woman manner), they always look cold and unaproachable. So I guess I have a problem.

>>7416174
fuck off fake abo

>>7416194
fuck here you on that man you just got keep lurking there be basic bitches that want get down think want learn fashion can admit they don't know jack shit look to dudes like you and self they out there stay at

>>7416198
Your speedfreak manner of writing just gave me a smile, thank you :) I get the message and I'll "stay at", brah

You sound like a total faggot and i want to beat you up now, where u at

>>7416207
Moscow

Probably the vibe you give off. The only time I've ever had girls be interested in me is when I didn't give a fuck about hooking up with them. I know it sounds cliche, but it is all about confidence. Go with your buddies to have fun and make memories, not to meet sluts. Even if they come up to talk to you, don't try and act all flirty. Talk to them the same way you would with friends.

I knew a guy who was ugly as shit and banged girls left and right. I asked him how this ways possible. He said
"I think I am the shit. Therefore, I AM, the shit."

Confidence, bro.

>>7416217
I thought Russians were supposed to be hard. How the fuck does a crybaby like you even exist there?

>>7416227
Yeah and murricans are supposed to be stupid and fat and europeans are supposed to be gay and pretentious. I'n not whining, I just want to know what's wrong.

>>7416121
you're the most bipolar trip out.

Mostly you post insecure shit like this though.

I know you can be cool man. Stop trying to make people think you're the best.

>>7416127

paul is my spirit animal

sigh

>>7416121
post pic of self, I thought I had a male model tier jawline then I posted in /soc/ threads for a while and I'm actually not even 5/10

You could actually be ugly af sorry

>>7416253
>using /soc/ as an objective guide for anything

If you want to attract girls don't dress like you're gay

>>7416238
I acctually am bipolar. Never show it irl tho.
>>7416253
Here, posted it like 3 weeks ago

>>7416266

you look like a rat eating noodle

>>7416266
why would you put a cigarette in your mouth just for a picture

meh you're pretty decent looking

>>7416266
u look smelly

>>7416271
I was leaving and I always roll one before leaving. And putting them behind the ear is tryhard

>>7416160
>stoicism

meditation by marcus aurelius

>>7416279
you roll like shit. the cig looks thick as fuck

>>7416284
maybe he likes em' thick

:^)

>>7416290
:^)

>>7416266
В сраной другой менталитет, эти бабы наверняка подумали, что ты пидор.

>>7416154
im not trying to be a dick but do you know how to talk?

James bond doesn't fuck the girls, the guy who puts his personality out there and opens all the fukcing doors fucks the girls.

James bond looks cool in the corner all night.
Nerdy faggot guy who took what he wanted gets his dick sucked.

Your choice.

Well fuck everything, I'll go bump some Yung Lean. Thanks for the answers.

>>7416315

such a cool way to justify your sad lonely dick, brah

maybe they were intimidated, maybe you should go to better bar/clubs or move

p-post fit

>>7416406
don't have full fit. here's a foto earlier that night

>>7416315
I've seen some of the James Bond movies and he does actually have sex quite a lot

also OP said he did make a few moves and got rejected

>>7416427
you are fucking retarded

like literally

the point is that people think acting like fucking james bond gets you the sex
when it doesnt work like that
closed mouth doesnt get fed

whatever moves op made must have been half assed, you can see it in his beta presentation of himself

>>7416428
Well also James Bond is also pretty alpha at times like in James Bond: Falling Sky he actually hides in a building next door to a qt and shoots someone and then chats her up at a bar later in the movie.

>>7416412
This is not an attack but OP you look like a try-hard and insecure. I don't know how you stand/talk but you give me cringy asshole vibes.

>>7416412
you have precisely 0 sex appeal. its possible to be gorgeous and completely undesireable in any sexual sense.

>>7416441
yet he is none

op ur hair looks like shit

>>7416439
>>7416441
I'm on the left, but I guess you figured it. Damn guys you just made me feel bad. I think this is partially true cos I used to get more pussy 2 years ago when had a buzzcut and wore shit clothing. Any advice? What do

>>7416148
this is an interesting take, but I beg to differ.
wearing expensible and luxury brand clothing makes me feel more confident and therefore helps me socialize.

so in a way, my self-value is dependent on my clothing. HOWEVER, I agree with >>7416146; when I have put myself together and I'm confident that my overall look is good, I don't spend a second thought about it during the night out.

>>7416412
there's just nothing appealing about you

you look like you fart a lot

>>7416458
not doing drugs helps imo

>>7416487
nnno i'd rather be a lonely ugly junkie, thanks

>>7416412
You look like a major douche who's purposely trying hard.

>>7416490
Well you know what will eventually happen, then you go to jail.

>>7416496
nnno I got $$$ to buy myself out of it and I don't deal. Also I don't look like a junkie

>>7416502
Well, idk mate, all I know is that if you make smoking part of your image you'll only attract other smokers. I'm not calling it good or bad, just an observation. You're not bad looking btw, kinda like a Mayer/Pattison cross

>>7416506
Well, imo smoking & every other drug should not be a part of one's image at all, it's something that should be kept descreet.

>>7416458
Decide whether you wanna look hpwever you want to or however the bitches want you to look. Dont try so hard, man.

nice thread man thanks again

>>7416458
>>7416412
arn't u the trip from south croydon, how comes i never see u around

>>7416514
Damn I don't get the "try hard" part. I literally threw over an untucked casual shirt, jeans and shoes. No hair product used. I thought goofninjas look really tryhard.

>>7416519
I lived there for 2 months only, will visit again soon.

>>7416441
How so?

>>7416412

>>7416496
Hah, gotta love oglaf.
Is he gay? He seems to draw guys more attractively.

Damn you /fa, you made me feel even worse. Fucking jewboss, fucking club, now you too. Dunno what's wrong with you, I was never cruel to anyone here and tried to be helpful. I think I'll leave and come back in spring with a nxtlvl fit, when I lose 15 kg and get a nxtlvl hairstyle. Bye

>>7416412
You're alright but the guy you're sitting with is cool as fuck.

>>7416765
relax dude

>>7416765
you should've known this place
btw you're not as bad as everyone's saying

>>7416266
>putting a cig in the centre of your mouth
>claim7ng you're not a cock hungry faggot

maybe you are just delusional as fuck like every fucking other person on /fa/?

you stupid shit

>>7416217


whyis there black girls in moscow

>>7416765
its really mostly your hair. sorry.

>>7416266
>dslr
>blurry pic

on purpose? pls tell me you did that on purpose.

i cant believe it

this aydenn guy is SUCH a fucking faggot jesus christ, he is the fucking worst poster on this board, all his posts are fucking so stupid

what kind of man acts like this? thats right, he is not a man but a feminine piece of shit like the rest of you lonely feel faggots, crying with your gyno and lactating titties at your computer desk with your delusion that you look like a male model when you are infact a 4/10

you honestly make me fucking sick dude, you fucking PUSSY, you are literally the definition of a fucking pussyhole cunt

>>7416568
B)

>>7416883
His hair is pretty sick, thick and dark. From what I see it's some swept back hairstyle, can't say I like it but it looks ok

>>7416893
wow dude you are on an anonympus board, jesus, calm down

>>7416893
post fit & face, let's see how 10/10 and masculine you are. If not than confirmed for an english bitch or nigger

>>7416893
>>7416479
>>7416450
quality posts. if you need to vent your insecurities /r9k/ is the other way. this board has enough insecure and bitter faggots as it is

>>7416765
7-8/10 face but you're annoying as fuck on /fa/ with your white ebonic attitude etc.

>>7416765

don't worry i think you're gorgeous

>>7416121
clothes are important, not everything

fuck I wear we need a social skills board some time.
>/Ski/

>>7416765
yeah do something about that haircut it's not nice

>>7416220
>The only time I've ever had girls be interested in me is when I didn't give a fuck about hooking up with them.
This has been exactly my experience. Annoying as hell because it was her idea to start dating and then she thought it was a bad idea once I was into her.

>>7417407
>>7416220
Outcome independence.

>>7417415
Well, you're right, I probably did something wrong, but that doesn't make it less frustrating because I was just "being myself".

>>7417427
Well, I wouldn't know either. But sometimes, the click just isn't there. You can't get every girl to like you. There are probably more girls don't like you that way than there are girls that do, and there's no harm in that. There are probably more girls you don't like that way than than you do.
Don't waste time with them if they aren't fun.

>>7416266
its bait, its young johny deep

>>7416412
you're very attractive but you seem like you might carry yourself in an undesirable way

just try to be more alpha and approachable

>mfw I dress in t-shirt and jeans most days like pic
>mfw I'm often asked "do you model"
>mfw i get my shit at thrift shops
>mfw I'm constantly hit on/gazed upon
>mfw when I see skinny ninjas in 8 layers of black name brand shit sucking their cheeks in
>mfw I see other guys in gaudy, expensive shit looking like baboons
>mfw god I love myself

>>7417914
is this new meme or are you just a conceited asshole who keeps reposting it

>>7417914
mfw I lie on the internet

>>7417914
no you don't

>>7416288
so dope

>mfw I dress in t-shirt and jeans most days like pic
>mfw I'm often asked "do you model"
>mfw i get my shit at thrift shops
>mfw I'm constantly hit on/gazed upon
>mfw when I see skinny ninjas in 8 layers of black name brand shit sucking their cheeks in
>mfw I see other guys in gaudy, expensive shit looking like baboons
>mfw god I love myself

>>7416288
+a million
siq book

>>7416412
You are attractive, but I feel like you are trying too hard. The hairdo just looks awkward on you. I'm not too crazy about the shirt, and I sure as hell hope that all of your shirts look like that. Your goofy hand signals look . . . goofy.

>>7416428
>closed mouth doesnt get fed
Perfectly said.

However, the James Bond analogy is cringeworthy and stupid. Let's never mention Agent 007 on /fa/ ever again.

>>7416315

Your analogy is fuck-stupid.

You should have just said "a quiet fashionable guy" doesn't fuck the girls.

The character James Bond is always the center of fucking attention and banging all the bitches with witty banter.

I don't know why but your ignorance in this matter has made me uncomfortably upset.

>>7417939

what kind of jeans are these?

>>7416315

> james bond doesn't fuck the girls

you done goofed

>>7416458

The way you look now has this subtle taste of insecurity about it. I don't even know why. Maybe just go back to your old look and try to develop a new style in a totally different direction.

>>7416121
Club game is based on game, not how you look. It's all about how you approach girls you want to dance with.

>>7416765
Yep, go away, you annoying attention whore.

>>7416765
man you remind me of myself a lot. not amazing, but handsome enough. but our insecurities and lameness bring it all down too low.

i gotta get off this damn site

>>7416458
Be more confident, less douche and self-righteous and just be cool with girls. Go up to them with a smile and grab their hand. Don't ask, have the mentality that you know they'll dance with you. Ask her her name and say she's cute. Don't overdo dancing just simple shit and let her grind on you. Continue banter. After some time go in for the kiss. Get the number or ask her if she wants to kick it at your place. Stop judging other people and just join their fun as opposed to thinking you're above them. That is how you truly attain alphaness in club environment.

>>7416765
u look like a dweeb, but not even ironically to where its cool, a true nerd

>>7416760
A woman draws, a man writes.

>Be last night
>Girls be commenting on two of my friends sayin how highly they think of themselves
>I too am like them

Self-confident people get self-confident friend bruh.

>mfw I dress in t-shirt and jeans most days like pic
>mfw I'm often asked "do you model"
>mfw i get my shit at thrift shops
>mfw I'm constantly hit on/gazed upon
>mfw when I see skinny ninjas in 8 layers of black name brand shit sucking their cheeks in
>mfw I see other guys in gaudy, expensive shit looking like baboons
>mfw god I love myself

sometimes there are bad nights. that doesn't mean you stop trying. sometimes when you're improving yourself, you're still stuck on the lower rung and people want to see you stuck down with them. or they judge because your improvement puts their minds in a critical, negative place unconsciously. and as you keep growing up, you'll realize it's better to have a few bad nights/weeks/months than a lifetime of good nights as a peasant. stop going to the lame clubs, meet girls who are tailored to your lifestyle. and don't complain.

>>7416568
hey look its sieg

>tfw that foto above got 68 likes on my fb and I've been asked out by 2 qts who weren't even on my friendlist
It was a nice try tho, /fa.
Props to those who gave useful advice, everyone else - suck a d, jealous fags. Shouldn't even pay that much attention to ppls opinions anyway.

>>7416765
Op I think you look good but grow a beard man.you look like a high school kid.you will 100 x times better

>>7421493
You really are bipolar aren't you?

>>7421493

you are fucking weird man

>>7421493
>>7418153
samefag

>>7423075
Samefag

>>7423076
Damn /fa/ is getting too fast for selflinking