/fa/ - Fashion

i have a closet full of designer clothing, constantly look out for expensive clothing, and then never wear it because i feel like i can't pull it off

>tfw damir doma tshirts, rick owens sneakers, raf simons sweaters that have never been touched for months

>>7380387
Give to me pls?

my wardrobe consists of black levis 510 and two uniqlo airism shirts in white and grey

i have a pair of true religions

FA sucks dick
And so does OP

4chan ruined me. Not like /b/ said it would, but it did.
/mu/ made me appreciate music so much more so that I find it hard to appreciate what everyone else does.
/fa/ made me appreciate dressing better and how important it is to make yourself better so that you like you.
/sci/ made me think more.
/v/ made me hate video games
/lit/ made me hate the fact that I wasted so much of my life not reading.
I'm a monster. I'm more educated, but what the fuck is the point when you can't enjoy anything? I hate you 4chan. I hate you so fucking much.
S-see you tomorrow ;-;

all i wear is band shirts.

>>7380404
>tfw cant bcome stupid again and make friends w/ plebs and genuinely have fun
>tfw slowly dropping contact with everyone you knew

>>7380402
I do, thank you.

>>7380410
That is actually really easy to do.

If you can't do that it's because you are probably old.

I wear a hoody with a graphic on it. Front, back and on the sleeves.

I am prepared for the hate.

males tend to have better taste than females

I hate my wardrobe and am selling almost all of it
I only want to wear Yamamoto

Our Legacy is unequivocally my favorite brand

90% of the clothes i have are blue

I really wish mens still wore suits every days. Seems so much simpler to just be able to throw on a suit as opposed to losing our shit every days wondering what we will look good in and whats appropriate.

>>7380404
this fucking feelario

I found myself wearing basketball shorts out more often because no one ever invite me to any of their shit anymore...

i wear shorts in the winter

>>7380379
4chan is an addiction.
I know how bad it is, but at the same time it feels like home and is really inspiring.

But it's so far from reality and keeps me distracted.
I can't shake it.

Also, i've been browsing /fa/ for over a year and still have no fucking idea what i'm doing.

I'm consistently pissed off that I can't afford nice clothes (which I found through /fa/).

>I use to wear brothers' handmedowns until I started working at 13
>I love reading esp about finances, psychology, and self help
>I hate being told what to read and random people interrupting my reads with "why anon's book is terrible" EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE POOR, YOUR GRAMMAR IS HORRIBLE, AND YOU'VE HARDLY READ ANY BOOKS
>I never want to be poor again
>I hate it when unsuccessful people tell me "I'm an entrepreneur"
>I love it when my boyfriend buy me clothes, shoes, make up
>I hate it when he scolds me for reading and tries to make me read fiction

As I gained more of a fashion sense I started having more of a presence in my school
I got invited to parties, got gfs, hung out with the "cool/popular kids"
Through out this time me and my closest friends who've I've known for years have grown apart
Now all my "cool/popular friends" have left me and I have nobody
I'm just waiting to leave for college at this point
There is nothing left for me here

>>7380447

Mine too!!!

I don't even really like blue it just kinda happened

>>7380454
disgusting

>>7380447
>>7380492
post a monochrome fit

>>7380488
ill b ur friend

>>7380488
>on 4chan
>hung out with the "cool/popular kids"

>>7380520
Thanks bro
I really have nobody to talk to anymore

I want to read but my procrastination and laziness stop me from doing so
The same two things are why I haven't started on my big final presentation that's due Tuesday
I'm growing apart from my old friends but haven't made any new ones
I go between periods of self loving and self loathing, but nothing to the point where I think I'm mentally ill or something
I have absolutely 0 ambitions and no clue what to with my life, I just wanna sit in my room on my computer

Once I drank someone's piss.

I almost literally never wear my good clothes
>tfw no friends/never see them
>tfw dont give a fuck what people think when i go to uni so i just wear raws/stuff i dont want to make wear out

>>7380504
Not home, I'll just type it

>3 blue jeans
>1 all blue tee
>4 mostly blue button ups and polos
>2 blue flannels
>black and blue socks
>blue beanie
>blue phone case
>blue headphones

>>7380529
u got league/pokemon?

>>7380523
Not him, but I have a similar story. Well-adjusted-ish people browse 4chan too, m80.

>tfw "ex-punk/crustie" and still support anarcho-communism
>tfw addicted to buying designer clothes and music

i-i dont know what to do anymore ;~;

All I wear lately is black duffle coat, red flannel, white tee, grey acid wash Kill City Junkies and AF1s.

I don't know whether I'm actually happy with it or just complacent.

I buy 90% of my pants from TJ Maxx because I get Levi 510s and 511s on the cheap.

I'd rather buy a record or comic I want than a pair of shoes I like 7 times out of 10.

>>7380541

I once pissed into someone else's bottle of mouthwash.

>>7380606
switch to anarcho-capitalism and you're set

>>7380568
I have dota :\

>>7380410

It's called drugs and alcohol.

>>7380581
>Well-adjusted
i think the word you're looking for is Pleb.
I wasn't friends with the "cool popular kids" because their attitude sickened me and they were boring

I picked up smoking because I was bored.

I buy lots of basics and feel like I dress better than erbody around me.

I still don't know how to drive.

>>7380488
I don't believe this shit for a second. Popular kids in high school do not dress /fa/, they just dress like wannabe frat/sorority kids.

>>7380662
yeah man every single high school is the same

I don't like spending more than $30 on any piece of clothing, outerwear and shoes/boots excluded.

I shop primarily at thrift stores for any and all clothes other than socks and underwear.

I think fat people are disgusting but I used to be significantly overweight until as recently as three months ago. Now I'm just skinny-fat but I'm on my way to being /fit/.

I hate my beard and it makes me look like shit but if I shave it I look like I have no chin.

I still get feels from anime. What the fuck is wrong with me, it's so unrealistic yet extremely relatable.

Also the only /fa/-related garment I own is a Cheap Monday sweatshirt. Working on it.

>>7380666

>>7380404
>>7380410
so euphoric

>>7380404
sounds like you've been tricked by the jew.

>>>/pol/

>>7380655
P sure we went to different high schools bro.
Also well adjusted != pleb by any stretch of the imagination.

>implying high school even matters anymore
>also nice dubs

>>7380645
so close

After following thefaggotstore advice about observing other people's fashion and how their clothing choices uplift their body, the opposite thing happens when I start to find fault and I can't unsee a tiny stain or out-of-alignment shoulder fit or a shirt that is too long, etc and its a subconscious process and its mentally taxing.

>>7380379
alcohol is one of the few things that rids my social anxiety completely
i dont but will probably end up taking amphetamines

>>7380394
sick

>>7380486
:'-(

>>7380643
More like anarcho-egosploitation

>>7380660
> sounds like my life
hello friendo

>>7380660
>I picked up smoking because I was bored.

Hello me.

Well more like I was depressed and wanted to just fuck my body.

I fucking love branding. My friend has a legit YSL monogram t-shirt and it's the coolest fucking piece of clothing I've ever held. I love Supreme's logo and how they've plastered it everywhere. I love the idea of a logo and what that logo represents - I love the idea of a t-shirt or a hat (in Supreme's case) being the trashiest and easiest way to propagate and appropriate that brand's aesthetic. I don't care if I'm being 'used,' I love logos so much.

>>7380752

go to bed squids

>I keep buying clothes but I never go out in them anywhere.

>Procrastinate so fucking much, managed to get by okay so far but I'm pretty sure it's about to bite me in the arse soon.

>The most expensive item of clothing I own was like £50. Not even poor or anything, I just can't justify it in my mind that I'm spending hundreds on some shoes or whatever.

>tfwnobf

But it really could be so much worse, so I should quit bitchin.

>>7380755
>wants bf
>doesn't spend more than £50 on clothes

Cheap ass hoe.

>>7380764
Cheap I am, a hoe I am not.

>>7380447
>>7380492
Soon you'll only be able to wear black.

The thought of blue jeans disgusts me.

>>7380778
are you a girl?

>>7380387
>damir doma, rick and raf
wow dressed by /fa/
>>7380778
why are you on /fa/ though if you don't spend more than that?
diffference between fashion and just generally looking nice.
but meh

>>7380792
Newp.
>>7380799
Nah I will eventually, but that's the highest I've gone so far. I've lurked here for quite a while but only fairly recently started trying to get dat /effay/.

I'm insecure about heaps of things about myself.
I would rather spend my money on food than clothes.
I can't lose weight (or gain weight) so I've given up trying to become a hungry skeleton.

>>7380755
ill b ur bf. :^)

I wear a fedora(not a trilby)
>Isn't militant athiest
>doesn't hate women
>not a beta, just not real interestin

>>7380830
its finally arrived
/thread

>>7380833
hey look I killed the thread.

>>7380806
>No

You motherfucker

>>7380854
Sorry for not being the owner of a vag.

I was given a monticello hoodie that was owned by some tupac looking nigger (the scumy kind).

>I actually like it
>I'm starting to wear it more often than my regular clothing

>>7380404

I think about fucking expensive escorts a lot because they're beautiful. But I don't want to pay the money.

Also I have a gf that wants to fuck all the time.

I fucking hate girls in doc's.

And if you're a guy wearing doc's I hate you even more.

>>7380877
the point of no return

>>7380806
you will enjoy it a lot more if you get into the fashion and design aspects instead of just looking good and board culture. 90% of this board is trash imports from other places who are obsessed with a few designers and thats it.
i suggest lurking superfuture and style forumz as well to get a better perspective
have fun

>>7380379
Already confessed this but here we go

I actually prefer fast fashion and thrifts over $500+ pieces, knowing that I'll eventually wreck them. I absolutely hate having to be careful with my clothing.

Also who the fuck are all these trips

>>7380885
thats cool
me and mc ride will continue to share ice creams without you

>>7380889
You're probably right, but that stuff really doesn't interest me all that much. Maybe it would if I started to read up on it, so I'll look at doing that. Thanks mayne.

I just came back for the realist of the real. I like my gf but I'm not in love with her. The reason why I haven't dumped her yet is cuz I don't believe in love and think love and marriage is just one big game of musical chairs and I don't wanna be stuck with a fucking chair or a shitty chair that's ugly and far

>>7380902
you kno fashion doesnt mean just high fashion which this retarded board would lead you to believe.
high end streetwear is great too. im sure you'd like that more.
trust me once you start copping pieces and creating outfits you'll feel gr8. so

raf simons is exclusively for dadcore nerds

dont fite me

I've impersonated almost every namefag on this board, to great results

AMA

I think about killing myself every day and no one knows.
Jump in front of a train , hang myself or jump off a high building ?

>>7380918
Neither. Seek proper help.

We're all gonna make it.

>>7380912
hey turny
what yy pieces do you own if you don't mind me asking
and why do you like his work so much?

>>7380912
old raf simons is great tho
>>7380914
you're a collosal nerd

>>7380924
yeah
but now he's shit
just like damir doma was great
and now he's shit

>>7380919
Don't know where or how to get help so i'll just keep saying no the urge then give in one day. It's inevitable.

>>7380909
Not all that into streetwear from what I've seen of it, apart from some stuff you see asians wearing. Japanese streetwear seems much more interesting to me. Need to get less dark colours in my wardrobe, as I fell into the goofnigger trap early on, trying to diversify.

You're def right about the second part tho, just gotta not tell anyone I know how much shit costs because I mentioned the £50 jumper to my dad and he he looked at me like I was a retard.

>>7380930
yeah thats true.
his old stuff was so cool. youthful and interesting but still retained street cred ya know.
now it's boring af, i dont think many people would disagree with that

>>7380432
when they have taste
some niggas dont
women are required to have a taste by society, whether it be bad or good.

>>7380924

just doing the lord's work peasant

you can thank me later

I used to love trends because it made me relevant. My ex made me realize how worthless trendy clothing are so now I just buy basics and designer pieces and flaunt them like I dress better than everyone else.

21, still can't drive, instead I pretend that taking public transportation is better for the environment yet I have horrible social anxiety and would much rather drive.

I smoke to lose weight

I moved cities because I was too hated in my town.

I used to be a gangster and a punk as a teen. Sometimes I wish I could go back and just dress like one again without a care in the world.

I absorb from my environment so much that it because apparent even in the way I laugh.

>>7380960
It's funny because I can drive but I take public transportation to help with my anxiety. Being around people and trying to adjust and all that shit.

>>7380976

I work in personal injury and we do a lot of work re: motor vehicle accidents

sometimes I think wayy to much about how stupid other drivers are and it gets p agonising on the road

>>7381008

*personal injury law

>>7381012
???
health insurance receptionist?

>>7380937
yea im on the same boat mostly.
pretty much whole wardrobe is japaense streetwear and palace.
stuff like wtaps, cav empt, undercover
high end american streetwear seems non existent right now, other than supreme and i dont like it that much.
just surf ratuken and get some bargains m8

i dress dadcore

>>7380662
depends on where you live. the more effay the city the more effay the "popular kids".

>>7381017

paralegal for a national firm

I'm actually Black.

I'm chubby with no intention to change that, I don't think brands create the best clothing, anything I have that are designers are bought on a basis of cut quality, fabric quality, etc etc. I think this board is very elitist but I still like it.

>>7381203
wow you just perfectly described half the board
(including me ;-;)

>>7381203
>I'm chubby with no intention to change that
same but I do have intentions to lose weight.
Also, at least I look like built-fat due to fat distribution. More fat on legs/chest than belly.

I've never had a girlfriend. I'm 18.
I'm depressed.
I have absolutely no life, no friends. I'm always here.
I like traps.
I have no clue what to do in my life.

But at least, i'm /fa/, and i have good music tastes. (i think)

>>7381489

sorry to say music and fashion taste are quite irrelevant unless ur utilising them to engage with people

its not a marker of any success in ur life but rather that uve spent far too much time in the dingier corners of the net

go out and put those interests to work faggity fag I believe in u

I'm a 22 year old homosexual virgin
I have way too much of a babyface to ever be fashionable
I like crossdressing around the house
I think bright orange is an menswear colour, since it goes so well with navy and dark gray
I have a bright orange scarf I color match with equally bright orange pants
I hate boat shoes and all non-workwear boots with a passion
I think wearing ties "green day style" looks great

>>7380486
suggest me a cool psychology book please

>>7381539
no homo tho'

>>7381516
sounds gay dude

I've been becoming more social and have been talking to more people and just generally making more friendships as a result from dressing better. Just the little compliments I get from people asking where I got my shoes, or that they liked my shirt is so fucking good for me.

However, I still feel very distant from things. I never go out and do anything on the weekends, mainly because I'm never invited. No matter how close I think I'm getting to someone, I'll hear that they had a huge party last week that I had no idea even happened, or even just seeing that they went to town or something without me. I dunno if people still think I'm a bore that doesn't have much to offer to conversation or something, but I hope I'm not. I used to rely solely on trying to be funny to make social interaction, and even that was only around people I was 100% comfortable around. Music and fashion have actually given me some depth as a character.

Some day I'll go to that party.

When my mom asks how much I paid for some piece of clothing I usually tell her the price twice less than I actually bought it for

>>7380394
I see no problem here
>>7380613
get a blue flannel change that shit up
>>7380624
nothing wrong with Levi's, they're decent jeans at a decent price. no idea why people don't understand that
>>7381561
>tfw I've done that too

>>7380486
>>7381530
this

>>7381554
Give them a call instead of waiting for one

21 year old kissless virgin. Still live at home. Never had a girlfriend. I had a thing with a girl though but I was a beta and experienced heartbreak.

No life, I have 1 friend on the regular who I have no personal, emotional or intellectual connection with. Residual high school friend. We both have no lives but we somewhat pretend we do on the weekends by texting each other on fridays.

I am a shy anxious emotional puppy. I used to be innocent and have too many feelings for the world but now all I do is distract the entirety of my brain with technological disconnect and stress and 4chan.

I am a sub, probably bi-curious, would suck a dick. Small penis.
I like cute and cool things. I like cute cool girls. I like to be cute and cool.

No idea what do to in life. Failed school a bunch of times. Social anxiety was the cause for most of it. No social skills. Above average looks, tall and pretty well dressed.

I just wanna die in a warm blanket.

I confess back in first year of university, I stayed in a flat with 5 people, 3 of which were girls. Every morning I would go for a shower and for the majority of the time I would masturbate and finish off into my flatmates shampoo. I know she used it because the level kept going down. I don't think she ever noticed, although she did replace the bottle once and it was only half full... I wouldn't be surprised if the other male in my flat used the same shampoo, he would help himself to others stuff all the time.
It made me so hot thinking that she was smothering my cum in her hair and having it in all day, walking around oblivious.

>>7381554
Yeah I know that feel dude. Everyone loves ya but no one invites you to anything.

Then eventually you do get invited and you go and have a blast but there aren't any qts to try and meet.

Sometimes I spend hours looking at male model pics on thefashionspot. I don't even fap or anything I just look at them to remind myself how ugly I am.

>>7380379
I often masturbate while reading WAYWT.

i smoke way too much weed
sometimes when i am skateboarding i try to fall on my head and die
i have wanted to kill somebody since i was like 4 or 5
i can ride a unicycle
my dick has a slight curve to the left

>>7381602
u r a psycho m8

I used to be obese but I lost 140 lbs and now I have to get plastic surgery to get rid of leftover skin :'(

>>7380933
read the cracked 10 minute suicide guide

>>7381665
im also incredibly gay
really i cant stop thinking about dick for one minute
thats why i make skate threads on fa
its why i talk about drugs and how hgh i am
to distract myself from my desire

i crave the dick

>>7380426
Is it Undercover?

I asked for the ACNE blue marble t-shirt as a birthday present, but I can't actually leave the house wearing it because it looks REALLY homosexual and the extra-short sleeves look really weird on me.

I have to keep pretending it's just too cold to wear it. Fuck knows what I'll say when summer comes...

Confession 2 is that I consistently wear a pair of PRL boat shoes. I bought them when I first started coming here ages ago, and they're still in service to this day...

Confession 3 I dress AWFUL all week in disgusting 2 sizes too big polos and track pants from M&S all week and only actually dress FA on friday nights when I hit up bars.

Confession 4 I don't have a job and it's taken me over a year just to afford a few nice pieces.

>I used to really hate myself. I thought about killing myself a lot. But /fa/ gave me something to be passionate about. People look up to me now, and I can finally be a bit proud of myself. I guess I believe that I now deserve love. Thank you so much /fa/, I love every single one of you.
> my ambition is being able to buy clothes whenever I want.
> I like the look of goof ninja, but I don't think I have the right attitude.
> I wish I didn't give a fuck

>>7381818
sell the marble shirt to me m8

There's a girl I work with admires me for the way I dress and how I behave. I'm pretty sure she likes me but she's probably to afraid to tell me because she's really sweet and kinda shy and like three years younger. I'm actually also in love with her but I'm afraid to tell her even though it's really obvious I should be the one to act. Hell she gives me the occasional hint but I never really respond to them.

It's killing me.

>>7381917
Just grab her tit and say you have tourettes

>>7381828
>these feelings
Are you me?

>>7381828
>/fa/ actually improving someone's life
uh... this was not what we had planned

>I go on plenty of dates but I always end up not that interested in the girl
>always feel like I could get a better looking girl
fuuck
fucki
should i just cope with a 6.5
still a virgin

>>7380540
seeing that people are in the exact situation as i am is why i browse /fa/

>>7381699
awwww you're pretending to be me!
cute

>I still wear 510s

>There's something deep inside of me making me want to settle down and start a family with a wife and kids when all I think I want to do is travel and experience with minimal attachment

>The future is terrifying

>The concept that I will at some point have to face some form of infinity keeps me awake at night

>Even though I dress nice, developed a good taste in music, am in nice shape now, and continue working towards self improvement, I feel less happy and satisfied with my life than I was before

/fa/ didn't just teach me how to dress better but how to take care of myself better.

I use to never leave my house but now I must to be /fa/. Getting my haircut, gym, running, and shopping.

Simple shit for some, but not for shut-in aspie me.

Also I can't believe how much getting a simple haircut and decent clothes has changed the way people interact with me. Anywhere I go people try to talk to me, even complete strangers. I look approachable now and it's really boosted my confidence.

Thanks /fa/

>tfw in love with cousin

>>7381917
girls never make the first move because they're unable to make up their mind
do it anon
do it for those of us who can only dream of being in your situation

>>7381541
>>7381516
>homo
>no homo
wut?

>>7380606
iktf

>>7381818
wear an open shirt over it

I'm tall, thin, smart and good looking, they say, but still I feel like shit.

I think I've got that body dysmorphic disorder thing, because I spend a fucking ton of time looking myself at the mirror looking for flaws and sometimes I find myself deformed.

The thing is that I don't feel anyone is better or worse than me. It's just like if I was never good enough.

Plus /fa/ and the education I received about image, art and stuff aren't helping at all.

And I know all of this is mere bullshit. I know I should stop giving a fuck, but I can't. Or maybe I don't want to.

>>7382116
iktf bro
i went to use my phone before and my phone unlocked to my facetime camera
started crying
when people show me pictures of myself i look in the corner so i don't have to see how ugly i am

>tfw babyface

why continue living when no-one takes anything you do seriously

literally any girl can completely shut me down by saying "you are so cute, like a little brother" or any guy can just say something along the lines of "oh lol you look like a puppy, thats so gay" and it will depress me for the rest of the day because that is the complete opposite of my personality and what i want to look like

>>7380404
>/mu/ made me appreciate music so much more so that I find it hard to appreciate what everyone else does.
>/fa/ made me appreciate dressing better and how important it is to make yourself better so that you like you.


these two hit home

>>7382140
Post pic

>>7382149
I think it's the one ausbro with the weird nose and the quirky eyes.

I've fallen into depression and my weed smoking has gone up 10x in the past few months since i dumped my girlfriend (i had no interest in her as a person, she was boring as fuck, fat (70kg at 5'9) and i had nothing in common with her.

The strange part is, that I feel as if I deserve to feel like this, and it's what suits me better than being happy. I'm still social, just generally very unhappy, but i don't let anyone know, i can't even fall asleep without weed any more because my brain is just filled with paranoia about people i know and how they might hate me because ive fucked up

ive also tried to pursue a relationship with a girl, and we made out and it was all amazing and ive never clicked with someone like this before, and we last saw eachother last weekend, which was fantastic, but she's going through depression and said that she's terrible at liking people, even though the night before she gets paranoid and anxious about me, and always wants to talk to me. but that has me feeling terrible because she's amazing

but for some reason all this melancholy is satisfying

>>7382140
lol ur so cute anon like a shaved anus
baby and clean

>>7382175
if you are 21+, sell everything you have and just dissapear m8
go to your dream country and live the life
if you have school wait until you're done with that

>>7382175
no
no
i wasn't ready for this picture

>>7382175
>for some reason all this melancholy is satisfying
it's terrible but true, i don't feel comfortable when everything is good. i find comfort in loneliness

>>7382116

i think i have that too
idk sometimes i look at my body and think looking good
sometimes i look at my body and think you're a fat piece of shit, you can't eat today
:(

>>7382195
Ohgod just let me die at sixty I don't ever want to get like that fuck

>>7382175

this nearly made me cry

sounds like some of you faggots have real severe image issues. you're aren't teenage girls, get over yourselves and start getting confident

you have only one chance at being ~*~a real human bean~*~

>>7382185
Details? How does one just start a new life?

>>7382239
buy a decent car
sell ur unnecessary shit
drive
be a human bean

>>7382239
dont listen to >>7382245
http://www.wikihow.com/Disappear-Completely
this is pretty straight forward and basic, just read it and use common sense

>>7382175

does anyone have info on this pic? if any one thing can ruin anyones day this would be it

>>7380486
im sure he doesnt scold you youre just being a sensitive little bitch and that probably annoys him

>>7380404
I know that feel, except I rucking hate mu's shitty taste in music. It's pleb compared to the shit I listen to.

And /pol/ made me care what was going on in the world.

>>7380645
I have dota if you want someone to play/talk with

>>7382175
i know that feel bro
i'm currently in the same situation, kinda.
i'm doing what i love - music editor at a small local radio beneath the baltic sea -, i meet people i like and they like me, some people even look up at me, having a sexual relationship to a girl.
but all that shit's not fulfilling. even more if all the sex is shit in my eyes, but that doesn't even bother her.
and now i'm alone in my room with a roommate who is completely anti-social and boring, smoking cigarette after cigarette and waiting for my friend to bring me weed.
god, i hate myself. i can't appreciate anything, there's always a bad side

>>7380885
this

>>7382254
>>7382245
Nah mane , I was thinking more along of the lines of just going fuck it and moving to somewhere sunny like Florida. I'm only 20 though and I have no idea how long it'd take to find a job and a place to live ..
Thoughts?

>>7382263
How does being 14 feel? :^)

I'm at work standing around for like 4 hours out of my shift doing nothing

>>7382301
you don't have to completely dissapear, just make sure nobody can find you or contact you anymore (with ease). starting over is always something nice, do some research for jobs and places in florida and decide wether you should go or not.

either google or go there and spend a day or 2-3 there

>>7380918
building. do a sicc flip.

>>7380877
>nigger
>le reaction pic
>terrible sense of fashion
>obnoxious tripfag

off you go to /b/

>>7382238

It's not that easy.

I can go talk to a girl one night and ask her for her number, then get it and feel fine. Next day I might fuck my hair up because I believe it's deformed and completely lacking proportion.

It's not like I'm crazy and overall it's not a big deal but I wish I didn't waste so much time thinking about crap.

>paid $300 dollars for ecco desert boots
>never wear them

>>7380938
Only his sneakers are cool these days.

Also, why is there this hivemind opinion that Damir Doma has fallen off (geniunly interested)?

>>7380960
>I used to be a gangster

I'm gay.
I'm 20.
I'm a kissless virgin.
I'm 5'7".
I'm 130 lbs.
I look p skinny.
I crave a man but too insecure to use grindr because I look like a twink.
I want to look masc.
I am lifting but I and constantly worried that I won't make it and will be laughed at as a skinny twink forever.

>>7382311
lol i'm not trying to go off the grid or w/e , I just want to start a "new life" of sorts somewhere it's sunny and I can chill out instead of being trapped here in the dark 24/7 and being cold af
Wish I knew someone in the states who could give me a helping hand though.
But yeah i'm not sure how to put that into action really. Do I just do what you said and take a holiday there and enquire about job positions and places to live?
Reckon it'd be hard for me to get a green card? (Fully trained chef/No criminal record/Healthy etc)

>21 year old virgin
>narcissistic but insecure at same time
>terrible person
>love drinking and drugs but cant hide how strange i am when on them
>hate my friends most the time
>hate my life
>want to get out of shitty job but have no aspirations

>>7382341
im in europe myself, and i have no fucking idea about greencards and stuff. i have no experience with the vacation idea either, but what will you lose? maybe 300-500 dollars or so but eh its vacation anyway.

can you think of any better ways to do it then? think hard

idk why but feeling like I want to move to Italy really bad lately

>>7382341
I'm from florida all I have to say is its not easy finding a decent job at least in the city but now I live in the UK so it's probably about the same tbh

>>7382352
>it's a vacation anyway
true dat hombre
I'm pretty sure if I went abroad and hit up all the local restaurants I could get a job as a potwash then move up to commis if i'm lucky or even get a commis chef job off the bat.
Guess i'll start saving up.

>>7382366
Yo dude could you give me a quick step by step of how you achieved moving from the US -> UK?

>>7382375
good luck bruh
if you want it badly enough, you'll get it at the end
true words

>used to not give a shit about what I wore/how I looked
>began maturing and started to look more attractive
>modeling scouts begin to approach me on the street
>gets to a point where I get scouted anytime I'm downtown
>self consciousness intensifies
>start noticing flaws in myself
>they amplify every day
>I can't model, how the fuck can I model
>mild body dysmorphia sets in
>hate myself
>usually good at looking at situations from a third person perspective, but I can't do it to myself
>can't look at myself as an object no matter how hard I try
>happened once when I say myself in the mirror when I was really high but that was it
>always worried about how I look to other people
>always worried that other people perceive me the way I perceive myself

I fucked a total cutie last night like all fucking night but generally I'm just unbearably bored right now and if that's the pinnacle of what life has to offer i really don't know how I'm going to cope. Or Maybe i just miss her and am sad she lives far away

i have a suit fetish and like to be on my knees and like to please men

my buddy i have sex with is 62 and we know each other for 4 years now

>>7382381
I joined the military sorry I couldn't actually help you :(

>>7380404
You would have been a shitty person without 4chan, stop blaming it on other people you weak minded fuck.

>>7382324
couldntpaymetowear/10

>>7382381
I'm from the UK and I don't get why so many US people want to be here.

It's small and overcrowded.

Taxes are so much higher though we have healthcare.

Less diverse environment. In the US you can move from a sunny place to a cold one with just a flight ticket. In the UK you can't.

London is full of pakis and poles.

Other towns and cities are full of chavs.

>>7382349
dude stop. stop being me

>>7382417
help

>>7382416
Eh I just enjoy the UK when I have 3 or 4 day weekends I fly ryanair and stay in another country for dirt cheap. In the past year I've been to more countries than I have in my entire life. And the music scene for what I'm into is amazing over here. And while there are some chavs honestly everyone I meet is usually 20x nicer than someone back in the US. Especially in clubs its so easy to close with girls here.

>>7382433
you into grime son?

>>7382416

this this this
i remember in this one class we did a tally of how many people wanted to stay in england for most of their lives and maybe like 2/30 people said they wouldnt wanna live somewhere else once they got a degree

>>7382403
right now I'm just cramming loads of food down myself because im so bored and i require constant gratification oh god what do i think a life of addiction beckons

>>7382438
yeah and future garage, minimal techno

>>7382433

People here are generally more cultured and refined compared to the US.

And we queue.

But srs most of us would want to move away from this gloomy shithole if there's the opportunity.

>>7382456
>People here are generally more cultured and refined compared to the US.
not really

>>7380379
I have never come here to look for advice
Just to laugh at the body dysmorphia and post joke fits

I'm wearing this and I don't care
I don't need to be /fa/

>>7382452
super cool, that's p much the only thing i like about the uk

>>7382458
to an ignorant englishman who doesn't know much about the outside world, it probably seems so. see how funny the reversal is in this case?

>>7382487
As a brit whos been an expat for several years

Percentage of us population that is retarded: 65
Percentage of uk population that is retarded: 45

>>7382497
ur definitely not more cultured
most abysmal food in the 1st world

>>7382500
American food is worse you knob goblin
You don't even know what british cuisine is, all you have is hamburgers and the oh so underspectacular philly cheese steak

I am seapunk.

>>7382508
I'm not American
British cuisine = buying premade Indian food at Waitrose and heating it up

>>7382506
T-Thomas?

>>7382108
Yeah that's a good idea I've been toying with trying out though it wouldn't be that easy to find a suitably coloured shirt.

>>7382513
na mate we dont even need to do that just go down the local curry house

>>7382433
Pff, American girls are so easy in comparison to UK girls in my experience. US girls are literally sluts. UK girls at least PRETEND to not be sluts (until they get on holiday).

>>7382508
And thats where you are wrong
British food is just hearty decent food, with rich spicing.
It is pretty much an exact half and half of french and danish food.

Britain has more michelin stars than france in recent years and the worlds best restaurant, the fat duck, and I ate there and my tongue broke up with me cause I wast able to satisfy it anymore

Far more so than any of the fancy european places ive eaten
I will admit though that what most british people subsist on is shit, but that does not make english cuisine bad

also British people are rude
a British woman shouted at my little brother for reading a book in a restaurant

>>7382521
yeah?

>>7382558
did you nail her dressed in patty?

>>7382567
You study law?

>>7382575
no

>have shit tier skin, some acne left but mostly acne scarring

It's never affected my ability to pick up chicks that much, but i feel like shit every time i look in the mirror, and i think about it constantly.

>>7382558
That sounds like a really isolated incident, unless he was reading it out loud.

I mean, British people (mostly) are definitely rude antisocial assholes who treat everyone like shit and think they're something special, but that experience seems pretty unrepresentative.

I'm British.

>>7382574
no she was this old orange cunt
I will forever hold a grudge against Britain and British people after that day and I curse the British half of me

-I wear quicksilver.
-I only got 3 pairs of shoes, one of them is chuck taylors.
-My mom buys me clothes when he goes trifting/II hand stores.

>>7382582
Ah too bad, there´s someone in one of my classes whom I suspect browses /fa/, but dresses a bit on the seapunk side.

>>7382610
>mom
>he
Wut

>>7382594
I mean yeah but Britain is still on my shit list

>>7382620
typo, not from english speaking country.

I'm poor and I can only afford h&m.

>>7382536
We're leaders in gastronomy , how the fuck can anyone say English cuisine is terrible?
How ignorant can one be?

>>7382017
Fuck you're right, I'm just going to do it.
Thanks anon.
I'll let you guys know.

British = english


Rest of uk is cooler

>>7381554
iktfb

>>7382631
haha forsome reason after u said tht I read ur post and laughed
I only "got" 3 pairs of shoes

It's ok b when I'm in Spain ppl make fun of me non stop for not talking properly/my accent

>>7381530
John D Demartini's book "How To Make One Hell Of A Profit and Still Get To Heaven"
It doesn't sound like a straight textbook psychology book, but will help you enhance and be aware of your thinking/behavioral patterns.

One of his other books actually pulled me out of depression, raised my living/working standards, and help me find what I love to do. This book does the same and talks about how finances have a great psychological effect, whether neg/pos, on the other areas of our lives.

I'm forever grateful for books, the interweb, and finding life coaches.

>tfw broken
Anyone else feel like that just don't work? Like they were born defective? I feel apathetic 24/7 and the times that I don't I just sad and angry. Dunno what to do other than kill myself.

>>7381665
Why do you want to kill them?

>>7382704
every day for the past 7 years

>>7382704
You watch porn a lot?

>>7382704
The apathyis from having no goals.
I had it for ages, but one day I decided to do better at uni, learn a language and took up a new sport.
Haven't felt directionless sice I decided to give myself a direction

>>7381932
pro tip
eastern europeans like different looking guys and are a lot hotter on average

>>7382262
Actually, he subconsciously doesn't want me to be completely financially independent. He wants me to be dependent on him so I won't leave.

Think about it. The only reason why people have relationships is for benefits. I get emotional, financial, physical, social, spiritual, and intellectual benefits from him now. He gets emotional, physical, social, spiritual, and intellect from me. Since he doesn't care to grow WITH me, he wants to hold me back.

There's always a hidden message when people scold. I don't know about you though. Maybe you just hate your life???

>>7382361
come join us in this lovely little peninsula my friend

>>7382116
definitely know this feel
also when someone gives a compliment it's like fuck that's a fucking lie
also like looking in a mirror and thinking your face is some awful caricature

>>7382585
Post pics

>>7382801
and they want to marry you for citizenship too

>>7382408
My bf is 63.
I'm 23.
I love his 3 piece suits.
I love older men and finally gave in.
Been together for a year.
Our families and friends are cool with it.
Just met his hot, well read daughter who's 29. I want to BFF the fuck out of her but she lives far away.

>>7382884
r u a boi or a gril anon

>>7380638

I once emptied a bottle of listerine in a pint glass I had in my room so I could use it as a piss bottle because the guy I live with was taking forever to shower and I was about to suffer a case of exploding bladder.

>mfw the 500 ml bottle wasn't big enough and I had to piss the rest on a plastic sleeve I ripped out of a binder.

>>7382884
......troll

Wtf are you doing dating gramps curlgurl

>tfw every time I take a shower I take a beer with me and it's so good but I might be developing some alcoholism
+those calories man, don't need those

>>7382913

maybe he's a gay silver daddy digger

>>7382901
Fem

>>7382140
wait until you're an old man and you would kill for a baby face

>>7380393
same

>>7382913
He lied about his age. Then told me his real age because he expected me to google him.
Dgaf, he a big d and comfortable wealthy

>>7380540
>Don't know what he wants do with his life
>Wants to sit in his room on his computer all his life

I think you found a solution to your dilemma, its called welfare

>>7380404
and your lack of manhood made you a faggot?

I've read every post on this thread so far

>>7380540

I too suffer from this.

>Bought some jbrand jeans (27-fatass)
>they fit perfectly
>feel middle-aged
>am only 19

>>7382819

When someone gives me a compliment I always find excuses not to buy it.

If it comes from a relative, he says it just because he's my family.
If it comes from a friend of my parents/grandparents/whatever I just met he says it out of politeness.
If it comes from a friend of mine, he's just trying to cheer me up.
If it comes from a girl, well... I don't know... it doesn't ever matter...

I assume I must be good looking, because of what people say, and taking I mind that I get approached by girls, but deep inside I don't believe it at all.

And yeah, the caricature...

>>7380540
>I have absolutely 0 ambitions and no clue what to with my life

Same here. I have a dead-end job. Due to crisis there's not alot of jobs around so i can't just leave and get another one. Last week i had a few days off and just drove around aimlessly. I checked my odometer and drove like 700miles and wasted a shitload of gas going nowhere.

>>7382997

>>7383008
a real human bean
and a real bad movie

My girlfriend was taking a nap on the sofa, so I thought it would be great if I woke her up by pissing on her.

And so I did.

She was shocked, and before she could respond I pinned her down and started fucking her. She took it pretty well, as she fucks like a champ. She got fucked like the little whore that she is.

I broke up with her the next day.

And that is the extent of my edginess.

>>7382997
>>7383008
>>7383021

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boFhHOjljs0

Caught my girlfriend pooping so I broke up with her.. She said shes off to pee while were watching a movie, now shes been gone 5 minutes and i knew something was up, i knocked on the door and asked if everything is ok, she said yes she'll be right out...her voice was labored and i became suspicious...so i yelled "IM COMING IN!' she screamed no but there was no stopping this, i smashed through the door and i see her sitting on the toilet seat, i told her to get the fuk up, she didnt so i threw her off, i looked inside the toilet...just as i suspected, a goddam log, *** u better pray this isnt yours. i looked around and saw no pet in site, I KNOW THIS IS UR POOP U WHORE, she screamed at me that im crazy and that shes calling the cops, all the while toilet paper in her hands. i told her no need to call the cops, im breaking up with u u some kinda poop whore. and that was that. I feel like a new man and off to find a woman who doesnt poop.

>>7383051
gluck m8 you can do it
i found my poopless gf after 4 years and it was well worth it

>>7380404
>feeling more educated by browsing 4chan

>>7380379
I'm obsessed with a girl that dumped me. I see her face glaring through the lights when I go to clubs, I see things related to her everywhere (her parents have a huge industry of marble extraction) and it gets me so depressed.

>>7380643

omg my commie friends and I love to CRACK UP at this guy on youtube

>>7383142
iktfb

>>7381554
you're at the point where you should start inviting yourself to things. if you're under 21, find somebody who'll buy booze for you and tell people who are talking about parties that you can hook them up

i suffer from severe depression and mild social anxiety

this causes me to have weird periods of listlessness and apathy and lethargy above my usual amount, where i just can't bring myself to go to class or talk to anyone

this has caused me to be on academic probation for the past 3 semesters

i have no idea if I'll be able to actually go back to school next semester, because of how shit my grades are this time

i love school and college, but this depression is ruining my life

i wish nearly every day i just won't wake up the next morning

can't bring myself to kill myself because i love my family so much, know they'd be devastated if I did

2 exams tomorrow, one was a take-home that I never got because I skipped class, and have 2 papers I never wrote worth 50% of my grade

i'm fucked and i have no one to blame but myself

can't wait to feel the shame of telling all my friends i failed out of college, end up living with parents

>tfwnobf on top of everything
and i don't even have a decent vibrator

>>7383369
looks like it's time for suicide
you won't get to see what you leave behind, you fucked up and it's over

>>7383369
Hey man, as soon as I saw this I felt I just had to reply. I've been in the same situation as you, severe depressions and social anxiety that eventually led me to drop out. I dropped out half-way through the senior year. I advice you to don't drop out of school, at least finish it despite your grades being shit. You can improve grades after graduating in the US, right?

Whatever you chose to do school-wise, take your time and sort things out. I spent 3 years as a neet after dropping out, but eventually found the motivation to start living again.

>>7383452
Woman*

Sorry, I didn't see your whole post when I replied.

Just watching a documentary about Gabbers in the Netherlands anno 1993, the year I was born.
Damn, I'm so young, and I wish I would've experienced it. Seems like the last real subculture.

>>7383369
pussy ass faggot bitchhhh

>>7383369
alright here's a piece of advice:

go to therapy

everyday wake up early, like really early, like 6:00. get out of bed IMMEDIATELY and do pushups or jumping jacks then go about your day.

just something to get you going

>>7380478
read this while im escaping studying for finals..

>>7380736
started last night... feels weird going from health nut

>>7380643
he is my favourite

I buy all my shirts from Threadless and all my jeans are Levis. None of the shirts are their popular ones (like the stupid astronaut one) but still.

>>7380791
i kno
when i see others in blue/other colours, i have no problem w it
but as soon as i put on my jeans, i feel uncomfortable af
idk, part of me intellectualizes this disconnect with working class america and other bullshit to reject blue denim,
and the other half of me probs just fears not being in the fahsionedgycool balance properly

i've only had one blowjob and it took me about 15 minutes to cum

>>7383531
are you me

i have 3 pairs of good quality non raw blue jeans

and 1 pair of black levis

i only wear the black levis

I feel like I'm inadequate in bed due to the fact of porn being such an influence in social life.
Feel like I have a small penis due to the fact of an ex saying so, even measure myself to try and combat the thoughts but it never helped even though im above average.

now im too scared to have sex in case qt gf doesn't feel satisfied..

>>7382426
im seriously considering becoming a career criminal. it just seems so exciting and fufilling

my last confessions were weak as fuck so yeah

My life is very good in the grand scheme of things - good grades, having fun, and I garner respect from people, but i feel so empty when i just sit and ponder it. I feel that a part of it is not sharing it with another human being, but i have a casual relationship and that just makes me sadder because she is not interesting

i feel that most people in their 20s and late teens experience this, and it's only gonna get worse

i also realize how badly i fetishize asian girls and it's so unhealthy

every time i get stoned i'm very, very negative about people. everything feels so fake and contrived, it's horrible. i go through the same cycle of negative thoughts, and the worse thing is - they're all true to some extent.

>>7383051

thank you for making me laugh

>>7383565

also - i'm deathly afraid of depersonalization

i feel that it's actually becoming a problem for me - that emptiness is partially a result of just feeling somewhat disconnected.

i can't help but feel that my past life was more grounded than this. i'm lacking something.. earthly

i apologize for the dumb vague terms but yeah that's what introspection does i guess

>>7383565
>i'm very, very negative about people. everything feels so fake and contrived, it's horrible. i go through the same cycle of negative thoughts, and the worse thing is - they're all true to some extent.

i hate being so negative about people, but they suck so fucking much

it's so hard to not feel negatively towards other people, and it's just as difficult to not vocalize my feelings, positive or negative

>>7383142
i dream about mine regularly even though i don't want her back

is that weird?

I can't afford high fashun like ricks or rafs but i daydream and blog about them everyday.
I buy cheap black and white clothes with the hope that i will look nxtlvl goof

>>7382907
KITCHEN SINK m8
OR THE GODDAMN OUTSIDE WORLD

I'm going to drop out of uni next semester to work on my art. I'm not even doing that bad, I just don't feel like school is worthwhile considering how I'd be miserable doing office jobs anyways.

>>7383591
>>7383565
You have two options
A) Stop smoking weed
B) Stop complaining about problems that can be solved by quitting weed if you're going to keep smoking weed


-an avid pot smoker

I'm a good looking guy who gets compliments all the time. I've had several people ask if I'm a model yet I'm still pretty shy and suck with women big style.

My anxiety has gotten better but it still isn't great. I'm not too bad when talking with a girl alone but when there's a group of people or 'the lads' who are being really fucking loud and obnoxious I just close up. 21 and still a virgin. This time last year I was so sure I'd have lost it by now and a couple years before that I said the same thing.

There's this girl I really like who flirts with me whenever I see her but I'm too beta to ask her out and sometimes I feel so angry with myself for not trying my luck I want to fucking scream.

>>7383369
Yo I've been through just about all of this
wearing my uni sweater makes me feel like one of my exes or something. Shit's weird.

Anyway just realize that since you excel in apathy, now is the best time to put your talents to work. If you can't bring yourself to give a shit about succeeding, then it's fucking silly to suddenly start caring now that you're failing 8)

I'm not suggesting you stop caring about everything. Just be more selective about this shit.

What the other anon said about therapy is solid advice.


idk if you know who David Foster Wallace is but he wrote a speech a while back called This Is Water. Just reading it once made my life infinitely easier to bear. I recommend it if you can muster the effort

when I have free time with little to no stimulation present (sitting on the bus listening to music, lying in bed before sleep etc.) I live out fantasy lives and one of them is getting out of control. I have 4 mainly, three of them are less prominent than others but take over everynow and then and I think about them regularly, they're really cliche and obvious but I still think about them all the time. One is a pro footballer that's the best young footballer in the world and wins the Champions League, another is a young entrepreneur that creates a game or some software or some shit and is a multi millionaire, the last is just me but thinner, not balding and is a hot shit DJ or musician who gets loads of pussy at uni/with my friends.

The last one is getting out of control and really beginning to concern me, he has basically my personality (i think I'm a pretty nice guy) but looks like an actor who i think is good looking and is a model. He gets spotted by Tom Ford who is in London designing a new line and he chooses me to model for him and we become friends, I then model for Burberry and have a relationship with Cara.

The problem is that these (especially the last one) have become incredibly complex, I've thought of nearly every aspect of his life even down to the number of people he sleeps with, what music he likes, how he dresses, how he acts etc.. The problem is that I get excited by the thought of having the time to think about these different lives I lead, I genuinely relish the opportunity to think about these alternate realities and I enjoy them more than I do my own life, I saw a picture of the actor I base my appearance off (in the model life) and I got really upset because he isn't me, other stuff like this happens all the time (I get mad when I see Arsenal play because that's the team I play for etc.)

I'm really worried these are fucking with my brain and I think i need to go and get help but I'm too scared to tell anyone. Am I insane?

>>7383526
>cringe
that was me from senior year of highschool to like last year.

>>7383591

more thoughts

a part of this lack of grounding is probably uni in general.

i feel like i don't have a true home atm, y'know? i went back for thanksgiving and my old home felt so bizarre. and the dorm is obviously temporary.

maybe it's a thing we're all supposed to go through as young adults - be completely unsure of what's going on until we get spat out with a degree? i dunno

>>7383619

yeah you're right - i just can't help but feel that it's just me

that's another thing - shit has consequences that i would've thought i was immune to.

>>7383666
it's just escapism. it's normal.

>>7383701
is it?

I guess I should add that I pretty much stopped doing it when I was truly happy for the first time this summer when I had a gf (the girl wasn't what made me happy, I think it was more the actuality of having one)

If I stopped when I was happy I guess it's just something I do when I'm unhappy?

(also thanks for reading what ended up being a long as fuck post)

>>7383718

fantasizing is normal but naturally there's a threshold where it becomes unhealthy

i think you're sorta entering the unhealthy zone

>>7383733
g-great

I wish I could just channel the tangible things about the other lives I have that i could introduce into my own, which to be honest are limited but would have a massive impact on my current life (the stuff like confidence). All I'd need to do to be one of them is to continue to lose weight and I'll basically be there (nothing I can do about the hair thing without getting medication)

I think I just need to try and get more stimulation and be happier to stop, but it's hard

>>7382341
>>7382311
>>7382301
>>7382254
Leaving the UK and restarting my life in Australia was the best life decision I ever made.

My life is incomprehensibly better now.

>>7381923

>>7383589
probably you unconsciously do want her back

>>7383977
I want a gf that's for damn sure but I definitely don't want her back, we're in 2 completely different stages of our lives and I'm not gonna let her hold me back

I'm quite self conscious about the fact that I've never had a girlfriend. I'm only 18 and I know there'll be more chances in the future but I feel like I may have missed out.

Also I'm increasingly finding girls a bit younger than me more attractive than the ones my age, but I don't tell anyone in fear of being labelled a creep. It's kinda eating me up since I can't see myself taking to these girls let alone being in a relationship with them, but it would feel nice to talk to someone about it.

My only fashion related confessions are that I own vans+levis and wear them regularly out of convenience and the fact that I'm too poor to be more /fa/

Thanks for reading

>>7382446
play some video games you unvirgin

>>7383142
iktfbbmayne ;_;

It's been a year now. I feel like a fucking psychopath.