/fa/ - Fashion

>>7274000
dumpster diving

a cemetery. its so effay and edgy starting love in a place riddled in death.

>>7274000
Museums. Or if you can cook, do that.

titty bar/all you can eat buffet

>>7274000
Hooters

>>7274000
Art heist

>>7274016

>go to museum beforehand
>learn all about the art there
>take qt to museum
>impress her with your knowledge of art

captcha: satisfied rityperv

>>7274016
>museum
>both of you walking around pretending to be interested in stuff to seem interesting

Sounds awful. I would only actually enjoy a museum if I was alone.

My vote goes for uhh I dunno skating? I've been on like 3 dates ever.

>>7274334
>>7274334
>museum
>both of you walking around pretending to be interested in stuff to seem interesting
>Sounds awful. I would only actually enjoy a museum if I was alone.

this. too try hard.
Just take her to the beach or some than

Something riskier (you have to ask her previously of course) would be taking her to some haunted place, like fucking scary as all shiet. Shit brix together, she'll never forget it

>>7274033
This. Nothing beats the rush of an art heist/fleeing from the authorities, OP. You will stay in her memory for a long time.

>>7274334
or like... you're both interested in the shit at the museum...

i would never date a girl who didn't like museums, or their content at the very least.

>>7274350
>>7274348
>>7274348
>creating memories
you make me sick

>>7274369
You also get the loot from the art heist. Turn a profit on the date.

>hey anonette come over and ill make you dinner
>yes that sounds great anon
>watch movie after dinner
>snuggle
>kiss
>sxc time ?? (optional)

you need 2 be able to cook tho
get her 2 help u w/ lil things like getting spices and shit to get her involved

>>7274380
also at some point add a 'grama's secret ingredient' and dont tell her wat it is

she'll be dum and think the food tastes better and also will keep wondering what it was and thinkin bout u

>>7274053
>"Oh that's interesting.... yeah. No way he cut off his ear? Cool..."

>>7274390
haha

u know some grils aren't this stupid

>>7274390
>having 2 use gimmicks to make a good meal

fkn fakebased plen what would chef ramsey say???

>>7274424
hah! nice one

>>7274431
>OI, DONKEY
>GET OUT OF MY KITCHEN YOU FUCKING DONKEY

>>7274437
It's true, chances are if u r cooking for a gril for first date you're over 19
Grils around that age (any1 who isn't 17) won't believe that dum stuff

I did think that post was funny though because I know u said it with a hint of sarcasm

get drunk an fuck lel

>walk
>food/cook
>walk more

if you can't have an interesting conversation the whole time she's not worth it tho

>>7274444
Even if they don't believe it I still think it's kind of cute
>grammas secret ingredient

It would make me laugh at least. Not a gril though, so I have a sense of humor.

>>7274449
ya this is always a good one u never have to bother with a second/third date either

>>7274390
>spiking her food
>not spiking her drink with a roofie

>>7274444
wow check my quads

>>7274453
>grils have no sense of humour
holy shit u r so right. Nothing is more painful than a girl telling a joke

take her shopping, let her try things on, then offer to possibly buy her the item in the future when you can find it on sale online.

>>7274509

>buying things for girls

lmaooooooooooo


u fucked up son

>>7274509
>shopping
Never
It's way too condescending

>>7274509
>take her shopping
>trail behind her while she looks for clothes
>hold her bags
>sit outside on those little chairs while she tries stuff on

ARE YOU CRAZY?? Holy hell

>>7274455
>walked around with qt the other day
>it wasn't an official date
>she's moving at the end of the year
>we got smoothies at the end

>>7274509
this is why ur a virgin

>>7274424

yeah but it still works on a subconscious level even if it is just a bit of a game

>>7274431
bitch i will cook a fuckin serious paella that will shut u tha fuk up

>>7274518

> "I-I''l buy it for you"

wow, thanks anon!

> "when it g-goes on sale online in two months maybe please"

yeah that idea is fucking retarded.

>>7274549
i wil give u some seared, bloody steak cut thinner than ur pencil dick served cold on a plate of sliced red onions

with a fancy as bowl of soy sauce and sesame seeds

then ill jizz in ur ear slap u and never call u again

fuccboi

>>7274549
No it's just plain lame unless you say it as a joke
Even then it's a lame joke

nothing beats walking, eating, then walking or a movie at your place (can end up not even being a movie)
U don't wanna appear too try hard because then you'll run out of ideas for future dates

>>7274509
kek
>>7274548
this faggot taking it seriously

also OP it depends on how much you like the girl. My go to date (before turning 21 cuz if youre 21 you go to a bar) is semi nice restaurant dinner then watch a movie. I usually go to this outdoor shopping center and we walk around for a little bit then if I like her do something else, like a movie or something

>>7274367
>Ann Arbor

>>7274000
picnic, if the weather's nice
In my experience girls prefer something simple, just don't come off as cheap

>>7274570
Nice post Levi

>>7274589
>watch a movie
Oh so you've never dated someone?

>>7274629
thanks

>>7274632
dude ur confused
watching a movie at the theater is something autists do
watching a movie at ur house is pretty much guarenteed makout/rail sesh

>>7274651
He never said back at his house, in fact it's more likely to assume it's at a theatre.

>tfw live at home
>tfw can't bring a girl back to fuck
>tfw getting bj while her mom is in the other room

>>7274657
asuming makes a butt hole out of u and i

>>7274673
Good I like fuckin white boy butt hole

>>7274016
muzeum is not effay. it's also not not effay. but it's not effay by itself. dumpster diving is.

>all these fags completely comfortable with just paying for both of you to go on a date

this is whats wrong with men. its you fags that enable women thinking that its okay to just expect to get shit handed to them in relationships due to pre-established gender roles

if a girl is unwilling to pay their share whenever we go out and do anything then i immediately break up with her. id rather be with someone that understands the concept of equality and is willing to pitch into the relationship, rather than "paying" for your expenditures with sex, which is literally a form of prostitution.

>>7274685
real talk.

and first dates are really simple tbh.

it's normal to be nervous and all that, but it doesn't and shouldn't require some huge drawn out plan.

>>7274685
lol dude ok we get it ur an autistic virgin take ur fedora back to /r9k/ pls

>>7274685
What? None of these implied who'd be paying

>>7274697

have fun being completely devalued and unappreciated in your relationships fuccboi

>>7274699

>taking a girl on a date
>taking
>implying youre bringing her to a date
>implying this doesnt not mean youd be paying

when was the last time a girl took YOU on a date? or treated you to anything for that matter, other than some sort of sexual display

>>7274726
lol u know u can choose to not waste ur gwop on hos without whining about gender roles and feminism like some fat male rights activist from reddit right

>>7274000
Going for coffee is the best I think. On the coffee date I usually ask the girl about her interests and then I pick something to do that we can both enjoy for the 2nd date.

>>7274726
i agree with you about paying, but you're reading too much into the word "taking"

it's a figure of speech, and also it can still apply even if you aren't paying.
if you pick her up, you are "taking her" etc.

don't read so much into a word

>>7274726
>expecting to be catered to
You're just as bad as a girl, except it's worse since you as a natural provider now want people to do your work for you. Grow up and get out of your parent's basement you mouthbreathing fuccboi. Get a job and learn what the real world is like.

>>7274736
there is a pretty big gap between "women should pay" and being a male rights activist.

>>7274736

how do you even function when you articulate yourself so poorly

>>7274740

holy fuck this level of delusion is absolutely hilarious. im not expecting to be catered to, im expecting that women realize, understand, and value the fact that im not in a relationship to give hand outs

>>7274740
>>expecting to be catered to
where did he say that?
he didn't say a woman should pay for him.

get boba tea and smoke cigs behind the local drugstore. it's low-key and girls think thats way romantic

>>7274746
if u ask a girl to come to dinner w/ u ur expected to pay since ur the one asking her out

if she wants to do half its a favor

if u want to wait for girls to ask u out then u can make them pay if u want, they askd u to come to dinner its their treat

but ull probably die alone as a virgin

>>7274754
>when was the last time a girl took YOU on a date?

>taking
>implying you're being brought to the date
>implying this doesn't mean they'd be paying

>>7274756
good call on the boba tea.
that is something easy, but also different.

>>7274753
>delusion
Proof of employment and your own residence, faggot.

>>7274746

male rights activists arent even bad, post-modern and radical feminists have spun it into a bad word because they feel as though men are literally held to superior standards in every aspect of society, which isnt true

>>7274753
As a faggot I have a lot of female friends and you would be disgusted by how easily they'll (all but 2 girls I know) dismiss a guy the second he doesn't pay for something because he's "cheap".

There is definitely an imbalance of power here...and it must be stopped. Some aren't even attractive! It's madness.

But yeah if you are looking to get laid just know that most girls will expect to be treated, but not spoken to, like prostitutes.

>>7274760
if that's how you handle dates, that's fine.

but do you really, truly believe i'm a virgin?

i don't care, but i'm curious because i think it's funny that you'd assume that.
why would a virgin give relationship advice?

based on what i've read from your experiences, i have a lot more sex than you.

>>7274770
Mens rights activists are bad - equal to femnazis.
Concerned level headed people that know and advocate an even playing field by concerning themselves with females rights as well as males rights are the people that arent bad.

>>7274776
>why would a virgin give relationship advice?

>>7274762

>implying being taken on a date cant be viewed as an exchange for taking her on a date prior, or the opposite

>>7274772

those kind of girls are ingenuous, shallow, and just awful people in general

>>7274780

mens rights activists are men who are actively trying to obtain mens rights in areas of the legal system where men are LEGITIMATELY at a disadvantage. they arent trying to fucking take away womens suffrage.

obviously, there are types of mens rights activists and there are those who you have described, and those who are on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. what youre doing is generalizing. itd be like saying radical/post-modern feminism encompasses the entirety of "feminism" which it doesnt.

>>7274797

disingenuous, rather

>>7274776
I'm a virgin and I've given advice ITT. You can go on dates and still be unfuckable because of your own deep seated intimacy issues you know.

>>7274797
I was just using his logic. His post by his own conventions and terms implied he on some level expects to be paid for. At least occasionally.

>>7274809
>your own deep seated intimacy issues
Damn you anon, too close for comfort.

>>7274770
radical feminists are taken about as seriously as the westboro baptist church and if u cant see that uve probably never left ur basement

its kind of pathetic and hilarious how autists pretend the modern world is some hell hole that wants to eradicate the straight white male, even funnier when they latch onto 40s and 50s culture

as if ud surive a week in the 50s ur some skinnyfat nerd whos never workd a day in his life living off his parents cash
>>7274776
if u dont want to pay for bitches dates take them somewhere that doesnt cost money

in our society men are expected to pay and theres nothing u can do about it no matter how much u bitch and moan get the fuck over it

if u dont like it dont go out to dinner

faggot

>>7274770
>>7274780
i sort of agree with
>equal to femnazis

even though there is a HUGE difference between the two.
i know exactly how entitled women are in today's society, even to the point of men actually being oppressed. it's inarguable.

but being a male rights activist isn't exactly the best method or outlet, tbh.

both extremes are wrong.

not to sound like that fedora dude, but all you can really do is feel happy knowing that you see what so many other guys don't and never will.
use it to your advantage.

you can't convince a feminist feminism is a pointless battle with no goal, objective or even possibility to "win"
you can't convince a white knight that women aren't how they are portrayed in media. you can't convince them that what women say they want is not what they actually want.

i've tried, IRL and here, so i know.

but IRL i WIN all the time, because i act how i NEED to act. not how i was taught.
i act how i want, and i win.

guys always get pissed and confused, girls always fall in love with me.

they'd never in a billion years say they wanted a guy like me if you asked them.
but they'd do anything to keep me.

i try to share what i know, and what i've learned, but there are too many stubborn, and ignorant motherfuckers out there.

saying you are a male rights activist will just get you flamed. even though you know you are right.

>>7274811

whats wrong with wanting to be paid for when youve given something back, or have already given something

im not a charity, nor do i expect free shit from everyone without giving anything in return

IE, if i pay for the entirety of a date, the ideal grill would be entirely willing to get the next one, because thats fair.

i really should have specified originally

I like the classic lunch date. Really the best thing for college students

people often don't like eating alone
no pressure situation, you can get to know each other without the expectations of a"date"
each person gets their own food at most lunch type places

to make it fa go to a cool cafe or little known place, bonus points if the staff know you. lunch date is king

>>7274828
No you indicated in your post that you expect to be paid for on the first date given that that's what this thread is talking about. Stop moving the goalposts.

>>7274834
Very similar to my coffee date approach but probably better.

>>7274821
>in our society men are expected to pay and theres nothing u can do about it no matter how much u bitch and moan get the fuck over it
im from US, and i know it's not that different from Canada in this situation.
i can tell you that you are right. men ARE expected to pay.
but I don't. not on a first date.

and it's never been a problem.
not one single time.

i think girls actually expect to pay their half, but assume the guy is going to do it so they wait.
but they've never shown any negative body language or expressions reaching for their card to pay their part.

they only respect it.

i know you won't agree, and probably will still doubt me, but that's on you.

i'm not responding again either.
i'm not looking to argue.

>>7274834
i'm pretty much autistic when it comes to social settings. so it really is okay to meet someone new and then just be like "hey let's go grab lunch" ?

>>7274828
u are the one asking her out

u are the one taking up her time

u are the one that wants to get in her vag

its not equal

she doesnt care about you as much as you care about her

if she did she woudl be the one asking you out

u want to get in her pants afterwards

u pay

>>7274849
Coffee + a walk is the best date imo. I know a great coffee shop right by a park or we can walk a few blocks down and have a perfect view of the city on the riverfront. It's pretty much idyllic. Now I just need someone to share it with.

>>7274844
He didn't indicate that.
Please find his post you are referring to and cite the point where he said that.

>>7274821

youd have to be some sort of moron to not see how ingrained feminism has become into society from a sociocultural perspective. the sense of self-entitlement that women have to absolutely everything now as a result is nothing short of ridiculous, and to add insult to injury it's allowed to act almost entirely unrivaled to the extent that any sense of hypocrisy in regards to gendered double-standards are thrown to the wind, because its considered sexist to even so much as speak up against it.

>u cant do anything so deal wif it
jesus christ this is how the world ends

>>7274852
dinner dates are fuckin gay anyways

learn to cook urself nerd

>>7274858
Talk a bit first and build a rapport. If they're enjoying it (and if it's the proper time of day) then you should work it in. Dropping it like that is a bit weird, but if you're confident and casual enough it can work.

park/gardens with lunch for a god damn picnic
bitches love picnics

>>7274865
>youd have to be some sort of moron
he is.

and his posts continue to prove it.
he doesn't understand sexual dynamics or even social dynamics.

tbh, you fail for arguing with him after this point.

>>7274860

>not establishing some grounds of casual friendship before elevating anything into a dating scenario

its like you only talk to women for sex or something

>>7274861
Yeah, I always choose this place in Gastown in Vancouver because its nice to walk around there in the evening and chat.

>>7274869
yeah i know i would have to get to know them and warm up a bit, but i meant that it's acceptable to "ask out" someone that i just met? i'm also an introvert so i'm trying to work on talking to people

>>7274875

probably

>>7274879
Advice from my therapist worked out really well for me. You're probably building up what might happen in your head too much. Just take more risks and more often than not you'll find what you worry about won't happen or be nearly as bad as you thought it'd be. No one really likes being an asshole and if a girl doesn't want to go out with you they try to let you down easy.

>>7274876
B-but...muh friendzone

>>7274879
The reason it works great as a college student specifically is because everyone needs to eat.

>walking out of class with qt you have some rapport with
>"so where you off to"
>blah blah blah need to eat
>"want to grab lunch?"
The key is its not dependent on them, you're going anyway and they can come or not. If they are into you they'll either say yes or have a reason they can't but be apologetic. If they aren't they'll just say they can't (and even that isn't certainly a brush off but often if).

It isn't weird though if that's your question, I've done it with other dudes that seemed cool (im a hetero male btw). If you aren't weird it isn't weird.

>>7274894
that's exactly right, i overthink everything and end up not doing anything out of fear of the fictional consequences

how do i get over this "fear" of initiating conversation with people? i know i can actually talk once i get started, but i lock up when it comes to just hitting it off with some stranger in passing. i feel like i have no business talking to them and they would already know my intentions from the start (there goes me doing exactly what you're talking about again)

>>7274906
friendzones only happen if the girl doesnt like you from the get-go but you cant pick up on the signals, or if you want like half a year to awkwardly drop your spaghetti all over her

there are exceptions, however. i dated a girl for 4 years, and prior to that we had been getting closer and closer as friends for about 2 years before we just decided to start dating, because we were so close we basically were

>>7274906
Friendzone is actually just code for "I'm not attracted to you but still like you as a person".

I was pretty much gay best friends with this girl for 8 months (i like doing gay bff things as a straight guy) since we each had things going on with other people on and off and we never overlapped availability. But once we were both free we fucked instantly regardless of being friends because the sexual desire was there. No desire at all is where the friendzone comes in.

>>7274919
For me it was just a lot of forcing myself to do it. Once you start it becomes very hard to stop talking to someone (don't wanna be that weird guy that said one word, do you?) so I just force myself to walk over to someone and start talking. Or I'll just smile and say hi to people as I pass by them if I know them. Approaching stranger qts though is always hard, but you just gotta keep doing it. Helps if you're an adrenaline junkie though since you get a big rush of that from the anxiety.

>>7274876
I get what you're saying, and agree to a point.
You can't (usually) act like sex is all you are looking for, but you also shouldn't become friends with the girl.

You can, like you said, establish GROUNDS for friendship since that is one of the most natural ways to bond with someone anyway.
but if you are interested in her sexually, you shouldn't spend a lot of time as her friend without going for a date and escalating.

most girls will agree that they don't want to be friends first.
it's offensive, and confusing to them for a lot different reasons.

>>7274919
>they would already know my intentions from the start
This is how it should be. The weird ass friendzone shit and aawkwardness comes from people not knowing where they stand. If you are pretty transparent you'll get an answer one way or another.

As for fear of the answer being no, no one can help you with that. I recommend doing what >>7274942 said. If you are a really big pussy like I was do it to strangers so there are no consequences.

>>7274915

that isnt asking someone on a date, though

thats a casual excuse to get to know eachother better, because youre both hungry at the same time and it's convenient since youre already talking

>>7274516
>>7274518
>>7274539
>>7274548
>then offer to possibly buy her the item in the future when you can find it on sale online.

>>7274962
>nigga doesn't know about kino
>nigga doesn't know about being flirtatious

>>7274942
frick i get an adrenaline rush from IMAGINING going up to strangers and talking to them. any particular topics to use? i figure complimenting their outfit is an easy one, but i'm so narcissistic and hard-to-impress that i would feel like i'm lying by complimenting them on it, and i'm afraid they could pick up on my facade

>>7274968
I still wouldn't do that unless it's like a birthday or christmas
and it's like $5

>>7274936
>>7274938
What I say about the friendzone is it only exists if you let it.
and you shouldn't let it.

Being friends with a girl is fine.
Fucking a girl is fine.

Being friends with a girl you want to fuck, hoping she'll eventually feel close/comfortable/whatever enough to fuck you is WRONG.

Staying friends with a girl who rejected you thinking/hoping she'll change her mind is WRONG.

>>7274969

>eh khurl u wanna get sum lunch r sumfin
>aw ye u getin dem sandwiches id lyk 2 get ur buns nomysayin

>>7274975
It's not good to systematize things, just talk about anything. Literally anything, so long as you own it as a passion. Be really interested and engaging with what you're talking about. You want to talk about the time you stepped in dog shit? Make a fucking epic out of it so she hangs on your every word. Make her laugh, make her cry, etc. The point is you want to get her engaged. If you're making some flowchart of ideas to talk about then you're going to fuck up and if it breaks the chart then you're going to flounder.

>>7274983

this guy gets it

>>7274962
That was kinda my point though. Usually I get my dates from here if the lunch seems natural and fun.
>what are you doing friday?

Just seems a lot better than just asking someone out. Put pressure on everyone. But this idea of relieving pressure also applies to a real date itself. I like to choose one I'd do anyway and invite her along.

Girls like when you ahve your own thing and don't "need" them. Fancy dinner you need them there. Farmers market or nature hike I was doing anyway but why don't you come along??

>>7274983
I totally agree with you. I mean maybe we just have different definitions of friends. I'll be friends with a girl but if I'm interested in her sexually she will know it. I do agree the kind of friendship used to mask sexual desire is toxic as fuck.

>>7274989
As much as people joke about this I would actually text a girl this. I've texted girls all those dumb pick up lines form fit and most find them hilarious.

>eyyo gurl, wen u gonna let me clapp dem cheeks

>>7274989
>ay yo gurl lettuce get down to bread sticks and let me slather yo buns wit muh mayo

>>7274975
>>7274990
I think the best thing to do is talk about them. Then share something about you relating back to what they have said about themselves. People like when you "let them in" but they also like their own life a lot so do both if that makes sense.

My new favorite conversation starter is
>man you look tired
I'm in stem so either you get someone to talk about "fuck classes amiright?" or they interpret the comment to be about their looks which opens the door for flirtatious teasing.

>>7274994
I should get down to making a notepad of all the fit pick up lines I've found throughout my time on it. Shit would be pretty fun.

>>7274983
Amen, to that last line. And it feels pretty good when a girl rejects you for another guy, just to be used by said guy, so she tries to be friends with you again. Bitch what, I'm on the next one.

>>7274962
>that isnt asking someone on a date
well, actually it is.
the beauty of it is that it works out much better for you than an "official" date as well.

like this guy said
>>7274969
it's better to let things build over time.

you don't think you need to use the word "date" right?

>>7274990
okay that's something i could try working on. my problem is, how do i get to me telling the story of stepping in dog shit in the first place? as you said, i can keep talking once i start. but i can't start.

>>7274983
Lmao every girl I've ever dated still "loves me as a person" when they dump me and expect me to hangout with them while they fuck some other dude. I just say okay when they dump me then never speak to them again. After one week they begin to call me, follow me around, and question all my friends to see what I'm doing. Then I just get with a finer bitch and shame the old one into oblivion.

>>7275008
>Oh man I have been having a shitty day....
If you really wanna use the dogshit story. Though my preferred opener is "You're cute, I have to talk to you. My name is ..." It's direct and openly transparent.

>>7274994
>I'll be friends with a girl but if I'm interested in her sexually she will know it.

Yep, sounds perfect.
I say, treat all girls the same but show your sexual energy to the ones you like.

>>7275003

theres obviously some sort of cut off between a casual friendly "date" hang out, lunch, or whatever, and an actual date that both parties are aware of

>>7275010

>Ummm, okay.

Your'are move, anon.

>>7275008
Don't just say "So one time I stepped in dog shit."
Transition into it, there's so many ways to transition from subject to subject (that's something you have to do by the way, don't let there be an awkward silence when you don't know what to say).
>be talking about dogs
>mention yours, then a hilarious story about stepping in his shit (but don't do it in a weird manner, be confident in your humor)
don't lie, just use this as an example

>>7275016
There is but my argument is that the former is infinitely better than the latter for a first date. If want to insist on calling a datey date the first date then whatever my idea is for a pre-date if that makes you happy.

>>7275023
>You seem a bit leery, I'm going to guess your name is Laura O'Leary
Cheeky smile.

>>7275039
Obviously it's corny as fuck which is why the smile is there. Taking it seriously is why it fails, the goal is to get them to laugh and open up.

>>7275026

>not being the most uninteresting piece of shit imaginable

me and my friend have 2 entirely different tactics for talking to and picking up grills. my friend is naturally charismatic as fuck and can make even the most boring menial shit sound incredibly interesting, while I lie and fabricate interesting things that have never actually happened to me. IT WORKS PRETTY OKAY

>>7275039

you're good

>>7275010
aw shiiiieeet that sounds super scary to do, but at the same time it sounds perfect. ok so i guess i really just need to work up the guts to say it to people. and i'm still doing that flowchart/mapping out thing with conversations. best advice is just to stop thinking and speak?

>>7275010
wow that's actually a great line. so fucking simple. thanks. going to do this (and not bail out) on this qt after my class

>>7274770
Thank god that I'm living in Germany. Not even 1/3 applies here.

>>7275023
If some bitch said this to me I'd call her out on it or leave.

so my move:
>raise eyebrows
>shrug "ok guess you're too busy" said with a confident chuckle

If she doesn't object to that she doesn't want to talk to me anyway so I leave. If she says something like "sorry i've had a long day" or really anything then you start the conversation from there.

One time I even just admitted to the girl that I promised myself I'd talk to the next really cute/interesting girl I saw.

>>7275041
Not stop thinking, but stop planning. Think of what you're going to say next IN THE MOMENT. I cannot stress that enough, as soon as you start planning out what to say you cripple yourself and trip up. Practice talking to people normally first, just try carrying on conversations with strangers in the supermarket, at the bank, in line for clothes, whatever. Just get good at talking to people.

>>7275041
That "line" is super scary to do.
I know even i can't do it and I'm not bad at approaching girls.

It's easier to just stick to making conversation, and gauging her interest in you based on her body language and expressions.

That's a good idea anyway.

The key to getting numbers and getting dates is simple: Get in, and get out.

Make conversation, gauge interest, get her number, GTFO.

Text her, set up date, GTFO.

I'll see if i can find some stories i've typed up here of some approaches I did, but i don't feel like dealing with the drama that comes from that.

maybe just post a scenario and i'll give you some ideas.

>>7275049
th-thanks. I'm good at talking to people randomly, but in party situations I'm terrible. Can't ask someone to dance to save my life (also can't dance which probably contributes)

>>7275041
I'm as autistic as you but have channeled it into people skills with the mechanics and precision of a true savant.

So I do this sort of flow charting thing but they key isn't thinking of specific paths but rather saying things that are open ended to keep the conversation going as well as entertaining for both parties. So I have internal conversations with people in my head all day, the key is to be able to improve but maybe 2/5 of the time the conversation will work as I've imagined and I managed to pre-remember a fact about the person or a funny anecdote that I knew had a high chance of coming up. If all you gots is your charts though you're fucked

>>7275046
That's true, there's not just one way. I tend to take the confidence/charisma route. I don't like lying, but I guess I shouldn't be against it if it works.

You really don't have to make up stories when you've had the experience of almost dying 4 or 5 times, though -_-

>>7275041
"hey, I think you're really cute and I was wondering if I could get your number."
yes here's my number you're so sexy anon
"are you doing anything this weekend?" etc

>>7275072
>"are you doing anything this weekend?" etc
personally i'd cut before that came up.
i'd get her number and tell her i have to go.
leave it open.

make her wonder if you're gonna text her so when you do she's a lot more excited, OR she won't respond.
either way it's actually a better way to gauge and potentially raise her interest in you.

>>7275072

>i was wondering

strike one

>if i could

strike two

>are you doing anything?

strike three

>>7275062
>>7275069
>>7275072
okay thanks so far guys. what do i do about my high standards in girls though? if a girl isn't cute to me, or has some turnoff, then i don't even feel the urge to interact with her. & the ones that do catch my attention are thus so good looking/well-dressed/etc. that its intimidating

>>7275069
Saying open-ended things works really well, because if the girl is interested she'll generally help push the conversation forward and you can do the same. If you are getting short answers and no elaboration, wrap up the conversation

>>7275063
They key to the party situation is to just do it. In a party atmosphere if she's not into it no big deal, if she is you'll know.

A note on dancing. I can't dance well either but the key is to just dance with a confidence that says, "i know i suck but idgaf because I'm having fun" fun is contagious. I guarantee you'll get more bitches just fucking around and looking like you are a fun person than by having killer moves.

>>7275084
Shit's natural yo. Better for relationships as well.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18266540

>>7275080
last time I didn't text a girl right away, she got mad
entitled slut

>>7275083
we all know none of this actually applies

>>7275090
i got kind of lost there. is it saying that guy + better looking girl makes for happier relationships?

>>7275099
It does if you're not speaking confidently, but that's tone and volume of voice. Vocabulary can help but the first two are much more important. People care more about how a message is received than the specific way it is told.

>>7275102
It's more likely it'll be a happy relationship, yes.

>>7275108
if you're confident and smile after it, that line will work pretty well

aka no spaghetti

>>7275091
Hope you weren't following that three day rule

>>7275084
I would ask how many relationships you've had. The way I see it if you are attractive enough that I'd fuck you, your level of beauty is of no further importance. Like if I'd fuck a 8 getting a 9 or 10 isn't even actually better for relationships. I don't mean like gf or anything when I say relationship I just mean I have to actually like someone to want to fuck them. But once you meet my baseline attractiveness levels then any additional attractiveness isn't really important to me.

The reason I mention this is I thought like you did until I got to know this one girl who was probably less hot than some other sloots I'd messed with but she was amazing and it didn't matter. Since then I feel like I understand that looks aren;t everything and I really didn't get it at all before hand.

(ps i still love her and banging hotter randoms doesn't ease the pain so be carefl with that shit)

>>7275090
I don't think it's neccesarily better for relationships.
Of course it's good to be selective and only date/fuck girls you think are hot, but if you don't have much relationship experience it's also a surefire way to get in the lower power position. You may end up catching oneitis pretty quick due to finally finding someone hot that you're comfortable around.

>>7275099
Possibility of working if said correctly, but all the soft asking is begging for letdown.

>>7275102
>better looking girl makes for happier relationships?
logically, yes

>>7275113
Of course. Confidence is everything. Which helps me since I tend to come across as very confident when I talk. People act like I'm much more knowledgeable than I am just because of how confident I sound. One friend thought I was a master chef despite only knowing maybe 3 recipes.

>>7275114
nope, one day lel, I was busy anyway

>>7275114
The only bad thing about the "three day rule" is the word "rule"

waiting 3 days MAY be the right amount of time, but thinking that it's a requirement is bad.

i've waited longer and i've waited a lot less.
it depends on how i met the girl, what we talked about, how i'm feeling, how busy i am, etc.

it's sort of a stupid thing because girls tend to over analyze like "did you wait three days because that's the rule?" but fuck that.
if they bring stuff up like that up a lot, it says more about them, than you.

i could type a shitload about this, but the simple summary is that there is no "rule" as long as it ins't immediately.
i'd rarely text the same day, but i have before, and gotten laid that same night.

>>7275133
Heh I have such a terrible memory I forget to text grills for quite a while. On a monday I made plans to meet up with this grill on a friday and said I'd text her the details (location/time/etc) completely forgot about it til thur

>>7274570

>>7275150
Needless to say, shit didn't really work out since I hadn't contacted her at all during that time.

>>7275168
weird, that sucks.
but i've done similar and had no problems.

if i have a date on fri i'll probably confirm weds.
but i try to find a practical reasons rather than just "confirming" as that could send a message of insecurity.

>>7275144
>>7275150
welp i have to admit i'm pretty needy/clingy, it's really hard for me to play hard to get like that.
but backing up a couple steps, so i'll try out just calling the qt girl cute and introducing myself and seeing what happens from there? too bad there aren't any qts in any of my classes, so i'm gonna have to bust it out on a stranger in passing, which doesn't help

>>7275168
Well she didn't even bother to ask, so she forgot too, or just wasn't too worried about going any further? I donno'.

>>7275122
>Confidence is everything
Can't agree/talk about it enough. Last weekend, walked up this girl that I was only slight acquaintances with, asked her to a theatrical show (was gonna' go see it anyway cuz' my friend is it) and she said yeah. Didn't stutter, just walked up to her and asked what she was doing for the rest of the night and moved from there.

>>7275193
Doing it to strangers is the best. It's harder than just doing it with classmates or people you know, even slightly. Feels better when you get that positive response and that smile.

>>7275198
I really only wanted to talk to her to try and get introduced to her friend, so I'm guessing she picked up on my lack of interest in her or something. She pulled out the "i have a bf" card after she already said yes to the coffee, kinda weird but meh.

>>7275214
alright hopefully my quasi-autismo brain can digest all this and i don't just spill pasketti everywhere.

>>7275249
shit gets easier the more you do it, man. Good luck and don't mind the pitfalls as you first start.

>>7274756
how is it romantic?
no sarcasm

>>7275249
good luck. I'm embarking on the journey too. maybe we'll meet in the afterlife one day and talk of our conquests with zyzz

>>7275249
you should read this:
http://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-1

you seem pretty open minded and this guy does a great job explaining relationship dynamics.
i bet it will make you more confident, and open your eyes to a lot of things.

it changed my life like 3 years ago.

>>7275264
not that poster, but kinda' sounds like a scene from anime/manga or something
can't hate on boba tea though

>>7275283
Pook is definitely the most level headed of the PUAs, the least full of shit too imo.

>>7275249
The best thing to do is to try it and be able to laugh at yourself if it fucks up. At least then you know you are learning something. I don't even mind rejection anymore because it is usually funny because either I fucked up or the girl spilled spaghetti and she fucked up. In either case you have a funny greentext story and learned something.

>last day of class
>exit through the door
>qt is right behind me
>she goes "hey, wait"
>"I know this sounds really weird, but I think you're super cute"
>because I had a gf I literally just said "thanks"

>tfw I'm single now
>tfw this will never happen again

>>7275292
ha that's because he really isn't what has come to be known as "PUA"

and there are a ton of great writers like him, and better, who are labeled as PUA but aren't.

even if he wrote a ton about how to attract and approach women, it isn't PUA because PUA tends to be focused on "tricks"
pooks advice (like any good relationship advice) is based around improving YOURSELF and seeing yourself with more confidence.

>>7275302
iktfb
Actually happened again once before, sorta. Some qt sent her friend to tell me she thinks I'm cute (beta as fuck) but I thought she was talking to my friend, not me. So I said nothing.
Kill me please.

>look at thread for good dating spots
>full of edgy ignorant teens

>>7275289
ikr

>>7275318
look at the first half of the thread
where are the edgy teens, though

>>7275325
kek

do u guys not pay only when uve just met or even if its ur gf/sum1 u know for a long time

>>7275330

>>7275331
it depends homie.
it really is good to only pay your part at first, for a lot of reasons.

but later on just be like "i got this" and shit.
also, "i get this round and you get the next" is fine.

as long as she isn't expecting you to pay, and you aren't paying because you feel you need to, it's all good.

her house

Frozen Yogurt duh

>>7275318
ha you're the one who can't even figure out where to go on dates...

funny because i'm pro, yet if i typed out a ton of tips on where to go, you'd just say im edgy and ignorant.
that's because my tips are based around the idea that it isn't the location, but what you make of it.

also i thought bitches love sosa?

>>7275361
lol

>>7274685
>>>mlp

>>7275361
>caring this much on a purple internet forum for tweens

To be honest, the best date I ever had, we went to the DC Smithsonian around noon, and walked through it in it's entirety. Halfway through we sat down for food, then continued. Saw the Hope Diamond and all that... Afterwords we kinda walked around DC a little bit and just talked and shit until dark, then we went out for drinks at night. Spent the whole day together and it was quite nice. Stayed at the bar until close and when they kicked us out I told her I would distract the manager while she escaped with the tall beer she wasn't done drinking. I still have that glass haha. She wanted McD's so we went there after. Went home and slept together to wrap up a very nice full day.

shit was cash yo but reminds me of >tfw no gf

>>7275454
lol

>>7275444
Did you coopt the plot of Before Sunrise to America?

>>7275444
iktf
>meet girl at around noon
>chill at her house for a couple hours
>talk and cuddle watching movies
>go to indian restaurant, first time for me
>followed by drive in movie, cuddle some more
>back to her house, fall asleep cuddled together
...
>mfw exgf
>mfw we stopped talking after such a good time
>tfw when no gf

>>7275302
>suffering from tfw no gf
>go to a party
>talk to some grill for a while
>she gets up to leave
>"by the way, i think you're really cute"
>"oh, thanks"
>she leaves
>i never see her again

>>7275454

Not familiar with that particular work of art, sorry.

>>7275475
Whenever a girl tells me i'm cute I usually say "you don't look too bad" and then in your situation i wouldve made small talk "you about to go to sleep?" (since she was leaving) cool we should hang out sometime.
ask for her phone, get number, think think think, profit

>>7274014
some girl took me to a cemetery a couple months ago i was kind of embarrassed when someone asked where we were going

>>7274380
this

>>7274000
Choose an activity, like a neighbourhood rummage sale, or taking film photos in the forest or of the neighbourhood rummage sale. Read things to each other. Buy a membership to a gallery. You'll always have your admission covered, plus an extra pass for cool exhibits for a guest. If you're a student, annual gallery/museum memberships go for basically free.

Choose things that make you talk.

Teach her how to screenprint, or use a macchinetta properly. Go to a public lecture then discuss the points over drinks, or just walking around the town.

>>7275493
>implying grills care about this kind of shit
even the ones from the arts programs care about little more than what they are doing at the moment or that night.

>>7275039
>troalpost what does leery mean
>i'll tell u while we go get sum coffee
tfw frenzone


>>7275071
>actually having a life,get out man b4 u get sucked in like i did

>>7275185
practical reasons like what ,so curious now

>>7275352
good to know ur perspective
i dislike it when if i paid for tickets or anything minor to or anything a girl will suddenly want my dick,like if i wanted to sex u i'd have done it way before, this time i just wanted to hang out

also an anecdote

>go to open day at design school
>see ex frm 6 yrs ago,i want to get sum coffee
>she's new to this part of town and i order for her
>she's rly diggin it
>barister forgets to charge us
>i remember and pay at the end
>she says "troalpost you're such a gr8 guy"
>in my head "huh what,whatever"
>we go watch a movie
>i tell her to pay for her part and wait in line for her snacks
>she has this look of shock on her face
>a week later she texts me to say we should be fwb
slept with her once,never again

sumtimes i rly dnw when im acting like an asshole or doing anything ryt

>>7275493
Best answer in thread, this guy gets it.

>>7275506
to be fair, OP did ask for /fa/, not for normal

>>7275508

>this guy

lmao

>>7275508
>guy

>tfw do everything right in a relationship; friendly, funny, fun, unique, not beta
>make a move after a month
>sleep with her
>she stops talking to you
>mfw

>tfw learning Japanese to talk to cool Japanese people and cute girls

>>7275512
>>7275513
Okay, I admit, that was funny.

>>7275510
ill get back to you homie im playing gta

>>7275510
/FA/ IS MY LIFE
on a real note, I have so many more stories that I used to
because I changed from not wanting to go out to going out so much that the hallmates in my dorm didn't know who I was for the first week of school
and going out and having wreckless makes for good stories
>possible side effects: death

>>7275508
do people really not know who tripsk is?

>>7275555
that outfit looked better with her shoes on tbh

>>7275511
True.
I guess /fa/ girls with any kind of sophistication to them do not live in my area.

>>7275555
>>7275574
I don't pay attention to names because I don't feed into attention whores

>>7275574
>>7275555
>>7275580
>attention whore
>queen of /fa/
no need to admit how new you are

>>7275596
>posting in WAYWT
>buying into board culture on the level of King/Queen of X
>being a huge cocksucking faggot
Pick all three and get out

>>7275536
thinking ofpicking wiiu w/ that new mario

>>7275596
she has a rly nice body,like on a non creepy level
2bad i rly rly couldnt resist doing dis

>>7275580
Well, you liked her answer, so I guess she's not only an attention whore.

>>7275603
I never responded to her, friendo :^)

/fa/

Teach me how to cook

Coffee and cigarettes notwithstanding

>>7275609
go to hedi's nightmare
>>>/ck/
watch family when they cook
bookmark marthastewart at the school computers
get bishes

>>7275555
>>7275574
>>7275600

Jesus has she been skin whitening

>>7275609
Toast your tobacco.

>>7275600
get it fuccboi

Use "HappilyEverActive" as a voucher on takealot

>>7275615
that's hair lightening

>>7275621
bt games doesnt have any special on games rn?
thank you btw

>>7275615
she looks whiter than ever in her twitter pic

>>7275510
>practical reasons like what ,so curious now
practical reasons like
"i'll text you for your address"
"just letting you know it's gonna be 10 instead of 9"
shit like that. i'll scroll through my texts and see if i can find anything better.
basically just a somewhat important detail you can use as a subtle way to confirm

>sumtimes i rly dnw when im acting like an asshole or doing anything ryt
that's why when you have interest in a girl be sexual with her, when you don't haha you're screwed.

PS im drunk but i am so damn good at Deathmatches on GTAV

>>7275624
she looks so much better in the top pic. although it isn't hard when the reference point is some shitty fried looking blonde-mix

>>7275555
gross. what is she doing to herself?

>>7274407
Lel

>>7275627
nah I only get preplayed stuff from them
cool
check nintendoza.co.za

>>7275643
ohok no offence but thats stuff i already knew/did
my comment was worded wrong
>>7275694
cool,looks like il go to boksburg for a wiiu and thrift shops

>>7275738
reword it then

>>7275628
Curries are funny. The qt ones seem to do everything they can to appear white.

The ugly ones that could probably use it don't bother.

>tfw when in asia and all this advice is almost useless because of how different dating and general culture is

went out into town with a girl for the first time

she insisted she pay for both our dinners and did despite my offer to at least pay for myself

what

girls, you have terrible humor. you are unfunny, you are stupid, you have random mood swings, you are high maintenance and dont like my sports or my video games.

if im going to talk to you i dont want to be your fucking friend ok

you can ridicule me but when it comes down to it thats the way most guys feel

>>7276017
yep. seriosuly. i feel like im back in high school, drinking goddamn bubble tea and holding hands...
fuck...

>>7274380
cooking is so hard
I tried to make buffalo chicken mac & cheese with my gf and accidentally put in twice as much cheese as you were meant to and it was just a big lump of cheese
tried to make cookies and burnt them because i thought the grill knob was the oven
then tried again but still burnt them because there are no temperature markings on the oven dial or anything so had to guess
and not even anything saying whether one way is higher or lower temp
cooking is hard

>>7276108
there's no way someone could be that stupid.

>>7276027
Being gay is great.

>hey wanna come over I have the new super mario
>yaaaaaaay
worked for super mario galaxy 1&2 already.

>>7276118
to make the oven like that do you mean?
i had to write on it myself what i figured out was max and min

>>7276128
I'm sure it is, but I just can't bring myself to love the d.

>>7276130
for normal people it takes like 30min to figure this out for all eternity.

>>7276135
>30
more like 5

>>7276108
U got a gf now

nice
She cute?
U deserve her shrugs love u

>>7276135
No one cares

>>7276141
yeah she is thanks i love you too
>>7276135
its just a really old bad oven
The grill is turned on by turning the oven dial all the way but theres nothing indicating that
and the oven itself doesnt get even get up to 180 degrees centigrade i'm pretty sure because having it all the way up isnt enough to cook things according to the instructions on things that say to have it at 180

>>7274589
> (before turning 21 cuz if youre 21 you go to a bar)

Hehe americans, so primitive

>>7274000
starbucks

>>7276166

u need 2 learn 2 cook nigga

>>7274380


>you need 2 be able to cook thoget her 2 help u w/ lil things like getting spices and shit to get her involved


>I SAID CHOP THE FUCKING GARLIC
>NOT SLICE IT YOU STUPID USELESS FUCKING CUNT
>JESUS IT'S FUCKING RUINED NOW YOU FUCK
>FUUUCK

>>7275493
>taking film photos in the forest
sorry, in this modern world this will make girls uneasy because of "date rape," especially if you live in america; everyone there is a paranoid twat

>go to a public lecture then discuss the points

yeah okay you definitely must not be in america

>going on dates
>not just slowly smoothing yourself into her social circles
>not hanging out with her all the time
>slowly start hanging out just together more and more

after some time you can start calling her your gf

>b-but muh friendzone

yeah sure it can happen but if she wants to be just friends it wouldn't work if you'd ask her out in the first place either.

>>7276434
Canada actually
you should know this
smh

about to ask a gurl out but we can only meet at some random town since we live far away from each other
shit how do I even do this starbucks date thingy I'ts not /fa/ at slightest

>>7276442
"but if she wants to be just friends it wouldn't work if you'd ask her out in the first place either."

No, but then you don`t have to be friends with her at all. Hate having friends I want to fuck.

>>7275050
Nichtmal ein Drittel trifft zu? Wo wohnst du denn?

>>7275091
you'd better off not dating amis gurls faget

>>7275518
>learned japanese from anime and can now have pretty good convos
>tfw know cool japanese guys and one qt girl
>browse /fa/ like every day for a year
>realized recently that dating azn qt3.14's is beta af and the gurls are dumb af
>western qt's are really impressed when it comes up that I speak japanese

>>7276544
Maybe just stop boxing individuals into retarded categories such as race and maybe you'll have more luck

Sometimes I wonder if 4chan could be classified as its own mental illness

>>7276544
go commit sudoku

>>7275444
>I told her I would distract the manager while she escaped with the tall beer she wasn't done drinking.
qt

>>7274390
yea, put your dick on it
she grows accustomed to the flavor

I keep things basic

1st date: lunch somewhere and afterwards coffee at different joint

2nd date: movie at my place

Holy shit.
What an abomination of a thread.
These "/fa/ ways to do simple things" thread are always so fucking cringe it hurts.
On the one hand, you've got the successful guys who methods only work for them, on the other, the die-alone perma-virgins who are just regurigitating the PUA shit they've come across on their magical journeys across the interwebs in search of a female.

But im glad, i can still see the prevalent undertone of complete narcissism amongst the majority of you. You're all so fucking sure that you know best, and i guess thats better than everyone wallowing in self doubt like /r9k/ or some shit.

And the fact that no one has mentioned that all of this varies greatly on the location and culture you're exposed to. Im in London, so coming across a girl who doesn't drink, coffee, or alcohol, or dislikes clubs, or coffee shops, or expects an all out expense meal on the first date, or justs wants to hang out in my rooms and smoke weed, all of those are completely likely when meeting a date for the first time. Feel your way through it, trying to make a plan and stick to it i found is the worst thing you can do. The first date is a learning about each other experience, don't be a complete moron and your likely to get the second.

Also, if she fucked you on the first date, then she probably fucks all the other guys on the firs date too.

/my two pence

>>7274407
top

>>7276108
Why don't you just follow instructions

>>7276878
This guy has it right.. All girls are different

I like smoking weed with girls to break the ice but you have to judge whether or not they smoke as much as they claim to.. otherwise they can get all anxious and bad vibes and shit. But weed is a ligter toxicant that is fun and not rape-y. If I can tell they don't smoke daily/every other day I usually don't offer on the first date

My last successful first date
>ask girl if shed like to smoke weed and then have dinner (logical combo)
>chicken parm and spaghetti, making casual conversation while cooking
>offer her wine with the meal, she is very receptive
>I take two minutes to set the table proper while food is cooling, bitches like it
>after the meal smoke more weed, have a few beers
>night is winding down
>suddenly invited to party
>she's kind of drunk and says fuck it let's go
>end up coming home later together shitfaced
>?????
>wake up naked with her the next morning, she's a bit hungover but we laugh at the whole 'wtf just happened' aspect
>make that bitch some scratch biscuits and gravy and have breakfast in bed
>she leaves and I don't text her
>texts me a few days later
>wants moar

The moral of the story is that a flexible plan is the best plan.. and if you can introduce alcohol without being creepy as fuck then you have it in the bag, assuming she likes you

don't rely on alcohol and if the conversation is forced and painful without any intoxicants it's probably not worth trying super hard

>>7277154
nice

>>7274861
oh, I didn't think of that, it's just too simple, yet so nice. A new coffee shop just opened by the lake near the city I live in, and they're supposed to have the greatest coffee ever. will try

First date was visiting her when she was sick and watched her favorite film (into the wild) with her.

First real date was a day trip to amsterdam, visiting thrift stores and telling her stuff about the city.

>>7274983
>Staying friends with a girl who rejected you thinking/hoping she'll change her mind is WRONG.

How do I avoid seeing her if she is a close friend, not only of mine, but all my other best friends? Should I tell them to choose? Or just be a man and try to get over it even though it fucking hurts and it has for over a year and it probably won't go away before I finish school and move to some other city and never see her again.

Isolation is a no-no

>>7277298
oh my god, you must really love this girl if you were able to get through that abomination of a horrible self-help in-a-bad-way-pretentious movie

I took a girl to see Gravity last weekend, it was really bad I wouldn't recommend. It was the most uselessly 3D experience I've ever had. Kept the 3d glasses on for rest of day and embarrassed her though so that was fun

(we fucked)

We hooked up on Halloween
Took her virginity a week later
Next time we had sex condom broke
Our first date was dinner after a trip to cvs for plan b
She's definitely developing emotional attachment
Feelsgoodbutweird

>>7277314
"A visual masterpiece, but not more"

Always drama, if your girl doesn't like a good drama, she ain't nothing to keep

>>7274348
>you have to ask her previously of course
that's not how girls work

>walk about
>go cinema
>after cinema show her your ddr skills as you smash her at 2 player
>maybe go eat somewhere

the cinema is just an excuse to be near a ddr machine

>>7277154
>My last successful first date
Read that as *least* successful and kept expecting for something to go wrong. Was disappointed. Guess I should learn to cook.

>>7276442
Other peoples friends are the worst though

>>7277413
Yeah.

>>7277154
this is a win
nice going m8

having a lose plan for any night out is always the best way. if you have solid plans you'll always be disappointed because they never go the way you want exactly

>>7276878
>tfw you're so isolated from your own little culture and the advice on the internet doesn't apply to you at all

>>7276403
Oh man! Are you me? I act exactly like that with my gfs... Usually ends up fucking on the kitchen table without even eating.

>>7274014
I only bust out the cemetery date on girls I'd consider long term. Its kind of like a test to see how she handles weird and freaky.

>tfw going all the way on top of a double plot (married couple)

>what are some /fa/ places to go

Go on Yelp anon... Seriously, this place is a miracle when it comes to finding interesting places to hit up.

You can find events, concerts, cool restaurants, gastropubs etc...

>>7277413
>They already hate you

>>7274669
I know this feel
Is it bad etiquette to ask a girl out on a first date to their apartment?

>>7277297
>invite friends to do shit
>don't invite her
>profit

>>7277660
>Is it bad etiquette to ask a girl out on a first date to their apartment?
Yeah that's pretty invasive dude.

If it's really a problem, form a better relationship with your parents and ask them to go out for dinner. This could take a lot of time to build up but you will be much happier for it in the long run.

>>7275493
>implying you've ever been taken on a date

>>7276504
Habe mehrere Jahre in Dresden, Berlin und Cottbus gewohnt.

yo dat ho snapped his dick how come nobody is noticing this

>>7278251
I dunno
I just luv it when grillz grab my dickk out of the blue

>>7278262
ya but srsly in OPs pic its at a 90 degree angle yo. she snapped his cock B)

I just got rejected by a colleague. She still wants me to go out with (mostly) her social clique despite of this because she likes me as a friend and I wasn't devastated or anything, I took it coolly because I kinda knew she had a boyfriend. Should I?

>>7274553
>maybe please
I'm still fucking laughing

A good first date:
>meet in the city (a city you're familiar with obviously)
>have a drink and talk, preferably in a cozy bar.
>catch a movie, something artsy and interesting I guess
>make out to conclude succesful date

Don't understand what you guys have against catching a movie at the theatre. Watching one at home is better because of the garanteed make out sesh, I know.
But still, no autism in catching an interesting movie that interests both you and the gril.Shows you have something in common

>>7278293
>asking a girl out, knowing she has a boyfriend
>having any type of intelligence
choose one

>>7278365
...Sorry man, I just had to do it so that I'm not a "nice guy"...

>>7278377
Yeah but the answer is obviously going to be no. You have no chance unless they're in the process of breaking up, or she's gonna cheat on him. I just don't see the logic in that. Has nothing to do with being a "nice guy"

>>7278390
You're right. I guess that wasn't the most appropriate thing to do.

>>7278377
You shouldn't do things just to categorize yourself as something. That's a terrible way to live your life.

>>7278419
Well, I wasn't very eloquent there, I meant to say that I wanted to be honest about my thoughts.

>qt from work
>hang out once in a mall, end up semi-cuddling on the train
>she feeds me chinese food while I text my ex to fuck off
>we fake being ghetto rich as hell and proceed to irritate all store assistants in the upper-class stores
>not bad

>she breaks up with her boyfriend on the same night
>drink and smoke and launch fireworks with her and her friends, buy her peach cigs to celebrate her new freedom

Literally anything can be a good date if the person in question is interesting. They're the main attraction, not the movie/dinner/bloodied corpse of a homeless man you beat together.

>>7278411
Just think about it. That wasn't smart. You can still hang out with her and her clique or whatever, but don't be hoping to be her boyfriend or anything. I remember that I had been dating this one girl for around a year, when this guy that was pretty beta asked her out. It was an obvious: "no, why are you asking? I've had a steady boyfriend for around a year now." He asked year out twice two years before that too, and got no's. Asking a girl out with blind hope doesn't make you brave, it makes you kind of dumb, you at least have to know she likes you and isn't already taken.

>>7278433
I wouldn't date a girl that would flirt with another guy while they're dating.

>>7278452
He did cheat on her twice and claimed to always be busy whenever she wanted to talk for two weeks solid, so there is that.

>>7278442
Yes, I'm now slowly realising it was pretty stupid. I'm obviously not hoping that now, and I don't really care either, maybe I just had to get it out of my system.

>>7278460
There is that, but she should have talked about it or broken up with him if he was being a retarded douche bag. If the relationship isn't working, fix it or end it, and cheating is never the way to go. So good on you for having an awesome date.
>>7278461
I mean alright. I'm surprised she didn't find that awkward, but I won't rag on you for it. If you're good friends, cool, I'm glad for ya'. Just think about things logically, is all.

>>7274821

This is correct, I am starting to hate people who bitch about feminism more than I hate militant feminists who bitch about men. 4chan as a whole needs to drop this topic.

>>7274983

The whole point of the 'friend zone' concept is that you're so massively emotionally in love with that girl that being friends just doesn't cut it and will only cause emotional pain in the long run. Now it just seems to mean 'I want to fuck that girl but she sees me as a friend'. It's being caught in an area that is basically unescapable but being unable to move forward and accept it.

The friend zone is real, and does suck. I'm glad I faced it when I was 14-16 and not in my 20s. I feel sorry for people who are in the real friend zone and have to face the taboo of the word.

>>7274020
kek

>go to dinner
>calculate enough time to talk and eat before a movie
>go to movies
>pick something that came out 2 months ago with literally nobody in the theater

or

>see film that she is interested in, show that you cater her interests
>walk out

from walk out you can make it a fun night out with a friend to the beginning of something great, your choice anon.

>>7274571
>No it's just plain lame unless you say it as a joke
>Even then it's a lame joke
confirmed for having a lame sense of humor