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Starting to feel seriously depressed due to my height.

I am 5'7.5" mid day, 5'8" out of bed, 5'7" at night.

I wear Air Max 720's to be 5'9.25".

At work I wear boots with an inch lift and am 5'10.5".

I am ripped, 165 lbs about 10% bodyfat. Bench 300+ lbs got hurt deadlifting 495 lbs.

I have 8 inches bpel.

I have had sex with 23 women almost all on tinder. Yet have never had a relationship in my entire life. I am 27 years old and want to move on.


I never really in the past cared all that much about this stuff, never really cared that much about my height. Have gone through periods of not trying to get laid and not caring.

I hurt my lower back and hamstring 2 months ago and since then my life been becoming worse and worse. I cannot properly squat or deadlift. I am in pain. I find no enjoyment in anything anymore. I started using tinder heavily and got laid 5 times in the past 2 months. I had sex with 3 different women the past week and a half. I was only doing this for ego and outside of maybe 2 chicks did not even enjoy it at all.

When I was younger I had chicks who were interested in me but was an idiot. I would have girls and gay dudes sometimes show me attention. As I get older I am generally ignored in the general public unless its by other dudes at the gym because I am strong and fit.


I keep seeing manlet threads and posts online and am losing my mind. I am constantly in public now analyzing everyones height and thinking about it. I am constantly feeling down on myself because of my height now.


Due to quarantine I can't do MMA which was a hobby. Because of my injury I can't lift the same anymore. Because of my depression nothing seems enjoyable outside of watching UFC and I have no escape and can't keep my mind off this. I spend hours a day now researching and analyzing height.


I don't know what I am supposed to do.

This is a serious thread btw and I got banned off /fit/ for making a similar one.


Picture related it is me.

>> No.15406212 [DELETED] 

>>15406203
>I have had sex with 23 women almost all on tinder. Yet have never had a relationship in my entire life.
Similar, had 1 real gf whomst I always fought with.

>> No.15406218

trade you 2" of height for hair

>> No.15406219

>>15406203
Don’t be worried unless you have a small dick

>> No.15406220

>>15406203

leg lengthening is the only way

>> No.15406221 [DELETED] 

bepis

>> No.15406223

Also what makes the depression worse is that... I have and do get sex. On online dating I do get attention. I claim 5'8" and women don't reject me for my height online that often.

I have had women say I'm hot and have sex with me yet I still eventually get rejected and treated terribly. I get a taste and a glimpse of what the "good life" is like and then go back to nothing.


If I was a truecel it would be depressing as well. But now I am essentially being teased because some women will find me attractive enough to fuck but not to date.

>> No.15406231

>>15406219
Do you fuck guys other than your boyfriend?

>> No.15406235

>>15406203

Go to Therapy, Sounds like you're already a little emotionally out of touch and are over analyzing your life, if you even got a girlfriend you probably already have too much emotional baggage the relationship would end up unhealthy, be a big boy, and go to the shrink to figure out why you're insecure

>> No.15406239

>>15406219

I have 7.5 inches nbpel, 8 inches bpel with 5.5 inches of girth.


A lot of the time I do get laid, I trade nudes with women. If I didn't have a big cock and was not ripped I would never get laid.

But it still doesn't seem to matter much because after I fuck most chicks they never want to see me again anyway. The last chick I fucked the other day was a 5/10 face in good shape Asian chick and she was super tight and told me and acted like ( not sure if it was legit ) that she came a bunch of times. I fucked her 3 times that night and slept over and she seemed to like me. She messaged me the last couple of days but we were supposee to meet after work today and I feel she is ghosting me. When fucking her and going as deep as possible I still had about 2 inches of dick still sticking out and the whole base and she would moan and squirm when I went in as deep as possible. I also ate her out a lot as well. Yet she still seems to ghost on me although I also think my face is objectively better looking and my body physique is obviously a lot better. She was 5'5" btw.

>> No.15406245

>I'm fit and have lots of sex
>but I'm a retard whose only hobbies are watching other apes beat each other into submission and lifting
>please fix my massive insecurities
Fucking pussy. Protip: even if you were a few inches taller you would still be mentally weak, insecure and depressed, you would just blame it on something else. Accept that life is neither fair nor perfect and move on with it. Read a book you dumb gorilla, find things to do and interests that actually make you interesting.
>expecting relationships from Tinder hoes
I'm glad /fit/ banned you

>> No.15406249

>>15406203
What's your neckpill routine?

>> No.15406252

Health problems can be a bitch.
t, haver of

>> No.15406255

>>15406220
shut the fuck up

>> No.15406258

>>15406255
poorfag

>> No.15406266

>>15406245

I don't have lots of sex when you think about.

Guy who has a girlfriend he has sex with every night. Would have sex 365 times a year.

Guy who has sex with 23 different women and either only has sex with them once or a couple of times. Only has sex about 100 times at the best.

The issue also is no longer having sex. The issue is not having a relationship, not having anyone who cares about you, not having anyone on your side after work or when your stressed or tired. Not passing on your genes. No one to get old with. It is depressing.

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>>15406249

I mostly just did deadlifts and hang cleans and shrugs.

Now I can't really deadlift or clean or squat properly and my legs and neck is not as strong.

>> No.15406279

>>15406271
I see a young guy with hair, nice face, athletics, young. Maybe see a therapist

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>>15406266
>ignores everything else about the post
Just wallow in self-pity. Shit up every thread on multiple boards until you get banned and then go to another board and start over. Whatever you do do not read, play an instrument, go hiking, learn to paint, do woodworking, join a club. Just sit at home and do the same things you have been doing that made you so depressed and whine on 4chan.
You are responsible for changing your life, no one else is.
Don't @ me faggot

>> No.15406285

My dick and rectum are burning all the time when I have to pee. Is it prostate or muscle injury?

>> No.15406286

>>15406285
Sometime this burning would radiate to my toes.

>> No.15406293

dont get me started on injuries
fuck heavy lifting tb h

>> No.15406294

imagine having injuries and being a poorfag and no support network

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>>15406203
>>15406223
I started feeling similar about a year or two ago when I started browsing incel forums. Absolutely destroyed my self confidence even though I am not unattractive or particularly unpopular. Unironically, a big step you can take is to spend less time on 4chan. Even stop using it altogether. If you can afford, spend some time in therapy. 4chan is a cesspit of negativity and will affect your life accordingly.
As for dating... Tinder obviously isn't the best place to try to find love. With Covid, finding a romantic partner is a lot more difficult than usual, especially if you're not in school or at work. But regardless of your height, you can find someone who will love you. I don't have much advice for meeting anyone because I am not so experienced there, but just know that any woman worth dating isn't going to reject you because of your height.
It can get better, anon. Godspeed

>> No.15406299

>>15406203
Aren't you the bro who posted a couple days ago talking about how you fucked 20+ girls via tinder? You're a physically a Chad, but you are acting like a beta rn. If you are in despair it's because the only thing going for you is aesthetics and you think the only solution to feel better is to be more aesthetic. You'll tell yourself
>I'm unhappy because I'm not tall
>Maybe if I was taller I would have a gf
>I hate my parents for giving me shit genes
No anon, you are unhappy because you spent your entire life caring about aesthetics and short lived pleasures. You have it off waayyyy better than other people anon. 5'9" is the average height in the US, you are fit, you live in a first world country, you allegedly have an above average sized dick, your face isn't fucked up, you have all your limbs, you have no terminal diseases, you still have hair, and you are busy crying not being a couple inches taller? Give me a break and go see a therapist.

>> No.15406304

theres obviously something wrong with your personality or beliefs if you can't find anyone that would date you but would still have sex with you. it's not the height. 5 partners in 2 months is pretty red flag something is wrong unless you weren't serious about finding a real partner and you're just literally throwing yourself away to anyone that gives you a little interest.

>> No.15406309

>>15406266
I've been in several relationships we don't have sex every night. It's about 3-4 times a week then tapers off to 2-3 as you date.

Occasionally add in threesomes and the women she approves of but then again that's 1-2 times with them each max.

You have less sex but with more variety of women as a single male.

>> No.15406314

>>15406235
>>15406279
this. jfc you're measuring your height down to the quarter inch based on the time of day... if that isn't sign of a deep rooted insecurity that's messing up your life then I don't know what is.

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>>15406271
Looking good, good looking misc.

>> No.15406323

>>15406239
It was probably your banter. Wading through tons of minimal talk makes girls nervous. Just text her and say “when we fucking again”

>> No.15406342

>>15406299

I don't feel like a Chad in real life.

Other guys respect me and nobody really treats me poorly. But when it comes to women I used to get more attention from random women when I was younger.

To be fair though, I don't leave the house much and mostly go to the gym or places in an area that is 75% men.


Even though I had sex with a bunch of women in the past month, I also got rejected twice in the past month in person and one of them was brutal.

Also it sucks when even if you get sex you still get rejected later anyway. Like I said I have a big cock, I am ripped. I don't feel like I am acting weird. So it's either my height or face.

>> No.15406344

>>15406231
I’m a virgin

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>>15406279

I also have acne scarring on the sides of my face and because of my job on work days usually have to shave. When I am allowed to grow out a beard I look better.

>> No.15406360

>>15406344
That old dude isn't fucking you raw?

>> No.15406363
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15406363

>>15406359
LOOKING GOOD, GOOD LOOKING MISC

>> No.15406365

>>15406363

Damn accutane works.

>> No.15406394

>>15406360
Sieg don’t take your tag off to flatter me

>> No.15406398

>>15406342
>I had sex with a bunch of women in the past month
But sex doesn't bring you happiness does it anon? I get where you are coming from though, it's nice to feel affirmed as a person worthy of being wanted, especially in a sexual sense. It does wonder for the ego in that regard if you don't give a shit about the sluts you are banging, but, atleast for me, hook ups in general are uncomfortable. You spend all this time being romantic and sexual with a girl, and no matter how much you make them cum or scream the next day it's like none of it happened. Doing that over and over again just makes you feel lonely, or atleast that's how I felt, because it's like you feel like you weren't good enough. I'm just assuming you feel the same way since you seem so distraught.
>So it's either my height or face
It's really not though, you are meeting these girls on a hook up app. The undertone and intention of the whole first interaction is fucking and regardless if you verbalized it or not, that's what you signed up for. Have you ever actually tried dating a girl, get to know them as a person, take it slowly, become their friend first and then their lover? I'm the anon from the/fit/ thread that that told you "just because you can find a good biscuit in the trash doesn't mean you should look there for one" and I truly mean that. Sure, you could argue that post-modern women in general, wether if they are on tinder or not are all trash, but you are also actively participating in the most toxic dating structure that you think made them trashy to begin with. I sincerely think you would benefit from therapy like I previously said.

>> No.15406418

>>15406398

I have never tried the below because it never worked for me. I have never been friend zoned by a girl and have no women in my social circle to meet anyway.

>> No.15406430

>>15406418
Well, do you have virtues and integrity that would make you valuable in a long term relationship? Are you mental stable? Do you love yourself? Do you have the capacity to care and love someone else? Also, if you have no girls in your social circle, create a new circle, you have the power to lead and create opportunities. You don't have to live life floating along waiting for something good, make something good instead. Since you can't do MMA maybe fill that time slot with a new hobby, one where you can meet new people.

>> No.15406434

>>15406430

The only thing I can think of is start doing yoga to help with my back and hamstring issues.


I live in a place that is 75% dudes, and work at a place that is 99% dudes. Most of those dudes hang around other dudes as well. I don't have enough control of my life to create a social circle.

>> No.15406439

>>15406434
>I don't have enough control of my life
That is the problem in a nutshell and it is entirely a self-created one
>The only thing I can think of is start doing yoga
Dumb ape. Only concerned with the physical. MMA, working out and yoga are the only things you can think of? Retard. You even got spoonfed several options earlier
>read, play an instrument, go hiking, learn to paint, do woodworking, join a club.
But you won't do any of those things because it is easier to mope and woe-is-me on 4chan. Stay dumb.

>> No.15406447

>>15406439

Lol how is reading and woodworking going to help me get women?

Also I want to do yoga primarily for health reasons.

>> No.15406450

>>15406434
You have control anon. If you are really that unhappy with were you live then move. If you have a skill/trade it shouldn't be too hard to find a different job somewhere you'll be happy. Yoga could be a good hobby, especially if you pair that with reading to get those spiritual and philosophical gains. I personally like going to small trendy coffee shops so I can meet and interact with new people.

>> No.15406458

>>15406450

I can't, I am here the next year and a half.

>> No.15406461

>>15406447
>how is expanding my knowledge base and modes of thought going to help me
>how is accessing the greatest minds throughout history and absorbing the thoughts that have shaped countless generations of humanity going to help me
>how is challenging myself with new ideas and being forced to think about a wide range of topics going to help me
>how is learning a trade or skill that requires perseverance, dedication, focus, attention to detail, craftsmanship and patience going to help me
>how is anything beyond mere instant gratification and working out going to help me
Embarrassing.
You clearly know better than me, right? After all you're only depressed and insecure and bordering on nihilism, surely you have a better grasp of things than I do. Certainly I have never been in your shoes, I am not older than you with many of the same experiences and I have no idea what it is like to be lonely and feeling stuck with no exit in sight. No, you are the specialist snowflake on all of 4chan, you alone suffer loneliness and feelings of being trapped.
Nevermind, ignore everything I have said ITT. None of the above advice will help at all, the only thing you can do, out of all the possibilities in the universe, is continue to make lengthy posts lamenting your sorry state but never making any actual effort to change and not taking any advice.
Don't bother replying

>> No.15406462

>>15406434
>>15406447
haha looking good, good looking misc

>> No.15406464

>>15406458
Why you on a contract or something? Regardless, I find it hard to believe the female population of your city is only 25%, especially if you have been having all this sex. The only thing limiting you is your will to try.

>> No.15406468

>>15406464

Yes I am on a contract. The city around me is not 75%/25% but the area I live in specifically is.

>> No.15406472

>>>/fit/
>>>/trash/

>> No.15406484

>>15406468
Go to the city around you then silly. You have options, you have a free will. Also, why are you putting so much emphasis on having a gf? I think the best thing for you rn would be to see a therapist to help you fix your insecurities and your impending existential crisis. You can't control external situations, but you get to choose how you react to them. Are you going to lie down and cower or are you going to do something about how you are living your life. Decisions yours anon. I need to bounce to bed, but I'll pray for you.

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>>15406434
>>15406447
>>15406203
What kind of injury deadlifting was it?

>> No.15406562

>>15406561

Pulled and strained my left hamstring and hurt my lower back trying to pull 5 plates.

>> No.15406574

>>15406562
Damn that's unfortunate bro. You have an amazing body bro, basically my goal. You got any advice for avoiding injuries like that? Are deadlifts worth it?

Also, I think you'd also be better suited to meet women more organically. I think you're probably a little autistic (it's okay, I think I am too) and the women on dating apps are just using you as a human dildo. What kinds of music do you listen to? I listen to EDM myself and I've joined local facebook groups and it's great for socializing and meeting women. I suspect you might give off creepy vibes, so just focus on making friends and women will eventually hop on your dick because you're attractive, but the background friendship will make then want to make you their boyfriend as well. Good luck.

>> No.15406577

>>15406203
You aren't even that short and besides, I'm 5'11 and never had a girlfriend either and I'm still a virgin. Height doesn't fix anything.

>> No.15406581

>>15406574

I have been strength training for a long time. But my body naturally stays lean easily but its hard for me to put on mass.

Just look up any sort of strenght training program online. Because of my frame and height I am not a "big guy" at my heaviest and strongest I was around 170 lbs at 10% but I was able to bench 225 lbs for 14 reps and 325 lbs as a 1rm and do dips with 165 lbs added for 5 and pull ups with 110 lbs added for 5 reps.

>> No.15406584

>>15406577

The thing is that with you still being a virgin you have never gotten a taste of what its like.

I have had sex with women who were attractive before, I have even had sex with a blonde 6 foot thin women and have had validation and been able to cuddle and sleep with them. I got to know what it is like for a night. But then it all disappears and is gone.

You haven't gotten a taste so you don't know how bad it is when it is gone.

>> No.15406599

>>15406203
>I keep seeing manlet threads and posts online and am losing my mind. I am constantly in public now analyzing everyones height and thinking about it. I am constantly feeling down on myself because of my height now.
here's the problem

>> No.15406603

>>15406203
nigger

>> No.15406631

>>15406203
you're just either boring (not good at expressing yourself in a productive way) or depressed. figure out which it is and address it. if you're boring, experiment. pretend to be someone else or make up a character in your head until the patterns of human behavior become obvious. if you're depressed stop jerking off, get a dog/cat, and put a lot of time into a hobby.

>> No.15406638

>>15406203
suicide?

>> No.15406639

That is not the waist of someone that deadlifts 5 plates, not even close.

>> No.15406640

>>15406218
wouldnt you be as tall as cecil at that point

>> No.15406644

>>15406203
its not your height thats the problem, its your insecurity and over thinking. im 6'1, and despite my height i am not suddenly living a much better life than you. i am insecure about my small frame (tiny wrists) and small feet for my height. and since you have a bad mind set if you were my height you would probably find something to be insecure about too.

>> No.15406652

>>15406203
Maybe you're just a cunt and it's not due to your height? Lots of guys shorter than you have girlfriends, so blaming height wont fix fucking shit.

>> No.15406673

>>15406203
kill yourself?

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>>15406639

I injured my back and left hamstring pulling it.

>> No.15406685

>>15406203
post dick

>> No.15406686

>>15406203
Based Chad

>> No.15406691

>>15406678
those rubber plates are 10 lbs each, nice job doing 145 lbs

>> No.15406693

>>15406686
Chadlet?

>> No.15406694

>>15406693
Chanlet! LOL

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>>15406203

>> No.15406708

>>15406691

You can clearly see it say 45 lbs on the outside of it and can clearly see the bar bending.

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>>15406631


This is to anyone blaming my personality.

This is what my "text game" looks like. Its fine and it has worked to get me laid a lot. I also usually trade nudes pretty quick when I get on snap.

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>>15406710

>> No.15406719

>>15406710
>>15406714

this has to be bait

>mentions height twice without even being asked
>mentions dick size with an eggplant emoji
>good text game

pick one

>> No.15406722

>>15406719

That line is my opener. It gives me the chance to get rejected for my height initally without having to waste my time.

>> No.15406723

>>15406710
>>15406714
Bro that's not a personality, that's just texting game. Asking women "Are you an archaeologist?" isn't a personality either. Some people are bad at texting but have super magnetic, charismatic personalities when you meet them. Some people are great at texting but have a horrible personality when you actually meet them--I suspect this is you.

I have a bunch of platonic female friends and they've literally told me shit like that before. I traveled in Europe with this one girl and some other friends for a month and she was texting this one guy she matched with back home in the U.S. constantly during our trip. She said he was witty, funny, all the good stuff. But after she finally went on a first date with the guy, she said he wasn't actually funny in real life and had the personality of a wet noodle. As you can imagine, they didn't go on many dates after that.

Get outside brah and focus on making friends in non-sausage fest hobbies. I really think that'd be the best for you long term. You aware?

>> No.15406728

>>15406203

I'm 5'10.5" with otherwise pretty similar stats to you, except I have none of those problems. Do we finally have a confirmed cut-off?

>> No.15406730

>>15406203
you look great man. wish i had that body. im about your height and never had woman issues. maybe try not meeting them online.

>> No.15406807

i was in ur fit thread
at this point youre spinning your wheels
do u have a drug problem?
this is literally the faaggiest place on 4chan

>> No.15406875

5'11", I have had woman and men walk up and tell me to my face that I'm beautiful or that they want to have sex with me. Everybody in my life thinks that I have different hot women every week. I fuck probably one girl a year. I honestly do not care that much, the sex itself and the validation that comes with it barely does anything for me. I have other interests and passions that takes up my time and gives me x100 times more pleasure. Your obsession with sex and womans validation signifies two things, A. Girls can feel that desperation and pathetic attitude like a sixth sense and that's why you're having trouble forming relationships beyond a girl liking your body and face for sex B. You either have a low iq or you're mentally ill to care this much about mundane things like this to such an extent
You sound like an undeveloped person. If you think the highest life goes is just the act of fucking hot women than you're on a path to suicide. Usually the men who do center their life around that and were happy care more about the journey for it than the sex itself (playboy like casanova, dudes chasing money and then using high value woman to display it, war band conquering a city and taking concubines)
Develop yourself

>> No.15406917

>>15406239
youre overanalyzing this man. if this isnt bait, lets look at things: you have a big dick, you can use it, you have a good bod, youre handsome >>15406271 you can easily find a 7/10 girl. you just have bad luck or your leaving something out

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>>15406203

>> No.15407025

>>15406271
hahahahahaha no way this isnt bait, you're extremely good-looking bro, fk off lmao

>> No.15407084

>>15406223
>I have had women say I'm hot and have sex with me yet I still eventually get rejected and treated terribly
This happens to everyone no matter how attractive you are. I've had women that seemed obsessed with me then a week later so me no interest or respect. You have to get over it as quickly as possible because it's a waste of time dwelling on it.

>> No.15407207

>>15406359
What is your ethnicity?

>> No.15407242

>>15406203
I urge you to relax bro. I am 6’ w a 6.75” cock and would gladly trade my height for a perfect ding dong like you have. What you need to do is learn some game. Better yet, find something in life you are passionate about outside of sex. But definitely do learn some game also.

>> No.15407284

>>15406203
im a girl and personally i prefer guys in the 5'8"-5'10" range, not all girls are into 6'0"+ guys
dick size is way more important imo, id take a big dick manlet over a average size dick tall guy anyday

>> No.15407289

>>15407284
Ok tranny

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>>15406203
>mfw 5'5''
>mfw lie and say I'm 5'6'' to 5'7'' depending on who is around me

Not really what you expect us to tell you, champ. The reality is that being a short man generally sucks - it is a direct social handicap. I'm also curious; were you short growing up? For example, I've been generally short since 14. So, I've had time to adjust my expectations to it and accept it.

With all of that in mind, it is what it is. The other half of this equation is that it won't utterly kneecap you like being retarded, extraordinarily ugly, or top autism. So, you can be relatively short and successful... I assume the handicap is exponential at a certain point, though. I.e., being 5'7'' is worse than being 5'9'' slightly, but being 5'2'' is much worse than being 5'4''.

>> No.15407330

>>15406203
wanna trade height? im 6,4. fucking hate being tall. you stand out like a fucking dork. and its hard to buy good looking clothes. kys

>> No.15407344

>>15406203
>Due to quarantine I can't do MMA which was a hobby. Because of my injury I can't lift the same anymore. Because of my depression nothing seems enjoyable outside of watching UFC and I have no escape and can't keep my mind off this. I spend hours a day now researching and analyzing height.
Right so its clearly obvious what has caused your depression then isn't it, unless you had these low moods before?

Lifting makes me feel invincible for 1 hour and then afterwards I feel elevated and more emotionally regulated and less anxious the rest of the day especially after compound lifts. If I don't lift one day its easier to fall into a pit of self loathing, worry, fear and sadness

I know someone who is 5'4, lifts and fucks girls off tinder and he is loving life. He understands its just a problem he has to work around and everyone has problems in life
Go to therapy and physiotherapy (online if nothing is available in person)

>> No.15407350

imagine being a 6'1 manchild with level 1 autism and scoliosis

>> No.15407351
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>>15407330
Once you get below 5'7'', it becomes extremely hard to find well fitting clothes. The market for manlet clothes just doesn't exist for the most part.

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Here you go op
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYpSMsL_BeA

>> No.15407364

>>15406203
What gear are you on bro

>> No.15407401

>>15407351
go to asia, average height for males ranges from 5'3" to 5'7"

>> No.15407416 [DELETED] 

>>15406203
There is no way that muscle mass with those abs is natty. Fuck cheaters.

>> No.15407419

>>15406203
>BMI 25+
>popping abs
fraudster

>> No.15407436

You'll never be happy no matter how perfect you look. We are inherently hedonistic, and being hedonistic is pointless unles we are never satisfied.Just try to find meaning in your life, find a good girl and start a family or get your dream job.

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>>15407401
Unfortunately, it doesn't work this way. Manlets typically divide into two major groups: famine survivors and thick dwarves.

For example, my family is from Basque country and my maternal grandfather was 5'1'' - there is absolutely no surprise I am a short man. Yet, I can't wear Asian frame clothes because it won't fit my shoulders or torso above the stomach.

So, when I buy clothes in the Philippines, I would have to buy European fit clothes which are too big. Interestingly, my best luck buying clothes abroad has been in Peru. In Southern Europe, sizing is a lot better than in the States, but is still ultimately designed for a man 3-5 inches taller than me.

>WHERE DO YOU BUY CLOTHES?
I usually go m2m for fancy shit, and choose my battles carefully for other stuff. There are 2-3 boutiques in the US that make manlet clothes, but their style is typically as boring as it gets.

>> No.15407595

>>15406203
Your height is not your biggest stumbling block. Not by a long shot. My little brother is similar to you (built, decent looking, single, under average height) except he's not a neurotic mess and actually well grounded. Here's my advice. See a therapist and get the fuck off the internet. Your height is seriously the least of your problems.

>> No.15407621

>>15406203
I'm 5'4 and I don't care. I can still get girls, you have to focus on being better on other things

And if I need to fight bigger guys to defend myself, I focus on finishing them quick, or if possible, carry a gun.

That is about it, the rest is all in your mind and mindset which you seriously need to change

>> No.15407760

I was not cognizant of my height until I started visiting 4chan. Now I obsess about it too often.

Get off this site asap, OP.

>> No.15407767

>>15406203
post cock? asking for a friend

>> No.15408007

>>15406271
This has to be fucking bait this nigga looks like chad

>> No.15408011

>>15406203
It is what it is get over it you look good anyway

>> No.15408013

So I woke up this morning and was not in that much pain.

I was able to finally train legs without being hurt and did front squats today and even though I am injured and haven't been able to train legs in 2 months my front squat was not that much weaker than what it was at it'a best.


Because of this I am in a much better mood. I don't feel as depressed. At the gym I was looking at my face, my height and my build and feeling good about myself. It also helps that today I was also standing near a bunch of other manlets by the random probablity of the gym and didn't get heightmogged.


My depression and care about my height started mostly after I got hurt, and would stay in bed all day getting weaker and hurt and browse the internet and see a bunch of manlet threads. A couple of weeks ago I saw a 6'3" guy with a better physique and face than me at the gym and felt like shit and than saw a 6'6" guy who the top of my head was around his chin level and it pissed me off. I feel my depression correlates with my pain and injury and feelings of hopelessness.

>> No.15408017

>>15408007

That is me at my best though and I have scarring on the side of my face and have to shave on work days. When I can grow out my beard I look better.

>> No.15408019

>>15407436

That is what I am trying to do but I have not been successful at it.

>> No.15408045

>>15408013
>At the gym I was looking at my face, my height and my build and feeling good about myself. It also helps that today I was also standing near a bunch of other manlets by the random probablity of the gym and didn't get heightmogged.
Read the second half of >>15406299 again, you shouldn't have to base your entire happiness and worth off aesthetics alone. Once you get height mogged again or get injured or anything that aesthetically effects you, you'll be right back to where you were. A man in despair. See a therapist.

>> No.15408048

That feel when you are convinced that your old high school mates are lurking & shitposting on fa

>> No.15408071

>>15408048

Where are you from? I am from Staten Island, NY.

>> No.15408072

>>15408071

I wasn't talking about op

>> No.15408195

>>15406203
Your insecurities are not attractive enough to have a long-term relationship, no matter how attractive you are, it takes more than a pretty face and a good body to have a stable relationship with a girl, otherwise, all your attempts will end up in failure, I think 4chan is not the right place to find the solution to your problems, go and see a therapist ASAP if you keep this mindset. You will only feel like a fraud and not good enough.

>> No.15408463

>>15406203
jokes on you I've actually had 1 relationship hahaah

>> No.15408495

>>15406203
its not your height bud

the body and dick is rare, so is the face. These are attractive qualities.

Im willing to bet your personality and interests are average/below though.

>implying this thread isnt some dude trying to embarrass a chad online

>> No.15408513

>>15406203
>Starting to feel seriously depressed due to my height.
>I am 5'7.5" mid day, 5'8" out of bed, 5'7" at night.
it doesnt get more first world problems than this you stupid faggot

>> No.15408516

Holy shit.... ctrl+f misc
Anons you have not disappointing me on this day. GLM used to go to my gym, I enjoyed his company quite a bit, hilarious dude who helped me get my lifts up.

>> No.15408541

>>15408516

What gym did you go to lol?

>> No.15408954

>>15408541
Used to go to the Y, you know which one brah

>> No.15408969

>>15408954

Shit who were you lol?

>> No.15408970

>>15408969

I am not in NYC anymore btw.

>> No.15408981

>>15406203
Jesus Christ, you don’t need to measure yourself to a quarter of an inch at different times of the day. You don’t need to count how many women you’ve slept with and which of them where in the past 2 months.
All these statistics are weighing you down. You are objectively physically attractive.

If you’re getting that much cooch, doesn’t that make it incredibly obvious that your looks are fine? The difference between people wanting to fuck you and people wanting to date you is whether you are agreeable as a person.

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>>15407329
>lie and say I'm 5'6'' to 5'7'' depending on who is around me

How do you get away with that? Whenever something like that is brought up everyone compares each ohter

>anon i'm 5'6 as well but you look shorter
>bro back to back with me

>> No.15409227

>>15409216
>lie and say I'm 5'6'' to 5'7'' depending on who is around me

>haha sure you are buddy

>> No.15410477

>>15408954
>>15408969

Seriously though who are you brah? I will see if I remember.

>> No.15410948

>>15408495

No this thread is me.

>> No.15411271

Does anyone know any sandals or slips that give about an inch and a half to two inches extra height but don't look super noticable? I feel like if I am 5'9" on the beach where most other people are barefoot it will look good.

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>>15406203
Sounds almost like being a superficial cunt has made you miserable due to lack of depth and meaningfulness in your life. Who'd have thought huh?

>> No.15411387

You look fine OP, in fact I am mirin'

>> No.15411394

>>15406203
bro, just find a girl 2 inches shorter than you. there's tons of them.
you're a catch.
work on your self-esteem.
talk therapy can help.

>> No.15411396

>>15406239
girls hate having their cervix bruised.
also they thing guys with big cocks will cheat.
and she probably has a boyfriend with a small cock and just wanted to try out a big one.

t. big dick haver

>> No.15411514

>>15411394


I honestly am starting to feel like you want to be a good 6+ inches on your girl.

They are going to wear 4 inch heels and still want you to be taller, the most you can realistically have of footwear as a man and still be mobile and comfortable is about 2, so she still has a 2 inch footwear advantage. Than the other 4 so the top of her head is around your brow.


Being that I am a 5'7.5" to 5'8" manlet this means a 5'1.5" to 5'2" women.

>> No.15411525

>long salamander torso
>short clavicles
you're lucky girls don't know about those things but you look like shit

>> No.15411544

>>15406203
Who cares, Bruce Lee was short and he kicked ass. Do some Bruce Lee shit and kick ass

>> No.15411576

OP, make your intentions clear, if you only go to tinder and you don't signal implicitly or by your general demeanor that you want commitment then you're never going to get it.
I've never had any interest in casual sex and sex doesn't do anything to my ego, so I've only fucked 4 girls in my life, all in relationships that are either long-term or were intended to become long-term.
T. 6'4.7"

>> No.15411669

>>15406203
You think a few inches will make you happy? Think again. Like others said, this has more to do with your mindset.

Nobody is interested in you because you are depressed, superficial and probably have nothing to offer. For a woman, your personality and size of your wallet is more important than your height. Having insecurities such as yours and being obsessed with them is much more of a turn off.

>> No.15411996

>>15406203
read into Buddhism, man.

>> No.15412001

>>15411525
>you look like shit, you’re lucky people don’t realise you look like shit
???

>> No.15412444

>>15406203