[ 3 / biz / cgl / ck / diy / fa / ic / jp / lit / sci / vr / vt ] [ index / top / reports ] [ become a patron ] [ status ]
2023-11: Warosu is now out of extended maintenance.

/fa/ - Fashion


View post   

File: 40 KB, 320x400, guanabana-wide-brimmed-straw-panama-hat-mens-brown.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15005212 No.15005212 [Reply] [Original]

I want to wear one of these in public but every time I do I feel like it makes everyone look at me and not in a cool way. How do I build up confidence to wear a big hat?

>> No.15005237
File: 23 KB, 300x400, 1413644595291.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15005237

>>15005212
Confidence is like motivation in the sense that you don't wait for it to come, you just do it and the rest follows. Put the hat on and strut your stuff like you mean it.

>> No.15005449

>>15005212
Being confident about looking like a retard is not /fa/ - it is being a retard.
Your confidence should follow on from actually looking good.
Do you actually look good in this hat? I don't know, you may.
One thing I will say about hats is not all hats suit all people. Things like crown height and brim width need to be picked for the shape of your head and face, like sunglasses.

>> No.15005473
File: 119 KB, 1024x1024, bushman_tan_tele_05b10050-14a2-46f5-9625-b0bdfc78a5f2_1024x1024.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15005473

>>15005212
There is nothing wrong with the hat. It's strange how people stare at people, like in your example, but just ignore them. I wear hats, occasionally, especially if I am planning to spend more than fifteen minutes, outdoors. Here is a picture of a hat style that is the same as one of mine.

>> No.15005479

probably just by building a good fit from it that actually goes well will build up that confidence.

>> No.15005577

I´ve got a similar problem; I have what you´d call a hat-face as in "I can wear pretty much every hat and it´ll look good", but I lacked the confidence to wear extravagant hats for years.

I´d recommend starting with less "offensive" hats to built up confidence.

>> No.15005589
File: 13 KB, 480x360, bighat.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15005589

>>15005212
start w/ ridiculously big hat and work backward to normal-sized...

>> No.15005734
File: 342 KB, 717x458, 1580839613467.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15005734

>>15005212
grab a matching suit and a time machine back 100 years

>> No.15006294

When I was learning to weld it was all toughMexicans, me and this other tall nerdy white guy that always wore a hat like post above. No one judged him for it cause it fit his personality and he was funny as fuck.

My point is, you dont have the confidence to wear it cause it doesnt suit you. If it did other people wouldn't see it as odd or unnatural. They sense your try hard. Either that or you a puss

>> No.15006357
File: 272 KB, 1200x1775, NAVY-RANCHER-HAT-20190629045644.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15006357

>>15005212

>> No.15006830

bump

>> No.15006835
File: 85 KB, 750x727, EQJRFl6U0AEwsZI.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
15006835

>>15005212
psilocybin can give you a lot of "i don't give a fuck" and it is mushroom season in the pacific northwest so seems like a match

https://twitter.com/i/status/1175015197464911872