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14647221 No.14647221 [Reply] [Original]

>I often realize how good it is to be good-looking and generally pretty
>I get away with some shit that even surprises me
>I am generally very happy, and this is because I am pretty, i realized
>if you are ugly I can see why you would be depressed
>life must be so much harder for you
>because I am beautiful, I am generally just ahppier, and it radiates out of me, and then it recycles back again, just making my life more and more enjoyable for me and the people I choose to have around me

How does it honestly feel to be ugly, please share.

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>How does it honestly feel to be ugly

Liek dis

>> No.14647246

>>14647221
It's not good.
>always get girls acting really rude to me.
>haven't had a date in years.
>haven't had a girlfriend in almost a decade.
>have to look in the mirror,and never feel good about it.
>takes me a while to get cleaned up enough, and then I go out, >and I'm still ugly, no matter how much effort I put into it.
>feel incredibly awkward most of the time.

I'm tired of it. I can't find work. I can barely talk to women.

>> No.14647272

It fuckin sucks that genetic trash like myself still have to just go on living entire lifespans. Like I get it, I'm garbage and I shouldn't procreate even if I find someone desperate enough to do so with, but I really gotta just keep living in a world where I'm constantly reminded of my worthlessness? If I had any significant talents or skills I might be able to justify my existence but I got nothing basically. There are countless people far more attractive than me who also are also more talented, leading me to wonder what I possibly have to offer society. I'm ugly, stupid, and talentless, so like, what really is the point of me being here? I'm also socially inept and have basically no friends so it's not like I'm providing "emotional support" to people or anything, like on some George Bailey shit where if I was never born the world would somehow be a worse place. In fact, I'm fairly certain my existence exerts no positive influence upon the world. At best, I just don't matter. I'm not trying to be edgy and suicidal and shit, but honestly, what actually is the point in me being here? I guess just being another depressed wage slave keeping the big capitalist machine running. Basically though this means I'm completely interchangeable. And let's face it, even in a wagecuck job my coworkers would rather work around someone attractive than me. It would be great if failed experiments could just blip out of existence. But then I suppose the threshold for ugliness would just decrease. The world has to be a place with winners and losers, and unfortunately, I guess I'm a loser

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>>14647246
Just develop a personality, tbqfam

>> No.14647290

>>14647221
ugly people at least have personalities but everything you said is basically universally true

>> No.14647304

>>14647272
It will get better

>> No.14647312

>>14647290
>ugly people at least have personalities
t. coping uggo
Stop trying to tear us down, it won't work. You're wasting your time.

>> No.14647317

Where I live money is way more important than your face so I just live normally, also I've seen ugly guys with beautiful girls countless times here

>> No.14647322

>>14647246
I'm also ugly.
And what you say abour women, well it's true.
But not about a job. Is Bezos good loooking?
Or Gates, or zuckerberg
Even the CEO of my company is small and generally ugly but he potrairs charisma.

>> No.14647329

>>14647272
develop a skill or hobby.
find someone to mentor/aid. there is always someone in a worse place. volunteer somewhere. the more you create positivity for others, the more you can create positivity for yourself.
imo learning a skill is very nice because then you don't feel 100% worthless, and you can teach others that skill, and it's super rewarding and helps you get out of your own head, interact with others, and live in the world

>> No.14647331

>>14647322
This, being ugly isn't that bad unless when it comes to attracting women, you can even mog pretty boys easily with status and money. Being attractive also won't save you from certain situations, maybe in degenerate west

>> No.14647398

>>14647322
What's your point? All their wives are ugly.

>> No.14647415

>>14647398
Mackenzie Bezos is a cutie and they all eat better than you

>> No.14647417

>>14647221
during my highschool years i was extremely ugly. i had no friends at all because of it im sure. my hairline looked receding (?) i had a million pimples, my lips and ears were wayy too big for my face and i was extremely skinny and had the worse fashion sense. no friends at all. i was a loser. it was terrible. hell.

i grew up from it. thank god to genetics i look way better now and actually have had women get crushes on me, ive already had sex and been in a deep relationship twice. looking good makes you more confident and strive to do more. it really is a fucking shame to stay ugly forever im glad i didnt.

>> No.14647481

>>14647221
who cares?

>> No.14647493

>Be me
>Handsome, dress nice, decent shape
>Flirt with the fat and/or ugly chicks I go to college with
>They act so happy and flattered
>I can tell that they feel better about themselves because of me
I love doing good deeds.

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>>14647221

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>>14647495

>> No.14647619

>>14647317
What shithole?

>> No.14647631

I cope by doing my best academically so that I can go into a very competitive field. Not even for female attention I’ve kinda given up on that, but so I can have something to feel good about

>> No.14647643

If you're ugly you better be High IQ to help you cope by caring less about external validation/expectations due to introspection and ability to bend said "rules".

>> No.14647649

>>14647398
You're absolutely delusional if you think they can't get 10K 10/10 to suck them off on rotations.

Money and power time and time again proved they're the best method to get the top tier women.

>> No.14647652

>>14647643
I did a legitimate IQ test that puts me in the top 2% of the population and I feel like shit and am constantly anxious and neurotic. It’s easier to be happy when you’re dumb.

>> No.14647656

>>14647643
>tfw2intelligynt2careboutopinio'nsnstuff

>> No.14647662

>>14647649
>top tier
>whores

Haha, I get it, all women r whores!

>>14647652
Congrats Anon, you are most likely jewish. Shalom! Go get your Israeli citizenship and complementary IDF thot now.

>> No.14647663

>>14647221
Physically you’re attractive, mentally you’re defective. narcissistic behavior Emanating from the text, most likely some psychosis you’re not even aware about.

Delusional, listen man only faggots and other psychopaths will take what you say to heart, nodoby beautiful is on 4chan.

>> No.14647667

>>14647662
Not a Jew actually, nor an asian, I’m a statistical outlier.

>> No.14647669

>>14647667
so a nig then?

>> No.14647671

>>14647272
I'm sure being a pussy ass nigger bitch will make your life better. Keep at it, anon!

>> No.14647673

>>14647417
>he lost 2 deep relationships and brags about it
wew anon, ugliness wasn't your only issue

>> No.14647674

>>14647669
"Mediterranean" which I guess doesn’t qualify as white by 4chan standards. I lucked out though, being a Jew must honestly kind of suck considering their culture.

>> No.14647676

>>14647674
Yeah, not exactly white but still human, so don't worry anon.

>> No.14647678

>tfw face is a mix of good features and bad features
Makes me feel like frankensteins monster. Would prefer to just have average and boring features.

>> No.14647701

>>14647662
Funny because i'm full jew from israel , Didn't served in the army tho so dumb patriotic thots look at it badly

>> No.14647759

>>14647701
Can’t you just lie?

>> No.14647770

>>14647759
Yes but you've high chances of getting caught because literally almost every girl served there, It's usually easy to tell someone is lying if you're an "expert" in the thing discussed.

Also i prefer not to lie at all even if the end goal of the interaction is only hookup.

>> No.14647780

>>14647676
>>14647671
T. Ugliest incels in thread

>> No.14647789

>>14647780
I got a gf bruh

>> No.14647805

>>14647770
>Also i prefer not to lie at all even if the end goal of the interaction is only hookup.

Are you sure you’re jewish?

>> No.14647922

>>14647789
Ya I bet

>> No.14647935

>>14647922
no need to be mad
>>14647805
based

>> No.14648011

>>14647619
Every part of the world where inequality is high, like Eastern Europe for example. However this proves that money>>>>>genetics and women aren't that stupid when it comes to choosing life partner

>> No.14648109

what I realize is that most people aren't ugly, they just don't know/care how to take care of themselves, through exercise and good diet. Frequent haircuts maybe and fashion sense. All in all even the ugly people aren't truly ugly. I met plenty that I didn't find attractive in particular but the way they talked outshined their outter appearance, may be clichè but it's true. Everything else is just insecurities.

>> No.14648237

>>14647649
You're absolutely delusional if you think anybody can't just get a hooker. The real achievement is having a 10/10 that will actually stick around for you and not just the money.

>> No.14648260

i'm hot but have low self esteem
i just makeout with as many girls as i can to make me feel better about myself

>> No.14648323

Ugly motherfuckers get shit done. The most popular pop star in the world right now is unattractive. All the great scientists you hear about are typically average to below average looking. Being ugly channels the inner autism to achieve great feats. You cant get free validation by just the way you look, so you gotta work for it. I'm around average to below average looking, but I get validation because I have excellent grades and people think I'm smart.

It doesnt have to be good grades or being talented OP. Everyone, even people with downie IQ, has their niche. You need to find it, and then focus all your pent up anger on it.

>> No.14648325

>>14648323
Realized OP isn't actually ugly. Forget the second part.

>> No.14648335

>>14648323
>The most popular pop star in the world right now is unattractive

who are you referring to? shitty rapper 238732 or shitty rapper 238733?

>> No.14648338

>>14648323
billie ellish is smoking bro wtf you on

>> No.14648339

>>14647631
BASED
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Ironically by doing that, you might end up very rich which eventually will lead to attractive partner
Sorry for my English

>> No.14648345

>>14648338
hahahahhhhhhhhhaahahahaahaahahahahazz
zzzzzzzzzzz
jasashaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahaha

>> No.14648366

>>14648335
Ed Sheeran, and arguably post malone

Too ugly fucks who are dominating pop music, a very looks oriented industry.

>> No.14648381

>>14647221
I get away with sketchy shit easier, but have a hard time commanding attention when I need to.

For example, I'll get low marks on presentations Because I'm ugly.

But I can probably steal your car keys and iPhone in a crowded area without you batting an eye

>> No.14648406

I got pretty fat for about 3.5 years when was 21 ended up losing it all and getting fit again. I'd consider myself while fit slightly above average.

The change in how people treat and react to you is insanely noticable. In a group it's clear people care less about your opinion when you're in public women don't look at you, and even the way they reject you if you approach them is different. If I'm at a bar now and she's not interested it's giggles and sorry I have a boyfriend maybe touch your shoulder and tell you. Vs them just saying no and looking angry or just flat out leaving. And that's taking into account that I was aware I was fat at the time and hit on other fat girls.

Also people are way more easily pissed off at you for anything, like if your too drunk it's the difference between woo lets party vs this guy's a retard.

The only benefit I can think of is people are more willing to share their personal lives with you probably because they feel their better than you and you won't judge them.

That was just my experience, again I'm not overwhelmingly attractive or anything I'm 5'11 decent face, I'm sure if I was naturally model level or like 6'3 getting fat might have less of an impact

>> No.14648683

>>14648323
>>14648366
shitty theory

>> No.14648695

>>14647221
You don't feel anything when you're ugly

>> No.14648714

>>14648011
>Eastern Europe

I guessed it was either that, or asia.

>money>>>>>genetics
>women aren't that stupid

LMAO, enjoy you're defective cuntspawn.

>> No.14648724

People are generally very nice to me and kind but I can’t even look at myself in the mirror. I don’t wear glasses even though I’m supposed to, so I don’t see myself in HD. When I am looking in the mirror I just focus on my hair or clothes

Do I have some kind of body dysmorphia?

>> No.14648758

>>14648323
>even people with downie IQ, has their niche. You need to find it, and then focus all your pent up anger on it.

So, like.... shitposting?

>> No.14648783

real beauty are those who accept their flaws and don't try to act like they are better than you. It doesn't matter who you are or what you look like cause nobody is more valuable than anyone else.

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>>14647493
that happiness they feel is momentary and may subconsciously set their standards higher, leading to future romantic difficulties for the gender that is already naturally choosy
god forbid they choose to pursue you after the fact, whereas eventually you'd have to put them down

>> No.14648804

>>14647674
it doesn't, I have a Jewish friend who was literally offered a job by virtue of being a Jew
he was literally approached at the grocery store
However he is also naturally very good looking

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>>14647935
>n-no n-need t-t-to be mad

>> No.14648867

>>14647221
>>because I am beautiful, I am generally just ahppier, and it radiates out of me, and then it recycles back again
This is unironically true, attractive people are overall more positive and happy because people around them treat them well, it's basically a cycle.

>> No.14648876

>>14648800
So we're just cucking the uggos by doing that?
Fucking based, hadn't thought about that.

>> No.14649000

>>14648822
so triggered

>> No.14649008

>>14648011
t. saw a movie about russian gangsters on tv

>> No.14649015

>>14647221
Why the actual fuck do women workout with makeup on, like you’re going to the gym to get sweaty and get fitter, it isn’t a fucking club.

>> No.14649073

>>14649015
insecurity

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>>14647221
if youre ugly you can do 2 things to attract women
>obtain a good personality and be mature
>become money hungry

>> No.14649137

>>14647221
Meh, doesn't feel like anything as an adult. I have the uggers head. Can't fix that no matter how much I work out.

When I do date though I get run into shit none of my mates ever have to deal with.
>make a girl laugh and playfully flirt back
>hang out, go on a date or 2
>girl wants me to meet her mates
>I meet her mates, assume it goes well
>they start trying to set her up with other guys
>they tell her I'm an asshole or I'm mean, if that doesn't work it's "he's gross"
>girl gets mad at her mates
>her mates nitpick at every single thing I do
>girl stops hanging out with her mates

Like clockwork, every single time. If you're an ugly guy, it's not like you can't date any attractive women. It's just that when you do her mates will go out of there way to make her drop you. I've had mothers hate me for literally 0 reason, but dads love me. Even growing up, my mates would get into trouble and I would be painted as the ring leader by the parents. Assholes.

>> No.14649144

>>14647221
>b me
>be handsome
>have big dick
>gets laid
>also be nerd and 4chan lurker
Im the next step in evolution bois

>> No.14649390

>>14649127
We all know the 2nd option is the only one.

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>>14647272

Yes well, desperate times make exceptional people. You can either choose to use this to ruin yourself via alcohol, drugs, or suicide, or you can choose to do something that makes your existence worthwile. Surely there must be something that makes you good at something.

Being attractive helps a lot in this world, but being unattractive doesn't mean you're utter useless; even if you've selfdiagnosed yourself with low intelligence and all that crap.

Believe me when I say there is someone out there who is attracted to you, and believe me when I tell you you have things to offer to this world

Just stop talking trash about yourself. You're only a loser if you tell yourself you are one. And believe it.

Fuck that shit man, you're better than that

>> No.14649432

>>14649390
t. acne faced 16 year old

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>>14647221
I'm not too ugly, but I'm a brown male so that counts. generally:
>don't feel like I fit into most social situations (parties, events, concerts, etc.)
>nobody cares about my achievements or how I progressed in my hobbies
>get ignored when talking about anything I enjoy, so I just avoid talking about myself in the first place
>people put in no effort into conversing with me
>try to be friendly and smile but people are always cold towards me
>women give me the attitude
>dating is close to impossible(kissless virgin)
I can make friends with other men easily because of my laid back attitude, but women don't want to be around me for sure. I don't think all ugly people have it too bad tho (especially not women lmao) and it mostly depends on how you behave. if I would act more thuggish and dominant I think it would help

>> No.14649541

I'm 27, kv incel never been on a date. Don't really know if it's due to my ugliness, complete social retardation, or a combo of the two. I figure that if I was at least decent looking, I would at least have girls show interest in me at some point before possibly running off due to my weirdness, but I don't think I've ever had a girl show any sort of attraction to me ever.

>> No.14649552

>>14649541
Girls have shown interest in you, I can promise you that.

Perhaps you're shit at recognizing it because the girls that have been showing signs of interest aren't the ones you're interested in.

I'll bet money that you're not a hideous hobgoblin looking motherfucker that we'll see in history books in the future.

Just look around every now and then, and whenever you catch someone's eye, or when they catch you looking, smiling at them has never hurt anyone.

>> No.14649553

>>14649541
just because you've never dated doesn't mean you're necessarily ugly or socially retarded. you shouldn't assume there's anything wrong with you. some people find that shit easier than others but there's no right or wrong way to live your life. imo it's better to just learn to live with yourself the way you are than to constantly fight it. i'm a virgin, i guess involuntarily celibate by definition, but i could never be an incel.

>> No.14649556

>>14647246
What do you mean by "never" feel good about yourself when you look in the mirror? Everyone has bad angles but you can't possibly hate just looking at the mirror.

>> No.14649559

>>14647701
מתשמט הומו, ברור שאף אחת לא תיגע בך חחחחח

>> No.14649563

Ya'll are pathetic. I used to think I was ugly, but really it was just a negative mindset. I changed my mindset and worked on my personality. I now have no problem with woman and I barely make 30k a year.

>> No.14649566

>>14647221
post face or fuck off

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>>14649451
>(especially not women)

are you on crack?

the only upside of being an ugly woman is that you can maybe get laid by other ugly or sometimes average men, who see you as nothing but a cumbucket. being an ugly is literally nightmaremode, because deep down all women know that their primarily valued for their attractiveness, so matter what they do; being an ugly woman is the ultimate failure. an ugly man can compensate with his wealth or “personality”, which actually mean something to attractive women, as compared to an ugly woman who’s been memed into believing that men actually care about your attitude. when a male says he prefers personality over looks, he’s only accounting for women over the basic threshold of attractiveness, which is now massively skewed by instagram models and porn. let the incels say women have it on easy mode when they only notice average or above girls, and think women have power simply because men will stick their dick in them. chad fucking you on tinder doesn’t mean shit. he won’t text you back. men seem to think that sex is the same to women as it is to them, when it actually requires emotional and romantic intimacy to be worthwhile

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I have Treacher Collins Syndrome mild scoliosis so I think I'm qualified to speak on this subject - though Ill try and limit it to things which are generally applicable to ugly people and not just myself

The bad

>Clothes never seem to look good on you
>People never smile at you, and when you smile at other people they feel uncomfortable
>Women generally don't want anything to do with you.
>Particularly when you are younger guys will make a point of not inviting you to situations where there will be girls present.
>Friendly gestures that normal people make are highly likely to be interpreted as creepy when you do it
>Having to see the pained double think your mother goes through when she desperately wants to pretend you aren't ugly
>You have to put a lot more effort into conversation and making it go well, people are far less forgiving and social things are far less likely to happen.
>Huge feelings of inferiority and jealousy of normal looking people and the feeling that you will never get to share in their experiences.
>having to deal with the fact that if you can get a relationship you are unlikely to be physically attracted to the other person.
>People quickly look away when you look at them


The Good
>Anybody who is my friend I know are friends with me for my personality
>Ive developed a fairly good sense of humor due to having to work hard to find and keep friends

>> No.14649911

>>14649429
>muh cumbrain picture and feel-good motivational post

Shouldn’t you be self-promoting on Instagram right now?

>> No.14649915

>>14649585
>chad fucking you on tinder doesn’t mean shit.
>ugly men dont even get matches with average or unattractive women to begin with
>not realizing the massive canyon sized gap between these 2 experiences

jesus christ

>> No.14649921

>>14649585
>men seem to think that sex is the same to women as it is to them, when it actually requires emotional and romantic intimacy to be worthwhile

So is that why they whore around?

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Just bee urself

>> No.14649948

>>14647221
Basically the same I guess until you want anything romantic. I have tons of friends and both party and get invited out a lot. Second you want more than friendship with a girl, though, you'll have neither.

>> No.14649953

>>14647221
Feels illogical for me to be alive. Really hate my parents for doing genetic gambling.

>> No.14649980

>>14649953
Iktf

I never asked for this.

>> No.14649999

Awww... here have a
>>14649953
>>14649980

>> No.14650013

>>14649936
seriously, whats wrong with her

>> No.14650016

>>14650013
some weird fetish probably.

>> No.14650118

>>14647272
God that was beautiful

>> No.14650122

>>14647221
>think I look pretty good in my own mirror at home
>catch a reflection of myself anywhere else and I look like an ugly lanky slenderman
>have a gf
>no other women pay any attention to me
>generally a very socially awkward person and struggle to express emotions and act like a human
I don't know if I'm ugly or it's just my personality

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>> No.14650169

>>14649556
I hate my reflection to the point I consciously avoid mirrors. I used to obsessively look stare and look at my bad skin, shitty hair etc but now Ive just given up.

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>>14647221
It's more boring than anything. I'm more "meh" looking than flat out uggo, and I'm a skelly so that helps a little. But nobody has ever complimented me save from my mom and her boomer friends. I never got invited anywhere, even when I lived in a college dorm nobody took note of me. You're basically just a background character. Sometimes it's discouraging to look at normies I used to know and stories from people online and see just how much more they do with their lives. I do a lot of things alone. I eat alone, I drive around, I've gone fishing and walked around the city. It's okay but would be nicer if I had friends. I do have an online gf, but that was kinda lucky since we met on a fucking proana forum. I work in a drugstore and nobody really talks to me there either. I feel kinda shitty when I get sad about my life because overall it's not bad. I live in a civilized country and money isn't much of a problem, I have a nice family and gf. Still when I see pictures of handsome and pretty people being cool, it's sad yaknow?

>> No.14650188

>>14650186
>gf

Gtfo

>> No.14650192

>>14650188
I'm still a khv

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14650194

>tfw people (both straight/gay male and female) tell me that I am
>somehow confident yet anxious so I feel like that they are lying and just being polite

>> No.14650197

>>14650194
this is probably bait, but that man is a gigachad

>> No.14650203

>>14650197
Thanks. I am actually quite introverted and aspie. It is actually me though

>> No.14650220

>>14650169
If you have bad skin, like acne on you r face it's because of something your eating. My advice is to cut out basically all processed foods, and other main culprits of acne, like peanuts, onions, sesame, sunflower. Then start adding back one food at a time, and see which one is causing the acne.

>> No.14650227

>>14650194
Work out, eat healthy, dress well and you have the potential to be a 10/10.

>> No.14650234

>>14650194
Put effort into yourself and you'll have loads of SEX

>> No.14650237
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>>14650227
I used to work out and play sports but have been slack for a while, got into hard drugs (pic related, was high on heroin). Getting back into it now though. Enough of that though, any tips for what I should be wearing?

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>>14647221
>I often realize how good it is to be good-looking and generally pretty
>I get away with some shit that even surprises me
>I am generally very happy, and this is because I am pretty, i realized
>if you are ugly I can see why you would be depressed
>life must be so much harder for you
>because I am beautiful, I am generally just ahppier, and it radiates out of me, and then it recycles back again, just making my life more and more enjoyable for me and the people I choose to have around me

>> No.14650244

>>14650234
What effort should I be putting in? I have started moisturising daily.

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>>14647246
>>14647272
>>14647649
>>14649451

you're probably just miscalculating because this couple exists

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>>14650186
>I do have an online gf

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>>14650237
>got into hard drugs (pic related, was high on heroin)
lmao you fucking retard

>any tips for what I should be wearing?
Sexcore.
Walk into any bar dressed like this and thots will be clawing each others eyes out for your attention.

>> No.14650362

>>14650310
Yeah, silly decision, didn’t get down the rabbit hole too far so I am off it now so it’s fine.
Lmao sexcore, will look into it. I think I already dress somewhat like that when going out. But for everyday shit I just wear loose comfy clothes like linen pants and thin cotton t shirts. I don’t even care much about sleeping with the girls, just the validation is nice lmao strong asp-lord

>> No.14650372

I’ve been told I’m hot(male) by friends both male and female. Most people seem to be intimidated by me, and I hate it. I like conversing with people and it always takes time for them to become comfortable enough to have a actual good convo with me. Yes I live a happy ass life bc I’m good looking, and I’m obviously lucky af. But, I wish people would be more comfortable around me without me having to put so much work into the relationship before hand. Anyone relate ? :p

>> No.14650376

>>14650220
You really think I havent thought of that before? I have had chronic acne for 7 years now and literally nothing has helped me from lifestyle changes to cosmetics apart from isotretinoin which my body cant tolerate

>> No.14650380
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14650380

Am i ugly.

>> No.14650383
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>>14650380
Me off guard

>> No.14650385

>>14650383
6

>> No.14650388

>>14650385
Why 6?

>> No.14650393

>>14650388
You are pleasant to look at but nothing out of the ordinary. Doesn’t matter, you’re a girl so a 6 is more than enough to get most guys

>> No.14650399

>>14649953
>>14649980
>>14649999
quads of mercy
'why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death?'

>> No.14650403

>>14650237
>do heroin
>acquire Kurt Cobain mode

The potential is there

>> No.14650404

>>14650259
Is that real?

>> No.14650406

>>14650399
>the pain of death

This too shall pass.

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ugliness is spook
have some fucking ego you disgusting subhumans

>> No.14650408

>>14650393
What makes someone pleasant to look at?

>> No.14650410

>>14650403
If only I could sing... Learning guitar now though. Plus I don’t do it now. Instead I just do coke occasionally.
>Acquire Liam Gallagher mode

>> No.14650412
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>>14650393
what exactly makes me a 6?

>> No.14650415

>>14650408
Nice skin, symmetrical face, good colouring, facial harmony

>> No.14650418
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14650418

What about my sister.

>> No.14650419

>>14650412
Do you have a benis?

>> No.14650420

>>14650412
Forehead is a bit big, cheek bones are low, eyes are fine but not striking. You have nice skin, good lips and a harmonious nose although maybe slightly big for a woman.

>> No.14650421

>>14650415
Well what makes my face so ugly then.

>> No.14650423

>>14650421
A 6 isn’t ugly you retard, it’s above average. Fuck, you women are annoying.

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>>14650423
What makes someone above average? And i thought my eyes were striking.

>> No.14650431

>>14647493
I avoid looking at ugly girls because I don’t want to give them false hope like “he’s looking at me, he must be interested.”

>> No.14650433

>>14650428
You’re a bit fat. That’ll make your face a bit leaner and help your looks. Don’t ask for a rate of you’re going to sook. I’ve told you everything. You are fine but nothing special. Go look up young Adriana Lima for an example of how a very high quality woman looks and compare yourself to that.

>> No.14650437

>>14647493
nice dude, now you inflated these girls ego and they think they are hot shit so they won't date their looksmatch
>sorry, a chad once said hello to me. I don't want to date anything below that

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>>14650433
Fat in the right places. Think I average up to a 9. 8 the least

>> No.14650439

>>14650438
Being fat in the stomach is not the right place lmao. Are you a supermodel? No? Then you aren’t a 9.

>> No.14650441

>>14650380
You look lile 6ix9ine nigga

>> No.14650442

>>14650438
this bitch thinks her looksmatch is Chico or something lmao
honey, just because you get pumped and dumped by hot guys doesn't mean you are as attractive as them

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>>14650439
I do model though ._.

>> No.14650447

>>14650443
Hiring some dude to take photos in your bikini doesn’t count. Show us your magazine cover Never seen you on the runway for D and G or Vogue... strange since you are a 9 hahah
Anyway I’m pretty sure this is a troll now so I’m done rating a chubby barely above average girl

>> No.14650454

>>14650443
good bait
now stop posting this obese women

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>>14650454
>>14650447
I mean I have a well known instagram. Thats what i meant by modelling.

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>>14650118

>> No.14650482

>>14650376
I just gave uu a guide to clear yur skin up. Fucking follow it

>> No.14650491

>>14650438
>Fat in the right places
Your just fat, everywhere, and verging on diabetes levels.

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>>14647221
>How does it honestly feel to be ugly, please share.
You need to have some very good personnality traits or you're fucked. I'm a 5/10 and even tho I'm /fit/ life is still hell. Most ugly ppl are very social or funny or something so they get a pass. What I'm trying to say is that if you don't have anything to compensate your ugliness you're FUCKED

>> No.14650537

>>14650456
>I'm modelling guys
>N-no I mean I have an instagram
how delusional are you lol. You do realize every single girl on the planet has an instagram account? But not every girl is a model.

>> No.14650567

>>14650428
You are a 3 at best,for me. Style and posture play like 70% of it.
You prove that beauty doesn't = symmetry.
Your face is very symmetrical,but very goblina like

>> No.14650577

>>14650428
I think you are qt but your hair color doesn't suit you, doesn't look terrible or something but other color would make you look better.

>> No.14650582

>>14650380
are you a brazillian prostitute by any chance?

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>>14650243
Reported, imao what a creep

https://youtu.be/aZenmeRytEM

>> No.14650597

>>14647276
Ted bundy wasnt ugly

>> No.14650693

>>14650234
>>14650244
Pls respond

>> No.14650746

>>14649921
women who don't understand this concept whore around, or are outliers who actually like being slutty. its pretty well known that women consider cheating more hurtful once it starts to get romantic/emotional
>>14649915
this is just redpill delusion. Dating apps massively skew irl exepriences, and most couples i see irl are looksmatches. men will stick their dick in anything, it doesn't mean they'll commit to you, which is what ugly women (and all women really) truly want.

>> No.14650747

>>14647290
Not really tbqh. My personality got good when my face matured

>> No.14650762

>>14647272
Who hurt you?

>> No.14650770

>>14650456
This has to be bait

>> No.14650780

>>14650412
You are so insecure jesus

>> No.14650792

>>14650482
I have done systematical elimination diets and they havent had an effect.

>> No.14650797

>>14650380
No offence but yes. Mutts generally don’t look good desu are you re no exception

>> No.14650804

>>14647221
I actually have the opposite problem. I think I’m pretty attractive and that has allowed me to coast by in areas where others would have had to put in a lot of work such as academics. At the end of the day I wish I was more skilled in the things I really care about but feel as though I wasn’t pushed as hard to practice them because people just let me get away with stuff due to my good attitude and looks. This is probably just imposter syndrome but I often feel like I don’t work as hard as others but achieve the same end results in terms of praise.
But I guess it’s still better than being an uggo

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>>14649624
I'm glad you can keep your chin up. I'm sure you'll be wise enough that people will enjoy you a lot more with time.

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>>14650428
>>14650441
CUUUUUMMM GANNNG!!!

>> No.14650915

>>14650792
how long did you stick to the diet? and do you workout? if you stick to the diet for a prolonged length of time (~6mo), drink water, workout, and take cold showers, your skin should clear up. If it doesnt, contact a dermatologist. keep in mind that won't remove acne scars, just prevent new acne.

>> No.14650924

>>14650362
Dude the way you dress looks completely fine from the pic u posted. So are your looks. I would focus on your spergy-ness. I know because that’s also my problem but I got over it by just being more extroverted and talkative even when I hated it and didn’t want to. I promise you are good looking enough to attract any woman but you just have to chad up. Just avoid talking about yourself and your interests because they’re probably weird and your weird (you did heroin for one). Instead focus on being an active listener and just respond to what the girl says. Girls love talking about themselves and their lives so you can keep a convo going indefinitely by just talking about them.

>> No.14650931

>>14650376
Dude go to a fucking dermatologist. How have you let these problems persist for 7 years? Holy shit.

>> No.14650936

>>14650380
You’re larping. But the girl in your pic is very beautiful imo.

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14650938

it fucking sucks

people avoid you and nobody wants to be your friend

>> No.14651226

>>14650797
I'm literally full mexican

>> No.14651231

>>14650860
Wtf.

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14651235

>>14650797
Im full mexican. Just lightskin.
>>14650567
Seriously?
>>14650537
I get a lot of attention on Instagram. Very well known in Nyc.

>> No.14651305

>>14647322
>>14647649
>>14649936
>>14650259
I know some of these are bait but if you actually think looks don't matter because some one you know is ugly and has a hot gf think about how long he was single before her and how long he will be after her, also consider how she treats him compared to her exes

>> No.14651346

Its bad. Im an ugly, nonwhite woman who has spent most of my formative years online on message boards so my social skills are fucked. I am diagnosed autistic too.
I was a good student but couldnt find the best jobs because im ugly and socially dumb.
I enjoy looking at fashion and fashion has made me look a little less ugly and clear my skin and fix my hair.

>> No.14651396

>>14651235
Mexican isn't a race, or even an ethnicity, sweaty.

>> No.14651422

>>14650938
you aren't ugly

>> No.14651462

>>14651235
I still think baiting but if not
>chubby face
>awful yellow hair
>shit piercings
And this is your best attempt even with lighting and makeup? lol can only imagine how bad it is irl. I agree with other anons 6 is apt. Get mogged by actual models.

>> No.14651535

>>14650428
>>14650412
fat nose
ugly mutt lips
trashy tattoo
overall bloated look
soulless eyes
4/10, lower end of average, low-class look

>> No.14651551

>>14651535
Lips are the best part.

>> No.14651558

i'm not extremely ugly, i'm a 7/10
but i'm autistic and sometimes i wish i was truly ugly, anyone else knows this feel?
for 2 reasons
1. it's all or nothing, 1/10 or 10/10, dont' want anything in the middle
2. when you're ugly you're valued for your true self, you're valued for everything that is not the looks. people being nice to you means you're truly a good person, they're not being nice just because you're good looking

>> No.14651614

>>14650243
Hi ted

>> No.14651634

>>14650186
I have to tell you this m'dude, but an online pen pal isn't a real gf. You sound like you have your life pretty well together, good luck, just stay in touch with the reality of things.

Your problem is probably that you come off as boring, not being ugly or whatever. I've noticed that about myself, I am a complete loner nowadays compared to the social and loud, "funny guy", sporty bully that I was in HS. The difference is that back then I entertained myself. And other people by proxy. Nowadays I am not entertaining company to myself, so how could another person be entertained by my company?

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14651658

>>14647221
I'm really good looking but with low self esteem. I basically fake being a confident pretty boy. It's really redpilled me being in uni because I fuck a lot of girls and see all their orbiters and the hypergamy shit is real.

>> No.14651679

>>14651658
I'll be hooking up with Chloe, who will inform me and make a joke about when I hooked up with Stacy. Like wtf is wrong with female brain

>> No.14651710

>>14650418
Sister is cuter I think. Lips and nose seem to be better shaped and her hair-color goes nicely with her complexion. Could probably go lighter with her eyebrows and thicken the edge of her eyeliner.

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>>14650438
Nice photoshop you fat retard

>> No.14651724

>>14651422
the ratio of people who think i'm not ugly vs people who do think i'm ugly is like 1 to several thousand

>> No.14651740

>>14649624
would it be better if I just sustained eye contact instead?

>> No.14651742

>>14647304
Not necessarily. It got worse for me desu

>> No.14651786

>>14647643
Being intelligent definitely lets you avoid standard cringy copes like “appearances don’t really matter its what’s inside that counts bro” which is completely retarded, looks matter a lot but so do lots of other things. Really smart people can go much deeper into their interests which is fulfilling in itself, and also have the restraint to use these interests to make yourself interesting without sperging out and annoying people. But this isn’t the type of intelligence that can be measured well by iq test, it’s more like emotional intelligence which is why you >>14647652 can have a high iq but still be depressed and anxiety ridden, really intelligent people don’t feel the need to validate themselves with tests, they know they are smart and they are rarely ever really depressed because of it.

T. 5-6/10 but with a pretty good body.

>> No.14651817

>>14651724
then stop being fat and you'll be good

>> No.14651822

>>14651817
i'm not going to take over the thread but i've been 100 lbs lighter and i was still ugly as fuck, if anything i was uglier because i have a crooked jaw that gets a bunch more obvious as i lose weight

>> No.14651826

>>14651786
>they know they are smart
i thought "intelligent" people think they are dumb

>> No.14651852

>>14651786
>>14651826
Dunning–Kruger effect. Those that post "tfw 2smart4" are actually brainlets.

>> No.14652065

>>14650259
That's not real.

>> No.14652142

>>14647272
Where would the glory of the bandit come from if there were no simple farmers to plunder rice from?

Find peace in your lot in life

>> No.14652279

>>14650806
Thanks anon
>>14651740
Im not sure to be honest.

>> No.14652321

>>14650418
This one is cuter because her eyebrows are more natural, the lack of tattoos, slightly better cheakbones tho that could be angle. She should lose the hoop earrings tho.

>> No.14652324

>>14650438
>>14650428
You need >>>/fit/

>> No.14652348

>>14647221
Not necessarily ugly, but I’m just not conventionally attractive, more or less plain. It’s obvious that beauty itself is enough to attract anyone, like a book cover with beautiful art. This isn’t to say that the book isn’t as interesting if it’s cover looks better, but people are more inclined to read a book with surface level appeal, whether it’s good art, a cool title, an epic summary, or just popularity.

>> No.14652349

>>14647272
>>/r9k/

>> No.14652469

>>14651235
>I get a lot of attention on Instagram. Very well known in Nyc.
Instagram followers/likes ≠ attractiveness. Also you are positioning yourself in the easiest market to gain orbiters by going for the 'geek girl aesthetic' and having a username like hentaiimami. You have nice bust, but you have an excessive amount of fat, especially on your arms and stomach. I would say you are a 6 because your face is symmetrical. If you get /fit/ you could max out at 8.

>> No.14652826

>>14647272
You are here to set the bar. Without you, someone little more handsome, someone little more talented would feel you are feeling. You are here to make others' worth validated.

>> No.14652849

>>14651717
Literally proves nothing.

>> No.14652855

>How does it feel to be ugly?
Turning away your face in disgust after you accidentally have seen your reflection in glass.

>> No.14652858
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>>14652469
Um. Maybe I just have a great personality.
>>14650797
What does mutt mean? I get called this a lot. Im lightskin mexican. Not mixed
>>14651717
I didnt?
>>14651710
>>14652321
Ya such liars. Whole life I've been known as the "prettier sister" Lmao

Btw Im not wearing makeup in this pic.

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>>14652858
Also, does my body look like my pics? Im not tryna be a catfish either.

Sorry If i offend you guys. Just dont believe ya when ya say I'm ugly. Serious answers only please, Am I really that Ugly.

>> No.14652870

>>14652867
Damn i look ugly. Forgot to crop this pic sorry.

>> No.14652883

>>14652870
the attention you ordered is on /soc/

>> No.14652891

>>14652870
You fine as hell but there’s gonna be like 50 nerds pissed off at you

>> No.14652892

>>14652891
Nevermind there’s like 300

>> No.14652900

>>14652891
Why pissed off?

>> No.14652951

>>14647221
I'm a legit 8/10 and life is on easy mode now
I had a job this summer, I was quite incompetent and did a lot of mistakes/ rushed the tasks to get home earlier but since my boss was a woman everytime she confronted me I just did a shy smile and pretended it wasn't intentional and got away with it. HR lady gave me the job and I didn't even had a resume to present. Colleagues were always trying to help me by doing a part of my job or inviting me to a break. I'm not sure if all of this happen because I've a warm and charming attitude or my face, but back in high school before puberty I was really ugly and people treated me differently. I had to cope with humor just to be tolerated in a group.
Also one nice thing about being handsome is that everytime I feel a drop in confidence I just look at myself in the mirror and it gets better.
Downside is that other men with low confidence can be aggressive with me and fat/ugly girls (and gays) try to hit on me shamelessly (I had a fat girl said she wanted to suck my dick in front of 10 people at a party, shit was awkward).
But yeah I've been ugly and the way people treat you is very different.

>> No.14652984

>>14652951
Interesting, I'm actually not sure i've noticed this type of treatment until you mentioned it.
The one thing that really bothers me about being considered physically "attractive" is the constant insincerity of others, assumptions, comments on appearance.
Dont get me wrong, a lot of my confidence stems from the ease of being conventionally "pretty", however in my case it often leads to more (unwanted) communication attempts; surface-level interactions from people. which is really disappointing, i rather just be left alone and have no one speak to me, i dont fkng want to be spoken to

>> No.14653006

>>14647276
retard

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>>14647272
Absolutely fucking based & blackpilled

>> No.14653024

>>14647221
How does it feel to be ugly?
Normal.
It feels normal.
Ugly can be interpreted in many different ways so really anyone can be ugly.
You know, the whole "beauty is subjective" blah blah but i mean it's kinda true.

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>>14647304

>> No.14653036

>>14647493
That's actually evil, you're fucking over betas by giving these women a false sense of confidence that they're good enough for Chad, too good for them.

What a feminist.

>> No.14653068

>>14649451
word dude

>> No.14653083

>>14653024
You must be ugly

>> No.14653096

>>14649541
don't take the normalfags replying to you seriously

if I was you, at the end of my rope, I'd just go post my face on /soc/ and ask for brutal honesty to settle the matter once and for all, no doubts
*then*, we'll see if we're really just in need of an attitude adjustment

>> No.14653106

>>14650746
>women consider cheating more hurtful once it starts to get romantic/emotional

But before settling down everything goes, amirite?

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>>14649624
you ugly posters write pure kino

>> No.14653125

>>14649936
what a coomer

>> No.14653126

>>14652951
>>14647417
I thought the whole ugly duckling thing was a meme. How does an ugly kid just metamorphose into a non-ugly adult?

>> No.14653127

>>14647221
People say I'm very good looking
I get complimented almost on a daily basis
If there is a family dinner or after work get together people will end up commenting on my looks and giving me more attention than anyone else

Still, I think I'm pretty normal and don't see what the fuss is all about
I hate my profile view because my chin is kinda small
I'm borderline autistic too and I tend to put the girls I like/like me to very high standards and I just end up being too hard on them. Given enough time I just end up with the perception that they are all sluts simply because of my being a pussy who will take too long to talk to them and I just end up imagining them getting railed by someone else every weekend that goes by without my approaching them

>> No.14653134

>>14653127
You’re most likely right about the last part.

>> No.14653137
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What the fuck man this thread feels like /r9k/ years ago

>> No.14653148

>>14650194
Why did you post this you idiot.

>> No.14653152

>>14653126
By growing

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>>14651235
>>14652858
>"I'm not a mutt I'm full Mexican"

Also, here, you look like you have a profitable Backpage: https://is2.4chan.org/fa/1569087601563.jpg

Ugly? Maybe not. But drop-dead?

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>>14650428
You have a blockhead, too much fat on / around your cheekbones, mismatched lips (top and bottom don't go together), button nose, and emcel eyes

all your other photos just use different camera angles and expressions to hide one aspect or another

>> No.14653186

>>14651422
stfu
he looks like a midget with his tiny head
>>14650938
I can imagine dude. I can see the pain and you capture it in writing well.

>> No.14653194

>>14653126
Definitely was very real for me, kinda just grew into my features.
Very skinny- "lanky" and tall as a kid, hairy, and my facial features were a little wonkyish? (Lazy eye, chubby face, no definition, smaller lips)

Started taking care of myself, my hair, body/face fat kinda just adjusted on its own, and my facial features somehow grew very flattering (lips got a little fuller, cheekbones more prominent, jawline enhanced, etc)

Suddenly i went from getting bullied, picked on for being an "ugly monkey" to having my bullies try to flatter me into relationships

Very weird experience, also very irritating. Learned very quickly how shitty and surface level people could be.

>> No.14653210

>>14653181
Button noses are best noses, hers is too bulbous though. Also her eyes can be attributed to her being mexican.

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>>14653194
Those features don’t sound that bad, except maybe the lazy eye and chubby face thing. Most kids have chubby infantile faces anyway.

>> No.14653296

>>14653217
I suppose so, i also had cystic acne

>> No.14653315

>>14653134
The slut stuff?
Probably.

The girl I like has add a minor crush on me since literally a year ago. Back in June she came all out with it and at first I was receptive but then she went on vacation to Mexico and I could not stop but to think that she was getting pounded, so I fucked a girl and an escort that week. When she came back, I assumed she had someone even though on the exact day she had resumed her work we took the same elevator and her friend was like "this is your boo right?" She answered by repeating the question twice. My back was against them I never looked back and smiled because 1) I'm awkward 2) I already had the bug in my mind that she was a whore. After that we kind of drifted away. She kept staring once but from a distance. She would immediately smile if we crossed paths, I'd say hello coldly or look away. I know she was seeing or at least talking to someone back at the end of August. It probably lasted 2 or 3 weeks max. I don't think he got to fuck her but probably made out. In September until a week ago she was still trying. Now she just ignores me like I do which is awkward because we now work 6 meters from one another since 2 weeks ago.

She's hot as hell though. Back in June I felt in love with her but now I feel resentment and bitterness. And all on a crush.

One of my coworkers said I should not be too hard on girls especially this one and her female friend who keeps trying to get close to me just so the friend can get to me more easily but I'm too much of a cold cunt and anti social to relate

>> No.14653326

>>14653315
Based anti-Chad

>> No.14653331

>>14653315
Think youre ruining shit for yourself by being so damn fucking oblivious and untrusting. You need to relax with this insecurity over "sluts" and whatnot as its highly irrational in the way youre presenting it to yourself
>Girl goes to mexico for a week
>VISITING FAMILY?
>ENJOYING THE SCENERY?
>ENJOYING MEXICO IN GENERAL??
>or MAYBE...Getting POUNDED by Mexican cock™ during that ONE week????

Women can be whores but you need to learn to analyze females better before making retarded assumptions.

tldr;
>Let fucking loose faggot

>> No.14653335

>>14653331
>oblivious

Thats just you.

>> No.14653363

>>14653315
Are you by any chance completely retarded? You are throwing away your chance just because you are making up these nonsensical assumptions. Believe it or not casual sex isn't that common, she most likely anything but had sex with a random Mexican. But if you are this braindead and jealous just beucase you aren't a man enough to ask her out, just leave her be. You would be a shit boyfriend anyway.

>> No.14653369

>>14653331
You're probably right. She's very driven and ambitious. She's a career girl. She's always at the office when I get there and stays there another 2 or 3 hours after I leave. She's an assistent manager and I'm just an intern lol but I'm getting permanent position now.
I'm well aware that I'm the fucked up one. I can think rationally when I'm not around her, but as soon as I see her the anxiety kicks in. I'm feeling more confident around her though.
I'm only like this around very attractive women that I have feelings for. My boss hates her. They sit next to each other and don't even talk. I have the feeling I'm partly to blame since my boss also liked me lol. But she's 46 she had no chance against that girl and she knows it. She stopped flirting with me when she learned that this girl liked me. She actually went to her and asked her if I had a gf.

She reminds me of Charlize Theron, especially when she's all dolled up. The women in my team call me Tom Cruise because in their opinion I look like him especially when he was young (risky business).

>> No.14653371

>>14653363
I can be the best bf a girl can have so long I feel she deserves it, and that's the problem. I put them to a very high standard

>> No.14653380

I seriously think this is bait but fuck it.

>>14652867
Only a handful called you ugly, most people agreed you are a 6 (above average). People her tell you non-biased ratings. Lucky for you that you have to lose weight to be better looking, most people's problems aren't that simple.
>>14652858
>Um. Maybe I just have a great personality.
Your personality is cliche on Insta to fit into your target market, not bad, but cliche. Also attention whoring here doesn't bode well for that personality. Go to /soc/ you'll like it better.

>> No.14653381

>>14653371
And what exactly is your high standard, is it about looks or behavior? Does your crush fit in? What if she doesn't deserve it? You start treating her like garbage, drop her completely?
Sorry but you sound like a nice guy or an incel.

>> No.14653389

>>14650418
Your sister looks much better because she doesn't fake blonde hair and the tattoo.

>>14650443
Your body looks nice, don't listen to others, plenty men like thick girls but this board worships stick thin weird face models. I would loose the blonde hair really. It never looks good on someone who isn't white.

>> No.14653397

>>14653363
>Believe it or not casual sex isn't that common

Thats something a fermyn riding the cock carrousel would say.

>>14653369
>Tom Cruise

They just covertly called you a manlet.

>> No.14653406

>>14653397
Do you think so? I'm 24 y/o virgin. Not fat or ugly, just didn't have an opportunity to lose it with serious relationship bf so far. Most women I know have very small number of sexual partners. I don't know anyone who would hook up on Tinder and similar apps for casual sex. I don't live in the USA but I believe that is not the factor.

>> No.14653410

>>14650428
Honestly you are pretty good looking but you seem a bit obsessed by your looks

> that "om" tatoo was definitly a mistake btw

>> No.14653413

>>14653410
Why was it a mistake.

>> No.14653419

>>14653406
>I don't live in the USA but I believe that is not the factor.

I do believe it is, how big of a factor is debatable as the world is getting more and more Americanized at a rapid pace.

Women usually lie about their "experience" by downplaying it, while men do the opposite (blowies dont count, teehee).

>> No.14653426

>>14647221
It sucks. I was born somewhat with a deformed face and the biggest ears i have ever seen on any human. I was bullied as a kid because of my ugliness which resulted in having a very low self esteem.
Now, I'm 29 and can't get a girlfriend or friends for that matter. Being ugly is something that affects every aspect of your life. (I am also a manlet, btw, 165 m.)
I try to do my best, ie, get in shape. however it is an uphill battle because of my proportions. I tend to hold fat on weird places,lower and upper back, arms and stomach, and have bones for legs, which are shorter than normal.
I walk around avoiding reflections because it ruins my day. I constantly get the feeling that people despise me the moment they lay eyes on me. I sense they get repulsed by my appearance.

>> No.14653433

>>14649556
>>14650169
>I hate my reflection to the point I consciously avoid mirrors.
OMG YES. Fuck I do look at myself before going out, but once Im in the real world, I avoid them at all costs.
Do you also get that weird feeling when you're in a public bathroom washing your hands in front of the mirror with people around you and you just look down avoiding the reflection?

>> No.14653437

>>14653381
Behavior.
I'm a narcissist, so if I feel my ego is being attacked I shut people down. If people adore me, I'm as sweet and warm as anyone can be.

Sounds selfish, but I'm just being honest

>> No.14653439

>>14653397
I'm 5'9-5'10.
It's good enough

>> No.14653450

>>14653371
You can be the best bf a girl can have as long as you feel she deserves it.

Thing is anon, not only is this an empty claim, but also: I'm willing to bet that girls that hold up to your standards wouldn't want to date people with such obvious character flaws as you've showcased so far.

What I'll say now might not apply to you, it's just personal experience, but it sounds like those "high standards" are a defense mechanism.

I used to do the same, never initiated with girls I liked and rejected or grew distant with girls that liked me.

In hindsight I was just insecure, those "high standards" being so high that I subconsciously knew no one would meet them, thus allowing me to drop them instead of vice versa.

Be real, about yourself, about others and what you can expect from real people. Not saying that you should go out and invest romantically into the first desperate for love fat hog with no ambitions that you see, but try to live in the real world with real people.

>> No.14653451

>>14650186
>I lived in a college dorm nobody took note of me.
Same here. I live in a paradise for a Chad. A 200 unit building where everyone is under 25 and cool/ good looking. Just college/uni students. Mostly from all around Europe in a trendy European capital. I walk around and people don't even look at me, and the ones that catch a glimpse just turn away or act like i'm, not there. Everyone seems nice and friendly — to each other, but after almost a year I have yet to make an acquaintance let alone a friend.
It's depressing to see the overwhelming amount of gorgeous European cuties I see everyday. It's like a buffet for a Chad. For me, all i'm allowed to do is look from far away. when making eye contact, the girls just give me a look that says: how dare this repulsive creature look in my direction.

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>>14647221
It sucks knowing that I can’t do weird shit like this and 1) be confident about it enough to think it’s funny and 2) have other people think it’s funny as well, rather than creepy.
I haven’t matched with a single guy on that app since I opened it 3 months ago. I’m probably just going to delete it because it’s fucking with me at this point. Does anyone else have dating tips for uglies?

>> No.14653467

>>14653451
Academia is a meme

>> No.14653481

>>14647272
You seem to write decently well so I mean, there's that I guess

>> No.14653659

>>14652984
I've realized this when I became popular in school. 2-3 popular people started laughing at my jokes and hanging out with me and suddenly 90% of the classroom started to like me.
Just don't care bro, it's a honked world but you're still on the wining side of it so enjoy even if it's fake.

>> No.14653852

tfw big nosed chinlet with mid 20s acne - accutane didnt help in my teens but it has improved massively in the past couple of years
i moved my bathroom mirror so i can only really see the bottom half of my face for teeth/shaving and it helped my confidence a bit
at least i still have my 4skin

>> No.14653893

>>14653450
not that anon but thanks for this

>> No.14654599

>>14650383
Cute. Love the neck tattoo and earrings

>> No.14654604

>>14647221
I developed a good personality to compensate so it's not as bad as it could be, I guess. Plus there's something about not giving a fuck that's a little freeing.

>> No.14654635

>>14651226
>full Mexican
What does that even mean? There is no such ethnicity as "Mexican". There are aboriginals, there are Spaniard settlers and rapists, and there are ugly mutt rape babies. You are one of them.

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>>14647221
im probably somewhere in terms of face a decent 7. better than average but not the best. unfortunately:

>5'6"

FUCKFUCJKJHISHaghiASHGIRighbigHBGSRhin

>> No.14654912

>>14654635
How would I know mine?

>> No.14654967

>>14654912
Ask your family (if you don't have daddy and mommy issues, of course). Judging by the face, there was some mixing. Blonde looks ugly on people with non-White or non-Korean faces.

>> No.14654972

>>14654912
Get your DNA tested

>>14654967
>plastic Koreans

Only best Korea can apply.

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>>14654972
And I was talking about the best Korea, commiecoper.

>> No.14654994

>>14654754
Doesn't work like that famalam. If you rate yourself as a 7 you are probably a 4 at best, which drops to 2 in a manlet body

>> No.14655003

>>14653194
Basically me. I barely profit from it tho because i'm isolating myself almost completely, Maybe caring about physical appearence isn't necessarily "shallow" but from my experience the people who started to drawn to me after i got better looking are the bottom of society.

>> No.14655026

>>14653186
midgets have big heads though

>> No.14655029

>>14653371
Same, but for me a girl that can't challenge me intellectually/be exciting in a non-sexual way is just another piece of meat as wrong as it may sound

>> No.14655047

>>14650186
An online gf isn't a real gf, either you make her ass move in with you now or you go find someone you can actually see and have sex with. She's likely cheated on you multiple times already or she's catfishing you. Remember, LDR = Losers Dating Retards

>> No.14655075

>>14649624
I only want to say that you seem the most sensible person here. You talk about your experience non-autistically and you don't blame anyone for what you've lived so far. I hope you're enjoying life, since we only have one of those.

>> No.14655131

>>14650438
You would have no problems with the Mexican community, they are savages.
You can land an average looking white dude at best.
Blacks would also you just because your ass.
You have no chance of marrying into wealth though, so you should probably get a job lmao.

>> No.14655136

>>14651235
You look to intimidating.
Try being more feminine some how in your face.

>> No.14655139

>>14648406
improper usage of tenses makes this a bitch to read

>> No.14655153

>>14647495
why can't women ever wear clothes that fit?

>> No.14655167

>>14649451
Posts like these are starting to make me think I might be attractive. I'm also nonwhite, black actually.
>Fit into practically all social situations with no effort
>People always ask me about my hobbies or what I'm doing even if I've just met them
>They actually seem interested in the shit I say even if it's about anime or video games or whatever
>Can't think of anyone ever being cold, maybe a stink eye here or there
>Women generally don't give me attitude except hideous black women (no, I'm not calling all black women ugly, I mean specifically the ugly ones seem to give attitude)
>Been on a few dates in the summer and match rate is actually pretty decent despite right swiping/messaging asian qts exclusively

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>>14650380
56%er mutts, fuck these bitches mayne

>> No.14655324

>>14653036
U mad incel?

>> No.14655363

>>14647221
Imagine posting this without the OP pic being your face, the only word I would use to describe you is coward.

>> No.14655513

>>14650380
Yes. You're a 5 at best (average). I bet you get a lot of attention since you are thick and look easy. You look like a prostitute too. You're a cum dumpster for sure

>> No.14655515

>>14650438
A 6 at best lol

>> No.14655518

>>14650443
You look like you should be cleaning houses or sucking dick for money or both

>> No.14655542

>>14648724
>I don’t wear glasses even though I’m supposed to, so I don’t see myself in HD
S-same. Oh god, I'm probably 10x uglier than I think and I already think I'm hideous (and general interaction with people has suggested I'm not very good looking, too).

>> No.14655592

>>14650797
Agreed. Thanks again for shitting away your nice looking northern Euro genes to make me ugly and mentally fucked up, mom.

t. mulatto

>> No.14655633

>>14653096
>I'd just go post my face on /soc/ and ask for brutal honesty to settle the matter once and for all, no doubts
Not him, but oh god I'm having flashbacks of when I posted my pic there a few years ago. I actually had a few people make edits of me and got ripped on pretty hard for about half a thread. I knew I wasn't very good looking but I got fucking shit on. What might be even worse is that since then I've been losing my hair quite noticeably so if I got shit on back then it would be way worse now I'm sure.

I'm not mad since I knew the risk and only have myself to blame, but holy shit was it brutal lel.

>> No.14655649

>>14650938
Congratulations, only ugly person in the thread

>> No.14655703

>>14655131
kek'd. It's pretty accurate. I would add one thing to it, though:

>Blacks would also get with you and brag that they're with a 'white' girl or say you're 'Spanish'

>> No.14655750

>>14653426
>Now, I'm 29 and can't get a girlfriend or friends for that matter.

This is me also
If it makes u feel any better I don’t consider myself ugly

>> No.14655755

>>14653210
>Button noses are best noses
Sincerely,
---a button nose

>> No.14655764

>>14650380
You’d be way prettier if you dressed beggee lost weight. Did son winged liner to not have such small eyes. Put on some
Lipgloss. Your hair would look better a darker blond. Come back in a couple months

>> No.14655772

>>14650797
I’m a Native Mutt from Canada you should see me Desu

>> No.14655775

>>14651235
Light skin Mexican means you’re mixed so you’re a mutt

>> No.14655841

>>14655649
yeah i know. it doesn't even hurt my feelings at all anymore.

>> No.14656098

>>14650931
How illiterate are you? I said only thing that hss helped is isotretinoin which is the last resort drug but I simply couldnt tolerate it. Last resort drug means I have tried every other prescription drug before this. I am simply JUSTed.

>> No.14656314

>>14650194
what the fuck you're hot

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>>14647221
One of two things can be the case here:
>you're a smelly roastoid who is at best a 6/10, and believe you're especially attractive because men chase and try to fuck you regularly, even though men are coom brained retards who will fuck anything with legs and some things without
>
That's actually it. That's literally the only possible description of OP. Go have a kid and find out how gross people actually find you once you're damaged goods

>> No.14656527

>>14647322
>Just be a forward thinking genius and become a billionaire bro
Asking some poor, ugly schmuck to compare himself to Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos isn't especially inspiring

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I think Im good looking guy

Lot of guys are hostile towards me, they either jealous and think im a faggot
Homos keep hitting on me
Girls never do anything other than acting weird/giving me short eye contacts/smiling/fixing their hair. I never get laid because Im anti-social and whores think guys alwys should be the one approaching

Ugly people dont get treated shit like that because people are nice to them because they feel superior near them, but to me they act shit because of me good looks

>> No.14656717

>>14649624
>Clothes never seem to look good on you
oh come on it can't be that bad. I have this problem often, everyone does who tries to get good at fashion and learning their own style. you have to develop a style that works for you, and that you feel comfortable in. Maybe wear sunglasses, or a special hat, you are not alone in this problem at all, and some people go their whole lives never even learning how to dress themselves in a manner that is befitting of them

>> No.14657167

>>14649015
you don't get a better workout if you look good? You don't check yourself out in the mirror?

>> No.14657480

>>14647329
but iz just a cope

>> No.14657767

>>14655075
>you don't blame anyone for what you've lived so far

He should blame his parents, those fucking breeders, I swear....

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>>14655755
Upwards angled button noses are objectively the most aesthetic noses when it comes to females, but not on males.

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>>14657899
peak nose aesthetics

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>>14657911