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14380717 No.14380717 [Reply] [Original]

How do I cope?
Is there even any way to unjust myself? I'm only 19, why the fuck me?

>> No.14380723

Don't lie you boomer

>> No.14380739

>>14380717
I think you look okay man, it's not that bad or noticeable. If you're that worried then maybe some minoxidil and finasteride. But if it makes you feel any better, I was almost a Norwood 3 at 16, and minoxidil has helped a bit to restore my hairline

>> No.14380753

>>14380739
I'm starting to think all these hairline threads are just geurilla advertising for minoxidil

>> No.14380757

>hairline maturing
>”omg i’m balding!”
kill yourself you insecure faggot

>> No.14380769

>>14380757
That's definitely balding

>> No.14380866

>>14380769
>>14380757
it will probably stagnate there for a couple of years though

very rare to turn NW1-NW5 in just one or two years

>> No.14380955

>>14380757
He's balding, that's a shit hairline especially for his age.

>> No.14381019
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14381019

>>14380769
no, you don't know shit
a guy's hairline can be Norwood 3 in his 20's and stay that way until his middle age

>> No.14381159

I've got a hairline like this. I just have the top longer so I can push it to the side to hide my hairline a little and it give it a nice wavy effect. I want to try and get a fade next time as well to see if it looks better.

>> No.14381177

>>14381019
pic related went bald retard. why are you trying to delude him instead of helping him plan for the next step

>> No.14381181

>>14380717
Wow dude, you should kill yourself. You don't have a hairline from a 12 year old anymore. It's all over.

>> No.14381197

Get gym
Buzz
Buy nice clothes
Get a job


U will still get bitches.

>> No.14381322

>>14381197
>Check
>too pussy to try, don't have a beard anyway
>lol what board am I on
>WIP
let's make it 2/4
>>14381159
that's what I did before as well, hover a gust of wind and I get anxiety. also pic above is actually my haircut where my barber (replacement) fucked up. my hair is like 3cm max at the front

>> No.14382160

>>14381177
went bald at 50 or what? omg what a shame

>> No.14382198
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14382198

>>14380717
As long as it stays like that, you'll be fine when you get older. It will probably look a bit strange while you're young though, so just grow it out a bit more on the top for now. You might be fucked if it gets worse though.

>> No.14382264

>>14382160
Irrelevant, it is balding

>> No.14382706

>>14382264
Well it's not really irrelevant since most people are balding. like 2/3 are balding when they're 35. the difference that makes or breaks the situation is however the age you start with.
if it's 20 your life is basically over before it even began
if it's 30 it sucks, but if you have a wife it's no Biggie
if it's 40, who cares (unless you have a midlife crisis or still single). also you can go Jason Statham mode
if it's 50, it's completely normal and socially accepted, not to mention fucking 60 or 70, no-one will bat an eye

>> No.14382709

my boyfriend is 24 and he is straight up going bald, you can see most of his scalp

use minoxidil and find someone who doesnt care much about your hair. and hope your kids will forgive you for passing down shitty genes

>> No.14382718

>>14381019
do you see how his hair is thin in the front

>> No.14382732

>>14380717

HAHAHAHAH

>> No.14382839
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14382839

This is considered severe recession, right?

>> No.14382847
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14382847

At one point in my life I was doing tons of acid every weekend, one day I convinced myself that I was balding, and shaved my whole head. That became my reality, I was balding. For almost 2 years I kept shaving my head and was extremely suicidal, eventually I decided to let it grow back and turns out it was just my hairline maturing. I'll bald eventually though, all my uncles on dad's side are bald, not my dad though, he's in his mid 60s and still has hair, thin but none if that receding hairline or bald patches shit.

>> No.14382922

>>14380717
yikes

>> No.14382929

Use Minoxidil

>> No.14383210

>>14382847
drugs are bad

>> No.14383440

>>14380717
uh oh...

>> No.14383498

>>14380717
shave everything off

>> No.14383694

>>14382929
Doesn't work on temples

>> No.14383784

>>14380717
just accept it you fucking faggot nigger

god damn if i have to hear another cuck whine about hairloss i might just hunt you down and kill you myself

>> No.14383844

>>14383784
>just accept it
"lol just be happy bro, why be sad lmao"

>> No.14383856

>>14382839
B ro... you cant post a combover and then ask if the recession is bad. Sweep back your hair and show a pic of your hairline

>> No.14383871

>>14383844
>go on 4chan bro and whine about it like an actual fucking pussy and live in denial bro, also just hop on that minox for life bro only $199 a month + erectile dysfunction bro totally worth it

>> No.14383878

>>14383871
You're thinking of finasteride, minoxidil isn't expensive or particularly good

>> No.14383891
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14383891

Is this balding or just maturing

I’m 23 years old

>> No.14383893

>>14383871
if I'd be on denial I wouldn't post this crying about it, would I?
also I'm not on anything yet, I'm literally asking for advice what I should do, retard

>> No.14383903

>>14383871

Mate im on dutasteride (stronger version of finasteride) and my dick working just fine.

I work in showbiz so I need to preserve my hair to earn that bread. I think the ED fears are very overblown.

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14383923

>>14383856
Thoughts on this?

>> No.14383929

>>14382264
Nobody gives a shit if you're bald at age 50. In your 20s, NW2 is fine as well.

>> No.14383943

>>14383893
>I'm literally asking for advice what I should do, retard
uhmm kill yourself?

>> No.14383952

>>14383923
pull hair back and take a pic from directly in front of you

>> No.14383982

>>14383943
that's what I'm planning to do if they don't find a cure in 5 years

>> No.14383995

>>14383982
don't worry, the japs are on it and are breaking ground

>> No.14383999

>>14383982

Sorry to break it to you friend but the cure for male pattern baldness has been 5 years away for the last 50 years. It won't be.

What I would recommend is sorting out your life rather than being depressed. Right now you are in a rut. You arent thinking straight. You are thinking very black and white and you think everythings fucked.

Start exercising. Every day. Start reading books. I recommend:

Dont sweat the small stuff
Lost connections
The power of habit
Your brain on porn

Read all of these. And not just haphazardly. Get some highlighters and pens and proper study them. Whilst you're doing this over a few week also do 30 mins of cardio a day and some weight training. Get out in nature. Stop wanking. Stop watching porn. Buzz your head if its especially bad if not then just style it to minimise the damage.

Consider finasteride and minoxidil (which halts hairloss in most cases - the sides are very overstated)

Do all of this for a month, and then see how you feel. ALso no drugs, alcohol, gambling etc.

it'd be hard, but if you FIGHT and do this for a month I guarantee you will feel better. NO bad habits.

>> No.14384014

>>14383999
t. squintmaxxer

>> No.14384015

>>14383995
that's what I'm thinking as well. hair cloning has been proved possible, we now just need to find a way to mass produce it and make it affordable.
>>14383999
>start exercising
alright, already on it for 1.5 years
>read some books
perfect! I love classical literature and am already reading it!
>starts listing self-help bs
goddammit and you had such a strong start
oh well

>> No.14384019

>>14384015

You clearly need therapy but most fags on here cant afford it -s elf help studying is the next best step

Carry on being depressed though m8, anyone trying to save you - make sure to tell them you're dumb. That cynical miserable aura you have about you will make you an amazing person. Keep it up lad.

>> No.14384023

>>14384019

tell them they're dumb**


I'd like it if you stopped thinking so black and white and I want to help, but if you're gunna be miserable about it then carry on being depressed. Maybe one day you'll be saved. Todays not the day it seems.

>I'm going to be percieved as less attractive, therefore, I will kill myself

When you have lemons... kill yourself? Flawed logic there friend. Stay safe.

>> No.14384042

>>14384023
a world where you're perceived as unattractive is not a world worth living in
and I'm sure most /fa/ggots will agree with me here

>> No.14384083

>>14383923
Shave

>> No.14384084

>>14384042

With that mindset you were never destined to be happy.

Millionaires wish they were billionaires. Billionaires wish they were the president of a country. Presidents of the coutnry wish they had more power.

The grass is ALWAYS greener. Always. If you cant learn to understand to love yourself then you either need therapy or be doomed to wallow in your own filth. Good luck. You're blinded by consumerism and greed.

>> No.14384239

>>14384084
>just love yourself bro
meanwhile
>>14383440
>>14382922
>>14382732
>>14380955
>>14380769
>>14380723

>> No.14384492

>>14384084
>blinded by consumerism and greed
what are you doing on this board lmao

>> No.14384525

My hairline is about the same, and it's not a big deal.
What drives me insane however is thinning at the top. If it continues, soon the skin at the back of my head will be visible

>> No.14384578

>>14384525
thinning really is a bitch. if it gets too bad you can literally turn from ok to horrible in 2-3 months

>> No.14385474

>>14384083
bald people look ugly

>> No.14385662

>>14383923
Not that bad

People on this board tell you to shave if you have more than 2 fingers of forehead

>> No.14385708

>>14385662
what is your opinion on OP?

>> No.14385710

>>14383923

That you look adorable

>> No.14385852

>>14383999
what waste of trips

>> No.14386071

>>14385852
what a waste of 52's

>> No.14386381

>>14380753
The only post that makes sense in this thread. If op seriously think he is balding he is fucking stupid. It can stay like that for 20/30 years. Most men have a similar hairline. Fuck you shills abd fuck your snake oil bullshit.

>> No.14386574

>>14386381
op is literally balding tho. he just covers it up with his hair lmao

>> No.14386649

>>14383694
>>14383694
stop talking about things you have no idea about

>> No.14386654

>>14383871
more like $60 a year and no, it has nothing to do with your dick, you are thinking about finasteride you retard

>> No.14386986

>>14386654
how much do they pay you

>> No.14387050

>>14386986
>t. crab in a bucket/norwood 5

>> No.14387167

>>14386381
low iq

>> No.14387169

>>14385708
>>14383923
both cueballs in no time

hop on dut

>> No.14387171
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14387171

>>14382706
cope

>> No.14387939

>>14380717
Damn, this pic looks almost exactly like me about 3 years ago down to the hair colour, texture, and hairline. Had the same haircut too. Maybe your genes are better than mine and you'll be lucky tho, lolz.

Just take it as a reminder you are getting older and put your twenties to good use. Our (men's) sexual market value increases as a function of our wealth and status and only moderately of how "cute" we look.

>> No.14387947

>>14387939
>Our (men's) sexual market value increases as a function of our wealth and status and only moderately of how "cute" we look.
Laughable cope. You're defining men's sexual market value as betabux potential. I guess you have high SMV because you can pay a high class escort to fuck you. No, it means that you have money not SMV. You're attracting prostitutes not women who are sexually attracted to you.

>> No.14388018

>>14387939
>Our (men's) sexual market value increases as a function of our wealth and status
This is what every undercut-sporting middle-manager stuffed into a "club cut" long-sleeve shirt tells himself at night to keep from blowing his brains out. Massive cope. Both men and women peak at 20-23, the dropoff is just more apparent for women.

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14388122

Hairline's this bad at 22, other than suicide, what options do I have? Getting my hair cut some time this week and have no idea how to wear it, given that it's so fine I might just buzz it down short.

>> No.14388126
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14388126

>>14388018
>>14387947
this lmao
Women want to fuck Elon musk be because he transformed himself into someone moderately attractive, just look at pic related. Not because he's a fucking billionaire, that's just a nice bonus.
For people like bezos or jack ma however, the only reason why women even "want" to sleep with them is because of their money.
Although I disagree with >>14388018, the peak for men is 25-35/40, depending on how good your genes are. If you're <25 quite a few women don't want to fuck you cause you're too young, some guys are still developing well into their 21/22nd year. That's why it's fucking over if you start losing your hair at this age

>> No.14388136

>>14387947
>>14388018
>>14388126
>sexual market value
>betabux
>men [...] peak at 20-23
>he's a fucking billionaire, that's just a nice bonus.
Holy shit. Go back to your PUA shitholes and stay there.

>> No.14388141

>>14388136
> I don't like reality
>>14388122
it's a bit thin but your hair is probably wet or greasy. other than that it's not as bad as you think. if you won't comb it over completely back and get a decent haircut no one will even notice

>> No.14388145

>>14388141
>I don't like reality
Quite the opposite. It's people that see everything in terms of chads, betas, cope and genetics, that are delusional. They spend too much time here and lose touch with real human beings.

>> No.14388173

>>14388145
>They spend too much time here and lose touch with real human beings.
I spend quite a bit of time with my friends thank you very much. However I obviously don't disclose these opinions to them since they're socially unacceptable. Still, the statistics don't lie. Women do like men who are taller, more attractive, etc. There are men who have got it better than others. Can a Chad be ugly? In some very very rare cases yes, but mostly the opposite. Do genetics play a role? Of course they fucking do, even for mental illnesses and intelligence. So literally, no u. Stop coping

>> No.14388305

>>14388141
>no one will even notice
cope, everyone will notice, he should jump on minoxidil and fin and probably would be able to bring it back to norwood 1 or almost 0

>> No.14388475
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14388475

>>14380717
not great, not terrible with this hairline you can pass as a gopnik,throw a tracksuit on you and a orthodox cross golden necklace and cut the hair shorter and you will be a gopnik of 10/10,don't even dare to use ushanka you will look like a spy, if you get even more bald cut your hair to zero, embrance the gopnik aesthetic pidar

>> No.14388541

>>14388475
>just become a gopnik bro
retard tier advice eбaнyтый

>> No.14388653

>>14388541
oтвaли гaндoн

>> No.14388927

>>14388653
caм oтвaли

>> No.14388975

>>14387171
if by that guy's age I have to still rely on my hair to feel good and get pussy, and thus have no actual family and stable relationships, I'd consider my life a failure no matter the hair on my head

>> No.14389004

>>14388126
>the peak for men is 25-35/40
Imagine being this retarded. Only bdp sluts with daddy issues find older men attractive.

>> No.14389007

>>14388975
cope

>> No.14389012

>>14385474
Balding people are even uglier

>> No.14389016

I coped by getting a transplant to my hairline. My crown and top of my head are pretty good though. But if I had the chance to do it over, I would have held off until I could find a great doctor who does FUE, instead of the strip I had done. It messes up the feeling of your scalp. It does get better over time but doesn't seem to go back to how it felt before, what with the skin being stretchered and all.

But now I have a big fucking smiley face in the back of my head, like Rogan. So I definitely don't have the option of shaving my head ever. I am too self-conscious and not Chad enough like Rogan to just say fuck it and let people see it.

I am also on finasteride and I think it helps. My dick is as strong as ever though. You do get a little bit of random testicular pain every so often when you start on it but that seems to subside with time. Also have to watch out for developing Gyno, but that hasn't happened to me yet. I keep up with my physical fitness and exercise quite regularly. I think you would have to if you're on fin, but I dunno...

>> No.14389218

>>14389016
do people still notice your transplant?
are you still extremely self conscious about your hair or did it get better?
>>14389012
after a certain stage (Norwood 3.5) yeah. before that, no

>> No.14389224

>>14389004
>Only bdp sluts with daddy issues find older men attractive.
You say this like it's a bad thing.

>> No.14389234
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14389234

Am I balding lads?

>> No.14389238
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14389238

I don't want to make a thread but since it's hair related and I have a widow peak + a "mature" hairline
Going to the barber tommorow morning
Need advices

>> No.14389480

>>14389238
grow it out
>>14389234
yeah a bit

>> No.14390263

>>14389234
yeah you are

>> No.14390285
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14390285

I have a weird face and a receding hairline
How should I style/grow my hair
Would I look like a serial killer if I took the buzzpill

>> No.14390354

>>14390285
your hairline isn't receding retard or at least we can't see it
just grow it up on top longer and style it, while keeping the sides short and you'll be effay in no time

>> No.14391670

>>14386649
There are studies about it confirming it doesn't work on temples.

>> No.14391680

>>14389016
As i know you can cover up the scar somehow.

>>14389218
If you're below a 3.5 and not self conscious it's fine but like 70% of all men at that stage get some copeover and have to check their hair all the time which makf them even uglier. If you're one of those men just fucking buzz your shit. It isn't worth trading your joy and sanity for something that you aren't by getting some ridiculous haircut. It's a freeing feeling.

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>>14388141
>Implying some shut-in imbecile autistiofucks on an anime shithole known for cp, traps, mustard gas pranks, insecurity echochambering(you), people thinking Q-anon is being stalked by zionist cia glow in the dark-niggers, Nazi-Larping Mutts and school shooters know shit about life or reality.

Irl you're in the mental state of pic related. Are you also fucking your 20€ sex doll on pornhub?

>> No.14391840

>>14383923
Looks like I’m going the same path....

>> No.14391980

>>14383923
Not too bad but if it starts bothering you/you catch yourself looking in mirrors all time, googling hairloss fixes and develop an unhealthy obsession with your hairloss in general you should buzz it since even if you'd hop on fin or minox you don't want a part of your hair to be longer than the regrowing one.

Don't do the same mistake I did and get obsessed over it. I started with 14, am 22 soon and basically threw 8 years with copes snd insecurities away. Enjoy your life, love yourself and buzz your head in that case. People don't give a shit as long as you don't make cope moves and if you watch photos of bald guys you'll see that most of them look at least average. Extremely Shitty headshapes are rare and even if your headshape's shit it isn't like your hair would hide it entirely. Look at maisie williams.

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14391981

>>14382706
>if it's 20 your life is basically over before it even began
People like you are the worst. Agassi's life only got better after he shaved his head. Plenty of men look fine with a buzz or bald head. If they have a beard then they look great

>> No.14392436

hair falling from head // testrone flowing through the blood // strenght surging from your body

>> No.14392737

>tfw ywn have david lynch's 80 year old hairline

>> No.14392838

>>14382847

FOR THE 1000TH TIME ITS YOUR MOTHERS SIDE NOT YOUR DADS SIDE YOU FUCKING MONGOL SHITSTAIN AIDS DRUGGIE

>> No.14392893

Will a high fade accentuate a receding hairline or help balance it out?

>> No.14392927
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14392927

>>14392893
It can usually work quite well. Another tip is to add some volume at the front. You don't need a full pompadour or quiff, but you usually want to avoid your "widow's peak" being too flat.

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14392948

>>14392927
that's not a receding hairline retard. at least post something relevant like pic related

>> No.14392951

>>14392838
proofs?

>> No.14393049

>>14392948
Anon... that's the same shaped hairline as the guy I posted.

>> No.14393071

>>14380717
You also have forehead wrinkles. Shit genetics all around.

>> No.14393220

>>14393071
they look pretty bad in the pic but not really to be honest. I'm also raising my eyebrows a bit. but yeah otherwise I'm pretty much fucked. shit hairline, average face at best, weak chin, quite a few moles. 5'11 (king of manlets lmao) etc.
The only thing I got going for me is that I'm pretty fit, but the rest is fucked

>> No.14394151

>>14392951
it's actually from both sides

>> No.14394160

>>14394151
This. The "mother's side" shit has long been disproved.

>> No.14394919

>>14380753
I always thought this but never said anything
you can see this in other boards too

>> No.14395827

>>14394919
it's just guys who think it's helping them

>> No.14395896

>>14392838
Based momscience shit

>> No.14396140

For those of you struggling with it or coping here is the red pill. Dont let anyone convince you otherwise:

People only care if you care. Been buzzing my head for years now and have quadrupled or more my success with girls. Because I've accepted it and moved on and grown more confident in it. If you are confident and dont let it bother you people will magically not care either. Post sex 50% of girls have even told me its sexy. Finsteride and monodoxil break your dick, look at the hundreds of dejected people on the forums struggling with ED. You will potentially fuck yourself up a lot worse and it lasts for years according to them. Your choice. Buzz your head and stop being a pussy. You could be crippled in a wheelchair, or dying of cancer. But you choose to cry about your hair, thats why you dont succeed because mentally you havent even primed yourself to

>> No.14396173

>>14389238
yeah grow it out and then get a cut with longer hair all around

>> No.14396353

>>14380717
First of all, I really want to be clear, you are balding. Ignore the "maturing hairline" shit, you are just flat balding. And that's fine, I knew several dudes in college who were at 19 (worse actually, since theirs were thinning, too, so at least you're got that going for you).

Just embrace it, man. My hairline started receding (or, rather, I noticed) at 24. I fucking freaked. Researched every possible solution. Drugs? Only if you want to roll the dice on your dick functioning. Transplants? It'll look like shit at first, cost thousands, and that is only used when it's well past my (or your) current state. 2 years of worrying constantly probably made more fall out.

Now I'm going on 28, it's more noticeable now since fractions of an inch are prime real estate but in reality it's barely progressed. I'm a little better off than your hairline but give it time, I'll catch up.

I would suggest growing the top a tiny bit longer while maintaining the sides. Friends from highschool with your hairline do that (with the same combing) and it looks fine. I wouldn't shave, at least not yet, since the hairline will still be seen and you aren't thinning.

Girls care more about face and body, so care about that. Fuck hair.

>> No.14397448

>>14396353
>Girls care more about face and body, so care about that. Fuck hair.
lmao they don't care about body unless it's fat, and face is literally 50% hair.

>> No.14398305

>>14391670
so I'm the exception proving the rule then huh? like I said gtfo here with your bs bro science, show me those studies you brainlet

>> No.14399363

>>14391981
20 yo bald detected

>> No.14399843

>>14399363
I'm op and even I disagree with him.
Literally
>just be world class tennis player lol, nobody will care about your hair bro

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Embarrassing, stop posting