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So I've had curly hair that looks just like the hair in the image for practically my entire life and I absolutely hate it. I think curly hair is undesirable and unattractive. Even if I didn't have curly hair I would still think that it's ugly. It's generally seen by others as wild, exotic, and attention-grabbing and my personality could not be any more different. Now before the comments roll in that say the typical, "People want what they cannot have. Straight-haired girls want curly hair and girls with curly hair want straight hair", let me just remind you curly-haired girls and women are forced to deal with nonsense that straight-haired girls will never ever have to worry about in their life times. The societal stigma as well as the time and cost it takes to control curly hair is something straight-haired girls will never ever have to deal with. Straight-haired girls will never have to deal with feeling inadequate or unaccepted over their hair. I hate the feeling of my natural hair on my head. I hate the time and cost it takes to maintain it. I hate the stares and looks that I get whenever I'm running late to school and I'm forced to wear my hair naturally. I've been bullied and made to feel inadequate for my hair by family and classmates since elementary school. I remember getting told by a classmate that I had hair that looks like a "birds nest". Not only that but when I tell women with curly hair that I have naturally curly hair and that I straighten it they accuse me of being "self-hating" and "insecure" when in reality I just dislike the damn hairstyle. I've been straightening my hair since I was 9 years old but I find that it's a hell of a lot better than ever leaving the house and presenting my natural hair to the real world. Anyone else here with curly hair who has experienced the same issues in their lives or am I just being over-dramatic about my life-long battle with my hair nemesis?

>> No.14365628

Not reading all that but no, you’re just dumb

>> No.14365629

>>14365626
Just be yourself

>> No.14365630

>>14365626
Im too lazy to read all this but I have an afro and an older black lady complemented me today and that made me feel happy inside.

>> No.14365648
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14365648

not trying to be a white knight but I think it's adorable. fuck all if you've been bullied over your natural biology, that's very vile.
i have mongoloid hair myself that i absolutely loathe sometimes but on the bright side it's far more interesting and I can get more out of it than if I were born with Asian straight hair, a lot of boys have to perm their hair-do where I go to school.

>> No.14365651

>>14365626
Stop complaining about your genetics, you can't do shit to change it. Either accept your curly hair and rock the fuck out of it, straighten it, cut it off, or get dreadlocks. Those are your options.

>> No.14365652

>Straightening hair since 'nine years old.'
>Wonders why it's ratty and hard to manage.

Stop being a dumb bitch and learn how to look after it properly.

>> No.14365655

fuck off roastie.
downvoted.

>> No.14365658

>asks a question
>answers it herself
>basically says that she will discount opinions that differ from her own
Great thread. Tits or gtfo.

>> No.14365660
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14365660

You are being dumb and self centred.

Everyone has problems with their hair, especially if they refuse to accept it and try to mess with it.

Curly hair is extremely attractive. Take care of your hair and stop being stupid.

Cut your hair short if you can't manage your hair.

>> No.14365664

>>14365626
Holy shit that wall of text. I didn't bother reading past the first two sentences of that mentally unstable drivel but no, curly hair is not undesirable or unattractive. Also, OP pic is barely curly.

>> No.14365668

Imagine falling for the straightoid hair narrative.

>> No.14365788

>>14365626
>people tell me I'm self hating
Judging by this novel you typed up they may have a point. If you don't want to deal with it keep straightening it like you have been or chop it off either way no one really cares all that much.

>> No.14365794

>>14365626
Read one word. Curly or straight it doesn’t matter. F A C E >> hair

>> No.14365812
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>>14365626
Straight haired girl here. Just try tame your shit I used to be made fun of for thin hair people do want your hair people want my hair who gives a fuck

>> No.14366615

>>14365626
Wavy haired person here (2A) with sometimes curl formation and I hate it and myself too
I straighten my hair every 2-3 days because I can't work with my curls and people always say I look unkempt when I don't straighten it (I tested this out)

>> No.14366632

>>14365626
curly hair is cute

just brush it and stop ironing it to stop doing damage, and use coconut or argon oil to moisturize it and give it more texture

>> No.14366651

Anon braids and buns exist
no one needs to know your hair is curly that way
you can also shave if you hate it so much
my bf has long curly hair and I think it's absolutely gorgeous, but he just hears it in a low bun and it doesn't get in the way
you are just stressing too much about it, you probably have some other problem that you project on your hair. Just learn how to care for it and be done with it

>> No.14366655

>>14365812
what in the fuck

>> No.14366680

>>14366632
>brushing curly hair

>> No.14366683
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14366683

It's a very subjective. what today is "sleazecore", looking like a "pornstar" a "gay pornstar" or a "pedophile" was actually ubiquitously in fashion during the 1970s. This was an era that very many people were ashamed of, in the beginning of the 1980s there was a massive public burning disco records for example, disco which had been inseperatable from general popular music.
Likewise artificially curly hair was fashionable during the 1980s and it's probably associated with the excesses of that time.

>> No.14366688

>>14366680
silly nigger

>> No.14366696
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>>14365626
Curly hair looks great, just take care of it and don’t worry about it any further

>> No.14366714

>>14366696
This is basically my hair but longer
it's frizzy and has a dry look, which normies always comment on

>> No.14366721
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14366721

>not appreciating curly hair

>> No.14366723

>>14365626
This is like those manlet threads that say
>I'm a manlet and I want to die all manlets are idiots and we are awful and fuck manlets amirite
But this is even less subtle. Imagine being so triggered by hair you write a fucking wall of text pretending you have that hair just to say you don't like it.

>> No.14366729

>>14366723
Why would anyone lie about having a type of hair just to whine about it?

>> No.14366731
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>>14366714
Are you >>14361446? Just read that post and sounds quite similar to what you’re posting here. Anyways, the frizzy and dry look you should be able to fix, and if you do you should have great hair. Can’t really help you much with the details since I’m a guy and my hair routine consist of washing and not much else, but at least I can tell you that I haven’t heard other guys mention finding curly hair unattractive very much. To the contrary, quite a lot of guys like it, it seems to be mostly girls that dislike it

>> No.14366740

>>14365626
tl;dr but I have straight/slightly wavy hair and I think that curly hair is to die for

>> No.14366832
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>>14366731
Heh yeah that's me!
Thanks a lot anon! It's good to know that guys don't mind it much. It's hard to gauge sometimes how people perceive you

I hope I can fix my dryness/frizzyness as I get a lot of compliments on my hairstyle, with the only negative being the hydration (although again these are mostly women talking so you're probably right that it's them not liking it)

Though honestly my hair has always been quite dry so maybe it's not that easy to solve. Still really appreciate your post though, you've helped me feel better about it!

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curly hair is objectively the best kind of hair. I see so many Stacie's with straight, brown hair dyed blond or black. the monotony of it makes me want to puke. honestly anyone who's not
A. blading
B. naturally thin haired
C. ginger (male)

gets to complained. so check your privilege.

t.C

>> No.14366919

>>14365626
Girls with curly hair are ethic or Jewish, both of which are undesirable.

Curly hair is the symptom of what makes you unattractive, not the cause.

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>>14366832
Np anon, glad you feel better about your hair. You do have nice hair, the frizziness is there but its really nothing that noticeable, I think women will notice it a lot more since they spend more time worrying about their hair than men do. I think you could definitely pull off growing it out a bit longer past your shoulder and not straightening it, though that is just my personal opinion.
My sister has similar hair, and she also always has to put in a fair bit of effort into brushing it, but in return for the extra effort curly hair does look nicer than straight hair.
As for the aspect of it being a bit more attention grabbing and not suiting your personality, you can definitely compensate for that with your style a fair bit. With a cropped top in the OP it may be a bit much, but if you combine it with a summer dress or a nice blouse and skirt and just wear your hair open it will look great, guys will like it too, just try it out
>>14366919
Have you even been to Europe? There’s plenty of people here with curly hair that are neither ethnic nor jewish, maybe living in the US has warped your perception

>> No.14367562

>>14366919
Curly hair is literally just hair and all people of all ethnicities can have it. That's literally like saying that brown eyed people are unattractive because brown eyes are an "ethnic" trait despite millions of white people having brown eyes.

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>>14365626
You're crazy. Curly hair is cute as fuck. Just cant be fat though.

>> No.14367595

>>14367562
Stormfags are low iq, don't waste your time responding to them

>> No.14367624
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>>14366919
Undesirable to >(you)

>> No.14367709
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14367709

I like my curly hair desu

>> No.14367723

>>14365626

Curly hair is top tier op, I have it myself, used to not care about it, then bought some special curly hair products and did 360 on my opinion on curly hair.

>> No.14367818

>>14367723
which

>> No.14367851

>>14366615
No shit, if you always straighten your hair then people will think something is up if you don't.

God you people are so insecure, you are just looking for excuses to justify the idea that you are a victim of hardship.

>> No.14367988

didnt read ur novel but i can tell u that ppl with "wavy" hair, not curly not straight, is the worst. not only r u fuckin common but usually look worst in most haircuts than other two hair types

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>>14365626
oh god... i need a vanessa hudgens gf RIGHT NOW

>> No.14368144

>>14366832
Anon I really find your distaste with your hair hard to believe. It's cute as shit and I doubt anybody would give you crap over it. I'm a guy with frizzy birds nest curly hair, got it from my mom, and all I ever get are compliments.

>> No.14368327

grow out your bangs
you can put it up if its in the way

>> No.14368359

>>14365626
You have mental issues. But it's no different from most of the people on that board so you can carry on onto your madness

>> No.14368360

>>14366688
you never brush curly hair paki

>> No.14368695

@All the people who like girls with curly hair, what is it about curls that you find appealing or attractive?

>> No.14368698

>>14368695
Hair with more volume is in general considered more attractive.

>> No.14368699

Curly hair is gorgeous, I don't know what OP is on about.
>>14365660
Give insta please

>> No.14368804

>>14365651
Laughed reading this, you're right. I started off ironing it since middle school, then dreadlocks eventually. I undid those and went back to ironing. Lately I've been considering cutting it all off but I'm trying to learn how to accept my hair before that.
OP, try using argan oil. It makes it easier to deal with.

>> No.14369398

>>14365626
stop complaining i'm a 3B , i can't even go out with my natural hair

>> No.14369591

>>14365648
im in love with a girl that looks like Lorde and everytime i see a girl with big curly hair my fucking heart stops
This entire thread is one giant rollercoaster for me

>> No.14370185

>>14365626
Learn to paragraph lmao

>> No.14370203

>>14365626
>Do Curly-Haired Girls Have it Worse?
As usual, it depends.
First gf always made me diamonds after a shower with her natural curly/wavy hair and I would ask her to leave it like that.
Years later, she turned out to be an insecure retard who got +2's and kardashian'd herself, sans diaper butt.
So incredibly sad, she was truly naturally beautiful, and she ruined herself to adhere to some stupid fad norm.

>tldr don't be an insecure faggot

>> No.14370214

>>14368804
I'm the anon you responded to. I'm mixed race and have hair that's too curly to be like a white person, but was just a little too loose to be like a black person. I got tired of using a lot of product to make my afro look good so I ended up just doing dreadlocks. I'm very happy with my choice and am happy I didn't just cut it all off for the 4th time.

>> No.14370216

>>14365626
dont worry baby cruly hare gives me the BIG CUM I WANT TO CUM IN YOUR HAIRE YEAH YEAH LET ME STICK MY DICK IN YOURE CULRY HAR

>> No.14370222

>>14365626

Fuck whi*oids
Fuck straight hair
Fuck pale skin

Don’t fall for their narrative

>> No.14370261

>>14370222
Ok this is epic.

>> No.14370286

>>14369591
I had a crush with big curly hair as well (didn't look like Lorde though) and fuck does always make my heart skip a beat
Also curly hair activates my horny retard head

>> No.14370354

I can't believe I just took the time to read all that nonsense.
You need to just be you. If that means that it makes you happy to straighten your hair forever, then do that. (Although, you'll eventually end up with fucking trashed hair that's brittle and will get thin the older you get if you constantly heat treat it). BUT, you do you.

That said, I'm all about everyone having natural hair, no matter what the type. Natural hair is beautiful. Natural hair is healthier, there's no doubt, and it will stay healthy your whole life if you don't abuse it. I have had long wavy hair my whole life, and back when it was popular to have stick straight hair, I spend untold hours straightening it. Finally, I just said fuck it, and went natural, and I haven't regretted it once. My hair is healthy, shiny, thick, and wavy, and I love it.

>> No.14370357

>>14370222
Hey, back off. I'm white and >>14370354. Get off your soapbox and take a rest. Natural hair on anyone and everyone is beautiful.

>> No.14370366

>>14370357
Based and equalpilled

>> No.14370369

Christ, this post. No, curly hair is not bad by default. Bad is bad.

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Im a mutt with afro hair.
Always remember that you could have had it worse.

Seriously, white girls with wavy to curly hair make me diamonds.

>> No.14371510

>>14365626
I've always wanted curly hair but your femcel rant made me thankful my hair is wavy at most

>> No.14371761

>>14365626
Lame as fuck, I am a man with very long shirly temple tier curls and I love curly haired girls, especially with good volume. Girls love it on me, and I love it on them.

Own your curly hair and stop being a scrub

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>>14365626

>> No.14371834

>>14371816
HOES MAD
HOES MAD HOES MAD

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>>14367988
this, you can only have long hair.

>> No.14372018

>>14370980
Your mom isn’t fat is she

>> No.14372049

>>14371883
I have naturally Bob Ross hair but straighten it + no-poo to get it looking more like this.

I think it's much easier to partially straighten and have control over body/volume that way, compared to people who try to get curls and volume out of straight hair.

>> No.14372064

>>14371883
pretty much what I'm going with now. I've always hated my haircuts with wavy hair so I've just been growing it the last year instead

>> No.14372076

>>14372018
No. She's alright for her age.

>> No.14372090

>>14368695
Good hair is attractive. Whether it's straight or curly, how hair compliments facial harmony and overall aesthetics is more important.

>> No.14372096

>>14372076
thanks for answering chief

>> No.14372150

>>14372090
Based and normal pilled

>> No.14372211

>>14365626
lolwhat I stopped straightening my hair lost year and gotten into a routine, and I've never gotten so many compliments in my life. I really like my curly hair.

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>>14365626
>mfw when face someone expects me read all that shit

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>>14372096
No problem bub

>> No.14372788

>>14367709
you should.
Looks good

>> No.14372830

>>14370980
>mutt
>into white girls
Pottery

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>>14372830
Just not into black chicks desu.
Now tell me that I don't have amicable taste.

>> No.14373353

>>14372372
damn I didn't realize Anne Frank was this hot now

>> No.14373566

>>14366729
r u nu?