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is it ok to wear fake hipster glasses to look non threatening/smarter??

>be beta computer programmer
>but have a naturally mean looking mug
>people are scared to talk to me
>have no problems with my vision

>> No.12876178

Why don't you just do whatever you feel like doing instead of asking insecure shut ins for their approval over a decision you already made.

>> No.12876196

>to look non threatening

Looking threatening, as a man, is not a bad thing. It's a good thing. You should not want to appear harmless AKA weak. It's not respectable to men and it isn't attractive to women.
You appear to be attempting to take on a feminine, passive role which will not suit you. That is to say look pretty and have them come to you.
No, don't do that. You go up to them and talk to them. Then it's obviously okay to talk to you because you started it.
If you're putting off some kind of school shooter vibe the answer is not to be non-threatening but to be charismatic and look more normie.
Maybe you don't smile and laugh appropriately. Maybe you look pale and unhealthy. Maybe you have weird posture and an unusual gait. Fix it.

>> No.12876204

>>12876164
>to look non threatening

Numale mindset in the wild.

>> No.12876303
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>>12876164
>be me
>wage cuck
>cute girl thats /fa/ af comes in to my work frequently
>never have time nor balls to really talk to her
>go on vacation
>get fake glasses just for shits n giggles
>come home a day early, decide to go say hi to coworkers
>see /fa/ girl as I am walking out
>she sees me
>says "I like your glasses anon"
>mfw i realize i need to wear them every day so she doesnt find out im a fraud now
>mfw theyre $5 knockoff clubmans

>> No.12876309

>>12876303
wew lad

>> No.12876317

>>12876309
the best part is a few months ago i told her i liked her glasses, and she lit up and went on for like 15 minutes on how she custom ordered them to be different.

god damnit everytime i think about her i end up ranting. i need to stop this creepiness

>> No.12876343

>>12876317
Just approach her dude. It's not that hard if you stop letting your thoughts stop you

>> No.12876356

>>12876343
she comes to my work so no need to approach her, but she only comes on the way to her work and is busy. one day ill do it, but alas i am occupied with a less /fa/ girl at the moment

>> No.12877145

>>12876164
A weak man is a bad man. Look tough faggot

>> No.12878319

>>12876164
No, fuck off.