/fa/ - Fashion

/fa/, how do i go about being a presentable black guy? It's pretty easy to separate myself from each type of black person (on a ghetto level), but how do I go about a more "that's the kind of guy you could see getting along with everyone" look?

Say if I were to go to a party/club/bar, you can immediately tell people are thinking "sigh, another/more black guy(s)" (not implying racism, but you can sense these vibes). I want to be the guy who looks good from the get go. I know that clothes alone won't do the trick, and a bit of personality and appearance are important factors to the mix, but since this is /fa/ what advice could you give a fellow black man? I feel people (men and women of all ages) like to avoid me because I don't come off too presentable.